unpublished, this is what awaits readers in the near future, maybe new texts, maybe new interpretations, what will be in the collected works, and what will be the fate of the readers’ money, what will change, this is the forecast, it will be possible to give something new in principle, no , what will be new, how do you think the fate of babel will develop in the second quarter of the 21st century, i hope that it will develop happily. but we will make efforts to this, but if we talk about the collected works that are now being prepared, it is yes, it will be, well, maybe the most complete, five volumes, five volumes, but due to the fact that everything known and identified today in the epistolary heritage of babbeli will be published, and let texts that are never, well, in books, be included.

documents, yeah, a lot of documents, that ’s right, conormaic ones, and naturally, this will be a commentary that will take into account the experience of predecessors, modern ones, of course, well, our respected interlocutors, you can be sure that the new five-volume collected works of isaac babel will be interesting important, a lot of wonderful discoveries await you, today we talked with... with the head of the work on the collected works of babel at the institute of world literature, senior researcher at the institute of world literature of the academy of sciences elena iosifovna pogorelskaya. i thank you, dear elena iosipovna, for this wonderful conversation. thank you, i'm sure we'll see you again on our podcast, i tell you, our dear friends, as always.

have fun, hello, dear tv viewers, you watch the labtiger podcast with you its host, tatyana krasnovskaya, psychologist and psychotherapist sergei nasebyan, our guest today is svetlana. hello, hello, svetlana, tell us how we can be useful to you? i have such a request, i already want a relationship, if i didn’t want it before, now i already feel that i want it, i’m ready for a relationship, but i can’t build a relationship, moreover, my life has been there for the last few years , well, men don’t come at all, that is, they don’t even just appear in my field, so that at least at least somehow interact with them, so i have this request, that you give me...

a cry from the heart, because well, for the last 10 years i understand, it’s really possible to directly figure this out, because well, i really don’t there, starting in 2014, when i broke up with my ex-husband there, my common-law husband, so i took, well, several dozen paid training courses there in psychology, i thought that my relationship was not building because there were problems with my parents, yes, there were some open topics with my parents, so i i worked very deeply with this. then it seemed to me that i had a program myself, with which i also worked and also would not help build relationships there, then it seemed to me that i was not feminine enough, i also worked in this direction, this is obvious, and it seems to me that today, i’m already , well, so, well, not ideal, but it’s loudly said that i’m good enough to build a relationship with a man, but here they are, but they just don’t even appear in my field, that is, there’s no desire. or something, well, here i am

i don’t understand, really, i can’t do anything to push them away, they should appear, but where are you looking for them, let’s do this, maybe you’re not looking in the right place, recently i registered on a dating site there, well, to be honest, i’m there to find something... then it’s decent there, you probably need to go there, well, go a certain amount there, and dig, well, well, even this is the situation, even if they appear there, yes, that is, conditionally, there is a man who, well, kind of likes , yes, well, well, i like it so much, well, visually, yes, i like it so much that i can somehow get involved with him some kind of meeting, a relationship, and somehow it all seems to begin, then all of a sudden it just merges, that is, well, well, somehow, there was another case when a few years ago i met a man, there there was a certain

party where there were a lot of interesting men, i met a man there, it was new year’s eve there, and well, we exchanged phone numbers, we seemed to like each other. so we separated , then he said that i would call you there, he called me the next day and said that he was leaving there for a few days there he will return to his friends and call me and we will meet, well, he came back, yes, he called me, said that he is not ready for a relationship now, he is going through some of his own transformations, so he merged again, oh well there have actually been a couple of other cases like this, well, that is, well, i don’t understand why it’s like this now. when will you have a man, not if, when, how will your life change? well, i’ll probably become a little more relaxed, or something, and what will he bring into your life, what will appear? relaxation, well, although now my

heartbeat has started to feel like it’s a simple question, but it’s like my heartbeat has somehow increased, you have children, you have a daughter. oh yeah, how is your relationship with her? beautiful, really, i have a wonderful child, she is very wise, well-developed beyond her years, just a great relationship, well , of course there are some teenage nuances, but they are so very superficial, when you have a man, how will your life change with my daughter, well, my relationship with daughter, they probably won’t exchange, she ’s like that with me, well, she’ll understand everything, i think, well, most likely, i assume that this will be his territory, because previous relationships were on my territory, i’m more of this this definitely won’t happen, my daughter is already quite old and i

