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tv   I Love You  Deutsche Welle  December 9, 2023 2:15pm-3:00pm CET

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just a balance. okay. band me getting vessels. thank you. after the break, i'll talk to him. crew goes in satchel. true love. that episode is coming out after a short break statement from one use. at the top of the out the . we want to be the number one for the car to clean and empire of crime. news you can have to a sales one coin made up currency. then she disappears without the trains of financial thriller about the world's most wanted woman crypto queen stops december 30th on dw.
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love vines this together present to the beautiful feelings and sometimes confusion without love, you can't actually be happy sign. laws thrilling and passionate. so hers. so many 3 of a great low by the i thought we are the we, we are a perfect fit perfectly. so more 2 peas and all that often talk sometimes the feeling plus a long time, the
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lightning struck facade, and corinne, 2 and a half years ago when they met on a day thing happened. they know the couple live together into sort of confused. undergoes in an open depression cost as well. my intent. i've been nice to him that each one's a. this is designed for to some smaller because a and when i 1st size photo these i my heart skipped a beat as they say it was for the oh, that's easy. i saw the photo and thoughts that service went really easy. the way this app works, you look at a lot of profiles and at some point you become, i'd say a bit jaded like most. and then this photo came up. i thought to myself, ok, wow, that's are. and then we talked on the phone for a quite a long time and i was at my mother's and she always likes to send me home with food . because if i asked her to give me a little bit more because she's here, she doesn't have any family here. and i miss arabic food and i wanted to bring you something we have never met before. but i know how to which device and i thought
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and at the feel like this was i did have an alteri remote, i thought if i gave her my tupper where we have to meet again so she can give it back to me. so that was smart. the new home just needs a few finishing touches. it has to be ready in 6 weeks. that's one to 2 a getting married. so the architect is very particular about everything. being perfect, a challenge for karim who has a ph. d. in physics. so that's as high now, so that's what sarah wants to get. the last 5 percent finish. i'm perfectly that's fine. with meeting on between the door opens the door closes and openness. i don't see the you don't need any handles that way. yeah. how's the office? i'm at simone. yes. so the study and the guest room also have to be completely finished before the wedding. what i want to so she can go ahead and help me finish
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and some of them can you fix it? the study is almost finished. this is where kareem will spend tuesdays. he works from home and last a but behind the door side has something very special for you to know why. her wedding dress. kareem isn't allowed to see it before the wedding day. it's been stronger, but it's an older song is i think it's nicer when it's a surprise. although i do get to see his suit about it. spend this, but in every culture the groom isn't allowed to see the bride's dress. often the boy to come. so he promised you wouldn't peek hudson and i trust in the 1st month on the ship to him. the preparations for the wedding a well underway. everything should be perfect. even the wedding dance.
