yes, about most often why they come , how much do you have to work with this, speaking with modern slang , so that somehow, well, it seems to me for the same reasons, they swear when and what about ordinary worldly people in general, but you know in fact, it’s easier to communicate with married people , in fact, how can you talk to them like a priest? yes, yes, for me, it’s much easier for me, because svetlana has already touched on here, such a mystical, yes, this is the moment of experience, sensations that come very often people, well, let’s say, a wife, there ’s a believer, most often, we know, she persuaded, convinced her husband, yes, to get married, and he, let’s say, is an unbeliever, but the most interesting thing is, for what reason he doesn’t want to get married, he says, listen , he says, well, this is forever, i say, but those like...

the church respects and recognizes marriage , registered state , registered marriage, yes.

life there and so on, but why do you need him there? so you start asking such provocative questions, in fact it works very well, because then they they begin to remember this: listen, well, you yourself said that i was a gentleman there, someone else, you know, in fact, a wedding is a very important aspect, it does not seal it for life, well, in a magical way, even way, but it...

helps people go through this life together, to feel like one, even when you are swearing there, even when you are there turning away from each other, in general, everything is different, in fact, believe me, it flows , even children who are born in such a marriage, there is also a special attitude towards them, and the most it’s interesting that initially, by the way, this was written in such an apocryphal gospel of fama, yes, that the apostle fama was asked by the indian king, he was present at the marriage to read a prayer in the bedchamber, yes, that is, it turns out that among the first christians, the wedding took place directly in the bedroom, the birth of children in the bedroom - one of the fundamental moments, here it’s all tied up like this, husband and wife are one whole, children, god among.

he told me that they came to him for a wedding blessing, i think a seminarian and a girl, well, young people in general guys, they came, and he said, they had these motorcycle helmets in their hands, and he realized that they arrived on a motorcycle, and he said, well, you definitely want it, right?

there until the end of your life, so you are ready, taking this into account, to go for this marriage, if you are not ready, there is no need, there is no need to rush, but if you are ready, well , that means this is really a feeling, which is tough, these are the conditions, but in some way in the ultimate sense, but how could it be different, yes, but how could it be different, without such questions, it is actually impossible to prepare for marriage, that is, before marriage - you know, this candy-bouquet period or the borscht-pie period, yes, whatever you want to call it, this is what loves them more, yes, yes, yes, it is ideal, so the person has gathered there, uh , they communicate, let’s say, 12 hours a day, every day, from 9 am to 9:00 pm, yes, so he got ready for these 12 hours, then came

home, exhaled, said, ugh, thank god, it’s there, yes, now i’ll lie down, stare at the ceiling, look at this one and yes, a tie to the side or whatever, a bow tie to the side there, there. and here you have to be together for 24 hours, and you already look at a person differently, without such provocative questions, it’s impossible, you know, you just said this, i’ll definitely take note of this, especially as the ruling bishop, this in general- then the story, and you had some kind of conversation with the candle, well, except for the blessing, which or, in fact, everything was there, yes , we probably had a very non-standard story, my husband and i have known each other for 6 years, yes ? before the wedding and before starting a family at all, you know, we had such a very interesting relationship, we were very friends, but at the same time there was a huge distance, for a very long time only you communicated, but firstly, it was there that he was my director, i am an artist, and i,

as an artist, kept my distance so that there was it’s easier to resolve work issues and somehow we were friends like that, but at the same time we could talk very frank things about there...

so you know, so we drove back, i remember without dropping a word at all, we have to think, we have to think, just like that, that's what it has to do with life they didn’t hold each other’s hand, even the next day we were leaving, and before that he had never blessed me to get married, well, in general, it was somehow completely unexpected, the next day we were flying to malaysia on tour and andrey i remember came to me with a dress like this discuss, what dress will you sing this in, how are the notes, these notes are there... i took it, let's try to build a family, yesterday we were blessed, so somehow , you know, we sat down on this topic and talked, so i had such a feeling, i listened to your interview, there was some special wording, as he said, let's try, let 's try to build a family, yes, build a family,

