the brothers are feeding me from today , but can i have some marmalade, of course, nastya, i don’t recommend it to you, listen, you’re still not happy, and you hang up your balls and hang them up, hang them up, i hang them up, eat them up, daughter, bye the fricassee will be cooked. is it really going to work, you’re offending me, well, of course, it’s not like hanging up balloons or whittling onions, but with technology, i’m fine with you, nastya, where is the salt here in our house, and now, thank you, nastya, where is the garland in our house? and now? help you, help you.

nastya, where is our pliers house? oh, were you somewhere? and where? now. guys. there is a proposal. i propose to declare a truce until the morning, if not for nastya, who knows where we celebrated this new year, therefore i propose to drink to nastya, i ask you to vote by clinking glasses and drinking, for...

for nastya, yes, life has a unique sense of humor, i thought , that i wouldn’t be surprised at anything, i lived my life like this. like boiling water on your back , you can’t fool yourself, nothing happened if you left everything and rushed here like crazy, my mother cooked well, especially ukrainian, i invited all my friends to dinner, we had a huge apartment, in in the dining room there was a large oak table, above it hung a lampshade with a bohram, and why in the past tense?

now this apartment doesn’t exist, there is an apartment, i’m not there, but i never had my own apartment, here’s my apartment , there’s a bedroom and a living room, a lampshade with a fringe, but i don’t regret it, i don’t regret it, i read this letter and thought, that’s it, it doesn’t happen that everything is in vain, where has this daughter gone, i’ll go and have a look, and i’m with you, me too. but where have you been, we ’re worried, yeah, uh.

attention, i turn it on, it’s working, who? this is the appeal of the american

president to the american people. there’s nothing in russian, yes, that’s it, yes, kolya, where have you been, we’re all waiting for you, i planted a tree, bought champagne, i’m cold, forgive me everyone, oh, undress, go to bed immediately, he’s sick, he needs to be rubbed, undress him , quickly, let's get on the ottoman, shirt. be careful that i will celebrate the new year naked, yeah , so be patient, be patient, be patient, guy, so

, oh, good, well done, maybe rub him with urine, he, we were taught to rub ourselves on the hill in case of an extreme landing, what do you suggest? , helps, waste it him, nastya, now i understand you, the new year is here, what are we waiting for?

oh, stop it, here i am standing in my shorts on someone else’s balcony, you don’t understand what you should drink, and what you drank, and what you should do, and what you drank? dango, tell me why, we met yesterday,

i miss you! yesterday we met by chance, and you looked at me, i watched you with secret sadness, sadness clouded my eyes, memories came flooding in, shadows of former days and feelings flashed. tender confession, resurrected in my memory, tell me why you and i were separated, why you left forever

me, because i know that you loved me, but you... left, tell me why?

don’t sleep, but i’m not sleeping, i’m just wondering, where does daddy smoke? they’re arguing about which of them i look more like, thank you, for what

, for not letting me down with the photographs, oh well, what i don’t understand is that tomorrow, tomorrow will be tomorrow, i say, i say, i say wait , do this, you performed this trick the first time, it doesn’t prove anything; the problem must be solved at the genetic level, for example, you know that a good vestibular apparatus yes, it is inherited, nonsense, fact, nastya, nastya, come here, so calmly, arms, legs shoulder-width apart, we are working, nastya, well, you are still.

well, i just wanted, nothing, nothing, now everything will pass, kulya, let’s go out into the air, i ’ll give it to you now, now, apparently it’s true what they say is that your astronauts ’ brains peel off in a centrifuge. well, like

her, it’s bad, yes, you know who you are, you’re not fathers, but you know why, because you’re almost grandfathers. well, from now on, men can only smoke on the porch, and you can only drink juice. the floor is given nikolai, the father of our future grandson, and i would like a granddaughter, but please shut up, nikolai, i don’t know how to speak beautifully. i’ll just kiss her

