to the select some of the green revolution global. so listen to a whole lot of crime. it's probably up to speed if the carriers subscribe to those channels every friday, subscribe to plan. it's a the d m. you'll pools and you'll base and told him that a 77 percent this on. today i want us to talk about our relationships and how we treat each other. if you're not in a relationship, still keep watching. there's something for you to michael. let's see. your host for today in the show, we find out what young people see about gender equality in relationships and liberia. we ask young 70 to 70 percent is how the outputs relationships, classic or more. and then we hear what else,

sex and relationship aspects cause has to say. and in the d r c, we meet ritual model who has built up a cleaning and pop. do you remember that time in 2016 when formulated you and president and will have multiple hiring set his wife long in the kitchen, his living room and his out of the room despite significant progress to austin, the quality in africa. there's still much way to be done. for instance, a video of this month, expressing his traditional views on women has gone at about $10000000.00 views or not is still going to. let's have a look, a stand against the east or wilmont having equal or read remained a home and woman was based on mississippi and nobody's to happen like that. the only reason why we have a few minutes will have the women,

the i to visit it because of the other. why that edition. so would you rather be just stayed at home once educated like that's the role of the month. they have to be what they have to to give the house of the woman that the house of them. it is that that's, that's the best decent. that's all quite sure. what's the issue about the of the book culture. ok, so quick question. i'm a woman here who's doing this job of asking questions, and moderating. i would say i'm independent. does that bother you? yeah. oh ok. it took part industry debates. if we want to present to you this week, it is kamani, went to monrovia to investigate the role of women in relationships by speaking to this mom and other librarians. here it is the hello and welcome back to the 7 just of epithets trick debate this week. we are a library of the capital of monroe via now you might be familiar with the expression strong african woman in this country. they suddenly having had

a female president, elizabeth johnson. but the strength in women is sometimes discouraged when he comes through a magic relationship, particularly the applicant context. and today we want to find out why, who better to answer this question for me that some late periods. and we're going to start with the couple on the panel. we have a couple this so loved up austin insurance. hello. thanks for joining us. so let's start with the basic question of your day to day when you wake up in the morning giving me a little clue about who does what in the morning, what's your morning routine, like since how you're really signing, let me start. well, thank you. um in the morning i wake up around 55 like 530 a get my kids ready for school wide. he's dead getting ready for work. okay, so what do you say that's your domestic responsibilities. uh sort of equally splits between the 2 of you. yeah, it is. yeah. physically i'm able to wake up early morning and get hot water for the

kids. i'm able to be beeping the little girl while she has to be ferrying cobra or something. so yes, i think is good and i enjoy doing you abraham. where are you? i know that you have a biblical name and also an old fashion stands on the concept of equality and relationships. tell me a little bit about that. for me. i come with 4 african quarter background and they are, ruth described to me both men and women. i believe that most of the 1st choices in our african context, uh uh, the responsibility of the women. but the make them be of help to let me tell you, i'm laughing because the women behind me are really saying you substitute something then. yeah, what i would like you to complete it please. so you started by telling me women's responsibilities in their relationship. i had turned on. what did one do all the house choice? no, i said, most of the re respect, i'm most of your hus choice. is the woman's responsibilities. so what does the mind

do then? you know, i will, i be when setting is the head of the home he's responsible to, to, to provide for the home. okay. tell me what you're thinking. always the female is a feminist and an activist. yeah. knowing that liberia was set on the basis of peach, iraqi just explains why they are a no saying these different things. but when you look at who said those rules, who's who give the responsibilities of a woman take in charge of the room and doing the choices, you wouldn't know that the men said, those rooms and wish we'd be leave for very bias, right? because women's potential is way, be your own, just taken care of who i want to hear from some people at the back. right. let me get some reactions. come close to to me please. i'm a decent analyst. nice then against the ego woman having you go right, remain home and woman was based on mississippi and nobody's still happy like that.