yes together, build, build relationships, build relationships, well, somehow yes, and i told him, well, that’s just the wedding then. so we went to see his, also his priest, who is his, and he said: “oh, i ’ve been looking at you for a very long time, and i’m thinking, that’s it, how can i ask you like this in confession, ask a question, how are you a friend?” friend, you are such a couple, i’ve been at this for a long time, now i’m thinking, how about you bring it together here, oh, i fully support that, but that means, before marriage, before weddings, in order to keep the relationship pure, since you have known each other for many years, these ones, we didn’t have it as such, but it was better than any other romance, when we were preparing for the wedding for several months, it somehow brought us closer, and you know, so many feelings appeared, such an incredible romance, when i saw how

economical the person was, when he writes these lists, the store calls, we’ve started such a small life, well, it was like life, we were just so comfortable with each other. today we gathered our thoughts about the wedding of proter igor famin, svetlana feadulova, i’m vladimir ligoida, we continue, i can share this slightly non-standard experience, but... yes, who said that he was looking closely at you, bachka, here - well nevertheless, so to speak,

we all have some kind of our own vision, yes, if or maybe you have had situations when you also look closely, but it seems to you that it’s not at all, but on the other hand on the other hand, this is a huge responsibility, to say that you are not a couple, yes, and to say that you are a couple is a huge responsibility, so you once had to experience such feelings and what to do with them, or maybe you had to talk , what do you know, in fact, this is what... to talk about, i believe that this is a special gift of a priest who can unite hearts like this, there are priests who say: listen, that’s it, you’ve taken a couple, connected, they lived there all their lives and so on, although there are mistakes, this is necessary in generally speaking, one elder father told an amazing story, how he just like that, brought together a seminarian and a girl from the regen school in confession, many years later he came to... home, lived with them for a week, he was already mitred, this the seminarian became a priest, that’s how he

says, i say, on the fifth day he knelt before this priest, he said, he says, father, he says, forgive me, the elder kneels, forgive me, i was mistaken, and there mother is so in the tail in gribo, and many children lived there for decades, in general, together, why the priest, what are you, what are you, father, says, then i began to acquire humility, but in fact this is a gift, sometimes, in general, you are really right, look, you came for a blessing and it seems that they don’t fit, but no, look, they live wonderfully, wonderfully, it’s good to acquire humility, yes to acquire humility, in fact, you know, i’d like to comment a little on svetlana’s story from a liturgical point of view, that’s how long you’ve been there were you together, preparing? 9 months for the wedding, or how many, yes, for the wedding, in fact, this is all provided for

by the church, but in our country, the wedding consists of two parts: the engagement, where they exchange rings, and the wedding itself, in and they do not necessarily have to be all at the same time, they do not have to be at all at the same time, that is, what is betrothal, but there they exchange rings, the ring is a sign of a kind of ransom at first, that is, the groom and his father should be. pay a ransom, or transfer, let’s say, power, a seal, a painting, to the bride, this is an engagement, but this is not a life together yet, but it’s already lunch, to remain faithful to each other, and preparations are underway for the wedding itself, the contractual part is underway, this is how you sat down there and talked, we need to agree here on the shore, yes, yes, yes, this is all provided for, it turns out, here. a mysterious wedding, or rather an engagement, and a lot of time can pass, that is

, guests are invited there, something else, salads are cut there, well, that’s it, everything is as it should be, and they agree, but at the engagement there used to be an agreement that should both parties had to sign how they would treat each other in order to then say you promised me to cook porridge every morning, and there or something else, and... and so on, and only then there was a wedding, only then, a wedding from the word crowns, but not everyone wore crowns, we know, not for everyone, only those who remained faithful until marriage, and that is, all the stages that you went through, they are illuminated by the church, they are blessed, they are very important, we now, unfortunately, have betrothal and wedding combined into one, we i’ve already read a piece from... the apostolic reading, yes, which is read at weddings, it more, it’s very important, but the main thing

is still the reading of the gospel, yes, and the gospel reading at the wedding is the marriage in cana of galilee, yes, where the savior turns water into wine, here, that’s why this passage, well, of course, because the formal reason is clear, because it’s about marriage, yes, that’s it, but here’s how, how it should be perceived, well, it should be perceived. how such a personal blessing is right here in the presence of the lord on this wonderful - let's say, joyful holiday here for us. there are actually a lot of meanings one of the meanings, we know that the lord heals a lot, does a lot of miracles during his life, but mainly on the sick, the crippled, those who suffer, and here the first thing is, yes, there is always some kind of help, that’s it yes, for some reason in our country the miracle is connected precisely with this, well , besides the walking on the waters, the whim of the apostle

peter, in general, yes, but here it’s the other way around, here he is the first miracle he performs.

