so it was necessary to react to him somehow, well , nikolai, as you already said, reacted in the manner expected of him, he summed up the scandal, taking into account the painful state of the unfortunate man, the government, in its solicitude, orders him not to leave the house to provide him with free medical benefits and in general he was under this house arrest -

in the hospital, along with other outstanding ones , he was also in the court of such personalities, there was a monk who cut off all sorts of places for himself, so chiodaev, the philosopher, and from that chiodaev they also tried to treat him and cast out demons from him and so on, well, from the chiodayev philosopher they also suspected him of some kind. in demonlessness,

so to speak, and also tried in their own way to drive these demons out of him. the greatest outrage among the reading public, among nikolai himself, there among uvarov, the minister of education, among benckendorff, was caused by a phrase, a paragraph, which was probably the most harsh, i will quote: peoples are moral beings, just like individuals, i will note in parentheses that he considered the moral law to be the main thread development of society and, in general, his philosophical letters are letters about the philosophy of history. first of all, and this philosophy of history is completely religious, that is , the moral law, the gospel law, yes, it is realized in history, in this sense it is a little reminiscent of the late schelling, probably, but these are different, other details, they are brought up over the centuries, as people are educated over the years, it can be said about us that we constitute, as it were, an exception among peoples, we belong to those of them who, as it were, are not part of the race human, but exist only to teach a great lesson to the world, these words are very... i will quote in different

contexts, opponents of the bolsheviks, disillusioned with russia because of the october revolution, will call this lesson to the world the october revolution, quoting chiodaev , in turn, critics of the tsarist regime will use this phrase in order to strengthen their arguments with criticism of the autocracy and so on, a very quotable phrase, but often taken out of context, but the fact is that chiodaev is really at the center it is the west that creates peace. it is europe, it is precisely this fragment that chiodaev will later refuse in the apology of a madman, which, unfortunately, none of the readers of the philosophical letter, the first philosophical letter published in the telescope magazine, read. here it is important to say that chiadaev’s legacy is not limited to the first philosophical letter, they know him first of all, but there were much more of them, there were eight of them, plus there was an apology for a madman and a number of unpublished articles, they very... gradually reached

reading public. in the second letter, for example, chiodaev developed the idea of ​​​​the superiority of catholicism over orthodoxy further. this letter would probably have outraged, maybe even no less than the first. he builds a philosophy of history, as i already said, a completely religious philosophy of history, in one of the letters, in my opinion, in my opinion, in my sixth letter, he contrasts aristotle with ipicurus, speaking of aristotle as one of the children of darkness, and epicurus materialist, despite the fact that he himself has a religious thought. chiodai in to a significant extent a religious thinker, yes, he elevates the materialists of epicurus to the peedistal, only here it should be noted that epicurus does not mean epicureanism, epicurus himself has a very relative relationship to epicureanism, since the highest joys for a person are the highest pleasure, epicurus considered aesthetic pleasure, but not bodily, but corporeal - this is hedonism, not piikureanism, and epicurus rather condemned this, so again this is a contradiction.

or something before russia, but no one during his lifetime, so to speak, chiodayev could offer an apology for this i learned for the first time that this was published, in my opinion, in provincial kazan in 1906, that is, after the first russian revolution, which means he wrote in this... an apology for a madman, i have long wanted to say, and i am happy that i now have the opportunity to make this confession. yes, there was an exaggeration in this indictment brought against a great people, whose entire guilt ultimately amounted to the fact that it was abandoned

to the extreme edge of all civilizations of the world. finally, perhaps it was an exaggeration to be saddened at least for a minute for the fate people from them.

this wit, especially, yes, not only the text itself, not the thought itself, even this kind of punch in the gut was, yes, without this wit, perhaps there would not have been such an effect, but the thought itself , and the fact that it

was so sharply expressed, it led to the fact that our people, well, thinking people, for the first time thought about the identity of russia, and... about its place in general in the world, about its future, about the fate of russia, further. yes, it was a painful blow, on the other hand, this blow gave impetus, a huge impetus to the development of this here are a variety of currents in russian social thought. it’s interesting that the apology for a madman that you quoted, he is much more nervous, energetic than philosophical letters, in it he, in addition to the fact that he apologizes, yes, he... for example, builds there, as if responding to criticism pushkin, simply an apology for peter i, which many westerners will later do, yes, he writes that russia still first of all belongs to the west, that the east, i quote, has its own history, which has nothing in common with ours,

