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that'd be possible. coming up next. that's doc film looking at a loves and the search for true romance. i'm told me on logical in the land. whenever you're looking for. i wish you the very best. thanks for watching the . what do these do for fun? via do gravitational waves squeeze out body. how do i the drums for the to the beat? and what's the perfect kill fox side? find the on says get smaller with d. w signs on the picked up channel. the i love vines this together present to the
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beautiful feeling and sometimes confusion without love. you can't actually be happy sine love is thrilling and passionate, but it also hurts so many 3 of, of great low. yeah. well, isn't i? but we are the we, we are a perfect fit perfectly. so more 2 peas in a call that often talk sometimes the feeling plus a lot of time, the
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big lightning struck facade and corinne, 2 and a half years ago when they miss on a day thing happened. they know the couple live together in just a little confused, undergoes in an open, depression costing as one with intent. i've been nice to him. does. he told me that this is designed for to some smaller because a and when i 1st size photo the sun, my heart skipped a beat as they say. you have a sort of, oh, that's easy. i saw the photo and saw that servers went really easy. the way this app works, you look at a lot of profiles, and at some point you become, i'd say a bit, j design. and then this photo came up. i thought to myself, ok, wow, that's are. and then we talked on the phone for a quite a long time, and i was at my mother's and she always likes to send me home with food. because if i asked her to give me a little bit more, because she's here, she doesn't have any family here. and i miss arabic food, and i want to bring yourself. we have never met before,
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but i know how to read your last in our thoughts and, and i feel like this was i did have an alteri remote. i thought if i gave her my tougher, where'd we have to meet again so she can give it back to me. so that was smart. the new home just needs a few finishing touches. it has to be ready in 6 weeks. that's one to 2. i'm guessing, mary sar, the architect is very particular about everything being perfect. a challenge for kareem who has a ph. d in physics. so that's the type of. um that's so that's what sarah wants to get. the last 5 percent finish. i'm perfectly. that's fine. with meeting on between the door opens the door closes and openness. i don't see the you don't need any handles that way. yeah. how's the office? i'm at simone. yeah. so the study and the guest room also have to be completely finished before the wedding. what i want to so she can go ahead and help me finish
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it. can you fix it? the study is almost finished. this is where kareem will spend tuesdays. he works from home last a but behind the door, sorrow has something very special for you to know why. her wedding dress kareem isn't allowed to see it before the wedding day. it's been shown up at the football. gosh and is i think it's nicer when it's a surprise. although i do get to see his suit about it spent this was in every culture. the groom isn't allowed to see the bride's dress. often the boy to go home though, so he promised he wouldn't peak it, hudson and i trust him the 1st month on the ship to him. the preparations for the wedding a well underway. everything should be perfect. even the wedding dance.
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the 2 have hired a wedding planner analyses man has organized everything down to the smallest detail of father and cream. want it to be the most beautiful day if they live as a beautiful celebration with a 150 guests from old eyes to the world. become was kinda know, you know, don in ceylon cartridge and i'm, they're coming in from canada, jordan, 3 long to greece. berlin to be there to buy, to sign, and that is just joy, that they are with us for this new stage of life that we both want to start and view by the on, from what they meet, once a difference that they can celebrate and feel the joy with us, the default item it on so should be on the specific list of those those fees. and it doesn't happen that often. look at all the people we live in the world are with us. yeah, i just want everybody to have a good time to type causing me to options. yeah. might have somebody that had
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imagined the relationship would become so serious so quickly. glove took them both by surprise. me based on the love is an indescribable feeling. i can't put it into words and something you see, you feel fruit. a dot is. it makes your heart quiver even think. but you don't know what's going on with that slow for me. miss somebody, i'd say love is slow boundless. um, do patients want and friendship i'm doing that in a good way. good. sure. we are the best of friends. 5 no, but you're also my best friend. no, that's right. i don't have a best friend. she's a 100 bits of wondering. this is the
