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tv   PODKAST  1TV  March 14, 2024 12:45am-1:31am MSK

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not so long ago i worked, let’s say, with a girl who was also in large companies, worked as a personnel officer, and, in fact, there as a pestilence, but she continued freelancing charmingly, in general, everything worked out for her, because the expertise is the same but when a person changes his expertise with a consultant, for example, it’s true , when his expertise changes, this is exactly the same high-risk situation. so what was your plan for expertise , let’s start with this? plan b honestly, come on, there was no plan, i’m thinking now, perhaps my activity, it is almost the same as what i performed in companies, but i ’m thinking about how to formulate it, i probably took a step, not exactly to the side, but expanded it, that is, i was engaged, for example, in training , yes, now i’m spending some more. well, probably action in
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this regard, more services, and staff training, now this is deeper work, and accordingly, well, you weren’t looking for these students of yours, that’s right, you probably didn’t register them, you probably they didn't pay there taxes for them, your task was to prepare a course, yes training, conduct it well, maybe test them there, that is , let's fix it, that is, the first expert.
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first you need to invest in the name, that is , in order for you to come out, that is, when you separate, when you leave the wall of your company from its brand, you must become a brand, well, no less, maybe even more, so was there any then preparatory work for expanding your brand? there was no special work, the only thing i can probably note is that i became more active appear on social networks, show your life, show yourself as a person , show cases.
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either the money will run out, or time will run out, or patience will run out, and sometimes everything ends at once, but in fact, that’s why the second question is important here, the margin of financial strength to promote yourself in order to become a brand, was there a large margin of safety or not, it was not calculated, well, the transition turned out to be spontaneous, there was no plan, so i just whip milk into butter like a frog, so i probably would so, it seems to me that now we can draw the first conclusion, yes, that if you... are in the process of hiring, then you need to prepare for this in advance , keep the option of going freelance, working there, building a business plan, accumulating a financial cushion, making starting to make a name, at least a name, yes, because you look , if you weren’t ready for freelancing, what would you do, if you didn’t want to freelance, you would most likely go look for another job, right, that is, another office, from one office to another, but you use this...
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situations, you read this sign of fate, it seems to you that you are absolutely, financially, and professionally psychologically ready, just to step into this icy ocean, in which there are many opportunities, it is teeming with treasure fish, and a lot of unknowns, and the first thing is you don’t see what’s there after 2 meters, you can only read it, you could have thought it through, but here you didn’t think through, it seems to me, two important aspects.
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so sleep until lunch and at the exhibition, not all the adults left, now i’m free, i was scared, this is exactly what we’re talking about the psychological side, the aspect of this event, so to speak, expectation, yes, if a person expected that working as a freelancer would make life easier, then this is a big mistake, and a big illusion, for which people usually pay, and... understand that freelancing is a way out of your comfort zone , and such a way out is tough, sometimes you have to work two or three times more, as if at a stage, i always say: people, if you go into freelancing, you’ll be in your thirties or 35 or forty, it doesn’t matter how much, then there is a point where there is zero, and the beginning of a new life,
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if you are already tired of working, you have worked too hard, you definitely don’t need to freelance, because there you will have to work more, but if you feel that i want to work, i want, i want , i want, i want, this is a psyche podcast and today, together with psychologist andrei sberovsky, we are looking at the case of anastasia, who left a stable job for freelancing and didn’t get exactly what
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she wanted. what traits should a person like this have in self-diagnosis mode? nastya, other people who watch us, who they will tell you, friends, you can go to... freelancers, because this can most likely become your success story, you are not allowed at all, firstly, this is the most notorious hard work, that is, this willingness to work very hard, it is basic is there or not , let’s start with a simple thing, there is a basic one, there is a basic one, that is, no, that is, if you can , if you honestly answer yourself, that’s how i drew conclusions, i realized that we need to work directly, i repeat, we are laying but
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now a team of people has been assembled by chance, which, in principle, will help me continue to work, that is, do you know how to set tasks? yes, but do you know how to control? yes, but do they always meet your deadlines? i haven’t tried it yet, but this is again a matter of control, when you create your own team, but at the same time you didn’t have a large margin of unity, you need to understand that there will be dissatisfied people in this team, which you are there for, maybe you don’t pay a lot for the first time, maybe be you are less than they understand in what they are doing and there are many of you. you can just cheat in an elementary way in this sphere, in fact, when a person goes freelance, an important psychological option is to stop being good, stop just smiling, as an expert you can just smile, you are an expert, everything is fine if you are building your team, especially in conditions of limited resource difficulties, you have
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to be a little tough, you have this understanding and this willingness to be a little tough, a little able to, well, crush people in the good sense of the word, i think this is what needs to be cultivated.
