let's call it something useful for understanding , and you know the story about when you are valuable not only within the work framework, but you are valuable as a whole as a person, now probably a story about such support, if we see your eyes and your tears a little, and once again this is absolutely, well, not a minus for you, this is just the degree of understanding of your reality - this is a very important competence for an independent path, because it does not understand... there are potholes on this road , it is difficult to go there, but it is very important , if you are experiencing discomfort, and you are, judging by you experience everything, it is important in the team that you are forming, that is, it is important either to find some person in the team who will truly become your right hand, you need, you know, such a bulldog deputy, we delegate to the deputy, it could even just be your assistant , you know, who will say, you haven’t gotten up yet, well, how about 30 negotiations, where are you telling you? the employee yes

she says anastasia are you a freelancer or where should you already be earning my salary anastasia i like where you are this is a very important option because this option either should take, i repeat, your employee, or it happens that one of the freelancers is lucky, or people have such a strategy in advance and we find one of your new customers there, one of them as an ally, yes, the person believed in you, the person turned out to be so your there a strategic partner, so to speak, yeah.

challenges that you were not prepared for in hiring , that’s how you need it psychologically, i ’ll just even detail for you that most often in practice there are challenges, firstly, or maybe your close circle, there’s mom, dad, friends, may not support you, since work colleagues whom you previously considered friends may not support you, in addition, it happens that a person himself has not even had time to develop in freelancing, but those who started working for him, having realized that this is a gold mine, they leave you and begin to engage in the same activities themselves, and sometimes they are even more successful than you, that’s why.

cocoon, she doesn’t hear anyone, doesn’t see anyone, she’s not interested in what’s happening around her, she makes her own internal transformation, and one that allows her to become a butterfly, so either you, you have support in the form of a friend, one ally, or you are completely in complete isolation, clenched your jaw, as they say, and went through this difficult path, which strategy is more comfortable for you, anastasia, which is closer to you, which is real your story, not in the house, this is the wrong metaphor, not in the house, you are in this, you know, in an armored train, locked up and rushing at this stage, right now i felt what you are saying, andrey, thank you very much, here the psychologist just gave you a very correct one installation, i’m talking about a non-train, so we speak louder than words, i’m talking about a non-train, we speak tougher , anastasia, i’m an armored train, even tougher, because we do training, it’s like in training here, listen, it’s a really cool setting, i like it, i loaded it, pay attention, the tears dried up as soon as the armored belt. sounded, the tears

have dried, it works, it works, or something, yes, it works, because millions of people have passed along your path before you, bumps have already been filled, yes, bicycles have already been invented, it is very important that a person starting something new, really i didn’t put my money where my mouth is, if you take everything that natalya and i are talking about today, of course it will significantly increase your chances of realizing your dream, of becoming a successful freelancer. this is a psychic podcast, my name is natalya losyeva, we continue to analyze the story of our heroine anastasia. nastya, when you made this decision, well , i understand that it was forced, but did you even discuss it with anyone and who supported you, who? that is, you simply presented everyone with a fait accompli. andrey, what if nastya went to talk about this idea. i understand that it was largely a forced story, but nevertheless there were still options. whether it’s important or unimportant

to go and even if it’s with your grandmother and your cat, i don’t know, with a neighbor, with a younger colleague, discuss your plans, even if they are just now forced to appear here. there is such a practical side, if anastasia had always consulted with others in her life, yes, she always tried to find the ground under her feet, that same support group, then it would be more correct to start a new radical path, in this case freelancing is the right thing to create this ground under your feet, but if anastasia had never consulted with anyone before, everything radically happened, then of course you can remain in this position. anastasia, what are you like, how did you live before this? perhaps we should have consulted. that is, you still consulted before, yes, well, when you work in a team, you are talking about someone in any case, now i think that what was probably missing was just a person who could come, talk, write a plan for plan to go to work, which would ask the right questions, that is, work

with objections, where would it be, where would it be, where would it be, nastya, think about it, look, in this conversation several useful tips would be born, several of those key points where you would yes. they would have falsified something in a timely manner, but i emphasize, it’s not too late, it’s not too late to do it now, i’ll tell you now this moment, you can use it as a technique, in fact, when you come for advice, and as you very accurately said, you're talking about someone, it's not so important what you when you hear the answer, write down for yourself immediately after the conversation which questions caused the most acute reaction in you, yeah. and the more negative the reaction , the more acute it will be, the more irritated this question will cause you, even if it comes not from a colleague, not from an expert, but from a mother, grandmother or some person who, in general, you well in this area, you don’t feel like a hint, so the more likely it

