can be carried out in a cultural and leisure facility, a park, registration in the park, quite a cultural and leisure facility, well, she found an ax under her paw, but everything is already being done, they have already installed this arch on the pier, now unwind this carpet right across the entire pier, what should we do, my fiancée has been bitten, and i don’t have a document in my hands, but what can i do, what can i do, look, let’s do this, that means, you now take those who were bitten, come to our park, sign them there, we are now let's go, walk along the embankment, take pictures at monument and what are we jumping into in bags, is there anything on the program? that's it, and then we have an agreement, that's it, uncle lenya is cool, as usual, he sorted everything out, saved everyone, that's it, let's go take pictures, damn it, thank you, advice to you, anyway, sorry, hello, hello, sorry . for what? listen, you

’re from zaks, well, you need to return the book to the zaks, there the check came from krasnodar, literally for 15 minutes there according to the book, don’t bother with your hands, what a check, bees, in fact bees, what a day it is today , and here you are, damn it, yes, today is a hard day, but the book needs to be returned, and who are you anyway, from government services, oh, my, they are already coming, listen, young man, please go, don’t interfere with your government services, i need to get ready, that means so, if you don’t give me the book right now, i’ll be forced to take action, why are you poking at me again, and now i ’ll take off your belt, and now i’ll kick you, what ’s your name tamara mikhailovna, tamara mikhailovna, that means so, listen, do you know how to swim, what because i’m not very good, if anything, help to me, are you sick or something, i don’t understand, what do you need from me, and now where did you even come from?

who drowned, who drowned? i’m 32 years old, honestly in the clerk’s office, no one said that in vain, it’s not me, this bastard from government services, who, pushed me, what a bastard, there he is, there’s red from government services, behind him, uncle grisha , behind him, quietly, quietly, quietly, oh, most likely they will execute him, here he is, uncle sin, here you lady, oh you, what have you done, knock him here, down, down, nikit, nikit, nikit, please, come on without...

tamara mikhailovna, maybe without a book somehow or there’s some kind of spare, nothing, kids, nothing, no, yes, we’ll pay as much as we need, as much as we need, let me put everything into the new census, well, i’d execute you, what are you doing, what’s up, mom, well that you haven’t washed anything away, now we’ll dry it all again, we’ll write it all again, yes, i don’t know, i don’t know, there are so many families there, i’m not sure, maybe you should have a drink, but of course, of course, we’ll find you new clothes, sit down with us at the table, we'll have a drink, we'll warm up, oh, we need to warm up, we all need to warm up, what the hell, you can't do anything, and therefore that god brought us together, okay, nothing, will you be my guest, yes or no, witnesses, max, sorry, that’s how wet, unpleasant.

together in the head of my fog-mana love without a pocket nikitos, i’m so glad that you came, that now we’ll drink for you, nikitos a... the idea is a gun, the yacht is gorgeous, penelope, in 15 minutes it will be here, there’s champagne, fruit, jump off for half an hour with ksyushka, the two of you will motivate him, but it’s inexpensive, i still have a cake, i wanted to sing, listen, it’s true, i’m not going anywhere, this is some kind of game, ksyushka got the idea, there she is, the snow-white girl of 18, we are there with the boys, well , we’ll put champagne everywhere, why are you blinking, come here, come out and talk to me here, come on, nikit, it’s a cool idea, especially since you’ll be leaving for a long time, let's go sailing together, you'll come to the painting, you'll all be greeted, yeah, only a high-speed yacht, you know how to sail a yacht, you know how, you landlubber, everything's fine, nikita, okay, we're not going anywhere, no, we'll go, i'll give you a ride like no one has ever given you a ride, how long is it it costs, thirty, and why is it so expensive, expensive, and

that we’ll call you in 15 minutes, now, that’s it, ksyusha, let’s go dance, psycho, let’s moor quickly. oh, dry, i came up with an idea, in short, we are now taking a photo against the backdrop of the yacht, then we write on the yacht now the vlasovs and what we are doing, we will not say with a hashtag, but nikita, my phone ate, listen, guys, someone give me a mobile phone, and my memory has run out, i have a flash of light, well , it’s okay, let’s go, as in, no photos, i wanted to take a photo of you in the background there’s all this, but wait, now i’m

really, nikit, well, i’m really, i’m quick, sush, you go to the cabin, what do you know about uruguay, it’s one of the most prosperous and developed countries in... latin america, i also know that there are more cows living here than people. the national meat of the uruguayans is beef; it is almost a religion for us. what is the model of a beautiful woman in montevideo? for our women, comfort comes first. some people feel comfortable without makeup, others won’t go to the supermarket without full makeup. a what are you drinking this mate? yes, these are special leaves from the tree, once again... mate is not sold in cafes and restaurants, everyone makes it for themselves only at home. do you often come to dance? i come here not only to dance, but also to find a gentleman, you know, i’m already at such an age that i want to meet my love, the lives of others. premiere, tomorrow on

the first, something is a bitter fate for us, mish, how could they not live their lives so that i don’t see him here... i won’t let you live, they’re calling you, airborne, just wait for me, do you hear, i love you, there is no life without you, are you crazy, let him go crazy, he often beat you, leave him, i love him, and what, you put me in a sad uniform, you think i ’m afraid to touch you, i’ll explode one day, little wolf, you don’t know the shores, my son, alive, what kind of son are you? mishka has had his fill, will we really find out where he is? two shores, premiere, from monday on the first. from the bride's parents, special guest, people's artist of russia, composer, singer, actor, seven-time winner of the national

ovation prize, kozachenko, oleg kosmanov, i am not i'm waiting. today is such a joyful day for you ksyusha, nikita, i congratulate you, happiness, good luck viktorovna, why aren’t you filming, why aren’t you interested in people’s artist of russia, oleg mikhailovich, oleg mikhailovich, squadron of my thoughts. that there is no barrier to him , i can’t hold him, hold me, film me,

film me, ksyusha, where, ksyusha, where, well, where, well, come on, come on, come on, go, look, oleg mikhailovich, i can sing a duet with you , i'm sorry, i'm sorry, fiance, mom, well, i don't know how much they pay you, but please, yes, well, for everyone, for loved ones, for relatives. eh, eh, hey, stand, stand, even in a