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love is infinite to this because it's a beautiful feeling and sometimes confusing love is wonderful. just happened. this is a, it's a deep connection. you feel, i think one to 0 rica and home and sure matlab non existent school. well, this is where they took this stance class and where they met it was a school full and they were 15 years old. yes . and is this, this is where you are stuck. is this and here i was sitting here young for here more here. yeah. yes. for king by the a little further back. i think. yeah,
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of the thousands as, as i saw you, there was, they were sitting all the way back there. i didn't see you there about every now and then in between that somebody could see could just the front of you. but i remember i was here talking. i didn't see you coming in of all of a sudden proof of as you were standing there. i guess it took me an hour to organize that an hour in an hour. the amount amount up front with the music company gave me the hand signal and said, please ask your partner for the next dance and bang, i was here quite so good luck. and then you took my hand and we went out there on to the dance floor here in front. yes. here at the door. yeah. and then some police came on. do you guys requested that? saw this, do you remember this time? no, i don't advise as well actually. yeah. as it was procol harum, a whiter shade of pale but this was one of the longest blues tracks there was back
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then the god at this point and then the music came on at 1st. we kept a bit of distance then we slowly came together. then i kept moving away. i thought not too close to me and at some point we were very close now. and then we danced very slowly. i remember that the that was a long time ago. yeah, that was a long time ago. it brings tears to your eyes. oh, honey. hi. oh,
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that is all is well, you found me. you all's well. one man, man, man. life has in store for you know? yes. a great place or toilet great memories. children should have failed as a musician, as a student, to practice 10 hours a day. big dream to go on to with big pump. and then in 2018, he's a professor asked if you'd like to study abroad in india or in new well india and to the old area. i mean, quite noisy, dirty, but a lot of people for the the streets are the only idea ahead of india who is what you see in the media without him come up to the template. i pictured slums in my
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head. i didn't have a nice image of in the 5, i always have to, if i just have that kind of thing. just recently in india, shavani come a call was already a successful artist, a classical indian dancer. she was family and cooking had country post family and what the project was, jim and students with just one of his many autistic projects at the time. she had never met a gym and he would contribute to the minute that he hudson was supposed to start at 9. the, the beast at $848858.00, and they will bring the daughter buildings actually at 9, which was, lets say no. dod for day mcdaniel especially not mind. and then, you know, before forcing, if that was really thinking we could just when, when shavani until admit they fell in love. it was the beginning of
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a love story across 2 continents because they spent 6 months together and bought in march 2022 men flew back to germany. right before the pen demik locked down. and then they left a few bills in just been a hold of one of the last flights from india and i came home and everything shut down from south. 60 concerts were canceled because i had nothing to do well. i just came from an intent space with shavani with music. you need me back home with me. you called me and nothing when it's done asthma initially, that was the start of the most difficult challenge for us. and we saw that i had to, so we didn't know when we would see each other next week. when was it ended up being a whole year and a half, excellent, well, 16 months that we couldn't see each other's effects and move on to the one's only thing on the tillman and shavani was 7000 kilometers a pod for 16 months,
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with no idea when they could meet again, but they didn't want to give up on a connection. they spent hours every day on the face time talking and developing their own style of music from the system to find that make the absence of the other person made it so important. and made us realize, you know, we re return usually all better together. thanks to the find out make we, we found the, i don't know each of those value lesson more. this photo was taken by 2 men while he was still in india, when he said good bye to shavani. after that, they only saw each other online on is done obviously, i'm nonsense 1st and then i propose to wear on december 19th. 2020. yeah,
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i'm 1st on a dozen on zoom, of course. yes, sons, and she said yes. and since then we always keep the pictures some place we can see it is what i thought the halls on in my, in the sort of thinking. but it was still unclear when they would be able to see each other again. the couple had to deal with lockdown difficult visa issues and treat restrictions and unclear flight day. plans changed multiple times so fortunately to the time his flight landed in more my, i was not sure if he'd be able to make it for the reading or not to months. the to could only communicate via a screen. to mary the,