is that this is a story that hasn’t been worked out for you, that your subconscious, your intuition tells you, nastya, you’re annoyed now not because the question was stupid, because she’s not because she’s incompetent, but because you feel anxiety inside yourself, which means something here is unclear to you, it’s just that your expectations are optimistic, illusory, they tell you so they lull you to sleep, don’t pay attention, close your eyes, sleep until lunch, you’re beautiful, everything will be fine, the money will come, right? already on the way, on the way, on the armored story, just take it, but i want to ask you about this, andrey, look, there are two of these, two types of approaches to the future, in business, in life, by the way, too , which means there are only managers, super-optimists, they

are like, yes, everything will go great, don’t worry, tune in to the positive, visualize the ideal result, then when the result... turns out not ideal, then, well , there are happy people who don’t care, don’t care, but there are someone who is frustrated and worried. there is another type of people who say: so, yeah, here it will go wrong, here is a risk, here is a threat, here they will set you up, here they will let you down, here i got burned, oh well, or there we are working along the most pessimistic path, it seems... like they have a high probability of winning, but at what cost, and at the price of this neurosis, tension, irritation, well, or missed opportunities, this is what path, in your opinion, will generally lead us to success with it is more likely that it suits anastasia , what to learn, strange

as it may seem, but in contradiction to what we said in the program, according to statistics , those people who are not quite prepared, who are not saw. we saw our gaps, we definitely need an ally, so your optimism, plus an ally who may just be grumpy, sees risks, this is precisely the collaboration of two people, this is the synergy of two people, this is the most correct form of success, therefore the largest companies,

the largest the structures that have developed are most often founded not by one, but by two people, they can then quarrel, quarrel, divide the business there in the courts there with hatred, but it is two people... who started and compensating for the peculiarities personal psychological each other achieved this success, so in your case , based on your optimism, find yourself an ally and everything will work out for you. and in your case, here is the outcome. is there anastasia or anyone of those who may be returning to employment, here are friends who have gone through a similar path and are now thinking about making this decision, to return to the office, to return to the boss, to return to a stable job, but i wouldn’t i would like you to feel defeated, but i still don’t really understand how to properly set myself up for this step. it seems that back, or maybe not, you

know, i emphasize, practice shows that a successful start occurs on average in only 10-15% of 100 possible, i repeat, that is, about 80-90% of people roll back, but also those who rolled back ago, about 23 they say, so, stop, stop, that’s it , i’m not going anywhere else, but roughly says this, i’m getting useful experience, i...

won’t be the same, in any case, she will either return with gratitude to that work, which she had, will reveal a lot of advantages in her that she had not seen before and will remain in it forever, and i emphasize that this is also far from the worst option for work, if you continue to do what you did for good money, with a feeling of satisfaction, this is actually also an important story, but if you returned accordingly having gained something - then to go again, it will be a different anastasia, it will be the same anastasia. that is, you will have already built up this very armor, you will have already written down a normal

plan, you will have already returned to your previous job or to another job in the office, you will already know, so this is what i get here this skill, i do this, and how will it be useful later in my big plan, that is, you are already rationalizing... this is your aspiration, this dream of yours, and most likely, it seems to me that in the second iteration, man will no longer sleep, undoubtedly, you will be less complacent, you will be less illusory, you will be less optimistic, you will be more collected, you will be more critical of yourself, and of your respective cases, of your various ones, as we can say now skill, yes, that is, this is very important story, and i emphasize, in any case, there will be no previous anastasia and the new anastasia will be... more successful, effective, stronger, wiser than the one that was, so no matter how your trajectory goes,

in fact the very fact that you today you are communicating with us, the very fact that you are asking the right questions, the very fact that you are finding answers for yourself, shows that you are on the right path of transformation, it seems to me that these tears are beautiful, these are precisely the tears of the birth of a new anastasia , yes, you feel her, this is the new anastasia, i i feel it loud, i feel an armored train. excellent, and accordingly, your customers, your clients and your team, in fact, these tears should not be perceived as tears of weakness, these are tears of strength, because a person who works on himself always becomes stronger, thank you, i would listen to you, andrey, just endlessly, inspire , friends, well, today we have very radically and intensively reborn our heroine, who went from we know to freelance, got there before... but a lot of stress, disappointment, despair, but it seems that us with our expert andrei sberovsky, we managed

