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this is not only what a colleague said, but today we can fully say that a single permanent system of electronic bioprospecting is being created. you are constantly collecting information processing information. in addition, this is actually a living white laboratory where you can conduct experiments on the population of these countries, you can test any models and any formulas. why is this only possible in certain countries analysis of the agreement that the united states department of defense enters into with the ministries of health of these countries. these are absolutely defeatist agreements for sovereignty. the countries there completely prevent the country itself from understanding what is being investigated in the defense of its citizens, in fact, this is a betrayal by the government of these countries of their citizens, because they are completely at the mercy of the united states. not just to the united states, but to the pentagon,
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all intelligence, biotesting activities in relation to its citizens and on the example of ukraine we see that before these laboratories were created , the healthcare system itself was initially destroyed, that is , a favorable, biological environment is created when the population becomes unprotected, when there is no primary qualified care. and when, in fact, the person who becomes infected has no one to protect him and power. in this sense, it turns out, aside, you noticed that we specifically focused on what even the security service of ukraine, which timidly tried to tell kiev. about crimea that it is impossible to carry out such dangerous activities on the territory of the country. they introduced a complete ban on this. why should we be anxious about hepatitis, which now affects children of unclear etiology and cosby monkeys, all new exotic diseases that have increased
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aggressiveness and high resistance. to a greater extent, they should unite the world in the search for the guilty, because one way or another, the simultaneous appearance of such diseases in different countries is a symptomatology of an already existing serious dangerous activities that are carried out by the united states to supplement just a second in the first part of the film, which, uh, we filmed. and the former prime minister of ukraine is just nikolay jancha. azarov said that even he did not have access to these biological laboratories, that is, this laboratory is located on the territory of the country in which you are premier istram and you cannot get there. and this is absolute fantasy, i must say that at the very beginning of the nineties, the americans, because they tried to do it on the territory of both russia and only under vladimirovich putin a decision was made. oh, ah, so to speak, but biosecurity
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. yes, inside, but our country, that is, we no longer give out, and for any so -called international research our biological materials are absolutely biological occupation, in general. this is a new formula for the development of america of the world military biological occupation, which is america control the most important opportunity live. we are now in touch with a cord-triter known to us as a military analyst. e that opinion we have repeatedly used in our the program is also cattle, if russia created biolaboratories in canada mexico in cuba uh, and uh, biolaboratories that could not be entered by representatives of canada, mexico and cuba, what would the government of the united states of america do and
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how real is this problem of biological weapons and american biolaboratories generally known to the americans. how ready are they to raise their voice here, but about the fact that something is happening, something is not happening. let's say. so. it's such a fantastic hypothesis to make the us when it comes to the affiliated states and how they work with other countries. there are always double standards. and we believe that, for example, in the former soviet republics, we can do anything ukraine georgia can create biological laboratories and surround them with a veil of secrecy. but if russia or some other country would create something similar somewhere near our borders. of
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course, we would not tolerate this, especially if it would be some kind of secret project. we wouldn't be complete. laboratories happens so that here really double standards and one more thing about the usa the concept of democracy is we are the people, we elect the people and then they do something on our behalf. there is one key element here. this is the role of congress. the us congress is the people who directly represent the american people. and they control the budget. they allocate money. therefore, it would seem that congress should monitor how these funds are spent, but the programs that you just talked about that work on the territory of ukraine georgia are they are not classified. we know. uh, how
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these funds are spent is taxpayer money. they go to maintain these laboratories and through congress it is stated that yes, everything is normal biological research, those documents that the russian ministry of defense has now found, there are a lot of questions about what actually happened there, so if there are really democracy, congress is required to conduct a comprehensive investigation into what is really act on behalf of the american people. why do we need an international tribunal? as an american , i say that i don’t like it, but we ourselves must figure out what happened there, my
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taxes that i pay, as a citizen , were used for these things. i want to know what was there, in fact, it is impossible to remain silent here. if uh, you're right. you must speak the truth. yes, this is a very correct statement, if there is democracy in america, well, lately, somehow in the russian federation, everyone is sure that if this is there is no such thing as democracy in america. it's not. there is a definite problem here. and by the way, this is indeed the commission of the state decision to the deputy secretary of state, ms. nulland , so that she would give an explanation about the statement that she herself made in congress that she was aware of the existence of a white laboratory in ukraine and moreover, she confirmed that together with ukraine, they made active efforts to destroy traces of activity so that the results of research did not get to the russians, as she said, and we stated
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in our appeal to but he our position that in the event of her silence, we will consider this as confirmation of the unseemly activities of us state structures on a military biological project. i don't think, in fact, these are all tests. and what is right, but today, and our expert from the united states, i agree that, after all, the us government is the president of the us congress. today they are deceiving ordinary americans and the projects that are being implemented. they are a threat to the citizens themselves. america well in this case they are. uh, they say we're not doing anything wrong. well, the pentagon can, as it were, have in its laboratory, which can do bad things to the pentagon dad, the pentagon will already do it on the territory of ukraine, or russia or georgia. igor lemon and i discussed this topic for the first time in the big game program back in 2018 if yes, uh, we had a conversation about
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military uh laboratories. uh, georgia laboratories, luga, and in the film you gave additional details that the americans are from scratch created a laboratory. georgia, having spent from 150 to 300 million dollars on this, it is, in general, such a rather big laboratory. what was the background, how do they do it? how do they create these laboratories. so they come there, and they say that we need what. well, if specifically what happened in georgia, they didn’t need to explain to them for a long time, their protege was there. saakashvili who, i don't know, who asked for it himself. this is probably why there were no great difficulties with this, and you touched on this topic, which in klaus touched on his time in the first half of the 19th century. he said that the biggest mistake
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people make is that they are more afraid of today's troubles than tomorrow, which, yeah. so you remembered, the eighteenth year, yes 2018. i ended up in the center of events not because i am a specialist in bioweapons or biology. ah, because my colleagues, my friends, the companions, provided me with documentary materials. expecting at least a violation by the united states of the convention on the non-proliferation of biological weapons and it was not in the data that i brought, as for 2 months in the fifteenth and sixteenth year, seventy-three people. uh, died in the lab no research was done no investigation was done. yes, and it
