he is dear to us, we will live with him, he is dear to us, we will be with him, we will be with him, he is dear to us, we will be with him, we are children of the big city , he is dear to us, we will be with him. to live, he is dear to us, we will be with him, he is dear to us, we will be with him.

this is a podcast 20 years later, i am its host konstantin mikhailov, my guest is the group serga, this is the permanent leader, founding father of the group serga, sergei galanin, and sergei levitin, known as lyova, guitarist of the group serga, so we will probably. now we are muscovites, which was called we are children of the big listened to the real anthem of an entire generation of the city, this song, by the way, somehow passed me by, i remember perfectly, and what we need, i remember the beautifully gorgeous warm wind from the roofs, which even today, i think it will sound, i remember , of course, i got used to the song, i forgot, lost it, because it’s personal, i remember it perfectly, and my favorite song is yours, guess which one, you know from... uh, my favorite, but from

the old or not so old, from the old, from the old, wonderland, maybe, yes, wonderland, cool, you sing it at concerts, of course, definitely, but i sing it in karauka , please forgive me for this, i’m trying to sing just like seryoga, of course i ’m not good at it, but nevertheless , for some reason this song is always dear to me, first of all, i really like it sechenov's video for this song, where you are riding a four-seater bicycle, and seryoga is sitting with such... some kind of eagle in a jacket, i recently had a hacienda dacha, just in dmitrovka, and it was lyokha who took us away, sechinov took me there somewhere, so to speak, along dmitrovskoye highway, i was recently there in one of the stores, let’s not say which one, so to speak, i went in, bought some attributes for the dacha, suddenly the girl at the checkout looks at me and says, no , she says, you won’t believe it, i love your video so much , she described this clip... accurately

described everything, she, apparently, is a local somewhere, she knew everything, everything, all the places where lyokha, and lyokha transported us in one day, to completely different locations, yes were, she says, this place is there, these hogweeds are there, this is here, thank you very much for this song and in general, because here you are, i say, well , let’s take a photo then, and what, i say, is the sentence, she knocked me out there, i say, oh no, listen, it seems to me that she is somehow prophetic this song is super relevant right now. i think that when you just try , you try to sing about serious topics, everything becomes somehow prophetic , in fact it’s all about life, but this is how it was written, it was funny, it was a completely dry year, here we are with lyova such decent enough mushroom pickers, and i

i went with my mother, we had a wonderful dachshund living with our dog at the time, we went into the forest to pick mushrooms, there were no mushrooms, but some kind of magic began in the forest, a melody and words came, we didn’t have any tape recorders with us at that time, which means there this is some kind of ninety-seventh year, i didn’t take anything, not a pencil with me, i just say, the basket is, uh, empty , the dog, mom and i, so i walked and i tried to remember these, so to speak, invented some - the first version of these... words and melody, which was already playing then, then, when we returned home, i urgently, urgently, urgently, that’s all, i recorded all these fragments , the next day there was a guitar , a song was already born, but you can sing it chronologically, sequentially, as you came up with it, it just started with the chorus, the sun and the moon are with us, it’s completely incomprehensible, like if on such an ordinary day, in the trees, well , the sun was there, but the moon, and what does the moon have to do with it , yes, but there was silence, apparently there was silence, there was.

some kind of feeling of peace, these trees, you know, when you can come up, hug a tree and free yourself, that’s all this crap out of you it’s so pulling, this is very. go, go to the forest to pick mushrooms, even if there are no mushrooms, but you will have the dust of the roads in your boots, the drunken wind in the clouds, there will be songs, songs, yes, what the hell, how did you come up with this song that we listened to at the beginning, we and the children of the big city, you sang it with mikhei, we are the children of the big city, it was on the first record, it was on the dog waltz record, yeah, that's the acoustic version, and then we somehow started playing it, here's more so, well, they became fashionable, let’s say, and then micah appeared. when we recorded it all, but no, i began to notice that i was starting to sing, and somehow micah was very somehow like that, he was an iconic, very guy, an iconic singer, performer, let’s say, not a singer, performer, and we suddenly we crossed paths with him at some concert, i remember, right here i even know what city, and i know