to use this potential, which can be negative, so that right before your eyes, right in the podcastlab studio, we have a new, strong, cool manager nastya, and we believe in her, thank you, this is a psyche podcast, watch all episodes of our podcast on the website of the first channel 1tv. koro. ivan and georgy, and our bride is anastasia. anastasia is 37 years old, her husband agreed to conceive a child only on the condition of six months of abstinence, and after this period he did everything to ensure that she applied for divorce. anastasia, a

recruiter, lives in moscow, dreams of flying into space in her old age, and is proud that she is wiser than her parents. warns that he does not eat meat. anastasia will not pay attention to a man with small feet and hands, she will marry a large, tactile man with a pot belly, who will be rude to her vegetarian menu, will not force her to cook steaks for him and will not leave her alone with her problems. hello, girls, hello, glad to see you, mutually, and can i give you some marshmallows? thank you, you yourself are like a marshmallow, by the way , you know about this, yes, such a bride, of course , is fire, but, but these points about, i won’t pay attention to a man with small feet and hands, or what, in my opinion , i heard, yes, this is actually some kind of, well, some kind of

nightmare, listen, well, i can’t even imagine what kind of hell you had in your life, and how can you love like that? explain to me, tell me this story, who is he, where is he from and was he a person? yes, of course, he was a man, but probably our marriage could have call it anything, but were you officially married? yes, we were officially married for 6 years, 6 years, 6 years was enough for my love before she, well, was killed. it’s simple, she looks, of course, wonderful , this is this blonde image, let’s call it that, it ’s purely emilia clarke, like that, you know, like it feels like she needs a dragon on which she will fly off today to burn the castle, in fact you are dragon, of course, why you fell in love, how it happened, and i have some history before that, that is, i actually didn’t have a very simple childhood,

then, when i was 27 years old, a series of tragic events happened. my family , that is, my grandmother died, my mother died within 3 months, she had heart problems, and since i could no longer bear to be in my city, i am from samara, and a friend suggested that i move to moscow, so she’s just a fiery blonde, and really beautiful, and you generally like the color pink, i adore the color pink, i come to moscow, rent a room in an apartment, because there was no money for basic housing, and my neighbor mine turns out to be actually my future , ex-husband, what struck me, what they paid attention to, right away this is my type in appearance, that is , he really is a handsome man, yes, dark-haired, very well-structured, he has a talent, probably, for communication , speaking, yes, that is, when they found out that he was a sectarian, immediately,

almost immediately, because, and since... i was traumatized precisely by the events, and what he told me, and those - about the soul, about the fact that those answers to the question lie ahead of the real eternal life, and this can be tolerated, well, yes , that nothing matters here, the most important thing is that they stopped eating meat, and one day, that is , the day i met him, on the same day i stopped eating, well, that is, he influenced , yes, well , that’s what i thought, and not only meat, that is , fish, eggs and the like. still? and until now i have left this behind me, this type of nutrition suits me, i like it, i’m used to it, what do you eat? there are a lot of vegetarian dishes, in my marriage i cooked five dishes, i mean, cereals, berries cereals, vegetables, berries, milk, and you will also feed the children, is that how you do? but i think not, but a child is a separate person,

a personality, she is some kind of childish little girl, in my opinion, who will cook steaks for me then? in the same apartment, i don’t really understand how a woman in love can be friends with a man, they were just waiting in the wings to call, you were already in love, i didn’t understand this, but how could you not understand, of course, when you saw?

