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i, larisa guzeeva, let's get married. good afternoon. today the bride is dina, alexandra and irina. and our groom is maxim. maxim is 47 years old. over the 5 years of married life , he was so rarely at home that he really met his own wife only in court during the divorce proceedings. maxim, a journalist, international affairs specialist, writer, screenwriter, dreams of buying a yacht and doing gardening, admits that he is a cook and a lover from god, warns that he suffers from chapagalism. maxim does not like gray mice without education and pedicure, his ideal is a fashionable, thrifty, wealthy woman with whom he is not ashamed to appear decent society. hello, rose, can you imagine when we started filming? this program, let

's get married, maxim was 32 years old, a teenager by today's standards, and why are you confused, gifts, why are we going to look at them or still give them, these are gifts for you, well, give them, wild flowers, man generous, you love wildflowers, oh, i adore wildflowers, everything is for you, fogs, tell me, weren’t there on duty? at home so often, yes, absolutely true, i had to go on business trips for a long time, who performed a marital duty for you, a marital duty, it turns out that someone performed it for me, well, it’s not even offensive, probably yes, well, considering that i have a very iron self-control, it was never offensive, and so are you also, it’s probably not at a loss there for latin women, as they say, for them a white man is practically a god.

i couldn’t, unfortunately, family, children, i didn’t even try, such an interesting groom, an interesting man, in fact, yes, he’s nice, you love greedy men, and i love enterprising women who push the envelope real estate, this is my story, well, of course yours, i’m looking forward to it, but it seems to me that it’s impossible to squeeze it out, it seems to me that men themselves are always happy.

you know that on business trips on my own, i honestly say, as a doctor, i fly, i constantly cheat, i have three divorces, so laris, you know that he doesn’t love you, so what, i’m a dictator, well that's who i am, that's right.

rosa, how about in a family, for example, there are two sisters, one is amazing, kind, involved in charity work, honest, again with a higher education, a good mother, and the other sister, a bastard, who simply sets a program for the destruction of herself and those around her. well, there are so many factors, you know, that are impossible to take into account. tell me, please, mendelssohn, which gender has more marriage swindlers, female or male? there is no exact answer to this question on the internet, but we can look at

the statistics of those convicted. according to these statistics , no more than 15% of crimes committed by women are solved. and what is this over there, you brought a candle, we... where did this expression come from, where did the witnesses see you off? those getting married went to the lodge and held a candle, that ’s where the whole expression came from, that is, they were witnesses to this union, listen, russia, i ’m also confused by the friend who will hold the candle, listen, well, this is something like that. for me this is generally unacceptable, i am a very intuitive person, maxim, you are really a pure person, you are good, you are open, well , as long as people like you are, they will take advantage of you, i really wouldn’t want you to become easy prey for the next woman

that will be in your life, i really wanted i would like to somehow, well, protect you from this and warn you, that’s why i will directly try to do everything that concerns me today. reveal so that you don’t end up in an unpleasant situation again, so i wish you to meet a woman today, first of all, open-minded, neurotic, not cunning, so that she is educated, so that she is not too killed by her previous life, because well, how to heal wounds then it seems to me that at the age of 47 you are not fit, you want to live happily and you deserve it, you have the right, of course he is a very good man, but it seems to me that i am for him... fresh as a rose, listen, well, he will nurture this rose of yours, moisten it, admire it, i always say that a family is united by our joint property and children, and you have already passed this period of your life, you have property, and you have children , so now

you need a woman for your family with basically the same indicators, but what will you do, travel or something else, so what?

hello, maxim, my name is dina, i am ready to give you depth, the depth of my soul, it’s very nice. dina, 40 years old, chief editor of the music program, is proud that raised her son to be a worthy man, admits that she is tired of social life, dreams of moving to the village and opening a charitable women's club, dina claims that she broke up with her ideal husband because he did not share her plans for life, hopes that maxim will be happy to wake up with her to the sound of roosters crowing, hello, “hello, how beautiful, so spectacular, yes, what a neckline, and can you imagine her gardening in the vegetable garden,

