because time will pass, 10 years will pass, you will ask the child what you were given for your 7th birthday, he will not tell you, because this thing means nothing to him, it is one thing in a thousand, and how he went with you there, i don’t know, on a hike and fried bread on a fire, then how she, then how she made cakes with her mother and poured some chocolate on herself there, then what effect this cake had on...

and immediately come up with a storage system, because what you are talking about is a separate traumatic factor for you, it means, they bought construction set, bought a container, that's it, yes, here's a container, okay, this is your construction set, shovel it in there, that's it, take it, go take it to your zone, which we've allocated, it's not in your brother's zone, not in the common zone, in your zone, put this construction set, it would be good to remind you periodically later that you remember how... you dreamed about it, oh, and how great it will probably be to assemble it, or maybe you need help, yes, because for a child, when he looks at a complex toy, it is even positioned that way, it is even so they advertise it as a time to spend with a parent, and he is waiting, perhaps for this help, perhaps she is thinking about how you will help her at this moment, or maybe in general, there is a construction set in the wishes, you come together to the store, it is great to do this together, you come to the store and say, yes, here it is, this

construction set, no problem, we can buy it, but look, here is a game that we can play with the whole family, here , here, i don’t know, something interesting came out for creativity, we are here too we can spend time together, because any material thing is just an accompanying material for the emotions it is associated with, maybe offer them, you know forms of exchange, okay, masha has this, and you have this, let's with... masha offer each other to exchange for a week, here bring her to kindergarten, she will take your construction set, and you will take her construction set, you will play with this thing, so desired, which you have added to your list you will understand, do you need it at all, please tell me, do they go to garden, and what else do they do, maybe they have some clubs, there somehow at first about the methodological materials i was a little tense, not too much materials , probably i just don’t know what it ’s called, these are various developmental toys, what is it?

by category, by the way, this is also one point about the material, i can’t say that we buy a lot from one category, but it turns out i bought, for example , some developmental notebooks, because i see that we are interesting... beads, and then there are for creativity, let's say, a couple of sets of some kind, because my daughter says, i like creativity, here's a set, well, i don't buy it right away, but over time, let's say, okay, with my salary, let's consider it, let's take something, we'll study some kind of technology, or for some kind of exhibition, if you want in the garden, let's do something together, and then from sports, how... and what do they do

in sports, they run, jump, stand on their ears, about sports sections, that is, my daughter went to a creative studio, it's not a sports section, then general physical training, but just general physical development and at one time she was involved in freestyle, that is, my husband and i do tricks on roller skates, they went there too, only to another trainer, now this has already happened, now that they are giving up everything, why is this happening? and refused to pay for these subscriptions, because we began to have problems with discipline, because this turned out to be the extreme point, when i stopped carrying out the program, it feels like we, here we have reached a dead end with these situations, with discipline, agreements, with cleaning the room, and i realized that we need to go back to the beginning, to the beginning without toys, without these, without everything, start talking to the children, and i explained to them why i was doing this, that we were taking a month...

vacation, because they started to disrupt training, they started, well, fooling around, doing whatever they wanted, and i understand that, that is, contact with the child is lost, that is , something is happening inside him. why he disrupts training, that is one thing, if he didn’t like it, at least the two of them would go to one and the same thing, at the ufp it was like this, that they started going together and they were there, and the daughter once broke her brother's nose there because he teased her, it's time to separate them, well, considering such a nuance, it can't be not very common for our viewers, but for you it's time to separate them in their hobbies they were separate, and then because of the fact that there are many... sections and this is a big investment of time and so that there is no overlapping of training, well, in what sense, so that the child has time to play and be in his room, that is, we began to optimize, that's why at the ufp we they were connected, but then i realized that it is necessary to be in general, to be in this room in

the beautiful one that you like so much, or is it still your desire that they talk about it themselves, that is, we had a moment when they say, we want to do something there, okay, i want this, this, we considered in the process. from which there was a request, that is, we began to optimize his training, but the second one did not complain, the second one was satisfied with everything, i don’t remember, but then we changed, that is, i understood, that’s all. that is, he already stopped it means to understand the meaning of training, he stopped liking it, because he already wants it here, he doesn’t feel that he is at home there, he says, i haven’t played there for 3 days, well nastya, i have a feeling a little that this is probably your peculiarity, i don’t know, your spouse, i haven’t

