by the way, speaking of your coming to psychology, which now i understand, you are engaged in serious even some kind of second education, you decided to get it with this psychological bias. i understand that you once needed the help of psychologists. that is, what happened, at what second? uh, the crisis happened, what did you need it for? it was a crisis, uh, in his personal life, and, of course, uh, probably, such a kind of overhaul workaholism. yes, there are two things. that is, i am really i worked hard and tried to build relationships. they turned out very badly. i realized that at some point i didn’t run in circles because of this. i've been trying to go to work to work even harder even longer there, in this case, and so on and at some point, i'm just going to finish. so, accordingly, i sought the help of a psychotherapist for a short time, then i left it. it seemed to me. what is it somehow? well, it's unworthy, isn't it? what nonsense i

myself, i’m here all by myself, but this is even when you realize it with your head from uh of the same pattern behavior is very difficult to get out. especially without outside help. that is, the head here is certainly some kind of realized. this is already there 30-40% success. yes, but in order to change that way you somehow solve your problem, you often really need help. everything is strange, never gives up. i'm used to the fact that nothing was given to me just like that, therefore, ah, in those situations where many are not accustomed, probably, to difficulties, let's just say they say that no, not at all for me. i understand that not a little more and that's it. just now irina realized that she had ceased to be the youngest. i'm already a leader. i hire a person who was born when i graduated from school. what a nightmare, unlike studies, personal relationships were not easy for her, a situation in which

a girl who already had some experience in relationships. i would just take a step back and say. oh no, it's not mine at all. i believed in success until the last confession of a child prodigy. irina polyakova now how old is eight five? no. come on, something with the genes is transmitted. that's how good it is. that it hurts your heart, huh? well, i'm struggling with this, yes, well, stop the boy's triples normally. that's what i say to myself too, negotiate at night, when you practically chew on a pillow, and your child goes to a regular school. he goes to, uh, a school near his house - it's a gymnasium, but first of all, i chose it not because it's a gymnasium, because it's a convenient school next to my house. i had enough of my trips to school. an hour and a half

one way. i decided that my child, at least in childhood, will go to school, until which go again. what is the name of your son, artyom. and you have noticed some features of his ability. he is a dreamer and i really like it, and he comes up with some right from childhood, as soon as he began to speak and began to speak, by the way, not quickly, not polondukinsky so in two from the tail. mom was very worried and said that now i will take it. let me do it. what did the baby not have to do? yes, he very early began to come up with some absolutely fantastic stories to play sports. he walks in karate is swimming. ah, i can’t say that he wildly loves to study. how am i as a child, right? well, i give him much more opportunities for other children to love, besides studying. here and here.

that doesn't bother me anymore. well, of course, as you pointed out. yes, when he gets triples, i have to persuade myself that this is normal, because the habit of being an excellent student is knocked into my head. she, but i don’t understand, and you help him do his homework. uh, i help, but i set myself a goal, uh, by the end of the third grade stop doing it. tell me that this is dangerous, because you understand everything so perfectly that it can suppress, as if, when i notice so quickly, i notice myself. he is a different character. i've always been really fast. whack like that. yes, he likes to think he will start writing something, but he wants to drink and pee and, along the way, also a tv. i looked at this tearing apart how you can do one example for 15 minutes or god forbid there is homework in

spanish for 2 hours, but i work, that is, not for son, but work on yourself so as not to demand more. yes, but what do you think, now he has this experience that you have behind you a and having the son in front of you, what does it matter? well, in general, what makes a person successful. in my opinion, probably two things. this is certainly the intellect is important, yes, that is, i do not want to go to extremes to say that there is no need to study. and in general, uh, develop your destroy. yes, let's go to vocational schools, the main thing is that we will all be cheerful people. and here, well, it is important to connect iq and iq yes of emotional intelligence. here, if one stretches out the second gets stuck, then this is the source of very big internal problems that go into the external. well, is it possible to say that after all the result of some such m-m. parental pride is cool, when you have a child , here is chic, here i am not like everyone else, there is

even such a term. yes, child, as a narcissistic continuation of the parents. i believe that if the ability is manifested it is very important to be a clear child, yes, and watch what he is interested in what he does, not a series. there everyone the boy should, i don't know, go to the martial arts section. yes, you can squeak importantly at you. here he seems to me, the best, what can parents do? this is uh, hmm, pay close attention to what the child is doing, what is interesting for him and help this development, you know something else. it seems to me, and what about happiness, after all, it is always very simple things, well, in the very, very banalities that you can only imagine, happiness lies. hmm, you can't even notice it. if you strive for something somewhere all the time with some kind of high result, yes, absolutely than you really proud of today.

you may not believe me, but i don’t think in such terms. i'll try to answer now, but i do n't have such that i woke up in the morning and i think i 'm proud of myself trying. i'm not asking about this. it's just here today you're in transmission, so maybe you could sum it up a bit. to this day, i'm really proud of this, right here. well, i think i'm proud of the fact that i really graduated from school at the 13th institute 18 and at the same time retained a relatively common sense. not everyone succeeded. so this is not a joke, because there were geeks at the same time as me, who, among other things, studied at moscow state university and ended up rather sadly, that is, there were cases of suicides in case of severe depression of some mental abnormalities. that is, it is really very. sometimes it's not easy. i am proud of my son, not certainly not by some of

his achievements, simply by the fact that i gave birth to him, and he seems to me to be a good person. thank you very much. we want you give a gift from our program. we know that you are a sweet tooth, your husband revealed this secret to us, since you did not really enjoy toys in your childhood, we decided to give you such chocolate toys that you can enjoy already in adulthood . and enjoy not one of them together with your whole family as a son. i think it will give him great pleasure too. and thank you very much i