durkheim, because he suggests in the magnificent book "suicide," which i've read in graduate school, he wrote men cannot submit to higher aims but seen nothing above him to which he belongs, to free himself of all social pressure but abandon himself and demoralize himself. so these ideas and putting out there now, i will come back in about 10 minutes, because i think they really solve a mystery from a puzzle that i'm going to put to you right now. this is the outline of my standard book talk i've been giving over the past couple of months. i don't have time to give most of it, but what i want to show you is where there is a gap. i need a section 3.5 on the weakening community institutions. my theory is a two-part theory, loss of the play-based childhood, birth of the phone post childhood, but this draconian binding stuff, i'm now realizing there may be a third, equally important feature of what happened to all of us with devastating effects on young people. let me explain this. i'm going to show you now what has happened to americans born after 1995. raise your hand if you are a gnc,