you invited somewhere after some time we just walked, walked in the park, van, so she a vegetarian, how will she cook for you , listen, well, she will cook for me , she may not eat it herself, but she can cook, well, she may not be very pleased at this moment, well , that means i will cook myself, everything has been decided, but let her eat vegetables, what happened then, he left for a long time, somewhere, and it so happened that i went abroad for the first time , at the age of 27. earned money there, yes abroad, no, earned money abroad, yes, money went to spain, this is even before your close relationship, before your loved ones relationship, in spain i realized that i

miss him, that is, i dream about him, so that he would also be nearby, and he was deported there for violating the passport regime, yes, yes, he had problems with documents and there was a threat of deportation, that is, at the stage of our acquaintance he did not have the status of a citizen of the russian federation, and accordingly he left. to his country, when he left, you realized from melancholy that you couldn’t live without him, i couldn’t live without this man, i couldn’t drink or eat, i walked along the wall to the toilet, that is with me, and you understood that he left forever, yes, there was hope that he would return, that is, he said that i would go to resolve issues with documents, accordingly , he was not able to resolve issues with documents, and what do you tell him they set a condition for him to return, nothing, i went after him.

well, that is, he, no, he had nothing, and where he lived, he rented, and there , too, in moldova, he also rented, he had absolutely nothing in his property, that is, not his parents, his parents, his mother , mom is alone, but he didn’t live with them, you weren’t staying with him, yes, when they came for him, no, that is , you took it off, you thought it all over and said to him, let’s go to moscow, i will work, no, that is, i will help, that is, i will give yes.. some kind of start, you will come, i will pay for everything at first and so on , yes, because as it seemed to me then, well , i saw potential in the person, that is

, to say that there was no potential at all, he’s really creative, nast, look, i’m so passionate about it, and i’m interested in talking to you, you know why, because you’re one in 100,000 girls, who come to us, who talk about love for their man, about love, and not... because she traveled with him, flew, he gave her gifts, bought them, he built them for her, you know, now she has a salon, and now she wants to get married, that’s something that doesn’t concern love , it causes me a little, yes, such rejection , your eyes are burning, you’re talking about love, no one can judge you, no one can throw a stone at you, they’ve been around for a long time - of course, it was necessary to run away a long time ago, because why did she endure all this, i really feel sorry for her, she loved, loved, well yes, she loved, loved and endured, yes... he also responded mutually, i also saw that yes, i would try, i would find a job, that is, everything would be fine, we even wanted to build a house there,

how old was he ? we were the same age , i was already 29, he was too, and you still had nothing, then, when i went to moscow for him, we already had intimacy, we then realized that there was a feeling, he was the first to confess his love , he said that i love you, that is, when you came to him in moldova, you already had everything before, and it was, a man, a manipulator, he felt the softness, the knowledge of this girl, in general , to moscow with her, everything he wanted, that’s all, he proposed to you, or you said, it would be good for us to get married, then i’ll make you a russian passport, no, there was no such thing , he proposed, but you see, the underlying reason was that, in essence, marriage gave him a ticket to the fact that he would receive citizenship of the russian federation, and somewhere inside i understood this, not from what he said, nastya, if not you, then i don’t need anyone, so yes, well, such words, of course, don’t it was, i felt a mutual attraction, i’m not

quite some kind of fool. such, yes, but nevertheless, this is some kind of unconditional love that i had in relation to, in short, you began to work for two, he got a job, yes, he got a job, i also took part in obtaining citizenship, because he received his education in a different language, that is, even basic documents were all on me, and driving a car was on me, and cooking, cleaning, i’m an ideal housewife, everything should be ideal for me and... yeah, after after he received citizenship, your life became easier, but it probably became easier for him to find a job, the fact is that just the same, i had these illusions when they promised me that just about, now what , when you found out that he was still addicted to prohibited drugs, i found out about this after our intimacy, just, well, that is, when he stopped hiding it, yes, he began to use, but you didn’t , he already started with you use, yes, i

saw, i saw everything.

right after we got married, that is , the fact is that the dogmas of philosophy say that sex is needed only for conceiving children, and accordingly, we had intimacy once a month, and that’s because i needed it for health and similar things, accordingly, i no longer had passion for this person and desire, because i felt desired i didn’t feel it as soon as we got married, in fact, of course, he still didn’t, as soon as he got his...

