and in omsk, it so happened that my mother was behind the wall, and a friend of mine moved out to the north somewhere, and she rented an apartment, and i rented an apartment right behind the wall. mom's kitchen is separated by a wall from different entrances, and we lived with the boys, and in the second entrance, and my mother lives in the first entrance , we were separated by one wall. the mother of the girl. yes, that is, seriously. yes, my mother helped to cook somewhere. i took the kids. he took them to the kindergarten. we were given to the kindergarten right there and they gave the boys and the eldest we went. uh, to school there, in general, and like this so we began to live and because i came home. i couldn't go into my house, even i remember some time passed and i came to the area that we built. i just, well, saw the house, started crying. i could not stop and left and did not understand. why was this house built at all? why? well, although, my mother helped, yours is all the same, well, so to speak, it is necessary to gather everyone in the garden to make breakfast for everyone. this whole will be you at some point said, when you were like that, but you repeatedly called you a hero, you said. no, heroines

was my wife, because only now i realized that in general a woman is carried on her shoulders, when we are set we found out about the pregnancy. i told god we are given so many children only says you are so strong. i then told her that it was not me. i say i'm weak. i say, well, never thought of a large family. i am alone in the family. i didn’t think that we could do so much there, well, somehow, to have children and we are told that you will have a trojan. and we already have three boys, but we thought it was girls, maybe, but here are three girls. and the doctors said a lot some what, what, they can't stand it. them. it 's very difficult there and well, there were different thoughts, i remember, i somehow sat at home. i found out that there will be a trojan. our friends had twins and one child with cerebral palsy and i had such a fear that we had something , maybe with children, that how i would behave if my child was born, and he will be sick. i remember i was sitting like that all in the room. i thought about it and i made such a decision inside that no matter how they were born, i will be all the same to them on my own, i will give them life i will not do it there abortion, and what at that moment? i’m somehow

special, probably, i somehow experienced my father’s feeling inside, that somehow i can do it. that 's something even if it's when you look at how they cope, so when you understand for your own and you say, and i say, i don't, well, i won't leave them, but still let's give life to him so we made a decision and then that the doctors didn't tell us. we said, well, let's give these children and you, lord, completely healthy, then they were premature, respectively, they were born. there left with something 400 kilos 600 kilos, and well, three children were born at seven months old. well, then a year later they removed them from the register, that is, there are absolutely no problems with activity. perfectly healthy. well, it turned out to be a big problem with your wife. we'll come back to this point. well, i wanted to ask you exactly the everyday aspect when, uh, talk about anya that she is so strong, but then, then you had to get up strong, which was the most difficult, well, except for those experiences that are understandable for the beginning. all in all i don't cut my nails

children. i can't pot her. that is, here, like, and six children. yes, we had it, but i didn’t do it, it’s never a wife’s business and there are receipts for payment. she's all over the place. it was some part of life that was not even noticed. yes, i mean, i didn't see it. i later once said that they later returned their house, after all, by the new year. we saw my wife here on may 9, she died, and we were only able to in december. i returned to my house to go back. i realized that i still need to continue to live, that i need to, well, get up somehow and i took the children. we moved from my mother to our house and began to live, and then i saw the price of everything. i started washing the floors, and i recalled directly how the children passed someone shod. and i only washed the floors, then i was like that. well, i remembered, as a wife, when i passed shod, and she only washed. yes, yes, i'm here behind the room to run something to take forgot the phone. well, how to develop and then i rethought it all. absolutely. i understood the price there, what, well, this work, because there is washing and children are grazed there. sadike jars are everything. well, for