the reason why we have have similes loving women, the i to visit it because of the other. why that edition? okay, so quick question. i'm a woman here who's doing this job of asking questions, and moderating. i would say i'm independent. does that bother you? a? yeah, it, well ma'am, you know, african culture must not be dependent. what if i told you that in my culture, women actually the heads of the home by so culture in our gods and that was said yeah. and then back on to the women us know something. so let me come back to the couple of the even holding hands. let me tell you we are feeling so single today on this. so when you hear some of these sessions, i can imagine that there must also be people in your family who also have hold similar views, the community, assess the letters, you work up and you know, wash the dishes, you're the man. you work up just get ready for work and move on, you know, and then you start to follow that. i don't get a while,

you do that. so we're going to have the money. and what is the shop people? is that on the moon you as a me you benefit a lot if those equality in the home. yeah. mother goes to visit you and dentist. easy. washington dirty clothes. she's like, why is my phone rushing very close? let me hear from my dealing for a 2nd because we haven't spoken to her. you just want to investigate this idea of the head of a home. because a, because no one has talked about partnerships in the contemporary. well that's we live in today. do we still need that classical head of a home? well, i have no interesting relationship anymore. it is because of what i went through when i was a relationship, so i had to quit 2019 because uh i had an a b will save pregnant. well while it protective, and he was very abusive. so i went to it. i held my god like king. i have a look up in the morning in. what?

so what sucks but bucks are in what it bob. really weird, sweet sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet. sweet, i need to understand is what do you mean put stokes. but what, what, what, what helps him dress up in the morning like a child was what i went extra martin, you know, helping my relationship. okay. and do i have a question for you as he was treating him as a king, as he was saying, which by the way, absolutely. was he treating you as a queen? well, he was abused if he was really abusive. so he has actually the mid mutual lost interest in having relationship. and when i see people are like, you know, couples and they know i feel like they're not being true to each other. yeah. okay . so obviously not all relationships which have that dynamic will end up in abuse. yeah, let's just be clear about that. however, it can, because these

a power dynamic that has not been addressed. so how do you, how do you navigate this? so for me, people always put or have a negative connotation. when it comes to head, are we not saying that the woman should be the one to address you is not, is that it will most responsibility to address you if that is happening, that abuse, knowing your rules is different from being abuse. but i'm saying that the i ascribe for men and women who am i, who were done very clearly. okay. i mean that's your position and that's perfectly fine. we've had many things rights, including this additional list we think that's we mentioned, even be educated. let me hear from, oh, i am so afraid to bring the microphone to you, but let's hear you say your point is a need that we go back to try decent all we must have missed it, but it was good to not have to do everything and that is why we haven't been in the

same and this and that it's like why you, why eric is not we make west point in the home west. okay, so let me just, are you working for example? and you must have female bosses. how do you respond to that? oh, is having a bus mean a female is going to come to get it because i really don't see her being submissive . sometimes she just, she just was point. know how to man. and that is the high supposed to be. so, well, not being a bus that can be from abusive to me. oh, okay. i, i honestly cannot believe that i am hearing these words in 2023 but but, but i, but i mean you'll, you'll, you'll view points. let me get one last one here with me. i am power when yeah, advocate telling me line this aside. they become better because come on with kyra children and our wounds from 9 months, which is huge. so new on dustin relationship because we've gone with them for 9

months when they come outside of a boat within it, even the hoss wanting to oh, we sometimes think of them as babies. yeah. alpha as boss is but when you come on the baby's man to support me, then what could be able to be the home and it's society better. all right, normally at this point of the debate would be asking people for solutions. but after hearing all the diverse opinions, i'm not sure that there is such a thing as solutions. we started with a couple, i'd like to end with them. we've had so many view points here. do you think that the kind of relationship that the 2 of you have with some people might see us aspirational is on the threats? we woke up in the morning as a man and getting ready for work. when you stand before that mirror, just see a human being. when you see your wife see a human being sheed her that way, man. you are going to be happy. if you bring the woman to dot equal point, you're going to be happy because we're just equal and we have this agreement on odds and wish when we've been here. it depends the idea that we're pushing we have

up, which is a better idea. we go about that. thank you. that is a beautiful place to rock this debates. we have had some very controversial remarks today, but also what a nice way to wrap it up. think 1st and foremost of your partner of human. thank you guys for taking the i mean there's some truth to a few of the things that those people were saying, some things i get some things. i refuse what part resonate. the role of a woman is to keep the house and the man is the head of the household. that's just how it is. well, if you were listening carefully, you'd understand a bit different dynamics when it comes to relationships. yes, i get that. but i have my version and i believe it's valid. so what makes you think men hold a higher power in a marriage or relationship?