seen everything a little hyper, there’s a lot of everything, you want coloring books, a lot, you want a constructor, a lot, let’s have different training, no, haven’t you noticed? she said that there are a lot, i would you know, how i would have designated this moment, you also don’t need a diet in this regard, that’s what i’m asking, what coloring book so one, section so one, so everything one by one, two by two, a little, and why then everything is so full and section, and because in general assiya, that is, and because they grow, and some wishes from the garden are added every day, some information, they communicate, that is, information. they don’t receive yet, let’s say, they talked with grandmothers there, grandmother threw out ideas and in the kindergarten some ideas and - and besides, i’m in the framework of spending time with children, i also bought board games, because my husband and i used to we played them, we decided to buy something for

family, for traditions, to buy a game, maybe my mistake was that it was with a minimal time difference and for...

it is impossible not to love to forget where you come from, and what your roots are, what colors we will fill the lives of our children with, such will be the future, two stars, fathers and sons, watch after the evening news in the new season. on the first, tell me, is it possible to do business in my city without me? you komolov, oleg viktorovich, here is the resolution on your arrest, last night the museum was robbed, what does my dad have to do with it, so, well, tell me, the director is local, from leningrad, with his wife and

daughter, they came, the daughter is grown up, she is going to be an artist, that's how, the museum was robbed at night, the neighborhoods don't sleep only in houses where they sell wine and more often, so, what's going on here, maybe we can come to some agreement, huh? pizza, that everything is fine, and how did you, hell, such a sly one, fall for a simple scam, and everything looked so convincing, and aren't you afraid at all that we will get stuck? he needs help, unfortunately, without money it is impossible to do, five, seven, oh, what, ah, you were simply delightful, and your partners too, my name is mark natanch barshak, i am in a way looking after this city in the vicinity, i need your talent in one very interesting and risky case, ninel, the premiere of a multi-part film, soon on the first, and you know that

she has a patron, an adult appeared, thanks to whom i am here, and not in a cell, and what is it worth, you know, the son is just involved in football, before that he was also involved in rollerblading and continues to play football now, he... we took a vacation, i didn't call it a punishment, i really, that was the moment when we were with the children, when they understood me, i say, you and i have problems, we argue, mom is a dragon, dad also gets up in a dragon when he comes home after work, we can't agree, but this is, is this how we want it to be in our family, children are like that, well no, this is not very good, i just can't understand why you deprived them?

he's an adult there, it's like a teacher calling you in the middle of a work day day and say: listen, mom, come to the kindergarten, your children are arguing here, solve the problem with them, but this is strange, this also happens, this is also strange, this is a question, if they tell us, then we should do something, no, they tell you because they understand that you are such excellent parents, now excellent parents will come, they will subordinate their children to us, it will be convenient for us, the coach, an adult, wants him to be comfortable, so that everything is like op, run, op,

not to be there, because it is the child's time, during training i try not to look, its formation, its development, that is, i leave, then you will tell how the training went. in general, the paid time was left, this is the coach's job, a person is 7 years old, not 2 years old anymore, and we cannot always track this moment, where in relation to sports training, where we are, where our boundaries as parents, what should we explain, show, tell, do, influence, i don't know how to do what, what should we know.

pregnancy itself, i say, we should be on the same side, we should agree, because otherwise the children this split will begin, yes , good and bad will begin and so on, children quickly read this, and then i come with my husband, start talking, when we... let's say they complained to us about some situations, told us what's wrong, that we should do something, they don't always say that we, accordingly, where do we turn, to us, to ourselves, and think what can be done, to a psychologist, for example, we probably start with ourselves, if we can't cope, we go to a psychologist, that is , i was, yes, i was twice at a children's psychologist in our kindergarten, i contacted them because... well, from the category of a person needs a person, i say, i don’t take the program out, but

i don’t want to argue with the child either, because i want him to come to me for support in adulthood, i had such an experience, they helped, maybe not in everything, but they gave recommendations on how to experiment at home, maybe create some kind of tradition or what to pay attention to, sometimes they said, no need, here you don’t need to do anything and... and we were like, okay, no need, no need, we abstract ourselves, we agree with my husband, this is very good advice, i will also tell you now, when a trainer tells you: do something, you tell him, thank you, definitely, definitely. but for you it means no need, because this is his area of ​​responsibility, you entrusted the child, he is engaged in your child, he is 7 years old, he has the right to get tired, he has the right to do what he is told for 10 minutes, then go crazy and release the tension that he received, then continue to follow the training program, that is, your task is to maintain face, be as polite as possible, say,

