this is the end of this discussion, so far we have talked about an introduction. if you are interested , please stay with us and watch us on the news channel . thank you. yes, you are with nimrozi conversation, mr. motaqefer , you said that the marriage age has reached 27 years for women and 29 years for men. get the dreams that follow. they are in a social position

, by the way, marriage can provide a very good foundation for them to get rome many times now in our society, the culture is such that first the job, the housing , the military car, all this will happen, and then , if there is a chance, we will get married, then the age will reach 40 years old, 37 years old, of course, housing and a car, but that's it. that good and appropriate option with which she could build a very good and solid life is no longer available, and she has to lower her expectations of marriage, which seems to be damaging in the long term and in the times of her life. hatami you as a person who is now a marriage and family counseling center.

do you have the most people who refer to you , what is the most important age for getting married ? ok, i'm just congratulating you. in order to complete the doctor's order, i must say that the marriage statistics have decreased, but the relationship statistics have increased. this is very important. if it is not formed correctly, the number of continuing education has increased the statistics mean that we can see how many people in our society are working. now, why does a woman who has reached the age of marriage, like in the 60s or 50s, who wanted to get married earlier , think about the process of continuing her education before the process of marriage? he must be employed, in fact he is. you can say that from the point of view of psychology

, the ideal life design of this generation is completely different from the life design of previous generations. it has to be said that the compatibility of our youth has nothing to do with boys and girls. life skills have decreased. i increase in other dimensions , but after a successful marriage, for example, in the 60s, how do they get married, do they have housing, do they have cars ? for example, do they shape my life, not having furniture, a simple life, and leave, and then they prepare it, but now we don't want to say right and wrong, but now we have an increase in communication, in communication, there will be tension, there will be tension, after 5 years, 6 years of relationship. i say, well, when do you want to enter the marriage process, they say, not us

we understand that we don't get hurt, so you , as a marriage counselor , don't see the main problem and the economic problem. see, i don't want to make a slogan saying that the economy has no effect. marriage is wrong. how many percentages? i prefer not to give percentages because i have to. my language is the language of scholars. it must be proven by research, but now there are articles in the world about healing miracles, such as the miracle of speech therapy, the miracle of entertainment therapy, the miracle of creativity therapy, the miracle of conversation therapy, miracles. pagan therapeutic recreations, the miracle of understanding reciprocal we are now faced with a generation that instead of looking for life skills and healing miracles in which the economy has no role, they just say we don't get married, they introduce the location and say i have to live in this area. with this

amount of money, they have the salary of these devices , that's why we are pulling back, so we can say like this if the number of marriages has decreased, because the number of relationships has increased and you are in a relationship. the many connections of young people's compatibility have decreased and the design of the ideal life pattern is completely different from the design of the life pattern that was before. motaghifir, how much do you believe that economic issues are magnified, as i am referring to mrs. hatmi, basically , it is not that big of an issue, in your opinion, see how much of an issue it is , sometimes the analyzes may not be able to guide us correctly. but the statistics that are now being recorded in the civil registry, now it is possible to show the map that is now visible in the process of marriage developments, exactly the provinces that mean, in confirmation of the doctor's orders, the provinces that are

deprived or more developed are less developed. their marriage statistics compared to the central provinces of the country higher who are the center of the country and are more developed , naturally, they have this kind of thinking or lifestyle, rightly or wrongly, now , naturally, their attitude towards forming a family

has changed and made this difficult. i would like to tell you that, unfortunately , even those provinces whose marriage statistics are good now, due to the culturalization that is happening through the media or social networks, they are affected by rome . which province has the highest marriage rate? the highest marriage in sistan- baluchestan province, but among young people belongs to kohkile province rahmat is the lowest in albarzeh and tehran province. i mean, with a very small difference, and in the youth of isfahan province, i think you can tell us the number. yes, if you tell me the number, i am allowed to tell you the number. we

