uh, for preschool primary school age kids, here's, well, maybe their own methodology. this is a strong word, that is, it has not been patented anywhere and has not written books on this topic. well, yes, she has a certain approach. and you weren’t interested in what it was connected with, then you didn’t ask . mom why did you decide to say so, sitting with me at home, to begin to develop a difficult question for me so strongly. no, i wasn't interested in her. i know that uh, as she told me. it was her decision from the beginning, but what was it about? it's hard to be better, she'll tell you about it. well, let's listen to what you told yours, moms, moms, she was born, and my husband immediately decided that there were no kindergartens, that i would not work, i would leave work to raise a child, because i was tired of watching crying children who are dragged early kindergarten and, well, just sit at home, i'm a teacher. i can’t. therefore, i

talked to her with her, but at the age of 4 we didn’t have circles, we were accepted for 7 years. we had in the morning, as if as a game, but as if the lessons of mathematics familiarization with the surrounding russian and composed. i agreed with the teacher in zero and her. well , at least a little. well, they said, only if they write to her for six years, she can’t write for five years, the teacher took another teacher to the second grade. everything was fine there, but she left, er, for india, and i had to take her with me. this is where the problems started when she was taken in. my class is difficult. i needed to pull it. there are many games, everything is also in the game. i say and you know all this, but decide, well, i made a hand raise. i have already done. there, it does the task further, and in general, i and she say to me in december, mom, i finished all the mathematics in russian. the world around you is reading, so what

to do? she says i want to be in fifth grade. and so she went to the fifth grade, and there it turned out. so english, and not half a year already taught, and she said to the teacher here, you see, irina polyakova learned more english in 2 weeks than you did in the six months that i was sitting with you. and that's it. and here they go out to her teacher, then they didn't begin with her. to live when we are told, but we never considered her a child prodigy, because it is simply extraordinary and human. and we tried to break these extraordinary abilities in her, so we developed them, and then the potential itself is completely. she didn't reveal. well, uh, judging by the fact that as she went to study, again she still wants to. she wants to improve. in the yard is a complicated story. i am

a late child of such very cautious parents, so let's be honest, well, i didn't go out for a walk much . dad, i rode a bike back and forth in front of my eyes, for example, i fell in front of my eyes. yes well that is, we can say that the training was. actually, the only alternative to somehow spend time, yes, but toys in terms of toys. they were more like games. i learned early to play chess with my dad at the level of dolls with dolls. somehow it was interesting. there were some doctor plots. here it is to do injections there , cook food, mm feed with food, somehow it didn’t work out. i don't really like to cook right now . what age were you when you graduated from this school at 13:00. that is, ah, first of all, i have to. before i i went, respectively, at the age of 6 to the first to 5 zero. then in six months the third six months,

the fourth in the summer, the fifth and then in the sixth, which at that moment switched to 11 years. tired seventh. that is, it turned out that last year i started in the third year next year somehow . so in the seventh i was then nine years old. after that, i didn't jump anywhere. eh, calmly already finished their studies at school until the age of 13. what is summer? have you completed the program? the fifth grade somehow accelerated and could not stop. that is, even on vacation did not want to get back a little. well, somehow i don’t know, it’s conditional to swim and sunbathe there, i don’t know how to argue there. we didn't go for sports. i didn't do much. i read books. and i really liked math. and i was always praised for something. yes. uh, it’s not just because they loved it for what it is, yes, i remember, but mostly some positive emotions, but from the fact that i achieved something. uh-huh yes, well done, what did you

do, well done, and you get used to it and somehow you want to live more and praise to move mountains and more pleasant. this turns into the very motivation then well done well done and you remember that your parents were quite strict with you and say that my parents never asked me for forgiveness. and i am learning this with my son. you wrote this on your page on the social network. and why do you think it happened? it 's kind of like that. well, here is the peculiarity of parents such an attitude that it is impossible to understand authority? yes , yes, i remember that very well. uh. in general, from childhood i was such a fighter for justice very much clearly felt something. ah, that's really unfair. yes, uh in any situation. and uh, it offended me that the parents at some point. i understood that they might be wrong in some situation, but they never admitted it, then my mother told me when i