inherent in it, as we have just seen, is a fruitful idea, which at one time determined the enormous development of the mind and which fulfilled its purpose with amazing power, but which is no longer destined to appear again on the world stage - keep in mind the placing of the spiritual principle in the foreground . by the way, chiodaev was also mistaken about the world stage, because now in the 21st century we see that the east, china, first of all, shows a new look. of its development, and chiodaev, of course, overestimated the colonial successes of europe, yes, decline east, deciding that this is a constant, yes, he was also mistaken here, but on the other hand, who can see the truth one and a half hundred years in advance, but chiodaev in her apology directly wrote her tasks, i just said, i only repeat, that it’s time to give up the clear a look at our past and not in order to extract from it old healed relics, old ideas absorbed by time, old antipathies with which have long been...

intellectual provocation, you can call it an explosion, you can call it whatever you want, whatever you want, in this case hertzin was right, who, therefore, made the comparison ...

everyone woke up, simply scolded the culprit, so to speak, of the scandal, the noise on the street, and then again the average man fell asleep, so osip mondushtam compared the trace left by chaadaev with the trace left by glass diamond, such a deep trace, i will cling to mandelstam’s metaphor, malshtam is a brilliant poet, this also manifests itself in prose, and even in his articles, when... with a diamond on glass, i think that few of our audience listeners

scratched glass with a diamond, here's the iron glass, yes, but when a diamond scratches glass, it’s also a very unpleasant sensation, yes, it doesn’t just cut it softly like butter, yes, it’s unpleasant, it’s painful, well, for the ear, yes, so this metaphor, it’s actually very working, yes, and at the same time this is a trace, this is a trace that is not impossible to erase, and this trace, i guess, so to speak, i’ll resort to the help of hertzin, he has these words: the sad and original figure of chadayev is sharply separated by some then a sad reproach against the lazy and heavy background of the moscow nobility, i loved to look at him among this tinsel nobility, flighty senators, gray-haired rakes of honorable insignificance, no matter how thick the crowd was. the eye found him that hour, well, in fact, this is how pyotr yakovlevich

chadayev remained, if you immerse yourself in russian history, then you immediately come across this figure, because he really is the only one, therefore, even in the galaxy of famous, talented and others persons characters in our story, chadayev occupies his special place, he seems to be standing in the corner, it seems, yes, but do not pay attention to him impossible. you don’t have to agree with chadadaev in his harsh assessment of russia, in which he was obviously wrong, in general we discussed this in some detail today, but on one thing i personally definitely agree with him, he wrote a beautiful thing - love for the fatherland, but there is something even more beauty is the love of truth. the most important thing he did was really. with his sharp criticism awakened public thought, which we also talked a lot about today, awakened the discussion of westerners and slavophiles,

which continues in different forms, in different guises to this day, today today, which makes different thinkers again turn to irritation, and even if his works leave only irritation, this is already an important factor, and chiodaev will probably remain such an irritating factor in our history, of course, it was a historical podcast. russia west on the swing of history you can watch on the website of channel one. i'm larisa guzdeeva, let's get married, good afternoon, today's brides are anastasia, valeria and victoria, and our groom is sergei. sergey 33 years old, by all means avoided intimacy with his wife, when he decided to openly talk about the reason for

his lack of treatment, he found out that she was not faithful to him. sergei is a brand chef for corporate catering, lives in... dreams of leading the michelin membership and singing on the same stage with grigory leps, is proud that he bought an apartment in an elite area, admits that he regularly pumps things from his closet onto a chair. sergei does not marry an arrogant careerist who is ugly and is friends with men; he marries an honest, economic brunette who knows how to listen, hear and agree. oh, my god, wow. i think sergei wants to marry you and me, so dear, don’t scald your hand, please, i still need your hand, or maybe she ’ll treat us later, give me your delicious food, they’re so pretty, varisa, hello, hello , blue-eyed sergei, why are you kissing me right on the makeup, please

varisa, i prepared this for you, a man who knows how to cook, this is generally wonderful, this is a coupon just for the kitchen, in general, look, this is... very beautiful looks very real very beautiful looks to me it seems that it’s delicious, my goodness, oh seryozha, even the questions that i prepared, i’ll probably keep them to myself, in short, i don’t understand what happened with you and your wife, and you were just as gallant like that... that’s all, not without this, but what happened suddenly with you, we’ll eat nothing, of course, of course, handsome, what can i do to you, how many children do you have? i have one daughter, yeah, i loved my wife, i loved my wife, yes, but unfortunately, we had to separate, after which it happened to you, it’s recorded in your head lack of attraction to his wife, this