what city, the town of alexandrov near moscow, city day and, as usual, such a hodgepodge invented by someone, well, that is, someone , someone, someone, someone, someone, micah and earring. and i approach him, it’s clear that we are like this to say in absentia everyone knows each other, i say, hello, seryoga, he says, hello, i say, now we are recording such a record, i want to invite you to, and he says, well, there are folk rock musicians, your friends, i say , well, what does this have to do with it, i say, i really want you to take part , he says, i would be very glad too, he didn’t know what song we were talking about, yeah, six months later, we met and recorded it, it seems to me that this was the last song he recorded in his life, when... we mixed this song, and he was still alive, and then this misfortune happened, he left, and the song remained, it actually acquired some completely different, some kind of meaning, it was immediately played by different radio stations, it’s surprising that you missed

it at that time, you should have it seems strange to me to twist it too, but no, yes. in the evening up, you are standing in the entrance, the cigarette is on end in your hand, you open the warm air, this is a plateau for our sins, glory, everyone can

give at least a little love and warmth to others. the dark air is open, this is what will save us all, you are standing in the entrance, the cigarette is dead in the hand, the warm air is open, it is for those who have been lonely for a long time, and with death, everyone. and can rest at night with me, a piece of kindness,

warm air from the roofs, this is a plateau for our sins, words, everyone can give at least a little.

i'm larisa guzeeva, let's get married. good afternoon, today is the bride anastasia, yulia and marina. and our groom is gregory. gregory, 41 years old. his wife asked him to organize a business for her close friend, but it was a business relationship. he preferred intimate ones. grigory, minibus driver, lives in ufa,

he is proud of his four children and dreams of teaching courses to improve the financial literacy of the country's population. it is admitted that all his victories on the love front are a consequence and compensation for his large complexes. grigory will not pay attention to the owner of a short haircut , piercing, who wears rings on her little fingers, gets her eyebrows tattooed and does not monitor the condition of her manicure, and will marry the owner of an easy-going character. long graceful fingers, flat stomach, regular face shape, small breasts, straight legs and feet over size 39. hello, well, the groom has requests, of course, he would be better off immediately contacting a modeling agency. but you described your wife’s appearance, what size you are, thirty-nine, 38, 38, show me your fingers, well, you described it.

well, it must also be said that we have common relatives, so our parents were against it from the very beginning, because you already have your grandfathers and aunts somehow survived, our uncles and aunts crossed paths there, we had common relatives, that is, there are cousins , who are both her cousins ​​and my cousins raida, how old were you when you married grigory, 21 years old, you were, well, 26, probably, when you got together and 28 somewhere when you got married, we lived for 2 more years, as it were, well... without marriage, as in civilian life, she just turned 18, she received her diploma, it turns out i took her right away, that is, you didn’t

live that long, you quickly gave birth to four children, well, not quickly, well, like in 10 years, within 10 years , yes you - it turns out that the children were wanted, yes, yes, every single one of them was wanted, yes, the last child was wanted, or i understood that i already had to cope with three. and the fourth child was such a significant choice for me, because i voiced that i was already a little tired on maternity leave, that i somehow wanted to switch from children on maternity leave to my life, to realizing myself, and i asked the question , it’s like, well, we really want this, we’ll even have a fourth child, it seems to me that they look very good, it’s very strange that this happened, they’re even somehow similar in some way, but tell me, whose family? more financially prosperous, yours or your rides? well, it seems

to me that both of our parents had the same conditions, we were all working , earning a fairly stable education, did you both receive higher education or not, i have secondary specialized degrees, and you, i have two higher education degrees, tell me, why two higher education degrees, and you work as a minibus driver at 41 years old, there is more money, more money, look, but you want to teach courses or are already teaching courses. in dreams, yeah, this is how you will be, hello, i'm grigory, a minibus driver, i want to teach you how you earn more money. he begins to laugh out loud like this, straight out, he says: son, next summer, you’ll tell the fifth bathhouse, son, go with god, and no, why, he can come to me, pay good money, i’ll marry him to a rich man , somehow, somehow there are some things, well, now i can’t teach courses called there