me every day was like this, probably, well a feat for me. that is, i thought that tomorrow i will live more strength a day. well, i can’t, i lived one day and a new day came. and god gave strength even the most difficult thing was. that's who is more difficult with girls and boys. ah, i don’t know how to braid pigtails there. well, what about the girls, of course, it was more difficult, because i remember we went for a walk as girls. the first time i went for a walk with him alone, and they wanted to go to the toilet. and i just couldn't even, well, have them. well, we were in the mall, there was no common toilet there, where should i take them to some kind of toilet, understand? i quickly went to the car , got into the car and drove to my mother, because i just could not. well, you understand, to bring them to the toilet, thank god that my mother helped her there, the girl, because i don’t know my own grandmother, like a girl. well, okay, six boys, but when the girls need it, a special approach to your meeting, uh, which happened. watched a movie, and then luda, you had to continue to be persistent. or did you already

hope that anton somehow liked it? he you after all, too, yes, liked. we only have a meeting it was interesting and everyone was happy and then, of course, i wanted to meet again as soon as possible. that is, anton, you looked at people and realized that something might still be, maybe we’ll go to the movies again very, very strongly. good, good kindness and i have it right. she is very kind and i always tell my friends later. i say, with her it's definitely even. well, you won’t find a reason to quarrel, then she arranged a meeting, then i then took with the girls. we went, then we went to the park. boys first, then they took the girl to check. yes, we went to the park and we walked in the park, then we were at the zoo. there in ours we and somewhere there were photographs. there they are all clinging to her neck. they were sitting next to her. this is how she came in a short red dress, bright lipstick, it was, of course. with a short dress, we were covered with

lipstick luda right there, right? it’s just that in general, it just seems to me, yes, they are still very active girls in different directions and, of course, it was more difficult with them, because the boys needed their mother, and the girls, it seems, were with grandmother and, well, let's not say, they were in great need, and therefore it was necessary to win their hearts in this way. when anton was left alone with six children in her arms , women bombarded him with an offer to go abroad and offer to move somewhere. well, they offered a lot of things, having learned the story. anton lyudmila did not suspect that he would become her fate. just, perhaps, take a walk with the children there. when his first wife was still alive, anton did not suspect how much attention small children require? i started with everything i don't strip nails for kids. i can't potty that is, here, it seems, and six children. yes, it was with

us, but i never did this business wife difficult happiness anton and lyudmila kudryavtsev. how much time passed before someone made an offer. who made it. anton probably four months. yes wow three and a half months four. you are already married is one thing when you read on the internet such a story about a person and your heart responds to another thing when you start dating him and meeting children. you had the only son there at the moment. i am after all, this is the perspective when you think, well, good man, i like it. but i automatically become the mother of seven children. this is not just a marriage. and this is such a mega responsibility. she didn't crush you at any point. it didn’t scare me a bit, although there were

a lot of people who tried to dissuade me , including my mother, and i remember, we even quarreled with you once. she yelled right at me. have you lost your mind? it's so responsible. at first she simply did not take seriously our communication, as if i told her about it, she, too, penetrated the story. well, i knew we were talking. well , we're just talking. yes, and then, when there was talk about the wedding, here, of course, my mother got worried. but i told her that i can handle it, that it doesn’t scare me at all. and where did such confidence come from? that you can do it completely, well, i don’t know, despite my softness, i’m such a strong person. and well, kids never scare me at all. what did your mom say? anton my mother said, well, i remember, we came to my mother. we were leaving mom’s barbecue and mom took a picture, she says you are so happy. she told me, my mother saw this one, my joy. she took a photo. i

remember and my mother did not even want us to share, because people, well, joy is whistling and it is very difficult to survive. i remember she went to shish kebabs from this photo of her daughter. we stood with an umbrella and my mother took a picture. she says you are so happy there, your mother was very, yes, as if they love one more then. she thought that even she had seven here now. she says i'm still at work will ride some work good was not. i understand what i'm saying. well, i say i can handle it, i will go to work. well, 2 weeks after the wedding. here she had to work. let's listen to your moms now and continue. i reacted to it in the first place, very badly. she said is it possible? well, go for six. it's scary. i would n't be able to do this the first time. uh, lyudmila, of course, called me asking for advice , asking how to cook something right there, there were doubts about lyudmila that she