think that if she wants to stay there, well, live here where we live, but i wouldn’t mind, because well, i understand that she won’t do some stupid things, but i want it... to be adequate, a normal man with whom you can build a harmonious relationship, and what are you like in a relationship, then when i was in a relationship with my ex-husband, yes, well, i was then, well, well, let’s say, not very good, yes, then yes, i was touchy, i was, uh, i had a lot of complaints, well, because , again, there were some unexamined issues with my parents, in these relationships... well, i behaved, maybe not very nicely there , yes, that is, he behaved ugly towards me, i behaved ugly towards him, in the end that’s all it ended up that we separated, and then there was no relationship as such, so i don’t understand, i would be glad to interact in order to better understand what i’m like in a relationship, so that

there would be some kind of feedback, but no, besides , that you go to trainings and work through childhood traumas, what else do you do, you work, yes, yes, i work. in a leadership position, that is, you are surrounded by men, yes, well, married, well wait, men, yes, they are, there are, yes, and you are there, there are, you, accordingly, have men, as in horizontal format, uh, communication, so in a vertical sense, subordinates, managers, yes, that is , men are everywhere, here we are at 180° 360 in general in the sphere, that is, they are everywhere, yes, great, but... but there are dating site, okay, there are some, probably some kind of activity of yours that go beyond the scope of your work, there, i don’t know, walks, maybe sports, maybe going to restaurants, there are men everywhere, well yes, yes, yeah, so you want to say that none

of them pay attention, but even if some married men pay some attention show, then i kind of don’t accept it. and married men show attention, as if in what context? in your opinion? well, i think it’s more like some kind of sexual interest, the question is all closed, well, yes, probably yes, i know, i know how, i practice, it’s called, it’s good, and that is, you are attractive, and it’s kind of undeniable, you have so to speak, this is confirmation, well, married men are attracted, yes they are, but if we remove the sexual context a little, move on to the next one, it’s so psycho-emotional, where relationships are built on intimacy, well , that is... where those same emotions, feelings, uh, you want to say that

men don’t show themselves there, well, yes, yes, yeah, okay, now let’s look at it with this side, and what is it that you are hiding from the world and from men, that they don’t see it, you show your sexuality, it’s obvious why and how you don’t show feelings, emotions, well, because, probably, now i don’t know, now the word danger came, that this is dangerous, well, this is really dangerous, but what’s dangerous about this now i’m like this, well, this is the state, but unexpectedly for me, here’s a simple question, for some reason i want to cry, you’re crying, well, i don’t know, about a year and a half ago i went through some kind of practice, where at the level of the soul i had to call on the soul men, i called yes then... when he came, my body was so tight, and it was such an animal fear, well,

as if, that if he comes, well, a man comes into my life, then something will definitely happen to me happens, what is happening to you now, well, i feel better, as i said about this, i remembered, this was my first relationship, the very first one... then it seemed to me as a twenty-one-year-old girl that, in principle, everything was fine with us, so, but at some point there was an incident, well and i decided to leave this relationship, my boyfriend was categorically against this, well, at some point, when we had a verbal altercation there , there was a threat to my life, but then i almost said goodbye. life, because it was very difficult for me to breathe, i could no longer move, you know, don’t try yourself

calm the light, and just watch your body, and what’s happening to it, just all the sensations in the body that happen, you don’t need to describe them, but just come back to me here through the body, well, that is, there is obviously a connection between that story and your fear in front of a man, yes, but i didn’t even remember. that there was such a situation there, that is, i remember some other thing there, a little this one, but i didn’t remember what was there, well, they remembered, i remembered, yes, and that’s good, yeah, look, this situation doesn’t necessarily have to i repeat, what decision could you make then, when in the end you survived, well, you gave up, essentially, you resigned yourself, you stayed for a while, as i understand it, in this relationship, what decision did you, well, yes, there are 4 days left, because he was there, he just didn’t let me go, i

really sincerely loved this man and, in principle, all this was normal until at one moment somehow everything turned upside down and he just suddenly became from a normal person there beast, what decision did you make? what kind of person do you have to be so as not to to provoke again into such a situation, that it is dangerous, that a man is dangerous, probably, yes a man is dangerous, uh-huh, that means what kind of person you have to be so that this never happens again, well, probably stay away from them, well, so independent, and independent, free, well, yes, yes, that’s how he is, right now , that’s exactly who i am, yes, and only a married man needs someone like that, well, probably, but what about you? very comfortable in this sense, beautiful, sexy, attractive, you can have sex with you, but don’t

