that's the thing, you talk about your life in such a way that essentially, when you talk about it, you talk about how all these negative experiences were leveled out by those very purchases, gifts and pampering that they showed you, probably, and moreover, well, like, if you try to change a little, add some tragedy, some drama to your story, then mom and dad got divorced, like, yes, they were able to communicate normally.

close off, well, and you know, how good it is that at least you don't drink vodka, yes, it's good that chapagalism, but since you begin to understand that this is not adequate, then of course you need to look at this from the point of view of the fact that what emotions you are closing, i will assume, for now i will abandon it like this and we will move on, and that these are precisely those same feelings of anxiety of loneliness that arise inside you, yes, perhaps, that is why all these purchases do not bring pleasure, because this is also ... the same thing that was in your

childhood, you were bought a lot, you had a daily routine, a schedule, knitting, sewing, a photography club, all this, but it was necessary, i needed this warm contact, yes , closeness, warmth, it seemed like it was missing, do you know how to create warm and close relationships, do you think you can, i actually have this kind of fixation, for me it has always been important to have a family dinner, a family...

well, we are not talking about things now, it is precisely about emotions, to make a person happy, why are you divorcing such a wonderful girl, why is a man leaving, why is he leaving, well , what difference does it make, even if you kick him out, but no, i am not kicking him out, i left him, well because i can't live with such an unemotional person, he is ready to cover some of my basic needs, conditionally. well, he tells me: why are you

complaining? you have everything, you have a house, you have everything there, what else do you need? and i need it to be cool, fun, interesting, emotional, well, that is, i want something that is impossible, i want to buy something that cannot be bought, yeah, that's probably it, yeah, that's what is not sold initially, yeah, that's happiness, flight, yeah, that is, not that well, yeah, there is a husband, yeah, good, yeah, he is there something, he goes to work, he's a good guy, that's when he leaves for work, or left, no matter how you felt, so good , to be honest, especially the last five months, i was so happy, i sometimes didn't even want him to come, that's how much, well , you were alone, what did you feel at that moment, you went there, to meet friends, girlfriends, not always, i spent a lot of time at home, we lived outside the city, i liked to walk. i liked to hear

the birds singing, i planted some hydrangeas there, he i always said, i had two beds, a miserable three by three squares, and i thought, damn, plant. there are onions, he, yes, that we will buy this onion, i so wanted to create something, and i still want to, i even went to sew, i am now trying to take pictures, i want to see the result of my efforts, my work, now you are doing it, now i am doing it, yes, and you know, i feel so happy now, despite the fact that i continue to buy, look, it's strange, it feels like everything just as if this happiness does not close your vn. no more than your some kind of internal hole, which closes precisely during consumption, yes, but now i did an experiment for myself, i left, went to a friend, left with two suitcases, in one a pill, in the second , things, so now i still calm myself down by the fact that i buy what is necessary,

because everything else, it is like there, to return to it, i do not want it yet, i do not plan, for now, well, not today, i just understand that i am... alone better than me, as if nothing is pressing on me, more comfortable, well, i feel much more alone , but what's been weighing on me lately, it seemed to me that he was like, well, it's like he doesn't hear me, he often asked the question, what are you missing, but i had enough of everything, i didn't have enough time, attention, i didn't have enough jokes, i didn't have enough walks together, i didn't have enough watching a movie together. together, i didn't have enough time together, and what do i lack, well, strawberries, let's buy you some in the evening, do you want strawberries, eat strawberries, and i have this snot, yeah, and you're sitting at home, he says, let me buy you some strawberries, at that moment of course you want him to

just be there next to you, but he's not next to you, that 's just how it happened, then what did you feel, nothing, i mean such emptiness, emptiness, yes, and this is one of... if before that we had a difficult relationship for a year already, if before that i understood that we still let's do this, let's try this way, let's do it here, then lately i've just felt emptiness, i understand that i don't need anything at all, let's see, how are you the first time you turned to specialists with this question or have you already gone to well i turned to them a year ago, that i also close the emotion, the need there with purchases, but after talking to a psychologist... i went out, called a friend and said: listen, let's go, there's a new collection, we need to go in, let's go, just take a walk, yeah, well you can do the same today after talking to us, but now there is still a feeling that you are as if more ready to figure this out? yes, i'm tired, really, i want, i

understand that even well, as if for me too it was very indicative, i was in thailand, it was many years ago, i was on holiday on one of the... islands, and there are three islands , one of them has an airport , you can get to the other two by ferry, it's like a panga to kotau, yes, yes, kotau, i was on kotau, i was on holiday there for probably three years in a row, i have these two, and can you imagine, yes, forty-degree heat, with these two suitcases, i can't close anything, i bought myself some aloe vera in some store, some gifts, and i bought gifts for everyone who it... wasn't necessary, they didn't really ask me, and that means i, since i stayed there for 3 years in the same hotel, they already knew me, there was such a wonderful thai woman, and i took some things out of my suitcase for her, because it simply wouldn't close,