is such a common story, every person, at least after a while , can... give himself the answer, i always knew why i stopped wanting my men, but look, it turned out like this - we were married 2 years, yeah, during these events, i lost my mother, i buried my mother 4 years ago, we survived it, but unfortunately it turned out that after a year i lost interest in her, both physically and spiritually, supported you, yes, yes, she supported me very much, for thank her very much. at first glance he looks very much like my ex alexander, the same kind of slicked-back hairstyle , tight pants, which i categorically just hate, come on good guy, look at your eyes, how kind they are, look, you can support, you can share this grief, but it’s impossible to cope with this on my own, i

couldn’t cope, i’ve been with my mother for 5 years, i couldn’t cope with it, but i’m saying for the fifteenth time that grief turned out to be for me... more intimate than talking about sex, i don’t allow anyone here in that part of mine, it’s even it’s not called suffering, that’s death, yes, yes, and you were probably also attached to your mother, yes, very much, well, that’s all why, the loss of a mother is really grief, it’s a big loss, and what she helped him survive this loss, this grief, this is the act of a really strong loved one, we survived it. loss, that is, uh, pain, it gradually faded away, of course, uh-huh, uh-huh, you probably know, after a year i somehow lost interest in it, both physically and spiritually, i didn’t see a doctor went, no, they didn’t ask, one day, well, somehow you know, everything gradually, gradually, i realized, this is not my person, look, what is the situation, she was visiting, well, we lived with me, probably,

compassion played most of all in me in terms of the fact that i wanted her it was a pity, but i didn’t really understand, what about you, a child? i’m now telling you about my second marriage, i’m wondering if he had any attraction towards his wife specifically or towards all women in general? tell me, were women attracted to other earrings? no, not to others? well look, when you understand, if the attraction has disappeared at all, then this is not even a bell, no, no, no, no, no, you don’t you don’t understand a little, that is, what i’m saying is that gradually i began to develop a reluctance towards my wife, naturally . the further i was from her, the more i began to look at other women, you can now explain to yourself after the passage of time what happened, except that you felt rather pity and compassion for her, but look, it turned out like this... the last one for a year we lived, well, that is, like neighbors, roughly speaking, questions began in my direction, because you are a man there, as i understood, and well, i had to do everything there, he says there

, my back hurts, there is something else, well , i understood, and then you went to your relatives or look, no, then my mother-in-law comes from krasnoyarsk, yeah, they ’re on vacation with us for 2 weeks, then we were all supposed to go to them in krasnoyarsk together, but we arrived, the first 2 days pass, i understand that there is absolutely zero attention to me, that i just came. he remained so faithful to his wife and really no one there, why, i just don’t know, men are much more patient than women, you mean, no, no, there are, i don’t think so, well, in general

, you left, in general, i left, well, i think, okay, that’s it, now they’ll go crazy , maybe she’ll come back , everything will be fine, but why would you want her to go crazy, to come back, you didn’t love her anymore, didn’t want her, you didn’t need her, what if suddenly, it could, that it would hurt me as a man, most likely, not. .. that all this time she was hurt by the fact that you did not react to her as a man, you know, as a couple, you can forgive anything, but when your partner doesn’t want you, if the couple doesn’t have this intimacy, itself, if your partner simply rejects you, yes, the worst thing for a woman is nothing, and for a man it’s the same thing... something unclean, or he entered into this relationship and initially understood that this was not his person, but he could not possibly admit it to himself, he deceived himself. arrives, starts packing things, says that i’m going to my sister, i need to live for a while, okay, i think it’s good, well, there again for a couple of days they'll freak out, everything will be fine, here she comes

not much later 3 days, in general she says: i need to come and pack a couple of things with me, and i have something to tell you, and it turns out that she didn’t live with her sister, that she lives with a man , as a matter of fact, i even know with whom, we even vacationed together, just like, you understand that this is a natural course of events, of course, more natural than if... she came to you and began to waste her best years with a man who doesn't want to be called what he fought for, yes, yes, she just tells you she untied her hands, nobly, she did not humiliate you with explanations of why suddenly you lost this desire, she, like a proud person, was the first to leave, that is, this is normal, this is normal, and i am absolutely grateful to her that she immediately confessed to me, because there are situations where people cheat and this happens for years, unfortunately, here i tell them a lot... thank you, i am grateful, if you care about a person, you go work with him, of course, apparently, she didn't care, it was easier for her to just take leave, everyone divorced peacefully, divorced peacefully,