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was announced that the reason was not established. not about that. there was even a speech about this, and the first article of the convention, which was signed by all the states that we are talking about now. she says that every state is a party to the convention. undertakes never, under any circumstances, to develop. and then comes the enumeration of strains, viruses, and so on, but the second the clause says weapon equipment or delivery vehicle. intended for the use of such agents and toxins for hostile purposes or armed conflicts, that is, the delivery vehicles for the eighteenth year i presented the delivery vehicles patented by the us government in some decrepit, there the sixtieth and fiftieth can
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not really be considered, and in the year 2015-2014. that is, lugar's laboratories. this is the eleventh year, construction, the thirteenth there, er, that is, the eleventh year of the opening, and so on. thereafter delivery vehicle appears. well, here's the patent here's the patent number in the united states, this can be checked, after russia began an investigation, the activity of the united states in the military biological project has clearly decreased and we can say with confidence that today the entire world community is very sensitive to how events will develop . further and our task within the framework of the cbto is to achieve the adoption of additional decisions by your mouth honey. we'll continue our discussion of devil's lab after the commercial. july 17, 1944 as a soldier of hitler
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on the air is a big game, we continue to discuss the film biological weapons the devil's laboratory, but at one time michel montaigne said that the noise of weapons drowns out the voice of the law weapons, indeed, they are cheap, easy to store , transport, use, if at all chance or mechanism. which can stop the spread of biological weapons. i would rather at the beginning refer to the experience of the great patriotic war, but according to this information, which, in principle, is available for one of the reasons. e nazi germany not to use either biological or chemical weapons was the consciousness that a in the soviet union had something
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to answer. i’ll just remind you that at one time, and marshal garka raised the question that, in addition to the fact that the military should deal with countering biological weapons, it is necessary to create civilian ones, as it may be, but in the context or in terms of a certain competence, that is, uh, competitiveness and so on. and it played a really colossal positive role in its time. you know, in today's world , biosecurity is more and more acquiring, uh, the outlines of a war of discipline, although for me personally it's been the last 10 years. i raised the issue of biolaboratory for me was clear for many of my colleagues. you know, in the fifties, the united states government authorized mass experiments on the population of the head of the small people people were experimentally infected with syphilis
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gonorrhea other infections. many have died. many have remained disabled after 60 years, the president of the united states, barack obama, admitted that yes , indeed, we did a bad thing and asked for forgiveness. i don’t know, we will live 60 years to be asked for forgiveness or not, at the moment we have a situation where aggression is unleashed against the russian federation and its allies or through allies against the russian federations, if there is aggression, then before starting to establish a dialogue during aggression, they don’t stop the dialogue, they stop the aggression, that is, they neutralize the potential danger, then they begin to look for the ends of the contact of the dialogue, and so on. in this case, a biological threat. and
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uh, we are dealing with potential sources of uh, potential dual-use objects that can be used both, uh, as a hotbed of biodeversions, and during a full-scale war. in this case, you just need a military neutralization intervention is similar to how the russian federation ruled in ukraine and although partially, but lized some of the dual-use facilities, which are laboratories in ukraine, they remain, those that have not become yet, of course, remain there, on the contrary, no . no, they are functional. that is, today we are specifically at a crossroads. or is it a problem. uh, attracts more and more attention and the decision is unambiguous, that is, they must definitely be neutralized and not only in countries
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near abroad in all countries where these dual-use facilities operate. all of these countries should be considered as potentially hostile minded countries. there is intelligence and counterintelligence for this, but pre-emptive action may serve to cool some minds. yes, i say alla laboratories, which are according to military intelligence. they represent a direct and undisguised risk of proliferation of weapons of mass destruction, because not all laboratories have the same role in the military biological system. u.s. intelligence you asked is it possible to prevent suspension and i uh my uh, such a naive view of the world left uh, since studying at a higher educational institution of a special type, which i graduated from and as an intelligence officer i declare to you
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that this is practically ruled out today, but the russian state has all the resources it needs to monitor and ensure the safety of its citizens. i am convinced of this, but the most, of course, er, well, such an effective way would be bringing. here are our american sites. the broadcasts said that the people america does not know this. i am also sure that most of the people of ukraine do not know what is happening on their territory in this regard. if they were here, i will probably refer to natalia of iran, the great cynic, who said now i don’t remember verbatim, but the meaning, if the soldiers of france - she said, he would know everything that they know about their motherland, i would not give their lives for it, if the soldiers of america, the soldiers of the armed forces of ukraine
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knew everything that is happening there, they would hardly have rushed to machine guns and machine guns and in this connections. i want to say that now all international mechanisms for checking control and preventing further spread have been violated, but this does not mean that we need to give up and say, we are all powerless, and what irina anatolyevna said inviting to sound the alarm to speak about it loudly, necessarily necessary. yes, it really is so fucking natalyevna. information was leaked that the commission of the federal assembly showed interest in the princess and, as a possible place, where does it come from? here is this monkeypox, possibly a leak from some biolaboratories, which, as we see on the map. there are quite widely represented. well, if you are especially interested in smallpox, then you need to cite as an example another
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study that was conducted in canada on horses, you need to conduct examples when unaccounted test tubes from smallpox were found in the united states itself, this was a big scandal. this is sort of a story related to the fact that the united states has a very high interest in natural products, but i would like to address your general question. designate three, constituting the first creation of a laboratory on such a scale has become. it is possible, only due to the fact that these countries, uh, have lost their sovereignty. this can be said with full confidence, only in the case of a weak political leadership of these countries, it is possible to enter the pentagon and military biological development, so for us this is a question for russia which constantly designates our president equal indivisible security the sovereignty of each state the ability to openly discuss issues and compel if those the united states to make a decision, but what is important
