scala. please join me in welcoming today's speakers. to hear. thank you, brenda, for that introduction and. i'm going to use slides today because want to move through some facts quickly and that will help us to move faster faster. you go firstly. okay, i'm going to start first fact is this. where do you guys see it? you'll see it. okay. i don't see the slides. okay, great. look at this recent image from australian news tabloid. oh, do you think this boy, six or seven. what ideology you calls a seven year old boy a potential monster and says we must stop the menace of toxic masculinity. no wonder there's a boy. and i've asked to address the problem of fatherlessness. and i want to start with the good news. there's going to be plenty of bad news today. but the good news is an anthropologist conducted the first ever cross cultural study of concepts of masculinity. and what he found is that all cultures share the expectation. a common code manhood that the good men performs what he calls the thr