as she wants, i think not, but where were you born, in kazakhstan, and why is it here? i’m already tired in moscow, tired of social life, of events, i want to go more into nature, to naturalness, to natural beauty, to leave.” and give real happiness and receive happiness from natural nature and in general i just got lost in this glamor already well, everything is boring, but what’s stopping me, what’s stopping me, i need a man to leave, that is, not just come to the village alone, but there are those who are already with roosters, there are a lot of them alone, why not go and find them there? man, this is not very easy, and you you know, at first we laughed at what dina was telling us, that i want a village, listen, that means in moscow, everyone who is glamorized is tired of a glamorous life, they all came from cows, bulls, pigs and

partridges, you understand everything, seryozh zverev is also tired of life in this crown and also dreams of going to the village, grazing the bones there and so on, who’s in the way, it’s you who all came here from that life, went over your head to sit now on the program, tell how you tired, accustomed to always living in luxury, in comfort and move, for cosmetic reasons. that i didn’t strive for this, for all the glamor and everything else, it was life itself that simply

revealed the ways that were laid out this way, you ’ll tell me, i’ve been in this business for 40 years, laris, why don’t you believe me, i don’t believe it, because it’s snowing white and cold , sweet sugar, also white, salty salt, larisa, i love chopping wood, great, this is super, i love cooking over a fire, there is water, okay, there is no water, we know how to survive, i say, listen, well, it can be some kind of yours... who comes from the provinces, she strives for something high and there to luxury and so on

, or i also think so, look at magazines on tv, look, of course, where do you get townhouses from, and we already arrived in moscow, we already had a fortune, what the hell to you, just well, in kazakhstan there are very rich people and there are a lot of rich people there, that is, you sold something there and bought something here, and who did you work with? editor, i was married, yes, i worked, to a rich man, yes, not exactly rich, i would say that he probably became rich with me, and you and him are coming here to moscow arrived, and we lived in novosibirsk and came to moscow, yes, by that moment we already had enough material resources for work, everything was going well for my husband, i’ll tell you, but we got divorced, because there was one reason, yes, he didn’t want to go to the village with you, but he didn’t want to, yes.

i really want to go to hollywood, i understand that i’m already old, that i don’t know the language, and this won’t happen to me, i’ll never even voice my dream, but to go to the village is not a problem at all. larisa, i’ll interrupt you, it’s not just that she goes to the village alone, it’s no problem. no, then why do you come to a rich man, i don’t really understand, i think that, like yesenin, everything starts with a look, maybe maxim will look at me now, he will change his worldview, he will really want to say, why shouldn’t i you can’t leave

an international journalist who has seen the whole world, he has so many things in his head, i don’t know. well, you cook and take care of the goats, by the way, i’m currently working in this area, but how do you work, you take on work at home, i took giving courses cows, so far the cow feeding course has gone like this, there is a chicken course for sex, it will be much more interesting for a man, i have a dream to come to

the village, open my own women’s club, where creative events will be held for women. after all, it’s a village, i think today many villages are dying out, yes, people come, try to escape, and there is a category of people who prefer to stay in the village, yes, they have no development, i really don’t like writers, villagers who know absolutely nothing about the village, right from the very beginning there is such a slightly condescending mocking tone towards the heroes, the village ones, i very often visit my brother, my relatives in the orenburg region. here i am, for example, driving from the airport to my brother, 15 years old with a taxi driver, and i always think, god, what a country we have, firstly, they are all educated, they are thoughtful, they are smart, they are reasonable, they are philosophers, i’m interested in them, you’re such a fifa, you think, i’ll come like this to the village, but you’ll still have

a lot to learn from them, you know, they’ll be condescending, and so i i’ll come, all beautiful, i’ll create there , well, you misunderstood a little, because dina won’t come and won’t talk from the side of moscow fifa, on the contrary, from that girl, from the side of that girl who wants to get acquainted with village culture, learn more about it, etc. .. not boring, you can see the surprise, yes, of course, i wonder what she came up with, maybe she’ll walk along the catwalk here, change the dress, listen, or maybe she’s prepared a surprise with firewood, something from the village, chopping wood it will be, well it's really interesting to see how this will happen, let's go my dear, my saffron milk cap, saffron milk cap, saffron milk cap, let's go here, here,