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and stress is three times more, another thing is that you can probably enjoy this stress, all the same, yes, but it can also be a creative stress, which of course yes, but that’s what we’re talking about, that is, your task is simply to adapt to it, that is, you need to understand that it will be difficult to try new roles , to feel comfortable in these roles, but i emphasize that this readiness for new roles is the main thing, one of the main secrets of freelancing, so please do not be afraid to be different if we do not have this option we'll get the hang of it, unfortunately. freelancing doors are in front of you will close and we will roll back to the previous position, which, in fact
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, is how you would have it, this is the first and second, visualization of your future status is very important, visualization for someone, if it is so romantically illusory, like i sleep until lunch, i walk for exhibitions, then this is not a very good visualization, if there is such a visualization there, i work a lot, i have a lot of people, i have a lot of money, i have a complex busy schedule, i study a lot, then this is... called visualization works better, what visualization of your success, let's say in a year or two, how do you see yourself? 5-7 hours of work a day with two or three days off, so there are already doubts in natalia’s face, by the way, i also have friends, it’s good to be healthy and rich, friends, we ’ll land this plan later, okay, listen , definitely not 24x7, there is still a schedule, i now understand that scheduling is easier for me, even if
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it becomes freelancing, but there is a team to which i delegated some of the functionality, in which i am not an expert, mm, probably, there is a clearly defined time to rest, that's how i would do it now, i know what will cure anastasia’s illusions and excessive romanticism, it’s just a contract that you will sign with your potential customers, only tears and there is tension, disappointment, listen, there is comfort, because
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how to measure it, right here just like that specifically, if possible, well, this is an opportunity to be realized, because i still expanded my functionality, perhaps, in this broad functionality it’s more interesting for me, because i not only have one audience of one company, but people come to me from different spheres, and i also get rich due to this and give it back even more to my clients, well, plus do you get to know other people?
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a story about when you are valuable not only in a work context, but you are valuable as a whole as a person, probably now a story about such support, it’s very cool. independent path, because i don’t understand the potholes on this road, it’s difficult to go there, but it’s very important, if you experience this is a very important competence for discomfort, and you apparently experience it, it’s important in the team that you are being formed, that is, it is important either to find some person in the team who will become...
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they earned me a salary anastasia, i like this is a very important option, because this option either must be taken. i repeat, your , your employee, either it happens that one of the freelancers is lucky, or people have such a strategy in advance, and we find one of your new customers there as an ally, yes, man believed in you, the man said. such a strategic partner of yours there, so to speak, exactly you rode on it there for the first few months or the first year, maybe when the formation is taking place, so my direct advice is definitely, don’t be alone, this is a very important story, and there will probably be betrayals too, and that’s just me betrayal said loudly, yes, well, someone didn’t wait, for example, for the contract to be fulfilled, this
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happens, because when, especially when these are startups, just a business begins, someone was lured away by such customers. also happens, that is, there will be those challenges that you are not were ready to hire, that’s how you need it psychologically , i’m just going to detail even for you that most often in practice there are challenges, firstly, maybe your close circle, mom, dad, friends may not support you, work colleagues, whom you previously considered friends may not support you, in addition, it happens that a person has not even had time to develop in freelancing, but those who started working for him, realizing that this is a gold mine, leave you and begin to occupy you.
