it’s very, very nice to see you, sergei osokin is helping us, he masters the instrument, which, by the way, you also mastered as a child, i know that you are a famous choir player here, i have a podcast melody of my life, we have known each other for many years, and i i just want our dear tv viewer to know a little more about you and so that it’s not somehow callous, but in a friendly way with my music? yes, well, let's start, to be honest, i was very surprised, for some reason i knew that your childhood passed in lviv, but your place of birth is much further east, significantly, significantly, tell me, this is the coastal region , this is a village that still exists, it used to be called grodekova, now it is called border, there are literally 2 km to the chinese border, and since after the war it was very fashionable, young people kept coming... school, dad

entered, he was given a lieutenant, then with my mother, who was pregnant, they were sent to the far east, there they walked on foot to the maternity hospital, there i was born, that’s what i was, such a handsome man, yes , well then here's the question, a childhood melody, well, like the radio we always had hanging on the wall, and this one with a rag, i remember, you remember, yes, but what do you remember, you’re younger, and i had my first contact with the song already then , i decided. the first song i performed was in the early sixties, we already had a stove in our house in lvov, and before the new year on a stool, i always wanted to do something to attract the attention of my family, i still i once sat with this from my childhood: no, look at me, i, i, i will entertain you here, the most...

stand up for a minute, stand up, hear, quickly hear, from all sides, it ’s heard in bunchenwald, bell ringing, bell ringing, it’s humming and you can see the whole flame, and it’s just thundering there, something’s on the air.

people of the world for a minute, take care of the world, i appreciate you , take care of the world, take care, take care, take care , this, now we must definitely tell the tv viewers, it’s only possible to sing like that at night, you know, yes, we just sang a song in a different key, it’s okay .

not all the school year, this is lviv, now this is already in lvov you have a nose, this is the first time in the second grade i collected scrap metal and i was so nimble that i slept with the thickness of a long wire incorrectly , but now you can imagine how it should be collected with metal so that the end of this wire hit my nose, that is, not like that, that ’s how it hit my nose, that’s what happened.

and i went there so dashingly, in short, the brakes failed the whole way, i drove into a wall, i had about a month, this point is this, it was one line, then i got this belmandov's bend, yes, bend, yes, yes, yes, this, this was my childhood, that even as a child i really loved showing pantamimes, i naturally adored ingebarov and copied what he showed, by the way, before entering. ..

i don’t know, this is due to the fact that lyubimov left taganka, yes, you were the first to say, you know, that i will work on my own, this moment, unheard of courage, because then everyone somehow liked the philharmonic, how is this possible for yourself, did you take it and go, no, everything was much simpler there, i wouldn’t romanticized this period, the fact is that yuri petrovich lyubimov did not leave the theater, he left his homeland, then... he was deprived of citizenship, this is all known to everyone, the management in the theater was changed, which was not very interested in me, aksyukha is already into this time i was pregnant in the seventh month, this is mine and my wife, so i didn’t have any fear, i went nowhere, in fact, at

the same time i had to think about how to prepare for childbirth then and where to live and how else to live, well, something probably uh... i i wasn’t a member of the cinematographers’ union anywhere, nor did i have this certificate from the all-russian theater society, and somehow i was like that, i was such a cowboy that no one really needed, you know, an absolutely free artist, well , somehow everything worked out , there was some work on television, some work in cinema, but if you have already started talking about cinema, then probably the beginning of my film biography is like the real one, i was filming in 1978. in the detective movie in 1978, i starred in that same munchausen, the detective for me very dear, i periodically forget the name of this film, for some reason, probably, the majority of those living in the post-soviet space remember the moment where lenya is standing on

a motorcycle, well, i don’t remember either, vadik zakharchenko, he keeps saying don’t growl, all this happens against the backdrop of the house where i was born and... in general, all this was filmed in smolensk, everything that was connected with a motorcycle, and there is a policeman who comes up, it was the director of this picture, the wonderful director vladimir foykin, whom i i call him my godfather in the movies because he the first one decided to act, to film a person with