thank you, dear comrade, thank you for letting me know, i was aware, there can't be a case of sport, sport, health, nutrition, education, it can't be a punishment, because we can only do more harm in the end, moreover, the child will take it as a tool to control you, that is, he will understand that - i'm tired of music school, i'll go and throw all my things around, mom will say, that's it, we're cleaning up the music school, because something is wrong here at home, i'm exaggerating, yes now, so of course i wouldn't want to. but the line is clear, yes i'm exaggerating, but the line is clear, that is , there are things that we don't touch and think about rebuilding, firstly, the boundaries between ourselves and the children, the child and i, my childhood, my past, my thoughts, in general, different stories, this is like different continents, we cannot come here with our samovar and establish here the rules that

would be comfortable for us in our childhood, many years have passed, they are completely different. we separate the twins, by the age of seven it's time, we separate them as directly as possible, we don’t try to lump them together, on the contrary, we help them to separate, why, because they will lump themselves together, my daughter sometimes says to me: i want my own room, i say, sorry, but of course we will consider the issue, but after many years, it’s just when i talk about cleaning, i say, we need to clean, but this is also to the question and about... a common toy, that this was blurred, because we don’t know how to react, how to separate, he says: i want my own room, again i don’t know, what to answer her to this, yes definitely, someday you will grow up, you will have your own room, when you set goals for yourself, you will be able to earn money, we will probably try to help if we have such an opportunity, but today we

have the opportunity to live in our beautiful apartment, in our good, cozy, comfortable family, do you have valuables that many are deprived of, you have a brother, and a brother who is your twin on the same wavelength with you, a very, very close person for you, enjoy this advantage, offer them search for solutions, children all the time find some very unusual things in kindergarten as we talk, that is, i came to talk about stas, well, about his situations, but since adela is always in the background, accordingly, not ... anyway, of course , they mainly spend time together in one group, she also expressed a version, she says, maybe they are just tired of each other, they are always together, they spend very little time separately, because i still pick him up from kindergarten to introduce, we introduced this, but in for the majority, how do you manage to bring

two of them to kindergarten, pick up two from kindergartens, and... and if during, let's say, a doctor, then there are these everyday things, well, we can't get rid of the everyday ones, but at least during and i also started talking to them about training, that i have to drag both of them, although one trains, because i say, i can't yet, i'm taudying like a parrot, for several, probably three months, i can't, i can't leave one alone yet, i can't leave one alone, well, okay, recently they began to understand that... yes, i will sit, be bored, because you can't leave me, so use this time for effective time with the second one, who is not busy with anything, the most suitable time to read a book together, tell him a story, i don't know, just pat him on the head, do something else, don't leave yourself at this moment, maybe solve some work issues on the phone, you have 40 minutes

alone with this child, you don't even need to spend a day off for this, divide into two parts, here you are now he has. with you alone, think up, tell me, let's think up how we will spend these 40 minutes, what do you want to do, maybe he just wants to hug, sit in your arms, and this can be, offer options all the time, use this time effectively everything, well yes, now it will probably be - just when it was cold it was difficult to go where it was cold, you can also hug, you can hug, this answers the second child, here about this, here is to distinguish. the moment did not see you, let him train, why should you sit at training, go to another place, don't be nearby, just this time of responsibility of the coach, turn off a little bit your desire to see everything, to control everything. to know everything and give children confidence that if they are alone, if they achieve something with them at this moment, nothing will happen, this is very good, this is wonderful, you will meet it in a different

mood with the second child, because you also spent this time effectively, not with whining that your football has finally ended there, with joy yes, that we are glad for you, that now you join us, the question of effective time, which, by the way, has already ended for us, so we will also wrap up, thank you nastya. to you that you came today, i hope that it was useful to you, it was useful, i think that it was you who gave so much food for thought, so much food for experimentation on the issue of how to work, after all, not with children, with ourselves, because we very often focus on them, that here, here like this, here like this, here like this, and then we start from the top to drive a sense of guilt into them, that you don’t appreciate it, we are trying here, we are becoming. to return again to us, this is the moment, i always thought that we should try less, in fact, no , now as we talk i listen, i understand that i am focusing

on the wrong thing, now you have suggested several such ideas, simple, banal , yes, impossibilities about these common toys, these nuances, which i think that over time i even just see and feel it myself. easy, that it is firstly, easy to do, nothing, that is, easy to agree, children will understand it, accept it, because they like such experiments, they feel like adults at that moment, and that it will reduce to a minimum this, when there is time left, roughly speaking, for pleasant things, and not for such bad things, when they will fight more, well, i am glad that i was useful to you, if you have a question that you want to ask me, you can do it on the website of the first channel with... i was with you, larisa surkova, podcast ask surkova, see you soon! if you want to come to me for a consultation, here in the studio, fill out the form on

