and a couple more points, may i? of course, your favorite final topic, all about him and a little bit about the weather and a little bit about lgbt, here i just want to say one thing: amazing is happening, what is amazing? madness is happening before our eyes, i think of elon musk with pity, being a mother myself. with pity for elon musk and his son, but she is not interested in the 10 children of lvova bilova and what will happen to them there, well, what can i say, they are such russian traditional values, very traditional, and in principle it is absolutely it is clear if you remember that in fact, unlike russia, american democracy. it has really become very old, it arouses

the admiration, the sincere admiration of russian propagandists, because what else can you admire if not your own primordial paskon, no, that’s why on the air they admire american movies, american books and believe that a real russian person needs read american books, watch american movies, then she will understand the world, in principle, we can only agree with these words, because well...

movies are shot, well, everything is shown like that about the american political system. in the 50s, a novel, a film, by the way, was also shot here. in soviet times, they liked to shoot films about american life, now they don't shoot anything. everything is described there about the american system. this is the paradox of the american political system, no one criticizes the american political system more than americans, intellectuals. meanwhile, it survives and remains stable under this criticism. this is the genius of insidious for someone, for us, including american art, this is true art, because there movies were outstanding, the tail wags the dog, the godfather, largely dedicated to the same, and yet the americans still consider their system the best in the world, and the most democratic. b: simply the best and

called to rule over everyone in the world. here are our writers, they somehow quarrel, whine and flirt with everything, they look to the west, but the americans somehow do not look to the east to say that there we have a model, well, of course, outstanding american cinema and outstanding american literature, probably it motivates these are russian propagandists non-stop talking only about america for whole days, well, it’s envious, just stupidly envious, that’s what we’ll say, well, on the other hand, what else is there to talk about, because if, god forbid, you start talking about russia, then you can find out what they don’t have there the blackouts are ending in the south, you thought that everything was over there, no, everything is not over there, but here is krasnodar, there were rallies at all this weekend, but there were no rallies in russia for a long time and everyone said, how? you can't

oppose the russian system, it's dangerous, but sometimes you can't speak out against the war, then the russians are afraid, yes, and when there is really such a terrible thing here, namely there is no electricity, no water, it turns out that they don't have everything, so they went out on the streets and began to block the streets, these are residents of disconnected buildings, the mayor came there, started to tell them something, well , in the end, people were detained in this krasnodar for these rallies, yes. and they these rallies eventually ended, the rallies ended, but you know, the power cuts themselves didn't end and are still going on, but you will not learn about it from the russian news anymore, because this topic has completely , completely, completely disappeared from any federal channels, but no, they have been sitting there for the whole south without electricity, well, let it sit and be normal, and there will be more sit and it will be more normal, this is so normal for you. the attitude of the russians towards their own

russians, well, in the end they were confronted with the fact that they were trying to spread discord here, now they are shouting that i am revealing... well, no one will check, of course, because again this week, such news: russia and china have discussed the possibility of increasing the supply of electricity to china,

the russian interfax writes, and they are not just talking about electricity, the possibility of increasing the enrollment of the growing consumption in the far east of russia, this is reported. energy of the ministry of energy of russia, moreover, it is even more interesting there, because now they will build two additional gas stations in the amur region, not in the egg, which is in the south, and there they stand out with such pathos, the ministry of energy also declared them that they are allocating huge money for development energy, but for some reason this energy development will not be in the south of russia, not anywhere . now there is a blackout, not where they currently have a schedule of power outages, in the far east, where they have a minimum number of people, where they have almost no industry, but where for some reason additional energy is urgently needed, not for the russians, for the chinese, here is the news, this one is beautiful. new

large power plants and hundreds of kilometers of high-voltage lines will be built within three years in the regions, investments will amount to 800 billion rubles and most of the funds. of energy necessary, including for accelerated industrial development. today, we are designing two hydropower plants in the far east, in the amur region on the tributaries of the amur, the lemdzhinsk and the nizhnyozeysk. well, you can see it only here. where is this beautiful hess that they are projecting in the far east, let's see, it is next to the chinese border, this is the area you see on the map, where it will all happen, and who needs it there, well clear , to the chinese, that is, they specially