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the legendary book by yulian semenov. okay, and these are like those parts of you that you are aware of, but the unconscious part still strives to go buy. let's just try to figure out what else today, well, if we consider in general in principle your. your chapagalism, as behavior, well with attachment, yes, addictive, then we definitely need several elements, we definitely need several targets, one of which is your professional activity, the second is your some relational elements, well the third, let's say, is your whole figure of you as a person, so if you give up shopping, well that's how it happened and you don't buy anymore, what will start to change in your life in your opinion, how will yours change? more money, there will be more money, i think that yes, no more, in large quantities, i can, here

professional activity too, well such a small nuance, i worked there as an assistant before, oh, before that i worked as an assistant in a large holding, after that i became the executive director of a modeling agency, after that something went, went, went, i moved to moscow, and here i was for now, well, with my man in an uncertain status. i was finishing, finishing higher professional education, since there was a transfer from one place to another, i lost 2 years, these 2 years i did not work, and it was also extremely difficult for me without work, since before that my life consisted of wonderful trips, i was cool, it was interesting to communicate, to meet with new people, i really regret that during this time i lost my professional skills, for example, like... like knowledge of english, before it allowed me to communicate with anyone, anywhere, at

any time, now i understand, there recently , going into some conditional restaurant, when mm i hear a conversation in english, that i understand almost half of what they say, so i would really like to return to the activity in which i lived, but let's say, now i understand that this is impossible. or how you worry, you worry about him finding out that you are a shopaholic, you are dating a man, and how you are afraid

, that is, well, let's say, okay, if we assume that your relationship, you hide this part, i don't hide this part at all, but what if you have a problem, let's say, you acknowledged it, thank god, i 've been talking about it for the last, probably, four months for sure... frankly, that yes, that is, you won't hide it from a man who meets you, introduces you, hello, alexandra, i am a shapogolik, i have been for 15 years, i buy all sorts of unnecessary nonsense, yes, as if, usually they just don’t ask about it, it is found out in the process, when they ask me, why do you buy so much, i say, with pride, i am a shapogolik, that is, you are not worried about the fact that having met some man, this man simply will not be able to build a relationship with you, if you continue such shapagalism, not yet, not yet, yeah, i

am still in fact in that, not that in that status, in those feelings that and it was hard, like getting used to each other was hard, plus he has two marriages behind him, one official, one not so official, this is communication with children, which is very difficult to build, and it was not easy for me, plus he also has his own internal conflicts at work, which are

quite serious, which in general added to the fact that ...

your task is to buy something every day that costs less than 500 rubles. it can be anything, go down to the metro, there are absolutely a lot of things sold in the passages, absolutely unnecessary, i went down, do you know how much it costs there, not 500 rubles. well, no, if you try, you will find something for at least there are stores, everything is 349 or something like that, no, i understand everything, you don’t want 500 rubles, let it be 1.00 rubles, but your task is to go in and buy something, like every day to buy some nonsense, but it shouldn’t be.

you want to do it, then you buy, but i have a feeling, especially judging by your reaction, that this will be more than enough, thank you very much, you know, the previous psychologist told me about a method,

i think it was called 21 days or something like that, that if you like something, you take a photo of it, and if after a month you haven't changed your mind about buying it, then you go buy it, i tried it, it didn't really suit me, well that's why i suggest it. how are you leaving, sasha? it was important to hear, probably, that i love myself too, that i probably don't need someone who will love me, that i'm no longer a 3-year-old girl who needs to walk with her dad, conditionally.

