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all our children, everyone 15 are ours, all family. my name is lerina nizhevets, i am a parent-teacher in a family-type orphanage in the city of pruzhany, my job is to be a mother, to give care, warmth, affection to my children. a family-type orphanage is a state program, that is , houses were built specifically for children who were left in the care of the state without their biological parents, these children, so as not

to send them to boarding schools or... to social institutions, shelters, they are placed in families, the seme format is a program that helps children develop, become children, and not adults with all the problems that they have to face in life. in biological families, often a child came to us, he was one year old and he was bedridden and did not walk. and now he is already 2 years old, and he can be said to be flying around the house, within a year even the doctors were surprised, now he is walking, developing, even learning to talk, already swearing at someone, such a good boy, a boy in our family, probably , you can say this is the purpose of the family,

i am the fifth generation in the family. women on the maternal side who have children, orphans, in the family, my parents had adopted children when i was 17, then i i already thought that yes, i would grow up, i would definitely have adopted children, we came to the desire to adopt a child through the death of a child, we lost a child in the eighth month of pregnancy. it happened, i didn’t really even want to live then, let alone think about any other child, my mother is a very wise woman, at that moment, when it was very, very difficult for me, when i did n’t have, i wasn’t present in in this world, as if, yes, she took me to the orphanage and showed me the children, right on that same day something

happened, you’re sitting here, feeling sorry for yourself, but... look, here, now living children want someone to be their mother, my husband supported me, my husband really cared... it was important for me to return to life, then we started the path to adoption, we didn’t choose, that’s who it was, those they established that the most exciting thing for us was receiving a certificate for a large family, this moment when they wrote us all the children, we have seven, seven children here, that is, taking into account adoption. we didn’t even plan to become parents in a family-type orphanage initially, we wanted our own children adopt and leave to live your own life. then our life circumstances developed so that

we had one child in our care, he was 3 and a half years old, the grandmother asked: please take the child temporarily, i will quickly collect documents in 4 months and take him away from you. our children finished their schools. we were already planning the move , our future life was supposed to be built, by the end of summer we understand that the grandmother is not taking the child, it so happened that we built this house, they were looking for a family here, and mom said that this is your path, maybe following the example of our path, think about it, it was a difficult decision, but we thought about it, and sasha agreed, and i followed him. when i already had children, we ended up having 10 of them, there was no longer a question of whether i wanted to give birth, i had enough of them, now they are my children, we learned to live with each other, school, lessons,

kindergarten, already some kind of life, everything i wanted, i received everything at the time of adoption, but i was happy to find out that i was pregnant, it was, of course, my gift, this is the eleventh child, it was. a miracle, it’s really a miracle, the second miracle didn’t happen right away either, yes, there was another pregnancy loss, i really understand girls who lose a child, not being able to get pregnant when it doesn’t work out, you just need to start on the other side, take the child first , love, give this child, and then the child will come, he will come for sure. so let's go get the girls now, dimka, girls, good morning, good

morning, let's wake up, yes, wake up, girls, we get up at 6:30, that's early enough, because we have a school, a kindergarten , we drop off the children by 8 o’clock, and if it’s already... one day, then we can sleep a little, well, literally there from 8 in the morning, every morning we have fresh porridge, of course, the children love hot food, something like that, so that it’s warm, fresh, 5 liters of porridge in the morning - that’s what we have for breakfast, for all the children, that’s it, on the second day there’s nothing left, kids, let’s go to breakfast, let’s go to breakfast, even a little, let’s go to breakfast, let’s go, let’s go , my girl, sit here. you can put everything on the chair, am-am-am, it’s hot here a little bit, pasha , sit down to eat, boys, let's go eat, we don't have any problems

with food at all, the children eat everything, the only thing is that it could be champignons or, in principle, mushrooms, the children don't really like them because they are slippery, i ask children, what do you want to eat, orders are often from kids, but... but every child will say that their favorite dish will be macayon, that’s it, pasta, they don’t need anything else, so we focus on the inspiration of the mother, dimka, are you at home today, yes with the temperature, your throat hurts too, yes, you girls, it will be necessary for dad to spend school, as a rule, we prepare food for the whole day, every day, because ? i don’t cook in large quantities, no , because we eat well, we make large purchases of groceries twice a month, a lot of diapers, and a lot of detergent powder, vegetable oil, small items every day, i buy bread every day, there are stocks of

porridge, cereals, flour, my dishes, too , this is my little corner where i arrange everything, collect it, or come there, for example, enjoy the look of my dishes, so. that's why this is where we have a freezer and this is where all my appliances and kitchen helpers come from. we do a lot of cleaning every day because we have kids. we do laundry every day, the day turns out to be 8-9, sometimes 12 machines, we change all the bedding, so the machines work around the clock, we hang them up, take them off, then iron them, there are a lot of small ones, they get dirty often, but we like them to be clean, eight liquid liters will take

