the mapped out shows the geopolitical reality. the on the board is what makes things to the way they are mapped out. navigating a changing world. now on youtube, the dom, your boss, and you'll base and tell them that a 77 percent is on today. i want us to talk about our relationships and how we treat each other. if you're not in a relationship, still keep watching. there's something for you to mike, let's see your host for today. and to show you find off what young people see about gender equality in relationships in liberia we ask young subbing to 70 percent is how the outputs relationships, classic or mode. and then we hear what our sex and relationship experts cause has

to say. and in the d r c, we meet ritual model who has built up a cleaning and pop. do you remember that time in 2016? when formalize you and president and will have multiple hiring, set his wife long in the kitchen, his living room and his other room. despite significant progress to austin, the quality in africa. they're still much way to be done. for instance, a video of this month expressing his traditional views on women. how's it going it about 10000000 views or not is still going to know. let's have a look, a stand against the usual woman having equal arrived remained a home. and woman was based on mississippi, and nobody's still happy like that. the reason why we have is stimulus will have the woman that i to visit it because of the other. what education. so would you rather be just stayed at home once educated like that's the role of the month. they

have to be what they have to to give the house of the woman that the house of them . it is that that's, that's the best decent. that's all quite sure. what's the issue about the other book culture. okay, so quick question. i'm a woman here who's doing this job of asking questions and moderating. i would say i'm independent. does that bother you? yeah. oh, okay. you to parts industry debates. if we want to present to you this week, it is kamani, went to monrovia to investigate the role of women in relationships by speaking to this month and other librarians share it is the hello and welcome back to the 77 percent strict debate this week. we are the library as capital of monrovia. now you might be familiar with the expression, strong african woman in this country. they suddenly having had a female president,

elizabeth johnson. but this strength in women is sometimes discouraged when it comes to romantic relationships, particularly the applicant concepts such as everyone to find out why, who better to accept this question for me that some late barriers. and we're going to start with the couple on the panel. we have a couple this so loved up austin insurance. hello. thanks for joining us. so let's start with the basic question of your day to day when you wake up in the morning giving me a little clue about who does what in the morning. what's your morning routine like since how you are really citing? let me start as well. thank you. um in the morning i wake up around 55 like 530 a. get my kids ready for school wide. he's dead getting ready for work. okay, so what do you say that's your domestic responsibilities sort of equally split between the 2 of you? yeah, it is. yeah. physically i'm able to wake up early morning and get hot water for the kids. i'm able to be beeping the little girl while she has to be ferrying corvette

or something. so yes, i think is good, and i enjoy doing abraham. where are you? i know that to have a biblical name and also an old fashion stands on the concept of equality and relationships. tell me a little bit about that. for me. i come with a african quarter background and they are. ruth described to me both men and women . i believe that most of the 1st choices in our african context, uh uh, the responsibility of the women. but the make them be of help. let me tell you, i'm laughing because the women behind me, i really sighing. you subject something then? yeah, i would, i would like you to complete these. so you started by telling me women's responsibilities in their relationship. i have to remember to one do all the health choice? no, i said most of the res response, most of the 1st choice is the woman's responsibilities. so what does the man do then? do you know, will i be red settin?

is the head of the home he's responsible to, to, to provide for the home. okay. tell me what you're thinking. always the female is a feminist and an activist. yeah. knowing that liberia was set on the basis of peach, iraqi just explains why they are a no saying these different things. but when you look at who said those rules, who's who give the responsibilities of a woman take in charge of the room and doing the choices, you would know that the men said those rules and wish we'd be leave for very bias, right? because women's potentially is way be your own. just taken care of who i want to hear from some people at the back. right. let me get some reactions. come closer to me, please. i'm a decent analyst. nice. then it gives the each, the woman having equal or right to remain home and woman was be so missed it. and nobody's still happy like that. the reason why we had a few minutes,