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the 2 have hired a wedding planner. soneta sees man has organized everything down to the smallest detail of father and cream. want it to be the most beautiful day if they live. it's beautiful celebration with a 150 guests from old eyes to the world because cannot go down in ceylon calculation on their coming in from canada, jordan's 3 long greasy berlin to be there by to sign. and that is just joy, that they are with us for this new stage of life that we both want to start and view by to and from what didn't. but once we finish that they can celebrate and feel the joy with us. the default item it on so should be on the specific list of those, those fees. and it doesn't happen that often that all the people we live in the world are with us. you know, i just want everybody to have a good time and 5000. the 2 options might have been the ones that had imagined the
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relationship would become so serious. so quickly. glove took them both by surprise . me based and on the love is an indescribable feeling. i can't put it into words and something you see, you feel good. the dot is it makes her heart quiver even think but you don't know what's going on with that slow for me. so miss somebody, i'd say love is slow boundless. um do patients want and friendship i'm doing that in a good way. good. sure. we are the best of friends. 5 though, but you're also my best friend. you know? that's right. i don't have a best friend. she's a 100 bits of wondering. this is the
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love is infinite to this because it's a beautiful feeling and sometimes confusing love is wonderful. just happened. this is a, it's a deep connection. you feel, i think one to 0 rica and home and sure matlab non existent school. well, this is where they took this stance class where they met it was a school full, and they was 15 years old. yes. and is this, this is where you were stuck. is this and here i was sitting here young for him more here. yeah. yes. for king by the a little further back. i think. yeah,
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of the thousands is as i saw you, there was they were sitting all the way back there. i didn't see you there about every now. and then in between that somebody could see could just be from saying. but i remember i was here talking. i didn't see you coming in of all of a sudden proof of as you were standing there. i guess it took me an hour to organize that an hour in an hour. the amount amount upfront with the music company gave me the hand signal and said, please ask your partner for the next dance and bang i was here quite here. so good luck and then you took my hand and we went out there on to the dance floor here in front. yes. here at the door. yeah. and then some videos came on. do you guys requested that saw? do you remember this time? no. don't advise us. well actually yeah. as it was procol harum, a whiter shade of pale,
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but this was one of the longest blues tracks there was back then the god at this point then and then the music came on. at 1st we kept a bit of distance, then we slowly came together. then i kept moving away. i thought not too close for me and at some point we were very close now. and then we danced very slowly. i remember that the that was a long time ago. yeah, that was a long time ago. it brings tears to your eyes. oh,
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honey. high on that as calls well, you found me also well one man, man, man, life has in store for you know, yes. a great place or the toilet great memories still and should have failed as a musician. as a student to practise tunnels the day big dream to go on to with big pump fence. then in 2018, he's a professor asked if you'd like to study abroad in india or in new well india in terms of our area. i mean quite noisy, dirty, but a lot of people for the the streets are the only i d i had of india who is what you see in the media without him come up to the template. i pictured slums in my head.
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i didn't have a nice image of in the fight. i always have to of these have that kind of soon, especially in india, shavani come a call was already a successful artist, a classical indian dancer. she was family and cooking had country family and what the project with jim and students with just one of him, many autistic projects at the time. she had never met a gym and he would contribute to the minute 50 hudson was supposed to start at 9. the, the leaves at 848858, and even bring the door belt and actually at 9, which was lets say no, dod for day mcdaniel especially not mind a little forcing the that was really thinking they go just when, when shavani and tomb admit they fell in love. it was the beginning of
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a love story across 2 continents ago because they spent 6 months together and then and bought in march 2022 and flew back to germany. right before the pen demik locked down. and then the list of who goes in, it's been a hard one of the last flights from india and i came home and everything shut down from south. 60 concerts were canceled because i had nothing to do. i just came from an intense phase with she bonnie: with music bonnie: me back home with a corporate end, nothing. when it's done asthma initially, that was the start of the most difficult challenge for us and we saw that i had to so we didn't know when we would see each other. next one was it ended up being a whole year and a half. well, from 16 months that we couldn't see each other's effects and went on to the one's only thing on the tillman and shavani was 7000 kilometers a pot for 16 months,
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with no idea when they could meet again. but they didn't want to give up on a connection. they spent hours every day on the face, time talking and developing their own style of music from the system to find that make the absence of the other person made it so important and made us realize, you know, we, we feature nearly all better together. thanks to the find out make we, we found the i don't know each of those value will listen more. this photo was taken by to him, and while he was still in india, when he said good bye to shavani. after that, they only saw each other online on is done obviously. i'm nonsense 1st and then i propose to wear on december 19th. 2020. yeah, i'm 1st on