a week and... we will, no, there will be a separate menu for you today, you will have three servings each, angela, in let's go to kindergarten, yes, speak loudly , yes, yes, mark, you are going to kindergarten, raise your hands, who is going to kindergarten, you can talk a lot about how i cope, how easy and smooth everything turns out for me, but i would have it it wouldn’t have worked if i didn’t have a husband - and such

a husband, when i need the children not to disturb me, hot, frying something, at this time sasha just takes all the kids, a fun time passing the children, with screams , noise, sham, it’s all about sasha, in our family there are not only children, but also adopted ones dogs, yes, let’s say we have... lagusha, here’s thea and there are five more little puppies like this, children get used to animals, less cruelty, that is, our cat can sleep with his belly up, and children will simply step over him, even little ones like this are already following the example of their elders, they see that the cat is lying down, they won’t touch it, or the dog is lying sleeping, they won’t touch it, pull it by the tail, in any way, that’s why i... think

we need to get animals , let's go on a trip to belarus, katya

, very nice, very nice, four: adventures of foreigners in belarus , what is this, or is it also unclear, no , i don’t take those like that, i don’t take mushrooms that i don’t know, well, we probably have enough for tomorrow, enough for breakfast, you have there is yuko, and you sell yoka, in lingu, a guy from ecuador, he lives here for 8 years and travels around our towns and

villages, it’s delicious, and it’s cold, what’s there - the pepper is also great, see the travel project white dews on the

belarus 24 tv channel we deliver . nothing was absorbed, that is, i have a newborn child, and i can try and also to feed the second child, not from the first it was about sweeping one, then another, times, but it was some kind of miracle, really, that she succeeded,

our babies get sick, well, i think it’s like all children, yes , angelina is teething now, so we need her medicine to make her temperature easier. in general, we have no issues with the hospital, with the clinic, that is, we call, invite a doctor, everyone comes somewhere and looks like that regarding medical examinations for school, every child needs to go through all the doctors, we don’t go through this ourselves, the children are admitted to the hospital, and we have a collective common passage of all doctors, the state maintains full control over the child at every stage, here is the reception. parents, institutions there, first of all, this is the care of our city , the school takes care of children, psychologists, every teacher in the school, uh, tells me what i didn’t pay attention to, in the kindergarten there is their own rehabilitation

for the child, that is, in addition to defectologists, speech therapists, and so on , there is also psychological help, support for each child, so we get... just a child, we get another task, what do we we pay attention to what we especially help him with, for each child we also issue a certificate for the right to represent the interests of the child, well, for me this is very exciting, yes, there is a service life here , the validity period is up to the twenty-fourth year, then it’s in question: i coped i couldn’t cope, will i have to renew it? children end up in care in different ways. reasons it happens that the parents died, then this child is a complete orphan, i, as a parent-educator, receiving accountable funds for him, also goes to him pension, we open a separate account for the child and we save it, we do not dispose of it, there are children who, with living parents, are

social orphans, these are the majority of children, precisely because the parents failed to cope with their parental role. after 16 years, the parent-educator has fulfilled his role, this child is transferred further to the care of the institution where the child studies, free education, also food and plus social housing. in our country there is such careful control over every child, so for an orphan, why can our neighbors be jealous, but you can do it? look, your son is repeating your actions , clearing the snow near his house so that the girls can come in there now and play, well done, well done, sasha and i are very actively developing social networks, we show our life with many children, it’s

freezing, our legs are pinching, yes or no , cold, good, i'm working, i'm warm. yes, pashik, well , handsome, you are mine, mom, and you are completely separate, you understand, thank you, life as foster parents, as adoptive parents, we run these pages for a reason, because we have nothing to do, it’s difficult, i really want to inspire people to take the same action in relation to children and orphans. here is the second floor, we have one children's room here, this is a shower room, one, here is the second, then comes... the girls' room and also the girls' room, we are completely on the balance of the state, when we moved in, it was a completely new house, all

the furniture, all the equipment, everything was prepared for life, thought out in advance, approach to towels, bed linen, our boys live here, our kids, except for the eldest, mostly do their homework here work on the computer, if necessary, dimka's collection, they collect cars, and if they have a happy mother, everyone around will be happy, amazing people of our country, i noticed that there is such a thing, you know the request. for toys like this belarusian with belarusian images, some belarusian landscapes, some belarusian ornaments, which people do