yes, we support, there is communication there, why would there be any help there for me with something, for example, i can do that too, the purely important thing is that the relationship remains human, the main thing is to leave as a human being, that’s all , this is a modern trend now, seryozha, i didn’t quite understand something here, so here we have a chef, meshlin? suddenly a desire to sing with leps and shifutinsky, what is this? yes, that's my wish, right? that is, well, can you sing, or what? of course, but you're not dreaming about the big stage, i hope, and why not? god, i’m creative and multi-faceted , it scares me, that’s right, let the dream dream, and living with a dream is right, without a dream we’re nothing, an ordinary boy and well-groomed, but no, he’s not there, he doesn’t have the charisma, the charisma of this man i don’t have such a core, it’s missing, a wish? well, so that she doesn’t slurp, let’s see, that’s what you yourself wrote, so that she doesn’t communicate with the opposite sex in front of him, this is all very well, in an amicable way, so

we’ll look for a girl without going overboard, of course, nastya, i don’t even know, to be honest, i would like, you know, for you to have such a man, with no one, never pure, before that , yes, a white angel was pure, with whom he didn’t hold hands, i’m kidding, of course, that's good, let's meet the first bride, good luck, thank you, hello, sergey, hello, my name is anastasia, i'm from. novgorod brought a small gastronomic sweet gift so that our acquaintance with you would be as sweet as this gingerbread, thank you, very nice, let's go,

let's go. anastasi, 26 years old, marketer for several restaurants in nizhny novgorod, since 14 has been dreaming of going on a honeymoon to spain for years, is proud that she won a grant for the implementation of a city project, admits that she drinks soda every day and may not wash the dishes for several days. anastasia broke off the unhealthy relationship only when she ran into her rival at her lover’s entrance. i hope that sergey doesn’t... let third parties into his home and heart, hello, i’m glad to see you, i’m very glad to be with you, the most beautiful girls, thank you, we also have the most beautiful sunsets, listen, well, for me just an ordinary girl, a schoolgirl, yes such a schoolgirl, yes a student, since it’s summer, to freshen up a little, wonderful watermelon, wonderful, thank you, excellent,

i came with a watermelon. feed him right away, tell me, my dear, you can only survive this by being young, such a betrayal and such a blow, as you found out, this is generally incomprehensible to the mind, oh, i actually found out this when i accidentally, absolutely accidentally looked at my phone and saw photographs of this girl, already a woman, i would even say, of an intimate nature, although before that we were 3 years together, we began to live. look, the photo could have been there simply from the internet, for example, no, there was just correspondence, supported by photographs, videos, god, how sad it is to see, to find out that your man is cheating on you, thank god, there were no such situations in my life , i saw these photographs, i woke him up right away, and he didn’t even bother to deny it, he said, yes it happened, oh, lord, listen, there is one normal guy who doesn’t cheat, there is,

probably, we still lived in month. together, well, we tried to somehow solve this, then he already asked for forgiveness, but we broke up anyway, wait, you tried to continue the relationship with him after that, yes, more than once, there were two attempts, a month later we separated, and it so happened that another six months after that i decided that i love a person and am ready to forgive everything and return him, i went to a bookstore and accidentally saw his favorite book, i thought, probably, this universe is giving me some kind of sign, i bought it, early in the morning, brought it to work, left it like that it's a small surprise, but a beautiful card, that's all signed romantically, naturally, we didn’t wait long, he showed up in the evening, called, we met, decided that we should try, we need to give our relationship another chance, how can you forgive betrayal, how can you forgive betrayal, i don’t understand this either, it continued it was 2 months and he still went to see her, you knew about it, no? and we

