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of the male, it seems like i never really knew my eldest daughter minus the manager that you do need a man in the family. it's actually quite important. appreciate absolutely. i think there's really want to grandchild to get married and start the family. something most parents want for their kids, but when it comes to families, things can get explosive. younger people think that it's impossible to connect with . i love something older people often question to the you to really know what they're doing with their lives. the youngest and old are realities and dreams can be so different. seriously, it seems like there's
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a huge gap between the generations. sometimes we just don't guess each other. the question is, can we fix in the isn't that beautiful and go with the normal our marriage last 233 and a half years was cannot seem god. we had known each other before and work together finish the law at the most. i just falsely assumed that love wasn't so important and people should get their feelings under control and is, but that was wrong. e,
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f, e, controlling toys. the heart in the mind has to work together towards the same goal . they shouldn't fight each other, having a lot in the really isn't the balance to life is the more powerful wondering what advantage corey's the hello, how she and i have different views on the subject of divorce. go see the new thing that i could send. that's how she was feeling, even though was so different than especially of a sudden i don't have to be. i really felt the pain that my daughter was constantly going through. and i saw it with my own eyes if he's it really why right now? oh, okay,
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this is a huge problem. it wasn't like nothing at all times. we never discussed of almost as much as we do now. it was 71 that was really no other options. how kind of divorce is so easy? everything was different before everything including finances. we just want a different thing. they opened, we know the only ones dealing with this. i want it and i'm sure we have one of the highest divorce rates in the world. life just didn't used to be so complicated then parents didn't put so much pressure on their children, on bribes and groups. we didn't worry about how to finance everything. we were only concerned with making each other happy. yes, that is very important. social media has ruined everything. yeah. but there were problems before that too. yes. but it's a big part of the problem as well. of the,
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in fact, egypt divorce rate has trickled over the past 15 years. and despite anti divorce courses now offered all over the country, more than 60 percent of the countries, young couples are separating the types of jobs. visa goals from hi told them i had a girlfriend and we weren't getting married to mouse. it went on, i wanted to, i'm a quote, you power to rise and also i thought we were planning to use artificial insemination
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because that was the last for them to digest us like on your husband as well. that's what if i called i was standing in the kitchen when she told me how i found myself. and it looks like she wanted to cry. that's kind of patient that made me want to cry to the same way. well, much i'll go with this. the guy, since we know we want to have children, and i have trouble of producing healthy eggs, we thought it would be better to freeze them. these are kind of way up without the shouldn't. then we would have more options later. and without attaching over, she was my dream is to have to care. i said, genders don't matter. you know, by she maybe 2 dogs say, yeah, you know, and they live near their grand parents. i go on like that 40 the, was that an amazing?
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she's always, i was already a mother of 2 at their age and she has house, she what they are only just now thinking about having children without seeing us. and you could say, i thought that then i was already quite mature real time. she has how me, julia was only getting started with everything now. and so that's why i think young people today are still kind of immature. 30 sounds like kids in taiwan. many young women are choosing to delay pregnancy and motherhood. but freezing access typically just a precautionary measures and is rarely meant for artificial insemination. more over taiwan has one of the lowest birth rates in the world. the
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i'm him can be the guy a very big dreams chaplain, and i don't know whether or not will be able to achieve them but, but they are growing inside of me every day. go ahead in the beginning, but one of my dreams was to become a makeup artist altogether. but getting there has been a difficult kind of heading and i'm hating the style is the makeup i had doubts for up to d as a makeup artist. how do we do this? i'll book it for whom i know what i'm going to make of the mean, but i can do it on how to forgive it. those items from always the kind of box that that less confusing good been kind of my parents had so many questions and help me so we're scared and they didn't understand what was happening. my been hired, they felt sad and worried. my beam and didn't know what they could do to help in developing to stay and help. i really felt the pressure. this is the kind of that stopped very sick because the only one had a heart attack and was hospitalized of how many. and then can you,