broken mirror, over the fragments, bowing over the fragments, in reflections, in reflections, forgotten, you will see me again. and love without zotse will break your window, i will dream about you again, i will dream about you, it doesn’t matter. the only

thing, i say, nikitos, the devil, why are you stuck to attach it to him, you see, a man with a people's artist performs, ksyusha, having escaped the anchor, my soul flies away. our children will not be born, they will not give us flowers, the cold wind will sing, over the fragments of the boundary, she ran away with another,

unstable, calmly, calmly, artyom, don’t come, i’ll throw them out now, come on, let’s talk normally. okay, okay, artyom, just think, okay, me, and the guests, what will they say, but i’m already running away from the second wedding, and i’m running away from the wedding for the second time, by the way, here you and i are walking in circles, it’s like -that’s okay, i need to change something, i’m thirsty,

i haven’t drunk anything but champagne since this morning, give me some water, please, now, no, here, no, give me here, yes, give it here, what are you doing, are you completely stupid, damn it, dammit, what are you doing? ksyu, ksyu, son, son, how are you? hello, where is the bride? she ran away again, or what? where is ksyukha? what kind of ksyukha, my ksyukha? mine, what 's yours? hurray guys? well, let him go!

everything you’re filming, i’m filming you right now, what a shame, what a shame, it’s a disgrace that you’re standing there, but go paint your bees, what you’re doing, what you’re chomping, go think, chomping, that’s it, no good , calmed down. your daughter, shut your mouth, i continue, let's go to everyone let's go, i said, why are we putting up with this, come here! nikita, it looks like it’s dried up, where are they all going damn day, uh, what are you doing, money, money, where’s a thousand and half an hour,

listen, you won’t get him anyway, nikita, uh, cool down, stay, i say. here you need to keep a cool head, let's go, let's go, i'll swim , don't, well, dear, please, i 'm begging you, don't, please, i said, nikita, son, come back, nikita, why don't you leave him you save, well, cossack clothes, beshmei, but what really cuts? they cut themselves out like clowns here, your plaques, sabers! who needs all this, son, son, send mother!

if i smoked, i would offer it. i almost lit a cigarette myself when she ran away, thank god, i have asthma, it’s impossible, i, bro, while i was suffering, i imprisoned everyone here, to hell with any mistake, just like that, work only saved me, don’t go too far! what you

need to do now, my dear , is to dive in headfirst, call me if you find any numbers, but it hurts, but that’s enough. “turn away, unbutton, turn around again, you’ll fly over the fence, i understand, that’s it, i’m out, i’ll be there for tea look, amazing bird, give me the cherkazka!"

hold the dress, don’t worry, i ’ll hang it on board now, it’ll dry in 15 minutes, it’s useless, ksyusha! when we get back, you’ll get on your knees and explain everything, how you stole me, how you locked me up, how you took me away, how i jumped into the sea for the keys, you’ll tell me everything, you understood me, i understood, i’ll tell you everything, and what are you doing, ksyusha, ksyusha,

i’ll shoot closer than one and a half meters, uh-huh, uh-huh, i understand. in short, that’s it, ksyusha, let me swim there myself, i’ll explain everything to him, the main thing is don’t worry, i’ll do everything i'll have time. i can handle it, hey we are! here, here! if i found you, ksyu, igor,

where, nikita? be careful, equal, mortal, equal!

disperse alive, lord, then let me through, nikita, nikita, nikit, nikit, nikit, it’s not my fault, he locked me in the cabin, nikit, forecastle on the forecastle, poop on the poop, nikita, let me go to him, stay in place, that’s it , wait, now on the shore, i forgive and forgive.

ksyusha, let's go have breakfast, are you going somewhere? to moscow, mom. lenya, lenya, ksyusha

is going to moscow, come here. well , that’s right, but what to do in this azure? sea, sun, every day, fruit, girlfriends, parents, and there is a mausoleum, metro, tsum, fairy tale, mother, yes, i’m going today, listen, and that’s right, it’s your birthday tomorrow, in the carriage, in the restaurant, you’ll celebrate, we... this year we decided not to embarrass ourselves, not to give you gifts that you don’t use, so we’ll finish with an envelope, there’s not much there, but there’s enough on the metro mozal, it’s unlikely natsu, hurry home in 2 days, that’s it, let’s go eat, you don’t understand, i ’m leaving forever. everything everything.

thank you for replacing aunt ul, but it’s not difficult for me, if you call me for anything, i’m greedy for work, hello, you’re sitting, that means you’re living, aksya ’s family can’t find any cash there , i’ve cried, i don’t have time to wash it, a piece is getting into your throat, i can’t find a place for myself either, what kind of cabbage soup are you eating from, what kind of cabbage soup? this is nerve-wracking, you ruined ksyusha’s life, she ’s leaving for moscow because of you, listen, i...

ulyana lvovna, wait, ulyana lvovna, please wait, ulyana lvovna, tell ksyusha not to leave, i’ll find nikita i'll fix everything.

it was my plan, i stole her from the wedding, she had no intention of running away, she didn't even knew nothing, she knew everything, but she didn’t know anything, she then ran after you to the ship, screamed, called you, screamed, i didn’t hear, guys, you heard, no one heard, that’s very nice, nikit, she’s crying every day, calls you, doesn’t eat, doesn’t drink, she’s even lost weight, doesn’t want to communicate with anyone, but i’m telling you. she loves you, you understand, oh well, this is it, okay, let’s go and talk, so what, she’s just crying, well, great, i mean? "that's right,

let her cry, you will run after her all your life, you and this filthy cop, and then me someday i’ll arrive one day, and she ’ll crawl to me on her knees, because she needs me, but i don’t have her, i have women like that, like a clown, completely impenetrable, unprecedented outside the window,

my dear, far away, without a heart love is not easy, it calls me to follow you, my dear, long-awaited, so kardeeva, oh, and your birthday has already arrived, it turns out, congratulate, thank you, instead of 15, come on in, on behalf of the russian administration.

mom and i want you to be happy, we love you very much, send us all the way, get into the carriage, that’s all, come on, come on, long forgiveness, extra tears, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, love, girl, get into the car, come on, come on, come on!

