in 360 degrees. and explore fascinating. both heritage spelling d w world heritage 360. now the d. m. your boss and you'll base and tell them that a 77 percent is on today. i want us to talk about our relationships and how we treat each other. if you're not in a relationship, still keep watching. there's something for you to mike, let's see your host for today. and the show we find out what young people see about gender equality in relationships. in liberia, we ask young 7 to 7 percent. is how the outputs relationships, plastic or more. and then we hear what our sex and relationship experts cause has

to say. and in the d r c, we meet ritual model who has built up a cleaning and pop. do you remember that time in 2016 when formulate june president and will have multiple hiring, set his wife long in the kitchen, his living room and his room. bestbuy's significance progressed to last in the quality in africa. there's still much way to be done. for instance, a video of this month expressing his traditional views on women has gone at about $10000000.00 views or not is still going to. let's have a look. a stand against the ego woman having equal arrived remained a home and woman was based on miss it. and nobody's still happy like that. the only reason why we have is stimulus loving women, the i to visit it because of the other. why that edition. so would you rather be just stayed at home once educated like that's the route of the month. they have to

be what they have to to give the house of the woman that it has to do. it is that that's, that's the best decent. that's all quite sure. what is the issue about the other book culture. okay, so quick question. i'm a woman here who's doing this job of asking questions, and moderating. i would say i'm independent. does that bother you? yeah. oh, ok. it to pots, industry debates. if we want to present to you this week, it is kamani, went to monrovia to investigate the role of women in relationships by speaking to this mom and other librarians. here it is the hello and welcome back to the seventy's of epithets trick debate. this week we are a library of the capital of monrovia. now you might be familiar with the expression, strong african woman in this country. they suddenly having had a female president electronic johnson. but this strength in women is sometimes

discouraged when he comes through a magic relationship, particularly in the applicant, context sensitive. we want to find out why, who best to answer this question for me that some late periods. and we're going to start with the couple on the panel. we have a couple the so loved up austin insurance. hello. thanks for joining us. so let's start with the basic question of your day to day when you wake up in the morning giving me a little clue about who does what in the morning, what's your morning routine like sons how you really signing themselves? well, thank you. um in the morning i wake up around 55 like 530 a get my kid ready for school wide. he's dead getting ready for work. okay, so what do you say that's your domestic responsibilities. sort of equally split between the 2 of you? yeah, it is. yeah. physically i'm able to wake up early morning and get hot water for the kids. i'm able to be beeping the little girl while she has to be ferrying cobra or

something. so yeah, i think is good and i enjoy doing you abraham, where are you? i know that you have a biblical name and also an old fashion stands on the concept of equality and relationships. tell me a little bit about that. for me. i come with uh, african quarter background. uh and they are. ruth described to me both men and women. i believe that most of the 1st choices, you know, are offered in context. uh uh, the responsibility of the women. but the make them be of help to let me tell you, i'm laughing because the women behind me, i'm really sighing. you sucked in something then? yeah. what i would like you to complete it's fees. so you started by telling me women's responsibilities in their relationship. i had turned on. what did one do all the house choice? no, i said, most of the res, restore most of your hus choice is the woman's responsibilities. so what does the mind do then? you know, will i be when setting is the head of the home he's responsible to, to,

to provide for the home. okay. tell me what you're thinking. always the female is a feminist and an activist. yeah. knowing that liberia was set on the basis of peach. iraqi just explains why they are a no saying these different things. but when you look at who said those rules, who's who give the responsibilities of a woman take in charge of the room and doing the choices. you wouldn't know that the men said those rooms and wish we'd be leave for very bias, right? because women's potential is way be your own. just taken care of who i want to hear from some people at the back, right. let me get some reactions. come close to to me, please. i'm a decent analyst. nice. then it gives the ego will mind having you go right. remain home and woman was based on mississippi and nobody's still happy like that. the only reason why we've had the assuming east loving women,

the i to visit it because of the other. glad education. okay, so quick question. i'm a woman here who's doing this job of asking questions, and moderating. i would say i'm independent. does that bother you? a yeah. it, well ma'am, you know, african culture must not be dependent. what if i told you that in my culture, women actually the heads of the home by so culture, you know, gods and that was said yeah. in the back onto the women that there was something missing. so let me come back to the couple of the even holding hands. let me tell you we are feeling so single today on this. so when you hear some of these a sessions, i can imagine that there must also be people in your family who also have quotes similar views committed assess the letters, you woke up and you know, washed the dishes, you're the man you woke up, just get ready for work and move on, you know, and then you start to follow that. i don't get a while as you do that. so i woke up early morning and what is going to shop people?

