and you to the bank i'm to the bank to redeem. and so, it means that the phone stopped answering. yes, now the phone has stopped responding, so for me it's, well, i have several versions. and yes, he also had threats, but he told me about the threats. actually. the day before, there was actually this stab wound in the stomach and, of course, i have several versions, and all of them are not one of them that he was arrested after all, but one of them that perhaps it was something more than on a live wound in the stomach and actually a person, not alive at all and somewhere there, that something is wrong here, but i tried to drive this thought in every possible way. i had some hope that i would fly, and he knew when i arrived that i would fly, and he somehow. well , somehow yes, i know, but i flew in, nothing happened. and actually nothing happened. i have already started to write something to someone there. eh,

someone answered me, someone told me that no one knows anything, did not see anything. i went out and here my kind of excitement grew. until i just saw him on the street one day. he i was just walking along komsomolsky prospekt, where i live. and, to be honest, at that moment it seemed to me that, probably, something was wrong with me, because i see, here is a man, he just walks calmly, and moreover, he does not go towards our house, but he just walks past you ran ran. no, i didn't run, i did n't run. a hmm well at that moment let's say so. i already understood everything, that is, i already understood that everything. and a couple of days later he wrote to me, one of our friends. uh, i wrote a message that is not related, as it were, to our history absolutely he asked me some questions about travel and asked how i was doing, how i

generally feel in this situation. well , of course, i became interested, i say, what do you mean, under this situation, we talked further hmm until 6:00 in the morning. on the phone, they tried to compare some facts with some pieces of history that he had, which i had, and in fact, this story became completely clear. yes, well, what did you feel. that's when you hung up at 6:00 in the morning, but it 's been a tough, tough 2 days. and some 2 days and two the nights that are just in one in one position was angry with myself that i was so stupid. it was a pity. i do not know the destruction of the illusion. it was all this was the loss of love, or there was no longer any talk of love . well, at that point it was definitely gone. this is not going away so quickly, despite the fact that from an emotional point of view i

quickly got out of this situation in a businesslike way. on monday. i woke up. i realized that i need to take the child to school, that these are all my illusions glass house a house of cards, whatever. now, if it crumbled and i realized that i would gather myself. that i'll be fine? i didn’t have any e there were no doubts, but i understand that just now i need to repay the debt to the bank. well, as at some point there were already some credit money, so i need to return them. that is, you just everything, as they say, is pressed, yes, that is, there are still some more credits. yes, and i have, like, a business, uh, to run. now twice as fast in order to repay debts, so i

just have a lot to do. here, i just have to quickly run now and do something quickly and have time to think about feeling sorry for myself, curl up and cry. well, as it were, i just don’t have it, almost immediately i’m without it, since the phone didn’t work for him. that is, he was he changed his phone. and i had to find this phone there and talk to him rather coldly and calmly. actually no other. i could no longer be there, and i offered him to sign a loan agreement, which he signed. how did you meet? when is it called? terrible. this is the most terrible thing. well, i was shaking. i took off the rings, well, not such engagement rings, let's call them so i threw them there, well, emotionally. it's terrible. that's what it was. well, you knew what you were dealing with already. well, so to speak, that this is a swindler, that it is simple, well , practically, if it was a lie from the first minute,

then this is initially a bet on you. it's just you were his business project. very successful. i was the project. yes, that is, apparently it's about love, it didn't go like that at all or not. i think that, nevertheless, he succumbed to some emotions somewhere. yeah, otherwise it would be difficult. well, that is, of course, this is a business project, but still some feelings were present. he makes me want to believe it. don't take it. me. this is hope, i don’t want to believe that there were some feelings after all. and how did you explain to eve your daughter as a result, who has been watching in your house for several years. here is pavel and, probably, he also thought that it was some kind. well, like her family. she's not even a semblance, that is she began to dream about the second child actually take. yes, brother, or sister, she almost chose a dress for me and, well, looking at some girly magazines. yes, she looked and spoke.

oh, this is what i don't like. we are unprincess, if possible. uh-huh, actually, this was even discussed, it never went with her, but hmm explained hmm i was very lucky with the child, i didn’t have to explain anything, how it is, and she saw almost everything herself. that very same saturday, when i closed myself in the bedroom and eva said please, she said, i understood everything, and water - she asked, that is, the same water that they will bring you. and when she was needed in the middle of her life, she brought water. hmm well, looking at my eyes and you understand that she is a very sensitive child in this sense, she hugged me. she said, well, i'm not going anywhere from you . i want you and i to take a short break and listen to alexander kichaev, a psychologist who conducts trainings for women. uh, how to protect yourself from gigolos, if a to us, for example, uh, hmm, this is a woman who has a certain

high status, then she is surrounded, of course, not by simple gigolos. let's say that enough. so well-read stylish exterior with a. eh, good, but with creativity, let's say so, uh. well, uh, who knows how to make the right impression and chat a plus. uh, there are also topics about the fact that i am in a very difficult situation right now. eh, as here it used to be they used to say that i was either a future cosmonaut or a scout? it works very well now the theme of the cosmonauts is not relevant, but the theme of that i have attitude to the special services, or i’m actually not simple, i’m now being pursued there, uh, people from a-a, some kind of mafia structures, if we are talking specifically about a man alphonse, then as a rule, if a woman with contacts him, then she

has a very serious inferiority complex that has not been worked out, either on the topic of age, or on the topic of defects in appearance or on the topic of character, and uh, for some time she was looking for worthy men, but uh could not build the right relationship with them . and then the bar is lower and lower and lower and now, then alphonse just uses it. well, yes, the portrait of the elphonse is described the portrait is described perfectly , everything is correct, so there is a portrait. in fact, the same woman who comes across in the networks of alphonse. yes rather rather it is, but in my case it was e as i said such a transition towards a woman in the family of my wife's mother, e mistress and so

on, i can’t say that i was not economic. yes, i just didn’t have time for this. alexander said very important things about the inferiority complex there. i am i think that after all, complex usefulness, maybe very in my case it was here e usefulness, that i am not up to women, even women. i understand everything about business. yes, but just in elementary things. here, in such softness, sincerity did not reach here. here, it seems like, well, it’s not like that. i can say that i didn’t get it in soulfulness, but i didn’t get it. that's probably in some hmm i just didn't have it. uh-huh yes , i have not had such a moment or such a period in my life when i would just be a woman and at home. pavel signed the papers, as i understand it, but did not return the money to you. he gave away only $10,000 of the total amount. uh