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she will first isolate herself from everyone, she will create a cocoon for herself, she doesn’t hear anyone, doesn’t see anyone, she’s not interested in what’s happening around her, she makes her own internal transformation, and one that allows her to become a butterfly, so either you - i repeat, you have support in the form there is a friend, one ally, or you are completely in complete isolation, you clenched your jaw, as they say, and went through this difficult path, which strategy is more comfortable for you, anastasia, what is closer to you, what is more realistic to your story, not in the house, this is the wrong metaphor . not in house, you are in this, you know, in an armored train , locked up and rushing, at this stage i felt right now what you are saying, andrey, thank you very much, the psychologist just gave you a very correct instruction, i’m not talking about the train, so we speak louder, the words i am an armored train, we speak more harshly, anastasia, i am an armored train, the training is even tougher,
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we do it here like in trainings, listen, it’s a really cool setting, i like it, i’m charged up. yes, it works, because millions of people have already passed along your path before you. they're full of bumps, and bicycles have already been invented, it's very important that when a person starts something new, he really doesn't fill his bumps. if you take everything that natalya and i are talking about today, it will certainly significantly increase your chances of realizing your dream, of becoming a successful freelancer. this is a psychic podcast, my name is natalya losyeva, we continue to analyze the story of our heroine anastasia. nastya, when you made this decision, well, i understand that it was forced, did you discuss it with someone and who supported you, who did not support, that is, you simply presented a fait accompli, yes andrey, but if nastya
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had gone to talk about this idea, i understand that there were many things there. a forced story, but nevertheless there were still options. whether it’s important or unimportant to go and even if it’s with your grandmother and your cat, i don’t know, with a neighbor, with a younger colleague, discuss your plans, even if they are just now forced to appear. there is such a practical side here, if anastasia had always consulted with others in her life, yes, i always tried to find the ground under my feet, that same support group, or better yet , starting a new radical path, in this case, freelancing. it’s right to create this ground under your feet here, but if anastasia had never consulted with anyone before, everything happened dramatically, then of course you can remain in this position. anastasia, what are you like, how did you live before this? probably , you should have consulted, that is, you still consulted before, yes, but when you work in a team, you are talking about someone in any case, now i think that
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probably, what was missing was just a person who could come, talk, and write a plan. “nastya , think, look, in this conversation several useful hints would have been born, several of those key points where you would have faked something in such a timely manner, but i emphasize, it’s not too late, it’s not too late to do it now, i’ll tell you now this moment, you can, you can use it as a technique, in fact, when you come for advice, and as you very accurately said, you’re talking about someone, it’s not so important what you hear in response. write it down. yourself immediately after the conversation, what questions do you...
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prompts, nastya, you are now annoyed not because the question was stupid, because because you are incompetent, but because you feel anxiety inside yourself, it means that something here is unclear to you, just your expectations are optimistic , illusory, they tell you, they will lull you to sleep, don’t pay attention , close your eyes, sleep until lunch, you are beautiful,
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then, when the result is not ideal, well, there are happy people who don’t care, don’t give a damn, but there is someone who is frustrating, worried, there is another type of people who say, well, yeah , here it will go wrong, here is a risk , here is a threat, here they will set you up, here they will let you down , here i got burned, oh well, or there we work in the most pessimistic way. paths that seem to have a high probability of winning, but at what cost, and at the price of this neurosis, tension, irritation, well, or
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missed opportunities, this is what path, in your opinion, will generally lead us to success with a greater probability, what suits anastasia, what to learn, strange as it may seem, it would seem, but so in contradiction to what we said in the program, according to statistics , the most successful people are those who turned out to be... if, when faced with reality, you saw your gaps, you definitely need an ally, so your optimism, plus an ally who can just grumble, sees the risks, this
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it is the collaboration of two people, this is the synergy of two people, this is the most correct form of success, therefore the largest companies, the largest structures that have developed, are most often founded not by one, but by two people , they can then quarrel, quarrel, to divide the business there in...
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i repeat, that is, about 80-90% of people roll back, but about 2/3 of those who rolled back say: so, stop, stop, that’s it, i’m not going anywhere else, but about : so, i get useful experience, i don’t go back forever, but i repeat, for a year, a year and a half, two, in order to do additional simple preparatory work, in this case there is no defeat, there is an experience of simply preparing something better. and i forgot my keys
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or my wallet there or there or something else and it’s not a shame to go back, because if you went back, took what you needed and moved on, it’s better than you walking around all day, excuse me without a wallet or without keys, but she didn’t just come back, she came back beaten, yes, that is, she returned with experience, she is still enriched, even if in the case of anastasia we see that there is not only defeat, yes, there are just a lot of connections, a lot of new skills, a lot of correctly lived stress, yes, that is, such a tempered... psyche, we we see that anastasia will no longer be the same, in any case, she will either return with gratitude to the work that she had, discover a lot of advantages in it that she had not seen before and will remain in it forever, and i emphasize that this is also far from the worst option for work, if you continue to do what you did for good money with a feeling of satisfaction, this is actually also an important story, but if you returned, having accordingly gained something
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to go again, then it will be. .. you have already built up this very armor, you already write down a normal plan, you already but you will do it more rationally, yes, then when you return to your previous job or to another job in the office, you will already know, so i get this skill here, i do this, and how to do this will it be useful later in my big plan?
