when i interviewed marcy bowers for a piece for free press, she told me so. she was she was a transgender surgeon. she told me this fascinating story she worked with. she was a trans under surgeon. she does gender surgeries and she was interviewing sorry, she was working on a who had suffered with female genital mutilation and she she was doing surgery guess reparative work and of the things she told me was you it turns out when you remove someone's sex drive it doesn't diminish their desire for sex they have more trouble making intimate because part of our drive to be close to people is sex drive. so when you get in with a medication and totally alter a who's still developing who could be through a phase or could be going a hard time, it's a radical thing to be doing and again. i'm not saying never do it, but i think before you start down the road to i haven't even gotten stimulants. there's i mean there is the literature on each of these things is they are serious serious. and before you go down that road, i think you turn your life upside down to avoid it