the channel one website, i will be happy to help you. sooner or later you will have to make a decision. are you choosing a career or a family? your reputation is very important for you and for us, but not to the same extent that i have to choose a bride for you. and it is important to me personally. that everything is fine with you, thank you, gedar levich, and maybe you can explain what is going on, i was bored, worried, you didn’t even tell me that in moscow. magamayev, today on the first, as the head of the opera troupe, i am forced to release you from participation in the production of pocket, i do not understand, rise, stand up, this is mine! and no, not a passage yard, get out of here, excuse me, comrade colonel, you will go to switzerland, according to the legend, the election is ours, your

object, the swiss general henri guzon, hitler is ready for war, it is about to begin, we have strangers in the village, two men in a black mercedes, i think they are interested in you, you will go with us, and ... most likely you will be sent to the gulag. duels. illegal life colonel rybkina. on saturday on the first. having started writing, i seemed to have been resurrected. i worked under my ninth surname voskresenskoye. all my books were for children. i have not written a single line about foreign intelligence, which gave me 25 years of life.

and now help me, help me, we invite you to the black sea, the best bora in

the world! harmony!

and the mark tuk sadness, kolyanki, dubryadki festival all over russia.

and what is it? the golden ten accordionists of russia. well, firstly, these are the best accordionists of the country today and those loved by tv viewers. secondly, this is a music television festival, invented back in 1999 by gennady zavolokinny himself. well, thirdly, there are 10 of them, beautiful, round and... terribly exciting, here, perhaps, it is important to add that for the twelfth time we have gathered the next golden ten together, that this event took place in the city of sochi in the village of loo in the krasnodar territory on the black sea coast, and that the participants in the golden ten were selected exclusively based on reviews and comments from viewers of game and harmony, well, what

came of it? it's up to you to judge, friends, we liked it, sea, sun, accordion, what if not a vacation, what if not a holiday, what if not happiness, so who are our heroes, who, in fact, got into the top ten, here they are, coming, approaching.

the first gold-tenth, the case will be, so, the first to speak is the oldest participant of our tv show, place of birth. kichi-gorodetsky district of the vologda region, place of residence - the village of maysky, vologda district of the vologda region, year of birth, 1958, has been playing the accordion since the age of 10, main profession - club worker, marital status married, two children, warehouse calm character, life motto, only forward, ditties, shorties.

so he walked, it was so nice, she was always cheerful, she didn’t go, my black-haired one got dirty, ok, my darling won’t come today, i won’t wait, oh, what evenings, no daughter, i’ll get through it somehow, ah, little sharp- eyed girl, she doesn’t move her eyes... ah, you did something wrong yourself, you said, don’t go, ah, i went, she remained standing on the hillock, ah , the short girl made

me suffer, i noticed long ago, by the way, that those who grew up on the river, northerners, semeryak, everyone swims great. so you are fine at sea here, you swam beyond the buoys, swam beyond, the greasers scolded, scolded a little, kuhali, don't swim beyond the buoys, comrade from the vologda region, accordionist of the golden ten, i think it's nikolai, come back, your homeland needs you, what's your impression, how is the sea, excellent, as ten-players comrades, talked a little, talked, yes, fine, guys, with whom more, more, here is seryozha, i liked him better.

this is our accordionist also with significant filming experience, alexander ivanovich mikhalev, place of birth city irkutsk, place of residence city sochi, year of birth 1964, plays the accordion since 32 years. main profession - music teacher, marital status married, two daughters, four grandchildren, character type is flexible and negotiable, life motto, my path is a meeting with life, with people, with god, on

sochi land, accept gifts from us, go what, thank you, these are the best, finally we waited for you, finally confided, and do you know this? that we have known this person for a long time, this is a friend of gennady zavolokin alexander ivadovich mikhalev, so to the center, to the center, to the center, he himself is from irkutsk, but now lives in sochi, and so an irkutsk cossack, yes, and he prepared a local tune, a kabardinka, he is called, yes a kabardinka, we ask, we ask, you are no longer, not yet,