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the love is complicated. leave if love is the most important thing in life for me without love, you can't be happy at all. you can dear, somehow, always on satisfied. wait for freedom when you have to be able to forgive you in arguments because you see things you might know. sometimes way back stabbing or something like that. again, i think hard to forget sufficient. so that is the disadvantage of love. it's not always beautiful. there is a pain to life at all that one great, true love a dream or a wish for many but not every love. last a lifetime. initial miser was in a monogamous marriage for 15 years until she realized that her husband had been
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chasing on her fee is not changed to a piece of relationships as it is. i think true, the 2 free les high and there's a muscle, suffered greatly before she reached this conclusion. first, she left her husband and had a breakdown. she gentled about it the years to this day, a trunk filled with him, memory stands next to his sofa. as a show might uh check and give us a less, it's frightening the stories told them these pages which we hear more so for example here, my monday, october 1st my 22nd day as i am counting it. and then i say, no, i must begin a new story town to day's notice and seeing mister excess and not just back then i called him mister x. by that time i was still seeing. and that because i thought we had to clarify things until i realized at some point that there was nothing to
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clarify and that i just had to let go most the sense of by my, not the worst thing about my failed relationship was basically being lied to be out not only by him, but also from the female friends around me who knew what was going on and didn't tell me tom, these, it flushed the idea that for years i looked into their faces and they were lying to me, me, i had come to choose from me. that was the greatest betrayal for my, for, and type in the hopper. the suffering mission i used to, i like was the for hot. but this low point and this applies will change to whole life. she started therapy and made great strides. professionally. she spent, it has to gone manufacturing business, she organized music, evenings and the golf seminar. she enjoyed her professional success with intense love, but she wants to know. so she began a radical experiment. she just found it to develop relationships with 5 men. at the
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same time, a challenge off to 15, monogamous. she is, of marriage is come from from the as a phone complaint that i came from nothing. my self confidence was that rock bottom . and from there to this idea of 5 man, that's a huge gap out of the f one. so how do you manage that on then? it was a case of trial and error, a process, the building myself up and worsting myself out of the house with difficulty as applicants and then learning a new language, the flirting or dating language date. and then finally, finding someone who wants to try something out into this month. and then finding the next person was also put in that really took the timeframes. and we'll just have to register the all of the that within 20 to well, to use the hood to find the 5 man. she knows how to float. now,
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often a single glance is enough. but then something happens that she didn't counsel vanessa mice also mackie in love with one of the 5 main one that is on the goals is eating fi loose and then a experience real agony and my so as all my friends had predicted, taught them, he basically put all my ccs to the test as it was involuntarily my teacher and all my great ideas were suddenly put to the test by reality wouldn't codes. it's not a lot of fun that i need to to prove. so it was an interesting script that life wrote for me. label fussell, and at some point i was really exhausted. i have to say good one by switch to session was you saw a lot of experiments became an emotional rollercoaster visit the less she continued . she had set herself a timeframe as 2 years. then she wrote 2 books. 12345 made just to me. when the book was published,
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it was the to the town. she appealed tabloids and told shows the experiment is ongoing. the nice thing i need the muscle and she loved most about yourself. responded up as you own getting the varnish. i'm going to as a shop. it was a rebellion against loves because i had been very disappointed and i just wanted something completely different and completely crazy as a counterpoint. nice. not meant as an advice manual. it's not a how to them concept, but i want to get people to maybe think outside the box of it that's maybe do some is increasing this and you went into alonso copeland for life, some of us to hook to some other for me. honest. so import,
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once convinced is your business, that's my motto model. i'm always treat other people with respect. and so i see mom, it looks like the 2 behind in on the impact team on. and you can't just trace somebody off between them. human the gate, that's the worst thing for me. for me, the idea of teaching, sit on teaching you, if you're a reality to me for me honestly is the most important things, even if it hurt. sometimes the big day is here and this is still a district. the final wedding preparations are on the way. kevin wants to leave nothing to chance. if we think should be perfect. but of course, there are a few he comes to perform, the photographer might be light as or to he should have left, but i don't know if he's still at lunch or what, but he should be there already. we're on schedule