build a relationship, because it ’s like, why, i say, everything is fine with you, well , yes, yes, i agree, he has some kind of relationship with his wife, you got married after that, i didn’t marry, well then there was a civil marriage, it was not an official marriage, well, probably, again, for various reasons, at that time he was officially married, so... even when he was already divorced, i no longer wanted, that is officially, so that it was a connection, probably, well, probably for the same reason, yes, yeah, because i understood that at any moment i could... well pack him things and say goodbye to everything. and how many years were you together? and we were together for 4 years at first, then we broke up for some time, but since the child was very worried about this breakup, i decided to take him back, which i very much regretted, because well, well, there were no normal people there anymore. relationship, so we

lived like this for another 3 years, then i finally packed his things and kicked him out the door. how long do you think you were in this relationship? oh, i was, it seems to me, in these relationship for exactly a year, while we had a candy-bouquet period there, when he looked after me beautifully, behaved there, well, let’s say, well, so as soon as i became pregnant, as soon as this stormy everyday disappeared from our lives sex, it naturally changed dramatically, and at that moment i already understood that this man, well , he wouldn’t be in my life for long, that sooner or later, that it was only a matter of time when... we would part, because it was quite an irresponsible person, and well, of course, i understood that this would not last forever, well, it’s just a matter of time before we part, you’re watching the triggers podcast, its host tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan are with you, we’re talking with svetlana about what

fears a beautiful, successful woman might have before a relationship with a man, but tell us, how were yours built? relationship with dad, it was a rather cold relationship, dad was so very cold, to the point that if i was there as a little girl running to his lap, he would push me away and say not there now, i’m now there i watch football, like, or busy, it was the kind of relationship where he always told me that you can handle it yourself, you can do it, you can handle it yourself, no matter what request i came to him with, that’s in general -he got the result. i heard only one thing, that you can handle it on your own, you ’re great, there, dad, help here, you’re a punchy girl, you can handle it, dad, you can help here, i can’t, you can handle it on your own, well , all the time, that was such a moment, and yes, i really coped with everything myself, so and naturally, as if i had resentments towards my dad, because somehow he helped my older sister, but it was as if

he raised me like a boy, that you can do everything yourself, but how did you explain this to yourself , why such inequality, why sisters? helps you, no, well then, little girl, i thought that dad just loved her more than me, so over time i, why, why, why did he love her more than you, because she was kind of quiet so modest, all like that, and i was like, wow, there’s a sister there bite, beat your sister, act out there , apparently, he believed in you more than in her, it’s just, well, maybe, yes, but no, in general it’s very difficult to be the father of a girl, well, really, because - who doesn’t teach how to do this? do, but many men want boys there, i don’t know, or they think that a girl needs to be raised there, i don’t know, in strictness or vice versa, pampered, it doesn’t matter, they don’t know how to show their love, they don’t understand where this measure of adequacy is, now i ’ll spoil her a little more, that means she’ll grow up

capricious, or am i the one who will give her as much love as she needs, so dad is very lost in this, but this is about... well, how do men understand that this is a man’s world, in it men have a lot of things to prove, explain, show , and men often cannot relax in a relationship with a girl, yes, tell me, you grew up like this, well, maybe to some extent in a boy’s shell, yes, i’d like to say why, in the context of a boy, and you for example, on the street, at school, did you feel that your dad was protecting you? no, i don’t feel it, well, this is it, probably, this is one of the most important questions that i really wanted to ask , because it was obvious, a man in himself is an object and such an object of danger, anyone, well, just how to say, by the right of force, yes, well, yes, i agree,

when are you looking for a strong man to feel protected? it’s like, well, when you’re strong, at some point you don’t know what to do with this strength, it breaks out into all sorts of, well, aggressive behavior, and unfortunately,

there are quite a lot of animals in our behavior, well, let’s remove this accusation of women now, it ’s not me, it’s darwin, it’s just a question of what kind of woman you need to be in your opinion in order for you to cope with this potential aggression, well, in my opinion you need to be... easy, let’s say, well be gentle with a man, don’t contradict him, don’t be rude, don’t be rude, well, that is, everything like that, what did i do when i was 21, yes, what did i provoke all this, i understand that i provoked it, well, again, yes, i will repeat, i pumped myself up in this regard too, what if i behaved there before differently, then now i behave differently with men, yes, i see there feedback from the same colleagues who began to treat me differently, yes, i see there, i don’t know, there from the same neighbors, yes, who there, well, treat me differently, yes, like a woman, that is, not like the man who

is there, hello, hello, as it used to be, yes, well, differently, that is, me another, i have changed, that is, i understand that i will not use the methods that i used before, you know, when you will watch this program, look at the fact that your complexion and facial expressions have now changed a lot, so... and your complexion has even changed, that’s why i say, watch it when you do, thank god, there is a recording, i can directly feel it in my body , yes, it just relaxed, i’m even sitting a little so relaxed, in this relaxed state, i’ll invite you to ask yourself again what will change in your life, when a man appears, i’ll be happy, and that’s the only thing...