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hello everyone, with you is the podcast schrödinger's cat, and i am its leading scientific journalist grigory tarasevich, our guest today is alexander karpov, doctor of physical and mathematical sciences, scientific secretary of the laboratory of nuclear reactions joint institute for nuclear research, hello, today we have such... the topic may be a little strange for those who are used to such a strict division in school into physics and chemistry. look, this year is our anniversary, 190 years of mendeleyev, 145 years of einstein, each of these two wonderful scientists, a symbol of an entire science, as einstein is a symbol of physics, mendeleyev is a symbol of chemistry, what alexander does, as i understand, is somewhere between einstein and mendeleyev. now the periodic table appeared on the screen, the same one that we are used to in school, here we have the ninety-ninth, which

is metaphorical, but i would like it to be named after einstein, there is an element named after mendeleev, long after his death, what is their peculiarity, that they do not exist in nature, and einstein's element was obtained as a result of thermonuclear explosions, as a side reaction. in such gigantic quantities of macroscopic, and heavier elements, some of them are found on earth, but many

are in the universe there... where these elements are synthesized continuously, yes, they are there in in principle they can be, the same einstein and fermat, of course, they are in the broad sense of understanding nature in the universe, they are, but we do not find them on earth, we do not find them, because on earth we can find those elements or those isotopes of these elements that are either stable, or those that live, uh, do not decay long enough to survive on earth, let me remind you that the earth in general in the solar system is about... 45 billion years old, and those elements that live billions of years longer, they are on earth, that's it uranium, this is the last element, uranium 238, its half-life, also coincidentally, is 4.5 billion years, that is, on earth we still have half the original amount of uranium, well, as i understand it, to obtain it in nature is no longer a trivial task, just in case i will remind you where the elements come from...

similarly, after the big bang we had hydrogen and a little helium, there was nothing else in particular, well, one to three, yes, for something heavier to appear, even a little heavier than hydrogen and helium, stars need to ignite, and even stars can create new elements up to a certain limit, i think up to iron, if i'm not mistaken, well, there are two types of reactions that people basically use to obtain artificial elements, artificial isotopes, but in order to... to obtain a new element, you need to change the nucleus, that is, change the number of protons, we can do this, in fact, nature does it in two ways: either by merging the nuclei of lighter elements, they approach each other like two drops of liquid, merge, and the nucleus of a heavier element is obtained, and so on an atom is formed, that is, how - a structure where there is a nucleus and electrons, this is the number one way, this is exactly how nature produces elements, as you correctly

said, up to iron nickel. something like that, and heavier than iron, nature cannot do this, because in order for stars to burn, synthesis reactions must occur with the release of energy, so up to iron they go anyway, and heavier than iron they, on the contrary, begin to proceed with the absorption of energy, therefore the star cannot move further, it simply goes out, and the only way that remains is with with the help of neutrons, there is such a type of decay, beta minus decay. this is when , well, you could say, an extra neutron appears in the nucleus, and it is advantageous for it to become a proton, then it can do this due to this weak interaction due to beta minus decay, it can do this, another electrin and electrons and an antineutrino fly out, but they leave the nucleus, in the nucleus there was essentially a neutron, it became a proton, there was iron, iron with the number 26, so the extra neutron decayed, which got into the nucleus, became element number 27,

another neutron got into it, it decays. element number 28 nickel, and so on, we can move up and up and up along this ladder, these two processes are responsible for the fact that we have the periodic table from iron to uranium, well, to put it more simply, everything that our world consists of, which we eat, touch, put on our feet and something else, was created either in the depths of stars.

new ones, and from an even more monstrous event of a collision of neutron stars. it's hard to imagine, here i have a ring, in it are atoms, gold, in them are nuclei that appeared due to the fact that somewhere in space huge bodies collided from the mad energy and compressed other nuclei. such a slightly fantastic story, but as i understand it, you bring this fantastic story down to earth and do it in your laboratory, almost, that is.

the only way that a person can use is fusion reactions, synthesis reactions. that is, the way in which nature, on the contrary, produces the lightest elements, a person can only use this method to produce elements heavier than the hundredth. i will simplify a little again, that in the laboratories where alexander works perform reactions that even the collision of neutron stars cannot reach. and your laboratory is one of the world leaders in the number of new elements of the periodic table created. and if you open a modern version of the periodic table now, you will see names such as, for example, what is our 104 element, reservfordium, reservfordium, 105 - dubnium, because the institute where alexander works is located in the city of dubna,

this element was named in honor of this city, and this decision was international, so flarium what do we have 114, 114 element flerovium in honor of the founder.