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covering is nervous. but with incline us and then it has everything under control. her team is getting the whole ready for a 150 guests from all over the world. within the 2 hours to go. it's stressful to every one of these opposed. you meant that when he was one of these know they're also these positive moments and you have to think about them, how beautiful that is, just like this s and k, which is back there. that's what i didn't want it, but sarah had to have it and it looks phenomenal. so you have to remind yourself of everything that's beautiful. so there's a little bit more excitement and less nervousness, like as far as that, i can know that so, and that's why i don't know how to that's kept the official wedding ceremony. small. the big celebration is afterwards carolina sufficient. okay. so for from 20 minutes since i'm enough of
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young and all that, that has been unlikely of this and i'll just talk to him. and sarah are a bit nervous, but also excited that we have the groom who's already here, which is actually not typical. because usually at weddings, the bride and groom only come later together to the location. here we have a somewhat different procedure. then i said, so we have the groom here who of course wants to keep an eye on everything while he waits for the bright. this um yeah, well, she is running a bit late. so yes, of course that always causes a certain amount of anxiety. have message on a monday of this, and that was a tips much worse than i'll have for while cream is wasting an estimate. the bride is induced little, she still needs to ride his stall for his sale. it's taking longer than expected to do. the bottom part is more important than the top to add some champagne. as i told you, you've got to have a drink. it'll relax you. as soon as you see your husband, you'll be comb,
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lot of good. i'm excited about nervous but also happy to for the so the all the emotions together, the out side of others as well. unfortunately, i still have a bit of a cold, but what this been, i can hear it may be, but it could be where it was a. so starless melita, this work is special. let's see, until you mentioned the missed an alternate to dish. no frequent enough for me. of course it's also exciting was nothing can go wrong. and of course i have to call them down to the weight. and that's also part of my job. if i'm stressed on the brides or even more stress, it's a big responsibility. yeah. so a special nicholas, a thoughtful to all of you. actually sorry, i should leave right away to stay on schedule. for weeks she's managed to hide the
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wedding dress from covering. only 2 more hours either. she will be standing in front of him. yeah, yeah. the degree you puck in is 7. it'll, rick, it has spent a lot of time. you and the 51 used to say for the smit. one, supporting the talk is particularly special for them. yeah. if that is the oil, this is our police so to speak to you where i asked her if she would like to go with me there as i called it back then. because i knew the crew very well at that time and still knew it well today. i don't know what i chose exactly in this place here. viewed wouldn't. and as you can see, she said, yeah, this is the, let's see ya going back ever since i seen, we always return to this spot on the, i'm assuming from tim kim, you 1st met when we were 50,
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then now we have our own children and i would say a 15 year old as a child in the of a. so we were actually still children die. ok, now we have on say a box where we felt very grown up for a month. and when you get to know each other, when you're as young as we both were something very special and the focus monday, i'll finish the the, then we like to come back here look. so we feel that as many others may have a place where they met or got to know each other, and i will attend glad tom dunny and the old rica and tell them, and also brought their own children here to this day. the couple makes the how long trip once or twice a month, this message is for the, the in house and, and by so they've made many important decisions under these trees. let me know what am i speaking with? yes, on the funds. yes, it's at some point when you reach our age, you think to yourself, yet of this i'm, this is we're all began when comes come low,
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you can hardly believe it is. he just didn't knew how the whole thing would develop a since in this place has this attraction called into the new other police and the world can ever have and seems coughing to hear the or is this police. many of our values were determined, he and these are still live. we're meeting of the family to do the meaning of togetherness on the cliff. the door to the fun minds. i'm kind of a tiff enrica dreamed of riding a motorcycle as merely age. she lived and with the support of the house, but it is still and then to she has to ride it today for the couple is so has differing interest. wonderful. my wife leaves the plastic on the 2nd new and i like heavy metal. the method hardrock hot to walk to see who's available, not to say, is this special ritual? no, no, every wednesday they take turns surprising each other. so, smell on once again, mobile in the bus,