such a face in a movie, and then there was zakharov, your birthday is in winter, and i want, since we have known each other for a very long time, i know that lenya, to put it mildly, does not like the mass. holidays, especially in my honor, so i always congratulated him, either he’s on the ski slope, or he’s traveling with his family, i want to give you a gift, a small one, new year’s, it’s your birthday. in winter, that’s why we’ve been taking tagankas just these years, this is eduard hill, this is a little winter song by the forest at the edge of the forest, in honor of your birthday, let's just go at a pace like this, near the forest on the edge of the forest, winter lived in a hut, she salted snowballs, on a birch tree, she twisted yarn, she rocked... onto canvases, forged ice and over the river bridges, the icy ceiling, where the creaking

behind the stinging wall, the savory one, as soon as you step over the threshold, is everywhere, and from the windows there is blue vice, hey, happy birthday, i owe you a thank you. i can imagine, i just thought that those who are watching us now, yes, on the tv screen, i think the boys wanted to hide somewhere, apparently drunk, yes, ermulin ordered a song, yes, no, this is an absolutely sober impulse, but i honestly want to tell you this, and i have repeatedly, i will not forget, when i had my daughter, little violin, very little, and lena had a swimming pool , it was an incredibly hot summer, and lenya already had a swimming pool, right?

episodic suddenly lenya makes a barracks, there was such a film, this is the first production work of your barracks, no, the first one is the moscow vacation, this is the ninety-year moscow vacation - the comedian of our viewer is considered by most viewers as there is always such an absolutely serious movie here because you were associated with a massive tribute to your parents and after that i want to say you followed this line very well, both as a producer and as an actor, the picture was iconic because

i always say that for many years i played a truly turning point from comedies, i’m

in such episodes as either abnormal or criminals, and these are already such roles, well then, i say with pride, i’ll tell you myself, leonid dials me and says valera, listen, out of friendship, your song is needed in a movie, i really need a song, there’s no money, i say, like there’s no money, he says, well, you won’t believe it, todorovsky and i, everything, everything is in the picture. but you'll like the theme, boogie on the bones, that was originally supposed to be the name of the film that we all know and love, like a film by dudes, i'm giving away what i need, laziness, i officially want it. that the whole country heard, i know that the stripes did not enrich you financially, but you simply received enormous pleasure from the film and gave the audience the main thing, so the fact that i gave away for free what was needed in the film came back to me an innumerable number of parties after the release of the film, when again the interest is in who

dances the viken roll best, there’s no need to think about it, you don’t notice my beauty, i even allowed the words to be changed in the film, because it’s necessary, but still, it will be night, and you won’t spoil it for me, you’ll find out later,

it’s just the text, even if today i’m not... and let them tell you that i’m not, but give me this day, give me this night, give me at least one chance, and you ’ll understand , he is what you need, so, lyon, i just remembered about you, by the way, zhenya zhmargules somehow helped you. search, in my opinion, with us, if you already remembered about stelyak, then for a very long time, six months we were looking for this musical move, it was found, i think that lenya agutin will not be offended by me, the fact is that at first it was decided that lenya would write songs and music for this picture, and he, and he wrote about five songs,

these songs are alive, they are even in some albums in lenya, but... then something somehow we realized that there must be an associative series with this time and, naturally, with old hits, and came up with this move: zhenya margulis, here, whom i adore, whom i love, for me this is such an eternal blues shanghai, by the way, also mine, because it was in the kitchen of zhenya margules that he complained that it was very difficult to write lyrics for the blues in russian , because in contrast. in english it is much more difficult to listen to organically in the blues, and i actually had to write the blues shanghai, come on zhenya, special greetings to you, yes, yes, zhenya, she also had a birthday last december, though it’s not a round date, but they still sleep a long time ago, when we... didn’t care

