many of us were told as children: don’t slouch, keep your back straight. a girl always needs to be well-groomed and tidy, or a true lady does not behave like that. so how should a girl behave in modern society? which rules of conduct have changed in recent years, and which remain eternal classics? we’ll talk about etiquette and culture of behavior with the founder and director of the center for the development of creativity for children, teenagers and adults. teacher of public speaking

and etiquette yulia rusakova. alina nevoina is with you and this is a fashion for culture. julia, hello. good afternoon. i would still recommend saying kind, because i wish good for you and wish good for other people. to start a conversation, as a rule, with someone, it is enough to inquire about the weather conditions. they are either good or they are not. this is considered good. this is considered quite good form, because in our society it is not customary to talk about profession, we use european etiquette, in european etiquette, when a new person, we talk about hobbies, about nature, about the weather, about travel, so that... then win over the person with whom we communicate. there are many types of etiquette, but which is the most common? there are really many types of etiquette, there are military ones and... there is

royal etiquette at court, we all know that it is the most complex, the most difficult, in ordinary life, of course, we use this secular etiquette, general civil etiquette, let’s say so, or , as they say, european etiquette. let's take a closer look at women's issues, how should a woman behave in modern society, or does she not owe anyone anything? this is very good a topic for reflection, because a truly modern woman , you can talk endlessly, she is very... interesting, she is smart, and this concerns the modern woman first of all, etiquette in general is not only for women, it is self-respect, respect for one’s neighbor, respect i respect myself , i respect my neighbor, then everything works out for us, because psychology, respect, love, fashion - all this is directly related to oneself, and what kind of knowledge, skills and abilities should a girl have in order to become a lady, and... certain norms

and rules, so you can become one, at any moment, become one, you woke up in the morning, looked in the mirror, you realized that you are beautiful, you are smart, when we go to work, this is ours, we use business etiquette, that is, we we don’t wear an evening dress to work, that is, we... look beautiful, neat and natural in fashion, when we have some event in the evening, a theater, a cinema, or even just going to a concert, that is, we dress according to that event that we have planned, so we can talk about it endlessly, i think stylists are also doing this very well now, and this is also about etiquette, let’s look at this situation, you came to a cafe or restaurant, your device falls, how should you behave in this...

not fly under the table, don’t throw yourself at someone’s feet , don’t grope anyone under the table, don’t look for these utensils, napkins, the waiter comes and cleans everything up, so you just need to stay calm, stay in place, because that’s how for a real lady, a smile is, probably the main weapon in etiquette is including, we show our confidence, because etiquette is also, first of all, a confident woman, the waiter comes and cleans everything, the waiters know what to do in such situations, so now everyone is already very well trained, the staff will also help you. table etiquette is an important part of our social life, many people know that you can’t put your elbows on the table, but what other rules exist? table etiquette,

which we need to know so as not to be considered uncultured when we come to some establishment, we have a secular event, as a rule, all the equipment is already placed in place. our most basic utensils , which we will use to cut, are on our right hand, on our left hand we have forks , a glass, a glass, a plate there , say, with butter, is sometimes often served if it’s some kind of morning, that is, everything goes to the left hand for us, but there are certain rules that if we have eaten, then we carefully fold the fork and follow it with a knife, that is, this means we are finished meal, it is also very important to finish everything to the end, because this is probably considered very bad form now, we should leave a small part on the plates, this does not mean that it is not tasty for us, there are various ways to thank the cook so that he understands what was really tasty happens after a meal, women often demonstratively take out

their beautiful mirror, bourgeois, chanel begin to powder their lips, of course this should not be done under any circumstances, we have a restroom. they provide a special chair for your purse, but as a rule, we have hooks under the table where we can hang our purse, if there is none, we simply put the purse behind our back, it is very important when we are sitting in a chair, yes, there is no need to sit on the edge, because from the point from the point of view of psychology, when

a person sits on the edge, it means he is not confident in himself, we just sit deeply, but our back does not touch the back of the chair, this place remains just... for a bag, if we don’t know where to put the bag, this is the only place where we can use it just for storage our thing. everyone knows the expression that everything comes from the family, and if in childhood their parents did not teach their children etiquette and rules of behavior, how realistic is it to do this in adulthood and, in general, where is the best place to start learning about etiquette? as i already said, familiarity with etiquette is, first of all, respect for yourself and others. people have basic rules for observing the use of the elevator, transport, we are constantly told about this at school and in kindergartens, that is, safety precautions, using the elevator, how we enter, where we we look at who gets into the elevator first, who gets on public transport, who gives way to whom