will not cope, because right here she lived with me. she went to work and came. uh, everything was ready from work, so i was afraid that it would be very difficult for her. very difficult. came here with her. met girls with me. look how, well, i liked that you could see that she was very kind. she hmm so calmly worried. here is our such a fuss. that's what kids are, of course. we have such frisky, very lively children who do not sit still. well, it was clear that she liked all of you, and she was seen to like him. very kind eyes. indeed, you worked until that moment, but all the time you worked in a jewelry store, and here mom says that they left, they came, so to speak. mom helped you with your son, who was growing up, and then after 2 weeks i had to dramatically change lives. yes, i

overestimated my capabilities a little here. it 's just still very inconvenient that we live outside the city and travel far. at first, i even agreed with my director on a remote work schedule in order to come today several times a week. yeah. yes, let me meet agreed, then i realized that i could not. so what? what were the impressions when this whole house, well, i really became your home and the whirlwind began. yes, at first i was worried to get bored with work, but then i realized that there was no time to be bored. well, yes, there is simply no time. yes, exhale , you need to wash, iron a bunch of clothes, because we wash every day, sometimes there i wash several times a day, because there are a lot of things. cook, naturally, a lot of food for everyone. get involved and make time for yourself. first, of course, i didn't have time. yes, anton swore directly at me so that i could go to myself, what

is time for myself, what should i do? well, she could be there at all until 12:00 at night and be doing something. and i said what you need, well, just plan to do and you need time for yourself to relax just sit. just. well, something to count something to see. i don’t know, you already knew how to dispose, listen, well, here is your son yaroslav to him by that time he was four years old four years old, and yours, and by the time your children were four years, too, yeah, three, yes, the boys are six- seven and vladik is 14 years old. well, in general, when there are 12 people, then after all , children should also connect with each other, how they found a common language among themselves, there were some difficulties, and whether it was necessary to apply some kind of parental educational trick. but, when we are from children, we thought we were talking, i said, well, we will take the girls, probably, there during the year. we will somehow smoothly translate them and, well, start living. i remember we took the girls from mom after the wedding and

loves. so what do we have to give? well, let everything remain, what to wait a year to go there and that's it. i remember, and we left the children to stay with us, and for the boys there for yaroslav, for them this is the coolest thing. yes, of course, he lived with his grandmother. there, my mother is at work all the time, that is, but now it’s like we have such an orphanage there, yes, when they have fun, they play there. they are there and in hockey there and roller skating on scooters, i thought he rides, that is , he is constantly. well, it's been very cool. come on, here, uh, you have an e-senior. well, to who was 13 years old. yes, vlad is the son, and your first wife. that is, he is not related to you by blood, but you raised him. how old are you from two or three years old? well, that is, uh, always, daddy doesn't know me and daddy. and like that. well, for him, the loss of his mother, of course, was a very special story, because he is such a most conscious boy, but, accordingly, there could be much

more entry problems. luda to the family. was it? that's also interesting, my friends told me that here. e, too. i have acquaintances; he also has children. and the wife was gone. that is, like this, somehow grief rallied us somewhere, introduced us, and he said that the youngest would be accepted. but the elder says, he won’t accept, well, he’s already, as it were, old, he won’t be able to accept a woman, but when vladik gets to know people, you won’t believe it, he says, dad will marry her. dad, i was actually worried before our meeting too. well, the fact that he is already such an adult with small children is so acne. so we went to the skating rink. uh, also with the boys with everyone, and here is vlad and well, i don’t know somehow fun so spent time and easily communicated there. all the conclusion is unambiguous male short and clear. and with yaroslav you still yaroslav zhil was under female supervision. yes, that is, when a man appeared, well, a purely female upbringing, grandmother,

