it is all about control. >> in 2010, jesse hildebrandt goes to police and says there is extreme mentalfor help. they ask for police to do something. the report is closed. >> we contacted american fork police who said they can only comment on what is in the police report. >> the breaking point, jesse says, came after they had lived with jodi nearly a year. >> during the week, i would go to work with her. because i wasn't in school. >> at the time, jodi had a counseling practice in the salt lake city area. >> she would put me in this little room off the side of the office. i would be in there for 12 hours a day. and one day, i just walked in there and this teenage girl is sitting there and said to jodi, gosh, what is that teenager doing in there? i think this is the third day. >> for hours on end. >> yeah. and jodi got very, i would say agitated and said, don't talk to her. all i thought was, that's odd. >> one of her colleagues had found this jacket. it was like a reversible wind breaker raincoat. >> it was cold in the basement. >> so you put that coat in there knowing she was cold. >>