, i think everyone knows this, and children, even those who were not taught etiquette in childhood, they still go through this throughout their lives, anything is possible to learn, the main thing is that... the person has a desire, because etiquette is not boring, it is fashionable, modern, i would even say, and this is, first of all , self-confidence, because when a person is confident in himself, he really - behaves differently , are there any popular rules - etiquettes that we most often violate? yes, as i said, about the handbag, very often we violate it when we enter the elevator, so we cannot understand, for example, we are at work, we have an elevator. who is the first person to let through, if both men and women are standing, how do we get into the elevator? here the following rule applies: a man usually always lets a woman go ahead, except for those cases, if, say, we have a child or an elderly person, when we have to be the first to enter

the elevator, this is for safety reasons. if we are talking about business etiquette and some event, that’s exactly what concerns business etiquette, and let’s say you’ve booked a table with us, if it’s... let’s say, colleagues come in for work and they know where to go, women can come in first, but if women don’t know where they ’re going, they’re always in the unknown the man walks first, there used to be a rule that when a man walks, a woman walks on his right hand, now this is in the modern world, of course, the rule is not very relevant, it is believed that a man must protect a woman from some kind of car that can drive and it’s just... there’s a puddle to pour on a woman or some awkward situation, so we can even lead a woman on her left hand, that is, at the moment this is an exception, etiquette changes a lot, changes over time, and of course it’s very much the rule we

must look at the situation, because there are situations when these rules may not apply or work, i mean this when it comes to human safety. we want communication, as soon as we look, it means our conversation continues, just one chance to show our strength, who wrote a poem about a man scattered from the street by the pool, what kind of person was...

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the pepper there is also great, watch the travel project white dew on the belarus 24 tv channel. ilya, you teach public speaking and etiquette at the center for the development of creativity for children, teenagers and adults. how mutual.

after all, this is also very important, the principles of self-respect are laid down from childhood, you you also teach modeling, but at a modeling school, this is also very interesting, there is a peculiarity of model etiquette, if you and i are sitting straight now, our back does not touch the chair, then in modeling we can move a little apart, lean on our elbows a little, but our back can even bend a little... and it will be like a model, that is, we can relax a little, there are

different poses, how much can this be done in a dress? i wouldn’t recommend wearing a dress at all, there is always only one pose in a dress, these are the legs we gather to ourselves, and sit as compressed as possible, why is this knowledge fashionable, 100% fashionable, because i come back again, self-love, self-respect and respect for others, these are the rules that we simply must know, we must adhere to them and pass them on to our children, from generation to generation, the more people know about... the rules and regulations of the ticket, the more educated our society will be. agree that it is never too late to engage in self-education, because a person develops throughout his life, improves his professional and personal skills. and the german philosopher and writer jagan goethe once said: a person knows himself only to the

extent that he knows the world. be open to this world, appreciate it. self-development , follow fashion trends in the cultural life of our country, alina nevoina was with you , remember, being cultured is fashionable, see you in a week, until new cultural meetings. let's go on a trip to belarus. dear friends, welcome to novostarobinsk. few people know, but that's how it is

the city was once called soligorsk. now only the inscription on this stone, which symbolizes, reminds of this. about the beginning of the construction of the city, with us you will receive a charge of positive emotions, there were a variety of master classes, very different, but honestly, for the first time in my life i saw something like this, i even tensed for a moment, because our mishka fedor started like this right under your paw, visit the bright sights of our country, there are two museums with amazing exhibits here, you must agree, similar...

the us national debt mark has been reached, they live at the expense of others, and this is a very important element that the united states will try to preserve at any cost. all politics is based on this now, it’s very nice to talk about democracy, to actually make money from human blood. we have different motivations, these people only want money, we are committed to creation. that we have peace, order and that we don’t have war, many don’t understand this, it’s like air that you don’t notice, when it ends, you you begin to understand what you have lost, markov’s project is nothing personal, watch it on the belarus24 tv channel.

music, dj, hello everyone, in exactly a minute a hero will come to us who will answer all your questions, andrei dmitrievich,

why do you think children ask strange questions, children ask a strange question. primarily because they still have a lot of their own and not so much of someone else’s. why is it more difficult with children than with adults? because they are spontaneous. are you ready to come out to your children? yes, definitely. well, then i wish you a successful conversation. so, today our guest is the rector of the belarusian state university andrei dmitrievich korol. andrey dmitrievich, i want to warn you, according to the rules of our program, you have the right to refuse to answer a question three times, and be attentive to the questions. at the end of our conversation, you will need to choose the best one, now, according to tradition, tell us what you think is necessary about yourself, you have 1 minute, time has passed.