, she’ll understand everything, i want to tell you, fedka bet me, i really have three fathers-in-law, all three are sitting at this table, in general, maybe this is old-fashioned, but i’m asking you three for your daughter’s hand in marriage, well, fathers, what will they be like? consideration, it’s not a joke, you have to think about it, you abuse alcohol, they don’t drink at all, you smoke, i smoke, but i can grow up, i’ll have to, but live where you’re going, here, yeah, that means i don’t have my own living space, well, i’m here for now, then i want to build a house, but it’s good, you don’t know, he’s from the city for me. i was traveling, he lives here alone, on the edge of the village , he’s been looking after me for a whole year, i invited him to move in with me,

but he says no, only after the wedding, well, i don’t mind, in fact i do too, but i’m categorically for , so after all, there may be enough clothes, well, when the wedding is, we thought during spring break... why wait, the groom is there, the bride is available, the table is crowded , there are more than enough relatives, it’s bitter, wait, but present? from the parents behind me, don’t shake, i’m not shaking.

greatest hits of the past decade and a lot of cooking got me up. russia in this word is fire and strength , beloved, beloved, beloved, save me, save me

, save me, we’re enjoying listening , have you ever heard about baba frost, we’ve heard about it, we’re signing, my mother is an actress, but this time i don’t have any magic, well it turns out as always, only she doesn’t care, they don’t take her for roles, who am i, children, do you think that baba frost has already heard us, we need happiness, maybe a husband, our medicine has no analogues in the world, but

can i just touch this brilliant head, yes, that’s it? drizzle and the mystery of the new year, premiere on january 7 on the first.

vitya, let's go, i'm going, i'm going, go to hell , that's not all, i finally saw the station, well , i started to connect, i feel past, we disperse, i take to the left, i'm leaning, i started. then suddenly this depressurization occurs , they knock on my window, show me the watch , but that means time has passed, that’s it, stop, who

knocked on your window in outer space, who knocked, i’m the one who knocked on the window, where in space, you flew or didn’t fly, pash, tell me about... everyone is here, but i didn’t fly, but, but if you put me in the cockpit even in this state now, i’ll lift up the rocket with my eyes closed, that’s right closed, what about you? don’t believe it, now we’re working, working, working, working, attention, attention

, attention, attention, ready, here’s the button for communicating with the control center , here’s the connection to the on-board power supply, and here’s the oxygen adapter, here’s the cooling system, and here’s m ...solar batteries or meters, docking station, that's what, that's it it’s better not to touch it, it ’s an emergency emission system, right, and that little green button that i just pressed, why did you do that, you started the first engine, it ’s now impossible to stop it, what is it? normal vibration, now the ground power will turn off, yes, what are you doing, it’s your own fault,

you don’t know what button you’re not pressing, kolya, put nastya in your place, follow all my commands, key to start, where, on the left, start the oxygen feed, what to start, press the seventh button, the first cable mast has come off. start the countdown 5 4 3 2 1 let's go.

you should also tie an antenna to it, you dark people, have you ever heard the word progress, this is a special float for night fishing, the fish will bite, the light will light up. now it’s daytime, who knows, maybe she won’t bite until nightfall, you’ll scare away all the fish, i fished in japan without floats at all, in

a store, you yourself are in a store, this is my place, i baited here, yeah, with a hook, well, now untie, who is good, pecks, pecks, my light bulb burned out.

hello, see you.

and a glass of tea, three glasses.

hello, this is a psychic podcast, my name is natalya loseva and here i continue to spin the carousel of your psychological questions, tasks and problems. today with me is psychologist ekaterina sivanova, hello, our heroine olesya, who, like many of us, is going to start something in the new year, perhaps change. life and not only at work, but also personal life too. hello, alesya. hello. so, again this year you are making plans for the future and planning some changes. yes, yes, this is a situation

that i face every year, since childhood, probably, when there are some specific tasks that you solve every year, start with the new year, or on monday. the situation remains the same, only the tasks change depending on whether you are a child or an adult, if in childhood, for example, if we go back to childhood, then it was always putting off homework at school, yes, that is, when something was needed - something to do, it was always postponed to the very last moment, sometimes it even happened that homework was done before class, that is, right at the very last moment, as much as possible, so... on the other hand, none of us did that, and homework in the cloakroom, when there are still five people standing behind you, you, that means, no, on the contrary , you know, i still have c grade students who quickly copied what they immediately decided on the windowsill, this is just, well, no, this is