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great, and accordingly, your customers, your clients and your team, in fact, these tears should not be perceived as tears of weakness, these are tears of strength, because a person who works on himself always becomes stronger, thank you, i would listen to you, andrey, just endlessly, inspire , friends, well, today we have very radically and intensively reborn our
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heroine, who left, maybe use negative things so that right before your eyes, right in the podcastlab studio, we have a new one born, a strong, cool manager nastya, and we believe in her, thank you, this is a psychic podcast, all episodes of our podcast from... on the website of the first channel 1tv.ru. hello, i'm pilot cosmonaut anton shkaplerov, this is a podcast about space stories. on march 9, yuri alekseevich gagarin turned
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would be 90 years old. did what seemed impossible; with his first bold step he literally burst into outer space. my guest today is my old friend, my real teacher, major general, first deputy head of the zhukovsky air force engineering academy, professor, candidate of technical sciences, vyacheslav konstantinovich markov. hello, vyacheslav konstantinovich, today we want to remember what gagarin was like, talk about his heroic flight and...
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the formation of september 1 - this is the general construction of everything among the academy personnel , two cosmonauts stood in the foreground: garin and german stepanovich. wanted to enter the gagarin academy like all pilots, well, of course, like all pilots, this is natural, but sergei pavlovich insisted that they enter the zhukovsky academy, and here i would like to especially note that as far as cosmonauts are concerned, of course they were
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exceptional people, you know them, were recruited from several thousand people and at first 32 were selected, then even fewer became, they studied very conscientiously, they had to learn it’s more difficult for us, ordinary listeners, well, they are in plain sight, they were ashamed to come there unprepared, to receive an unsatisfactory tarsus, i understand them perfectly well, i watched them with 100 eyes, they studied longer than us, we studied for 5 years, they studied for 7 years, in order to have time to complete the entire same program, it turns out that they studied, but you say that they began to skip classes, for reasons independent of them, because gagarin after the flight traveled all the time, he glorified the man, he himself was in spirit, very soviet soviet union glorified the soviet a man, obligatory, loyal,
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conscientious, i once said that it seems to me that the country was lucky that the first cosmonaut was gagarin, he never let the country down, not in any foreign country, anywhere, he was loved. the whole planet , and he corresponded to this, so we later met with gagarin, i personally rarely met, but when they came to classes, and teachers often had to go to star places so as not to distract them, teachers went to star places, and then the academy went to the academy went, then they came, that is there was a complex curriculum, the curriculum remained the same, but the curriculum changed, what is the curriculum, this is on wednesday, these classes are on thursday and so on, here is the curriculum, and it... of course, was adjusted according to how much they are busy, and in order not to waste their time, it often happened that teachers went out, and they studied part-time, it turns out, you know, part-time, part-time, part-time part-time, because they remained cosmonauts, they had their own work, service,
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they you must take tests, pass exams, this is mandatory, this is as a rule it happened at the academy, but it even happened in hospitals if the teacher suddenly had to take a test from gagarin. then he was going to visit the hospital, and shveikin was lying there, he taught the cosmonauts, mathematics, he was very strict , he gave yuri a b, then he worried for a long time, he says, he answered between the four with an a, and i say, due to the tediousness of my character, he gave he is four, but all the teachers were also under supervision, you see, the highest motivation, mathematics, shveikin, choir, everything else is excellent, here vorobyov, that is, this infusion. all my friends, quite rarely , met in diploma design, that’s when they had already started
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and what is diploma design at the zhukovsky academy, this is the implementation of a diploma project. sergei mikhailovich came up with this move: sergei mikhailovich belotserkovsky, this was his deputy at that time. at first he was the head of the department of aerodynamics, and then the deputy head of the academy for educational scientific work, but he was mainly involved in science, and he was the scientific supervisor of this complex diploma project. sergey pavlovich korolev gave sergei mikhailovich the following task: show them that not only the cosmonaut has difficulties, the general designer also has difficulties, show them how difficult it is, and yuri alesevich was appointed general designer of this diploma project. his narrow part is maneuvering during takeoff and landing of the ship that he drew, and we made this model at our academy, but it is a well-known model with front lattice wings,
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at this stage i have often seen yuri alekseevich gagarin, why? because we at department number 15, the department of aerodynamics, organized such a graduation hall for astronauts. he was given a separate office, and this is in this photo , that the head of the aerism base gave way, this is the head of the educational department, kuznetsov, yuri petrovich, attaches to him a badge of graduation from the academy, and this is already graduation, yes, this is after defense, and this, since yuri alekseevich studied takeoff and landing issues during his diploma, but on this simulator, an analog simulator, he works out the elements of takeoff and landing like a pilot, like an astronaut.