additional gas stations are being built to provide china, china's growing economy, electricity, why do we need it in the south of russia? when there are more important matters here, it is more important to provide china and the chinese, it is more important to provide energy, and not some residents of krasnodar krai or rostov oblast, what is the need for that energy in krasnodar krai, oh my god, they will sit there anyway the sea is not far, let them go swimming in the sea, well, or nowhere at all, how much is there that summer after all, well, well and what can i say, well, besides that. it is clear that an even worse situation did not even appear there, in principle it appeared on the territory of the occupied territories, because if the same krasnodar region is there and it is in them , at least somehow it is there, then in the occupied

territory there is nothing to anyone it's a shame, and there's been no power or water there since the 22nd, and you know, that also led to some people walking out there this week. they tried to block the road to the rally, because when they were told about the wonderful life in russia, they somehow forgot to say that electricity in russia is for the chinese, and not for some russian-speaking residents of the occupied territories. that is why the residents of the occupied territories, in particular donetsk, are fighting for him, but for some reason they are fighting in such a way that since the 22nd year there is no electricity, no water, nothing, and they are... now they have come and they are asking them to turn on the water, well, at least three times a week, because the water, you know, is there once every two weeks, it turns out to be somehow small, they did not expect this, you know, the residents of the occupied territories, they somehow thought that somehow

everything would be different in russia, but no, it will not be different, it will be like this, because it is clear that for the moscow authorities these are the chinese, these are... well, important people, yes, they are people of the first class, russians are people of the second class, well, there are already some residents of the occupied occupied territories of ukraine, well, they are not even people at all without without... of any kind, maybe not even people from the point of view, well, these are the russian occupiers, so why give them some water and electricity, why spend on them, it’s not clear, that’s why they don’t spend since the 22nd year, they have not spent it, and that is why they are sitting in donetsk, but you see, somehow it must have looked a little bit that if somewhere in the krasnodar region you can go on some kind of picket, well, they can also go on a picket, it is not known , how will it end for them, how long do they go on that picket, most likely? will be raked and everyone will be sent to the front, since this happens en masse in unoccupied territories in principle, everything that

comes forward is immediately raked to the front and disposed of there, so here is the story, you know, they have, well, but the residents of russia, as well as the occupied territories, can find out about this again only from the ukrainian media, moreover, the residents of, for example, rostov can only find out the schedule of blackouts that they have here it's still there... it continues and it will continue tomorrow and we can show it to them, the federal tv channels won't show it to them, but we will show it to them, so here is the resident of rastovana, watch so that you know when you will have electricity and when you won't have him, well, you see, in the end, little by little , even with someone, something starts to happen a little reach, they start writing there that maybe it was not necessary to somehow attack the ukrainians so that this kind of thing did not happen later, but so far not much is reaching, i don't know, maybe it also means... they have too much electricity, it is necessary that it was a little less, maybe then somehow it will be understood more that maybe

it was not worth attacking the ukrainians, so that they could live on after that, that's how it is, so that such a story is happening with them, well, but there is also good news, yes, there is good news, and 60 minutes from kabiev will also tell you about it, but very specific news, which also somehow does not sound very strong, because... because we constantly have people here who for some reason believe that historical names cannot be renamed, and they always shout a lot when there are some communist names in they are trying to change us here, so that there is no such thing, you know, the russian world, here , this, this, this, this, this, this, but if we have hearings held there for six months, someone somewhere votes, someone speaks to someone, then you know, everything is wrong in moscow, in moscow,

here you can see how the renaming of the square near the kyiv station in moscow took place, this week also, at least one positive news should be today, if in this studio, your square was renamed, i guessed, in this studio one of the participants of the program guessed, , that it is incongruous that the square at the kyiv railway station is called europe, and flags of enemy states are flying in relation to russia, the flags were taken down a long time ago, right after the broadcast, they were taken down like this, i thank the moscow leadership, mayor sobyanin, for listening to the opinion of the rank-and-file, albeit native residents moscow today, it was renamed eurasia square, instead of europe. it would be logical to rename the square where the kazan railway station is eurasia square. the square near the kyiv

railway station, now eurasia square. thank you vitaly anatoliyovych and moscow mayor sobyanin. get in touch, many more ideas. well, to be honest , i believe that this old marist man still has a lot of ideas. well, you can see how the renaming happens. well, it turns out that it is possible. it's okay. somehow you when something is renamed in ukraine, it's terrible, terrible, and there it is in three days, someone appeared on the 60 minutes program, said something like that, and then in one day they didn’t ask anyone anything, they renamed it, i just don’t understand what to call these half-measures of eurasia, but call it the area of ​​the horde, then everything will be right, finally everything will be tight and the way it should be, especially since there is a new story right there now, which will be taught in schools, which would tell that everything actually comes from the horde, and it is the golden