met on his birthday, when at 12:00 at night i came to his entrance with balloons and a cake, at 00, i drove up to the entrance, got out of the taxi, and saw a girl who also standing with balloons, cake, who is faster, yes, yes, that’s it, i saw her photographs, i know what she looks like, and he was present at this meeting, but at 0:00 he came out, the three of us looked at each other , not my scene, silence, well... so i called a taxi and went home, he stayed with that one, and now with her, yes, or rather not like that, not sure, but i think that they are together, yes of course, you know everything and you keep track of everything on social networks, well, nastya, well, nastya, but she tried so hard for him, of course, we all follow our exes, i let him go, they let him go, but still sometimes she thinks so, oops, by chance, suddenly , by chance, really, by chance, sometimes she comes across him

somewhere in the recommendations, it would be that you, i read, are looking for a man, a girlfriend, why? it should be worked out in terms of personal growth and relationships, don’t you attend personal growth courses? no reason. let's move on, do you have your own business, or do you hold a management position? i hold a leadership position. well, this is where you pass, that's why. and you have an athletic body, go to the gym, but judging by your thinness it’s difficult to determine this. well listen, i'm a beer guy

tummy. i don’t see, well, that means it fits the criterion of an athletic body, and of course, why do i say: male girlfriend, you should love romance, dating, arranging surprises, giving flowers. potatoes, hammer a nail, you are an ordinary simple girl, you can even assemble furniture, what are her special requirements, she really doesn’t want cattle next to her, she wants a man to treat her with respect, with love, so that there are some , well,

sometimes romantic weekends, what you read, and i’m already in a normal voice i’ll read it, and where it doesn’t knock out here, but at the very beginning, give me a lot, look, if for example. ideal man, please, ideal man, handsome, taller than her and doesn’t wear glasses, with a sense of humor, smart, but not stuffy, you can talk about everything for hours, work but about personally, yes the leader from kinawa goes to the gym, doesn’t smoke cigarettes, nice smells, wears businesslike, likes a romantic date, likes to go somewhere with her , arranges surprises, gives gifts of flowers, knows what love is, is capable of love himself, honestly and... sincerely respects her and trusts her in everything, so what’s normal, what’s wrong? i would like to see the surprise, nastenka, yes, i prepared a surprise for sergei to show that not only what is written in

the questionnaire speaks about me, but also that i am some kind of elegant, beautiful cat, well, it seems to me that she did you like him, do you think, it seems to me, yes, her eyes are so bright and shiny, let’s see the surprise. oh, everyone is going crazy in their own way, i don’t remember who i am without you, here they are all going to these dance courses, wrote down just to forget about a lot of things, so that... my legs would tangle, what was wrong with me, wrong, at home, at home, almost always at home, if you want to talk to me, then bring me out,

why is everything so familiar, even if everything is foreign , my eyes were blinded by the sun, it’s still sub-ohm, well , everything’s great, just in a suit, who are these tigers?

the bones cannot be taken away, in short, it suits you, suits you, why? because the girl is simple, educated, works in your field, works a lot, rosa said that i ’m suitable for him, well, that’s it, i think it’s a success, i i think that you don’t have to look any further, you can go further, but let the girls go home, the main thing is just this, explain to her that let her be herself, and the girl is a good girl from a simple family, in fact, everything is fine, meet the second bride, come in,

sergei , hello, my name is valeria, and i think that our future with you has already begun, very pleasant, mutual. valeria is 25 years old, a fitness instructor, model, loves extreme sports and is not afraid of difficulties, dreams of opening her own business in the field of fashion and design. warns that the chosen one must definitely admire her appearance and culinary skills. her husband valery was so jealous of her that she needed her brother’s help to free herself from the marriage lips. she hopes that sergei will not keep her on a short leash. hello, hello, you can’t hold her back, such a fatal, red, bright girl, gorgeous eyes. did you get married early? at the age of 17 i got married, and this was my first love. but unfortunately, in the future , how old was he? he was 3

years older than me, that turns out to be 20 years old, well, everyone at that age is jealous, that is, this is normal did not have children in marriage? no, by the way, i really wanted children, unfortunately my boyfriend didn’t want that. valeria is not suitable for him, she is so impudent, so strong, but sergei is softer, calmer. i started working as a personal instructor very early, at the age of 15 i started training, at the age of 16 i was already basically working as a fitness instructor, later on... i trusted my body to a sixteen-year-old de look, i first started working as a group trainer, yes, i am a master sport of rhythmic gymnastics, i started over to work as a personal, not a personal instructor, but as a trainer of group directions, later, when i turned 18 years old, i learned and trained as a personal instructor, in a gym, please tell me, besides pathological jealousy, what doesn’t suit you in your marriage, first fact - this is very great jealousy, and sick jealousy, constant checks, even if he... is not in the city, he asked his brother, an acquaintance,