i won’t go, quietly, what do you mean, let’s get in! in short, i agreed, right after oleg you congratulate her, wait, well, i don’t even know how to sing, yes, everything is simple, um, dm, i eat, um again , come on, you’ll practice, until, in short, the plan is, you sing, ksyusha like, thank you,

thank you, and you’re like, i love you, right in front of everyone, there’s no game right now, this is the best option, either you say everything now, or already never, come on, after the words, i love you, let’s not set off fireworks, yeah, let’s... dudin, i know, well, you know, yes, ksyusha, i would like to congratulate you on your birthday, as a gift, perform a song for you,

forgive me, ksyusha, i’m ruining everything for you, well, now it’s not a port, what? brought damage to you, without knowing it, lord, it’s true, as if yes, i turned life into a real hell, no warehouse, no way, i’ll kiss the cat’s tail, but i want to fix everything and return it, nothing can be fixed , don’t come back, damn it, are you kidding me or something, stop it are you kidding me, are you kidding me, tell me everything now artyom? yeah, ksyushka, that means we’re continuing our velvet evening, i haven’t finished, i still wanted to congratulate verbally, not in poetry, there was no poetry, guys, that’s all, for now think about what you want to say, now i’ll quickly congratulate you, i was on my way here, i was so brave ,

now something came out and came out, ksyosh, i love you, hurray! and what an idiot the bomb is, it wasn’t artyom who said what you need, no one needs you here, go away. what the hell, wait, what are you doing, get away from her, i realized,

stand there, i’ll shoot through the cuckoos, what are you talking about? you're doing, let's go, let's go, my father is getting ready to shoot. got into the car quickly, but it hits, got into the car quickly, you said you don’t need it, come on, quit, if you miss, i’ll break your head, you said you don’t need it, i changed my mind, by the way, that’s it, that’s it , that's it, that's it, good, good, let me go, i'll kill you! you'll get tired of killing, come on, come on, let him go, let him go, good, i'll see him again, i'll break his head, let me in, i'll kill him, i'll kill you, we need to save her,

guys, why did you come, i love you . not no love, everything, everything, forgive me, really, forgive me, niki, don’t touch me, forgive me, don’t touch me, let me go, let me go, i said, let me go, let me go, let me go, go, go, go,

ksyukha, you forgot the flowers, you idiot, that here i am standing in front of you, completely open, close yourself, get out of here, no, i’m not going anywhere, i have nothing and no one but you, really, well, you see, here i stand as i am, without any secrets. ksyusha, i wanted to go to the store with my granddaughter, could you ask your fiance to dress somehow, excuse me, aunt gal. can i bring you a towel? no, no, no, thank you, chech gal, inside, run,

come on, come on, come on, mom, we have something to throw on, ksyosh, well, hug me, it’s cold, no, mom, oh so, well then i’ll live here, comfortably. ksyu, i love you, here i am, what have you got to do with it, this nikitos, by the way, he called, asked for a yacht, offered 30 grand, we actually sent him. well, mitya sent it in vain,

i had to agree, i also said, he ’ll take arsenault anyway, no, never mind, tyomych, we’re for you, ice, i need ice, i’ll go get ice, alzarchik, i’ll probably sleep, yes, of course, tyomych, no question, if anything happens here, let’s go back, come on, tigor. guys, i went to bed, i need to apply some cold water, otherwise my mug will swell, guys, i’m heartbroken. the speed is picking up

kilohertz, the heart is being torn apart by skara, skara, skara, i’m not skara, holy, sorry, just, sorry, i’ll return it, wait, like that.

can you imagine, yesterday i told myself that from the day i was born, everything, a new life, just everything all over again, without you, it was as if i was waiting for it, i’m afraid, i mean, what if you disappear again? i won’t get caught, i promise, huh? left her walked away, i said, artyom, what are you doing, jump into the water, you’re really sick, but i

didn’t mean to do this by accident, forgive me, please, i really didn’t mean to. thank you so much, does it hurt? no, listen, ksyukha, do you really want to take revenge on him? nikit, did he shoot at you? well, yes, he was in a state of passion, i don’t know, but i didn’t see that he was crazy, well, strange, yes, well, it happens, well, my leg will soon recover, i

will run and our twin children will run, but he will sit, maybe, maybe we will forgive him after all. "i went to see him today, why? i wanted to give him a chance, you know what he said, he said that next time he would shoot higher, you are my best friend’s wife, let’s not get hysterical, at first i was naturally on the girl’s side, but when i started to look into it, there were a lot of dubious details, since , stay with me, he’s generally an amazing person, very modest, i immediately felt that there was something wrong with him, that you were pestering me, i want to know the truth, yes, we are lovers, you still take a closer look at your place, who could it be, come on we’ll go to paris next week, a fortune teller from monday, on the first one, that it took so long,

maybe there are some problems, tatyana mikhailovna said, “every woman in the soviet union should love stirlitz, but not so much as to leave her husband, she always treated him very carefully to the actors, she could have directly killed this person in general, just so that the actors would not be touched, days pass without you, she didn’t repeat herself, well, is it possible to compare the carnival there or 17 moments of spring, or 17 moments of spring from tritopol to the poles, oh, she looked at me like that..." with key eyes, like she was tumbling, she looked like that and said: "i don’t need a khabzon, but she broke me, she just broke me, she’s a great woman, a wonderful, fantastic director, and i’m grateful to fate, that i had the honor of working with her, she was an extremely subtle person,

she put so much love into it all, and my soul walked, like broken glass, towards the centenary...”