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for us, and the situation in ukraine it revealed what you know, how the model of ukraine today is the model of the destruction of states that the united states uses in the beginning this political weakening - this is a coup d'état. then there is the general economic destruction of social ill-being, serious economic pressure, and further military-biological development, and as a result, the parties simply do not become, but, and if we talk about our security measures, we are still for to call within the cbt for, uh, new mechanisms, not allowances for weapons development. you can't control the spread of weapons. it cannot be allowed to be produced. russia has biological safety laws, which we adopted in 1920, and we tried to unite the efforts of all departments in order to monitor biology. security in terms of protecting russian citizens from the point of view
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, including international cooperation to prevent risks and threats. we have clearly differentiated what we attribute to the dangers to threats, but we are still creating a sanitary shield. can all countries do this? no, they can't have a strong political leadership in russia today, the most open society and the information that is given to citizens. it is the most reliable, therefore, how to remove from the veil of secrecy and cover, the united states is a common task today, but you need to understand if someone thinks that the united states threatens only russia no, this is a colossal threat in europe this is a threat to the united states themselves, because ah. let me remind you that it is not by chance that they used sterilization in their country. they openly admitted that in their country they recognize a certain part of the population as not necessary for them, how they will solve this problem in a modern format is not difficult before with the help of viruses and pathogens, therefore
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, today we are giving the world a chance to start acting in a consolidated manner. i really hope that common sense triumphs over everything, actually answered the most important question. if there are any moral restrictions on the other side for the application of e biological weapons answer. i think even unequivocally in this regard there are no moral restrictions on the part of ukraine if it turns out to be in the hands. ukraine is definitely not, but then the question arises. uh, uh, and anton ends the film with the words that russia alone stands to protect the e world, but in fact , anton is russia alone now, china's voice in this matter sounds very, very strong, first of all, because china accused of spreading covid and for china this topic is becoming very important, and she, too, he constantly started it now lift up. here, the shanghai
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cooperation organization is brix, so, as far as it is possible for russia to find really real allies in this matter in order to fight this, uh, devilry, without a doubt, china is now possibly this year the largest economy in the world. this is important, but russia still remains one of the two countries in the world that can protect not only itself, there are two such countries - the united states and russia, but because we have a huge nuclear potential, huge scientific potential, which of course already exists in china, but there is no such tradition of russian-russian in china yet, it will certainly take some time and china will become a leading power in all areas, and i am absolutely convinced, and, by the way, in the field of biological safety, and because china allows a huge number of developments that are not allowed. for example, on the territory of the united
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states and even in russia, and in china, this process is going on completely, by leaps and bounds, but it is important to remember really, but in this very business and our contradiction with the united states. why is there a claim against us and why this war, which is now being waged on the territory of eastern russia western russia, yes, which is called ukraine this is a war with the united states, in fact, because russia is able to protect not only itself , but the whole world in fact, that is, an infinite number of countries, that is, if russia a had not lost the warsaw pact at one time, otherwise i am absolutely convinced now of this warsaw pact already a large number of brix countries would join and this would be the main military alliance much stronger than russia and china above it is important - this is serious in itself and i must say that china has really advanced very far in
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all these issues, see the reaction to covid . yes , in china, we do not know how many deaths from kads of the hundreds of species in the states are more than a million. in fact, if you are really serious, a serious question, irina anatolyevich, is russia alone in this struggle or not? like that's like a co-chair there is no commission, based on the huge interest that we already see, as an investigation of the interest in understanding the situation objectively, china, by the way, the media. china was one of the first to contact us. and for a serious conversation on this issue, you know. what is the real advantage of russia? russia is always honest in its position, exactly what we say and do, and today russia many times both on the topic of combating terrorism and on the topic of biological security now, but i wanted to declare again stress equal to indivisible. security and partnership in general, the privilege of telling the truth is the
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privilege of the country with the most protected sovereignty. what is the right anton, we really do today, russia has the highest level of sovereignty and the highest level of honesty of the country's top leadership. you understand by this the position of the president in matters of the national security strategy, it is open, but our partnership is supported precisely by trust in russia, despite the sanctions, which are crimes, despite the crazy pressure, which is in the country, we will see that they still see a reliable friend in russia and are interested and we are interested, but honesty is honesty. uh, here, this is uh, the key concepts, of course, in general for humanity. but these concepts began to disappear during the second world war after it, when nuclear weapons were created. still, many scientists in the united states were horrified by albert einstein yes, who was presented as the father of the
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american and the atomic bomb. although he was not directly involved in the american project. well, listen to what he then said about the responsibility of people and the responsibility of scientists, since we scientists have a tragic fate to increase even more the monstrous effectiveness of the means of destruction, our most solemn and noble duty is to prevent the use of these weapons by all means for those cruel the purposes for which it was invented. this is the position of an honest scientist. a really great man, where these people are now in america, were crushed by a scientist. he's ready perform any task anywhere in the world, as long as they get paid. and uh, all these scientists are thinking about how to destroy us, because all these laboratories are about us. maybe a little more about china but mostly about us for us it was and
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remains an existential threat existentially. this is a threat to our existence, as people, as a nation, as a country, and precisely. uh, in the name of protecting us, we are conducting a special military operation, because what they did in ukraine posed the greatest threat to our countries for the life of each of us, this is the life of each of us we protect in ukraine, it was a special edition of a big game. we'll see you tomorrow. good luck to you. take care of yourself. the husband and wife school appeared in naberezhnye chelny
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after doctor alexander zotov learned that there were 98 divorces for every 100 marriages in the city. well , somehow we are independent of each other, we are so independent, we can do everything and everything. we can no one need me and so on. therefore, it somehow became more difficult to stay together with the first students of the school couples were on the verge of divorce, but very soon it became clear that this problem was easier to prevent than to solve, and they began to invite to classes those who were just going to get married in most cases, men would not respect themselves if we constantly sawed, and he did what his wife tells him to others, he