is that on the moon you as a me, you benefit a lot. if those equality in the, your mother goes to visit you and dentist, easy. washington dirty clothes. she's like, why is my phone rousing daddy clothes, let me hear from my building for a 2nd because we haven't spoken to the hey, just want to investigate this idea of the head of a home. because because no one has talked about partnerships in the contemporary. well that's we live in today, do we still need that classical head of a home? well, i have no interesting relationship anymore. it is because of what i went through when i was a relationship. so i had to quit 2019 because i had an a, b will save 5, but while it protective, and he was very abusive. so i went to it. i held my god like king. i have a look up in the morning and what so what sucks for bucks are in? what it bob?

really weird. sweet sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet. i need to understand is what do you mean put stocks but what, what, what, what helps him dress up in the morning like a child was what i went extra martin, you know, helping my relationship. okay. and to have a question for you as he was treating him as a king, as he was saying, which by the way, absolutely. was he treating you as a queen? well, he was abusive. he was really abusive. so it has actually to mid me until lost interest in having relationship. and when i see people are like, you know, quite pause and then i feel like they're not being true to each other. yeah. okay. so obviously not all relationships which have that dynamic will end up in abuse. yeah, let's just be clear about that. however, it can, because these a power dynamic that has not been addressed. so how do you bring,

how do you navigate this? so for me, people always put or have a negative connotation. when it comes to head, are we not saying that there will much would be there want to address you is not, is that it will most responsibility to address you if that is happening, that's abuse. knowing your rules is different from being abused, but i'm saying that the i ascribe this for men and women in there who hold them very clearly. okay. i mean, that's your position and that's perfectly fine. we've had many things, right? including this additional is to think that's we mentioned, even be educated, let me hear from, oh, i am so afraid to bring the microphone to you. but let's hear you. that's the point is a need that we go back to our tradition all when it was missing. but it was good to know have to do everything and that's why we're having to do bidding. but it's like not assuming this, but it's what about why you, why eric is not we may just find

a new home. okay, so let me just, are you working for example, and you must have female bosses. how do you respond to that? oh, or having a bus mean a female is going to come to get it because i really don't see her being submissive . sometimes she just, she just was point, know how to man, and that is the high supposed to be so well not being a bus. it can be from abusive to me. oh, okay. i, i honestly cannot believe that i am hearing these words in 2023, but um, but, but i mean you'll, you'll, you'll view points. let me get one last one here. well, with me, i am power one. yeah. etiquette telling me i learned this aside to become better because come on with carriage children in our rooms for 9 months, which is huge. so i mean, we're on dustin relationship because we've gone with them for 9 months when they come outside that we've been with them. it even be a hot spot in the old. we sometimes think of them as babies. yeah. alpha as bosses

. but when you come on the baby's man to support me, then we can be able to be the home and society better. all right, normally at this point of the debate, i would be asking people for solutions. but after hearing all the diverse opinions, i'm not sure that there is such a thing as solutions. we started with a couple, i'd like to end with them. we've had so many view points here. do you think that the kind of relationship that the 2 of you have with some people might see us aspirational is on the threats we woke up in the morning as a man and getting ready for work. when you stand before that mirror, jesse a human being, when you see your wife see a human being, she'd hurt our way. man, you are going to be happy. if you bring that woman to the equal point, you're going to be happy because we're just equal and we have this agreement on audius'. and we're sure when we hit it back to the idea that we're pushing well,