that's how it was when i was growing up. my mom was always working on household charles and she constantly tells me that i need to be a certain type of woman for my husband, you know, probably 31. right. so how is this looking out for you? it's exhausting because i wake up get the kids ready for school, making breakfast, make sure my husband's clothes the ions and ready, make sure everybody eats and that lunches are packed if needed. make sure the kids are delayed for the school bus, then i go to and what are you evening routines i gets home, make the kids t, make sure they bring their homework. help them were needed. then get dinner ready, prep the kids for bed and make sure it's heavy as food is plates and waiting for when he gets home. and what does he do? he wakes up, gets ready for work, eat and leaves. and when he gets home, if he gets home early, which is honestly quite rare, he'll sit and eat with us. and then you'll watch sports or news or whatever. and

then eat salad and sleep. and this, of course, you know, does that get you in the mood for, you know, i don't even know what a mood is anymore. how does that sound fair? like, where is your joy? why i view anyone who's just tired all the time and never in the mood where african women of course have been conditioned into believing in traditional gender roles within relationships mentioned do this, women should do that. even inquiry relationships, the more masculine presenting person is expected to carry the same gender rules which is outdated and unfair. all of this to maintain a hierarchical system that only benefits men and not just in relationships of jobs, social status just right in general. how many times do you walk in town and feel safe? gosh, never how many times do you think your husband works in town and feel safe? he's always walking around town even late into the night time case in point. what

now? i'm no expert, but i think your health and wellbeing are as important as anyone else's and that includes mental health. don't let your home life drive you into a depression. just talk to you, man, let him know you'd like a break to come up with a plan together. maybe tell him that and see how quickly he'll come running. the 5th, i will try and it is going to be hard to start that conversation because we've gotten the custom to district team, but i need it to hear that. okay, i've got to go cook kids will be home soon. can i get you some more tea? girls sit down, i will get the tea, myself and order pizza for the kids. my treat and thanks cause for those octave scales and biscuit. and in case i asked you to be to pick your interest, you can watch a full version on i youtube channel. i've often heard people say in african culture,

women are expected to do this, all that. but in my icon culture, both men and women, conbal, cassava, and profess hoops. let me know why your culture doesn't allow men to do domestic choice. i'm curious. african women are known for the entropy neural spirit. in fact, in africa, more women run businesses exist anywhere else in the world. ritual model is a prime example of this. she thought that hey, could even in business in the eastern region of the democratic republic of congo, and now employs hundreds of people. she has proven what we already know that women can excel in business, bestbuy to the extra hurdles they face. it is west milton that this story was recorded before the escalation of patients in eastern cool go. mazda is 10 companies bought a town overlooking lakes cube. and rhonda, is this the,

a total of on his flattering story? it's literally the rags to riches tails. rachel, more lo, a young and tough when you who overcame homelessness, to be with her own cleanings, come back to the full sized after the death of my father. it was an easy they chased us from all rented house and life to him to be taught. but i resolved to take my fate into my own hands. i started walking as a key 9 town in a big building with many rooms. can you imagine? i was just getting $20.00 a month for washing clothes, dishes and cleaning the house. of the leaning business has a certain stigma, even though it's vital works, especially for keeping up with buildings running many young people looks down on the profession multiple now when you walk as a clean up, no one respects you. there's just a neglect. you don't see the value you bring,

and the one is sold to via my academic studies showed us we should be at jobs not what, what was that? i find out when that came on the end. rachel supported adults in the cleaning business. she advertise her services as a clean out on what's up, both rog, supplies and the power to clean houses. then you go now one night i discovered, you know, what's the group that someone was looking for a cleaning company. i wrote to that person directly named wilkes, and when i saw how big that cleaning budget was, i suddenly had to build a team. i train them in one day and we perfect it older team at the walk location of the corner of the week. after high it, rachel thought more business would come for 2 months, no one called again. so rachel began activity advertising using social media door to door contesting businesses,