along kutuzovsky prospekt, i jumped on the bus, as i understand it, the bride, because it’s a wedding dress, there’s just this one zaksa, not from our church, not from our church, yes, thank god from the zaksa, thank god from the action, but there was such a case, amazing, of course, the whole bus was just a gift from the groom, but on purpose, that’s of course not ran away, but put it off.

but the question of preserving the marriage, feelings, yes , probably not even preserving, somehow i don’t like this expression, feelings should actually increase, and ideally, yes, and not just preserving, it’s still acute, and for married marriages too, i would like to ask you, ask both of you a question, here what do you think is important to do in order to have these sensations, feelings, experiences, this grace that we receive at wedding.

but having thought about it, we generally came to the conclusion that it is really a means, a means that must be used in such a way as to reach god, that is , is it possible to hammer nails with a telephone? it’s possible, not very effective, but...

in environmental terms, i don’t know, in relation to nature, in relation to children, in relation to recreation, in relation to, i don’t know, some kind of work, well, in general everything, absolutely everything, that is, our attitude, it should help us, and my remedy, it very quickly accepted this, realized, and now sometimes says, your remedy needs a chocolate bar. here’s the thing, you know, in a group of very wealthy people i also spoke about marriage, once we met, when i said that my money needed it. chocolate, they didn’t even smile, to be honest, then they said, he says, your product is good, they immediately ask us for a fur coat, and i think that this is

how we can, let’s say, go through this whole life together hand in hand of course there will be there will be all sorts of quarrels, there will be joys, everything, a family is a very living organism, which and... i would like to finish with the words, probably on gold, i really liked one of his phrases that a husband and wife are members of one big organism, members of the church, it’s like an eye and a hand, when the hand hurts, the eyes cry, when the eyes cry, the hand wipes them, so i would really like for us to hear these words of the golden-mouthed woman, and really relate to each other as members of the same organism. like for those who need each other, husband and wife really need each other, thank you very much, there is something to think about, about theories igor

famin, svetlana feadulova, i’m vladimir ligoida, today we were gathering thoughts about weddings, marriage, love, in general , love each other, watch us and gather your thoughts with us. so sayyad hands paint, although you routy, i want red and green along the alleys, brothers, to

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hello, this is a podcast 20 years later, me and its host konstantin mikhailov. the song summer became a real hit of the summer of 2006, our guest is a girl with a unique, unforgettable voice, the lead singer of the group chile, irina zabiyaka. hello ir! hello! hello! do you have such a rare voice for, in general, show business, for a pop performer?

that he’s a little short, but his mother sings? and my mother loved it to sing when there were feasts before, we always had a guitar, not the kind that is sold in stores, this is a homemade guitar that i learned to play, my fingers were in knots, and there with strings you could cut your fingers in half, there are no nylon strings it was, what nylons, nylons i saw for the first time in moscow, yeah, and do you remember the day when the chile group was formed,

probably the chile group, it was basically formed when seryozha and i started making material, it was just not called the chile group, this is the first title seryozha sang before me, he had his own group in kaliningrad, it was called the group skrim, skrim, yeah, with the same group we went to poland, yeah, then we noticed the reaction of the poles to my voice, after which we completely seryozha himself decided to put me in the lead, and go back yourself, and you were on the backs? then she immediately came out with me on the big stage, let the beks sing along, it’s good, at least not to sing the song right away, otherwise i would have sung it there, then i started singing myself, and what was the reaction of the poles, what was it, and you know, here seryozha sings, they dance, yeah, they dance, everything is fun for them, and then my part begins, i start singing, they freeze, they just suddenly stop, they start peering at me, who is singing, that is , it was a direct reaction to the voice and

the timbre. i know that to the ear of an amateur, your voice can be confused with a man’s, all the musicians definitely buy this girl, all the musicians listen to the female voice, yes, why is it phenomenal, cool, i look at you and you haven’t changed at all since the video of the summer, in what’s the secret, maybe i looked bad then, just sometimes bad, now it’s better to make a video, where you look disgusting afterwards. after 10, in general, you noticed in general when the first clips of the artists show that they are so different in the first clips, as if you know how such ducklings are a little disgusting, they are not yet fully formed, they have not yet created a proper image, here i am when the first i watch the clips, everyone looks different, this is childhood in the eyes, and when i see my first clips, i really look very cool there and how it is now, that it’s zosh, diet, sports, i’m probably lucky. with