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a dozen on zoom. of course. yes, sons. and she said yes. and since then, we always keep the pictures some place we can see it is what i thought the hold on in my, in the sort of thinking. but it was still on the clear when they would be able to see each other again. the couple had to deal with lockdown difficult visa issues and treat restrictions and unclear flight day plans changed multiple times so personally to the time his flight landed in more my i was not sure if he'd be able to make it for the wedding, but not 2 months to, to could only communicate via a screen to memory. the,
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the love is complicated. leave if love is the most important thing in life for me without love, you can't be happy at all. you can dear, somehow, always unsatisfied. wait for freedom. when you have to be able to forgive you in arguments because you see things you might notice sometimes when it's on the back stabbing or something like that. again, i find hard to forget, sufficient balance. so that is the disadvantage of love. it's not always beautiful . there's pain to live at all that one great, true love a dream or a wish for many but not every love last a lifetime. and there's some mice or was in a monogamous marriage for 15 years until she realized that her husband had been
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chasing on her for years. not change to view of relationships as it is. i think that's you free less high. and there's a muscle suffered greatly before she reached this conclusion. first, she left her husband and had a breakdown. she gentled about it for years to this day, a trunk filled with him. memory stands next to his sofa. as a show might uh check into us a less, it's frightening the story is told in these pages, which we hear more so for example, here by monday, october 1st my 22nd day as i'm counting it and then i say, no, i must begin a new story town, today's business and seeing mister access and not just the fact that i called him mister x. by that time i was still seeing him that because i thought we had to clarify things until i realized at some point that there was nothing to clarify.
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and that i just had to let go most the sense of by my, not the worst thing about my failed relationship was basically being lied to be out . and not only by him, but also from the female friends around me who knew what was going on. and didn't tell me the time, is it flushed into this idea that for years i looked into their faces and they were lying to me me. i had kept the truth from me. that was the greatest betrayal for him. i'd for, and type in the hub. the self and mission i used to i like was the for hot but this low point and this applies will change to whole life. she started therapy and made great strides. professionally. she spent, it has to gone manufacturing business. she organized music evenings and the goss seminar. she enjoyed her professional success with intense love. she wanted to know. so she began a radical experiment. she just wanted to develop relationships with 5 men. at the
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same time, a challenge of just 15, monogamous. she is, of mary is come from from the other phone complex that i came from nothing. my self confidence was that rock bottom. and from there to this idea of 5 man, that's a huge gap out of the f one. so how do you manage the then it was a case of trial and error, a process to building myself up and worsting myself out of the house and how with difficulty as, as look on and then learning a new language. this learning or dating language date . and then finally finding someone who wants to try something out into this month and then finding the next person that's also put in that really took the time frame, which is good. all of the that within 20 to well to use the hood to find the 5 men. she knows how to float. now
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often a single glance is enough. but then something happens that she didn't counsel. and there's a mice or so mackie in love with one of the 5 men. when the goals is eating fi, uh lose good. and then i experience real agony and my so as all my friends had predicted one, then he basically put all my ccs to the test as it was involuntarily my teacher. and all my great ideas were suddenly put to the test by reality wouldn't, cuz there's not a lot of one that i need to to prove. so it was an interesting script that life wrote for me, label fussell, and at some point i was really exhausted. i have to say did one by switch to. so shut was you saw a lot of experiments became an emotional rollercoaster visit the less she continued it. she had such as self a timeframe as to use that she wrote 2 books. 12345, man. just to me, when the book was published,
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it was the to the town. she appealed, tabloids and told shows to experiment is ongoing. the nice thing i need the muscle and she loved most about yourself. responded live and you own getting the violation of shopping. it was a rebellion against loves because i had been very disappointed and i just wanted something completely different and completely crazy at the counterpoint. nice not meant as an advice manual. um it's not a how to good set, what i want to get people to maybe think outside the box of it that's maybe do some is increasing. listen, you wouldn't alonso copeland slice level still hook to some other for me. honesty,
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so important once convinced is your business. that's my motto model. i'm always treat other people with respect and so i see mom, it looks like the behind in on the input t on and you can't just are trace somebody off between human the gate. that's the worst thing for me. for me, the idea of cheating on teaching you of your reality tv for me honestly, is the most important things, even if it hurts. sometimes. the big day is here. in s instead of district, the final wedding preparations are underway. kareem wants to leave nothing to chance if we think should be perfect. but of course there are a few he comes to for, for the photographer, might be late as or to fuels before he should've left. but i don't know if he's still at lunch or what, but he should be there already. we're on schedule.