i don’t believe, according to our laws it is necessary to judge him, show him, flog him setting the square, order, the floor is given to the defense side, the defendant admits guilt, cooperates with the investigation, the choice of a preventive measure in the form of detention seems to us clearly excessive, the floor is given to the defendant. i would like to ask for forgiveness. with ksyusha, from the very beginning i behaved like an idiot,

i saw you in voronezh and just went crazy, at the lighthouse i looked at you and dreamed of only one thing, that you would send them all, so that only you would have me, pursue you like a maniac climbed onto the yacht here. “i thought that i was saving you, that i was doing everything the way it would be best for you, but it turns out i didn’t think about you at all, i understood everything, i just really would like to. i would just really want you to be happy, so

forgive me if you can, and nikita, yes, you forgive me too, please, nikita, maybe it’s true that we’ll forgive him, of course, of course, come on, come on, come on , listen, so you still had something there, right on the yacht? what? no, well, you yourself said that he took you away, but i don’t understand, i’m wondering how he did this to you, that he didn’t even notice that the victim, stand up, are you ready to accept compensation for material damage and moral damage from the accused to end the case peacefully, we want to withdraw the statement, you are a witness, not a victim, what statement are you going to withdraw, niki, please, well, you yourself suggested that you defend him, okay? talk, did you want to get rid of me? nikita, please don’t talk like a crazy person, you ’re scaring me, but i wasn’t afraid to cuckold me, but how many of you were there on the yacht? i

want to change my testimony, artyom defended me. don't talk to me like that, let me go me, nikina, it hurts, it hurts. they reeled it in, there he went, of course,

ksyukh, you’ll crawl back later, i said, there he went.

it’s not the sea season, you want to eat and it’s pouring. there’s a silver ringing from the tap, by the way, this is vip shawarma, it’s raining on a bully, the cafe is closed, secrets are forgotten, and the girl is waiting for the summer to pass, we’re not calling.

only the storms will catch her in the distance and carry all her sorrows, and the dolphins and whales will say goodbye, because it’s all his fault, it’s not the sea season.

only i will catch the storm, in the midst of its sadness, the idilphins sleep i sleep your farewell sleep, because only he is to blame for everything, because only he is to blame for everything, because only he is to blame for everything. off-season at sea.

soon spring, soon spring, soon these nights of restless sleep, again spring, again love, again the blood will sparkle in our veins, again dawn, again dawn, there is no turning back... soon sadness, soon sadness, everything will go away we are a little sorry, i know the answer, i know the answer to the question are you there or not, i know deception, i know deception, i know our love, ocean, you are not alone, you are not alone, it will be spring this night, soon love, soon spring, yeah, love me, love ,

hot fire, night and day. he is burning my heart, love me, love, don’t fly away, don’t disappear, i beg you, love me, love, love, me, love, love, me, love, love, me, love. soon it will be warm, soon it will be warm, soon we will have a lot of water, soon it will be warm, soon ecstasy, and this music comes to us, i take a step, i take two, my head is dizzy with love, i know now, i know now how to open this secret door, time passes , time passes, no one

will return it to us, time... flies, time flies, moving with us, dancing along the way, again the question, again answer, the invisible light will light up again, love is with us, play is with us, yeah. love me, love me, with a hot fire, night and day, burning my heart, love me, love, don’t fly away, don’t disappear, i beg you, love me, love me, love me with a hot fire, night and day, setting my heart on fire. love me, love, do n't fly away, don't disappear, i beg you, love me, love, love me, love, love me, love, love,

me, love, love. love me, love me, this only happens once, but will the chance arise, will fate give it to us? your love, smiling and dreaming with him seems like happiness, but what if the blood suddenly rises, and

tell me where, in passages, subways, on planes, in cinemas? oh, and tell me where to look for you, and just say one thing, one love, the price is holy, one love, one cannot find words for her, one cannot find words for one love, and how now to crush into her eyes,

one love, one soul, with your hand takes you down, time is so distorted that it leaves your works for life, and you dance on your finger, only a moment remains, here i am on stage, to say. and tell me where? in subway passages, on airplanes, in the cinema, but tell me where

look for you, and just say one thing. one love, only a heart forever, one love, where anger cannot be found, where words cannot be found, one. this podcast is a must read, i am glaina batnikova, and today we will discuss the work of

annare de balzac, a classic of world literature, a french novelist, he wrote about 90 novels during his life, combining them into the “human comedy” cycle. and we are discussing this wonderful author today with the writer and blogger malka. a rare expert on money topics, because he never had money, he tried endlessly to do some startups, nothing worked out for him, because he naturally took out loans for them, all this is so familiar, however, in my opinion, he started.

yes, he is given the main idea, and then he remembers, well done five, this is the principle of simplification, this schematization, it is done quite simply, so the gobsa is a handsome man, a handsome man, which means this is a greedy monster that sucks the blood of workers, well , exploits those who do not work too, he generally sucks blood from everyone indiscriminately, what an absolutely monstrous creature, here is his father gario, what does he do, he loves, what the schoolboy remembers, he loves his daughters and gives...

his passion for his daughters, and this is precisely passion, he madly loves these daughters, goes out as an old-timer of their carriage, lives in this very poor boarding house. , where he constantly cuts, cuts, cuts this boarding house for himself, actually doesn’t eat anything anymore, this is his crazy passion for his daughters, and before his death he tells eugene rastegnac, his neighbor and also the lover of one of his daughters, that he made a mistake, and if... he hadn't given these daughters, but left it to himself, then his daughters would love him and come to his deathbed, this is his feeling for his daughters, it is generally normal, it looks touching, perhaps not, it looks different, in depending on the angle, this

story about father gorio is mostly read inattentively, where it begins, it begins with a description of the boarding house where he lives and its inhabitants, that is, in front of us...

that is, he is doing something, he seems to such a daring robber, fall into effeminacy he doesn’t have the right status, all these branches exist there in parallel in one frame practically and it’s very beautiful, but at the same time we see through the eyes of the plant,

probably because he’s just trying to make his way into high society, and we see these are the intrigues of high society and we see what is behind the trina, yeah.

goodbye, thank you very much, everything was very tasty, good health, come on, that's it, come on, bye, see you in touch, well, we looked at the attics, the roofs, everything is clean, the owner of the taxi says that she has no conflicts it happened, no one threatened that the dumplings were tired, the poplov jumped off, and in our yard, tomorrow on the first. do you know how we met him? we had a train in the sump , well, i was there, while

i was collecting bed linen, he fell into the hollow, drunk, not standing, looking at me with his eyes, let's go to tashkent, let's go to tashkent, i say, men, what a tashkent , we are at the kiev station, in the first season of the new season, a woman is killed and we are talking about the devil, and our hearts are not broken, do you know how it is torn, so only the shoulder is for this. the elbow is pulling, okay, let’s think about it, let’s say you’re a mole, you’re wanted, there are leads on you in all parts of the soviet union, and no matter how good your training is, sooner or later you will still be identified, and this is a mortal danger , or do you have a second very well -thought-out option of escaping abroad, well , of course, i would run in, which will choose the moles, that’s the question, be careful, i’m always careful. major, find the head of the

security service, have him come to the office urgently control room, and mobilize all our employees, everyone you can, the whole version is going to hell, the man was a stutterer, suddenly he speaks like cicero, i really hope that you don’t have to blame yourself for not wanting to help us, shooter , hello, colonel, confrontation, premiere based on the legendary book by yulian semyonov, this podcast is a must- read, today we are discussing balzac and his work with malka lawrence, writer, blogger. the story of father goriot, it doesn't begin here...

