then these are the first priorities, one's own little independence, as they say in the movies, pierced the sniper scope, hit the sniper in the eye, it is impossible to pierce the sniper scope with a bullet, firstly, the bullet does not fly in a straight line, as some people think, uh, secondly , the lens of the sight itself, it is essentially a column of glass, of which there are hardly ten pieces, not a single bullet will ... penetrate, therefore, as in the film it does not happen, a lot of things are in sniping, probably 90 percent in sniping and what is shown in hollywood movies are different things, that's why the movie is beautiful, be a sniper - it's cool, but the reality is different, it's neither beautiful nor cool, this one is just that. what can be said about a sniper,

when there is a reward for her head, so they are looking for you, maybe someone doesn't like you anymore and advertise, for example, your name, your face and so on, your life is also not worth it anymore. the use of snipers has changed radically, the majority of them believe, well, the majority of snipers who work... at long distances consider it inexpedient to use sniping, but who is in their common sense, they think yes, that’s it i went to the position, well, i fired one shot, it's not enough that you need to get there, find this position, prepare it, then fire a shot, and then they'll go quietly from there so that no one sees you, it takes time and... . snipers, who are not already under

such an influence of enemy fire, they give us 10 shells a day, that's the whole difference, that's why some of the snipers, most of the snipers began to retrain as snipers, that is, if i could a day earlier make one maximum two shots and and two days before to prepare for this, then right now i am already in a ready position, i can destroy it in a day. there is up to 10 whole, it doesn’t matter, it’s equipment, there’s a dugout with the enemy, there’s some kind of utios, a mortar, there’s a gun, it doesn’t matter, but the result is greater, and even if they put a peg on my head, i ’ll still leave sniping as an art, that’s why that it was the sniping around him that made the culture, something personal. that's great,

because everyone wants to become snipers, i haven't seen people running and shouting, i've been a regular all my life, and about the fivich soldiers until the films are not shot, but about snipers, there are many films, sniping will always be an art, in any case, during any war, no matter what, sniping will always remain one of the highest arts of military affairs, so ftv is a development nanotechnologies. but fpv is still more effective at the moment during this war. it is this war that has already begun and vp is much more effective than sniping. so snipers are retrained, they are not retrained, they gain more experience, they develop, they improve themselves, and they do the same the work that was done, that is. but on a larger

scale, that is, to repel an enemy assault, for example, there were 25 fpv drones, but it was done by four groups, different groups, different units, but it’s still cool, because we didn’t lose such a number of people and equipment there , if they did it, for example, in hand-to-hand combat, if they were fighting with a trench, that is, all the work was done, for example, fpiishki, arta and fii, more precisely, more where, and so on, but a sniper would not have done such a job, they would not repel, for example, a tank assault, never in life, even some tourists, birders, they are also hopeful, while we aimed the rocket, while we aimed, while the rocket was proven, that song had already arrived... and i was fired, but they

are also, well, we are anti-tankers after all, and it turns out that the armor was burned by some plane there, it got into its... engine compartment and simply burned it, and we were already leading the missile there, and they are starting to take offense, but if the competition was like that, so to speak, absolutely no nostalgia, i can at any time -what is the moment to just take a rifle, i have the same places, the same heights and just go out alone in the afternoon, withdraw my soul and go back, that is, no matter how deep it dragged me, and it is necessary to understand that we are at this stage... of the war, we cannot choose everything, i remain a sniper and will sit, wait for a coherent time , it will also never be if we want to end the war, and we want to end the war, no matter who it is beneficial to, but certainly not us, it is

not beneficial to us in any way, and this does not only apply to the state, which it is unprofitable for her to fight, and specifically the boys who fight, that's why. there is absolutely no nostalgia for sniping none, because this case is always with me, i can take a rifle at any moment and engage in sniping again, but if we have fpv drones now, let them be fp drones, if tomorrow we have to change to a tank there, we will change, relearn, let's go on a tank. there are