which is a better idea. we go about that. thank you. that is a beautiful place to rock this debates. we have had some very controversial remarks today, but also what a nice way to wrap it up. think 1st and foremost of your partner as human. thank you guys forcing the or, i mean there's some truth to a few of the things that those people was saying, some things i get some things. i refuse what part resonate. the role of a woman is to keep the house and the man is the head of the household. that's just how it is. well, if you were listening carefully, you'd understand a bit different dynamics when it comes to relationships. yes, i get that. but i have my version and i believe it's valid. so what makes you think men hold a higher power in a marriage or relationship? that's how it was when i was growing up. my mom was always working on household charles and she constantly tells me that i need to be

a certain type of woman for my husband, you know, probably 31. right. so how is this looking out for you? it's exhausting because i wake up get the kids ready for school, make breakfast, make sure my husbands close the ions and ready make sure everybody eat that lunches are packed if needed. make sure the kids aren't late for the school bus, then i go to and what are you evening routines i get home, make the kids t, make sure they bring their homework. help them were needed. then get dinner ready, prep the kids for bed and make sure of how these food is. plates have been waiting for when he gets home and what does he do? he wakes up, gets ready for work, eat and leaves. and when he gets home, if he gets home and leave it just honestly criteria, he'll sit and eat with us. and then you'll watch sports or news or whatever then eat shall and sleep. and this, of course, you know,

does that get you in the mood for, you know, i don't even know what a mood is anymore. how does this sound fair? like, where is your joy? why am i viewing anyone who's just tired all the time and never in the mood were african women? of course have been conditioned into believing in traditional gender roles within relationships mentioned do this, women should do that. even in clear relationships, the more masculine presenting person is expected to carry the same gender rules which is outdated and unfair. all of this to maintain a hierarchical system that only benefits men and must have been relationships of jobs, social status just right in general. how many times do you work in town and feel safe? gosh, never how many times do you think your husband walks in town and feel safe? he's always walking around town even late into the night time case in point. what now? i'm no expert,

but i think your health and wellbeing are as important as anyone else's and that includes mental health. don't let your home life drive you into a depression. just talk to you, man, let him know you'd like a break to come up with a plan to give a maybe tell him that and see how quickly he'll come running. so i will try and it's going to be hard to start that conversation because we've gotten the custom to district team, but i needed to hear that's okay. i've got to go cook kids will be home soon. can i get you some more tea? girls sit down, i will get the tea, myself and order pizza for the kids. my treat. a thanks cause for those octave scales and the skate. and in case i asked you to be to pick your interest, you can watch a full version on i youtube channel. i've often heard people say, in african culture, women are expected to do this, all that. but in my icon culture, both men and women, conbal, cassava,

and profess hoops. let me know why your call to doesn't allow men to do domestic choice. i'm curious. african women are known for the entropy neural spirit. in fact, in africa, more women run businesses exist than anywhere else in the world. ritual model is a prime example of this. she's thought that hey, colleen in business in the eastern region of the democratic republic of congo, and now employs hundreds of people. she has proven what we already know, that women can excel in business, bestbuy to the extra head of the face. it is west milton that this story was recorded before the escalation of patients in eastern cool go. mazda is 10 companies, bought a town overlooking lakes cube, and rhonda, is this be a total of an inspiring story? it's literally the rags to riches tales. rachel, more low,

a young antonio who overcame homelessness to bid her own cleanings come back to the full sized after the death of my father. it was an easy they chased us from our rented house and life to him to be taught. but i resolved to take my fate into my own hands. i started walking as a key night in town, in a big building with many rooms. can you imagine? i was just getting $20.00 a month for washing clothes, dishes and cleaning the house. of the cleaning business has a setting stigma, even though it's vital works, especially for keeping up with buildings running many young people looks down on the profession multiple now when you walk as a clean up, no one respects you. there's just a neglect. you don't see the value you bring and even insult you via my academic

studies, showed us we should be a jobs and not work for me that i find out when i came on the end. rachel supported adult in the cleaning business. she advertised her services as a clean out on what's up, both around supplies and the power to clean houses. then you go no one night, i discovered, you know, what's the group that someone was looking for a cleaning company. i wrote to that person directly lane books, and when i saw how big that cleaning budget was, i said in the how to build a team. i train them in one day and we perfect it older team at the walk location of the corner. after high, it's rachel thought, most business would come best for 2 months. no one called again. so rachel began activity advertising using social media green door to door. when texting businesses, distributing flyers to families and offices. and it's what about c a?