he was a businessman with capital with a name, but no, he even says that my daughters at the age of 15 had their own trip, that is , each of them had a carriage, a coachman, yes, someone cleaned these horses, there were some lackeys , he was rich at some point, he was rich, that is, like a modern successful manufacturer who buys a car for each daughter, what’s the problem, yeah, it’s just a standard of living, no, no hysterical love for daughters for it's not worth it. he could afford this level life, moreover, he was obliged to afford it, because it corresponded to his

status, and his daughters naturally took advantage of it, because it was again part of his... his duties, if he wanted to give them away normally, he could raise them in the village, please, but then he would raise them until old age, but still there is something unhealthy in his attitude towards his daughters, we feel it when we read, of course, of course, it is very emphasized throughout the story his - innocence, which presented on the one hand as a virtue, that is, that he is so pure with a heart, but on the background and in general...

he has enough imagination, that is, this happens not because he is so devoted to them, but because he simply has nothing else i can’t think of it, well, it’s interesting, by the way, but it’s also interesting the twist when, before his death, we look at him and he seems so naive to us, he loves his daughters so much, and doesn’t seem to notice that it was his daughters who put him in this position, he blames their husbands for everything, but when he begins to die in the fire and he screams plant, he curses them, he says, no, this is not true, this is all. no, this is his dying dream, this is his dying delirium, this is not, this is not an epiphany, no, no, that is, there is no such thing that he still understands the relationship between his daughters, the true ones, there is no truth there on either side, this is a mythologeme, yeah, one thing or another, well, by the way, this is

very interesting, even from balzac, what i read is different from our time, there is a lot, he says:

the man you said, well, for example, like this i understand that you are me now compared to balzac, thank you, i wanted to say that you have a certain characteristic of the people who act in your prose, it is quite accurate, just like balzac’s, that is, balzac’s types, when i read, i recognize them , i know them, that is , i know them in life, in your book i also know them, this is a rare thing, well, that is, this is not a fictional world, but this is...

from the books i have published, i have eight of them in total, scary to say, the only one that does not contain friday answers, yes, you are known to most of our viewers for your

friday answers, that is , readers write to you on your blog, and you answer their questions frankly, elegantly, wittily, and most importantly, not so elegantly witty questions, questions cannot be witty, because they are written in trouble. very memorable, because they are very sharp, cruel and shocking, maybe in some ways, so you may get

the impression that this theme dominates there, no, no, hypnosis and anesthesia about love, what do you know about uruguay is one of the most prosperous and developed countries in latin america, and i also know that there are more cows living here than people. the national meat of the uruguayans is beef; it is almost a religion for us. which model is the beautiful woman in montevida? for our women , comfort comes first; some feel comfortable without makeup, others won’t go to the supermarket without full make-up. what are you drinking this? mate? yes, these are special leaves from a tree, and also different herbs. mate is not sold in coffee shops and restaurants; everyone makes it for themselves. and only at home, come often to dance, i come here not only to dance, but also to find a gentleman, you know, i’m already at such an age that i want to meet my

love, the lives of others, the premiere, tomorrow is the first one, our fate is somehow bitter, mish, how we didn’t live our own life , so that i don’t see him here, i won’t let you live, you are being called up by the airborne forces, just wait for me, “i love you, there is no life without you, are you crazy, let him go crazy, he explained it to you often, go away from him, i love him, what about you, you put me in a sad uniform, you think i’m going to touch you i'm afraid you'll explode one day, little wolf, you don't know the shores, your son is alive, what a son you walked with the bear, will we really find out where he is? two shores, premiere"? from monday on the first. may 20th is the anniversary of nared balzac, he turns 225 years old, or rather,

it would be, and today we are discussing his work father grio and gapsek with malka lawrence, writer, blogger. let's return to the question of how to make from a man to a man. if hypnosis is about love, then where to find this object of love and how to build it out. him some kind of worthy object, because. the feeling after hypnosis and anesthesia that, well, there are no worthy men, there are no princes, well , no, those that exist, they are all sculpted by some kind of female hands. suffering, victims, let's go back to balzac, female victims and suffering, what a victim looks like, the lover is walking about something, sad, what's wrong with you, darling, i'll go, darling answers, i'll go out the window now, i owe a lot, i lost , i lost and i have to, and if i don’t do it today, then it’s all over for me, oh leave me, she’s like that, let’s go to

gopsek, she has this configuration, and it’s generally plausible, when i read these situations in balzac, i don’t understand, here’s anastasia, yes, she’s a beauty, everyone goes crazy about her, she’s rich, she has a wonderful husband, she has children, everything is fine, why does she suddenly become...

so fidelity comes from money, too, because this is a violation of fidelity, it is expressed in the fact that a woman begins to squander her husband’s fortune, she begins to squander what motivates a woman who, in order to pay off her debts...