had a discussion in psychology. what is the appearance of the hardware , what is the height of the case, what is his education? what is his income? what is his house? what is his car how much can it meet the needs ? it is a hardware factor. how much is the software factor, the originality of the family? how healthy is this person? how intelligent he is, how ethical he is, how humane he is. in the past, marriages were based on software, then it was based on hardware. that is, they say that this child is a family child, a healthy child. this ethnic group is very nice, polite, with personality. they are not quarrelsome people, they are not quarrelsome people, god will provide one day. nowadays, the factor has changed. first, we pay attention to the hardware factors, then the software factors. we first ask what is his job, where does he live , what is the car under his feet, how much does he earn, where can he attend the wedding ceremony. so, if the number of marriages in

big cities has decreased, because in big cities hardware factors are based on software factors, but in small towns where traditions , culture, traditions are still valuable and simple life is still a priority, software factors are based on hardware with the thought that god is great, we all help together, what matters is a healthy child. the important thing is that he has a family, the important thing is that he has morals, the important thing is that he has humane factors. this change of putting hardware factors on software factors has caused the marriage statistics in the country, especially in big cities, that the more prosperous we become, the more strict we become. the reason is scientific and this is the root of the problem thank you, mr. mottaghikher. yes, i would like to ask you to correct it. north khorasan province is the first province with the highest number of marriages. yes, semnan province

is also the last province. you say the number of marriages between the ages of 18 and 35 per thousand people. his soul is 1239 , so the number of their youths is the number of their marriages. because the youth population of the province is 25 thousand and 560. yes, basically , how much has the government been able to facilitate the processes so far, especially now the 13th government that is working now, in the field of facilitating marriage, both in the economic categories and in the economic categories. obviously, we are talking about the youth that we have and what is left that still needs to be done . in 1984, we had the marriage education law, which, unfortunately, was not implemented for various reasons

and was ignored . that in any case, different governments were at work, see in the 13th government, well, one of the main concerns of mr. president shahid raisi was really emphasized in the meetings , and then his personal follow-up regarding the youth marriage loan, housing for the youth and the orders that happened anyway, such as the formation of the council it was the youth supreme council, which was held twice in the previous government in 8 years, with the presence of the first deputy, but in the 13th government, this supreme youth council was held 3 times with his presence. president, in the two and a half years that the 13th government was in place, several things happened. several

articles of the marriage education law were revived in the supreme youth council. well, this happened, alhamdulillah. another approval was that 20% of government services and government facilities. it should be devoted to the marriage of young people, and this itself was a very forward movement. it is true that some institutions did not have the necessary support and cooperation , but like which institution, now let me tell you how good it is. first, you want it to cooperate well. the organization of the ministry of sports and youth itself because of the places that it had, for example, the sports halls. they gave some devices, of course, considering

that their point was that the infrastructure we prepared is not suitable for this space and such, but anyway, it was the order of mr. president and this is about in 1402 , it increased to 900 places and government facilities that young people could use , and which ministries of home affairs cooperated less ? it's a little difficult to get and we have to follow up with them. yes, let me not mention the name of the device here. yes, but it was a very good move and it helped, especially in the deprived areas, especially in the cities, where the hall is less expensive. there are more of them. this was a very good event. another very good event was the approval of the supreme youth council regarding the marriage loan.

now, when people were registering, they had to wait for the system to send them a text message, but alhamdulillah, there were several resolutions that , god willing, i would like to present to you. well, since you mentioned the marriage loan of our colleague mrs. basifha from sada wasam bank group, in another our studio is ready. please tell me the number of loans. yes, i also want to say hello to you, dear guests and viewers. last year, the government emphasized that the queue for marriage loans should be reduced to a minimum by the end of the summer. in this regard, the minister of economy and the governor of the central bank it was decided to emphasize this issue the banking system provides these loans more quickly. the new bank of resalat and qarz al-hasneh mehr iran

were added to the list of banks that paid for this education, but it was decided that this process would continue until the end of the year, but at the end of the year, 149 thousand people in queuing up for marriage loans, but what happened this year is about 2360 billion tomans according to the latest statistics provided by the central bank. the marriage roof has been paid, which has grown by about 25 and a half percent compared to last year, but this is what happened that this year the marriage loan again. equaled to 300 million tomans, but the budget considered by the parliament for the marriage loan did not make much difference, although the central bank had promised to examine this figure in the money and credit council and then announce the banks' quota. what happened and the problems that came to us from couples is that the banks announce that they have not been notified of the current year's quota and for example