mother, well, he is like that, as if he were small, that is, but we have already sent a little bit. he's already like that already. i'm talking, you're a man, i'm talking. you said yarik, this is how he is and cry for everything and such. uh-huh yes, now it ’s okay to eat everything nearby and feed and wash it always and because she was worried, like people cope, and because she always cooked and eat and everything is there, and grandmothers, by the way, how did grandmother have a point of application. as they say worries grandson. and here it means that the daughter moved out to a big house of a large family. she took her grandson with her. she has two more grandchildren. i have an older sister. so, that's why she doesn't get bored there. that is, she takes care of her grandchildren. yes , she was still very worried. all this was dreary, that this is how to fall asleep one and there. i

missed it, but now i'm kind of used to it. there to us in guests, sometimes comes. only sometimes you don’t have such grandmother’s raids at all, so that grandmother is somehow a little away for the weekend. if we somehow drag my mother there, so that somewhere we just left there, well, once every 2 weeks, maybe we can go for a walk. just go to the cinema. just standing there together, yeah when lyudmila decided to become a mother for seven children, no one understood her. there were a lot of people who tried to dissuade me, and my mother was there, including she screamed right at me. have you lost your mind? it's like this responsibility. yes, luda did not imagine the wedding. how long does it take to raise seven children then love one more. she thought she even knew seven now, but she says, i still have to go to work. well, 2 weeks after the wedding. she quit her job difficult happiness anton and lyudmila kudryavtseva wife. and you had enough. well

, it's such a difficult situation. as a matter of fact, what is called there went downhill and anya became your salvation. how did you manage to radically change your life, but life it was like that, but it’s difficult for me, probably, but my friend was a little older, i had one and he brought it home and let me try drugs. oh-oh-oh, yes, and i do not think. probably because then i tried, probably, not somehow my parents somehow, well, like it, but, probably friends more, yes, who are especially older, as if they were, probably more authority for me and i tried then. i did not refuse, and then i started using them further, then i went into the army, and i thought i was going to army, because i understood that i should live somehow differently. i am the army will change me. yes, i joined the army. my father is a firefighter in the ministry of emergency situations. i came from the army and got a job at the ministry of emergency situations and well, the same friends again, she returned the same thing, and we ourselves began to meet, just after the army. eh, that is, she

already had a son and it's so difficult. we lived as if nothing worked out, and then in one moment we made a decision. well. put an end to all this and we just left omsk, we rented a house. i was still in rehab for another 4 months christian i was told that god could change my life. just simple words, he says, you don't need anything. you just need to ask god for forgiveness, and i thought for a week and i think i somehow realized that for all my time i was 23 years old, that i probably did so much evil, well, to my relatives, close people who me when they surrounded me, because i also asked god for forgiveness, and from that moment on, because i didn’t use, i didn’t smoke drugs, i didn’t drink, and also for 9 years. but anya, so to speak, was that person, who guided you in this. then she was, of course, she was such a support for me, well, they made a decision. she said, that's how you accept, wherever i talk to you, and we went. here in the area. we

have never lived in an area anywhere. we went to the omsk region and 75 km. we left, we started living there , we rented a house, we didn’t have anything, we didn’t have a car, we didn’t have a home, we had a child, and that’s how it turned out she got pregnant already and we started building a life, and then we opened with her 9 years ago, uh, our own rehabilitation center too and started to help a few of our friends who have changed in life, who are already family children and still he works now and now we have a shelter for the homeless, that is, in the winter we had about 15 people living there. that is, and now we are cooperating with the ministry of labor there too, well , we help people, that is, in social issues. thanks to the existence of this rehabilitation center. and i understand that your family has newly formed ones. and two more adopted children . what were the circumstances of this? well, how many years ago we had one girl in rehab with husband, they were her husband, she had a