got older, i asked why. well , how is this to drop authority? how to admit that you are wrong child? well, and but i really felt it clearly, and it seems to me that the relationship would be better if they did not try also to be like that. that's right, distant, indisputable, and somewhere they recognized that yes, here, here we screwed up. forgive me yet you say about yourself that you are daddy's daughter. and why is there such a denser emotional connection with dad? it's hard to say why it's like this, well, in childhood yes, in childhood, it seems to me that way, and it was. uh, it didn’t turn out, i don’t look like me anymore. mom, really. she also often said this, but in some inside the family. not even conflicts, but some small disputes there, a-a in questions. i don't i know what program to watch on tv there. somehow, i always give more support to

dad, maybe dad accepted you more, not only for your achievements, just because, well, maybe a daughter. she always learned a lot faster than her peers. before, i went, respectively, at the age of 6 in the first 5 zero, then in six months the third six months. for the fourth year in a row, irina was a very purposeful child. i remember, uh, mostly some positive emotions, but from the fact that i achieved something, that my parents never asked she has forgiveness at some point. i understood that they might be wrong in some situation, but they never admitted it, then my mother told me when i got older, i asked why actually admit that you are wrong child irina polyakova here is another such moment

communication at school, about which you say that you , so to speak, your feeling of loneliness. it just stuck there. and what is why? that is, when a child is not like all this of course, well, children, they are on their own, uh, especially such not not very adults. yes, they are quite cruel and, uh, such uncompromising people, so to speak, so they certainly do. i like it when someone is different from them. yes, that is, it is some such here. and the yes community, in which if you are not like something, then you need to put a lot of effort in order to be accepted there, you applied these forces. i apply by all means to me i am a very uh such a social person. it is very important for me to be on vkontakte with others. yes, i really wanted to communicate, especially since this was not enough before school, and i was very interested. i wanted friends i wanted communicate. and here, but on the one hand there was envy, of course, and yes, and moreover, the more

achievements there were, the more this envy was included on the part of some, and there were moments that were stimulated even by teachers. that is, it depends on the teachers. no, not envy. eh, more like something. well, such, uh, strengthening the demonstration of this my personality. yes, that is, uh, i still remember how in the seventh grade i was called to the blackboard. he says, look, this girl is 9 years old, she wrote a test on five, and you're all on the track. you are just chocks with eyes, and well, of course, this does not cause love. yes, the nationwide was guaranteed after such words. basically, it seemed to me that any person. if he wants and tries, he will also be an excellent medalist there, he will also study well. yes, in general, i have not won any international competitions. yes, no, uh, there are pilaria, that is, i did, in principle, everything the same as

my peers. it just might be more efficient. yes faster sometimes it's better and i don't understood. why, actually, what doesn’t love me so much, so i tried very hard. eh, somehow deserve this love. what i don’t know, the control gave, they took it out here. well, not to take and how did it happen after that to earn people, well, one of the reasons why? i wouldn't want my child, for example, to be a child prodigy. it's like a bias difference that a person is very successful in one area, usually in the area of ​​​​achievement. that's where he gets talent, but in terms of socialization. he suffers he's broken contacts with friends with e, the opposite sex often. yes, the same thing that happened to me, because ah. i've always been great at learning, and to make friends

, uh, go somewhere to meet. i was small in terms of my parents, of course. or maybe there was still a problem in the fact that such a serious age difference, that is, you were nine, and your classmates are 12 3 years old, there are a lot at this age. this is 13. these are already people who are just teenagers girls girls. and it's not so much learning in the head. how much, in fact, just a matter of relationships. it comes to the fore, and here you are with your little teeth, as they say, the problem is that and since i'm really very wounded, but practically from the moment i went to school. i was already, when here i am from a purely family cell. yes, let's say, she went into society. i was on par with them. who was older than me. i'm used to seeing myself the same way . that is, to me, uh, intellectually morally. i was conditionally there, 12, yes, because there are 13, but , but outwardly, of course, here. uh, it was like this just a baby, but with pigtails, here, who i don’t

know and weren’t allowed to put on makeup when i went to high school, because, well, where do i cut it, where do you go? this is the feeling of inconsistency. something, as if in some strange body, yes, that is, you seem to feel differently, but you look well done, and at the same time a total loser. yes, let's now listen to your classmates for now, because she remembers about the fact that i half-mine like sad eyes. she is always focused, always busy with some sad thoughts. you could see her cheerful only at physical education lessons, that is, some kind of mobility appeared in her and, objectively, she was much smaller than us in terms of height in physique. still, 3 years of difference was very felt and the blue uniform that we all wore then was objectively great for her. well, it’s just that she’s not designed for such an age, and it seems to me that every step of irina’s life gave her discomfort, did