genetics, i'm bigger now than i was, of course, in the video it’s summer, in the video it’s summer i weighed 54 kg, now i don’t want to go back to that weight, yeah, what seemed to me then, wow, beautiful, back then i was even looking for fat somewhere, you understand , this is a sick head for a thin person, now i weigh a stable 60 kg, and somehow with my rustra 174 cm, this is a wonderful weight, yeah, well, you don’t disdain pasta and sausages.

do you think that the muse should come, you have to wait for it, or you have to come here by the scruff of the neck? well, in my case, she comes, and i notice seryozha too, you know, here’s the song new year's eve in bed, he wrote it in an hour, made a sketch of the phonogram in an hour and a half, and then they finished mixing it, it took more time, but the song itself was just born, yeah, and i, for example, when i write a song, it’s important to me to play something, i play along.

a woman is killed, and we’re talking about the devil and our hearts aren’t breaking, do you know how she’s torn, it’s just her shoulder giving and her elbow pulling, okay, let’s speculate, let’s say you’re a mole, you’re wanted, there’s a lead on you in all points of the soviet union, and no matter how good your there was no preparation, sooner or later you will still be identified, and this is a mortal danger, or you have a second, very well thought out option of escaping abroad. well, of course, i would run in, what will choose the moles, that’s the question, be careful, i’m always careful, major, find the head of the security service, have him urgently report to

the control room, and mobilize all our employees, everyone you can, the whole version is going to hell , the man was a stutterer suddenly speaks like cicero, i really hope that you don’t have to blame yourself for the fact that you don’t wanted to help us, you are a very good shooter, hello, colonel kostenko, confrontation, premiere based on the legendary book by yulian semyonov, this is a podcast 20 years later, me and its host konstantin. mikhailov, my guest is the lead singer of the group chile, irina zabiyaka. hello, once again. the name chile, i understand that this is a question that has been asked a million times already, and you have answered it approximately the same number of times, but where does the name come from? chile? actually, chile, i just liked

the sound, but for the public it’s boring, you know, yes? why chile? but just like that, well, no intrigue. and this intrigue was invented. by the way, i haven’t been hiding this for a long time. ah, a chilean revolutionary, like that. there was a big pr company, in general, chili was just a suggestion, if you don’t want chili, i say: oh, but i like it, i don’t have an association with the country of chile, yes, with pertness, with color, yeah, with spiciness, well, with what - like that, you know, it seemed to me that it was very organic with me, you probably like red hot or peppers, well, like yes, yes, like yes, but what kind of music do you listen to?

and how similar he sings, and even wearing a cap, it will generally be similar, you sing similar, it ’s not just that he sings, they even pronounce the words the same way, for me it’s just that if you ask an academic singer to sing my song, yeah, you’ll understand , that i don’t sing so directly, i remember there was such a competition where people sang all my songs, some educated, some self-taught, some sing well, some sing poorly, so they all stand on stage singing. i sit, listen and say, good, bad, a girl came out, an academic singer, she sang her heart out, and you you know, it seems beautiful, she was flying somewhere around the world, i can’t even repeat that, she

’s just like that, you know, her melody goes like this, not like i was flying somewhere around the world, it’s very gifted, you see, i have a speech pattern like this, uh-huh, sung, that’s when i did it... i realized that i’m not really singing straight, let’s now listen to you sing a song from the heart, right? i was flying somewhere around the world, there were a lot of roads, but i chose this one, i was knocking on closed doors, no one opened it. no one believed it, dark

night, hug kakala, you are dear to her became, the streets are waiting for the steps of their passers-by, but they are so different from him, these are hearts, he doesn’t love her, but why... why then does she kiss him, but doesn’t warm her heart, but no one knows how to love him like that, burned on threw the wind, those letters that she wrote to him, she just...

loves, but why then does she kiss him, this heart, doesn’t warm her, but no one knows how to love him like that, this heart doesn’t love her, but why then she kisses him, it doesn’t warm her heart. but no one can love him like that.

