jason harper's life looked pretty perfect from the outside.ular high school teacher and coach, his wife, a stay at home mom, to three beautiful kids, and a close circle of loving friends. but things were not what they seemed, and when one member of this perfect family ended up dead, it was just the first of many shocks to their quiet seaside community. here's keith morrison with the house on battling. >> grief, like the ocean rolled into their lives and waves. ride the waves or sink, it seemed to say, write them again, and again. >> just a, you know, a shock to the heart. >> once, there were four fast friends, for tall men before it all went down with the waves to the -- >> it didn't have to end like this. >> no it didn't. and when it did, -- >> just felt like somebody watching your stomach very hard, and you want to cry. >> but could they do? right. it's what heart would have wanted after all. harp, jason harper, sports loving, outdoors loving california boy, with a childhood best friend named paul severns, who as they grew became tall paul.