, lose weight with me, yes, or if you want to look like me, send it to me starting tomorrow. money on the card, you see, there are things that we cannot, simply by force, in general she’s all this, you just didn’t take any personal growth courses, in my opinion you went through all of them, well, not all of them yet, when you have time with four children, this is also interesting to me , in parallel, so i think that people like eroida will go to his courses, if i were in her place, i think that i would hardly have come here at all, i sat like that, something like this.

i couldn’t sensibly give myself a report at all whether i was doing the right thing or not, there were more emotions for the young ambassador at 18 years old , it all seems pathologically jealous to me owners, in general, what made you leave home at the age of 18 just like that, straight into a relationship, well, i probably wanted an adult independent life at home, it was uncomfortable, well, a little, but why? well, it seemed to me that they were very much controlling me and choosing for me, what should i do?

at that moment it turns out that he supported me very much, because there were some conflicts with my parents, which, i see, you have an orthodox cross, i am a baptized tatar, a baptized tatar, and my parents, and also both of them, and my dad too baptized and you, i was practically baptized from birth, but i don’t have anything at all, and i don’t mind either, i’m just for information, on the other hand, they are certainly great. that they have maintained their friendship, after all, they have four children, they probably wish each other happiness, they probably have a good family psychologist, now you find out that your beloved man is walking, the first time you found out what her relationship was the situation, the first bell, let’s say, which was, we weren’t married yet, we just

cohabited together, it turns out, and we somehow we came to visit his parents, and grigory... also has a younger brother, then he, being married, his wife, it turns out, shared information with me that and you know, he says, your grisha came once to visit my sister’s friend, and supposedly help her transport something there or something else, in general, she needed a man’s help , she turned to him, and i got so thoughtful, i think, i mean seriously, that ’s how at first i wouldn’t show it, but... i held on, and then, when we were alone with him, i asked him a question, i said, what was this all about , i heard rumors, let’s just say, he was like, oh, i understood everything, who informed you, everything else, they started to figure it out, he called her right in front of me then, asked if this happened, of course that the girl there, apparently at the other end

of the line, was a little in shock and couldn’t say anything intelligible, that is, it was as if, well, in general, there was an actual refusal. here, but for myself i made a note that something seemed wrong, i think that his ex- wife will simply be the third person in his future relationship. gregory, did you walk even in the beginning of a relationship with iroida? probably yes, but what didn’t iroida give you all the time? at every moment, you know, but i will forgive physical betrayal, i will forgive intellectual, i will not forgive, just some kind of physiological component, not never again, but how - well

, then you got out of the situation when iraida , well, caught you in these moments, and this was only once at the end, one, well, at the end, well , then, when there was a debriefing, everything else in the fifteenth year we were already leaving. yeah, at that moment it turns out, first she me he catches it when a girlfriend comes right there, tells everything as it happened , not only about herself, but also what she knows besides herself, let’s say, frankly, yes, and some time after that i catch the girl doing the same thing, on what, that she cheated on you, and by the hand, roughly speaking, and somehow everything was mutual there, it’s written in your profile, i read that these... cheating is a kind of way to increase your male self-esteem, well, men, why does it work? it’s interesting, tell me, every trip

to the left man is like a small victory, well, i of course, i would date an older man, i’m interested, in general he’s an interesting type and i think older men are wiser, look guys, that’s when they invite you to screen tests and in the movies they always hang a wall of photographs.

that you have some kind of secret agreement, absolutely no agreement at all, well, really , we arrived together, we were checked into the same hotel, as if , roughly speaking, we didn’t sleep there after the flight, so we rested a little and got ready to come , what...

a pretty woman, you understood that you no, not found in a trash heap, but self-respect , you are very interesting, one might say, very much , i just want to get to this point, you didn’t tolerate your husband’s infidelity for some religious reasons, having so many children, your husband’s infidelity is dirt. and for some reason you don’t look like a tortured mother of four children whose husband cheated on him all the time, you look quite like, i say again, a well-groomed, calm, happy woman. what about you, tell me, what kept you close? i was probably more afraid, i had a fear of how i would be with small children, for me, of course, this is somehow unusual. how can a wife, mother of four children, choose her husband, ex-fiancée, this is of course a wedge , in general, the first time i filed for divorce,

it was my initiative, i understood that grigory knew from the very beginning that for me cheating was just that that's it, i can forgive some lies or something else, but i will never forgive betrayal, and he knew this very well, at that moment, he says that he caught me, it was such...