decisive no, the same delphine nussingen, she is married, yes, married to a banker, he bought himself a barony, that is, he is also rootless, like goriot, but he is a resourceful guy, and they have a lot of money, but she feels a little flawed, because the sister is behind the count, it means that this dolphin is trying to break through to the top, she is rich, but not enough, respectable enough, that is, she needs some kind of

support, it’s exactly the same thing. listen, well, in fact, if you read it carefully, well, he’s dying, he’s dying, well, he can another 2 weeks to die, that i was not allowed to go, that is, she doesn’t perceive it like this, which is straightforward, another thing is that if she were a girl from the people, if she were a seamstress, the daughter of a poor widow, who has all the entertainment it’s on sunday to go to church, she would understand her duty, of course, differently, because she basically has a different way of life, she has a different routine, if we have someone. for

a dolphin this is an excess, it’s to give up everything and sit in the after, how long can i sit, are you stunned, i have things to do, that’s when yes, when necessary, she says so, that when this is so, in the end you think a little that this gorio paid for the fact that he sold bread to the poor in a hungry city at a high price, that no, well , it’s impossible, no, well, it’s just impossible. somehow, we still don’t have these fairy tales, these are leo tolstoy’s children’s fairy tales, such is our fate. and gabsek, does this translate as a crock-eater? gabsek, yes, gabsek, a telling surname, that means... why is he curious, why is he wonderful for us, although he is so cruel, greedy, gabsek is always presented as a monster and a moral example falls, who presents it like that, the one who read

only a chapter in the textbook, and an elective for the eighth grade, because you remember his biography, he is a pirate, he is a former pirate, he always understands?

do you have a suspicion that people in balzac’s works are very often ruled by the fear of poverty, that is, these are the impending ones.

judge everything we wanted, because we wanted to talk about money and psychology, but i just wanted to thank you for coming and talking to me about balzac, i will emphasize once again that it seems to me that your book, hypnosis and anesthesia , is written completely in the balzac style, although it is a collection of essays, very short, more easy to read, and i advise everyone to read your book or at least read your blog and the answer to friday questions, thank you . this was a must

-read podcast, i’m in charge of batnikova, my guest was the great beautiful little girl lawrence and we discussed balzac, father goriot and gapsek. hello! this is the podcast deception of substances, with you olesya nosova, editor-in-chief of komsomolskaya truth, and with me is my permanent presenter zukhra pavlova, a famous endocrinologist. today we will talk about eating disorders , and since this topic is at the intersection of physiology and psychology, we invited a famous psychologist, candidate of psychological sciences, natalya fomicheva, to visit us. natalya, hello, hello. actually, the first question is, what is an eating disorder anyway, really? we can start with what

normal eating behavior is, healthy, in general our body is structured in such a way that we we feel physiological hunger, we eat, feel full, stop eating, and this is the basis of healthy eating behavior, so all problems begin precisely from the place where a person either feels hunger, but ignores it, or... does not feel it, or he doesn’t feel full and overeats, that’s how the basis of the disorders is precisely the failure of this perception of the processes of sensations of hunger, the feeling of satiety, and here comes the big story about the fact that you need to look in a special way, you need to somehow influence your own body in a way, this can be done through food, so i, for example, will limit myself in food, i will feel hungry, but not... it, or i will use food to

regulate some emotions and then i will overeat, that is , this physiological basis is initially disrupted. natalie, isn’t it normal to limit yourself in food, well, that is, you understand that you should look normal, feel normal, and for this you must somehow not miss everything that everything is under as a matter of fact, there’s no way to choose a hand, that’s actually it. should work as a limiter, that is, i stop eating when i’m full, and not when i’ve eaten a certain amount of calories, or i never started worrying that tomorrow it will be reflected on the scales, or i never looked at myself in the mirror and said a bunch of nasty things to myself , that is, a limitation that comes from a feeling, it is essentially not a limitation: i ’m full, i have enough, this is a limitation because you need to look somehow - this is exactly the foundation that was given. leads to breakdowns because people limit themselves, go on

diets, and as we all know from research, 95% of people after 5 years of dieting have more weight than they started on this diet. this is the moment, if you eat very quickly, you will feel full when you have definitely overeaten, than if you eat slowly, and you will have time to eat less, here i would generally talk about the awareness of the nutrition process itself, that is, nutrition, the process of eating food, in a good way, is a separate type of activity, when we eat quickly because we are in a hurry, when we simultaneously scroll through something in the background, quarrel with household members and do a bunch of other things, of course, we overeat, because satiety is a signal that needs to be caught, it is necessary feel, great, yes, this story about 33 times feel - this is exactly what i would say that any artificial introduction of some numbers is

redundant, well, someone needs to live 33 times, someone... some are 26, some are 48, that’s the question. that we enjoy the process, feel taste, we feel how food changes its taste, we are in contact with our own body, and this is all a separate process, yeah, but if a person enjoys only if he receives a sweet bun, how can he live, this is also a disorder, the disorder begins , when there are a lot, no, when we have diagnostic criteria by which we can already diagnose this disorder, sweet buns are not included in this. we, in principle , evolutionarily prefer sweet food, because it is energy-intensive food, it is food, glucose for us needed for muscles, for the brain, and this is a rare food in a certain sense, but the main problem is that initially, where there was sweet food, there was sugar cane, go ahead and chew it,

go get this glucose from there, fruits, fruits, which are all the same contain fiber, and there the reaction process is pancreatic. much smoother, of course, now that we have industrial sweets, if the glands that received glucose were overeating just sweets or cakes, well, to some extent it won’t very useful for the body, but this does not mean that you need to completely exclude it and sit, and then break down again, yeah, people need some tangible things, why 33, not 48, not 26, because on average, to ... when there are some numbers, you can practice a little, as they say, then it becomes a reflex, and the person stops counting, but gets used to the fact that food must be chewed, and you don’t know, this is

a movement, when it’s straight this food is pushed through, it’s a lump that’s not chewed, not moistened with saliva, and naturally there’s no use this... food is not enough, because nothing can be extracted from it, also, so that we don’t go too far, in the icd that same disorder, yes, eating disorder, is called, excuse me, the international classification of diseases, thank you, you never let me escape to this dark side, there it is called an eating disorder, is it the same thing, or are they different things, an eating disorder, an eating disorder, these are different things. if we take dsm 5, the latest version of the diagnostic manual of mental disorders, in 2013 there avoidant restrictive eating disorder has appeared, and we can say that we have an eating disorder , this is bulimia nervosa, anorexia nervosa, overeating syndrome, where

concern lies precisely at the basis of this experience of the body, i don’t like my body and.. i’m trying to do something through food with my difficult emotions about the way i look, eating disorder is a completely different category, these are people who, for example, initially have a disturbed sense of hunger, they don’t feel it, they. they forget to eat, they have no idea to lose weight, they just don’t remember what to eat, lucky ones, but i wouldn’t say such children may face developmental disorders due to a lack of nutrients.

