are just a bit embarrassed to go to the doctor , should you say, oh, the doctor, should you say, oh, didem'snd prodded around by the doctor forever. but i mean, why, man? why is it it's different for men? it's just i accept that it is because it's clearly a problem that has to be addressed. but why? why? i don't know , i think men feel don't know, i think men feel much more vulnerable, whereas i think i think women are put in a vulnerable position because of childbirth. >> and you get prodded and poked , you get used to it, you know, used to losing. >> you get to like it, but you do get used to it. >> yeah. so i think there's an element i think there's an element i think there's an element of that, i don't know, i don't know, but it's, it is difficult. but you've just got to crack. i think you've got to be firm. >> if you've got a it's better than losing your life. >> yeah. if you've got a man at home who's a bit like that, then. just be. >> well, they always say, don't they? men tend to do better health wise if they've got a woman around them . yeah they do, woman around them. yeah they do,