the eldest child is 12, and the youngest is five, and you probably pay good child support, but how old is the oldest child and how old is the youngest child? how much does it cost in terms of elements? i, too, in terms of finances, nothing at all adds up, i can voice it, well, it turns out that a month is somewhere around 35-40 thousand, well, sometimes a little more, that’s for four people, yes, well, his wife is certainly a beauty, why is he from her left or did they?

moved in together, what prompted you to do this, filed for divorce, but then still crawled on his knees, grigory, it seems, well, yes, he crawled, crawled, crawled, yes, and more than once, at that time the children were very small, i was not quite stable, let's say psychologically and financially, well, let’s just say, it had a very strong impact.

we even had a situation that a year later the eldest son, i have an eldest son with three girls, and the eldest son asked to live with his father, well, that is, here he was for a year, but he lived with his father, i did not resist this, but why did he come back? and you probably need to ask him this, because he’s always at work, no, well, the child is very smart, smart, and he still understood that... there are a lot of us here, how close you are now, here you are to each other, with gregory, well, i don’t i know, well, we’re like friends, you came to the program, here you are together, you know, laris, even if we’re together, we’re each on our phone doing our own tasks, this is the story with a friend who’s in business, you helped her do this, this is between which child it was, this is between the second and

the third, the second. and third, what kind of story was this? and this is just the first troubled time, i call it, the story was such that she and i began to draw a business scheme, do a common cause, buy bashkir honey there with experience, let’s say, well, not let’s say it was like that in moscow to sell it, so in the end it turns out that ah-and i ’m carried away by her, it turns out, and the business, and the relationship with her... everything is all in one, useful with pleasant, like, yes, well, i wanted it that way, yes , in the end it was neither one nor the other, how did you find out, but how did i find out, but - there were moments that all three of us seemed to be getting ready, it was only later that she shared with me that i said, i look at you and understand how hard it is for me to carry all this in myself, and i kind of see his

attitude towards you, that somewhere out there dismissively or somehow downright harshly and something else, one evening she just came to me and said that i want to talk to you, she was a little tipsy, for some reason i immediately got a feeling that now there will be some kind of really tough story, and i didn’t even wait for her answers, i immediately asked her straight forward, i said: are you sleeping with grisha? you're sleeping with grisha, she burst into tears and confessed, and well, i kind of already understood, yes, yes, then they went for the fourth, i first, and for the third, yes, it was between the second and third child, just like that, yes, that’s when i already found out, and where is my friend now, do you communicate with her, yes, i communicate with her, why, well, probably

some time has passed. and we forgave this whole story, probably some kind of thing here, i don’t know, some kind of female solidarity worked, just like that you lie endlessly. your friend betrayed you, knowing that you have children, just why such disrespect for yourself, well, i’m wondering, i don’t know, maybe you and i don’t know, from infancy you were subjected to violence in family and you, grigory pulled out of this family

of alcoholics, sadists, saved you, when i didn’t hear this inner story of him, he seemed quite pleasant to me, but... listening to what was happening, i can’t say that he was to me, too nice, guys, there’s something here, i don’t understand, you want gregory to marry, yes, very much, who do you see next to gregory, well, i think it should be a girl who will love him very much, really look, why, well, you have to. future, so to speak, chosen one, well to recommend what he does to gregory , i recommend it to you, because he name three, well , some superlative characteristics that gregory has, well

, he is responsible, very much further, responsible in terms of what, well, in relation to even if you take the children, he didn’t leave, didn’t abandon him, still, of course, well, just. all four children are divorced, they live separately, the second one is charismatic with some kind of peculiarity, yeah, he has a lot of charm, he speaks very beautifully, that is, he has some kind of gift, charisma is a gift, and what a gift, well, which the women have nurtured in it, what little things, and what sponges, and what thin little rollers we have, why all this bullshit, this whole set. and third, i don’t know, and third, you have to say, my dear, we have four children, you will get five times less than you could if you married, well,