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you always have to think about what moves the other person. it's always different that i'm like, what makes the other person took right now? what is it that moves him? why didn't you always have to keep track of what is current at the moment and he is no longer the man i met 50 years ago. he is now a completely different person with other preferences as well. it is well, it is real still. is this feeling this warm feeling of loved an e book on us as an attend? there's a deep gratitude to that. i always feel when we are here in florida so that we have been so blessed in life. that is also what i associated with this place. gratitude, feeling fine. they were always together in the same place, the something that was out of reach for shavonne and to me for a long time, the until this moment, after 16 months, a separation to him. and finally, lance,
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by the to, to a re united the and they get married because depend to me because on going the wedding, a small by indian standards and the to can finally make music together in the same place, the the,
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the, the, the top. now we have a husband and wife. oh yeah. hello . hey. say the to live in cologne. do you guys come home sick? this is a big issue for shavani. oh, she misses her beloved indian food, but that's relatively easy to fixing 99 more difficulties every day. life in gemini, bureaucracy, and the gym, and language only thing that human health square at the he can no with this effect with what she misses most of the people she left behind. i remember the last day in india. the 2 most difficult things
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for me. leaving finance institute because i remember i thought, no, i'm going to take my moped back home. and then the next morning, i'm not going to come here to stand in front of my chin loan from home. but this the station was so difficult, so difficult. but again, on the other hand, it was happy that i was going to move to a new country and start a new life with my husband. during my last moscato my book with you before taking my flight. and the other was saying that back to my mother at the voice a of the most of the so i think about it a lot like okay wow, she bonnie, what you've done for me i could not have dreamed of on the cisco wrist tons of things that have, it's something we need to keep in mind or okay. and then you have something new
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together lawyer and we must work diligently to build this thing together so it goes out to them by telephone. so the 2 have developed a mix of contemporary pope percussion, and classical indian music is much better book might be good then now with on their own productions under the name on the head. which means bound to begin at the beginning at the beginning of the things i'm going to the, the bins all going to the, that i gotta think about. but are they gonna think about that? are there any flower, the light in the soft on the as long as the flame of passion stays on, life is and maybe even grow stronger. we know we're not in the wrong place. one thoughtful sonya gotten works quite well. plus the new movie the into and still and every day there were those moments where you look out the window and think, wow, and it's been a journey spinning journey. so. 5
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telling stories through visiting, that's what the con, the test uses. it's a life small show and the client for joint professional future to get the living and working together. kind of look excellent tools to run the catering company in the morn for its course. the invention, glad past. the couple spends a lot of time to get up there off and asked how they manage it. for me, i specify something, i'm always the one who asked, how can you stand him? and that's not true. i'm asked the same question. it's always a question of who's asking, is there no, i don't know either. somehow it has developed well, well there is no big discussion about it because it develops so organically. this is, and we also know exactly when the other one has reached their limit. then i take 3 or 4 days off from work completely and those are the people all this, but it's
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a bit too much and i need to switch off. i go into the kitchen, so the lock you want us, whoever's, they are at the time. no, joking aside, that's it. we each of our whole be under space on what folks with this car space is one key to the happiness tools to cooks faces, profession, on tooth past. so how does it look as good? do you want to try it? yes, it smells quite tasty. from nothing. once again, it was nothing to get away to a man's heart is through stomach. very good moments. this call i cook an act so it goes to the kitchen afterwards and cleans up on that. you know that that is really great. somebody has to do it. it's a fair. do you feel idea? when xle needs a break, he gets behind the wheel of the street cars, members of his club even drive regular street, cars shifts from time to time. the
