it was meant, as with the order of lenin in tashkent, in uzbekistan, it was not meant that any musical team there or some performer, simply completely unknown and who had not created anything, could come to the editorial office on 1905 street in the moscow komsomol, there, bring shavyren a box of chocolates and or a bottle of scarce whiskey, and get this desired line. no, it had to be more or less known somehow, there were some so-called magnetic albums, but in principle it was sold, there was such an attitude towards it, which now seems completely impossible to me, that is, very condescendingly , that is, well, it was considered, well, yes, well, you kind of want to eat, there the salary is 65 rubles, here it’s like it’s still eaten, then the whole editorial staff got together, that is, we were all as if in some way they are fakes. as

they say in criminal slang, so now it’s even strange for me to remember that on the one hand, there was the code of the builder of communism, uh, in general, in terms of concepts, it seems to me, uh, soviet people, they were much lighter, uh, don't want to offend today's youth, but there were some ideas about good and evil, about mutual assistance, it was difficult to imagine that...

well, not exactly outrageous, but well , unacceptable, let's say, by the way, so as not to get up twice, like they say, i have to explain about the soundtrack and moscow, how i got there, i, with my mathematical education, got a job at the state committee on computing, i realized that i don’t do mathematics there, i only study there, there are potatoes, these are potatoes - this when people as employees went out there to collect some agricultural products, they sent us to some community work days, well, that is , in general, it was not about mathematics at all, i quit there, it was impossible not to work in the soviet union, that is, if you don’t work anywhere officially, then you’re from tunyad , you could get a prison sentence for this, that is, first there , in my opinion, there was some kind of fine, and then you could get a real prison sentence, so i had to get a job at least somewhere so that my i had a work book somewhere, here's mine

buddy... fedorov, who also worked on the sound track, he, on principle, will never show off, i’m not saying that about him because he’s my friend there and he got me a job in a newspaper about how, in general, all people don’t judge, let’s say, here this gastronomic corruption, they treated it differently , someone thought that he could do without it, maybe because zhenya fedorova was a gmo graduate, his dad was in the military there and he was all this sausage.

uh, it was easily managed, and uh, one of the rich, let’s say, acquaintances of the owner, knowing that the owner is very jealous of those girls who appear on the covers

of men's magazines, that is, he, he wanted his wife to appear there regularly, but she is simply bomb, so anyone would put her on the cover. and when his acquaintances tried to arrange for someone, he was very jealous of this, this one began to be familiar, he invited me and treated me to this very thing, don’t hesitate, that is, when you come, he , do you like sushi, he asked, i said , that well, yes, in general i love sushi, and there was a surprise waiting for me, because we arrived at the establishment, when i say, we, i mean myself and the editor-in-chief of one of these men's magazines, we - then we arrived at the establishment, there was a leg and a girl lying there, all covered in this very sushi, i must say, that, well, i don’t know, maybe not everyone has tried this, i’ll just explain that the products themselves do not lie directly on

the body, on such green leaves of something, or grape leaves, i don’t remember now, that is, you don’t, not from the body, as if you take it with chopsticks and only with chopsticks, naturally. i i immediately understood where the conversation was going, when we were joined by a singer who was a rising star at that time, a very quickly descended star, i immediately figured out that they were actually introducing us to her, because she was a candidate for one of the covers, so the conversation was right there , but i think, well... on the other hand, it seems kind of stupid to refuse to drink sake and eat sushi, in general, on the other hand, as if i, having received this gastronomic bribe, would be obliged to do something, to be honest, i was indignant to depths of the soul, because the cover is in the edition in which there was

an acquaintance of this oligarch ulight might appear; she was worth 30 thousand dollars there. and the covers, i’ll explain officially, were not sold, but there was always an option with the advertising service that they sold a whole advertising package, for $30,000 people bought some kind of modular advertising in some publications as a bonus - this was not recorded anywhere in which uh contracts and agreements, it was just a concept that said that the person would have a cover, and to be honest, i don’t know how much this mori costs, but - well, definitely not...

the scope and ingredients had changed, it was an end-times chronicles podcast, and we were talking about food bribes. mercy is a priest's word, that's what the hero said.