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covering is nervous, but with incline of savannah has everything under control. her team is getting the whole ready for a $150.00 guests from all over the world within the 2 hours to go. it's stressful to every one of the moment when he was one of the num, they're also these positive moments and you have to think about them, how beautiful that is. just like this s n k, which is back, there is what i didn't want it. but sarah had to have it and it looks phenomenal. so you have to remind yourself of everything that's beautiful. so there's a little bit more excitement and less nervousness, like it's fine, but i can love it so, and that's why i don't have time to to just kept the official wedding ceremony. small. the big celebration is off the woods, klein, distribution. ok. so for some 20 minutes and time and again,
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all that, that happens unlikely of this one. i was getting this pop 3 minutes. there are a bit nervous, but also excited. do we have the groom who's already here, which is actually not typical because usually at weddings, the bride and groom only come later together to the location. here we have a somewhat different procedure. yeah. then i said, so we have the groom here who of course, wants to keep an eye on everything while he waits for the bright. this. yeah, well, she's running a bit late. so yes, of course that always causes a certain amount of anxiety. have mattress on a monday of this, and there was a tips much worse than i'll have for while cream is wasting an estimate. the bride is induced little. she still needs to ride his stall for his sale. it's taking longer than expected to get to the bottom part is more important than the power to add some champagne. as i told you, you've got to have a drink. it will relax you. as soon as you see your husband,
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you'll be comb. lot of good. i'm excited about nervous, but also happy to for the so the all the emotions together. yeah. so i have others as well. unfortunately, i still have a bit of a cold. but what this been, i can hear it may be of a, but it could be where it was a. so this is carlos malika. this work is special. let's see, until you mentioned the mission over to dish no frequency. now for me, of course it's also exciting. nothing can go wrong. and of course i have to calm them down to the weight and that's also part of my job. if i'm stressed on the brides or even more stress, it's a big responsibility. yeah. so a special nicholas of thoughtful i to him a few actually sorry i should leave right away to stay on schedule for weeks. she's managed to hide the wedding dress from covering. only 2 more hours
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either. she'll be standing in front of him. yeah, yeah. the degrees of polk is 7. it'll, rick, it has spent a lot of time. you and the 51 years. so say for the smit one, supporting the talk is particularly special for them. yeah. if that is to the arts, this is our police so to speak, where i asked her if she would like to go with me there, as i called it back then. because i knew the crew very well at that time and still knew it well today. i don't know what i chose exactly in this place here. viewed wouldn't. and as you can see, she said, yeah, this is the that's the yaga back. ever since i say we always return to this spot on the i'm assuming from tim kim, you 1st met when we were 50,
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then now we have our own children and i would say a 15 year old as a child in the of a. so we were actually still children die. ok, now you have on say a box where we felt very grown up for a month. and when you get to know each other, when you're as young as we both were something very special and the focus monday, i'll finish this. then we like to come back here, look. so we feel that as many others may have a place where they met or got to know each other and what i can get there on time is this accident, denny, and this old rick and tell them and also brought their own children here to this day. the couple makes the how long trip once or twice a month, this message is for the, the in house and, and by so they've made many important decisions under these trees right now. what am i speaking with? yes, on the funds. yes. and at some point when you reach our age mid fees, think to yourself, yet of this i'm, this is we're all began. when comes come low,
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you can hardly believe it is. he just didn't knew how the whole thing would develop a since in this place has this attraction come to the new other police and the world can ever have and seems coughing to hear the or in this place. many of our values were determined, he and these are still live. we're meeting of the family to see the meaning of togetherness on the cliff for us, the going to fun minds. i'm kind of the cliff enrica dreamed of riding and motorcycle as merely age. she lived and with the support of the house, but it is still and then to see us to write it today for the couple is so has differing interest. wonderful. my wife leads of classical music and i like heavy metal. the method hardrock hot to walk the sequences they alone love to say is this special ritual? no, no, every wednesday they take turns surprising each other. so stay on most a game mobile in the bus. you always have to think about what moves the other