distributing flyers to families and offices. and it's what about ca? it started with those advertisements i made on social media, showing people what i do, and eventually the clients and partners came. my vision is to be established worldwide because my mission is to ensure everyone lives in a good environment, an environment which is safe, clean, and without dirt. i know, so it is quite the initial full top ritual model now has thousands of stuff across the comfortable, specifically in we'll cover lizzie and a love seat in coma. she has 33 interviews, not because people often think that once a lady finishes her studies, she just needs to get married. all they ask ladies is when do you get married? do you already have a fiance whose those are nonsense issues? however, i don't feel disappointed with housing so front visual helps us to re obtaining racks to enter pin, usually to inspire other young people to new positive preconceived ideas about

successful jobs. so humble, we shouldn't have create and clean spaces too hot on us walk is already providing fundable income for one great woman invites us to meet another who was captivated many with her voice city. i'm in not is a musician and toys mumbles about inside of the best stool in town also own us in gene conway among the locals. those are by, it's as simple to the most we can oftentimes on. yeah. and it both a rich history. i feel like just estimates that people have lived in stone town since the 5th century. it is no surprise that a city is full of history and culture to join. i mean, i own this tool office still in town and explore. it's one this and no, i'm see, see, i mean all the way from 0 and you are watching the w 7 to 7 percent. and

this is mine. c t stone down is the heart of san z bus, the largest city the tons in un archipello goes nearly 2000000 residents of famously diverse. hospitable and to music. he gifted like city amena, the international, who yeah, came to musician, has been crowned a local tourism and cultural and precedent. and today she's taking us through the city that she loves you sorta offices as the but it's a mixture of millions of culture and everywhere you go, you will coming with one world coming presses. one will coming uh words this, this is called go make hallway or we can call it old fort. but stone town is much more than its historic buildings and winding. i mean not. and her band debates are working hard to revive the islands,

robust musical tradition for a new generation of sands, the baris, the ticket of guys. this is our space where we do all practice every single day. and today you're going to enjoy, i'll talk to the the, the group takes the name from city bin to sell it. the legendary single who launched essentially bought the local tar upjohn right into prominence. way back in 1928. interpreting the traditional style with mode danceable. jobs for the 21st century is the name of the game. and so is breaking down barriers around who is allowed to play. when i grew up, i didn't see the women playing that would then must be someone to bring this to move. and that's why i decided that to check the food as an instrument, i mean,

is banned, may pay tribute to the historic queen of tar up. but stone town has also produced a musical queen of a different kind. the city is the birthplace of rock legend, freddie mercury, and this is his house born here and raised the inside of the box. and after that, he took the music all over the world. if the reaction of the fans on the street or anything to go by freddy mercury is not the only musical start to be found in this neighborhood. the president of the issues like famous call most is in van z, buzz dna and it's on full display at a star go central market place. this call is in money t t. you can find a lot of pieces because it's in the us. and let's say for example, here we have the problem. cussing this one, we call it quite

a. it's also fine. this is going, denny, i love it, we use it. i nothing off with the and then the day my name, but another life in stone town is just waking up. locals flocked to the seaside clause all for a donnie with families relax young's to show off the diving skills. and everybody comes to feel they've been here the different the surprises and one of my favorite fluids, which is the transition enzymes of what it's called, roll your, it's a mix of potatoes as that. and the cuts time 5. it has a delicious and a unique as it's a heavy mix of flavors, fragrances, and friendly faces. and for musical trail blazers like amino the city of the future is as bright and as clear as its story pop. end of the day.

but also so proud of my lovely diamonds, both my cost you for what danny has become really popular on take talk any stuff from and i can't wait to try the jump myself. and if you have any female sports in your city, make a video and progress when you start from the last i shall for this week. i hope you've learned that every relationship is about love, support and equality. if you like, vishal, i'm sure your log out of content. follow us on these platforms for more. i live you in the company of mavens. they call this song for about those enjoy and until next time to thanks for watching

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