a normal man, why does it seem to all people on planet earth, what kind of mistakes that you make in your life, no matter in your youth, you don’t need to answer, for example, i haven’t done this for a single second in my life. because i understood, i’ve messed up so much in life, and i’m cleaning up this minute, today, right now, i’m clearing up, i understand that i can’t mourn this situation, because i was to blame myself, that’s when i did this, and it even makes me feel better, i understand why, for example, such and such people’s attitude towards me is, well, such and such, let’s say , wary, like that, yes, i won’t bother with them, because what have i done, what in general, and what should i expect? why do you think you can live until forty there ? one year of fooling around, irresponsibly, now they will bring you a handsome man , you are there, please, choose all this, if you make certain requirements for

the woman you want to see next to you, then you must meet them yourself, here you are you yourself are a woman, and if it was a sister, and if it was one of your daughters, would you want the same for them?

zero nerves that i did it this way, and four children will now grow up with another dad, that’s okay, you made a very bad impression on the entire editorial team group, they... don’t want you to choose a bride today, they believe that you will be fat for your mistakes in life, to your ex- wife on the contrary, they were imbued with great tenderness, respect and compassion, so they invited suitors who will fight today for your wife, in this regard , i kindly ask you to change places, let ’s better get you married, araida. come on, come on, sit down, sit down, sit down,

let's change, and let's have your ex, if that's the case, i also think that's right, because it’s like my matchmaker’s heart also just gave out, this is it, you deserve a good husband, my dear, and there’s absolutely no need to miss the chance, oh, by the way , i wanted to ask, he invited you to be a matchmaker, that’s right, yes , weren't you offended?

betrayals were simply like a mirror of the fact that look, you are on your own, look, if a woman is not taught, well, these are the situations, i form an opinion about this woman, you knew that he was cheating from the first day, you gave him two children, you can was to stop, he cheated on you with your girlfriend, you are pregnant with your third child, he continues to cheat , you are giving birth to a fourth child, tell me what self-interest is yours, energetically, that’s why there are so many children

, that’s why so much is given , you don’t look like the poor mother of the abandoned ones, it doesn’t look like it, because i left myself, no one abandoned me, i myself i made a decision with a sober, cold mind that i wanted to leave this person, and why , what was the argument exactly, what became this starting point, because they endured so much, when four children suddenly said, that’s it, i won’t tolerate it anymore , well it’s just that at some point i woke up in the morning and... i realized that nothing was changing with us, we lived the same as 2 years ago, that is, the moment that, as if i were saying, we need to do something, we need to go somewhere... then we need to move, we need to somehow change the life we ​​are living now, that is , i wanted to expand, i don’t know, it’s more comfortable to live, it’s convenient, there’s a bright, beautiful girl sitting in front of me, if i were in this husband’s place, i would of course come here i wouldn’t have dragged him in, that is, i would have done everything. so that she wouldn’t come here, i don’t know what he needed, what

to do this to this beautiful woman and allow her to do this, and your parents, your friends supported you at the moment when i was just leaving, yes, but common friends remained, because this is the most difficult moment when you get a divorce, no, practically not. “we don’t communicate with mutual friends, i ’m more confused by the fact that it’s her ex-husband, he cheated on her, i don’t still communicate together, not that i’m condemning, but in my understanding this...” somehow wrong , so you - started saying that - then you got up in the morning and realized that this is how to live i don’t want to anymore, but i want to live comfortably, yeah, this comfort should be provided to you by a man, too, that is, you, well , how would you plan for yourself -

to raise children alone or still meet i tried to discuss that moment with gregory , that i wanted more... well, in general, let's start with the fact that we lived in rented housing for this entire period of time, as while we were married, so somehow our circumstances did not develop so that you would not be afraid in a rented house , it was scary for a woman to give birth one after another, but he was his with this charm, persuasiveness with promises that everything will be fine, don’t worry, everything will be fine, he fulfilled his promises, well , he only fulfilled them after giving birth to children, probably, right?