the teachers and we ourselves with certain parents really relate ? yes, like that, but an additional score in her benefit due to the fact that she is, as it were, naturally weaker than us. i remember that moment when at the first meeting. there, 10-12 years after school, we saw ira, we gathered a person, probably 13 from the class, and no one ever knows who will come. this is a small surprise. here ira suddenly appeared it was perfect. here is a gorgeous woman. with such hair, of course, no one recognized her. everyone asked if this is polyakova. this is definitely polyakova. but then they hugged there. uh, and it was so great, well, nice for her. you see, here this one is more corresponding to itself. ir but such a situation, it should give rise to internal protest. well, uh, at some point,

you didn’t want to, relatively speaking, slow down , say, but i won’t study, but i don’t know there, well, so as not to stay for the second year, but now i’m kind of crazy i say. well, there, here, enter into some kind of age correspondence, stop trying so hard, stop learning so much and get ahead. and the fact is that well, how to slow down? well, really, enough for the second year, or what? not perfectionism did not allow, but hmm, there were no questions about the study itself. it was interesting and easy for me. it was really interesting to me and in general yes it is easy. now , if you look back, what from childhood you can directly fix and say that normal communication with peers was missed. and as in childhood itself, so what is probably even more important and even more difficult to catch up later. this is the teenage period. teenage early such early adolescence. yes, just when you learn to be friends normally, you learn to meet with the opposite

floor. yes, you are stuffing your bumps. yes, i didn't have any of that. i, this piece, i had it completely turned off, and then it suddenly turned out that everything, as if i had already grown up. i'm no longer a prodigy. well, all my life i just studied and studied. and now it seems like everything is possible, but i ca n’t do anything at the age of 13. you graduated from high school and immediately entered the university. yes, but here i did not want to somehow slow down too. listen, you graduated from high school with so much stress. in the end. you could say so well, i'm this, so i'll lie down in a year on my side, and then next year i will go to do no, at home with my parents with a closed lock. and that is, you still had to learn to learn to go to college. if only there were some people people and the opportunity to establish new relationships in a new team. well, i was a little smarter now. i said based on my bitter experience. who doesn't know how old i am? and it was possible to hide it, and at the age of 14 it was easier, you had a similar make-up of high heels, here i have already achieved the right

to, uh, some certain appearance. i am specifically hiding how old i am? and in my opinion, in the middle of the second year. it was revealed by accident, well, it was too late. in general, they had already accepted me, that is, relations had already somehow developed, and therefore it was not important, given that i hid it. and uh, at the institute you slowed down the pace of training and decided to stay within the limits, so to speak. no, well, where was it next? i slowed down at school. actually. here after that jump. well, first of all, already, and when the range of subjects becomes much wider than at the beginning at school, it’s already like that just for the summer. there are three textbooks not about to decide. yes? uh-huh and here is the meaning. that is, it was not an end in itself. yes, i really did it in my childhood because it worked out well, there were no alternatives, as far as students are concerned, this is understandable. that study is study, but the students are all remembered as a period of some wonderful parties of the romanovs, first of all, where

marriages are tied up, well, student time. er, in most cases, what concerns you? how do i do things with age. it's like you hid. this is not my story, but i hid my age, but my parents accompanied me to the doors of the university until the end of the second year, and in the third and fourth. i beat off by meters, first to the doors of the institute, then to the university metro station, then to the transfer metro station, then some other yes, that is, i imagined from yours it was a period of a very tough struggle. uh, like the freedom of a parrot. uh-huh that's what i mean, uh, if at school i fought for some kind of love, friendship, the attention of classmates, then the institute period for me is a period of struggle with my parents, because. with classmates, just everything was fine, but then very stiff resistance from the parents turned on. just what are you still, uh, just learn something big, and

