famin, svetlana feodulova, i am vladimir ligoida, we continue, here is father igor, and you already then everything will be fine, i just wanted to ask you, and again, based on your experience, when people come, we want to get married, yes, you talk to them, right? and you 're arguing about something, you need to apologize, you 'll stop arguing, some grandmother said, you have some, well i don't know, personal statistics, yes, regarding most often, because of what they come, how much do you have to work with this, speaking, in such modern slang, yes, so that somehow, well , it comes, it seems to me, for the same reasons, well... they swear when, yes, that with ordinary secular people, in general, but you know, in fact, with married people it is easier in fact, as if so, well , to communicate, to talk to you as a priest, yes, yes, it is much easier for me, because svetlana has already touched upon here, such a mystical yes , that moment of experience, sensation, very often people come, well yes... it's an amazing moment, but as it happens , you know, i have, frankly speaking , exactly