n’t have enough of and which people actually want to hang on their new year’s trees, and we fulfilled this request, their calling is to bring enlightenment and spiritual development. monumental art, it is never fashionable, because if you take the renaissance, it is eternal, so what is connected with me, i kind of... not that i rely, i want to stand firmly on the basis of national culture, craftsmanship. belarus's project, when my child already has a big christmas tree, she will decorate this christmas tree with these toys, find these notes and understand what dad was thinking about at one time or another in her life. i would like to wish that they appreciate what has been done in our country, this is the greatest value, both the people and the children

everyone will grow up and love. look. for children, an example of a mother who is not downtrodden there is a mother i don’t know with a dirty head in a stained t-shirt , but a mother who is a woman first of all for her husband is a mother for the family as usual. in general, girls make themselves beautiful, draw, they are so creative, they love to decorate something, i believe that girls should be taught from such a young age to take care of themselves, to make themselves beautiful, so paint their nails, if at school it is possible, that means we can do it too, well, if it’s not allowed at school, then the girls on weekends they do it all, everyone puts on makeup and make-up, they do everything they want, a special place in the lives of our two little girls for... they are ready to constantly wear dresses,

skirts, well, they are real princesses, they only go to kindergarten with us, but in addition , we signed up for their modeling school , they participate in shows, i’m not alone with these household tasks, i have assistants, a real older brother, who... is studying and was assigned nearby as a chief mechanic, so the child could go for a walk with friends from to celebrate, yes it is deserved , and in fact he has the right, well, he came home and is babysitting the youngest. i have an eldest daughter, yulechka , who is already 18 and a child with a childhood disability. or with babies or feed, wash, comb, braid, so, yegorchik,

we know how to iron, look, evenly, right here, right here, come on, my husband is nearby, a loving husband, well , it’s okay, the hands are still wooden, you’ll get used to it, very clearly there is a hierarchy of our family, dad is the main one, then mom, and then the children according to seniority. this model was passed on to us from generation after generation, an ideal model of life, families in principle, our children, in fact, when they later go out into independent life, they can do everything on their own, without any problems, they know how to pet, and roughly speaking, fry eggs, make a bed, they can do everything themselves and wash the dishes after themselves too. alya, masha, where is pasha? here. nikita, angelina, angela, yulia, will you play with us, will you, so dima has a fever, where is

egor? kosya, mark, yarik. remembering 15 names is not as difficult as remembering 15 birthdays, pull out the card, show which one, come on, come on, come on, so there’s no offense, that’s it, it’s you, hush, hush, hush, well, what’s his name , he also has fiona, you know fiona, who’s fiona’s husband, who, no , puss in boots still happens to them sometimes, in... well done, high five, spending time with your family will remain in your memory for the rest of your life, and for me somehow these moments are especially valuable, usually in the evenings it’s very noisy here until we give the kids a bath and put them to bed, it’s fun, friendly, interesting, but noisy, the dogs also

play with us at this time, we want the girls, the boys participated in... cooking , the smell of homemade baked goods, years later, so that they could feel it, that the house always smells of baked goods, it’s always like that with us, we’ll be welcoming grandma today, so let’s prepare baskets of cakes, everyone loves it, grandma loves them very much, let's prepare them, yes , okay, let's start, butter for me, please, i even picked out aprons for everyone so that the boys and girls could have aprons. we take a little bit of dough and make a flat cake, and we make a neat, even, beautiful flat cake, and girls, yeah, we we are baking something and the kids and i are communicating at this moment, they can tell me something very heartfelt, this is a family in this, when everyone

is together, everyone is friendly, grandma, hello! hello mom, what did you bring us? like this, we are constantly pampered, my mother very often brings me ready-made food, she will cook soup there and bring it to me, with such support we had no right not to cope, my parents, everyone helped us on both sides, my parents showed me an example of adopted children in general, i didn’t even think about it before, god did the work in the heart, mine was just this proposal, he and sasha decided everything, i thank, of course, for

such a son-in-law, just a wonderful guy, we shouldn’t have orphanhood, why do we have it? probably because we all live too well, and somehow everyone doesn’t want to injure themselves somewhere, at least one child at a time would take everything apart if we didn’t have this. where did you get this cake? here’s a secret, but we ’ll tell it to you, it was olechka, our first daughter, who made a cake for her eldest sister, since today they celebrate 8 years of marriage, respect, love, care comes from mom to dad,

from dad to mom, we concluded this from what we saw around us in our family. we live one life for ourselves, yes , we have such evenings periodically, we would like, of course , more often, unfortunately, it’s not possible to meet with our parents often, so meeting at the same table, sitting, talking - this is not only valuable for us, it it’s also valuable for our children, what kind of attitude we have towards our parents, how respectful we are, i’m sure that these are family... such holidays, they will remain in the memory of children, i see such a picture, the extreme old age of me and sasha, my children, my grandchildren, maybe my great-grandchildren, so that each of my children has their own home, so that they grow up

as worthy people who life is