everything else is small. now, if everything else at school is somehow, well, there really was less of it, because, well, it’s clear that the children are schoolchildren, then here, just there were all these parties , there were some kind of trips, some kind of hikes there, like you didn't get anywhere. no. oh god, i didn't get anywhere. all that she knew how to do well was to study for the very study - there were no questions. to me it was interesting and easy. i was really interested. well, in general, yes, she easily felt older than her years. i was on par with them. who was older than me. i used to perceive myself the same way, she desperately fought for the freedom to do as she sees fit, my parents accompanied me to the door of the university until the end of the second year, and in the third and fourth. i beat off the recognition of the child prodigy irina polyakova by meters or maybe

it’s generally such a great trick with your parents’ strange there are different ways to tie to yourself a child. here is how you can attach it . here is to encourage in him his ability to radiate. but here is the age difference. it's like, well, like a collar that has a short leash on which you can hold your child and be guaranteed that everything will be fine with him, because he is under our control. i don't think they had such a conscious goal. here, yes, what he knows, well, let's listen to your girlfriend now at the universities. catherine met. that uh, that was the university. i do not remember exactly. on what course, but it seems to me that, probably, at the first, but some general companies. and in fact, at first, of course, i did not know that she was a child prodigy. but the fact that she was younger than all of us. i saw this, of course, at some point i asked a question. and how of course, i was very surprised and even a little envious, because this is in general, well, in

my opinion. not everyone can, yes, that is, at least at the institute, i don’t know how it was at school, but at the institute there was no feeling. that ira is some kind of a monster yes, as is sometimes the perception of people, who are not similar, no, she was absolutely equal equal members of the collective team. eh, somewhere, maybe even some concessions were made precisely because she is younger, she is actually very fast. uh, succeeded in the areas that she scored for, that is, she, uh, almost everything that she started to do. she was very interested in everything, and she dug like a real soldier and achieved very good results in the case of cheese. and i would probably say that this is her status

child prodigy or the fact that she met some things earlier in her life on the path of life. ah, in my opinion opened up an opportunity for her. uh, somewhere it can be more risky in your personal life. i mean my grandfather. health, perhaps, and briefly. ira is just a wonderful person. a person with whom i would probably want to communicate until the end of my life. ekaterina that you are a more risky person, i don’t know. can it be called riskiness rather, but i'm used to the fact that nothing was given to me just like that, therefore, and in those situations where many do not accustomed, perhaps, to difficulties. they just say no at all, not for me. i understand that not a little more and that's it. this can be said to be such a plus is the acquisition of, let's say, this situation

of early development. i believe that yes, it certainly helps, but it helps, and in work it helps in studies in some achievements. yes, in a career, well, there is a situation somewhere that interferes, in which, but in relationships, in general, they yes, when, as i say, it turns on, completely different factors, where it is not necessary to suffer for a long time in order for something to work out, yes, a you habits still try deserve to dig at what point do you think your childhood ended? o what a difficult question? did it start sooner, yes? well, perhaps when i entered the institute, because there it really began to be another story for me. yes, there was more communication. there was much more positive than in school there was this opportunity to enjoy some moments of things, and not all. than i'd like to, yes,

because well, at first it was quite difficult for the cim - it really is. well, it took a lot work. yes, and plus work, there are certainly some conflicts, as i said. fight for freedom with parents. that's but in general it's much more positive already time for me here's a quote. your you constantly live from some achievement to their achievement from success to success. if something goes wrong, then a very big breakdown happens. and when you began to collide, for the first time here. with such a break, or what? what does it turn out? well, not only can be in a relationship. in general, that something may not work out with this, in principle, i i encountered sometimes both at school and at the institute. and it was not fatal for me. that is, uh, i just got used to achieving, yes, that is, it did n’t work there from the first, i’ll try again. i really was very pushy in this sense.

in general, some may be beyond expectation. yes, the fact that there was some kind of fleur a child prodigy, from whom at first i tried very hard to get rid of, yes, and to open it, and then, when i graduated from the institute, i began to develop in my career. yes , at the beginning i really was the youngest there . an employee, i became the youngest member of the board of directors of a large company of americans, which i have been working for 27 years, but at some point this realization really comes that there was some kind of rocket launch yes, and, probably, they expected something from me such. that's brilliant, but impossible. they were getting a nobel prize for some kind of discovery. and i, well, not only did i choose a field in which, in principle, well, this is very practical. yes, but you have already begun to catch up somewhere to drive others. i remember for me i was such a shock when i realized that and i'm already about the driver i take, and to work for a person who was born when i finished school is a nightmare.