it says yes about mercy, but really, in the history of european culture, mercy, the mercy that we know, that we try to live by, it appears along with christianity, so the word is unconditional... i would like it as the first one, like i call it, such a warm-up starting question to ask you, dear friends, how in your life works of mercy appeared, vladyka, we can start with you, i lost the meaning of life , i was just over 20 years old, i was disappointed in everything, in art, in family life, in everything, and i did not know what to do. to commit suicide, well, it’s kind of scary , i didn’t want to, well, yes, like hamlet, suddenly there’s something there, i don’t know, in general, well, in general, i’m

very afraid of pain, that’s what to do, so i thought, there are children who are sick, they probably feel bad, i was sick myself, remember when i was a child, it was very bad, very scary, maybe someday the orderlies will go to work in hospital, went to the hospital, now it is called vladimirskaya, then rusakovskaya, it was at first, then now vladimirskaya again. they didn’t take me there, i went, well , because they don’t need orderlies there, the children there are small, i went nearby to a tuberculosis hospital, they took me there, that ’s how mercy came into my life, and then god came in, that’s my story with mercy , tanya, how was it with you? and they practically dragged me there by force, well, i somehow lived for myself, lived, worked, i probably had some kind of quest, but somehow it didn’t... it was is connected with helping people suffering and in need, and one day a woman

named lena lyubovina called me, she then worked either as a pr director, or as a crowdfunder, that is, as a person who accumulates funds in the downside up fund, now it’s called love syndrome, this there was a fund to support children and families who have children with down syndrome, she was very persistent, i drained her and refused, i tried, and why, well... i didn’t understand who children with down syndrome were, why i needed this, i understand , well, that is, i didn’t have time, i was tired, i had some small children of my own, well, that is , this was all somehow completely beyond my life agenda, absolutely, but lena turned out to be a very persistent and convincing person, she pulled me out, and they it was necessary to hold some kind of charity auction, i decided, well, somehow she just dragged me, and i felt ashamed at some point that a person with... wasting his time on mine, on my person , i said: ok, ok, i’ll come, i

came and held an auction and to be honest, plunged into a completely new atmosphere unknown to me, i didn’t know anything about down syndrome then, i thought it was a disease, i was afraid to deal with it at all , it seemed to me that it was somehow scary, and in general i i can’t bear this, yes, yes, god forbid , but it turned out that these are charming children, that these are some incredibly warm bright families with some... with some huge heart, with great gratitude that i am there i came , spent an hour there, buzzed about something , collected some money for them, and somehow i thawed out, i became interested, elena began to invite me to these events more often, and then, i don’t know anymore, somehow it happened by itself, so it went, yes, there is one foundation, another foundation, it turned out that charity is all about this is a professional activity that can be done very widely. and since i’m a media personality, it doesn’t cost me anything at all, even in my case it’s not so much about finances, but about information, yeah,

about telling people, vodka, how do you feel about the fact that charity is this is a professional activity , well, i don’t even know, but it’s a professional activity to teach children everywhere , in general parents should, of course, they hire teachers, but i don’t know, well, to run the state, maybe a cook or something, no, it’s better that after all trained people. it’s still needed professionally, but it seems to me that now it’s especially professional, because before people were kinder, they sacrificed more easily, they were brought up in this, can i tell you a story, yes , of course, in the smolensk region, i read, i i served there for a while, and there was a time of famine, sometimes in the spring, when supplies ran out, and people kept going piece by piece, that ’s what it meant, it was called, going piece by piece, they came in some, in the 19th century, but you’re not in the 19th.

dead this is from the new testament from the letter of the apostle james this is about works of mercy because first of all, probably, probably, about love, of course, about love, i think that yes, of course, although maybe it's... maybe it's about confession, too, of course, in the very place it says that if if brother or the sister of the leg does not have food , you tell them go in peace, then what, what is your faith, and in general you know, it seems to me , i don’t know whether you agree with me or not,

that works of mercy are somehow... then, so to speak, they have special statuses. exactly like this, well, evangelical or something , because christ never compared himself with anyone, and there are only moments, yes, when he talks, when, so to speak, they come to the king, yes, and he says that i was nak, you dressed me, i was hungry, you they fed me, they will ask him when we did this to you, he said, if, he says , if you did this to one of these little ones, you did this to me, yes, there is, there is even another quote, but this is most likely not even the gospel , but divine. region, be merciful, as your heavenly father is merciful, that is, we cannot become like god in anything, we are not eternal, we are mortal, we are sinners, we are imperfect, we are not knowledgeable of everything, we are all fools, well, by and large , but we can be merciful, be merciful like your father, there is a heavenly mercy, this is for everyone, father, god is the father of everyone, so

