, i mean, i don't how vilive next door to a family.f a child, i mean, i don't how vilive next door toamily ? i live next door to a family? who. and was this child who. and there was this child screaming and screaming and screaming and screaming and screaming i hadn't done screaming and i hadn't done anything. you found out anything. and then you found out that actually that child had died been abused. died or had been abused. i wouldn't be able to live with myself. >> people like you. if >> most people are like you. if they a child screaming, they heard a child screaming, they heard a child screaming, they would do something about it. don't think that that's it. so i don't think that that's different from, say , 30 odd different from, say, 30 odd years ago. i think that's exactly the same. >> um, look , i mean, people are >> um, look, i mean, people are asking as well about the family what's going on in the family. >> i absolutely hear you're asking the mum . what was asking about the mum. what was the mum? the story with their mum? and i'm will tell on that i'm sure time will tell on