i think there are wonderful out there fighting like jonathan hiatt. i just it's fantastic. and i really, really hope you are successful. so at cabinet during the school day but the phones are hard i think that what it was like having your kids everyone's on a phone they're how do your kids know where to go what's happening so i you know there are enough phones out there if they need a phone they can borrow one. i mean, that's how many there are. and eventually if we get them a phone, haven't decided they're going to go to high school next. so i have to make a decision what to do about that if we get them a phone we will either be some kind of flip phone or it'll be what they call a kosher. these things actually exist, but it limits all the apps and whatever you have sort of basic apps like whatsapp if they need, if they absolutely need to communicate for school, i'm not sure about it, but but i want to say something this so important. if you raise your kids right, which means give them a responsibility give them high expectations, tell them your values, not my values. your