who needed and need psychological help, who need the help of psychiatrists, psychotherapists, there are a lot of them, and the necessary specialists are few, and imagine that the specialist already has such a crazy load, and from this he still has to squeeze a few volunteer hours in order to to work as a volunteer, so finding a specialist in this way is first of all a big problem for that specialist. which will not harm, but will help, and we initially, when we founded the fund, when tyra, i, dana yarova, yura godymenko finally met and agreed that let's we will make a fund, it was roughly a year ago, when we met and already agreed, we will start everything together, already as a fund, and not as individual volunteers of the division, when we started working as a fund, we wanted one of our programs...

there was psychological help, but here's the problem: when we started, there were no specialists, and now i see a lot of responsible psychologists, psychotherapists who, having understood such a desperate need, went to study, they study foreign practices of how to provide help to such families and to such people, and they already come with new ones. knowledge, with new experience, new skills in this field, but a year ago it was really very difficult to find and pull out at least one at a time, now we are working on a partner program of psychological assistance, and i will not say that it will be a full support, but it will be psychological help in groups and individually for all wards in...

it has already been decided there, this program is at one of the last stages, and we will be ready to launch it, and the second problem is psychological help for children, this is the most difficult, it the most difficult, but as it turned out, it was this direction that most people who have a diploma in psychology and no more ran. nothing, no knowledge, no experience, no skills, decided that they will work with it, but it is the most difficult, you are very right, it is the most difficult, and i think that there are not so many specialists abroad who can work with psychological trauma of children born due to war or bereavement, in almost a century, this is the first such major war on the territory of europe. yes, this is the largest war on

the territory of europe, and it is the very first war that again, a war of technology, a war of heavy weapons, and not just there, you know , someone from somewhere, forgive me, it probably won’t sound intolerant, and not skirmishes with basmachs, so this is a big serious war and the first one in almost a century, of course not europe before that there was no... but even when we talk with european military experts there, with european military experts, now they are studying the ukrainian experience of our war, because they did not have such experience, and the americans did not have such experience, so now they are studying all mistakes, all right decisions our military, our medics, and in particular they will study the experience. our

psychologists, those good psychologists, i mean, doctors and surgeons, all these specialists who are related to the war, in europe there is not the necessary number of specialists who are ready to work with the topic of war in general, because there was no such need for them, the most specialists who are ready to work with the trauma of harassment, and with the trauma of domestic violence, because this type of trauma is more popular with them. ugh, but what they have is uh well arranged, something we can learn from it's the treatment of veterans and their families, uh, over there in the united states, for example , veterans of all wars are treated with great respect, and the treatment and programs are really such that a veteran, i'm not saying that there are always, of course, problems , but as far as i know, of course there...

veterans are treated very well and with respect - especially on the street, this is not yet accepted in our society, with respect, with respect, with gratitude. treat a veteran walking down the street, some even hide their children so they don't seem to see military, so as not to get injured , god forbid, god forbid, it's such a horror, really, you know, we once, probably six months ago , discussed with yuri godymenko that i talked about the fact that i sometimes avert my eyes. from a wounded soldier, because i feel in debt to him, and right now i personally can't offer him anything to cover this debt, in fact, i owe him health, i

owe him life, because he was the one who took the risk, and i'm here something she did, something she couldn't do for... him to turn on both of them legs, let's say, or with both hands , and this is a matter of my conscience, and we talked then, and he says: you know, your best support will be when you look at this military man, not in any way, but at a wounded military man , that you will not look at his wounds, at the person, that you will see in... in him a cool guy with a beautiful smile, kind eyes, with a cool hairstyle. you will look into his eyes, smile and nod, show your attention. i realized that it really works, that it really works, that

i, when i see a wounded soldier, i i look at him, i smile, nod my head, and i see in him first of all a person, a person. with green eyes, with a cool smile, with a chip on the front teeth , when he smiles, i see a smart person, if he says something, i see athletic people, even when they have no legs, and i walk like this and think, wow, what cool man, what a cool man, he lost his leg, but he plays sports, because you know, there goes a person... plays with biceps, that's where the attitude towards veterans is, it has to work, now, it has to be adjusted at all, absolutely all levels, because in the 16th year, the attitude towards veterans changed radically after