about that that being is more important than having, yeah, that's it here, not feminine, not there, i don’t know, smart, cunning, something else, yes, exactly happy, uh-huh, uh-huh, because as soon as you become this source of happiness, a man appears who wants from it’s great to draw from this source, in fact, if it’s also a source of happiness, you’ll also want to draw from it, yes, that would be great. such an important part, and then it will create - a very, in my opinion, important thing , such a concept in relationships as

distance, everyone should have a healthy, correct distance in relationships, yeah, towards me some time ago a couple came to me in a serious crisis, and i talked to one, the other, they ask what we should do, i say, i don’t want to tell you what to do, you need to work, well, at least they tell me what what we should do, i said, you know, turn away from each other, run without looking back, at the moment when suddenly you have a desire to stop and look back, this will be the distance from which you can start looking at each other, because this a distance where you do not hurt each other, but before at this moment you can’t be near each other at all, i don’t know whether they listened to my advice or not, that’s their question, and you are thus, in general, a person who, well, bears

responsibility, well, that’s when you , for example, say that i will no longer build relationships on my territory, this is about distance, that you need space in which you feel this freedom to maneuver, that is, pack your things and leave, in essence, but that’s what you’re talking about, what to drive out and the hare couldn’t get out of the forest, get ready to leave, you’re watching the podcast triggers, with you are its presenter tatyana krasnovskaya and sergey nasebyan, we are talking with svetlana about what fears a beautiful, successful woman might have before a relationship with a man. what makes you happy today? today, well, communication with my daughter fills me up, i really love sports, i love sports. a lot in my life, here i am, well, i have some of my own themes that i love there, you feel good with yourself, i feel good, yes, i......

feel good with myself, i feel comfortable with myself, i i really like solitude, so i used to think that maybe because i i really need so much of this solitude, maybe that’s why the man is there, i’m afraid that he’ll be there, like, stealing this time from me, and i won’t be able to be alone there myself, but, but this is not so, the man is not suitable because dangerous, because he also feels that there is some kind of tension there, there is some kind of danger, i would even say now that there was danger. you know, i conduct social experiments with people, and one of my favorites is, you know, i’m on the subway, and i see a girl, for example, standing, well there she’s 30 years old, it doesn’t matter, she’s 26, well, depending on age, i ’ve been conducting this experiment for 20 years, there she stands, looking like this...

right in front of the subway window, you can see she wants to get married , that’s right, it’s not to be confused, i’m approaching and i say hello, can i get acquainted reaction in 100% of cases no, i’m with men there , like i’m unfamiliar with the subway, well, someone like that, i understand that she stood and dreamed not of a bald little fat armenian, i understand she dreamed of a handsome viking who would sail on a boat and take him away her thiefs. heaven and there they are they will be in white, she, he, and the children, all in white, of course, and their dogs will be white, and the swings will be white, everything in heaven will be like this, here i am and with my bald head there, and i’m trying to get acquainted , it’s so interesting, because, well, how can i say, this is such a reaction, as if it protects her, of course, and makes it untenable, even some next step, well, on my part, yes, because she

refused right away , here... in this sense, firstly, i think that as far as dating sites are concerned, this is more than the norm, i now even i was thinking about a certain, not just this week i was thinking about a certain idea to describe how women behave on dating sites, because women behave differently on dating sites, men also behave differently, for sure, unfortunately i was not there, i would be happy to, please, is it possible, please, in the sense that you got permission? can’t be rewritten, that’s for sure, well, because the site is no different from life, well, what’s the difference, for example, some women say, but there are only perverts there, and i i know a woman who got married there thanks to this, and more than one, that’s what i ’m saying, look at your photos, maybe on a dating site, because i understand that you might have good ones there photographs, but you just look at photographs that

you want to look at. and in order for you to start a slightly different message, this new, let’s say, message to make peace, well , it seems to me that here we need to remember that a certain degree of anxiety in relationships is very important, because relationships are always about vulnerability, never in a different way, after the last conflict with tatyana, i came up with this version of relationships for myself:

being in a relationship with one person, you are in this room, because, as if from the mood of your partner, he reflects to you very different feelings about you components, yes, that is, your inner basis, and not every one of them you want to look at, well, something exaggerates, or as i once complained to my psychologist about tatyana, saying that she brings me to this... state that i'm ready to kill her, well, let's assume, yes, i i say, this is impossible, to which she said a phenomenal phrase, after which i ended the session, said thank you, i went, she said this: do i understand correctly that your wife will be a beast for you, which you do not want to recognize, that was exactly when it was necessary and exactly as it should be, and it was very valuable, it’s like this, you know, that is...