he probably has good sex, i think, well, maybe, yes , but why is it even worth suffering for this, look at the beautiful children that are born, healthy, beautiful, as you know, in my second marriage i had two stepdaughters who were small 3.5 years old, i had a daughter there and six there and my son was there around 9-1 years old, i lived with four children, it doesn’t scare me, where there are four, well, as in the old joke, there are six children, the men are owners, the men are jealous, it’s unlikely, if anyone. will fall in love with you, will like this situation, that you and your ex are practically relatives, well, yes, i didn’t like it, even the man with whom i’m in a relationship, he periodically told me that it ’s not normal to communicate like that with your ex-husband, but in what -at that moment he already began to be present at our general meetings, he realized that, well , yes, there are definitely no options for you to come to him

come back, maybe he needs to sort of put an end to this program, finally get something independent... well, we have common children, i can’t somehow cut him off from the children’s lives, because they communicate with him, he a very good dad to his children, he always takes them on weekends when he has the opportunity, takes them here to the city, well , to ufa, they come to him, spend quite a lot of time with him, they have very good friendly relations, despite the fact that that he cheated on her, despite the fact that they divorced he

... they said it was a great feeling for a husband and wife to come to the program, and where is the ex-wife, or i don’t know yet, maybe the wife is looking for her other half, we are not prosecutors, you know, so many people on planet earth come together , they are getting divorced, you are not the first and not

the last, we are definitely not your judges, i personally am not your judge, i want everyone to live happy, anything can happen in life, eh, but happiness has a right. every person, absolutely, you had such a story in your youth, you have children, this is wonderful, but you today, if you believe freely, and you are starting a new life, i want you to have happiness, eroid, so that your children have a good friend, your husband, so i would offer you this directly today, what do you have to lose, after all, why is your ex nearby? however, i don’t understand this situation at all. guys, i’ll tell you, because in any incomprehensible situation it is better to turn to the person whom you have known for many years, with whom you have a common history, a common memory, a common property, a common business, and common children. well, then let's get married.

the habit of overcoming difficulties and the ability to achieve set goals, the main thing is to never miss your chance, so let’s quickly, quietly, while he’s in suspended animation, get acquainted with the first job, go ahead! the husband , as they say, the ex, will find his way, the wife will probably look, or at the moment will find her way, for a partner in life, and as they say, this is where their fairy tale, together, which was, well, will end. hello, hello, my name is maxim, this is a very beautiful talking

girl, thank you, i know, in your eyes i see myself in your eyes, i confess my love, please open with yourself. paths never diverge, no matter how many times i die , i meet you, a man must take responsibility for the family and resolve issues, and not in an emotional way, when they scandal, quarrel, swear, you need to do it clearly on the case, you have found a difficulty, or some kind of then the problem , you need to solve it, he is essentially a muscovite, and what is he so spoiled, alone in the family, everything is fine with him, he has a place to return to, she was in a leadership position for a long time and she is used to having. life priority after a divorce from her first husband to control the life of her own, children and

subordinates, the husband in her first marriage, with whom she lived for 7 years, was also in her control, then people, for her a vital necessity is where you went, where you were, why didn’t you call, what didn’t you do, i’m like that man who always lived for 13 years in his first marriage, please tell me when ruslan told us, when you go to your wife, to your ex with the children, turn on the recorder, here i agree , i think so, most likely i just lost my head next to you there was a woman. stupid, so to speak, who earned 4.5 rubles there, and already allows herself to do so, the fact that you broke up was the right thing to do, i agree, she would be smart if she built this very recorder for you like a button, for example, yes and would already be sitting in the car with headphones, she had it, she looked, imagine, i would come like this , open the door with my foot and say to the family, hello, i’m larisa guzeeva, dear larisa, if you and i had children, you they told me, ruslan, i’m tired, i said it’s not a question of how long you want to rest, where are you going do you want to go? i’ll decide the rest, maybe, what the hell are these years between us, and ruslan, maybe i’ll give up everything and move in with you, and i

’m younger than you, larisa, i was always bored with girls who are younger than me, they only have on their minds parties, clubs, clothes, more than that, but do you think there are still some feelings between eroida and grigory, he is a very brave person, i would not come to this program if i were you. hello, the program is on air, ekaterina andreeva is in the studio, the main event of the day. our cheerful village, another one has been liberated settlement of the donetsk people's republic. details of the liquidation of french mercenaries in kharkov and a new missile for the russian army. the minister of defense at a plant in the moscow region.