radio voice-over: safm, 104-107 nationwide, - leading the conversation. the talking point with cathy mohlahlana. male caller: cathy, the time is coming where the soldiers l will have to patrol the streets of south africa _ like the police. how much more can we endure? everybody says to me, "you know what? your dad's in a better place." and, yeah, yeah, it wasn't — it wasn't supposed to be like that. you don't live here any more. no, no, no, we don't live here any more, since the incident happened. yeah, we had max security gates, everything. we felt that we were doing everything to keep safe. this was going to be the forever home, yes. this was the room where we had ourfamily time. this was — this is the most hard. hmm? tearfully: the most hard of everything. i you can take — you can take a moment, if you need to. yeah and, i mean, the way he — the way he left was uncalled for. he never — he was never someone that hurt anybody. he died in a way which was — it didn't take long. in august last year, ingrid's husband duane was shot and killed by