so as not to leave, but i have a very, very weak battery, even you noticed that i continue to justify the person, but can you imagine what happened? married, everyone told me, nastya, please, well, as it were look closely, open your eyes , i didn’t see anything, i loved you very much, i understand, i justify you, and no one can judge you, because love explains everything, i secretly prayed for him, but the more i prayed, the worse it stopped, my little fish , please tell me, when you started talking about

a child, he said make a child? leave me alone, but after six months, well, he didn’t tell me to leave me alone, because i’m also vulnerable, sensitive, you can’t treat me like that, but nevertheless, we drove past the maternity hospital there, he said: right here you will give birth, he gave a fishing rod, hope, it doesn’t matter, that is, he said such things that are important for a woman, just lev nikolaevich tolstoy, a classic, well, this is now in six months, in general, i think this is some kind of colossal nonsense, i don’t understand this, well, i don’t blame anyone, everyone has their own jokes, maybe buddhists have their own story, but like, what’s the story of abstaining for six months, why, what’s the point, if only you could explain it simply to her. he simply tried to avoid it, and he talked about having a pious child, and a good, healthy, talented, how healthy he is, maybe, i don’t really understand something, no, that’s all good, you’re sane, you understand that

such a man cannot be born healthy, a priori, but even if i wanted , well , they believed what i would say, aunt rose sold the apartment when she was in love so that she could have a goat there, but to buy? it’s clear, and these six months pass, you are already putting the last ones, it means a cross, this one , tomorrow you say, that’s it, let’s go, i remind you to wash your face, kiss your sweetheart, i remind you, i say that yes, we have it’s as if it’s already coming, in fact

, the next one or after 2 days he comes in a state of altered consciousness, again, well, that is, no one caught his hand, they told me that these are my fantasies, what seems to me when a person is told that to you... it seems that you sometimes wonder if i’m really not normal, maybe he’s always in the house with you, what, i didn’t allow it, because he’s in an altered state, i also understand that what kind of child is he in? , when like this, when it dawned on you that he doesn’t want you, doesn’t love you, never loved you and never wanted you, that you were an elevator for him, i didn’t see it, larisa, my dad told me, that is , he... well, he was very dissatisfied with this marriage, that means how they broke up, this should happen one day, it didn’t happen one day, that is, this was the beginning of the end , i still had enough for two years, probably yes, listen, well, of course, yes, she was very badly

traumatized, it’s clear what she needs from this release mish - you know, well, i really feel sorry for the girl, you can see from this eyes that she is a kind and kind person, and of course her man is a scumbag, at least her lover appeared, a young girl, the very age where she took it, got it, made it up, covered in acne, probably already walked around unhappy, larisa, but she didn’t eat meat, didn’t eat anything, so she didn’t have the strength, no, well all the same, he didn’t just let her go, he just didn’t let her go, she is of course stronger than him, the fact that he didn’t let go is understandable, who would let go of the golden hen who carries the gold candles, in short, then she easily got away from him. no, no, it’s not easy, but that is, this is the beginning of the end and 2 years are still enough, but that’s all, well, at least would there be sex at least once after this? yes , but without us we were, you know, we were like we

were like brother and sister, what kind of brother and sister, brother and sister at least respect, don’t use her, what kind of brother and sister there were, but he didn’t freeze anything from you immovable, you are still parallel to the square there, i wanted your room, but this one after the divorce... he stated that time had passed, 2 years had passed, and he stated that he needed to divide his own property in half, but this is a mortgaged apartment, which is now in the moscow region, i took it out too, well, the down payment, my amount was four times large and i paid for it after the divorce, i just invested a lot in it, i don’t want to sell it, it was clear to the hedgehog from the very beginning that he was yes to me? i also bought a room, that is, i sold the apartment that i inherited from my mother, no, with my money, i don’t think at all, by the way , that it is the man who should bear 100% of the expenses, the family and the business are mutual, accordingly, everyone should invest something

that he has the opportunity to invest in the family, but of course specifically live at the expense of a woman - this is some kind of idiocy, the point here is not even that the man is not a man, but the point is simply that this is absolutely not human. nastya - not yet, i’m waiting until 3 years have passed since the divorce, my hands will be untied, he no longer has the right to file for division of property. now you’re honestly tracking what’s wrong with him, how? and now i don’t know what’s wrong with him, but his mother got in touch with me, just recently, maybe a month ago, that my mother wanted me to give the amount of the down payment for the mortgage apartment, but there are a penny, give it back, yes, i’m ready to give this amount, but he’s not getting in touch with me now, that is, i offered to meet several times.