probably not normal, i think that the teachers now, of course, have distorted the place to be, one way or another otherwise, yes, it was in childhood it was too, when mom says to do something around the house, he’ll go to work. says olesya , you need to wash the dishes, and you wash the dishes at 5:60, yes, when mom has to return from work at 6 o’clock, that is, that’s all, but nevertheless you were on time, well, you tried , yes, no, of course, it happened that i was late for some reason, but nevertheless i was on time, but mostly yes, i had such a situation in my childhood that i studied choral singing, so i really didn’t like my choral singing teacher . she was very strict in my opinion then, i remember that i, too , always put it off until the last minute, i sometimes, you know, this story, i froze my ears when i was angry, and so i had the same situation with a music teacher, when i put off

my homework right until the last minute and she even came specifically with something unfulfilled, in order to somehow anger me, so that they would kick me out, so that they would kick me out, i did the same thing, so that i could even go to an academic concert. came with unlearned pieces so that i would be kicked out of the music school, not kicked out, i think that olesya and i are very we coincide, because olesya talks about putting off what you don’t like to do, and also i didn’t learn a piece for an academic concert at a music school because i didn’t like it, the question immediately arises: are you putting off what i don’t like it, so you came to talk to us today. you didn’t put it off, is it interesting? well , it wasn’t always interesting, but nevertheless today, just like that , i put off the alarm clock several times for 5 minutes, you know what the story is, although - this event was for me very interesting, because i need

your advice, i need to deal with this situation, because it is important, if for unwashed dishes, my mother could at most somehow say ah-ah-ah, but as for adult life - this is already much a more serious story and...

never ends, how and what to do with this, i also need to figure it out here , because with my brain i understand that this is an abnormal story, that something needs to be done about this, this needs to be solved somehow , let's start right with the facts, that's what's in the past you postponed this year, or rather planned to change it last year, but didn’t do it, and you take this plan with you into the coming year, well, there are two main ones, probably two such stories, it’s still possible to achieve the goal. so to speak, my size, yes, that is

, i want to take care of my health, i want to do exercises, i want to go to the gym, get my figure into the shape that a beautiful dress will suit, yes, this is the first moment, the second moment, i i put off my personal life for a very long time, directly purposefully, intentionally, of course there were some hobby novels, but nevertheless , such a serious personal life... she was invested for a very long time, there were a huge number of reasons to put it off, starting from building a career, but this is probably the most i had the main excuse is that i am not yet established enough, yes, i have not yet built my career enough, i am not yet on my feet enough to enter into some kind of serious relationship, healthy, so that it is not a codependent story, so that... i am there did not bother anyone in any way and was not afraid

to lose someone, well, let’s put it this way, this story was a lot of thoughts , it’s reflective, but what does it mean, you put off your personal life, this is what, you didn’t go on a date, went, went on a date, went, entered into a relationship, but as soon as the relationship came to this , well, they have a certain step-by-step pattern there, yes, that is, there is the first stage - there are some kind of flower-bouquet, candy-bouquet period, when there seems to be some kind of romance, then there is something already people are starting to do to each other take a closer look, look somewhere deeper , yes, that is, try on how ready they are to be with each other further in life, probably at this stage i began to wonder how ready i am for this, yes, that is, that is, how much you ready for a life together, yes this... at this stage it was starting to somehow scare

me and the fact that i’m about to join, but i’m not ready and i decided to put it off, so you ’re carrying this desire with you into your twenty-fourth year , then you are already ready, as it seems to you, but today i am already well, let’s say i’m more or less confident on my feet, i already have a certain professional experience, that is, i already have some kind of my own support inside, i probably have a very great desire to start in the new year. actively, i will even make this wish on new year’s eve, that i think that it will definitely come true, so that in the new year my personal life will work out, after all, because i’m probably already ready for this, that’s what can stop you from making it happen, well, except that you just don't you meet a young man? well, i think that it’s nothing in general, that is, there is such a thing, well, unless of course this story starts again out of habit. what do i need to put off, i hope that a psychologist will now

tell me why this happens, why people in general, necessarily, in general, why people put off even what they really want, well, look, what we have, if we get away from the details, what we have in general is called deferred life syndrome, a lot can be said about it, but the question is, which i need to answer myself in order to cope with this syndrome, why don’t i allow myself to be happy? for what? what am i for? what am i for now? very interesting alesya said: i have to bring my figure to the store where we can buy beautiful things. or i have to bring her to such a state that she’s done, then i’ll put a beautiful dress on her, and the figure cries and says: why you, why can’t you do it now, and why

