i want to become famous, but what if suddenly i become famous, but in brazil and no one will ever know in russia that i became the most famous brazilian, leading, how would it still be just as good for me or would i still want it there will be a condition, let’s say, you will need to sign a contract, yes, in which you are such a shadow, and this is a shadow success, yes, you will do something, you will achieve everything, but this is such a secret, no one will ever know on what machine you go, no one will ever know how much you earn, no one will know that you are at the head of this business, well, this could happen, and if you are still interested in it, then it is definitely yours, then you will be ready to move mountains for this, but if there is still something to be said if there is a classmate who should see and fall into a frill with envy, then with a high degree of probability you will not impress her, because she will always devalue your experience, your result, and most importantly, you will not get it. this prize, you

will not be happy there, because there you will never it won’t be enough, well, yes, i can’t say that this is very interesting for me, but what is interesting is publicity, media exposure, fame, these concepts, well, okay, this can also be in brazil or there north korea, you will be the most famous in italy somewhere, no, maybe in italy, but no one will know you there, except, well, in the sense of an italian. they will know you, my children will know, my husband, then this is for the children and husband, well, yes, why do you want to show them this, well, this there is a phrase so that they are proud of me, so that the children sit and watch, oh my mother and they show it here, they don’t appreciate it at all, they don’t appreciate it at all, they don’t appreciate it, imagine, i still believe in this illusion that what will happen... appreciate that

this will somehow inspire them, go forward, motivate them, look, this does not mean that this should not be done, you just have to understand that these people will never appreciate it, you know, it seems to me that this is at least i will have an important awareness after today’s meeting with you about the syndrome an impostor in general, i never thought about the fact that an impostor, he doesn’t feel like he’s an impostor, and about... about the fact that if you expect some kind of assessment, approval from someone, then you definitely won’t get , just get used to the idea that you will never get anything from these people, the main thing is that you will be in such a stupid position when you will bet your whole life on this so-called classmate seeing this, someday fainting, and she either won't see or won't fall, and you'll just end up in the feeling that you have lived your life. for

someone, you know, i remember, for example, myself in childhood, when i was in school, some students came to our teachers, there, well , who graduated from school 10 years ago, and these are some guys , yes, we are conditionally 12, and he is 22, he came from the army in uniform, conditionally i am visiting, i then dreamed of being a naval sailor, and i, of course, imagined that one day i would also come to my home school, which means uniform, of course, must be a captain. but this is the feeling that i definitely these will be my steps there along the school corridor when some guy comes in, this will be me, to whom i am proving something, i won’t be in the class at that moment, some other children will be sitting there, they’ll look at me and say who this is, maybe, of course, they’ll somehow admire me. but it

won’t do any good, so when you suddenly realize that the goals that you set for yourself, they should simply be interesting to you, they should inspire you. they must be yours for real, that they must realize your values, yes, for example, inspiration - this means that you know why you will do this, well, for example, i will create a big business in order to be able to help people in my hometown, let’s say, open a kindergarten there, which will be absolutely there, i don’t know, free, accessible, with a french slant, with a mathematical slant, it doesn’t matter, but i ’ll do it, i’m doing it in order to do this. have a vision of some kind of mission, for the sake of which, yes, that is, what will happen, even if you are gone and no one knows that you did it, well, apparently that’s why i don’t have this yet, because i don’t understand what, that is, success is a bonus that no one will appreciate, it doesn’t no one needs

it except us, everything is there, period, one day many years ago a girl came to me, whom i had known for quite a long time, she came to me for a session, and i asked... how are you doing? she says: it’s bad, and i say: listen, i saw you recently on a social network, yes, i say, everything is fine with you there, she says: and you saw someone who was doing poorly, then for me it turned out to be consciousness, i suddenly realized that it’s true, this is such a vanity fair, where everyone shows that supposedly everything is fine, here’s a man sitting in front of me, for whom everything is bad, but on this social network he tells everyone how to build relationships, for example, with men, let’s assume, right? and before that i had never thought about the fact that all these social networks are needed in order to speculate, this is also possible, well, this must be clearly understood, i am there with the help of these i sell social networks, then there’s what i ’m selling, one thing is i’m selling my services, another thing is i’m selling the idea that successful success is very important, well, that is, it’s

a soap bubble that still somehow works, but in general, the context is already clear, well , in general, you need to understand that this is just a tool to achieve some goal and... i felt something, yeah, yes, but it happens in different ways, i myself also kind of did that when well, a man comes and says: listen, i didn’t like something there, and what i didn’t like, well, i didn’t like it, because everyone there is kind of pompous, everyone there is kind of arrogant, everyone

there is kind of, i say, so it turns out that you don’t like the people you strive for, well , it turns out like this, well, it just seemed to you, that they are pompous, but somehow... it means you don’t love them, but how do you turn out to be the same person, it turns out that you don’t love yourself in all this, and for me this is a very important mental material that needs to be dealt with work, because a person must first accept that they will say exactly the same things about him the same thing, when he gets there, this work takes a lot of a person’s time, so when you look, for example, at the people who are there bigger, better, somehow differently, yes, your task, yes, your the task is to see what they will say about me when i am there, yeah, to be honest, of course, but as long as this is important to you, you will not come there, you need to look at these people only for this, so that

discover yourself inside these beliefs that may not let you in, and i wrote some time ago, even a video i had some kind of content - that when we want to be, conventionally, it is now fashionable to say, from point to point b, we do not have enough faith in point b for one simple reason: i, the one in whom i believe here, now, today, here i am, sergey, there is such and such, such and such, yes, i don’t believe that i can be the way i will be there at this point b. i don’t believe in this money, i don’t believe in success, i don’t believe in myself, who may be there, and this is also a very difficult job, so if you look at someone, only to to see how you... will look through the eyes of people who have never been there, uh-huh, this is important, it turns out to track your reactions, yes, because it is these reactions that will stop you, well, i think they stop me in some way - to the extent that, well

, it turns out that everything goes over the heads, or as they once told me, why do i say that now i have diametrically different paths in my head, what and what to choose? such a split occurs because one day it really hurt me, i was told that i felt like a man, and it became wild to me. at that moment, i’m specifically now thinking about the fact that maybe it’s really there in big business, but conditionally there’s where i want it, it’s like this, that is, these are not women, in fact, they have more masculine energy , rather than female, then why do i want to go there, if i’m offended by the fact that they called me that, it feels like you don’t need to get somewhere there. vice versa