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to understand what abuse is, what it is, how psychologists interpret it, whether we can use it at all in the ukrainian language, the word is abuse, i think. we can, well, at the moment, we do not have any definition of our ukrainian, why can we, because the concept of abuse includes various types. violence, that is, violence in general, when we talk about violence, very often the first thing that comes to people's minds is physical violence, violence is of various kinds, of various plans, and psychological violence, which if not visible, sometimes not even heard, yes, but it is present, that's why abuse is such a general , very extensive name that applies to everyone of these types of violence and it is more clear then that it is about... uh, some kind of violence in general, and not only about physical. i would like to talk to you today about violence, actually this

abuse in a relationship, a man and a woman, even if it's a couple and they're, for example, single, or if it's a couple, uh, because i'm interested, i 19 i was married for years, and only when i got to a psychotherapist, i realized that i was in an abusive relationship, before that i was not aware of it in principle, i thought that i was just bad, i didn't deserve it. for the better of course, it stems from childhood trauma, and does the victim understand that she is in an abusive relationship? not always, and you know, well , i don't really like the word victim either, although here i think that we, in order to define the position of each and in this relationship, well , we will use this word, but the victim is not very... i like it, it's a person simply, who has had the experience of such a relationship, because the word victim, it is so very - stinging, such

and such, and returning to your question, a person does not always determine that he is precisely in these in a relationship, she does not always understand what is actually happening, but there are various reasons for this, which, and you have already listed some of them, eh, first of all, this is... probably a model of family relations, if a child with a malk sees violence in the family, again violence, we don't talk about it, we can also talk about beatings, it's obvious and physical, but here actually for me these subtleties of such a psychological thing are important, because it, as you said at the beginning, it is invisible, how to define it, its violence, which is invisible, as you say, yes, and i support that it is exactly like that for many... people, it can be expressed in various aspects and everyday life, well, when

we talk about a couple, and devaluation, for example, but when we talk about respect as such, each person has his own definition of respect, and respect can be one thing for you, another for me, a third person will name his criteria of respect for himself, and things that degrade, devalue, everything that affects self-esteem. and actually on the self-worth of another person, but somehow, well, i don’t know how to say, it discolors it, yes, it somehow presses it down, all these are precisely the subtleties that we analyze in the psychological process already with the client, because in general we simply will not be able to say and list everything, well, because there is actually a lot of it, all i can do is i can there from my example ... i wonder how i started drawing there, and my ex- husband said, listen, you are drawing this, go paint a fence, or, for example, you went to

the gym, because i, well, forever i am fighting with my excess weight, go fuck you, but this too, well, i also consider it such an abuse, and when we sing too, and he said, you already old woman for singing, what did you make up, you will soon retire. calm down and sit down, and then as if he gave such double references, i , well, i support you here, as if he was, for example, he allowed himself to buy a lot of things, because i earn, uh, and i am in charity, and what did you earn, you, i'm sorry, you earned a lot, or, for example, you are the mother of a child, i have a child with autism, you should go to psychologists, psychiatrists, have fun here. play with your trains and something else, but here i am doing serious things, i earn money, it was frank

abuse, which, to be honest, i didn't understand at all, eh, and i had to go through psychotherapy for many years afterwards to understand, because everyone says why you broke up with him, for example, because they said, he's the same as you i didn't beat, well i didn't beat, there was no violence, i earned money, i earned, i cleaned the yard. he repaired the car, everything is fine, a very common formula, by the way, people from the outside, they don’t see the real relationship, the guests don’t see it either, because the guests who come... come too late, everything is fine, he is polite, he, well, he creates a picture , today we have a difficult topic, abuse and violence in relationships, maybe you had an abusive and violent relationship in the family, how did you get out of it, and if you are still in it, then we can be a helping hand for you, share with your friends and acquaintances with relatives, subscribe to our channel, put

likes and likes, i was very touched, i recently watched an interview with iryna farion, who said that this is actually, as we say, a person who suffers from old relationships, that she is on her own guilty, why is she sitting there in that relationship, and it's so cruel, like on me, because really, well, i say that a person does not understand how, can we blame the person who is in this relationship at all, that he is guilty of this, definitely not, this is the concept of victim behavior, even when he is beaten in reality. you know, these conversations that something happened there, someone was attacked somewhere, and why did she go there so late, and why is she so, and so, and what is there, well, that is, the blame is transferred to the victim, well, again, this word, or to her, or they say, for example, if a man hits, why couldn't you sit quietly, why did you