horde that is this, you know, the basis of russian statehood, well, it was called correctly hordes of fleas and everything was fine and finally they would have returned to their origins, and it would be better to call it a swamp, well, but it’s not, they’ll probably save it somehow for the red square, somehow it’s already there, or, well, there, so that there will be a place for frogs to settle later, so what is well , since there is no more good news about the americans, well, what can i say, they have already talked about everything there, so that's probably all for today, and we will meet with you in a couple of weeks, so what are you waiting for. there will be, there will be, there will be some interesting ideas and interesting stories from muscovy, there are only discounts discounts on entergermin 15% in

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all, with you today is solomia. and we are talking about toxic parents, this topic is for ukrainians it also seems quite relevant to me, because in childhood we were all scolded, beaten, told that we were not like that, and i want to talk about it today with my friend, whom i invited to our studio, this is olya shmalyuk, psychotherapist and psychologist, congratulations you, on this summer day, we are talking about... the toxicity of our parents, say hello, greetings, greetings to everyone, and you too, this is us on radio fm halychyna, and we also have youtube, i can hear you, on which we ask, for you to subscribe and like and like, also share what your parents were like, toxic or not, we are also interested in finding out why this topic

is important to me, because i am telling you, because eh... unfortunately, i had a mother like that and that's enough toxic for me, now we somehow have already established all these relationships more or less , but it costs me constant work on myself, and it cost me somewhere around 7 years of such a very intensive psychotherapy, ugh, that's how to determine in general that your parents are toxic, can it be determined somehow or not? of course, you can, but, well, it is, first of all, parents who injure their children, and children are definitely this feel, but sometimes the child is an adult or a small child, he cannot... explain it in words and cannot, for example, say: my mother is manipulating me, or my mother is blackmailing me, or my mother is hurting me or something else, but the child feels

that she it's not good, she just doesn't feel good around mom or dad, yes, it's just not good around her, and when they're not around, around the child, it's much easier to live, she breathes more freely and becomes much more comfortable, but it seems to me that the child doesn't realize it, well, in principle, she does not realize. but she will feel it, and she will think, what is this, why, why do i feel so bad, why do i feel so bad, when my mother is nearby, for example, and with such questions, if it is already an adult, she can go to specialists and try to understand why i feel so bad for my parents' family, what happens there, what my parents do and what i do, maybe it's not so true that i feel so bad, because when i went to psychotherapy, i had a question, that i'm bad, and i have this... there were 100 points or something, i remember that we are just these in therapy all points, that is, they changed, but, because i was convinced, that was the first question

of my psychotherapist, she said: take a pen and paper and write, my mother does not love me, huh, and it was very scary for me, yes, it's scary, it was very scary, i remember how my hand was shaking, how i couldn't write it, how i cried, and it was very important. in principle, in psychotherapy , to realize that there is a rejection of me as i really am, and, but then, we deduced, that is, that my mother, she loves, simply, she in his own way, he loves in his own way, yes, what are the signs, what are these signs, again, we don't say when a child is beaten and called wildly, that's right, but when there is such a tone - subtle signs. manipulation, like, oh, what are you

doing to me, accusations and playing on the feeling of guilt, i put my whole life on you, and you are so ungrateful, i am everything for you, i gave up everything, i sacrificed everything, and you , and if this... is a lot, well , we are already talking about toxicity, as well as humiliation, shadowing, criticism, constant criticism, well, there is healthy criticism, but there is constant criticism, about appearance, for example, a lot of such, also a feeling of guilt that because of you i did not get married there for the second time, because of you i refused, did not go to university to study , because i had to drag you, and because of you i have to... live with your father, because a child has to have a father and all kinds of things that just make you want to hang yourself, when you are told this all the time, and it is very scary to live there , or