criminal case against him. started he was a drug addict, and they had children had shellfish in the house, and she recovered life so much. they got her a job and helped her rent a house. she began to live and after a while she recovered and from the children they gave away babies from the orphanage . that is, he had boys, a girl, and well, she lived all right. that is, the old life was no longer returning, but there was already health. not that there are already drugs strongly and e was a disease. she was heavy and at one point. she's ill severe bronchitis and was admitted to the hospital. he turned into tuberculosis and her immunity was very weak, and she couldn’t. the doctors couldn’t help her relatives, she didn’t have a sister and her sister was there, she seemed to have said something that she was taking custody of children. it was necessary to send the children to the sanatorium, they left for the sanatorium for 3 months, and she and we are calling again and they say that no one is taking the children from the sanatorium. we spoke now either to the house. little by little, either you decide who one family wanted to take from us. their area of ​​​​the house did not allow, then others wanted them to guardianship there too

refused, and we are sitting at home, and i had such a desire inside, i think, well, i would like to take these children, but i was even afraid of people to say it. i can imagine people say this is e ringing on the phone. it tells everything. and i'm already talking in tears. let's take it, then i came home, and we discussed this story again and said what the guys wanted there, and no one offered us, because they thought, well, well, for us there are so many children, how can we still take them . no one even thought there. a luda says, let's take it. i say, well, since you say what i say, come on. as for the children that you took, how old were they 4.6 now ksyusha has already turned five five children. now they are born in the twelfth year, everything is better for everyone, four to five. he is now ksyusha here for five years, the receptionist has become a girl. and, well, this is also another test. that is, the children have already experienced a lot in their tiny life of 4 years. they were and were

there for drugs, they went with their parents, and they just didn’t see how they had to. eh, so to speak at first it was hard to enter your family, because they were closed. well, they didn’t really make contact, they were calm, they ate a lot when we took them. i'm there oars in nature. i went to the supermarket with them. they just wanted everything, and we bought groceries. i have arrived home. they are there banana fruits. yes, they are, that is, they have never seen this before, that is, when we were helping them there, i took them somewhere to the store, we’ll buy them all. alexander languish, start calling me that, and i took them to the store. just tried to buy something for everyone, because mom did n't have a chance error. i haven't seen anything in my entire life. and then they ate right after this sanatorium there was something. well, we tried them. wait, it's not going anywhere. well, there are always houses and how they would be, well, now that's all. the two of them have already changed, somehow they communicated with the rest like this. and now, now they are

very open. ksyusha turned out to be such a cheerful person, pasha too, and right now they are all. well, they are friends with each other called, and you consulted with the children. well, when, like this, they looked into each other's eyes and said, giving, let's take. they have already said even who will live with whom. yes, do not remember saying, there it will live with me. there pasha says to me there will be a modest life. and that is, none. uh, there was no objection, but it was difficult. i myself remember the first week. i came home a week later. i told people we can't handle it when we got all the kids. we will not cope, i had such a fear of some kind, not that fear, because it was really difficult. i just couldn't help but mind my own business. i needed some hospitals there all the time. it's just that for the children every day, and this moment was difficult and people then say a week later. do you remember? she says, i will not give these words to anyone. i have some left. i say, well

, everything, then, then you can handle it, everything again, then we can handle it. oh well, it doesn't matter when now you are, mother, of such a large family. you expected from yourself. well, how are such forces? well, what in general do you have it under your control? no. if you take my life a year ago, even a year, i could not imagine that something like this happened to me. mom also tells me, i never imagined that you would become a mother of many children, but somehow i still had confidence and i always said that there are no other people's children, therefore, if the children were in a difficult situation, i, on the contrary, was happy ready to help. i know that there is one such difficult moment, which is the father of your adopted children. he's alive, he's serving his sentence. and basically, he if when he gets out of there, he can claim to

take the children away, he can claim, because now she has already taken care of them, as they were then, well, they didn’t decide, but from odessa rights, when it was in such a life, that is, well , now, as if he is full-fledged, when he can come out, well, potentially, well, he can come out in the eighteenth year. eh? and he writes, he somehow communicates with you , calls me, and i let him communicate with pasha, the girl does not want to talk to him, but the boy is talking. so what, he discusses with you what he discusses. he always spoke. well, when he left , he seemed to want to change. he wanted it to be that way, but he says, i probably won't get out of here alive. that is, he was in good health . it was bad for my mother that my mother died. that is, he also has very bad health there. in general, he does not seem to decide about these issues. he says that he always calls thanks, which is very happy. that this is how the children are not somewhere, because he knew me, how we live. and here it is that you always call to thank more, and let's move on to the fun topic about your triplets, because kids