we should probably treat everyone, of course, here you are, well, you’ve been living the church life for quite a long time, you can say so, yes, here you have your attitude towards this somehow changed, we can say that my some kind of entry into the sphere of charity was directly related to my churching, it’s just that somehow everything happened at the same time, i think that maybe it’s only now that it’s starting to come to me , this is the awareness of what the bishop said that the lord created all people. loves everyone with love, and well, for me , mercy now is completely different than it was there 10-15 years ago, when i started holding auctions there, talking about some kind of fundraising, yes, that is, i had a certain social part activity, where i collaborated with this foundation, with this, but - let's say , then it was not my internal need, it was rather my duty,

i understood that vera without deltva, of course, i had to make some kind of contribution, and a contribution this necessary, means necessary, yes. yes, that means it is necessary , this contribution was there, i again, on the other hand, i understood that for me it should be feasible, because i had, for example, the experience when one of my close friends, he is a monk of the don monastery, he every year he goes to a children's psychiatric hospital several times a year on the tenth holidays with gifts and a sermon, once he took us with him , he invited us, here we somehow supported us with money, then let's go and go, for me it was a very difficult experience, i i wasn’t ready, i felt so bad there i just started crying in the middle of the corridor, and i realized, well, how would i recover from this for 2 weeks, i realized that, well , i have some limitations, while my development in the field of mercy, it’s like this, i’ve been wondering for a very long time since , well, you functioned only in your professional field, but you can do something, talk about something, collect

money yourself, send some money somewhere, but you don’t go very deeply with someone else’s pain... on the other hand, you don’t want about this to get hurt yourself, because well, really, a lot more in the world, and in order to accept this , you need to firstly, probably still have a very great trust in the lord, and secondly, well, find some kind of inner strength in yourself so that this pain does not get stuck in you and so that she didn’t become paralyzing, so that she didn’t.

that somehow i felt when i started working in a hospital as an orderly, then on the first night i carried out a dead man, naked, wrapped in

the desert, winter, we carry him on postures around the hospital, we go down to the morgue, the stairs lead down, i go first, the orderly follows me, the dead man is crawling over me, there are naked people lying there, dead, horror, i did not believe in god then and was not baptized. and i remember all night i asked someone incomprehensibly so that no one else would die in the hospital, because i couldn’t go down to that mork again then, but some kind of image appeared in me, i don’t even remember how it was not that there was some kind of vision or something else, i was just a person far from the church at that time, i created my own religion or something, and such pagan gods, there was a god of rain, there was demons of vanity, there was some kind of it. uncle vasya the plumber, and there was also fairy map , well, it might be a little bit from shakespeare, there is fairy map, who have some kind of dreams, some kind of image, that there is a female image that enters this

dead some kind, in this morgue, and compassion, sympathizes, but at the same time there is some kind of quiet joy, here is an understanding of the meaning of what is happening, and sympathy, but no pain, no hopelessness, no despair, there is some kind of calm and joy and... it seemed to me that maybe this is it mercy is like this, and of course, this is a very high level of some kind, sometimes i remember this, compare my state of mind with this image somehow, i understand that i certainly don’t live up to this, sometimes there is such a mood something, but quite rarely, it seems to me that there is such mercy in this, that in this suffering, in this courage in this grief, you still maintain faith in the victory of good, faith in eternal life. faith in love and showing it, and showing it so not intrusively, but so quietly, humbly. we gathered today with

thoughts about works of mercy, bishop pantilimon, talarsan is here, i am vladimir ligoyd, and we continue. vladyka, i just talked a lot, including in an interview format, with your employees, employees, several times people tell me:

then, of course, you can treat this more calmly, you can cry and you need to cry sometimes, but still preserve joy is a must, that’s how the lord is, i also remember all the time how the lord cried at the tomb of lazarus, he cried, because these were not the tears that people cry when they died a close person, it was something else , he believed, but he cried, he cried, that ’s mercy, of course it cries and is combined with tears, but... this love can somehow be quiet and somehow it’s necessary show, i have a professional question again, yes,

how important, how, and when to talk about these works of mercy, because again the bible tells us quite clearly, yes, that works of mercy should be done in silence, yes, that there is one the hand should not know what the other is doing. this as a rule, it’s like this, how for you, how do you resolve this generally difficult situation for yourself , probably, but on the other hand, it also says that a lit candle is not to be put under the spell, it seems to me that often deeds of mercy speak for themselves for themselves, and you don’t even need, well, you don’t need to explain anything, people just see what ’s happening, how christians act and how this changes the world around them a little. i’m also often asked, how do you feel about the fact that it’s become fashionable for stars to do charity work, okay, i’m on board with that i think, let it be fashionable to do it, it’s better than advertising sterile steam,

well... or something worse, yes, so it seems to me that all means are good in works of mercy, someone really does it quietly and doesn’t want to talk about it , they don’t give an interview about this, no matter how you ask, because it seems that there are many such people, among those who are usually called celebrities, yes, among celebrities and among very wealthy people, there are a lot of people who do good deeds and neither in no case do they want to found out about this.