firstly, in people with autism and the autism spectrum we see eating disorders, in the opposite direction we will also see autistic traits, but in general there are currently three groups, these are people whose physiological hunger is very disturbed, plus they have practically no hunger for tastes, but we have many people have this story that we ate something there, well, we ate soup, a cutlet, and now we want something sweet, we’ve eaten enough.

from childhood they do not like food that has a strong taste for them, and these are children who eat pasta, macaroni and cheese and cheese, that's all, in my opinion, these children now predominate, that is, they choose food that has a very neutral taste, very understandable, and as a rule, these are just carbohydrates, that is, here we can, on the contrary , see a situation when a person is overweight, because it is also very unbalanced nutrition, the third group are people who in childhood experienced some kind of, well, let’s say, trauma in their relationship with food, they choked very badly,

got burned, got scared, got poisoned, for them, this experience, it seems to begin to change their eating behavior, that is, food begins to scare and the child begins to avoid, he choked on soup, removes all liquid food, or choked on cutlets and stop eating meat because it reminds him of it, but here, in fact, very different people can fall under category of arfits, it's called avoidant restrictive food intake disorder with very different past experiences, but it can be harmless, for example, i have a child i know who doesn’t eat red food, he doesn’t eat strawberries, he doesn’t eat tomatoes, it depends on how the diet is limited, that is, if the diet is so limited that it already has certain consequences for... health, then this is dangerous, it’s good if a person simply does not eat tomatoes, well, in the end, everyone has taste preferences, this is not yet

eating disorder, it has eased up, yes , thank you, but what is not a disorder at all, what is just something like that, well, as you said, but how to distinguish - yes, how to distinguish pathology from non-pathology, again, there are diagnostic criteria that are quite clear, if we are talking about... avoidant eating disorder - this is such a continuum, we have a food pyramid, there are complex carbohydrates, there are proteins, vegetables, fruits, fats, sugars, and with severe arfit a person eats one or two foods, in principle, in milder forms, this one or two products from each of this category, from each, from each layer of the pyramid, taste preferences are taste... preference, if this does not affect the functioning of the body, this is preference if the question arises that the nutritional structure cannot be changed ,

perhaps a person needs, for example, to add some kind of nutritional supplements, separately, sometimes they are directly prescribed these nutritional supplements, which are used functionally, yes, here we are talking about disorders, yeah, but there are some genetic predispositions, well shall we say? traced in the family and we can say that it is genetically based? it is believed that there is, again for sure, now it is difficult to determine the genetic component, but since we are talking about a correlation with the autism spectrum, yes, most likely there will be some, and some structural features of the same taste buds, well, most likely yes there is some -that genetic basis, a challenge every day like...

a song invented by two stars, fathers and sons, tomorrow after the evening news, how to choose the right sunglasses, what threats to our eyes, conceals the bright summer sun, about this and much more in the program to live great, on monday on the first. we continue the

substance deception podcast, we talk about eating disorders. this is olesya nosova, with me are zukhra pavlova and natalya fomyacheva. well , by the way, you said an interesting thing about the fact that some children, but this starts from childhood, prefer to eat pasta, macaroni and cheese, cheese and so on, because they have very developed taste buds, they are so potential... you said, tasters, potential tasters, does this mean that... if a person is fat, if he loves macaroni and cheese, then the taster in him is dying, that he just needs to pump himself up a little, in fact, we do not rely on body mass index when diagnosing an eating disorder or an eating disorder, this may be the same, but again not all people with anorexia nervosa are thin, because now under the new

diagnostic criteria we are saying that anorexia nervosa is a loss. this is the dynamics of weight loss, what weight a person is i went there, it doesn’t matter, so to say here like this that you weigh so much, so this is too much of a simplification for you, and what should be the dynamics for it to look like this is scary for anorexia nervosa 30% of the original weight in 6 months, this is a lot, well, that is, for a woman, 60 kg is 20 kg, a loss of 20 kg, and almost 18. this is very desirable, because in fact this is a complex, complex disorder, and it requires a team, it requires a psychologist, who specializes in eating disorders, there they need a psychotherapist or a psychiatrist,

they need a therapist... comfort, that is, they feel that they are hungry, but in general it gives them more activity, lightness, they even like, to some extent, the experience of hunger, so if a girl with such a predisposition, as a rule, it is the girl who decides that she needs to lose weight, she will lose weight while losing weight, yes, that is, for a person who does not have such a predisposition,

breakdowns will most likely begin, restrictions will begin, a breakdown, maybe .. .500-600 calories per day maybe you can only hold on to this for a long time if you have a genetic predisposition to cope with hunger; there are questionnaires and tests to test yourself for some kind of autistic disorder, such as eating disorders.

what are we talking about? orthorexia nervosa is an eating disorder characterized by the fact that a person eats only the right foods all the time. yes, i don’t eat the right food all the time, in fact, yes, this is such a relationship with food, where there is a lot of anxiety, and a person is constantly he is worried that if he eats some kind of wrong... food, some very serious consequences will occur, so in general , orthorexia nervosa will fall under different types of eating behavior, where combining them will be like... just this experience of anxiety an attempt to regulate this anxiety through such structuring of food, excluding gluten, excluding lactose, excluding fats or vice versa, excluding carbohydrates, and

it becomes easier for me on an emotional level, but food cannot regulate the psyche, this is a different tool, so in general, a raw food diet too may fall under the criterion of orthorexia nervosa, there is a roman scale of orthorexia nervosa, that is... you can also look, check, if they match, if the diagnostic criteria fit, then yes, and, again, sometimes vegetarianism can be classified as orthorexia nervosa , if this anxiety is the basis, and if this is a choice, for example, for some religious reasons, this does not apply to orthorexia, the core there is precisely this experience of anxiety, that food seems to dirty my body, like... that's very it has a bad effect, leaks in the intestines, whatever... i ’m trying to regulate all this, essentially cope with my anxiety. yes. well, probably, it should be said that after passing all