how did you manage to come to moscow, is it difficult? did this happen and what were the prerequisites from kaliningrad? well, at first we went with a man, one day we arrived with one, he then tried to deal with us, this is a local kaliningrad man, i remember that he brought us to spend the night in some apartment of some of his relatives, where in one room, i i don’t know, about six people slept, oh, it was terrible, and somehow this first trip around...

i listened to her, said, wow, how cool you are, yeah, he says, come live with me, i’m practically i live in a studio, and i have two dogs at home, and you will live with me, with me three-room apartment, live there, walk around, look for me, in general, you understand, this is an accident, you understand, it was some kind of fateful accident then, i remember, seryozha and i got together, went, who we went to, that’s it it would be so easy, but you had a relationship with seryozha, right? yes, yes, we were a couple for 10 years, 10 years, yes, now we are

just like friends, friends, yes, and i know, even then it was funny, this moment, when i came to the dog, i say: yura, what for the dogs, but i have small openings there dogs, kind ones, there are these two dogs, mongrels, kind ones, who you know, look at me like that, and then one, one is so plump, she, you know, this dog’s smile is worn out. i immediately realized that this was definitely a kind one, here’s the second one, she looked at me with a succulent look, and that means the first night yura went to the studio to spend the night, that’s it, there’s someone to look after the dogs, seryozha is sleeping, i turn on the tv, which means this one is sitting on one side fidgety, on the other hand suspiciously, you know, she sits like that opposite my face, her muzzle in the chair, she makes me ashes, well, for half an hour, and i ’m afraid to get up, and i remember that when she barked

in my ear, i thought that at that moment my heart would simply break, the dog is a suspect , as it turned out, she really was not a kind dog in her young years. he told me this later, so, but since she is elderly now, she no longer bit. you are a bully and a good-natured one. ira, i heard one of the last songs, this is one of the freshest, it’s almost like drum and base, but plus some guitars, so we experiment in different ways, you know, when an artist is interested in radio stations, he is forced to be in the format. radio stations, he can’t do an additional step, or a regi, he can’t do anything, because there is a certain format, a framework, however, when they don’t take you on the radio anyway, this breadth of opportunities opens up for you, that is, you can do what do whatever you want, dupstep, you can rock and roll

do the same, that is, you are no longer tied to what the formats will tell you or not, so you know, we are in some kind of moment they just spat, but we are doing a format one. songs too, sometimes they turn out like that, tell me, but there was no desire to remake those hits from the 2000s, i think that seryozha would understand that electronic music quickly becomes outdated, precisely thanks to mixing, mastering, some instruments, etc. , let’s say, the bustiness of the sound of the kick drum, it’s different at different times, and you know what’s surprising, you remember the group real to real, i like to move it, it still sounds, yes, yes, great. this is also thanks to madagascar, a second life on this the song there, whoever moves, has just appeared. so, if you take, say, the same hits there, summer, and so on, there, and, love is poison, yes, take them and put a modern

dance basis, because you have music, despite the guitars, you want to dance to it, this is dance music that should be a hit on dance floors, in theory, maybe. make a collection of some kind of remastering, you know, it may well be that we are ready for this, we will be 19 years old this year, uh, maybe we should do some kind of mastering for our twentieth anniversary, but in our old compositions, but with a live sound we sound closer to rockopop, i add heavier guitars, well, so that there is such a drive, so that it makes you sleepy, again, when you have a completely live sound, you are no longer... tied to outdated electronic music , uh-huh, yes, yes, yes, that’s why i always dreamed and wanted to have a full-fledged group, and not just dance-shams, that’s because i won’t have to bother with redoing phonograms 10 years later, that’s why there’s one here too such

a fine line when you redo it material to make it sound modern, but did not completely change this arrangement. but if they call me with a minus band, and it happens that the organizers don’t install the device, well , they want less, they want just boom-boom, then yes, of course i bring a minus, backing track, for example, we have already corrected some songs, they have tightened the kick drum , well, so that she rocked, you know , it wasn’t exactly retro. the instruments themselves , for example, in the poppies, there is an accordion, we don’t touch it, because this one is there, well, the melody, it’s important, because it’s like that the same as my voice, roughly speaking, people remembered it, or for example,