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would feel bad and his wife. at the same time, she also feels bad if she saws and she doesn’t want to be the director of the family. you see, do not feel like inside every woman wants to be a home decoration difference expectations. here is one of the most pressing problems of today's newlyweds in the school of husbands and wives is teaching not to look for the perfect partner. and learning to work on relationships one man was looking for the perfect wife. uh, and u brushed aside. all those who tried to become his wife. and when a friend asked him, you have a lot of time. did he find the perfect wife he said yes i found the perfect wife. so what are you happy in marriage? he says, no, she is looking for the perfect husband. what do men expect from marriage, what are women looking for, how to resolve conflicts that are inevitable in a family life and what is the basis of strong marriages? alone
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with everyone, the founder of the school of husband and wife, doctor alexander zotov nikolaevich i'll start with the fact that it's unexpected that, firstly, you are not a psychologist at all. and you are a pediatrician. yes with great experience. and secondly, you are a man, but he usually knows, so to speak, the issues of family and marriage are occupied by women, because they have experienced a divorce. they say, well, i can share my experience and so on, and then suddenly a man at the origins of such a wonderful school, what is it like in his profession happened children's doctor so, well, you invest your whole life in your energy so that children get sick less, well, when you finish your active life, you begin to understand that it turns out that it’s not because you get sick with the flu, sore throats, or something else. if something is missing at home. or some problems. i say it can’t be healthy if mom and dad quarreled or, god forbid , parted ways, the last child remains. he
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thinks he is to blame. sooner or later, this will come true. this is how our work in the city, naberezhnye chelny, began. seven actions well, at that job there was also a pediatrician, we made a big questionnaire. and how much mom and dad talk to the kids. we were looking for an answer. well, well, why do children get sick? well, there are good doctors out there. well , what is there today, they asked the boy of the girls in the boy most of all how many moms and dads talk to you a day, the children wrote that mom and dad talked to them a day. you know how many 3 minutes got up, got up, ate. i studied free. we probably talk more. our child cannot hear. oh ours. children are smarter, we have him his own problems. he needs to talk to someone, there is no one to talk to. well, this is what her children are accumulating today, our other children are completely hyperactive children. we overdeveloped the head today at the age of 3-4 years old child phone tv gadget anything, but the body began to die, it moves,
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it has nowhere to put its energy. well, emotions are needed. quite right. yes, i want to get to know you, that's what you yourself, in general, have the experience of divorce. you are now in your third marriage, does this mean that only after going through a divorce and making this mistake, you can say so, but teach others not to make these mistakes. i think no. whether this is good or bad is a difficult question and i will not give advice to anyone. good or bad in a family should be complete. well, of course, and mom and dad and children should live together. well, we are all young. energy we have a lot of something we do so something we do so on monday we are all smart on friday will be messed up, and on monday you know you something happened today right or wrong? well, if i could return everything back, probably, let everything remain so, i don’t even i ask if it's right or wrong. i ask, does this experience help you, your own divorces , in warning those you teach? thank god, talking to families helps, because
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well, as there are already experiences of their good bad. is it better or worse and you start to analyze? i would do that, so and when it comes. now we have wives in this school, and sometimes senior students and young people come and try to start talking in families. and at least, there is nothing to say, they have not yet broken firewood. they haven't been wrong yet. and today when well how talking to them, of course, using your own, well, right or wrong experience. can we name a discount, let's say three points, and what should husbands exclude from their behavior? that's what you say, uh, to those guys who come and want to get married, so they are going and so you say, look, this is dangerous. this is not worth it. you don't expect this. we don't usually tell them that. i come to those who have already made a vile statement to the registry office. they are in a week, where they will be husband and wife, and my topic. where do all children come from? oh, zolotov
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came to talk about sex. no, he doesn’t talk about everyone, where normal healthy children come from. these are the most important. it is very difficult. we all give advice and no one succeeds, and we start talking mom and dad should be healthy since moms, and dad should be able to give in to each other as mom. papa even hear each other. we are all wrong in life. better not worse. well, we all have problems, if you don’t learn to understand each other to hear to give in, this is the art of a woman, of course. we do not say, if a woman is not an actress, she loses a lot in life. she should be able to behave correctly, teach how to come in the morning beautifully, not everyone knows how. today we even say in this lesson that in order to learn how to drive a car, you need to study for at least six months, to be a doctor or a physicist you need to study a lot, but to be a mother or a husband, you don’t need to. in general, you don’t have to study how often
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those people who are going to get married come to your school or those people who are already in a marital relationship, but on the verge of a divorce, those who come to school when we we say, only the school is not quite. so why did the city of naberezhnye chel follow the principle of not creating a husband and wife school about creating this system. what is the system? today i come to the registry office to those who have applied and say, where do the children come from for me. this is where psychologists come in. they say where families come from. what should be dad's future or mom's to decide? after her, the best dad of our country, who is the union of fathers, immediately comes after her, and he says men, this is how a man should be. today is the first stage today. they get married. in the evening, a specialist from the same school comes and he works with those who have decided to get a divorce? uh-huh, he carefully works with them with a large hall or with each work, individual happy we are all
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the same today, but when there are problems, behind closed doors a psychologist who knows family and family policy starts working, but the young people who come to the registry office did a lot for us correct remarks nikolaevich and what do you understand yourself? we have already gone through everything without you came to the registry office and 25-30 percent already pregnant come to the registry office today not much of a problem anymore. and why does he start talking to me with students and 5 years ago they came to the students of the pedagogical university, how they want to hear these conversations, who will talk to them? mom talks to her daughter or son about love, about difficult questions. and here comes the experts talking great great. we learned from the students of the pedagogical university, and the students came to the high school students at school and began to discuss these topics with them, this is a conversation. they are closer in age. they can do that tell each other. here is the solution to the problem alexander
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nikolaevich and here are the results that you now have at your e school for this wonderful initiative. eh, is there any hmm some observation, let's say, regarding the systematic nature of the reasons for divorce, but, for example, there is from one to five years. it did not agree on the characters from 5 to 10 did not live up to each other's expectations, and after 10 they just got tired of each other. and there, well, every year we do 100-200 300 questionnaires about the reasons for divorces. this is the most important and almost 35-40% of the main these are percentages. today. this is when it was alcoholism. something else in the team today no today, fourth and fifth place in the first place misunderstanding of each other, two people came, and i love you, and you love me. that's love. this is not yet the love of support met, according to the mind they see off and today the main reason for divorces. it is everywhere today and in the country misunderstanding and school, which is at all these stages. at the first stage, she teaches to see each other to understand each other.