the story is yes, it’s kind of an offensive story, yes , her situation as a whole is so complicated, but why should i feel sorry for her, everything is fine with your real estate, but now this is how this issue is being resolved, it’s okay, there are both rooms and a two-room apartment there, even if you have a mortgage, that is, you are the kind of girl who knows how to earn money, the question is that you are asking not to cook meat, you it makes you feel sick when you do this, because all men are meat eaters, if they don’t eat meat, then they have no strength. it won’t even be, well, maybe the future husband will solve

this problem somehow differently, tell me, let ’s do this, anastasy, if you have closed the tight door to your past life, and if you really understand that your ex was pure fanfare, it has nothing to do with monasticism or spiritual practices, maybe you should already look at men as men who work a lot, eat a lot, they need protein. so further, because i don’t know who you want now , as soon as you say, no, you understand, you ’re a simple girl, as soon as you tell your potential groom now, well, if you want meat, cook it yourself, when i’m not at home, he’ll immediately you’re on the list of worthless people , he’ll say straight out, oh, you seem good, but you’re a fool, you know, because marriage has completely different laws, not like you will have sex every day and give birth to children, you’re already a lot of years old, 37, you need to straight away saiga already.

the antithesis of your ex healthy with healthy reflexes, with healthy desires, with some kind of healthy perspective with healthy dreams of a cool guy, well, i don’t wish that for you, because i don’t understand why he would suddenly need such a marshmallow, i recommend that you take it from among their own, here are vegetarians who are ready to take children, adapted ones, and so on. meet the first groom, come in, thank you. i

actually have the feeling that the rose is not in the mood a little, when she is in the mood, you know, the weather is like this, yes, on the show, thunder and lightning, hello, my name is vitaly, i’m from city ​​of zelenograd, i came to meet you, maybe something will work out for us, hello, vitaly, vitaly, 41 years old, psychologist, lives in moscow, writes poetry and prose, enjoys horseback riding, dreams of acting in a movie, warns that he has high intelligence , admits that he likes complex women. vitaly encountered an aggressive form of protest when he began to renovate his lover’s apartment. hope that anastasia knows how to be

grateful. hello, nice to see you. hello, listen, all women they dream, they even look for such men, they are even glad that a man will come to their territory just for one thing: either to pay, to pay for utilities, or to make repairs, you ’re ready, you’re ready. the only thing, of course , is the moment, well, i would at least take a box of chocolates to treat nastya, well, just, you know , it seems to me. and it would be nice, no matter what repairs were made, she should have kissed your feet, what was wrong there, the wallpaper or curtains were hung in the wrong shade, well, let 's start with the fact that it wasn't really a matter of repairs. repairs were expected initially, when i moved in with her, uh, well, her apartment is not in very good condition, i suggested that she do some renovations, because well, like at home, so inside, in theory, right , of course, look, well, look, well, honey , well, someone looks like a hunted animal, look, now these sharks will eat him, there you are, you will just sparkle like

lightning, la sophie, la sophie, when i suggested this, it seems... everything was normal, that is , she was like normal, she should have been overjoyed and hit the ceiling with her head with happiness, but the point is friend, sometimes i just made some changes little by little, even before the renovation itself, yes, i made some changes, that is, she had a bad wall or something removed, but she had a bad cornice, i replaced the cornice, he had some kind of rusty cornice, along which the curtain did not move at all, i hung a normal cornice for her, bought a light bulb hanging from her, i bought her a chandelier, but growing up, that is , well, it’s amazing, but only... all these things are always when i changed something a little, but it seems to be for the better, they always, well, these actions they were always reflected negatively in my direction, on their money or, of course, on their own, what else does the eagle look at, as if i think, their fruits, but you know

, it’s like his girlfriend is looking at him, that’s it in the middle, which is her friend, he’s her i think i was hooked too, by the way, pay attention nastya looks something like that. a friend purposefully chose it, she liked the lamp more than the chandelier, yes, because she made this choice, not me, that is , well, well, i mean she did it herself, how old was she, 16, 17 years old , yes 49, as if, maybe menopause, no, i don’t understand then, but how do you explain to yourself why she didn’t want to, maybe she was afraid that you would later, if anything, present it to her, and no , it’s unlikely that she was afraid of that, mm, i came to the conclusion, well, much later i came to the conclusion why this happened, she grew up in a rather conservative family, she has a lot to conclude, she was already the age of a grandmother when she got along with you, and what do you think, she’s like that with since then she wore children's sandals, or something, psychologically, psychologically she

constantly dependent on her parents, half a hundred, yes, no, well, okay, not half a century, yes, a psychologist, yes, not half a century there. she was, when we got together, not half a century old, she was 46, 49, not a girl yet, girly, 45, in general you can just say, lyalka, looks normal, an organic dude , kind of cool, but i don’t know, it’s as if he will be right, listen, she definitely needs a soul, look, he looks into everyone’s soul, when i got together with her, her dad was still alive, he was already seriously ill at that time, and you yourself fantasized that she is from she has a family, i don’t understand this?