here, here, here, here, here, here, here, let's go, like this, stop, stop, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, well, my city guy, maxim, let's go, i'll buy you some coffee, you'll be stunned, you see, it's a real cow, i feel sorry for the cow, in the background there's probably a house where she wants to live, come on let's get some milk, here's my beauty, saffron milk cap, saffron milk cap, saffron milk cap, i really like to look at fire, like water at work the woman is cool, and the cow is gorgeous, look how the milk is built, it’s natural. mendelssohn please evaluate the situation, you know, rose, this is a rare case on our program when i am absolutely sure that

there is someone on stage with natural breasts, hold, hold, hold, you probably love cappuccino with foam, yes with foam . an unusual surprise, the main thing is that he waits until i leave, otherwise his intestines will begin to boil in shock, the girl is not bad, it’s clear that she has a creative nature, but she seemed somewhat secretive to me, then yes, i didn’t see any depth in her, i really didn’t see it, well, i saw a beautiful woman, naturally for him i will be a secret, naturally. we had to go through this, everything was so hard, unless you’ve had a daddy since you were 18, you understand that, of course, we’re all plowed,

we’re all shoveled, that’s all, why did she take this version and think that it will attract a rich man , on the contrary, it is more repulsive, the wrong approach, it seems to me, meet the second bride, go ahead, let her be better, thank you. hello, nice to meet you, i’m not empty-handed, this is for you, you’ll appreciate it later. alexandra, 37 years old, head of

the sales department of a consulting company, dreams of an apartment with panoramic windows and a wine cellar, is proud that she is not angry with men, admits that she loves thrillers and films about maniacs, warns that once a week she needs nothing do. alexandra managed to bring an enviable bachelor to the seat, and he was a success. managed to bring their relationship to its logical conclusion, i love films, thrillers omany, i love them, police officers, this is my favorite genre, what a beautiful bride the second one is, did you notice, very sweet, very sweet, effect, not spectacular, but so cute, i’m not empty-handed, my inner messages say that what needs to be followed. nature, nature not in terms of cosmetology, yes, exactly without sugar, we still take care of our figure so that our teeth don’t suffer, all my friends surround me, exactly who produces

such products, but your figure is gorgeous, thank you, oh , which one, have children, no, good, listen, what can i say about the bride, he ’s handsome, he’s cute, tell me, what kind of enviable groom is this, who is he? who in the whole city was in such romantic relationships with many girls and you fell in love, not that you were in love, and almost immediately told your mother: mom, this is my future husband, she was in shock, says: daughter, you’ve only known him for a couple of months, it doesn’t happen that way, but what was special about him that caught your attention? and first of all, he completely fell into my image of a man from childhood, when you draw a fairy tale that i will come out get married at 25, dress, this is a certain type of man, and he got it. eyes, hair color, well, just everything, share what it was that won him over, what exactly you managed to bring him to his full satisfaction, and here, probably, thanks

to my mother for growing up and seeing how to save a family, her wisdom, because that my dad, too, before the zaks, what they used, these are my secrets, how cunning, oh well, one moment that i can definitely tell, the situation is in the evening, preparing my husband for the morning exit. to work, he held a good position, i ironed me, i told him a secret, this was before marriage, at that time we just lived together, and i ironed his trousers, and something was getting on my nerves, i told him, i will never marry you i’ll go out, in a month he proposes to me, well, i did it on purpose, she wants it somehow, that i’m like that, i’m good, that’s all, you know, and then what happened, but they lived, they lived, but usually married life. everyday life, buying real estate, well, that is standard, and then the question of children, for him it was a point, i’m 28, he was 28 then, i should already be

a family man, not only a husband, a wife, but also a child, but we were treated, checked, everything was fine, it didn’t work out, we didn’t give birth to children, why did we get divorced, sorry, he died, thank god, no, what then? i'm sick, i'm probably tired, why? what they say to me: give me, give me, give me a child, but how? yeah, i tell him, let ’s adopt, let’s adopt a surrogate, that is, all the options, oh, then i understand that life was turned into hell, poor girl, and how old were you, he didn’t understand that, well it was 28, 29, these are these, and what is the total, 6 years, well, of course, well, i ’m not crying, i accepted it, she needs to accept it too, i’m your condition is very good, well,