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well, give in. here stepping is also difficult. before when this school started. i’m the first two schools myself, well, i can’t say that i don’t believe in anyone and in clarity, until i sit myself, first i listen to the end. who says what and is it true, it's after 2:00-3 school. i myself, well, i have a heavy character. yes aries yes you are stubborn right with concessions. yes? well, well, here is such a person, but not good, not bad. this is how a family should be. today, too, it is difficult to rebuild a lot. well , when this school i graduated once or twice or three, well, you start at the most crucial moment understand what to do? he is at the end of the conflict. let's take a time out of school so neatly written. we take a time-out kicked and i'll be quiet. but take this timeout. it is very difficult. he needs to learn this, in 15-20 minutes or in the morning, and the problem will be solved by itself and there is no need to resolve it, i say, psychologists. here sometimes you need to be silent
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next to each other, and the whole problem will be solved, as far as yours is concerned. uh, first marriages. you. uh, so to speak, they explained the reason for your divorces in the fact that your spouses sooner or later for some reason became leaders, that is, literally them. eh, the field of activity, was introduced into your family life, or after all, since they began to lead you here, it became especially difficult to give in, or i have a special way of thinking in relation to women leaders. i don't know how to say it correctly, well, five or six times, the city of naberezhny is a man of experts m-m sexopathologists sexologists. taught not sex, they taught correctly, like a man. we will grow up from a boy to a man, but from a girl a woman was made, and what is a woman, if a woman head, director head through the wheel sit stand talk, she is accustomed to her job. well
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, this woman with a violation of transferal functions, not every man wants a boss next to him, even a man, of course, and when they say, well, that's a sin, he says, many people know, i wanted to you know, i come home. i'm completely different. now i'm the boss, i came home, and it doesn't happen like that. these are fairy tales for someone, if you are the boss here, that is, the boss here is destruction for the family. she was found by a local she was covered with grass. why leave the scarf in plain view if you want to hide the body? what he does, but if there is a chance, then we must try to change at least something until the last. remaining term i
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want to serve in a colony. people always agree for this there are compromises. conclusion the premiere of the multi-part film tomorrow after the program time okay, what kind of women do you like? well, how are you? for children to be healthy, parents must learn to take care of themselves healthy since mom and dad must be able to give in to each other mom, dad hear each other. he believes that the sometimes, to save a family, you need to learn acting. if a woman loses a lot in life, even the ability to talk to each other will not always help in solving family problems. sometimes you need to be silent
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next to each other, and the whole problem will be solved the school of family happiness alexander zotov your 30th spouse she is a psychologist by education, as i understand it, yes, that is , she has no chance to grow up to some kind of manager, if she grows up to be a manager, then i'm an aries, that is, she must somehow stick to her career plans it is not easy for her with me, well, i want to say right away, yes, but psychologists are people who give advice. you must behave like this. it should. i don't believe that advice would be better. well, giving advice is the most thankless thing to do. you give these tips, just in your school they will come out giving out advice an interesting article appeared the other day. i'm at work. that's who, and at home it's better to be a family husband and wife. just don't give advice. we periodically have difficult situations when everyone takes time out for them to try. so how do you try to talk? well, the same school. you can wife. after all
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, i invented it, i try not to lecture or lead there. occupation is two, two three brilliant people. this is monty eugenes american american who is 25 years old. he lives in our city, he is a doctor of psychological sciences and his wife. albina how they conduct classes. well, this delight causes me. this is how i should be. these schools and i finish schools i take a guitar, i read verses we sing and songs about the house about mum. well, that's the way we should be today in this system. everyone has a role to play. someone comes up with, someone specifically doing the work must dig. this is where the ankach should lead. after all, in addition to this work, you also have a scout organization, which, as i understand it, arose even before this school, yes, that is, you see a very socially active person. you run, do mountain climbing, ski tourism, but in general, your schedule is quite tight. i want to ask, is this an obstacle to the right atmosphere in the family or vice versa? the more
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busy the spouse, the better the toad from home more and not leadership role, and let her husband be busy non- stop. well, in general, the busiest person has the most free time. this is what great ford said, it seems to me that a man has a lot of work. i don't understand men. here, only we here for three or four people, we see in 30 schools the city did. we are the union of fathers or the council of fathers, four men go out to men, talk to the kolodskaya business, the organization is one of the reasons why i worked as an adviser in tajikistan for 3 years from 1989 to 1992 at home. she took care of boys and girls. it was just tourism and mountaineering. and when my mission ends, purely by chance. i saw a program that our soviet boys and girls in south korea are sitting beautifully in uniform and saying, in general, how great it is. they came to south korea to run and jump to engage in the elements of education, but the correspondent asks. and that's who you were looking for. you and what is it? yes? you don't know,
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they said it's a form. here's to us from the children we arrived. it happens that at one time this came across thought in my head. i returned literally after 2-3 months, the organization was already dying with us. yes, what is it that he began to look for, in general, what was he looking for? where did you even get them from? well, there was no literature anywhere. found the first two magazines. pioneer remember i was such magazines beautifully there were two small articles who are scouts scouts are young scouts not only in war, but in life they do good deeds and why they many three children and five grandchildren, there will probably be more first for his speeches and for them. well, how can odnoklassniki try to make such an organization, and today our organization is 25 years old, but what kind of children are these other children ? if the boy once wore a scout uniform
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and swore an oath and held up three fingers together i swear on my honor that i will never do anything wrong. he will never do wrong. my question was, after all, is it good when a husband densely busy, is there time, in fact, to talk, hear each other , see each other. we started with this, that we communicate little, in general, everything is fine that my husband is so busy. it's great. only the husband should not take the car and not the computer and not the phone. he is busy every saturday and sunday know, the whole country i know at 9:00. i pack my children, my wife , and leave together. this is the time when there for hours and talk and talk and talk and say this happiness, and you and your third wife registered relationship. although you have. in general, a rather serious difference in the age of 20 years, and your wife also had it. in general, an unsuccessful marriage behind
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and it would seem when people meet adults. they sometimes think, well, why these formalities are necessary somehow, well, take a closer look at each other. well, let's not get married officially. and you've gone through everything, so to speak, we begin. do you think it is important to register relationships for me and for my family. for me - it's important printing - it's not easy. here is paper. this is volodya promoted, what is it? some kind of mold quite right. i am very pleased that i have here alternatives that comes. we live in a civil marriage, when a family has a civil marriage, a woman thinks that she is married, and a man is considered free, but i'm a children's doctor, but whose child? and the child who, after all, he understands that he seems to be with his mother, like, you are not dad. and it seems that no one at school quickly recognizes them at school when we say, yes, this is not a father. it seems to be temporary here, we start today, for which we created from school. can you wife and why not just school
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family policy. here is the age difference that you have in your third wife 20 years. in general , mm is a risk zone for marriage or not? or in general, age differences do not affect in any way, and the family climate is a risk zone. well, for god's sake, my mountaineering. this is an extreme sport. my job. you see, i have five or six or seven different hobbies. today. these are extreme things today. well, this is the risk zone, but let's try something to do make mistakes. just don't sit and cry. but here we are, the unfortunate poor. we're fine. works with you, as i understand it. here in this general case, in which you are engaged. yes, this joint uh, activity is also a discrepancy. on this score, the legs say that oh, it’s better not to work together as a spouse, because here just swearing cannot be avoided. and there are houses there, domestic problems.