, couples should constantly check these sites in a short period of time. if they check these sites constantly, they may be able to in a short period of time when these sites are opened register them, otherwise, due to the fact that the quota of the banks has not been announced, they may be left out of the registration, and another thing that happened is that since last year , 149,000 people are on the marriage loan page. this year, some of them are getting married again and the amount of the marriage loan has increased. unfortunately, this line of marriage loans is increasing again this year. thank you very much for your explanation, ms. basafha, mr. motaqefir. basically , where did your follow-up in the ministry of sports reach, regarding the reduction of these pages or the budget that ms. basafha mentioning it as the reason that the money council was supposed to be valid, you see, we

have an important issue in the marriage loan, one of which allows a three-year period. people who can receive a marriage loan means that they have 3 years from the date of their marriage to receive a marriage loan, so this causes that people who got married in the year 1403 and want to receive a marriage loan , there are a number of people from 1402 and 1401. in addition to these , for example, in the year 1402, 480,000 people came to get married, that is, 480,000 events. you have to multiply by two, some of them are 350 30 million, yes, 23 years, under 23 years for girls and under 25 years for men, 350 million, well , this has caused them to have some problems in reducing the marriage loan page in the central bank, what we

did, well, you know, we are responsible for following up on this we are a district, and one of the times that happened in the supreme council of youth was that it was approved to reduce the time period for completing the loan documents to the time of payment. legally, one month's loan must be paid, of course, violations are happening right now it has fallen and unfortunately some of the branches have this figure. they don't do it and there is a possibility to complain about this incident and it can be registered in the complaint section of the central bank itself . how many statistics do you have on average now, for example , how long does it take for the average registration to receive ? and the problems that the branches

bring to our young people regarding guarantees, if not , i think they will be able to receive the loan in a month, a month and a half, but the point here is that we are one of the second problems that i wanted to mention, so one is the issue of the number of people who they want to borrow more of the credit allocated by the government for marriage loans this year, unfortunately, as our dear reporter said, the credit is less compared to the population that wants to take a loan. from this letter, he issued a circular that one guarantor is enough for both marriage loans and child bearing loans, but one guarantor is enough to receive, but the manager of the million, certainly no bank will give you this loan with a guarantor, so see this is the law, this is the law and the decision of the government council and then the notification has instructions, all branches are obliged to do so

they should act according to this recipe, but unfortunately , we have it, and to be honest , they are trying very hard to solve these problems. the example of last year was about 85 loan applicants from the number of people who were paid for the marriage loan last year and it was higher than the credit

allocated by the central bank for the marriage loan this year too. what we are following up on is receiving monthly reports from the central bank . in these provinces, we have an organizing headquarters with the presence of the governor of each province, who is the head all the executive bodies are also in that department . we follow up on all these problems of the youth, especially the marriage loan, and we got results from many provinces, that is , we were able to get results with the provincial follow-up and provincial financing. thank you for the explanation. let's go together. if you agree, let's see a report. my colleagues in the public cultural group of sada vasima news agency will prepare the report. we will come back

and continue our conversation. happiness is the peace of mind of the plan which, according to the general manager of the youth social planning and development office , is going to provide cheap services to young women who are about to get married during the week of marriage by launching a system. these cheap services will include 13 items, including florists, bride and groom clothes and cars, ceremony services and wedding tables. the ministry of youth affairs and sports organizes detailed programs every year during the week of marriage. in addition to these services. there are also government groups of people who spontaneously and jihadily contribute to the jihadi plans of youth marriage with their own participation.

have. we have the selection match, we have the introduction , we have the advice. we are having a wedding. in addition to holding astan marriage , we prepare and donate dowry and sesamani. we donate loans to youth and people. we are talking about employment. introducing young people to each other and counseling before and after marriage and. preparation of clothes and decoration of the wedding table and all the work related to marriage is one of the other services of the people's groups in the project of wasal shirin marriage for the children , we consider the cost of their trip to holy mashhad. they are there too there is going to be a ceremony for young couples during the wedding week with the help of people's groups . for 114 couples, we have considered the wedding anniversary of hazrat zahra