youth, youth, creativity, well, in general , go to siberia, yes, i have already been there and i plan to bow this fall and the graves, probably there are dad, brother , see all friends and relatives, greetings to baikal, greetings to all my friends, bow to everyone and to the priests and cossacks, and my relatives, ok, well what about kuban too? holds, yes, the geography has expanded, now i am here engaged in creativity, mentoring, in cossack classes, raising children, grandchildren, two grandsons, two granddaughters, so oh, and two daughters, two granddaughters and two grandsons, beauty, our dear alexander ivanovich, how we love you, man, thank you very much, here we are, how siberians are loved here in kuban, i will go out to chistopol, my shoulders. i will celebrate, oh and

what a lot i got, orthodox homeland, you are my only one, strange to everyone, with pain permeated, the soul of the orthodox, i have one. for all strangers strange will permeated the soul of the orthodox birds in the morning in turn generously give joy, to feel peace in the soul, you only need ma'. if the lord is with you,

then in life there is the main thing, praise to god, lord, the soul of the orthodox, if the lord is with you, then in life there is the main thing, praise to god, sing! soul of the orthodox, this city is called the gate of the north, here a special unique way of life has been preserved, which is dictated by difficult climatic conditions, many come to this city is to see the famous polar lights, we are in arkhangelsk, friends, the most important thing for a pomor is to have practical. what kind of wood is preferable for building a boat? the kind of wood that

grows? why did they add salt? in principle, our region was a salt producer, so they added it everywhere, my grandmother adds salt to regular coffee, even to instant coffee, she says that it tastes better and is our way, we wash the smelt, crush it with salt a little, chop the onion and add it there too, we take some bread and dip it, dip it, and how it will be delicious in pomor style, delicious, delicious. stellar group product burbon storsman product of stellar group. mancacher whiskey, product of stellar group. cnop gin product. stellar group cognac monte shokoka, product of stellar

group. today we have a special release of cameron 70. anatoly sagolevich, the man who inspired james cameron during the filming of titanic. we built a deep-sea inhabited vehicle world. as one american told me when i saw the pentagon walking on the ceiling. maria shteiman, he was filming a love story written into a tragedy. jim, while we are... healthy, let's decide, today or never, the next day the phone rang, or this zhim and he says to me in russian, let's go, the hero of the film, this is not rose, this is... not jack, this is titanic itself. suddenly jim gets up and says: "no terminator 2, going with the wind, cameron every time translates this to the level of high tragedy, gets lost on the terminator, and i tell him: "jem, show how people sailed." and of course, love should be in the center of the film, i immediately

looked at it like that, oh, in the story, today on the first. glory to harmony! hurray! hot black sea day, at least let's drink some tea , yeah, to warm up, hot, southern, real! they gather here, we've gathered with the ten, yes, that's right, we've gathered and that means we have some questions, zakhar, for example, to get to know you better, for example, the first one was, who's older, who 's younger, who's older, who's younger, the most among us, who's the eldest in the ten, so the teller, no way, that's among us, yes, a national accordionist,

tatar, how old are you, i'm 67, 67, so, then how old is filin, nikolaevich, and younger by 3 years, and the youngest grigory, or what? there is renat sabirovich again such, yeah, alexander ivanovich mikhalev, in irkutsk also yes, and of course, nikolai ilyevich, it turns out what year you were in, in 1989, here is the oldest participant of the program playing harmony, applause, how many years is it 1989, even i don’t know.

ochaksky district, you love the village, of course, i adore it, you won’t exchange it for anything, and the eagle owl, what do we have, city, or what, vologda, also rural, also rural, skhramsky, but modest, and what villages, like who calls it, well, terskoye, terskoye, village, as i understand it, may settlement, may settlement and danil turachak, alyona usov, also rural, also modest, what is it called, the village of sergeevka, gubkinsky district, belgorod region, oh, how good, well, it remains to go through the professions, basically all musicians, as i understand it, but there are interesting ones. for example, here we have artem drobyshev, what is your official profession, a diesel locomotive driver, well, you transport people in a diesel locomotive, right like a passenger train, passenger freight, they trust him with cargo, wow, with respectfully, yes, let's hope that you 'll call us somewhere else, in some part of our great homeland,

gold-ten player, third, voice acting, and an interesting musician, also voice acting. that's it, not gold-ten player, but gold-ten player, accordionist ekaterina evgenievna mironova. place of birth: alexandrov, vladimir region, place of residence: vladimir. year of birth: 1989, has been playing the harmony since she was 14. main profession: musician. position: not married, character: balanced, and life motto: he who fears battles does not win, but eats an accordion.