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and even here some do not agree. or vice versa, the work unites. we don't work together when she's teaching. i don't even get close. i am i conduct classes at the registry office, she also does not come. you so agreed that no, no, do not come close. well, it seemed to me, but all the same, when they thought that we would be. well, they still talked about things. it seemed to me that a husband and wife should not work in the same institution. the cards should have their own work, their duties, so that there is something to talk about in the evening. and when we started together, everywhere common activities began to communicate together. it only leads to conflict. i think so. i mean, she thinks she's stubborn. that's right, well almost that did not lead to anything good, and therefore i say, natasha, you have classes. and i have a workout. today, this, alas, calmly discussed the situation. that is, no matter how, of course not, they discuss calmly, so i try here. yes
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, to pretend that i'm so right kind, of course, yes, the saucers fly. well, we tried to buy. i, like tourism, tried furniture and utensils made of iron or plastic. yes, so nice and beautiful, and she is beautiful, look. it is, well, there it is. well, for me. here the skating rink starts some problems. at the exit, i already have sneakers , underpants, a sports shirt, i need to go to training on time, yes, and you return such a clean head to me in 30-40 minutes. yes, and so calmer you start to smile or just in time and pretend to be asleep. this is also a good option, but a timeout option. let's listen to your spouse, and then we will continue. my father taught me loyalty. that is, he always said that eternity is one of the main qualities. and here he is a confident scouting organization. this is 25 years old. now even more. and
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somehow happened at different times. yes, you organization was better, it happened worse somehow, but he even stayed there, maybe almost alone. yes, he still dragged her, believed, and, as it were, developed it. this is very much for me. what else is valuable, probably reliability, uh, you know, in difficult situations, that is, we have been in the mountains several times and this is a very dangerous thing. in general, this is such a project where you have to somehow cope with this yourself. riot , let's say nature never abandons its people, that is, he is a person who can be relied on having started, on which you can lean and everything and know that you will survive there, you will reach there, i don’t know, dry,
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well-fed, and so on. zotov he here are no any. how would you say any thing he sees he says, well, someone does it. why won't i? why can't i do the same from school and why not husbands? why not learn even there at the age there, i don’t know, there are 50-60 years old. no, these are the limits that you can learn something at any age, and he learns himself and, of course, can teach others. it turns out that the starting point was your desire to learn how to live properly in marriage, but i understand that this is a matter of many mistakes. to speak well or badly? well, i want my children not to repeat these mistakes for the birthday of viktor tsoi
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and a completely special separate world, in which it was completely impossible to get into. of course i want everyone to understand me, but i don't know. cinema is music, not that there are especially people or there are no lonely people, but it is the music of people who have their own way. on friday at channel one
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, dr. zotov believes that the stamp in the passport is not a whim, but a necessity when the family of a civil marriage a woman believes that she is married. and the man is considered free. the main thing in solving family problems is to act, not to think. let's do something to try to be wrong. just don't sit and cry. ah here is such we unfortunate poor. everything is fine with us to resolve a family conflict, all means are good, pretending to be asleep. this is also a variant of the school of family happiness, alexander zotov and how to avoid misunderstanding when a person tells you, but you, well, don’t you understand, in general, where such stupid thoughts come from in my head. this is the main reason for divorce
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. no, i hear. well, i don't know what to do next. and how to overcome it in the first place at school teaches you to work on yourself. the whole role of a husband is like a wife, or vice versa, and we begin to solve the problem. you are difficult, i am complex. how to find a common language? this is a huge complex scheme. suppose you don't do housework. i'm here as a wife. now i'm telling you that it's not good that you don't do anything around the house. it's late, come on, i've been plowed here. i am her to shop i and cook i and after the kids. and you can't even take out the trash. that's what you immediately made to survive my wife. yes, and you said, if you can't stand it, yes, you didn't, that's it, i reacted. you yourself, so you could go yourself and do the reasons for the conflict, after graduation we are already wives, you told him, probably in a different way. it is so unpleasant for me when i come home, and now the dishes
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are not exhausted. i'm upset and i really want to relax. and here is my dinner. i didn't have time to cook. this is what he did for sure. once you told him you didn't. you must this is the first step to war well. and if you said, i'm upset, i'm so unpleasant that the dishes didn't come to you. she's not washed again. you're telling me here, well, it's terribly terribly hard that it's rubbish. well , somehow the trash can is full again. so you're trying to sit on your husband's neck? oh sure. interestingly, he will explain in russian, yeah, who owes what. and what you have to do is not what you have to cook. you must wash. you must do it today, and your husband must be somewhere. this is it. families in which the husband i do more. and, if the wife
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takes on more in the situation a lot, in short a word. you should be excluded from family communication. quite right. yes positions, help me. and if it is very difficult for him, i now experience men. well, the desktop woman is the same, if it's difficult for you, but we are in pairs. i'm tired too. and you are tired. i want to help you. even if we have some kind of conflict today or something doesn’t work out for me, you say, well , i was upset that i didn’t do something. i am tomorrow i will. uh huh, we're a family. and most importantly, when we are now talking to school, the wife's husband's children saw how mom and dad are talking and do not repeat ours. mm, either mistakes or a positive experience, please tell me, women have such a motive very often that they are right already, well, they are just exhausted in marriage, but they don’t get divorced, because children are the right approach. no. although, when
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psychologists work, we try to keep the marriage. so all this is important, but if you have reached the point that you already can not stand each other and this harms both it’s better to stop in time to disperse today, but here’s what, well, like in my family, it’s good or bad . we live very friendly with all our children and wives. all holidays are ours. it's march 8 - it's the new year. this is santa claus. this is the first pendulum of the resurrection demonstration, because usually it is women after a divorce who try to keep, so to speak, relations with their husbands, if they are reasonable mothers, let's say, yes, in order for the children to survive. father, and in your case, it is also your wives who tried. e stay on friendly terms with you or that and your was an effort, it's a difficult question so good. i am bad. here it seemed to me that both sides were trying to correctly resolve the issue, but with my son i go to the mountains every year all my life. it