these tests, realizing that you have problems, there is no need to treat yourself, to pull yourself together, you need to go to a specialist. how contagious are all these disorders? well, in the sense that, for example, at school, in the class, a girl appears who starts. protect her figure by inducing vomiting, that is, how likely is it that others can follow her example in type induced delirium, and in general we are talking about the fact that we always have three components, we have a body where there will be some kind of genetic predisposition, some metabolic features, something else, yes, for example, in people with nervous bulimia, in principle, this aversion to vomiting is reduced, because in general. vomiting is an unpleasant story, but there are people who genetically tolerate vomiting more easily, and there are factors associated with the psyche, there with anorexia nervosa, high perfectionism, you need to do everything perfectly,

very well developed volitional qualities, there is there is a lot of anxiety, that is, there are also mental features there, there is an environment, and i don’t remember exactly now, i think it was recorded in fiji, that when... television appeared there, when beauty contests began to be broadcast, the curve immediately went up sharply eating disorders, that is, the environment influences us, the idea that we need to keep ourselves in some form, meet a standard and do this through food restriction, it can be contagious, of course, well, conditionally contagious, well, yes, yes, yeah, great, then at the same moment, if it’s like this here it is perceived, it may be the other way around. history, there is just no genetics here, most likely, yes, by designating that this is superficial, and this is erroneous, can you return a person to a normal diet, or is it not so easy? in general, we can say

that if a person comes out of an episode on his own, for example, anorexia nervosa or bulimia nervosa, most likely there was no strong genetic predisposition, we know such cases and there are patients who say that i am in some kind of situation. moment i realized that i was doing something wrong to myself, so really stopped, suffered there for a couple of weeks, persuaded myself to let it go, most likely there was no genetic predisposition, but there are those that are one way, yes, and bring back all the mortality in anorexia nervosa is about 13-15%, yeah, that’s very high for level of mental disorder, and what is most effective is in the family, let’s imagine that the person is somewhere far away, he cannot get to a psychologist, in the family, what can be most effective is to say that you are beautiful, just the way you are, we we love you and no, there are no problems with the body

, or it won’t work, it won’t work, if we could cure our loved ones in families, we would be without work, i agree, that’s why there are protocols for organizing nutrition for patients with anorexia nervosa, when we teach family members to really build this whole environment in such a way that it is supportive, yeah, but without specialists at all in severe cases, of course, it’s very difficult, but to tell a person that he is wonderful, just the way he is, possible without frustration eating behavior, in general, this is necessary, it is necessary, but in terms of gender, it is significant, we have a lot of boys with anorexia, nervousness, about 10 percent, yeah, of the total. that is, 10 9 to one, approximately, and sgulimia is about the same story, yeah, but is there a correlation by age? well, yes, most debuts are in adolescence. yeah, that is, puberty,

the entrance to puberty, accompanied by changes in the body, the appearance of adipose tissue, the appearance of some emotional experiences about the fact that they didn’t love me here, they rejected me, they didn’t take me here when it all collapses, for adolescence this is the most typical story, but there is practically no debut in adulthood, anorexia nervosa, yes, and there are much fewer of them, that is, yes, we have a case of nervous. anorexia, which debuts at 25, at 30, and even at 60, but there are significantly fewer of them. and with you again is the podcast deception of substances and its permanent host, editor-in-chief of komsomolskaya pravda olesya nosova, endocrinologist zukhra pavlova. and with us today is a candidate of psychological sciences, psychologist natalya fomicheva. and what could this serve as a trigger for something like this to happen at the age of 60? it’s more likely that it’s not that a person

stopped accepting himself, he didn’t accept himself before, it’s just that the psyche coped with it, but here at some point some kind of strong stress can affect, and then a loss, for example, yes, happened, the death of a partner, there was a predisposition to this kind of reaction, something began to happen there. a person begins to get carried away by this idea of ​​weight loss, i wonder if pregnant women get pregnant can become a trigger for triggering, because the body is changing, yes, it is growing, again, we pay a lot of attention to how much a pregnant woman weighs, she must always fit within some framework, this can also be very stressful , well, there, probably, the instinct of motherhood helps a lot to hold on, because it is dominant, most likely there is... a separate

eating disorder, progorexia, this is an eating disorder in pregnant women, those who had episodes in adolescence are at risk nervous anorexia, bulimia nervosa, but in general it can debit without this, i was already interested in this as an endocrinologist, if there are only one boys, and by nine, there are many girls, it means there is some serious endocrinological basis here, here estrogens somehow influence.. . on this, since you are in this, maybe you have come across some studies on this matter, here, firstly, there is rather a social factor, because boys should not lose weight, in our country boys should still build up more muscle. mass, it should be about the messages of society, and it is so such a male version of anorexia, it used to be even called bigorexia from the word big big, when men put a lot... a lot of effort

into ensuring that they have these prominent muscles, and their nutrition is also very distorted, because there nutrition is according to hours, a very strict diet, some of these supplements, in general the content there, it is also anarexic, my body should look only like this, and not otherwise, all my mental activity is directed towards this, but since there is no this dermatic weight loss, then it’s as if it’s not so scary, although we too, i think you’re like a doctor.

patients, uh-huh, such an interesting idea was voiced that when beauty contests appeared, there was a sharp surge, and in general there are some statistics that earlier this disease was found there five times less often, now it is five times more, or then not diagnosed and didn’t think about this topic at all, something like this that is progressing, like obesity in ’76, now there are four times more people there, well, first of all, still diagnose. became relatively recently therefore, some part of the people, they simply did not get in, and from the descriptions that we have, we often see a different content, that is, also a woman, there a girl refuses to eat, the weight decreases, but the content, for example, is some religious asceticism, yeah, why is this being done, in general , anorexia nervosa has recently begun to be differentiated altogether. because this was considered

one of the variants of simply schizophrenia, when it was identified as an independent disease, naturally our curve went up, because that diagnostic criteria have appeared. but cases of such voluntary refusal to eat with a fatal outcome have been encountered before, yeah, but now, in principle, body positivity should help a little, after all, the criteria are not very much, but no, it doesn’t help much, it was in vain that it was introduced, that’s for sure, no, it was not introduced in vain, but our statistics are not yet optimistic, well, about body positivity, i have a very difficult impression... i have a positive opinion about it, since olesya touched on it, when a person with morbid obesity, with any obesity, is offered don’t be shy, don’t worry about this, and most importantly, don’t worry, don’t do anything, it’s tragic when a person doesn’t have a hand and...