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the machine, the analog one, contains the characteristics of this device, which we gave them after purging, these characteristics are included, and he tries, well, he tries, he always succeeded, he lands, takes off and lands on this analog machine his invented airplane, you were with it, you say, there is often some kind of aura of feelings? came practically from the academy, they
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worked very hard, very seriously, consultants came to them, in addition to the general director sergei mikhailovich belotsarkovsky, doctors, twice laureate of the state prize and so on, very famous scientists, they were assigned to yuri alekseevich, each was assigned a consultant from the department in their specialty, that is, not a scientific supervisor, but as a consultant, scientific supervisor sergei mikhailovich, and also consultants, if any - the questions are complex.
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and he gave him a photograph: sidorin, when you land on the moon, it will be easier for you to walk, he was very heavy, and also very handsome. did you know gagarin, met him, did you communicate with his family and loved ones? you know, we talked a lot with the family , i don’t know how many times i went, but many times i went to kanichbofeevna with sergei mikhailovich without sergei mikhailovich, this is anna timofeevna, when we arrived, anna timofeevna says everything is fine, ok, everything is fine with me, but the wiring is acting up, so next time i brought two electricians from the academy. while we were talking with her, drinking tea with her, the electricians
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replaced it, well, they arrived with copper, good wires, well, where it was necessary, they quickly replaced everything, she stayed, then they built a separate house, this shot is very dear to me, anna timofeevna invited us to sergei mikhailovich for her seventy-fifth birthday, sergei mikhailovich listen, he says, i have no time to answer for the cake, i went to our dining room and said, do what you want, do it big beautiful. they made a big cake, they made something like this, beautiful, very elegant, but they didn’t take the money, can you tell me what april 12th was like for you then, and maybe you can say that you still feel when this one comes holiday, well, as i remember, it caught me in kazakhstan, well, they immediately formed a regiment, shouted a long hurray, glory to the soviet homeland, glory to the first kasman, well, like all people, general rejoicing, i don’t know, even like a military unit strictly.
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when we give him the rank of captain, khrushchev says: don’t be greedy, give him a major right away, he was given the title right away, through the rank he was given a major, he was a most worthy man, and what a pity. that he died so quickly, you know, yura was so focused on everything, no matter what he did, he did it very efficiently, and i i understand, and you understand better than me why he wanted to fly, he was a pilot, he had the spirit of a pilot, he needed to fly, he wanted to fly into space, yes, he wanted
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to fly into space later , he really wanted to do science, and i’m sure that these are the bookmarks that he made in his graduation project, if he began to engage in science, he would quickly complete a dissertation, and part of this work that he completed as a graduation project, part of this work, i don’t know how many percent, on five, by 10, but it would have been included in his ph.d. thesis when read out, he was awarded a diploma of graduation from the academy, then in the conclusions of the commission it was directly written to recommend that gagarin enter the correspondence postgraduate course of the zhukovsky academy, he... this was recommended, and he, saying goodbye to us, said, not for long, i’ll soon come back to you again. happy birthday, yuri alekseevich, we congratulate you as a living, existing hero among us, with gratitude and joy we dedicate our
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song to you. vashudervut. he turned around in a tall calm and white teeth unfamiliar, smoothed his hair with his hand, not yet seeing on the verge, his kind, kind rabbi, tender, tender stubble and red-haired, let there be no one, farewell, farewell, dear, don’t be ashamed.
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guy, i loved you, oh, he didn’t know, after how long i swam, the fragments of him were thrown, a stream hit his back, and he silently fell, painfully, painfully, then fell , hurt himself, pulled himself out of the wreckage , i wrote, i’ll lie down with a golden needle.
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