we're having women, i to visit it because of the other. what education? okay. so quick question, i'm a woman here who's doing this job of asking questions, and moderating. i would say i'm independent. does that bother you? yeah, it. well ma'am, you know, african culture must not be dependent. what if i told you that in my culture, women actually the heads of the home by so culture, you know, gods and that was said yeah. in the back onto the women that there was something missing. so let me come back to the couple of the even holding hands. let me tell you we are feeling so single today on this. so when you hear some of these a sessions, i can imagine that there must also be people in your family who also have quote, similar views. they told me that this, this, the letters you work up and, you know, washed the dishes for you to move. you woke up just get ready for work and move on, you know, and then you start to follow that. i don't get a why as you do that. so we're going to have the money. and what is going to shop

people? is that the man you as a man, you benefit a lot if those equality in the who your mother comes to visit you and dentist, easy. washington dirty clothes. she's like, why is my zone while she's very close? let me hear from my doing for a 2nd because we haven't spoken to her. you just want to investigate this idea of the head of a home because because no one has talked about partnerships in the contemporary. well that's we live in today. do we still need that classical head of a home where i have no interesting relationship anymore? it is because of what i went through when i was a relationship. so i had to quit 2019 because uh i had to be will save black and white. it protective, and he was very abusive. so i went to it. i held my god like king. i have a woke up in the morning and what so what sucks for bucks are in. what

ways, sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet. i need to understand is what do you mean put stocks but what, what, what, what helps him dress up in the morning like a child was what i went extra martin, you know, helping my relationship. okay. and do i have a question for you as he was treating him as a king, as he was saying, which by the way, absolutely. was he treating you as a queen? well, he was abuse if he was really abusive. so he has actually to mid me until lost interest in having relationship. and when i see people are like, you know, couples and then i feel like they're not being true to each other. yeah. okay. so obviously not all relationships which have that dynamic will end up in abuse. yeah, let's just pick a about that. however, it can, because these a power dynamic that has not been addressed. so how do you,

how do you navigate this? so for me, people always put or have a negative connotation. when it comes to head, are we not saying that there will much would be the one to address you is not, is that it will most responsibility to address you. if that is happening, that's abuse. knowing your rules is different from the abuse, but i'm saying that the i ascribe this for men and women who, who are done very clearly. okay. i mean that's your position and that's perfectly fine. we've had many things, right? including the traditional is to think that's we mentioned, even be educated, let me hear from, oh, i am so afraid to bring the microphone to you. but let's say you, let's say your point is a need that would go back to try to shift all when it was missing. but it was to the court and not have to do everything. and that is what will happen to the bidding, but it's like not assuming this, but it's what about why you,

why i think it's not we may just find a new home. okay, so let me just, are you working for example? and you must have female bosses. how do you respond to that? oh, it has an a bus mean a female is going to come to get it because i really don't see hard being submissive. sometimes she just, she just was point, know how to man, and that is my high supposed to be so well not being a bus that can be from abusive to me. oh, okay. i, i honestly cannot believe that i am hearing these words in 2023 but but, but i, but i mean you'll, you'll, you'll view points. let me get one last one here. well, with me, i am power. when yeah, etiquette telling me i learned this aside to become better because come on with kyra children in our rooms for 9 months, which is huge. so i mean, we're on dustin relationship because we've gone with them for 9 months when they come outside and we've been with them and even the hosp wanting to, oh,

we sometimes think of them as babies. yeah. alpha as boss as well, when you come on the baby's man to support, we mean, then we can be able to be home and society better. all right, normally at this point of the debate would be asking people for solutions. but after hearing all the diverse opinions, i'm not sure that there is such a thing as solutions. we started with a couple, i'd like to end with them. we've had so many viewpoints here. do you think that the kind of relationship that the 2 of you have, which some people might see us aspirational is on the threats? we work up in the morning as a man and getting ready for work. when you stand before that mirror, just the a human being. when you see your wife see a human being, she to her that way, man. you are going to be happy. if you bring that woman to the equal point, you're going to be happy because we're just equal and we have this agreement on audius' and wish when we've been here, they've been to the idea that we're pushing well, which is