the majority of our people started talking, it was not a man who attacked a drunken neighbor with a knife, but a veteran of the ato on... stood with a knife on my neighbor, or when i read the news just recently, and there, it means, drunken military personnel, brigades, number so-and-so, got into a fatal road accident, drunken people, first of all, this is the pursuit of clickable headlines, it's the pursuit of clickable ... heads in the army is exactly the same segment of society as here in a civilian city, and to call them names here, that they are all like that, no, it is not possible for me, a veteran is a person who is a priori, yes in general, definitely,

without any there, but, if, she deserves my attention and my respect, so attitude , i say hello and... thank her for her service to this person, then when we go to personal communication, i will see what kind of person this is, although this is the contribution of this person to the victory, and the fact that she is now protecting my life , it will always be worthy of respect for me, then the assessment of specific actions, we talked about families prisoners, about the families of the dead, but it is not easy for the families... of the soldiers who are now at the front defending the country, and you, you are such a family, your husband is a military man, what is it like to be the wife of a military man, because i will explain why i ask this, there are many in there are posts on the internet that

families of military men, wives of military men, they are like cheese in butter, go for a ride because they are paid so much money, they can not work, spend 100 thousand hryvnias. we get paid by the military, military support, that's combat, yes, sometimes the military sends their wives what they have left after they... used cars in the subdivision, bought rubber , bought mavics, bought radio stations, bought five, ten, they provide everything for themselves, and most of the fuel for generators at the positions, for the vehicles they drive, they also buy themselves, if it's an infantry unit, they sometimes need these electric saws or without... they bought them themselves, they need cool axes, they buy them themselves, and

you know, when they say that there a, then she was lucky to have a husband in the war, so she earns a lot, you have no idea how much we do were ready to give so that our relatives would return home alive, they would not have to risk their lives in this war. but i understand that i cannot hide my husband, because he is my complete partner, he is a person, he is a complete person, fully capable, he is a strong person, above all, he is a cool person, i love him for that, if i start to hide him , break, i will lose this love, because i will change him. he will become weak, and i don't want that, you know, the man did not immediately go to war, because

he had limited fitness, he applied to the military, he was told, wait, wait, wait, but actually, when he personally applied to the military units in order to leave on his own, he was also refused precisely because of the illness that limited his fitness. but actually, when he was called, he went to the army , went on a trip, he will now become an officer, he is serving, this is the ground forces, and i respect his decision, i understand that if each woman starts to hide her husband and discourage him from serving in the army , you know, one day the buryats will come to my door, to theirs door, they will knock and say

, well, what are you waiting for, and i really don’t want this, so yes, my husband has to protect the country and he has to protect me and other women from the fact that they will come to our door to storm, what is it like to be a wife of a military man, it’s scary , it's exhausting. due to the fact that we mostly live from message to message, from call to call, called, cheers, excitement, everything is cool, promised to call, at 4 p.m., didn't call, and your head is already drawing some scary pictures when rockets are flying there , fabs, mines, when that's all explodes, breaks, because the brain is in no hurry to paint some idyllic pictures. he immediately draws the worst, and then you

run around the ceiling for several hours until he gets in touch again, several hours, and sometimes several days, because the girls have boys who are stormtroopers, scouts, who go out on missions for several days, and it's a few days of crazy uncertainty, and i'm afraid to even imagine how the girls live it, these few days, when i left, and will come back or not. which will return, in what status will return, this it is very scary how the children go through it, they already understand everything, at first they cried a lot because dad is in the war, although i stubbornly told them for a long time that dad is in the army, dad is in the army, dad is in the army, and you know when the word does not sound war is a little easier, now they are more used to it. i don't always ask , dad called, dad said, dad is here, now, you know

, my nerves have calmed down a little, so we already have a black military humor, sometimes blacker than the black earth, but you already know that most of the boys who serve husband, you already know there, their children, what are their names, their wives. "you're already volunteering for their needs, they're already writing to you there that we need two jackets for our giants, okay, let's decorate for you." this is what we need maviks, gather for maviks, because these boys have become mine too, not mine, not important, and children write them letters, children send them knitted little bears, which my friend knits, children make funny ones for them pictures, the kids bake cookies for them, and that calms us down,

