julia gardner oh, sorry. julia gardner the future mrs. john tyler was born in new york in 1820, during the post-revolution arie war era of the early republic. julia lived in a time of transition as the elite revolutionary past receded and the antebellum or pre-civil war era of the common man came into being. i will mention three aspects of antebellum society and culture that affected julia tyler. a narrow view of ideal womanhood emerged in the antebellum era. separate spheres became a salient concept of the time. the public sphere of politics, government and professional careers was man's domain and the private sphere of family, home and church was women's realm known as the cult of domesticity or the cult of true womanhood. this ideology held that white, upper and middle class women were designed primarily for the roles of wife and mother and were expected to cultivate the for cardinal virtues of piety, purity, submissiveness and domesticity. the true women would perform housekeeping, very good children and make her family's home a haven