about their grief, you need to call for help to these people, you can share how you experience it, how you do it, that is, but you cannot be proud of it and you cannot consider that you are doing something great and important, because being merciful can every person, it is inherent in human nature, if you are merciful, you have done nothing except become simply the way god realized you, when you talk about something about yourself, what you have done, you lose the value of it , you lose your reward.

for me this is a dilemma, by the way, if a person does a huge amount of good deeds , receives a huge amount of gratitude and is really proud of it and says that this is how much good i have done, how many people thank me, and you see that, well , maybe it’s not completely selfless, and the person really gets from it some kind of pleasure and some kind of pride ... he amuses, but at the same time he still does a huge amount of good deeds, that ’s what’s on the scales here, but what are good deeds, well, what did he do, after all we will die anyway, but sooner or later, we will all suffer sooner or later, this is helping people, it is when you help someone rise to some level, it is perceived by a person as happiness, when you maintain the level, it is no longer perceived as something like that, in fact, a person can live in poverty and

maybe not, well... he dies of hunger - this is a special article, but still, that’s why all these good deeds of ours, they have so little value, well, he will die before his time, a person, well , forgive me for my cynicism, but still, but nothing special will change, and if you don’t make this slogan like this, it’s a gift to the parazhan, she says: who, if not me, who if not us, on the one hand maybe, but on the other hand, but the lord is , he will send someone instead of you , nothing, so it seems to me. as if they exist slightly independently of each other, the fact that a person does a lot of good deeds is great, well, god brings him to the point where he does good deeds, it’s another matter that other people benefit from this benefit, but it may not be for him, this is how it is somehow shared, that is, it is good for others, but you yourself, unfortunately, well, when

a person does this... right, this is what avadorofey, a wonderful saint, says about it, he himself was the head of a monastery hospital, he himself cared for the sick, he says that a sick person does more good to the one who cares for him than he does good for the sick person, that is, in fact, this matter is important for the person himself, it cleanses him internally helps him find joy helps him get closer to god, because god cannot reveal himself to man. who is not merciful to the extent that you are merciful , god reveals himself to you, who himself is merciful, and why why can’t god reveal himself to a person who is not merciful, well , a person won’t understand him either, but god is the true god, there are different things about god ideas, there it could be such a despot, a cruel tyrant there, who punishes everyone there with justice, or something else like that, but when we talk about a quick god, we talk about god meek, humble, this is the meekness of the world, how can you not hear the rustling there, i don’t know

there are leaves. if you hear some kind of loud music of some kind of passion, then we will all see god in this world, in this world, at the last judgment, of course, in this world he is present, the lord has already walked in... who hasn’t saw and did not know, many did not know, he did not reveal himself to everyone, and he is still with us, but many do not believe in him, he was resurrected, but it was, he appeared after the resurrection only to 500 brothers, let’s say , no more purity of people, well, the apostle pavel there, well, that’s how he hides himself from people, and he left people all the time, anya , as it seems to you, continuing this topic, because today there are indeed many funds, many people help, so you know this environment well, yes so for you, how does church help differ from no, i’m not in the plan. well, maybe there is something, some kind of otherness in this? well, it’s probably difficult for me to somehow determine the amount of help, who helps more and secular or church

benefactors, but it seems to me that in the church , works of mercy are not the final stage, they are a person’s path to salvation, here at this congress, about which...

what will he see, the only thing that a four-year-old child saw when he came to visit this house, where he was given tea, a tasty treat on the ship, from me, he told her: “wow, what a chariot you have, but i don’t have one.” that is, he did not see that this person was different from him, and for me this was very much an indicator that, firstly, children do not need to be protected from some kind of pain, from the fact that others are around and you were afraid that somehow he might. i i didn’t know, i didn’t know how he would react, yes , i was afraid, maybe he would embarrass me there , start asking stupid questions, pointing fingers, saying why the girl says that, or is there drool flowing from her mouth or something, but he saw then, the only difference between them is that she has