in order to bring the technology to such a level , they could concentrate efforts for that, sensitivity, so that experiments that have failed for about 15-20 years anywhere in the world, they became possible to do, really , the technology could be improved, well, hundreds of times. and let's discuss this question: how ... in general is it done, in quotes, a new element, as i understand it, now in dubna a whole factory of superheavy elements has been built, that's what it's officially called, yeah, as i understand it, a photo from there of the accelerator, and how to make a new element at all, well, look, as we

said, in order to make a new element, you need to merge two nuclei, the nucleus is charged, positively charged, as we remember from the school physics course , like charges repel, therefore positively charged nuclei, they repel each other so that they touch, then with albeit with an insignificant, but still not zero probability they could merge, they need to be brought to each other, overcoming these repulsive forces, for for this they need to be accelerated, accelerated, and to speeds that are about 10% of the speed of light, that is, it is about 3000 km / s, that is, through these channels, pipes, i don’t know what they are called. elements fly at a speed of 3000 km / second and how do i hit some target, absolutely probably, how do they accelerate them and how do you determine what worked and what didn’t? well, the accelerator that is used is called a cyclotron,

in fact, its entire operating principle is based on the fact that a magnetic field allows you to turn a charged particle, in general, it should according to the school physics course, a charged particle in a constant magnetic field moves in a circle and accelerates the electric field, that is, plus-minus charged particle ion. prepared in advance flies between plus and minus, accelerates, then we must change the polarity so that next time it accelerates again, does not slow down, and the magnetic field - the resulting trajectory turns into a spiral, that is , as the speed increases, the radius of the orbit increases and we get spirals with you, here on this the beam moves in a spiral, and gradually accelerating with an electric field, in the end it is taken out and gets into these very channels that we... see on the screen,

these channels go into the experimental halls, where the separator is, the target, after it the separator, after it the detecting system, stop, come here, i said, go, uh, here, come, go, tell them, what are you doing, go away. get out of here, volodya, here, please take the money, this is all because of me, i'm guilty, i'm guilty of everything, take the money, buy a car, new or old fix it, alon, no, what are you talking about? i beg you, just take the money, just don't call the police, they'll kill me, you know, and in our yard on sunday on the first, oh, and how's alonny, the car is being repaired, i

'll explain everything later, there's been no bus for a long time, well , guys, let's go to the movies, and as we agreed, oops, and this is my employer, meet me, hello, i'm lena, hello, what happens next, here's a particle flying, a particle of what, what do you use as a dart that you send, if we're talking about the most heavy elements, let's say, or aganison yes 114-18, then for the synthesis of this last - five, six elements , calcium was used as a bombarding particle, its very rare isotope, calcium 48, and the targets are isotopes of transuranic, that is, artificial elements, because calcium is an element with the number 20, in order for us to get element 114, we lack 94 protons. that is, we need to make a target from an element with

the number 94, this is plutonium, that is, we take plutonium with the number 94, yes, we will make it from it target in the form of foil, yes thin foil, we irradiate with a beam, calcium 48 s, as i said, with a very small probability, we will hit the nucleus into the nucleus, also with a small probability these two nuclei will merge, we will get the nucleus of a new element, which must cool down, because it is in a hot state.

is the heaviest of the known closes the seventh period of the periodic table, well , it is clear that in a simplified form it seems that well, my god, took a piece of the element, threw it at another, happiness and glory came, but it is clear that this is a complex process, and also it complicated because the heavier the element, the shorter its life expectancy, here is element 118, how long does it live in nature?

we will have the heaviest nuclei, and then the stability of nuclei is reminiscent of helium and so on, in the upper right corner we have some kind of marine theme, because there is something similar to a continent, which ends with the eighty-second element lead bismuth, which is the heaviest, stable elements, that is , elements that have a stable isotope, there is...

element in the region of element 114, which is already known today, but the truth is with a gigantic number of neutrons 184, so if we can synthesize such a nucleus, then it will really live a long time, how long, there are different predictions, from thousands of years to millions and billions of years, this area was called the island of stability of superheavy elements, actually , starting with this prediction, the sixth... year begins, actually the story of the search for the island of stability, with the search for superheavy elements, they found this island, they discovered it, you can shout earth, you can shout earth, you can shout earth, because those experiments that were done in dubna at the beginning of the millennium, they prove that the island of stability

exists, we haven’t gotten to its center, we haven’t been able to see these same stable isotopes yet, we haven’t been able to... synthesize them, but we have really reached the shore of the island of stability, we see that as we take small steps towards the island, the life time increases - quite quickly, that is, there, well so on average, adding one neutron to a superheavy element, we increase the lifetime by about 10 times, yeah, that's a really gigantic figure, which says that we see this growth. stability and we really, really hope that really such elements in the very center will live for these predicted thousands, maybe millions of years. well, you 're talking about increasing the number of neutrons, and if we talk about protons, your vertical line goes up to

about 124, well, about yes, but can it be there for beyond the screen there is a large continent of stability, i recently read. to say, well, i think that no one will take on, the tenth, approximately, element, the only thing is how reliable are these predictions, because nuclear physics is a science based on models, on our model ideas about the nucleus, the quality of the predictions of these models

depends very much on how far we have gone from the known...