don’t i not deserve to have a beautiful dress on me now? , let's ask why fine? question, i don’t know, well, it seems that i’m not ideal, like, yes, and what, what could be better, how do you know that you are not ideal, there is some kind of list, there are some parameters, no i know, the number of wrinkles , the width of the eyes that are open, what is your size, size, if i don’t fit into a certain size of a thing, it means that i want it, but with me , who told you this, who assigned you that this is the size for you're perfectly good question, i don't remember. well, i don’t know, i can’t say now, then a question arises for you and me parental attitudes, this is probably a story about, now a lot and often people like to talk about this, don’t eat this for the new year, wait for it for christmas, let’s not

put on these shoes now, they’re by september 1st, but with you in general these are you who say that the new year is important to you. but for a person there are also such dates, this is a birthday, as a rule, well, let’s celebrate a birthday, a new life will begin, very much in our mentality, september 1st, the beginning of the school year, but then the school year will begin then, yeah, and what prevents us from being happy here now, and what happened to you in childhood, what phrases were heard, i’ll tell you, it was always the same for the new year, we didn’t live well and there’s nothing to start. there is no need to rush, if you rush, you will make people laugh, this phrase was very often used, and what was heard in your family, if you rush, you will make people laugh, it was, yes, most likely it was everything connected with until some specific day, something

don't start, it's like happy new year, my birthday is august 31st and september 1st, by everything was always dedicated to this, yes, that is , something. i was swimming, some new pants, new shoes, and these new shoes were worn on september 1, of course, as you would put on on august 30, new shoes, they should be clean and perfect on september 1, well, that is , you see, this delayed life syndrome, it formed absolutely unconsciously, you understand that approximately everyone of us, of course, i don’t know the statistics, but there are very few people who are happy here now, i woke up today, thank god, and my children... just came into the kitchen having breakfast, what a blessing, uh-huh, just to be happy here now, on new year’s eve my mother called, god, thank you, well , because how many people roll their eyes, she ’s calling again, why do we have this,

please tell me why we can’t be here now, which in the post-soviet space, in principle, is very relevant already... decades from the last century, the theme of scarcity, the theme of deficit, this is connected with historical events, yes, the history of russia and the soviet union, it is very difficult, our people, in principle, got tired of stick of sausage, hurray, but you can’t eat sausage every day, we ’ll put it off, well, for the new year, for some holiday, birthday, yes, but we have formed genetics, genetic memory,

and you can live and you can breathe here now, moreover, you say a wonderful phrase that now i am an adult, and i now see that the tasks have changed, that is, not washing out the dishes is one story, and not buying a dress that i like is another story. but where you didn't wash the dishes, your decisions and circumstances in your life were entirely responsible your parents, yeah, now you are absolutely responsible for what happens to you , so take this responsibility to yourself, say, yes, i choose this, so i came to the store, and today i am an adult woman, i choose not to buy this dress because it doesn't suit me, it's your responsibility, with young people. what if a young man meets right on new year’s eve? well, this is an ideal option and it seems to me,

yes, but i’ve settled on a stereotypical fairy tale, let’s wait for the new year, because in the new year i’m expecting some kind of miracle, but on december 29th i can’t meet a young man, because i want a young man, romantic , with the chimes ringing, accidentally ringing the doorbell, the wrong door, here comes mine, if he sells a christmas tree, then i won’t look at him anymore, but if i... nikolai tsyskaridze’s anniversary december 31st on the first, carefully, please, new year's

premiere on the first, wow, so what does this mean, well, maybe that the big difference is fresh, or what? there is a big difference in taste, or maybe it’s like you haven’t eaten enough yet, there’s a big difference for sure, call ken to me efremovich novoseltsev. hai, barbie, efremovich. this is a psyche podcast, where i, journalist natalya loseva and family psychologist

kakaterina sivanova, together with our heroine olesya, figure out what to change in her approach to annual new year's resolutions? there is such a practice: we fantasize about what awaits us in the coming year, it is very useful if we do it by hand on paper, do it in the present tense, that is... we are not telling what i will have, here i am i really want a bathhouse, well, in the sense of building one, it’s very useful immerse yourself in a state when you say, i have a bathhouse, and the key word here is state, that is, you don’t want to meet a young man and build a relationship with him, you want to be in a state of happiness, which is characterized for you by something of your own , yes, a cozy fireplace, comfort, yes, comfort, a cozy fireplace, with some smells, your special ones.