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is libby and it conducts all the classes and conduct on the part time. i'm living the childhood dream here, the classic childhood dream that probably all boys have at one time or another were riding the train were driving it. and i practically soaked it up with my mother's milk as a baby. i know because my great aunt always took me on towards improper tall on the classic suspension railroad. what does this oh yeah. and that somehow stuck with me, something that's quite nice because i particularly like the people in the roar area because i'm those mach investment opportunities. it's not kind of course, you're on the front line, so to speak. we still sell tickets. and so i know we provide a disability that i'm not someone who likes to take the street car, the boss of the train, certainly more for him to something special. and i knew that it's important for him . i can totally switch off comes out while he's driving. of course,
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when he's here from father enjoys and he works. the ship doesn't really get home until 2 30 in the morning. but it's important for him because he's grounded afterward success. you ever use some new energy, you simply need to say even donations. one of these old restored street cars to their hometown the no, to enemies. excellent tools to give each other space. that's one secret of a long relationship. but they also have a hobby in common in 2019 they with a low to kind of whose crown prince has a 1st in their hometown logically. and not surprisingly, there were a lot of skeptics because they said 2 princes and no princess. oh,
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how's it going to work? he's one of the d and i was unavailable and even just what will he be wearing? but will there be someone in the garden with a pink feather, but when we heard of it this lease, or we thought it can be true enough to establish people asked yeah, did you think about that? and then what's the matter? we have to show more or less 1st that we are quite normal as it always f on. then we said, by the way from, well then we'll only do it. it's easier for us present address, kind of what the for neither of us will be a princess if we do it and it's to print. so i put in some off that it was clear close to the actual didn't want to pretend for others. the in the 1961 peaceful they set off for a very special place. the 2 1st says i do. a top piece has beg, mountain include extension in 2009 the, the key to the back
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in life. it's been a long time for it wasn't an official marriage, but a declaration of partnership. same sex marriage in germany was not allowed at the time. still the celebration of the love was an event, and it took place in one of the most schools after waiting vineyards in ronnie and a spot for glamorous potties. so many gym and celebrity couplets of walked down the stairs as ok. so axel wasn't nervous at all at the wedding and also toll. he just had new voice in the morning. we had to call the doctor that was especially nice that he lost his voice. so would or, well, you more than make up for it and i don't know, but really how should i describe it? i have a special day, there were a special people there. and then the surprise with
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a room home. how will it look because, oh, that was already such a magic moment as you can imagine. if you're going to celebrate, then do it properly. they'll think she tossed and used to be a chef at the hotel. so he has a very personal relationship with this price. it turned out to be a huge coffee, a $180.00 guests, $3000.00 red roses. to emotional and there were people there who were crying and they congratulated those after worsley said, honestly, that was the 1st wedding. we've been to have 2 men, but it was so emotional so great, so thank you for that. and that was kind of something for us, it was normal for us on the, on the account. once again, the core of the matter. it doesn't matter who it is, sitting up there. if 2 people say we take responsibility for each other, but it doesn't matter in which constellation they live. the father was certainly a bit different 10 or 14 years ago. between us as far as and also a political event for us. it was really about us and it didn't matter what other
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people thought. honestly, i'm not even done. when politics in germany changed and same sex marriage was finally allowed, the couple made it official in 2019 excellent. thorsten said i do a 2nd time. i get the big celebration a wedding a day that should be remembered forever. many couples come up with something extraordinary. the the, the it's the moment to cover him has been waiting for. in a few minutes,
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sorrow will finally arrive at the waiting venue. the how did you imagine we would dance with the wow. i had the car using the to will never forget this moment when i look here. and now for the big potty. no, no. a wedding with many relatives and friends. the siren and korean. it's the plastic stopped when live together to want to
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be waiting group to be curry. the korean shows the band to this special day the, the celebration will be everything. the 2 dream don't. the the last is he said and fail rate. some people like being gesture,
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