with this light bulb, god, the main thing is that it shines, the main thing is that my grandmother, my beloved wife, is in a good mood. no, what? well, because i don’t agree to live under such conditions, and even in a room that does not satisfy some basic needs, even just moral ones, you see how the puzzle fits together, she needs a psychologist now, please, she was provided with one from above, and also he will do the repairs, he will do the repairs, well, in short, we broke up because it was uncomfortable to live with her. but the initiator she was parting, by the way , she said, well, she said that i want freedom, i ’m the only one who gives, i give, here’s the north, here’s you, yes, yes, she , well, there was someone younger, more interesting, uh, well was, my

youngest girl was 18 years old, i was 16, though at that moment, well, what didn’t work out with her, she didn’t either... no, what didn’t work out with her was that at that moment i was a complete imbecile and understood absolutely nothing about life, there were a lot of mistakes made in principle in these relationships, but therefore not it turned out that he absolutely does not want to meet the bride, well, of course, no, larisa intercepted her, she intercepted him, he was selected as a psychologist, that is , he can really get her out of her situation, but you have some psychological problems ? i have psychological problems, yes, i do , yes, yes, i think that i am too beautiful and not suitable for anyone, she was from an orphanage, tell us about her, the one who was from an orphanage, she broke all records, uh. well , the most striking case that was captured me during my life with one

person, this is when - well, it so happened that i fell into the hands of a chicken, well, a rooster, or rather, yes, well, a whole rooster with feathers and meat, with entrails, with everything else, i am this rooster brought it home, said irin , please prepare the rooster , otherwise it will spoil, well, he left, in fact, and after i returned, first of all, on the way to... the apartment i smelled some strange smell, when i returned to apartment and looked at what this smell was coming from, my ears perked a little, because in a whole rooster with feathers and intestines was boiling in a large saucepan, and how do you think, maybe she did it to spite you - well, it’s hard to say, i think not, because based on some other moments in our lives, there was it’s clear... that is, she sincerely believed that it was necessary this way, she was not prepared at all, she gets a ready-made result, they don’t know how he gets from here, well

, he gets there, of course, you can’t blame a girl for that somehow , to blame, but it seems to me that it was necessary, it was necessary to treat this with humor, the girl wanted to make an original presentation , i would hug such a girl, ask her to cook again, leave the house, well, you said sex with her was impossible; sex with her was , well, or rather, it almost didn’t happen at all, by the way, you like these women very much with big problems, they were normal, and you liked them as an object of study, most likely this is a lifesaver syndrome, because i have everything, i have all women, if you remember, they had problems, i still have questions , that's why the chicken wasn't plucked, why didn't it she plucked the chicken, which she probably thought was her cat, she said, she said, the cat is my favorite and prepared everything for him with feathers. i have two questions for you, why do you need a cunning and vindictive wife? what is it for? because these are signs

of intelligence? does that mean i'm super intelligent? yes, naturally very intelligent, i drew conclusions, and are you also proud of your intelligence? well, why shouldn’t i be proud? no, but i don’t, there’s no need to answer a question with a question, honey, please tell me. is there any such rapid test? which can test intelligence, of course , in germany there is such a test for drivers who are taking their license, there are quite a lot of questions, it’s called the idiot test, vitaly, let’s have a couple of questions, so, in a house with an elevator on the second floor there lives a dentist, on the third is a lawyer, the fourth is a stripper, which button on the sheet will be pressed more often? can i answer? yes, yes, is it up to you? and i’ll answer in such a way that i won’t answer,

because, firstly, they’re not really making fun of me, there’s no need to explain to us, just tell me which button, so i won’t speak, because i don’t know, in fact , an elementary answer, to the button for the first floor , most often the elevator is called to the first floor, oh, the test is passed, oh, ah, some kind of malicious one, it turns out that they are in a race and overtook the last one in involved in it, what position are you in now? on the penultimate one.