every person, every man, every woman, and children are generally separate mirrors, essentially reflecting us the way we don’t really want to see ourselves, yeah, yeah, but courage. peering into your own distorted reflection, in general, determines the degree of your vulnerability as a skill that is necessary in a relationship, i agree, well, wait, there’s a balance, there’s also a highlighting of those sides that, on the contrary, we would like to see in ourselves, our partners highlight this to us, i’m just you ’re a romantic, no, you’re just so skilled, apparently, you highlight my good sides, and i... highlight yours, beauty is in the eyes, look now, no, it’s clear, that we would all like for there some something good, you know, me too , just yesterday it so happened that i was talking with a friend there, we were sitting talking,

i suddenly remembered, it’s so interesting, and if you look back so briefly, then for some reason you always remember such flashpoints events, for example, like when... circumstances, but the fact that you went through them makes you very whole, that’s why i say that it’s kind of cool here when the important elements are connected with some, well not very simple in another box in such a big one, but such

there is a positive in a relationship, when romance and all that candy-bouquet, yes, but it passes, and for some reason it remains only negative, so the negative also passes, but it’s just that our experience of living these negative things is usually associated with another person. like, he’s like this, there’s something wrong with him, or even worse, blaming myself for the fact that there’s something wrong with me, that’s why he’s like this, and i’m offering a sober, absolutely mature, just a look into this distorting mirror, well, distancing, yes, remember, if you approach the mirror different distances, it shows different reflections, i mean a crooked mirror, you play with this reflection, this is very cool, now i want to build relationships, this was the most important thing that i sought, this was the most important thing that i sought, i i generally consider healthy people. relationships are not needed, but in fact, of course, i ’m joking now, look what happened, we removed the tension from the neurotic desire to build relationships, this does not mean that you do not want to build relationships, it means that you are now more interesting

than another, from this state relationships are built completely differently, i really hope that this will be the case, sergei’s favorite idea is that you need to be together when there is no reason to be together, i... believe that only this determines the health of the relationship , when there is no reason to be together, and you stay, super, super, it’s just right, i wish you good luck, thank you very much for touching on this topic that is important for us, you and our viewers, with which i thank you, oh, i'll leave with some ease, it's just so easy for me, for me good, and i’m really glad that i was here, i ’m sitting right now and don’t even want to leave anywhere, don’t leave, let’s do more.

meet men, i will meet them, i will look at them, i will interact somehow, remember the distance, remember the distance exactly, great, how to make sure that this distance does not become such a zone that is dangerous, how to remove from this distance, but i said, you just need to play with the reflection, well , come closer, move closer, healthy boundaries, they consist in the fact that they can always be move them, you just can... now i feel good, i can take a step forward, you take it forward, it’s alarming, but it’s still good when you can stop, so, yes, don’t betray

yourself in everything, that’s what’s most important, well, i really hope that now my relationship will be built, that’s what and maybe i ’ll invite you to a wedding. i would really like to see such guests at my wedding, and it was really very pleasant for me to communicate with you, it was very comfortable and i... am happy, incredibly happy that i was here and was able to reveal that i am real, i’m in therapy, i have many hours of personal therapy, well, about 50 hours, that is, i picked myself as much as i could, and somehow nothing helped me, so far, well, i i understand that there was this fear, yes, that this is a danger, and that now, well, i believe that everything will be different, well, it’s about trusting yourself, that you can handle it. with any situation, yes, yes, i can cope with any

situation, what kind of condition is this, you have changed a lot now, really, sergey, he doesn’t just say that, you really are very have changed, what kind of state is this, well, a state of lightness, joy, yes, i just feel that it’s as if, conventionally, i am joy, yes, this is some kind of state, now it has come to me, yes, it would be great . i just never watch what i record, where i am recorded, i don’t like

to do it, i don’t like myself, probably, but that’s not the question, because i’m not a viking, i don’t have a problem with that, yes, but you definitely look, it’s interesting with your experience there of trainings, therapies, i really want you to see this, then directly, well, rarely, when this happened on the recording, since that's the case, uh-huh, i was lucky, yes, we, we were lucky, everyone was lucky, and the audience too, well, it was a podcast triggers, and you were with us. we talked with svetlana and somehow very deeply, it seems to me, we talked, and it turned out to be very useful for me, too, because it summed up some of my internal results, thank you very much, i am very grateful to you for such a frank conversation , and i thank you very much, if you would like to be a guest on our podcast, you can fill out an application on the website channel one: 1tv.ru

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