it calms us down and it keeps us going, but... i i will say this that the wives, loved ones, of military personnel must somehow unite and talk about their experiences, support one and the other, because without this it is very difficult to survive, i understood, the first time when my husband went to fight, i understood that it was difficult for me, for example, it is scary for my friend, whose husband has been fighting since the age of 14, to come and tell me. i'm very scared, i can't deal with it, because i thought that she wouldn't understand, because mine is all, as long as yours, yours recently, but i dared, came and understood how important the support of those who, like you, waits for calls, sms, messages, and promors at night, you remembered now, he

also supports you, you often write with humor, and also writes: you are such a polite guest now, because you write so with sharp words very often , about humor, i want to end the program on such a major note, about the translation of your nickname by russians, because you sign, dad, because it is derived from tatyan, and they translate it as papa, you know, papa because, or papasha, because, yes, i am very proud of precisely... variations my pseudonym, because, you know, it somehow happened that humor saves me personally, and when i am most afraid, then i begin to drive the most openly, and as for the use of obscene vocabulary, for everything there is a place and a time, so you know when

you will have the program is 18+, i will not look for euphemisms for... to somehow name the true essence of russians, but so far we have such a tone of the program, so i do not use these words, because they will actually be inappropriate. and yes, i know how to write without matyuks, but when it requires it, when it is appropriate, well, whatever they say, why cross out the words from the song and bake them there with stars, well, we are all adults. that's why humor is important, if we have the strength for humor, we have the strength to win, but we shouldn't replace really serious and important things with jokes, that's right, we should always remember what we're going for and what we 're striving for, and in all the shit, it is worth looking for a grain of truth so that we do not quarrel on

the ground, but can go together to victory so that... so that we understand, well, yes, we had a disagreement with this person, yes, she then was wrong, but i will give her a helping hand when she needs it, this is very important, we must understand and remember at what cost we are going to this victory, we thank you very much for your great work, for how many families you already helped and thank you for your works, thank you. what you invite and everything you do is for the best.

talkers bringing victory closer. dear dad, thank you, thank you, my brother, thank you, sergeant aunt valya, thank you very, very much, thank you for protecting me, my mother and our dog, our home, our country, and i ask you, very, very much, protect st. nicholas so that he gives gifts. brought to me and all the children. thank you for isa, that ukraine can celebrate holidays. strength, will and perseverance were passed down from father to son for centuries, and i am the one who

carries cossack strength and cossack glory engraved in my heart, i am the one who carries the glory of freedom-loving ancestors, whose unyielding will... lives to this day , i am the one who for centuries carries the spirit of struggle and ideas, the one who will never bow down to the enemy, i am a warrior of ukraine, indomitable and unconquered, i will to protect the land given to me by god and always believe in my invincibility.

cold, ice and people attack the enemy at night to the operator of strike drones. today we have five units of equipment that need to be burned, the key is the enemy's manpower. why is baba yaga here, why are the rashists afraid of her, and why should the soldiers? vaseline apothecary was still very interested in why the military buy vaseline? report by ruslan smeschuk. together with the soldiers, he spent the night on duty at the positions near soledar. bug in the head. who installed the wiretap in the room where he had stay valery zaluzhnyi. we cannot know if it is one person, or there is a team working there. what do foreign experts know about the spy war in ukraine? an attempt to find out what the ukrainian side is planning. i don't doubt in the slightest that there were earlier attempts at eavesdropping.

mykhailo manilyuk learned how to calculate the spies and catch the cool ones. the door closes on how to get from one bank of the dnieper to the other, if the red branch stops for repairs. so, i've been on the road for 1:15 minutes. we conducted an experiment and interviewed kyiv residents about work in the capital on... and what does the capital authorities say about everything in the plot of elizaveta yakovolava. the 20th in ukraine, it's time to sum up the main results of thursday, december 21, on the air of "the only thing" oleksiy fadeev in the studio. congratulations. the russian occupiers threw toretsk. four aerial bombs killed three people and wounded six as a result of the attack, the minister of internal affairs reported. according to ihor klimenko, the bombs fell on the territory of the two mine

enterprises, where the miners were at that time. the russians went on the attack near soledar. ukrainian fighters defeated the enemy group, that is the enemy in the gray zone threw a bunch of equipment both damaged and intact. here the pilots of large strike drones have already joined the cause. they methodically burned all... enemy equipment, so that the rashists could not take it away or repair it. our soldiers saw all this with their own eyes, about the effective and efficient and very difficult work of night strike drones, see further in the exclusive material of ruslan smyschuk. today we have five pieces of equipment, at least 5-7 pieces of equipment to burn, plus manpower enemies to destroy. today we are working with... the uav strike force, the guys are working at night with the help of thermal imaging equipment, and now we are already going to the front line,