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person. it's always different that i'm like, what makes the other person took right now? what is it that moves him? why didn't you always have to keep track of what is current at the moment and he is no longer the man i met 50 years ago, and she is now a completely different person with other preferences as well. it is, well, it is real still, is this feeling this warm feeling of loved an e book on the system attend? there's a deep gratitude to that. i always feel when we are here in florida and this and that we have been so blessed in life. that is also what i associated with this place. gratitude inside they were always together in the same place, the something that was out of reach for shavonne and to me for a long time, the until this moment. after 16 months of separation to them. and finally, lance,
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by the, the 2 already united way, the phone, the and they get married because depend to me because on going the wedding, a small pie indian standards and the 2 can finally make music together in the same place. the the,
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the, the, the top. now we have a husband and wife. oh, yeah. today the 2 live in cologne. do you guys come home sick? this is a big issue for shavani. oh, she misses her beloved indian food, but that's relatively easy to fixing 99 more difficulties. everyday life in germany, bureaucracy and the german language. only thing that human helps wherever he can know with this effect what she misses most of the people she left behind. i remember the last day in india,
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the 2 most difficult things for me leaving the balance institute because i remember i thought, no, i'm going to take my moped back home. and then the next morning, i'm not going to come here to stand in front of my little chin loan from home because this organization was so difficult, so difficult. but again, on the other hand, it was happy that i was going to move to a new country and start a new life with my husband. during my last moscato my book which in before taking my flight and the other was saying that back to my mother at the voice a of the most of the so i think about it a lot. we're like okay, wow, she bonnie, what you've done for me i could not have dreamed of on the cisco wrist guns of things that have it's something we need to keep in mind. okay. we have something
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new together lawyer and we must work diligently to build this thing together so it goes out to them by telephone. so the 2 have developed a mix of contemporary pope percussion and classical indian music. yes. once read a book, now i can hear my face. good, then now with on their own productions under the name on the head, which means bound. let's begin at the beginning at the beginning of the things i'm going to the bins. i'm going to the that i gotta think about that i think i think about, but at the end, if that would allow yourself, as long as the flame of passion stays on life is and maybe even grow stronger. we know we're not in the wrong place on tests from sonya because it works quite well, puts into movie the into and still and every day there were those moments where you look out the window and think, wow, and it's been a journey spinning journey. so
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telling stories through vision, that's what the upon the test uses. it's a life small show and the plan for doing professional future to get the living and working together. kind of look excellent tools to run the catering company in the morn for its course. the invention, glad back. the couple spends a lot of time to get up there off and asked how they manage it. for me, i specify something, i'm always the one who asked, how can you stand him? and that's not true. i am asked. the same question is always a question of who's asking today, sir? no, i don't know either. somehow it has developed well, so there is no big discussion about it because it develops so organically. this is, and we also know exactly when the other one has reached their limit. then i take 3 or 4 days off from work completely outcomes also, but people all this, but it's
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a bit too much and i need to switch off. i go into the kitchen, so the lock you want us, whoever is there at the time? no, joking aside. that's it. we each of our hobby and our space on what folks look. describe . space is one key to the happiness thorsten cook's faith is profession. on tooth past. so how does it look as good? do you want to try it? yes, it smelled quite tasty. from nothing. once again, it was nothing to get away to a man's heart is through stomach. very good. no man. just call it, i cook an act, so it goes to the kitchen afterwards and cleans up on that. you know that, that is really great. somebody has to do it. it's a fair. do you feel idea? when xcel needs a break, he gets behind the wheel of the street cars, members of his club, even drive regular street, cars shifts from time to time. the