-huh, almost immediately, well, somewhere in uh, 2 or 3 weeks, the next payment was supposed to be on august 1st. ah, it didn't happen, and it never happened again. none of the payments on our schedule. and what can be done about it? nothing, is it possible? you will fight, of course, and even if you have to plant, but in this case, why not? and the heart does not skip. no , definitely not anymore. not exactly since the spring of past. elena personally gave her beloved the pin code of her credit card, the card was reset to zero. he knew that i had some more money just sitting in the safe. these were generally your last savings in the cell lying. yes, it was the last money. once elena thought that she was starting to

go crazy, he told me that, probably, something was wrong with me, because i see, here's a man, he just walks calmly, and moreover, he doesn't go towards our house, but he just goes past elena believes that, despite everything, there was love. i want him in is to believe. don't take it. me. this is hope, i don’t want to believe that some feelings were still a sophirist’s novel. you know, we conducted a small experiment there. uh, just decided to ask about absolutely different women and men on the street and where i found the opportunity, but about how a woman and a man relates to the fact that a woman gives money. and here are the results we got on the fact that she rallied the men for the tests. everything is different. now all girls. to date , a woman has. big financial

say prosperity rather than a man to his girlfriend to take money. i think yes, perhaps, and maybe, but i think the strength of his character and the general significance of a man, as such, he will never take money. if he really considers himself a man in general, it is wrong, if you are a man, as if a man should not spend money at all, and he should earn money and bring it into the house. i think it's ok. yes, that is quite. why not? we are women, we go out differently. ha ha, a man takes money from a woman, in fact in fact, he thinks it’s abnormal, because a man must earn money himself, and a woman is like the keeper of her family hearth. she must

manage his poplar money. here the woman has achieved that now it is quite how can men take it from a woman. if you think it's shameful or bad. it seems to me no, how can you still heart civilized people and such such problems between a man and a woman should not arise. as if even as a solution should be all that. i think yes is absolutely fine. why not. well, er situation, what and if we discuss it, if, for example, er, the girl herself is wealthy and you, well, you live with her, and she says, dear. i don't want you to walk around in those shoes for 2,000 rubles there. let's buy for 20. yes. well, for example, i can’t afford to buy for 20,000 rubles. well, let her buy then. i will go to her in these beaches for 20.000 let that's what to do with it. yul if someone came up to me in the store and asked the question is it right or

wrong. i would say, of course, and wrong, of course, a woman should not give money, and, of course, she should, uh, spend a man's money. i think that's what i would say. uh, what actually, what almost all the heroines of this question said. uh, but in the end i'm interested in the answers of men who say men, maybe civilized people. yeah equality why don't women give me money, here you are and here's how to deal with it? well, i would say so gender shift on the face for the word gender abusive on the face. well, this is what we have achieved. i 'm afraid that yes, i'm afraid that this month will return this cart history, as it were back. no let's stay with men and women. come on, let's not lose this. well, maybe get your bearings. correctly. yes, probably we should do it unconditionally, just as we turned it over. this story is in a completely different direction, but where to start is another matter? yes, for each of you to start the most

important thing - this is you, and the most important thing - this is your inner feeling. your some inner dignity is yours. and the understanding that you are even if you are alone, even if you do not have a child, or you suddenly at some point there is no man, then you appreciate by itself it turns out that the story of the meeting with paul brought you back to the starting point. you said you shouldn't trust men, then you said, uh no, i'll be a girl. but today i will cook borscht and begin to trust. today you again say not to trust, that's mine, right? well, i can not say not to trust. ah. i'll say check now, i'm definitely thinking about relationships on how my next relationship will turn out. uh-huh and to be honest, a year ago. i thought that i would never in my life i can’t believe anyone, no man will come closer. here's a meter. no, approach very strict controls. yes, you will

double-check his every step. i will double-check, most likely, not all men will be ready for this, not everyone will not agree, it's just difficult, but it is. that's how my life turned out, unfortunately. beautiful, so you are now in a relationship, or so to speak, in a mink, but no, i'm not in a mink, well, that is, i'm more likely in a relationship of breakfasts, lunches and dinners. that's how it is in the movies. uh-huh well some walks. that's how wary i am. yes. i've slightly warned your man about this, what do you know? i was not too, pleasant, history. the fact is that he himself learned about this story. uh, practically there on the second or third day. yeah , she told me, i'm here. he just

gave me some kind of quote during the conversation. hmm quite enjoyable from this article. i realized that denying is useless. uh-huh well, he said, of course it's monstrous that somehow you could, like you could, so we didn't discuss anything more on this topic. she cinema breakfasts and dinners are paid. he is phew! i hope that this story is a start for you, before you say goodbye. i want to give you a gift from our program. you know, these are such philosophical gifts? i know that you love to draw. yes, and this is such a pallet with water. it 's just water, but here you can. well, draw whatever the hieroglyphs are there, i don’t know what whatever comes to your mind at that moment in 10 minutes this drawing will dry up and then you can draw

again and again and again and again. thank you big.