why is their youth so shocked you? well, because, uh, i'm used to living with empathy. yes, i'm used to being the smallest, then the youngest, the most advanced here, but here the op is no longer there, but this fact that, as a matter of fact, you have caught up, maybe in terms of results. why , you didn’t make any discovery into space, you didn’t fly the nobel prize, you didn’t receive it. and what is it? yes? this is a disappointment. why me? lord so. tried so hard spent on what was this lead? well, what was the lead in fact ? i don't really like to, uh, guess what would happen if yes, because, it seems to me, this is a very thankless task. but it certainly hits the self-love so much. yes, when you are always the first time and then the second time, that is, ah. maybe she's

just tired of these constant achievements , or perhaps she already realized that a diploma is enough. veshana. the whole wall is already finished. can look for yourself in something else, and what else is a family? for me it has always been very important. i wanted a relationship. especially since it's just, uh, yes, as we discussed while everyone turned them on. i was small and i couldn't. uh -huh and when it became possible, when he fought off this chance for himself, well, when she ran away from her parents for 18 years, and you ran away from them, she ran away. and what did you do? well, as packed things escaped, and there they shouted, that's just over my corpse. you will not cross this threshold. no no, you can't. well, it was about similar story. yes. did you go to rent an apartment or something, yes, i rented an apartment with a boy. yes, i waited for 18 years, and all the time i was

very clearly set this border that we are responsible for you. you are still small, so you will be 18 years old when they realized that 18 soon they began to talk. no, when we marry you, yes, then they said, no. the first word is more valuable than the second. i was for justice. but go on the idea, well, well, 18 years turned out great. but it seems to me that you had to repeatedly get into trouble, what is called in a relationship was that you are now married for the second time. yes, you have a son from your first marriage, as i understand it, yes, but now you have. here's your current spouse. and how long have you been together for 2 years. let's now listen to your spouse dmitry to continue such a story, how everything developed, then we left for a long time. we somehow very quickly happened so we liked it. yes, we must live together. well, yes, that's all, and in fact, how we became with her, how i arrived once. here's home. so i'm from there. actually

saying so more from this house and do not leave for 2 years. i'm just a sheep on my own. yes, i have a zodiac sign, therefore, argue me in something. it 's very difficult. and rin always has her point of view to me. yes, because, well, she also lived, she lives very interesting. a very interesting life. yes, but not always in the family these points come down. and of course, when we start arguing about something, then, of course, this. this is straight italian passion normal. he will never back down in his life. yes , there is nothing, that is, here, i don’t know, what would she wanted. let's just say she does it anyway. and from this, of course, some conflicts sometimes arise, because i can be there, as a man or as something else , i will look for some kind of compromise. i always come first . i was thinking about some sort of security of something. yes, then irina she just doesn’t see what is called barriers, yes, that is, she’s here, i don’t know there. here, if she wants to. i don’t know, it seems to me,

if we set ourselves the goal of flying into space. well, listen, there really is experience and mind. what is called intellect, yes, but there is a woman's mind, wisdom about this is generally different. as they say, the planes are different. yes, and how could you navigate this, and did you have any excessive requirements, for example, they should not know anything better for men, they don’t know yours, there were definitely no excessive requirements. rather, it was this fear of loneliness that was underestimated, and the fear of feeling yourself again rolled back. yes, in that feeling that here is one against all, yes and the complete absence of some experience. yeah, i don’t know relationships and either the experience of some kind of unhappy love, yes, when you show some feelings, they don’t perceive you. and here is and very-very wanted to love. i wanted to be

loved and definitely on a rake. i advanced. but because, uh, i couldn’t recognize something clumsily, and plus, in combination with perseverance, oh, which i also said to dima a in situations in which a more a is already, well, a girl with some experience in relationships. i would just take a step back and say. oh no, it's not mine at all. no, i believed in success to the last. by the way, here is the question of your coming to psychology, which i now understand, you are engaged in serious even some kind of second education, but you decided to get it with this psychological bias. i understand that you once needed the help of psychologists. that is, what happened, at what second? eh, such a crisis happened that you needed it? it was a crisis, but in my personal life, and certainly, uh, probably, such a kind of overhaul, which debt yes , that has developed.