for example, i'm sorry, i'll kill you here, and also toxicity, for example, a father who says that at your age i have already achieved such and such, such and such, and you are such and such, such and such, you do not do this, and such a thing can happen, and in general, if , for example, i am talking now about my mother, then this does not mean that it is also partners in a relationship, well, we are now talking about parents in a very specific way, because in principle, the root is from there, and then we will talk about the consequences later, why we do we actually choose already toxic partners? and also these are toxic people, and parents, people who do not feel. they are their own they don't have boundaries, they constantly violate their children's boundaries, it's the kind of thing where the room should always have the door open so

she can see what her son or daughter is doing there, or barge in without knocking all the time, or come very close and talk very close , bend over, and this is such a very close contact, when you feel the breathing of this person, they sleep in the same bed, this is also already at a certain age, in principle, yes, yes, when they sleep in the same bed, especially this is often practiced by mothers with son, there is such a thing thing, or they bathe together already with an adult child, yes, yes, or also accuracy, or , for example, i will wash your hair, help you, but i will not bathe together, that is, this is such a constant violation, such a constant interference in your space, and we can speaking, it is also basically about tsyugi.

i know better, but i also want to remind our listeners that we are not talking about small children, babies or something else, this is basically already in adulthood, when the parents are still toxic, the truth, well, yes, well, when it 's not like, it's normal when there is such a merger with the mother, and the mother decides everything for the baby, and then the child grows up there, and the parents are also responsible, because the child is defenseless and they raise him, grow up, this is absolutely normal, and sometimes... for 8-9 years and more, there, well, school, yes, school began , and then adolescence, and then 20, 30, 40, 50, he is always with his mother, and mother then decides, and they have one towel for two, well, this, this, this is bad, and especially this happens later on wives, for example, who also say, we live in three, that is, mother, i and this, if there will still be such a wife, that is if she will still be,

yes, because such mothers, for example, they seem to want her, they say, my god, when are you going to get married, well, how long can you get married, well, look, peter got married there, vasya is married, and you are not yet, ugh, and when it comes down to it and she appears on the horizon, then mom already grabs her heart, ends up in the hospital, or something else happens, and she, or she does not fit, and already no such relationship is formed, everyone who watches us on youtube is very interesting to us. your stories, have you had any toxic parents, toxic relationships, how you got out of it is the most important thing, share with us in our comments, like, favorite and subscribe to our channel, i hear you, my mom loved it, i can talk about it, because i basically with my mother, she is quite open and she liked to manipulate, open in the sense that she doesn't like it, of course, but i have to talk about it, she liked to manipulate when my brother and i don't

get along anymore. there was nothing, and she kept falling, that is, she lost consciousness, and now, when nothing helped, and she just yesterday my mother got into the hospital, i monitored myself, believe it or not, this time, yes this time, and this, we can now talk about how it affects later, basically in adulthood, i studied simply. first of all, the huge separation from all of them, studied her, again, what she's pushing for, her manipulations, some things like that, competitiveness, for example, some kind of, yes, because for some reason toxic parents, they constantly put you like, you there is some enemy there, that is, you are there all the time, and i still remember the most toxic phrase, which probably followed me for a very long time, is how can you be happy

when i... well, and it was very difficult, and plus it was very difficult when she accused me constantly, something would hurt her hand or something , for example, she broke her arm, i wasn't around at all, it's because of you, i broke my arm, did i burn myself when i fried your cutlets, that is, it was like that, why these people, that's the real question now, that's why these people do that , and why, well, i think that they also have their own psychological traumas, and they have... their own parents who somehow raised them, we can imagine how, and perhaps, they were also toxic people, and they were raised in the same way, and then they grow up to be such children, they take the same scenario, because it was an example for them , they bring up the next, well, their children in the same way, well, if they didn't have this example, then that is their some form of survival, a form of maybe, but there was definitely something, there is some background in them, and

there was definitely something. not constructively, probably there was some kind of destruction, maybe in the society in which they grew up, maybe in their parents' family, well , something must have happened, that they grew up like this and behave like this, and they do this to their children, and they do this not only with their children, then they join teams, and this toxic people in a team, it manifests itself with friends, and everywhere, and that, that, because i thought that toxic people, they, for example, can be toxic to you. and for someone else they can be beautiful people, it can be like this, i think they will be more restrained, you don't think so, solya, they will be restrained, because after all there is socio-cultural norms, and there is such a framework that keeps you, and you look a little at others, like what you do, at home you can relax, especially if you have children with them, what do you care about them, they are small and cannot stand up for themselves they can, and at home i can be

myself, i can... do what i want, and very often i do.