a better idea. we go about that. thank you. that is a beautiful place to rock this debates. we have had some very controversial remarks today, but also what a nice way to wrap it up. think 1st and foremost of your partner as human. thank you guys for taking the i mean there's some truth to a few of the things that those people were saying, some things i get some things. i refuse what part resonate. the role of a woman is to keep the house and the man is the head of the household. that's just how it is. well, if you were listening carefully, you'd understand a bit different dynamics when it comes to relationships. yes, i got that. but i have my version and i believe it's valid. so what makes you think men hold a higher power in a marriage or relationship? that's how it was when i was growing up. my mom was always working on household charles and she comes and me tells me that i need to be

a certain type of woman for my husband. you know? probably 31. right. so how is this looking out for you? it's exhausting because i wake up, get the kids ready for school, make breakfast, make sure my husbands close the ions and ready, make sure everybody eats and that lunches are packed if needed. make sure the kids are late for the school bus, then i go to work. and what are your evening routines? i gets home, make the kids t, make sure they bring their homework, help them were needed. then get dinner ready, prep the kids for bed and make sure the hobbies food is plates and waiting for when he gets home. and what does he do? he wakes up, gets ready for work, eat and leaves. and when he gets home, if he gets home and the which is honestly criteria, he'll sit and eat with us. and then you'll watch sports or news or whatever. and then eat salad and sleep. and this of course, you know,

does that get you in the mood for, you know, i don't even know what the mood is anymore. how does that sound fair? like, where is your joy? why i view anyone who's just tired all the time and never in the mood where african women of course have been conditioned into believing in traditional gender roles within relationships. mentioned do this, women should do that. even inquire relationships. the more masculine presenting person is expected to carry the same gender rules which is outdated and unfair. all of this to maintain a hierarchical system that only benefits men and not just in relationships of jobs, social status, just right in general. how many times do you walk in town and feel safe? gosh, never how many times do you think your husband works in town and feel safe? he's always walking around town even late into the night time case in point. what now? i'm no expert,

but i think your health and wellbeing are as important as anyone else's and that includes mental health. don't let your home life drive you into a depression. just talk to a man, let him know you'd like a break to come up with a plan together. maybe tell him that and see how quickly he'll come running. on the 5th, i will try and it's going to be hard to start that conversation because we've gotten the custom to this routine, but i need it to hear. that's okay. i've got to go cook kids will be home soon. can i get you some more tea? girl sit down, i will get the tea, myself, and order pizza for the kids. my treat, the thanks cost for those acting skills and the skate. and in case i asked you to be to pick your interest, you can watch a full of action. when i youtube channel. i've often heard people say, in african culture, women are expected to do this, all that. but in my icon culture,

both men and women can boil cassava and the past hoops. let me know why your call to doesn't allow men to do domestic choice. i'm curious. african women are known for the enter pin neural spirit. in fact, in africa, more women run businesses exist than anywhere else in the world ritual model as a prime example of this. she's thought that hey, colleen in business in the eastern region of the democratic republic of congo, and now employs hundreds of people. she has proven what we already know, that women can excel in business, bestbuy to the extra head those they face. it is west milton that this story was recorded before the escalation of patients in eastern cool go. mazda is 10 companies, bought a town overlooking lake keeper, and rhonda is this via telephone is flattering story. it's literally the rags to

riches tails. rachel, more low, a young antonio who overcame homelessness to be to tell only cleanings, come the bell. this is the full sized after the death of my father. it was an easy. they chased us from our rented house and live to him to be taught. but i resolved to take my fate into my own hands. i started walking as a key night in town, in a big building with many rooms. can you imagine? i was just getting $20.00 a month for washing clothes, dishes and cleaning the house. all of the cleaning business has a certain stigma, even though it's vital works, especially for keeping up with buildings running. many young people looks down on the profession multiple night when you walk as a clean up. no one respects you. there's just a neglect. you don't see the value you bring and even is sold to you via my academy

