yes it is. and why is that energy vampirism like that? it's easy to explain, you find yourself in a situation that is difficult for you. yes, you get tired instantly, because the situation that arises, it’s not like you, it’s controlled, somehow that’s all. as soon as you become the leader in this flock, there is less fatigue, and they must understand, they are looking for, uh, and our elderly grandfathers , they are looking for. uh shoulder. actually. they want too they are already tired of leading life. they want to lean there and be strong, as it were, that is, here power, it gives everything, in principle, and this power and the heat of power is heat. this is such a laugh inside this one. uh-uh, a way not to be offended way. e, as if understanding, again, returning understanding, uh, as

if the reasons for what is happening, uh, which allow you. here, how not to pay attention to these facts, which i really want to answer and that's it. that is, you seem to be looking at the essence and stop seeing this husk and events that are real. it's a shame, really. how does that mean it's hard with them to say something like that reconcile, but you understand the reasons for this, you forgive , i must say that in russia there are now such absolutely, as it were, a new trend, i would say there is such an institution called grandfather garden, in which older people can come, who can come, who are you relatives bring e in order to, as for the arrangement of a real kindergarten, that you are some part of the day, and the elderly spent some games together, then in the evening their parents come in and take them home. yes, i now

want you and me to look at a-a story about one of these kindergartens. hello start the new season here some families. yes , when the family has an elderly parent or a relative, yes, who cannot be left at home for a day, when the children go to work, go on a business trip, they don’t want to give a person away. yes, in uh stationary nursing home facilities. uh, therefore, this kindergarten for the elderly will be a way out. they come, they understand that they can do something, this is, firstly, secondly, when they can make a souvenir their own hands and give, they give and do not feel that they need that they can do it. and in

general, everyone is just happy and satisfied. it 's all so interesting. there are youth clubs, where young people meet dancing on the beach, and there is a club. that's how our day club is, and for older people, ah me, we spend our time. and here i am, you did not distract a little. i'm here now , here we have a great master in checkers, i'll try. i'll play with him and maybe even beat him with us. yes? well, everything, in short, yes, let's walk. we have a pool, you know, i get great pleasure from this water. i get up, my joints in front of me stop hurting. is there a need for a family? yes, in

which nu does not live with his parents, yes, but takes care of his elderly parents. and now they really bring these people to the center to us. they are sure that here their parents are under supervision and with them. everything will be fine. during the day. in fact, a chair. the light is extinguished, music plays, pleasant, the atmosphere is all this the breath is very fresh and we observe a romantic picture of the sky stars, the moon gives the impression that you are in some kind of thunderstorm, where they descend from just such salty ones. pillars gladly go here.

norma, yes, it's the norm in our country that there is an institution for children, because parents work. and as for the old men, we are, in general, coping, who, how can everyone has their own script, is courting. well, maybe, if so to speak, to bring this logic to the very end. if the old one is small, then maybe such a garden in your case in israel is here is a kind of nursing home, so to speak, which, well, is not very similar to a russian nursing home. the principle is almost the same that i see

this, that is, this is what to say this is our people there. they are there, which means that somehow they also spend the night there and live in their apartments there. yes, and this is, in principle, the same stories. that is, as it were, where people come, all people come in order to do something, to do something, the problem is in old age, that people become a little aesthetic. this is where aesthetics come into play. that's all you understand aesthetics of old age, because it is correct to say that this is a child there. yes, he is, as it were, like this, as he says, the legs are untrodden. yes, this, i say, but this, when it’s already 80 years old in the legs of a walker, yes, it’s all so kind of and it’s to find this beauty and aesthetics and understand, behind this, because the people inside they are such children, they are all they are all children understand? i say there are three kinds of children. uh, middle-aged little ones and old ones, you know, that is, well, there are none in others. and so i had cases when there were ten-year-olds

people were discussing some new woman there, who was some kind of old woman. yes, well, yes, yes. she is an ugly old lady. yes, i must tell you that i have already noticed symptoms in myself. i even once asked this question to social uh social networks and found that we are generally not so aware of it. how, well, subjective to myself, because it happens to me that i look at a person. i think some, when an elderly, uncle, then you understand, he is younger than me in general. this elderly, uncle, you understand? and in my mind, i'm just about this is what i say that we do not see ourselves, you understand, we do not see ourselves. we think that we are such kids there, but some of you know the aesthetics of beauty in this. eh, you need to be able to do this. in fact , such a compaction, or something, of activity and

information. this is some kind of avalanche with us and they do a career in a completely different way. now they demand everything from you without a trace. who then? well , well, how to solve the problems of an elderly person, and this kindergarten or what you are doing, you absolutely do it. well, the way out, or something, in some sense and feeling of being in demand. and as for the older generation, people need to be that's it. they are. well , when they are inside this society, they, firstly, they are also divided into beautiful, ugly and less beautiful, that is, they are like them, uh, it’s easier for society to understand this. in what sense in competitive among? yes, i have a 97-year-old woman there who can say that there is a twelve-year-old woman who knows how to make a career. i can't. yes, yes, she did an exhibition there, a personal or something hung work wall. yes, yes, here it is able to make a career, and i have not learned the dog yet ahead. you sometimes joke with

your wards that you are their well, or constantly, but you joke specifically for an unsuccessful job. you will leave them for the second year, right? yes, yes, yes it is. well, again, it's just a game of time. yes, i am, so to speak, absolutely, of course, just happy. and you can call a talented boy a girl called thank you, thank you. i once said to say to a person who survived the catastrophe there, it means that this is the most in the aushev camps, that’s all talented boy. thanks boy. how do you deal with the fact that they are leaving? well, in