good. i remember, i was just as crazy, i needed support, and you were overgrown with complexes, feelings of guilt, yes, because it seemed to you that you give, give, plus i was waiting for him to say, don’t give birth, but i want from you, that i’m a mother, his children, well, these are the details there from you, they touched me so much that, well, i began to fade away, fade away, at some point he says this phrase, and i’m sitting there thinking, but i’m done, well, i’ve already cooled down. i don’t need this family life anymore, i’ve already started doing my work, some kind of realization, and i think, well, what kind of family is this already, you won’t have children, you’re 37 years old, but why, i don’t know , what will happen tomorrow, maxim, you want children, i want children, i have children, but all i have are boys, of course i want a daughter, that means you have a devotee, but

we don’t want it. then it will be quite interesting to see a surprise now - once a week for me you definitely need to seal, what does seal mean, can you guess? but for now, it’s not, it’s right to rest so that for the whole week, for the whole day, in general for your entire condition, you are full of energy and strength, so this energy needs to be somehow replenished, i agree, for this, naturally, in order to practice properly, we must prepare our bed, where we...

in the plank, you know how, teach, lie down, so, stand up, along the body, seal, seal, seal, so, let me check your pulse, i would like more, so , pulse is steady, but needed recharging, we need it, what is it, to eat, of course, this is so, and i propose to use our intellect,

mindelson, who will order... food for us, you and i are seals, we won’t cook ourselves, it’s logical, mindelson, we ask you bring us breakfast so that it is so romantic, tasty, unusual, well, within the framework of our condition that we are a seal, on the show, let's get married, so, well, your order has been accepted, expect delivery, maxim is shocked, where did you end up, me i imagined that was all. wow, good afternoon, i have a romantic one for you breakfast, onion rings, squid rings and rings with cottage cheese, wow, thank you, and today we also have a promotion, whoever bought squid rings gets a gift of belly rings, wow, what a surprise, let me announce with

my husband and wife. that's it, that's how it's done, guys, a good delivery man, thank you, thank you, girls, go to your room, join us, listen, in the end, in six months, not two tulles, but two hippos will be lying down, i really liked the girl, so open, bright, alive, yes, and most importantly, honest, yes, she tried, she tried to surprise you, she came up with such a surprise, she fed you, you see, she gave you, well, yes, she put her to bed, she tried specifically for you, that’s why i liked the girl, but the groom he was so kind, he didn’t resist, he didn’t resist everyone, so he trusted, yes.

mendelssohn, tell me, dear, what do you need to feed a man so that he definitely marries you? rose, i know exactly what i need to feed a man, ethereal promises? okay, okay, our smart guy, get acquainted with this bride hello, maxim, my name is irina, i think that i fit perfectly with your white flower, like a blonde. let's meet irina, 46 years old, owner of a

beauty and health clinic, dreams of visiting the maldives, admits that she entrusted housework to a governess. irina fell in love with a young guy and spent 10 years trying to make him a man. i was 35 years old when i met a young man, it was also, you know, just spontaneously, handsome, young, though he deceived me at that time he said that he was 24 years old, but he was

actually 19 years old, you were free, not married, no, children, no, in general, you began an affair with this young man when you found out that he was not 24, but 19, well, i found out literally, after about a couple of months. for you it probably didn’t matter at all, you fell in love, how long did this relationship last with you, and we met him in the twelfth year, broke up 2 years ago, but the period during which we lived together, we lasted 4 years, asked you for children, yes asked why they didn’t give birth, well, i had some problems as a woman, young man.

the man, firstly, he is both caucasian and many years younger than me, and did not want to do anything, did not want not to work, that is, you did not make plans for a future together, you understood that as a marriage your union could not, no , no, well, that is, you are still friends from the head, you understood that it was just you who got into trouble, you got into trouble, yes, i am always surprised, i amaze women who choose their groom, wooed him 10 years younger, and then wonder why he i didn’t add something there, why.

a person won’t go without working, that he doesn’t need anything, that he just wants it, he’s young, he wants to go out, it’s convenient, when you ’re tired of all this, you told him that you’re kicking him out, and he began to cling with his arms and legs, he says no, it will be as i say, but it’s really sad, this mendelssohn boy, you hear, otherwise it’s just really sad, maybe you can give me some kind of astrological forecast , positive, positive for our coming months. bride, in the coming months, whatever months, years, taurus will have everything wonderful cash on the business front, especially with such beautiful taurus, irina is different.