. studies showed us we should be a jobs not what. what was that? i found out when that came on the end. rachel supported adults in the cleaning business. she advertise her services as a peanut on what's up both rugs and supplies and the power to clean houses. then one night i discovered, you know, what's the group that someone was looking for a cleaning company. i wrote to that person directly named books. and when i saw how big that cleaning budget was, i said in the had to build a team. i train them in one day and we perfect it older team at the walk location of the corner of the week. after high, it's rachel thought more business would come crushed for 2 months. no one called again. so rachel began activity advertising using social media door to door contesting businesses, distributing flyers to families and offices. and it's what i thought see day it

started with those advertisements. i made on social media showing people what i do, and eventually the clients and partners came. my vision is to be established worldwide because my mission is to ensure everyone lives in a good environment, an environment which is safe, clean, and without dirt. i know, so it's quite the initial full top ritual model now has thousands of stuff across the condo, specifically in who come from lizzie, and last year in coma. she has 33 interviews. not because people often think that once a lady finishes her studies, she just needs to get married. all the escalade is, is when do you get married? do you already have a fiance whose those are nonsense issues? however, i don't feel disappointed with housing, so i've done. visual helps us story of painting racks to enter pin euros. richard settings fire, other young people to new positive preconceived ideas about successful jobs to

humble vision of create and clean spaces. too hot on us walk is already providing valuable income for hot one grateful month invites us to meet another who has captivated many with his voice city. um, and that is a musician and toys. most of the enzymes are best still in town. also own us in gene conway among the locals. that is about as a semi autonomous region, oftentimes on. yeah. and it boost a rich history. i feel like just estimates that people have lived in store in town since the 5th century. and it's no surprise that a city is full of history and culture to join. i mean, not on this tool office still in town and explore. it's one of this know, i'm see. see, i mean all the way from 0 and you are watching. these are blue, 77 percent. and this is mine. 50

stone town is the heart of sans he paused largest city. the tons in un archipello goes nearly 2000000 residents of famously diverse, hospitable and music. he gifted like city amena, the international. yeah, came to musician, has been crowned a local tourism and cultural and best of death. and today she's taking us through the city that she loves you sort of that is the, but it's a mixture of millions of culture and everywhere you go, you, we will, coming with one will coming press is one will coming uh, woods. this is called go make home with, or we can call it old fort. but stone town is much more than its historic buildings and winding. i mean, uh and his band mates are working hard to revive the islands, robust musical tradition for new generation of sans the baris,

the ticket of guys. this is our space where we do all practice every single day. and today you're going to enjoy. i'll talk to the, the, the group takes the name from city bin to sell it the legendary single, who launched essentially bought the local tar upjohn right into prominence way back in 1928. interpreting the traditional style with mode don. simple john, spell the 21st century is the name of the game. and so is breaking down barriers around who is allowed to play. when i grew up, i didn't see the woman playing that would then must be someone to brag this to lose . and that's why i decided that to check the food as an instrument, i mean,

is banned, may pay tribute to the historic queen of tar up. but stone town has also produced a musical queen of a different kind. the city is the birthplace of rock legend, freddie mercury, and this is his house born here and raised the inside of the box. and after that, he took the music all over the walls. if the reaction of the fans on the street or anything to go by freddy mercury is not the only musical star to be found in this neighborhood. the president of the issues like famous commerce is in vans. he bought as dna and it's on full display at a star go central marketplace. this is called multi t t. we can find a lot of pieces because it's in the state. for example, here we have the problem. cussing got this one recorded place that it's all

this is going then you know that we use it. i nothing off with the and then the day my name, but another life in stone town is just waking up. locals flocked to the seaside clause out for a donnie with families relax young's to show off the diving skills. and everybody comes to feel they've been here the difference with the surprises and one of my favorite fluids, which is the transition enzymes of what it's called, roy your. it's a mix of potatoes as that. and the top 5, it has a delicious and a unique as it's a heavy mix of flavors, fragrances, and friendly faces. and for musical trail blazers like amino the cities future is as bright and as clear as its story pop. end of the day.

but also so proud of my lovely diamond sports, but cost you for what danny has become really popular on take talk, any stuff problem and i can't wait to try the jump myself. and if you have any female spots in your city, make a video and progress when you start from a lot. so i shall for this week. i hope you've learned that every relationship is about love, support and equality. if you like, vishal, i'm sure your log out of content. follow us on these platforms for more. i live you in the company of mavens. they call this song for about those enjoy. and until next time, you know, thank you the

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