general, how to say? but i'm doing such a project, generally artistic, and i take these works. not finished, right? but i finish them in my own way, that is, here i am, you understand, he, in short, does this work. he that's all the nose turned out there at the eagle. yes, so that the eye is there, so that he has all the paws there and somehow treats him very carefully. and if suddenly it is interrupted, here i have such a project, it is called not in time. i say that every the school has underachieving students. in my school , too, they simply do not have time to finish. yes, this project is not successful. i just, so to speak, take this board, turn it over and treat it like a white sheet. it’s just that you draw something different on it, it helps me to put a point somewhere inside to say in my soul with

this character. the time comes, and we change roles with parents, the older the circle of possibilities narrows, only words remain. he can't help you, really at any age. has its own beauty. the main thing is to be able to see it. here you need to find aesthetics. that's all, you understand the aesthetics of old age, because i had cases where for several years people were discussing some kind of new woman, who was some kind of old woman. yes , well, that's how she is, because the person is some kind of old woman, ugly. yes, he is still going through a hard time when his students pass away, you look, everything is done here. he was sitting, then he was sitting here. there, this one can make such a good school even more than i have now the people who left. and how quickly you got used to this pain. well, i'm not used to it yet. alexander

galitsky, why else is there such a metaphor that one compares oneself with a flight attendant? why a flight attendant? because the flight attendant can not take a person to open a window for him and throw him out the window. from the plane. true well ca n't just, well the same, i can't. i can’t kick him out of the room, you know, i literally flew off today and watched a scene that is very, understandable to me. uh, some very old woman. uh, tried cleaning by the conductor. uh, find out some information that might be held. they just didn't carry the answers to that question. and i looked with what that's right, it just lay down cleanly, i looked at this theory of mine, with what patience, as it were, this girl explained. she told her i'm doing my job this information. i don't know, i'm sure you can do it. so no girl

returns. and he said the same thing, but in general, of course, i wouldn’t say the same thing in my situations. i would somehow try to switch it or make it laugh or somehow differently. well, that's what it means to say. i understand perfectly. this girl, because i myself am. as you said, that's what is very optimistic story. that's what you do because you see people live to be almost 100 years old and able to enjoy life as much as possible and what did they teach you? that's how some fortitude yes, even. well, you see. for example, when i was i don’t remember how many years before 18. probably i could it's hard to imagine the year 2000. i thought, here in 2000 i will be 42 years old, so that they don’t represent at all further. and when you see this, uh, these people who are well over

80. yes, and you understand that they are generally happy, maybe not all day, because in some part of the day they suffer from their illnesses and go to check. but now, when you see that they are laughing at the top of their voices, then this, in general, is worth living for, because people are frightened, you understand, even this is impossible. we are everything we want to live long, but we don't want to grow old, but guys. well, something is not quite right. nobody wants to die young or please yes there is an alternative you don't like. come on, now i don't want to. and how old are you now sasha, how old are you 58 58 do you feel signs in yourself? then we are now discussing this with you. yes, these old people - these are individual people, and you, when it comes with you, did it come? relatively speaking, in your children it’s already hard with you in some ways. of course, i think it's hard. why do you want? i am

i don’t know at all when, when a person turns from an ordinary fool into an old fool, i don’t know. well, everything is relative, again. i think you understand. when i worked as an art director, and i was surrounded by young young beautiful people, and at some point there are 48-49 years old. i felt myself. this is the very thing. there, such a person has already been killed. yes, bald heads, i went to the old people and became young again . hmm, everyone tells me, here, in general, my guys say. how old are you 58 begins, for example, in your children, and something like that. have time to throw some thoughts before you start sinking into infancy, that you tell them in your own children, guys, put me leave me alone. give me the inhabitants of this 20 years. she, i

feel her responsibility to me, you could formulate some main ones for her, they say, dear, what is his name is your point, neo means when i become an old fool, i don’t know when this will happen, but sooner or later it didn’t happen . remember that and here are some i don’t know, there are three main rules to yes, how to treat you, so that survived happily with your daughter in this sense, so that no one causes problems for each other, so that you tell her, the most important thing. no, well, in general, you understand how impossible it is to convey your experience. but it's impossible. i don’t know how it is now, there is a 58-year-old father. i understand that there is, as if you could not do what happened to you. retransform and put it like a disk, but in the head of the children, so that they do not make mistakes, where they made mistakes. you are impossible, and the same thing, how to say, she herself will find. i think how it is with me

somehow how to calm me down than because everyone lives this here in general, probably the beauty of this nature and life, that everyone lives their own life, and you can’t. uh, nothing. i remember my grandfather now. i think, god, he was right. it's there, so to speak, that's where he began to grunt, looking at me and at my mistakes here. yes hmm i don't want to say youth, but mistakes yes and so, well, he was right then, but he couldn't explain to me, it's because we were on different planets. that's why i say that we are. we completely different galaxy. that is, you have it there, so to speak, at 40 or at 30 it doesn’t matter. at what age do you have your own world, you have your own worries, and you, as it were, they seem to be the main ones in the universe in general, these worries need to be resolved. he has completely different needs in general, so that at this test some day after tomorrow

he downloaded home and somehow came to his senses. writes leg did not hurt. by the way, cool. yes, yours, just again, she was already ill, they asked when the old man. yes, get ready for us with a walker, because the leg reeks. but the main thing is that you prepare for this fearless. i would say so. well, what are they afraid of ? well, what do we know, how will this end? it 's all bad. thank you very much for our conversation. we wish you success in your book, which i think will be very readable. also somehow you had. ah, on your plane, in which you fly every day, ah, everything was still in order. we want to give you one .