it started with those advertisements i made on social media, showing people what i do. and eventually like lions and partners came, my vision is to be established worldwide because my mission is to ensure everyone lives in a good environment. an environment which is safe, clean, and without dirt. i know. so it's quite the initial full stop ritual model now has thousands of stuff across the comfortable, specifically in because of lizzie and a love seat in coma. she has the 23 interviews, not because people often think that once a lady finishes her studies, she just needs to get married. all they ask ladies is when do you get married? do you already have a fiance whose those are nonsense issues? however, i don't feel disappointed with housing, so i've done. visual helps us sort of cleanings racks to enter pin euros. richard headings via other young people to move past the preconceived ideas about successful jobs. the humble vision of create and clean spaces. too hot on us walk

is already providing fundable income for one great woman invites us to meet another who was captivated many with her voice city. i'm in not is a musician and toys most of the inside of the best stool in town. also known us in gene conway among the locals. that is about as a semi autonomous region, often times on. yeah. and it boost a rich history. i see all, it is estimated that people have lived in stone town since the 5th century. it is no surprise that a city is full of history and culture to join. i mean not on this tool office still in town and explore. it's one of this know i'm see. see, i mean all the way from 0 and you are watching dw 7 to 7 percent. and this is mine. 50

stone town is the heart of sans he paused largest city tons and archipello goes nearly $2000000.00 residents of famously diverse. hospitable and to music gifted like city amena, the international, who yeah, came to musician, has been crowned a local tourism and cultural invested us. and today she's taking us through the city that she loves, that you sort of that is the, but it's a mixture of millions of culture and everywhere you go, you will, coming with one world coming press is one will coming uh words this, this is called go make hallway, or we can call it old fort. but stone town is much more than its historic buildings and winding alleys. i mean not, and her band mates are working hard to revive the islands. robust musical tradition

for a new generation of sands, the batteries, the ticket, our guys, this is our space where we do all practice every single day. and today you're going to enjoy, i'll talk to the, the group takes the name from city bin to sell it. the legendary single who launched essentially bought the local tar upjohn right into prominence. way back in 1928. interpreting the traditional style with mode danceable jobs. for the 21st century is the name of the game. and so is breaking down barriers around who is allowed to play. when i grew up, i didn't see the women playing that would then must be someone to brag this to move . and that's why i decided that to check the food and an instrument,

i mean is banned, may pay tribute to the historic queen of tar up. but the stone town has also produced a musical queen of a different kind. the city is the birthplace of rock legend, freddie mercury and v. it's his house boy here and raised the inside of the box. and after that, he took the music all over the walls. if the reaction of the funds on the street or anything to go by freddie mercury is not the only music will start to be found in this neighborhood. the president of the issues like famous commerce is incense. he bought dna and it's on full display at they started go central marketplace. this is called multi t t. we can find a lot of pieces because it's listed here. we have the crowd testing guy, this one recorded quiz that is also fine. this is called denny,

i love it, we use it. i nothing off with the and then the day my a but another life in stone town is just waking up local is blocked to the seaside clause all for a donnie with families relax. youngsters show off the diving skills and everybody comes to bill. they've been here the difference with the surprises and one of my favorite fluids, which is a transition, any incentive what it's called roy. it's a mix of potatoes as that. and the cuts time 5 to have a delicious and a unique it's a heavy mix of flavors, fragrances, and friendly faces. and for musical trail blazers like amino the city is future is as bright and as clear as its story. top end of the day.

my speed, but also i'm so proud of my lovely that i have in sports my katya for what danny has become really popular on tick tock and he's the problem and i can't wait to try to jump myself. and if you have any female sports in your city, make a video and progress when you start from a lot. so i shall for this week. i hope you've learned that every relationship is about love, support and equality. if you like, vishal, i'm sure your log out of content. follow us on these platforms for more. i live you in the company of mavens the call to solve for those enjoy. and until next time, you know, thanks for watching the

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