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must be the girls. well, well, good right kids. they are all teachers today. they don't call every time. grandma came to bake pies. well , i love pies, so no. yes, it's someone's birthday. i don't remember who's birthday is, but this is the head. so you forgot that the birthday and the whole family is going to husband and wife. divorced not divorced. children shouldn't have to suffer. uh-huh, and both sides of us are trying to do so that it is the way the family communicates. they have also started their own families. if you have five grandchildren, one natasha has two girls who are finishing school. lida has two boys. already, well, like kolya's third and ninth grades, there is only one, but it's not evening yet. i think we will have many children in our family. now i want you and me to watch, uh, a story about your scouting organization, then we will continue the conversation. alexander zotov i saw the scouts on tv and decided that
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a flag with a white lily will surely rise, and in naberezhnye chelny a quarter of a century ago, he created the first scout detachment in the city in these years, the commandments of young scout scouts. helped a lot of guys. find the right bearings in life without a father. mom alone you understand in the nineties. and here, in principle, if i had not got into the club. i would have ended up in another group, where people were doing some incomprehensible things at that time. i do not know, i miraculously, to be honest, got it. in the first association of young scouts there were only 10 people, and for 25 years more than a thousand boys and girls have been in their ranks. here is this team that has gathered in the very past 10-15 years. i think that i could not have found all my friends in
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other relatives, having created an organization of scouts, alexander zotov came to the conclusion that fathers should also be involved in this important matter, because the problems of fathers and children often arise when a man wants to participate in upbringing, but they simply do not always know how the union of fathers appeared in naberezhnye chelny, dad. he just doesn't know how to handle his child. but there is this mechanism is this positive example, when he came and saw such fathers, he met him, he was able to take from them an example of one of the joint principles of the union of fathers and the association of scouts in chelny there are no other people's children there is the environment of my child. we are trying to create such an environment by the union of fathers so that every man, every father notices such children and goes to the sports cultural creative event with his child and takes a friend or girlfriend
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of his children who do not have a father today alexander zotov, the founder of the union of fathers and honorary president of the scouts, as well as 25 years ago, teaches the guys to be honest, keep their word and not offend the weak fathers help him in everything. look, but this is amazing, actually here is the idea of not having other people's children. it was your thought. yes , to or is it already so to say, alternatively. it was in this community that the idea was born that come on. eh, if i'm going camping relatively speaking, then i take both you and your friend and start working with scouts in five to seven years. here we have noticed what if dad comes to help. the child is completely different, he is completely different and relates to his environment. and when men say everything. now, they don't want anything. they are watching tv. they don't want to work. it is not true. we ourselves built
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the work in such a way that we pushed the peasants aside. here is our experience. today, every year or twice a year, we have a parade of fathers, not 10 fathers come, not 20,000 men want to take care of children, because you have been the main pediatrician for so many years. we watched. in general, quite a baby and witnessed in recent years. here. uh, when in general we can all admit that there are huge problems with having children. here, the younger generation is there, when i was there as a child in this, it was just out of the question, but somehow, well, a woman got married. naturally, a child soon appeared. now these queues are near the gynecologist's offices. everything, we know it, in short, write. it has become some kind of gigantic problem both in our country and in general in the world. do you have any point of view that this is connected with psychology, in what problem from your point of view? for 100 years, we have become
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100 times less likely to move; the disease has become 100 times more; the disease has come to completely different reproductive health problems for women. well, after all, we are leaders, we sit more and we sit in the car more , the men didn’t move much, everything is the same. today, the incidence has become many times greater in both men and women today, indeed. today, gynecologists have a huge queue. well, i think i know what to do. now is the time to indicate how old you are alexander nikolaevich 67 years old. and accordingly, everything he says now takes on a different weight, because we see this beautiful man in front of us. now everyone knows. how old am i 2 years ago there we are our scouts, returning from a hike and the sixth and seventh eighth ninth grade boy. arguing arguing arguing arguing and says that you are arguing interesting. agree, we consider how old you are, i say, why can’t you ask me? yes , wait, we believe, how do you know something, well, we
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know how old our parents are. count man we all decided how old you are, 35. and you know, i was delighted, how do you feel? here you run , jump, scream, squeal, well, i like it. i'm tired of them today too. but if the children think that you are 35 years old, but my breasts even grew right up to me, what is this, probably, right? yes, how to make sure that children are healthy in the first place. i beg you to move a lot. if you decide to get married, you must be the family of you, the right, kind advocate marriage for love today. well, i tell everyone, a magical thing in general, what to do so, so that a woman never had a gynecological disease, well, in general, simple ones came up with. i'm the only one great and to shaverkog, so that a woman would never have gynecological diseases, i need to give a skipping rope by the eighth of march, when we start running a lot, jumping, a woman jumps quite right. she's getting a little bit
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dumb. come on, what are you grab and what is most important is kalki, when the great obstetrician-gynecologist said these things at one of the congresses, because the gynecologists and the pediatrician, but he told us what problem. remember the runny nose does not breathe. i took a rag and began to wash the floor of my nose, i once breathed and the blood rushed here and that's it. the jump rope has sucked - it's a hard sport, if you are on the government 100 times today, tomorrow you will be in intensive care with the omission of some places, not true. am i easy for you? everything is fine, it means that this physiology understood it so, a skipping rope, which means that in the house every woman should have a jump rope remembered, and then today a large number of women with reproductive health problems came, and they have problems such a psychological one. i can't do it here. in my house. that's how the wrong husband makes me a bad family. and here is such a part of depression neurosis. it's all