what to drink, what to do, who to live with, time passed, hi-fi, we sang plyuzhek, and then about a major and everything, this is evgenia, hello, shulimychu, dear friends, you are watching the podcast melody of my life, i am its host valery syutkin. today my guest is leonid yarmalnik. tell me, this is an interesting moment for me. uh, initially the kvn jury, and then television projects, already with yours, which you personally, in fact, if i’m not mistaken, the el-club, which was invented by vlad listev, lenya yakubovich, me, and there was also

several people, i remember walking around this supermarket with a cart, something like that. yes, yes, yes, yes, no, this ale club was invented in a gazebo at my dacha, just when we got together, and it was all born, it was a program that lived on television for many years, brought me incredible popularity, well, from the point of view of recognition, and then there were a lot of programs, i remember this is what i call greed, you were there with golden hair, it was a gold rush, a gold rush. lasted a season or two, we played the gold put, real and ounces of gold were played, but you know, and the scenery was invented by sasha borovsky,

that is, it was very high quality, i must tell you that this program stopped running here, well, the time was very similar on television, there was no time for that, but several european countries bought a patent for this program, this time, the second time, it is very organic, you also ran bayart, you ran bayart for many years, yes, yes. about five or six years, it was somewhat similar, you had to participate, that is, you were both an evil and a good investigator, so to speak, if such that you had to guess something, so these were the projects, well, there are a lot of television projects, and television , of course, is very important in my life, and if we are talking about some kind of literal recognition of popularity, of course this is before and today. television gives, but what ’s surprising is that recently i’ve already started talking about it, so if you’re there once a week or there once a month or every week you’re on air,

then naturally absolutely everyone will recognize you, but as soon as you leave the air for what reasons? -for reasons, after one and a half to two months everything, everything, i have already encountered this many times, not me personally, i watched, as it were, the biography of my friends, informational occasions, for me, how to say this, an essay at school, what do you want to be, and a boy of about 12 says what i want to be my mother's phone, my mother's phone,

a phone, because my mother adores her phone, she turns it on as soon as she wakes up, turns it off when she falls asleep, and i want to be instead of a phone so that she adores me, and i read somewhere like this board, funny poem, mom is home, mom is not there, mom went on the internet, mom looks on the internet, what's new in this world, drinks coffee, moves her eyes, what's going on in the world, mom, i 'll tell you, i'm happening in the world, here we were happening in some real world, unfortunately , now save me, i don’t know how you fight with your grandchildren, i don’t fight, grandchildren are actually my new life, this is mine, well, i mean, here’s how you dose it, so share. they both have all these gadgets, they press buttons, naturally better than you and me, it’s incredible, but there are parents,

which do not allow children, say, to watch tv and tinker with gadgets, but i think that this is even, because without this life today is impossible, impossible, otherwise it is impossible to save, but pay attention like this, spend more time. you are, of course, a colossal grandfather, i saw that, sasha your daughter gave birth to these two handsome boys, they took up all my free time, i’m not shy, i’ll say that sometimes it’s even like a work schedule, well, what i can change, i change to suit their schedule, to see them more, to spend more time with them, you said that this is who you want to be, i remembered sasha abdulov, i think you know this story when he was in first grade?

the variety theater opened and now you are there and we are now there, dear tv viewers, where can you see leonid, of course we were a contemporary of you with marina, why was she?

you know that happiness is on, you love to give, so little chorus, i just work as a magician, this is another reminder that my guest is an adult guy, 70 years old, and what energy, look, oh, thank you, thank you, thank you, i'm flying to different lands, who knows where we will be tomorrow, i bring rain to the desert. i give out the sun

to good people, why, my friend, yes, because he didn’t teach life from textbooks, he just works, he just works as a wizard, a wizard, that’s exactly about you, okay, okay, thank you, and also, of course, these moments our joint parties, and i can’t even say billiards, we are united by lenya agutin, kolya rastorgoev, leonid ermolik, your humble servant, we love to spend evenings playing russian billiards, this is very disciplined and teaches you how to lose, i do not hide that leonid isakovich is a great master of scratching the game, sometimes he flies 1:7, hop, and 8:7 is not yours. his charming