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it was the 1st time in my life that i understood how much something like this can affect the father for them. i want them to become a i somebody, somebody almost died 7 is really can smell for me was doing so poorly. my social of me because i was doing so poorly instead of getting them home, can you will that sounds that really shocked me? well gosh, i don't understand the how does that sound good that we supposed to dental a showing she came back to live with us last and then they would like the my d as for my daughter and my friend doesn't want to. so, but she is my best friend and the only one i trust completely. and i know of my other children very much to of course. but as rhonda, i share a special phones because she is my 1st born and how would my fitness around the
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she's and i have a tissue p the wild divorce is no parts of everyday life in egypt. homosexuality is illegal. by contrast, taiwan was the 1st country in asia to legalize same sex marriage and 2019 even so these couples are still far from being generally accepted in society. the
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people from their education football some because the don't the same sex marriages as a real family play. that's the high se. and of course, my parents worry about that somehow as because they wonder whether our kids will be fully discriminated against. and later on because of the township to all gods, my name is yo yo, we will be going to the us next year to start the process of artificial insemination. since please make sure everything goes well for him to be i hope to return with a healthy baby by basically can i have a water? mileage is 14 dollars. here you go. we all know, i don't need to buy the
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cheese that what's on that meal is also have no idea that she didn't like man, wish you. i'm not inside that. when she came out to us, i was so shocked last so well, i couldn't, i couldn't accept it. this is the z as in the middle, bosh alpha. i always as also simone. in fact, her father even blamed me by suggesting that she had developed such ideas of intentions because of how i had raised her waist high suffices. i also started to reflect on myself and tried to figure out if i had done anything wrong or failed her as a father made the
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list of a to a 14 that you all said i as her father failed to be a good role model for her the the
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houses itself within an evening and then from my generation were not ever allowed to cry. and then is it continued doubting? i don't know that i'm just fortunately i was alone in the car, so i let it all out. what your sending a thumbs up. i to encourage them with a supervisor. so while i'm beat it, then it had a good cry then wiped my face, drive by seated and pulled myself back together. i hope so. i went back to warehouse. see the scene. she knology, she took off until 240 and once as he thought women as her mother. if i couldn't accept or support this and you know, it wouldn't make a difference. nickel, cheese grown up now. so cool. the page includes what if i agree and support her as well for in the future is how that could make a relationship much stronger over the questioning the homes that she me hi. hi, why are you wearing last night and thing i to i'm not going to order. they say, oh,
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i just wanted to update you on the procedure to say, oh, we got to my body feels a bit swelled and this time i felt like that last night and friday, the homo. but i don't know if that's okay fine. what do you think? oh hi. is it cold in town? hi. everyone's still asleep. no one's at work. you had a low and it's very hot in taipei, around 27 or 28 degrees celsius. wow. that's great to know it's cold and dry here. that's why my voice sounds like this. just like a cash 1555, i let you know when it's all over. oh, by the way, call have been has been chiral. mean security for me. i mean, this is the place where i was moving on. i mean, that's been the traffic because that's the community, the warm norma family and my friends and i have all been with me,
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my whole life hired take a lot. i'm glad to show a lot of them. but i've always lived in the heart of cairo, and i've never even loved each toyota phone cut off this bottle. so there's no place i know is wants here. hang on. uh the uh they keep telling me they want me to be the next one who gets married humble, helping never hear that again. all the way. are you married? look, he's a man and he's also scared on behalf of them and then, and we'll double limit it. that is, i'm not afraid. i just like marriage takes a lot of work just to let him know. my dear, we're not in america because i know this society here puts pressure on us to get married. dear mamma will try to set you up to let them know there's no way some of me. well, no. i know. i thought that my mom was more modern and she didn't talk about it so
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much and acted as if it wasn't an issue that i haven't gotten married again yet. then i might have already said, then i found out she hired a whole secret team to set me up with my mom, everybody in my family, all my friends who got married said really don't get married. oh, i don't know the most. i'm in lexi and her father and i suffer to not. hi, i'm looking at your life was not easy for us. how got the coolest we face difficulties, and when we overcame them, the best that popped in on this generation is imitation of my head. that didn't always documents. it worries me why i'm afraid for them the society will charge them to what the future will bring without the
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interpretation and culture may change this. we built a strong foundation for them that we've taught them and taken care of them. now they can decide what is good and what is bad. so yeah, so that's exactly what we, it shows me and they'll be able to make good decisions whether we're there or not. ready the negative at home and what do i make and development? i felt connected to other things in places of luck. next, the names of the beer,