are tricky. and when triplets. i think that this is a special story of the thing, how they divide among themselves. is it possible to give them different gifts, for example, no? we may have been told that children are all the same. you dress, they say, do not allow the personality to develop such comments, i heard a lot of letters on the internet. try different clothes. try different ones, they all start to fight, so we always buy everything the same, because they can't share their different colored socks. there they are all a tragedy, yes, that is, they are not different toys, or it should be completely different. well, that's not the case either. just, in general, please, he is growing up already somehow calmer. that is, you can buy something of the same series, but different colors. they remember from whom some if someone took there, well, look, they have signed jackets there sonya, especially there, further down the line is my jacket.

for some reason there wore already reading their name. yep signed. god forbid i say, so the jacket is the same, that you cry, i say already. well she already put on your jacket in the kindergarten, why are you crying? no, i won’t go, let us take off our jacket and that’s it. but caring for children and raising children is here somewhat different. i would say regions, because it is necessary somehow and for them to help, somehow it is possible to educate them. yes, in this big house. when i cook, they are all ready to help, there okay, girls and boys, too, cut something there, and how are your dinners, well, a family dinner. we all try to eat together always, no matter how valuable it is for us to get together. well, it's very noisy. it's very so, uh, everyone is passing by and telling some of their news, so it's noisy, well, who was at

school, who was in kindergarten? how we discuss behavior, but it happens that they are called to school or they say in the kindergarten, well, no, we can handle it with your children . well, that is, here, as it were, when society calls for an answer on the side in the kindergarten, when they come and, in principle, that they went to their grandmother. why? well, everything, they become different right away, that is, they don’t obey there, then for three days, - he says, everything becomes normal. grandmothers neighbors. this is all the educator is everything. the grandmother had an older son. he studied well with us. he is always on the five in musical instruments, no matter what he takes, he plays the guitar, the piano. home bought the piano and sat down to play. we have these drums. he's on drums on everything. that's how there is such a not very expensive memory of how my mother and i. how to explain something with my mother, in fact, that it was a native person. she always seemed to help me, in general, she could help me in everything, without any questions, i directly

i felt, just a native connection from her. here it is. well, they always talked to her often. it even happens at night when she always stays even when the boss was bad for me. it always gets up, even at night there's a pill, even something. i remember myself lived, then appeared. so he immediately began to call him dad, because he generally forgot about it, i rarely remember that anton was accepted by my father and head, generally above me, as if dad were examples for me in his firmness in his steadfastness in his character. firmly this one here. no matter how he gives up, he will never always be the last one, even when mom was sick. here he is not. all the same, he was always with her , he was always fighting, they even traveled from another country to be treated. here is his masculine hardness. here is an example for me. but i wanted to ask

you. six children in your family, their mother anya, and somehow you figured out how to remember your mother. just recently, literally, our father also died and it was his birthday and we were driving, he says, let's go to the cemetery, and it so happened that i buried right here, well, you can see anya's grave and my children they say, let's go to mom's. let's go to mom's, that is, and we drove up to mom. i go to the grave. well, okay, it's 10 meters from her father , anya is buried, and they say it, well, everything is littered with snow there. i say, well, i'll come myself. just wait, here, as if there are no such snowdrifts, and they are all. all at the grave, all mother, here is our mother . well, that is, they are, well, and so, as if there are even photographs somewhere, if from the house yes, the houses hang somewhere. we have nothing there, no matter how we remove it going nowhere and the kids will have an album. here is our mother, there are girls, even though they always saw little mom.