wife oksana is always a lot of dogs. scotch terriers, this is such a signature, branded kidney, scotch terrier, they are probably already, well, unfortunately, you have left this breed now, no, there is, plato, of course, there is scotch, absolutely, this time, then there were. oh, of course, you also had what’s his name yegorych or what’s his name, but i remember from the construction site

who was left behind. so he stayed with us 17 years old, dogs always always, i can also note that lenya is the owner of absolutely unique cars, victory, yes, you have two, two, two of them, one taxi, yes, one taxi car with a metal roof, and one very rarely a convertible, of which there were only 14,000 pieces produced in the country, so it's perfect. not only because it looks like that, but right down to the wires, the only part that is not original is the battery, i’m not on the go, i’m driving and you periodically give them a hard time, well, yes, yes, but in the winter of course you can't ride them today's movement, and in the summer you get on kutuzovsky, on the reserve line, and yes, everyone is happy, everyone, here, here, here he is, a seventy-year-old young man, leonid.

lenya, we haven’t discussed another important moment in your film career, i won’t forgive myself if we forget it in the program, this is your participation and work with alexei german. i remember what sacrifices, this is not, not every actor can do it. you refused to work on television at the peak of television demand, there were such contract conditions, but there were no such conditions, you you know if. we remember, it was a difficult job lasting 14 years, but i can tell you that after time, my colleagues, my friends, can only envy me, because this is generally a separate part of my life, when we did this, this is a quarter of my life, because 14 years old, and of course this picture has become a classic, you are in some enviable shape in general, it was, it was, i pumped twice a

day. yes, well, because alexey yurievich said that he would like me to look like sylvester staloni, he is said, and then i went for a year and a half or almost 2 years... for one shot, there is one scene in the apartment, where i am without a piece of hardware, such a toplis, i even remember that... that valentinovich had a hafta in a joke on his side in the form of an epigram, and then he changed his attitude, it’s worth a lot, because he was a very tough person, then after such

large works, he’s straight to you, but i always, you know, even when there was the first epigram, who prompted me so much, i still, probably because of my... i say, if a gaft drew attention to you, be it an epigram, it can be considered a joke, but you’re happy, that means you exist, well, as a compliment, i want to tell you that the ease is extraordinary, we’ve known each other for half a century already, soon it will be, and i always dial lenin or phone or meeting face to face, i can note that...

are you so that people who are not suitable for you do not approach you, so that you, so that people who are not suitable for me do not approach me, yes, so that you got pleasure only from those whom you would like to see, and let all the misfortunes, people, of which there were many, throughout your seventy-year life, they will forever remain in the past, like the misfortune of a black cat, a twist of the times of nations, there lived yes... there was a black cat around the corner and the cat was hated everywhere, only the song is completely it’s not about how people didn’t get along with the cat, they say

it’s unlucky if a black cat crosses the road, but for now it’s the other way around, but for now it’s the other way around , only a black cat is unlucky, only... a black cat is either lucky, so let leonid lucky, dear friends, this is the year 2024, the year in which leonid yarmolnik is 70 years old with us, just think, i’m very pleased, i was lazy to spend this time with you all these long years, i wish you that you ’ll stick with us like... i can tell you that something, that i’m 70, i understand only when you remind me, i want to reassure the audience that i don’t care in the morning, until i looked in the mirror, i have a feeling that i’m 30 years old, so i’ll still work, i’ll be annoying,

and you’re already 70, oh, a slander, thirty years old, the flight is normal, happy birthday, thank you. hello, this is a psychic podcast and we continue to pull the thorns out of your hearts and smooth out the wrinkles on your loins, but at least we strive to do so. our today's heroes are parents of two years old, 3 years old and two. first, my mother, vera, came to us. vera’s request is, it seems to me, understandable, recognizable, how to raise children to be independent, happy, successful, but at the same time to preserve themselves somewhere, to leave themselves somewhere, it is not surprising that by the time