open your mouth, why are you contradicting him, there keep quiet, how he came there after drinking, what you can't put there. to put these slippers on him so that you don't know how much he loves, and this is also such an abuse on his part, this is such a humiliating moment, which really, once again drives this person, who has such a difficult experience of violence, drives even deeper , then she really thinks, yes, i am guilty, i am doing something wrong, i deserved it, and so on and so on, actually all these things are, well, they say that a person does not see a lot of things, he needs to. .. gradually open to all eyes the first metaphor that comes to my mind is probably about, you know, there is such a metaphor, the frog in the boiling water, ugh. yes, it is like the moment when you take a frog, put it in cold water, and then slowly heat it up. what's going on? the frog does not feel discomfort from the beginning, but it

is in such a fairly acceptable atmosphere, the water gradually warms up and... it is imperceptible, and this threat is imperceptible, in abuse exactly the same thing happens, that is, gradually , well, it is pumped up, you know , such a general picture within these relations, usually it happens really gradually, well , there are various cases when this happens at first, well, but what i hear from clients is usually that it is gradual, and because of that they say, well, it didn't happen like that, i somehow didn't notice, i ... she didn't understand what it was, because that abuse is very often, as you have already noticed and said, it is disguised as care, when you will be at seven, come there, come there, that means i, you should have come on the 7th, you said that you would come on the 7th, if you were already 10 minutes late, yes, actually, and this

can be seen in the fact that you brought me to such a thing is already a continuation of all that, that is, it is disguised. if control is disguised as care, and some choice, the environment is also disguised as some care, at some point, oh, these are your girlfriends, they are not as they should be, you see what they have achieved in life, well, that means a lot of things are devalued , well, gradually, gradually, and that's why people usually don't identify it right away, so if we talk about red propoles, they are generally some kind of red. proportions, so that not the moment of acquaintance, so that we must to go into that relationship, there is, from the beginning there is, like, well, we start by not going into that relationship, right? ok, mm, to note, we should note a person's disrespect for others, you know, how can it be expressed, not to think that he

loves me, and he will treat me differently, does she love me, by the way, women, women are also abusers, there is no sex, there is absolutely no gender, but this is such, this is such an extensive concept, but thoughts have gone astray, red flags, red flags, yes, look, respect, that is, it often happens, you my queen, everything for you, bouquets of flowers, a taxi to the entrance and all that, but in the restaurant we see a completely different picture, disrespect for the staff, and to... at once, that is, i am the queen and these people, well, the service staff , an inferior race, as it appears. in the same way, things that anticipate some kind of event, i love you, i am ready to get married, for example, tomorrow, you

are everything to me, and you are my world, and this is also such a thing, you know, it undermines, especially people with low self-esteem, that is, me important there, well now let me speak like this in a female role, i am important, i am significant, i mean, beloved, that’s all, it gives wings, and a person with low self-esteem, she actually really needs this, and it serves as a kind of hook, you know, for that and, for example, the abuser can still be, because before my marriage i was also in such a difficult relationship, er, where, for example, my family did not support me there, let's say, in music or something else in some ways, he was very supportive of me writing some poetry and music there, and then he said, well, i i know... that you have an attention deficit, for example, but i didn't give it to you, because i saw that he manipulated it in you, that is, a person who was somehow

knowledgeable in psychiatry, in psychology, is also usually not necessarily, but it somehow works , you know, on a sub-level, what i can influence, where i can press, whether it's this manipulation or a feeling of guilt, or, again, this insecurity. how to get out of abuse, but how to get out of it? it is more difficult to get out of it than to enter it, that's for sure, because i am this example led with a frog in a dill, look, a frog in a dill, when she already understands that the temperature is very unacceptable, but she does not have the strength to jump out at that moment, exactly the same with a person in abuse, in fact, being there, constantly... hearing and perceiving absolutely all the devaluing things that are applied to him, a person begins to feel some kind of his own, you know, worthlessness, sometimes