to the point from where they will fly, as you can see, the car is full of stores, equipment, drones, various equipment. with all this , you need to get to a position located several kilometers from the russian trenches, so closer to zero everyone wears protection, then the car drives without lights with... we have everything in night mode. the guys unload on the spot the equipment and the machine quickly get underfoot a mixture of slippery ice water and mud. if it weren't for this crap underfoot and this bologna, it would be great, but the weather is not helping us. this calculation uses a large night hexacopter, which is a drone with six. engines, which is capable of bringing many gifts to enemy positions, for this the russians called him baba yaga, baba yaga, they are afraid, as we will learn later, for good reason,

that the drone lubricates before takeoff. so as not to cover himself with ice when he bought vaseline at the pharmacy, the pharmacist i was also very interested in why they buy this military petroleum jelly, i can’t even imagine why, it’s several kilometers from the russians here, periodically we hear exits, artillery and even small arms are coming, so there is a minimum of light, and it is very, very slippery here now, everyone is already hit in a circle. and you can walk there only by holding onto a branch. in such conditions, the boys deploy. this cape, as the group of volunteers from frankivsk sent us, is like telling us that it is a thermal jacket, when it is covered with it, no thermal bonding is visible. while decomposing they say, in the morning the russians tried to attack, they were defeated, as a result , up to 10 tanks and armored vehicles remained in the gray zone,

some were knocked out, others got stuck. unarmored equipment is easily enough, well, that is, starting from some kind of light truck, ending with a becha, a beter is easy, well, it may not be enough for a tank, or it may be enough, depending on how it gets, the drone takes four grenades at a time, they are charged and the vampire flies to hunt, the tail , we have not only a tail stabilizer, it also has a mechanism that activates the ammunition, even though the thermal imager is very visible it's bad, stop, we're somewhere over the target, oh, look, there's something there, it won't be there, we have to look somewhere here now, we basically flew up according to the coordinates

, no tanks, we don't need tanks, tanks from... no , we need them, due to poor visibility, the drone is driven low to the ground, but so that it does not get hit by its own explosion, grenades begin to fall on the armored vehicles, i give one more , let's throw it, they blew it up, then the drone is returned, the batteries are changed, after each flight there is no difference by another 10 km flight or 500 m, the battery already needs to be changed, because it sags. and on takeoff even more so at the landing of the battery, it may not be enough to fly, then new grenades are attached and it flies again to bomb, and again and again in the morning the fog rises, the visibility in the air drops to zero, the grayness is very high now and it is practically impossible to fly, nothing it is not visible, plus the work that was assigned to us today, we completed, the equipment that was standing

was destroyed, but... despite the hard work and the worst weather, the calculation is satisfied. six enemy bmps, as the boys say, went to take the russians to kobzon's concert. not taking into account the weather, that the visibility is almost zero and we flew very low, this is to take into account that we burned at least today, the first sorties were three runs, the second two sorties were two runs, and here we are still in the last position two sorties, what are we still one bekha, well, they hit, let's say, seriously damaged it. after that , the calculation is closed, it is necessary to rest, charge the batteries and prepare now due to the impossibility of using aircraft, as well as due to the lack of shells and missiles, the calculations of drones are forced, as they say, to work for himself, and for that guy, i.e. to replace the army aviation, artillery and high point, from the eastern front ruslan smishchuk, vadym revun and ihor shchepit, details tv channel inter, marathon of united news. ukrainian men

aged 25 to... 60 years, who are currently abroad, must appear at the recruiting stations of the armed forces of ukraine. defense minister rustem umyerov stated this in an interview with several foreign media, including the german bild and welt. according to journalists, the head of the defense department also emphasized that invitations will be sent to men, and those who ignore the request will be threatened with sanctions, although the minister did not specify what exactly, saying that... this issue is still being discussed, at the same time, the head of the press and information department of the ministry of defense hilarion pavlyuk explained that german journalists did not interpret umerov's words quite correctly. we call on all citizens of ukraine to remember that it is their constitutional duty to defend their state, and this duty includes all citizens who are currently under border, and the minister of defense for...