a matchmaker there, to come, just keep an eye on me, whether i was really at work, what time i left work and came, who started talking about divorce, i was the first to talk, of course, because i was not satisfied with the category of surveillance, that is, it was no longer a relationship, it was no longer dissolved, dissolved, some kind of abusive boyfriend, yes, what kind of surveillance is this, what kind of control is this, and he came to my gym and started throwing a tantrum at me in the sense that why did you start leading? personal training is not for girls, but for guys. and in front of the entire audience, he raised his hand to me, naturally, i cried, i went downstairs, locked myself in the training room, and more or less, of course, came to my senses, because a client was waiting for me upstairs, and i naturally continued with the training, but after that he gave a divorce, no divorce, he didn’t give it, and he categorically did not want divorce, he promised me that he would change, that everything would be fine, well, everything was just a typical story of the week genre. here he promises that he will behave well, a week passes,

the same thing begins, these promises will change, in fact no one ever changes, everyone remains as soon as everything gets worse. i wanted to completely change my life, to abstract myself from all my acquaintances, because many people knew us as a couple in the city and i decided to choose the city of yekaterinburg, because i have no friends or relatives here, at least none, to start a new life from scratch, you... had a young man with whom there was simply a mirror situation, like our hero, right sergei? yes, yes, that is, physics has disappeared for you, and for me, physics has disappeared with this a person you have in relation to him or he has to you, i stopped being attracted to him, because the man devalued me as a girl, he constantly told me that i seemed to lack femininity, he began not to notice me as a girl, that is, we began to live simply as brother and sister, as just some friends who were just roommates. it seems to me that every girl had her own abuser, her own narcissist,

listen, you are a master of sports in rhythmic gymnastics, i do the same only in figure skating, that is, with us sourdough, mom, i’m not upset, there are no former athletes, and i hear that you want to be some kind of girl, a doll, what kind of bullshit is this, when we wanted to be dolls, what’s wrong with you, in general he’s a normal man, if you are looking for a normal person, he... wants to meet a woman, an adult, well, well , definitely not a daddy, yes, you are looking for a daddy, she cannot be not a girl, not a doll, because she is strong, you like him, sergey, of course, you would move to st. petersburg, and by the way, i have had a childhood dream move to st. petersburg, here’s my dear, seryozha, here we have a bride, she’s right to the point of shaking, that means scattered socks and a toilet seat, which is not this one, you hope, well, i usually have things... but what about the toilet seat, i have it

it can be lowered, but it can be like this in any position, it’s just this one lowered, well, there’s mendelssonchik, and what do the modern rules of etiquette say about this toilet seat, well, the rules of etiquette don’t often look directly into the toilet, but nevertheless everything is there just whoever raised the toilet seat, then you should have it omit, generally an ideal solution if there are two in the house. picked him up, he let him go, surprise, of course, i have no problem, it’s expensive, expensive, who thinks that a girl, in principle, should not surprise a man, especially on the first date, but why is that, but i collected some some of the products, and i would like

to invite you, sergey, to the table now so that you can show me, and i will gladly agree to stand with you and help you with a master class, which of the products that... i have gathered here with us, great, come in, i would i wanted to ask you to also take a watermelon, let it be like the cherry on the cake, but with a watermelon , i think we’ll start, my watermelon, imagine sergei decided your watermelon sergei gave my watermelon to valeria, we’ll prepare a salad with you, yeah, i can already see, it will be ala greek exotic, maybe with bacon, by the way, bacon, we’ll have everything there, so accordingly, let’s throw the salad here, yeah, have you decided? what kind of salad will it be greek will it be a salad in an exotic style with watermelon and orange that’s why blow bye i'll probably start slicing the watermelon so great come on have you ever made a greek salad with watermelon and no i haven't but there's a first time for everything no it's your gift why is he eating watermelon with another girl

and what ingredients do you have there and something i i don’t see, but we still have olives here, cheese and olives , bacon, mint, orange. i see, guys, a life hack so that the pine nuts in the salad have a brighter taste: in an empty frying pan , fry them a little with honey and red hot pepper, just a little red honey pepper, they will have a very beautiful color, golden, and such a spice goes wonderfully together, just crazy on top , they will also be a beautiful color, i adore pine nuts, i also throw them in the salad, the highlight of the salad, exotic, and we have bacon. yeah, that's what it adds, but what did you pour it on? we add vegetable oil and honey , well, cucumbers too, of course, let’s probably leave the cucumbers, i won’t eat it, everything is needed there, in principle, i think cucumber won’t fit here, very much so, i think it’s the best the enemy of the good, it seems to me that this is necessary stop, you don’t have to