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baby and it conducts all the classes and conduct. i'm living the childhood dream here. the classic childhood dream that probably all boys have at one time or another were riding the train were driving it. and i practically soaked it up with my mother's milk as a baby. i know because my great aunt always took me on towards improper tall on the classic suspension railroad. what does this oh yeah. then that somehow stuck with me something that's quite nice because i particularly like the people in the roar area because i'm not smart investment opportunities. it's not kind of course you're on the front line so to speak. we still sell tickets so. so i know we provide a disability that i'm not someone who likes to take the street car, the boss of the train, certainly more for him to do something special. and i knew that it's important for him. i can totally switch off comes out while he's driving,
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of course. so when he's here from father enjoys and he works the ship doesn't really get home until 2 30 in the morning. but it's important for him because he's grown did afterwards. success give some new energy. they simply need to they even donations one of these old restored street cars to their hometown. the no accident tours didn't give each other space. that's one secret of a long relationship. but they also have a healthy income, and the in 2019 they were the low to kind of was crown prince's a 1st in their hometown logically. and not surprisingly, there were a lot of skeptics gifted because they said 2 princes and no princess. oh,
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how's it going to work? he's one of the dean. as a supplemental and even just what will he be wearing, but will there be someone in the garden with a pink feather, but when we heard of it this lease, or we thought it can be true enough to establish people asked yeah, did you think about that and then listening that we have to show more or less 1st that we are quite normal as it always f on. then we said, by the way of when we only do it, it's easier for us present address, kind of what the for neither of us will be a princess types if we do it and it's to print. so i put in some off that it was clear close to the actual didn't want to pretend for others. the in the 1961 peaceful they set off for a very special place. the 2 1st says i do a top piece has beg, mountain included into in 2009 the, the key to the back
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in like it's been a long time for it wasn't an official marriage, but a declaration of partnership. same sex marriage and chimney was not allowed at the time. still the celebration of the love was an event and it took place in one of the most schools after winning vineyards in rhineland. a spot for glamorous potties. for many gym and celebrity couples of walked down the stairs as ok. so axel wasn't nervous at all at the wedding and also toll. he just had new voice in the morning. we had to call the dumpster that was especially nice that he lost his voice. no good or well, you more than make up for it and i don't know, but really how should i describe it by a special day? there were a special people there and then the surprise with
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a room home. how will it look? oh, that was already such a magic moment as you can imagine. if you're going to celebrate, then do it properly. don't think she's chose, didn't used to be a chef at the hotel. so he has a very personal relationship with this price. it turned out to be a huge coffee, a $190.00 guests. $3000.00 dread roses was too emotional. and there were people there who were crying and they congratulated those after worsley said, honestly, that was the 1st wedding. we've been to have 2 men, but it was so emotional, so great, so thank you for that. and that was kind of something for us. it was normal for us on the, on the account. once again, the core of the matter. it doesn't matter who it is sitting up there. if 2 people say we take responsibility for each other, but it doesn't matter in which constellation they live above the. it was certainly a bit different 10 or 14 years ago. between us as far as and also a political event for us, it was really about as it didn't matter what other people thought. honestly,
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i'm not even done when politics in germany changed and same sex marriage was finally allowed. the couple made it official in 2019 excellent thorsten said i do a 2nd time i did with a big celebration a wedding a day. that should be remembered forever. many couples come up with something extraordinary. or the it's the moment cover him has been waiting for in
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a few minutes. so or we'll finally arrive at the waiting then you the how did you imagine we would dance with him? i oh, wow. so i think i had the coffee the to will never forget this moment when i look here now for the big potty. no. yeah. a wedding with many relatives and friends to sign and korean. it's the perfect stopped when life together to want to be waiting
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