of our meeting denis was ready to come to our studio and discuss this problem as probably we need to discuss everything together, dad and mom, husband and wife, family psychologist, will try today. how to get through this labyrinth? vera, when you felt that it was all over, you couldn’t take it out anymore, you needed some kind of help. how did this happen? here you go. we had a son , at first with one child it was somehow not so difficult, and then, when mikhail was one and a half years old, we had a daughter, and since the girl was born premature, she needed a lot of attention, a lot of time, and of course , these are constants rehabilitation doctors, and i want to have time - so to speak, and give that older child all the attention, he also needs a mother, and of course he is still a year and a half old... he was very small at that time, plus such a child seems to

require a lot of attention , well, what were the last straws or some turning point when you realized that it seems that you need to deal with this situation, it seems that something is going wrong, well, the fact is that you are very tired and you seem to not you can do less and try this internal the race to do as much as possible, but you understand that you are no longer physically...

when you ate for the last time, it means that you fall asleep in the nursery, you understand that in this race you are not a winner, you are already with yourself, why can’t you i want his help, i’m a perfectionist and i really want some kind of ideal result from my point of view, so it always seems to me that i ’ll come now and do better this... this is this , this is how, how it’s necessary, well, olga,

as i understand it, there’s a lot here in one bottle what is mixed up, yes, a lot, yes, there is a desire to unload yourself, yes, but it contrasts with the desire, with the desire to do everything, to be good in everyone’s eyes, including in your own eyes, yes, the internal controller is exactly your controller, that is, it’s not a man playing the role here, yes, who comes and says, don’t you have 20 dishes prepared there? perhaps something could have been passed on to him

to do something there, but in the moment it is impossible to do it, now the body is already so exhausted like this, moving at such a speed that it’s just impossible to stop, yes, let’s try to continue this line now , so that we can cut it off later, if faith continued and will continue to persist in all denis’s attempts, at first persistent, then maybe more and more timid, she will give this rebuff. so good, how will it end? and most often, yes, most often it ends with the spouse distancing himself, you know what’s best to do, and i’d rather stand on the sidelines, yes, and he loses his initiative, that is, he will no longer offer, and then he will look for where to direct his internal energy, yes, that is, he would be happy to help, and where, then tanks appear, then... garages appear and there is a broken car or something else, so

it is very important to allow, very it’s important to connect, to allow yourself to help, because the main request, your request is about what, i want to allow myself to rest, i want, i want to raise what kind of children, independent , viable, viable, yes, i want. and now it is very important to show them that what they want is about, about education, about our life, then there is when i love myself. i teach to love myself when i teach to take care of myself, yes, i show them this, but if you always, always protect them, protect them, yes, then they will always rely on their mother, all the time only to to mom, to mom, to mom, describe it in a little more detail, yes, this is the day, how

is the wooing going, and how is the day, oh, well , our usual weekday, we are around 7:00, i wake up, i literally have 10 minutes there. in order to have time to wash up, get ready to wake up the children, and now i’m starting to get my husband ready for work, pack lunch with you, wake up your daughter, braid some braids, get dressed, wake up your son, and my son has a rather difficult character, he’s also probably similar to me in this, he’s quite an idealist, a perfectionist, and he’s like would require compliance with certain conditions, which are here, there, so that the spoon is exactly the one that is his favorite, there... for breakfast, so that they prepare him what he likes, so that the weather is good there, and there everything, if everything, something went wrong, that’s it, he’s no longer in the mood, he may not go anywhere anymore, you pay attention, yes, what mom says, even the weather influences, yes, that is, if the child has planned sunny weather, it should

be sunny, yes, yes, if we agreed to go by tram and suddenly it’s not there, we need to go by taxi, then this is already... yes, hysterical, look, while my mother says that he looks like me, of course, yes, he is very careful about how he looks, so that he is even, that’s all, so that he has a haircut, so that he said so, well, as the psychologist told us before in the garden, to kind of like him parents, he wants to look better so that his parents will like him - what is this about, a three-year-old child wants... his parents like him, that is, not unconditionally, it seemed to me that a child at 3 years old is something like that, well, usually, yes, this is something that is absolutely certain that the world is open to him, his parents love him, accept him, suddenly a psychologist pulls out of him that he has a task, yes, he keeps it in his head, his parents like him, well, we are