put everything you have in this salad, dude, you shouldn’t be allowed near michelin at all, and this is a bride, bride, bride in the room, give it, girls, take it to your room, you’ll try it there and tell me, give it, give it back, to be honest, i wouldn’t eat this salad, they mixed a lot of things. mendelssohnichka, what would you call this salad? well, this is a short story, everything that happened, i would call this salad a titanic, and such an iceberg, any city will break, the issue of raising a chair will not be an issue for a week two. listen, well, of course the salad turned out the most important thing so that later you don’t end up in the toilet, how do you like the bride, how do you like valeria, well, we have a bright girl, and you can feel her creativity, in principle, but she didn’t stop you while you were doing this salad,

that is, i conclude that she doesn’t know how to cook, well, look what a wonderful salad she prepared, but it smells like michelin, i don’t know, this is not my type and it seems to me. then if we compare some of your other men, well, it’s a little different, but we still have one bride, come in and meet me, hello, my name is victoria, hello sergey, i hope you will teach me how to cook michelin-starred dishes, with pleasure! victoria , 28 years old, owner of an african braiding salon, lives in sochi, loves to sleep until lunch and listen to loud music, is proud of the fact that she cooks borscht perfectly,

they warn that she does not like pieces of food left on the plate. victoria believed that the relationship with her lover was being spoiled by his parents, but the cause of the discord was by no means related. communication, hope that with sergei she will be connected by sincere feelings. hello, hello, tell me about the hell you had to endure due to your husband’s love for his parents. at first, at first it was, as it seemed at that time, an incredible relationship, i came, they have a good, wealthy, decent family, a well-mannered son, it seemed at that time, but he was well-mannered, introduced me to his parents. immediately literally asked me to get married right away, i told us there was no hurry right away right away in a week, you can say, fatal beauty, you know, i’m victoria like. i think that something might work out between them and sergei, but he wanted to meet my parents himself, we went to my house, it was already months, probably

after five relationships, he just went straight, let’s go, i agreed, i think, well if a person wants to, then you need to introduce him, let's go, you got married, no, we didn't get married, thank god, we didn't get married, we met with our parents and came here, i see that somehow everything is going wrong, but not here... that he called his parents every day, and his mother, every day, he probably called his parents. i don’t know, 5-10 times a day, it was there, we were driving for about 20 minutes, during these 20 minutes dad would call twice, mom twice, grandma, grandpa, another grandma, it was just that the whole family was involved, but you need to communicate with your parents , go to visit them, of course, go to each other, but when you are 24:7 under the control of your parents, i don’t know, it seems to me that his parents knew everything about us. that’s literally everything we did there, where we went, i have one good friend who is now a secret from my mother, she is on vacation abroad, is doing renovations in her apartment, if before i

just loved him, now i respect him very much, in general, a son, love for his mother, in particular, yes, for the family, this is great, you have to be wary and keep an ear out when your son has a bad relationship with his mother, with his parents, then this is a wonderful sign, the fact that he invites you into the family for... intentions, well, as it turned out later, he not only invited me to his parents right away, he almost invited every girl to marry through 2 weeks, this came to me later, when we broke up, his friends started telling him, to his parents, this means he has serious friends, you know how much they tell you, but i ’m sure that this is true, because when we started dating, all the girls he had were bad, that is, this is bad, this is bad, it offended me, medelson, my dear, please tell me, is there a custom of avoidance somewhere in the world? communication with the parents of the chosen one? yes, many natives in australia and oceania are so polite towards their mother-in-law

that it is better not to intersect with her at all. for example, among the australian tribe wachande there is such a system. as soon as the young man sees his mother-in-law approaching him, he literally rushes into the bushes, otherwise he may lose his luck. but i still have more questions about...

my mother works for me, but i don’t want to do it like my mother, listen, well, she says that she doesn’t want to work, she wants to sit on the neck of a man who will be her just give money with full support, but how can you go about your business so that degradation does not happen to you, i can also work, i have my own salon for afro-weaving, but or i’m with’.