a chariot, and he doesn’t, and of course the children participate in charity, since my children, they work on television and earn some money, i periodically suggest that they do: these are donations to foundations, they do it, i tell them something i’m telling you, but now a lot of charity topics revolve around our homeland, my homeland, around donbass, around my grandmother’s volunteer activities, around mine, and the children are very actively involved in this, that is, it’s important for them, they’re interested, by the way, i’m talking about donbass in general , i wanted to ask about new regions, vladyka, you know this well for many years, and for you, helping donbass did not start yesterday. and not even 2 years ago, more, but you know, i can’t forget your story, the way i remembered it, maybe i’m going to misrepresent something now, but when , after the start of the special military operation , the first refugees came, i think, and you met

the girl, and there they gave the children something, dolls, something, and the girl took the doll and said: me what we need is not dolls, but friends, this completely turned me over, that sometimes we just don’t even understand what a person needs, yes, yes, yes, that’s for sure, yes. i agree, eat bread and water, just had friends, of course, it seems to me that a person should agree, and it’s interesting that when children end up in a good orphanage, where they are fed, dress, they want to go to their mother, who... somehow this burns out in him, somehow, only something external remains, this

happens to church people too, these are the differences between church charitable organizations and secular ones, the difference is not in organizations, maybe in people, although there may be different principles, probably, but still - in a person there are people who are very talented with this love, they don’t necessarily know christ, they can be any religion, probably, but this happens and sometimes they do more even than those people who belong to the church some kind of organization. he doesn’t even occupy any position. bishop panteliman, talarsin is here, i am vladimir legoeda, we have gathered with thoughts about works of mercy. let's continue. this is what i wanted to ask you finally. i really hope that those who watch, some of the people who watch, well, maybe, will want to do something good. yes, okay, here, tan, what would you suggest? now such a wide range is possible.

but you see, i would like you to remember everything too, of course, yes 8800 707222, but the point is the fact that if you ask where you need help or want help with something, you will be connected with these people, yes, it’s just that people, people think that charity means you have to pay money, many people think that you have to pay a lot of money, but now you need so many intangibles, well, in mariupol , people go on vacation to restore houses in the private sector, someone works with...

go to three or four sites, set up a recurring payment, 500 rubles will fly off your card every month, you don’t even you will remember what you did, to whom you gave them i sent it where you sent it, but what benefit does it have for the soul, i kind of had a period like that, okay, i ’m still doing charity work, i really haven’t written off, where is this, there’s some kind of fund , well, it’s well recorded, at some point this becomes not enough, because, as the lord said, in reality things are happening. they are more needed by the one who creates them than by the one

to whom they are not addressed; when you do a good deed, in some very strange way it turns out that it becomes easier not only for your ward, but for yourself it’s becoming much easier, vladyka, but i still ask you to answer without a phone, here’s where to start, here’s a man looking, here’s what i should do, this vladyka said, something stirred in me, so... where can you start? come to the temple of sarevich dimitri at 15:12 on sunday and find out about what the volunteers are doing, a variety of things, and if they are not doing repairs in moscow, well, in moscow, again , call by phone, not in moscow , they are in moscow, it seems to me, well, if we are still talking, then i would like to excuse my 5 kopecks. to say about church charity, it’s just that in difficult times now in the liberated territories churches have become churches.

you know, it’s just that tears well up when they talk about some of their wards, and i really want to help someone in response to these words of theirs, and i want to be next to them, like them, because the answers of happy people, they have no questions at all about how to enjoy life or not, they enjoy life, although every day they see terrible things, in our hospital, for alexey, the most joyful department is the palliative department, where people die almost every day, but they understand it, what is happening and treat it correctly

, they help these people, it’s very good there, i really love being there, we won’t rush, no, no , i... yes, thank you very much, thank you very much for our conversation, bishop panteleimon, talarsan is here, i’m vladimir ligoida, we were gathering thoughts about works of mercy. you can find all podcasts of the podcastlab project on the website of the first channel 1tv.ru. hello, my name is natalya loseva and this is a psychic podcast in which we continue to recite the formula for happiness, or at least everyday joy. our today 's heroine anastasia came with the following question: her today's lover, her today 's man does not accept her son from a previous

marriage, and the expert in today's episode is a famous psychologist, family psychologist evanova, who knows this... situation both as a specialist and as a woman. hello. hello. well, anastasia, tell us your story. the story is, yes, that i had a previous marriage behind me, in this marriage i had a son, yes, but it turned out that we divorced my husband and , accordingly, but anyway we are all women, we want a relationship, yes, i started a relationship with a man, we met him, sort of on... well, to be honest, on a dating site, yes, everything was basically good, beautiful, romantic, but at some stage problems began in the relationship, they started due to the fact that i have a child from a previous marriage , and he immediately knew that you had yes, yes, yes, yes, that is, i right up to the point that she even wrote this in the questionnaire on the website.