just such feelings arise that i am not up to, not good enough, i am not worthy, i did not deserve, that is, or that too, in a man that i am i am not reaching something there, i myself am guilty of this, i am responsible for this myself. allowed, but what by the way also helped me to get out of my marriage and basically from a toxic relationship, we have a great program that has gained a lot of ratings, toxic parents, check it out, please, we will also write about also about boundaries with toxic parents, this is also important, but when i realized that my life is my life, it is my responsibility, and i learned to love myself, and we also have a youtube channel. i hear you about self-love, because it is we actually start with this, because a person who basically respects himself, who loves himself, who values ​​himself, knows who he is, knows

all his minuses, knows all his pluses, he mostly, i think, will not allow , all that you said, i will add only one more thing, actually a person should become, or should it be better to say, be a director and gentlemen. your life, to take responsibility for your life, yes, the responsibility that is very often in abusive relationships, well, when we now say woman-man, a woman gives for man, i earn money, says the man, and you stay at home, do your stupid things there , well, that is, stupid things, and what did you do, you didn’t do anything, you just sat at home with the children, and what are you doing anyway, and this , by the way, sitting at home is a huge management, now it has become hot in tiktok. a very big scandal, her name is ballerina from the farm, maybe you have heard, she is a woman who has seven children, she has a millionaire husband, and she was

interviewed, and she makes everything herself completely with her own hands, even cheese, everything, everything, everything, she gave up her career as a ballerina, and now all the women support her in the fact that she is basically in an abusive relationship, but she does not realize it. then the husband forbids her to have nannies, assistants, forbids her to dance, forbids her from a lot of things, ugh, this is also happening now, you know, the trend is that women begin to support other women who are in family relationships, where many everything, but a man lives as he wants, and he travels everywhere, he earns money for himself, he travels, and a woman sits at home and has to follow certain rules, this is also abuse, even if he does not beat her, we started talking about it, you understand what rises to the surface, and, well , becomes visible, accordingly, well, receives some a certain moment of hate, a certain moment of support,

but violence. not only physical, because physical too, if someone has encountered such a thing, it is also very often, well, i work with these women, i hear the following words from them: when they turn to the police with something like this, even with physical violence, there are consequences physical violence, they hear this terrible phrase, well, i didn't kill, well, it's light physical, and what can we do, and then the question is, and what, when, when... then come, if that's the case, that's not a fact, but that not a fact, but actually this is what happens, when to come, when to kill, uh, and this, well, in our country it is already changing a little, but in fact it has also been like this for a long time, you know, under the carpet, under under under like that, it's a family thing, you know, it's not taking garbage out of the house, it's not wanted, and actually

even condemned, what are you talking about? you say that it's your family business, that you tell people about such things there, figure it out in your own home, actually, again, it was up to you that you are doing something wrong, you say, well, that's why all this was veiled for a long time , and women were afraid to talk about it, they were afraid of being judged, and they were afraid of being guilty, because there was also such a rumor that, well, maybe you are doing something wrong there, that's how i heard it too, that i went into a career. but i didn't work and that's why my marriage didn't work out, that is, such abuse also comes from relatives, but we have a good one, in principle news, because we already have to finish, that in principle it is possible to get out of this, and that is why they exist, once again i will appeal to our listeners and viewers that we have psychologists, psychotherapists, psychiatrists, many different centers, i think olya will also help us with links, so where can you go if you

feel that you are... not good in this relationship, but you don't know that you are a lot, for example, you cry more than you rejoice, because there is no need to endure in a relationship, and that we will also write in our program about this patience, religiosity, this worship, someone is also afraid of being alone, because this is also a separate topic in most cases, and we will definitely write it down, so try... still ask yourself and say: listen, i feel bad there, give me a hand , you can even write privately, i am open in social networks that i have such a situation, what should i do, but the main desire is to get out of this and change my life, and this is your responsibility, to take responsibility for your life. there are discounts until

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