, peace be upon him, which is going to be held with the participation of officials and dear people, inshallah. fatemeh zulali, sda news agency, yes , we saw the report together, mrs. hatmi, basically, the role of the counseling center and in general, that people should refer, how much can she study for the order marriage in psychological researches, we believe that a successful marriage needs four memes, one is an observation meme, one is an interview meme, one is a revelation meme, one is an observation meme, a counseling meme, the first meme is an observation meme, sir, we see him, he is completely handsome in terms of his appearance , the next meme is an interview meme i am talking to him, how much is the system? our values, beliefs, norms are compatible with each other, how close our worlds are to each other , how much we can cover each other, as the famous saying goes, we will go to the next meme, revelation from the same research that

is being done, how come the xian family has no history of illness, no history of addiction, and but the most important meme is counseling, this counseling can determine the mental world of that boy and girl . now the science that exists in the world is the difference in the structure of men's and women's minds. and we can't identify with normal tools, maybe they will say that, well , counseling was not so strong before, for example , our parents lived very well together , there was no counseling. let's remarry with the traditional model. before , parents would go to see a girl and the last person who would come would be the groom. today, families are the last place for boys and girls. at their place of work, in the university, now everywhere they get to know each other according to the correct principles, the last group that gets involved in this relationship

is the family, we don't want it to be like this. let's talk and say no. now families are not in the basic principles, they are low. for this reason, we always say to girls and boys who are involved in relationships, because the role of the family is weak at the moment, at least get help from a counselor before a very special intimacy happens, before you get involved in each other's minds, before you fall in love with each other. give, if consulting with standard tests that exist in the world. we passed 10,000 marks in the science of god's psychology, the progress is great. with standard consultations and standard tests, they say, sir, you are not compatible with each other, don't enter the next stage , don't involve the families at all for now, so now i can say, god, i doubt myself 10,000 times , i have been working in this team for twenty years. every year, the importance of counseling and people's referrals is increasing . the culture of counseling has become established in our country. previously, people used to come for counseling before marriage, for example, the father of

my daughter was a university professor. a job to privately, they were saying that my father said to go for counseling before today. you will see the side of nunovaz with the respect i have for his job. the girl says that my father , nunovaz, said that you should go to counseling before marriage. deprived of the culture of counseling, because understanding is the knowledge that can heal the defects that are hidden, such as the wounds that occurred in childhood, the traumas that this person went through. because this wrong thinking in the society there were times when the family had problems with their son , they said, "give him a wife, to god it will be alright." when the husband and wife are tense, they say to god, it will be alright if they have children . this is a wrong thinking. if he is obsessive or obsessive. if

he has a thought disorder, his disorders must be treated before marriage, then enter the marriage valley. the one who can identify the disorders are the professional consultants, which by god there are many in the country, mr. motaqefir , what did you do about this central organization of consultants? yes, it has been years since a we didn't have a platform that could provide all the services needed by young people in the field of marriage... well, it was necessary for this to happen, the national system along with the system of education, counseling and marriage services for young people, which i can really say now , at your service, considering that atlas counseling centers , introduction of counselors that are evaluated, centers that are evaluated as expected, well, we are in charge of licensing specialized marriage and family centers.

in the country where these counseling centers are, it is good to say that since 1974 when there was a youth organization and licenses were issued, we now have a center that 24 in any case, we have a license every year, 340 licenses were issued in total. we issued more than 440 licenses from the year 140, that is, from the beginning of the 13th government to the end of 1402. and with the aim of expanding these services in the cities, especially the deprived cities , this happened. alhamdulillah, the system helps so that every loved one in any province can find the nearest counseling center for pre-marriage education. the discussion of the service of the fitter is sweet, which, like

you, is directly related to the marriage of young people, from gold shops, household appliances, photography, and i don't know clothes. sales and all these services that really have a direct effect. we are here. we do not have any business at all . we are identified through the people's groups and a memorandum of understanding is signed with them and uploaded into their information system. now that i am at your service, there are about a thousand services in the mobile system uploaded in the provincial centers is the first step today