very we love misha and i spend, one might say, most of this time with him, especially now we always tell him. that we love him, that, but he has this, he finds out that his mother will come to the matinee, that’s it, he needs to perform in the front row, his mother will come, yeah, his mother will watch, he wants pride, he wants love at the behavioral level, speaking means conveying it in words, and the behavioral level is when the child unconditionally believes in what mom loves, yes, but what if mom only loves neatly. to be exactly neat, always neat, and that is, if something is untidy, he will perceive me as what, in this state mom doesn’t like it, if vera tells her son, then he will try, then he will try that you’re great, you’re good, you’re wonderful,

but at the same time, even without any comment, she quickly takes off his t-shirt, on which a small spot puts on another one. then he still gets it in his head that something was wrong, yes, she doesn’t scold him, mom tensed, mom tensed and the children read, like children even read with us, they read with us, here are two two levels, smile - this is one thing, a look is another, what do you mean? the child distinguishes whether the mother is sad or the mother is tense in the eyes, even who is lisping, touching, says, he will rely on vision, that the mother is still... says, not only that, if the mother is still like this, here tired, here smiling, the child will understand that it is because of me, me, that mother is tired, it is i who am to blame for her constant movement of fatigue and stress, so i will do what, i will strive to be good, to be, to strive

to be clean, tidy, that’s all , all the time, blowing away specks of dust, well, it seemed to me that if we don’t scold him, and he’s never reprimanded, it means that for some reason the child knows that if the weather is bad, with rain or wind, then it’s bad, he knows that somehow ... by birth, i don’t know, from literature, from cartoons, or because he, too, like a sensitive child, considered

some kind of, for example, mom’s disappointment in this weather, mom’s disappointment, i can’t realize myself, i promised the child to take a ride on the tram , uh-huh, we already painted this perfect picture, perfect picture, ah the child feels what he feels at this moment, i can’t do that. we have prepared everything, even when you make adjustments, we will wear boots instead of sneakers, yes, you are already starting

to do something, fuss, do something, maybe faster, something not planned, and the child reads this tension, they they’re just bundles of energy at 3 years old, intellectualization doesn’t work there yet, a child can’t explain and sort something out like we do as adults, but that ’s how he looked. on mom, mom a little bit tense, mom quickened her pace a little, mom started changing things a little faster so that the child wouldn’t get upset, and you both tighten this knot, and feeling each other’s tension, how interesting, is your daughter the same, no, our daughter is like that , she’s all on her own wavelength, she runs, puts on everything that was lying everywhere, everything that there are some hairpins, that is, she’s just cool, she woke up and she’s cool. yes, she is everywhere, she is ready to go anywhere, explain, two parents have the same, two different

children, but here you also need to look at that we are born with a temperament, yes, with a certain mindset, yes, it’s genetic and if the child is calm, that is , looks at his mother, the mother has a place to express tension, they express tension there perfectly, i will. what she does, like her husband, she pulls away, it seems, this is called avoidant behavior, this is called distancing,

yes, and avoidant behavior, that is, i don’t want that energy to be directed at me, they’re still like this... then they interact, they interacted like this before me and will continue to do so interact further, and i will watch this, i’m so calmer, i’m so more confident that... the thing is, you know, if a mother directs the vector of her tension at her daughter, the daughter is also lost and thinks, what should i do with to do this, my mother is so used to communicating with the elder, she is the same model, when she points it at me, i get lost, and i’d rather be there, let’s go with dad and boil the potatoes, while mom doesn’t see the potatoes, we’ll boil the potatoes, no, she, by the way , competes very much with her brother, that is, she is quite jealous of the fact that here, she needs it now. so that they would pick her up, she really looks at him like that, so they picked me up and i’m now in my mother’s arms, and there...