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part of nice to have have you been he didn't just wanted don't my things anyway. i've been to yeah, these are my things, things that my daughter is played with. i like the feeling that i don't wish on anyone. i'm shy, then i can only encourage other women to take marriage seriously frustrated. you know the good because in the end you aren't just making decisions for yourself. you're also making them for your children. and that's not easy people. it really isn't. of the
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g, i'm not sure she actually wants a child is, but she's a plan and everything. well, in any case on how much i have been wanting a grandchild for a long time. sure, this is just nowadays parents always ask so cool. act like they don't care because they don't want to pressure their kids furnished and cell so deep down. i think they really want to pick out on the ground boots on as a full push. i'm going cases. so i will have to explain artificial insemination to them and detail how they accepted everything. so how for how, how much of balances are hoping that the 1st try will be successful? the, by the chances are good truth a single i've already harnessed a $26.00 acres of new thing. oh,
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well we want to have 2 children in the future. one it from me and one from my partner, sorry. it might not succeed the 1st time that i'm sure eventually it will all work out with all the medical possibilities we have today, we will definitely get there. could take a, as long as we don't have a bell phone sheet engaged. okay, so the see will mine. she said this is jackie yelder the non all the time. excited to have a new family member be all too old fashion. and it's great to see how my other children for siblings have been supportive and optimistic about the marriage. what is it she had their plans to artificially inseminated? probably it'll problems with an localized hits is that even the grandmother to
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a mind and she is already in her seventies and say that she loves her grandchildren with ours. let's say i want support service shipping. she said she's hanging down as a male home cooking this week. okay. time unfortunately, my mom was wise and offered her support without doing that. she said it was the right thing to do a comfortable john to help us out. all the tasting. yeah. yeah. yeah, sounds it's not the other thing. is you the video? oh no. please don't. i won't go near you like that. it's just in cream on my finger for a mask. but i don't want the,
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these old address. this one. this one looks much nicer. that is their matching headscarf as well. yes. this one. and what do you wear underneath the black top? that's what do you think about this one? no, the other one is more suitable for weddings, but this one makes me look like some other if the bride once a month, well, but you are a kind of like the mother to a guide and i hope you are the next for i must go without the
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best man i hope between my daughter's will she's come true. may of course have mercy on her in guy, tell you what, i really hope that god will make her happy with a bit as i am just waiting for my daughter to get some good dreams. in my heart. i feel the good warehouse huh. made to happen, the only difficult thing i'm but then i have never lost hope of committing to a new relationship again, while i could,
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i can figure it out. i would even get married again a year, even though my 1st marriage failing to defend and, and the school. i know that everyone is different enough fit and hired to get them . i always say that my life is like a book with the class. but there are some pages that are phone stuff and cut me, but what bothers that'll just rip out to you to help them. you have gone, but the story will continue. fine until my last day. let's look at them. but the memo there is hope written on every page. i didn't have the sd of hyatt and the present should search diesel church itself was choosing to accept her and give her our best wishes was the right thing to do. i secured, that's all i truly believe it too much. it will kind of talk to him on quite
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a shout. and as her father, seeing her smile happily, really touched the candle, which i'm down on the fabric dining. everyone in the family is facing some kind of pressure on on the has a she also think that even though things often don't turn out the way we whole family ties, we can still be a, have a family is no matter who is part of it getting y'all's issue that she, we charge the actually i decided on the speech on the last night. i was afraid i would forget something. so i wrote it down wrong. but i really want to look you in the eye as well sayings estimated. so if i forget something, please forgive me on you, don't you the most impatient person in the world remind me every day that i'm
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a good person that gave me back my confidence. so the thank you to whom it seems to me till after the speech. i'm sure i'll have to redo my makeup of i'm sure y'all can song of jimmy on the sofa or if i am a lucky person. so i always have from gladys. i do. i have never said this before, but the luckiest thing that ever happened to me was being born into this family discussion though. you let me correct and such a happy family, though i have no words to express how much i love you. the
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