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crushed today. if a woman is in this state, very often they come to us from gynecologists, a specialist psychologist works together. and when the gynecologist starts to come out psychologist and everything turns out fine, the psychologist sorts it out. from what a woman needs to be freed from a depressive state, the main cause of today's diseases, and you and i are not burdened and depression these are the main reasons. not just depression breaks down our entire immune system. first of all, we can put all this in its place. he will be normal now. here's what you can decide. this is of course. crow
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to each other, but how they say it you did not. you must this is the first step of the war the reality is that some marriages cannot and should not be saved. if you have reached the point that you already can’t stand each other and this harms both of them, it’s better to stop in time to disperse contrary to stereotypes. today, raising children. this is not only a women's task, all men. now, they don't want anything. they are sitting at the tv. they don't want to work. it's not true men want to work with children, the school of family happiness alexander zotov what kind of knowledge does fathers receive? what kind of pedagogical tool do you give? you hand them the first palace quest passed when we say that can do a man, what is a quest? we teach fathers. what can be done every 3 days dad will receive
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a task by phone one of the tasks in the quest. they must come with me to the forest, we prepare the fields for them with our scouts and dad and child take a two-handed saw 50% pub, they have never seen a two-handed saw. and they saw with the child. it must be believed the child took the saw. after all, this is friendship and dad a child together to drag happiness does not fall off the hook, fathers do not say, they at some point, yes. well your tasks spend time every day with a child. it is very difficult. what to talk about with him? yes, i think for myself and we teach, dad, what to talk about it doesn't matter what you can do. and what can be done? why? you can learn, of course, and dad liked it so much for you were a discovery men want to work quite right, how many people come to these all sorts of things? it's nice that
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now, when we finish the quest with each one, we gather parents and ask them to tell, a when the person is done, this is the quest. it lasts 21 days every day is regular - this is a full marathon. so we decided exactly 21 days later, men come and say, you know nikolayevich, but i liked working. i'll try to do something. and for me it's a holiday. let someone start trying today, but i am pleased that many come. everyone wants to go with you as scouts, but now i don’t take someone as you don’t take. you are the president and now i am asking you, please take your child. take in environment and make it the same organization. let her be a scout. over the past four or four months, 46-7 have decided to do this. it 's great. for me. this is a holiday. it was the pope who decided to do this. but despite the fact that you no longer take scouts. you still keep walking. yes, hikes, why exactly a hike, because extreme conditions, so to speak, are most
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manifest, and every boy and girl wants something like this for 25 years in a row. we have big summer scouting. he is for a week we live in a huge clearing near the forest and exactly 7 days. they have some extraordinary events all all the scouts who have grown up now have left. they know two main activities. this is a nighttime stir, when at 9 10 11 o'clock at 3:57 people the children go into the forest before dawn. it's scary alone without adults this word is scary, but the second event is exactly when they come at three four in the morning at exactly 8:00 in the morning. the next day will be with spikelets, each child starts a marathon from two from three to four from 5 years old to 20 years old overcome 30 pre. it's mud, it's water. this is shooting. these are grenades. this dressing is a lot of things, but when they run to the finish line, there are nettles, they crawl along this dirty one. here is a puddle,
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they are grimy dirty. what happiness and the whole year is hardly the most terrible. and you know, i overcame it for me. this is a holiday. let them not go. we want to give you a gift from our program, it is both useful, but also symbolic, it seems to us that you, but a compass would be very useful. it would be useful to you in the literal sense of the word, because you go hiking, uh, and figuratively it's a compass and also a sundial at the same time. this is such a serious thing, eh, but you yourself , in a sense, show the way, and in a sense, a compass and this. hmm very nice and we wish you further success on this path. so give it up, right? wow thank you very much. today
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he is happy, the father of a large family, he is called a hero and set as an example. he does charity work and runs a rehabilitation center where he helps people who have no one else. help. but once help was needed, and after the ninth grade, he himself got in touch with a bad company and began to use drugs. he was expelled from school a little more and here it is the point of no return. then love saved him. for the sake of his beloved , he left his former friends and opened his own business. built a house. anya gave him three sons and triplets daughters. but soon after the birth of the girls, the family found out that his mother was terminally ill.
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after the death of his wife, he was left alone with six children in the arms of a successful entrepreneur. i had to learn how to cook porridge, braid pigtails and iron clothes. this case became widely known through the media and social networks. dozens began to write to him, women offered help and money, they persuaded him to move to other countries, but the father of many children is a loner. i found my happiness nearby in my own city. now he and his wife lyudmila already have nine children for two. how is raising boys different from raising girls? why you should never stop hoping for a miracle and how to learn not to be afraid of difficulties alone with all dad who can do anything anton kudryavtsev and his beloved wife lyudmila hello anton lyudmila is very glad to see you with us and is especially
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glad that this story has such an incredible happy ending, just such a happy ending that happens in movies, finally. yes, yes, continuation. yes, yes, of course. as for the appearance of lyudmila in your life, anton, i know that they began to write to you, in general, a lot of women, when your story became known. yes, there were a lot of letters written that it was three at once in one night i just dreamed that they said it was a sign and i say so. well, at least one dreamed. i might even believe it. well, well, yes, and so to three, i immediately say somehow, well, immediately from different cities. i have not seen that somehow through social networks you can somehow well build relationships. and well, i've read the letters answered so far. there is an area. i have unread emails. ever since that time, they offered to go abroad and move somewhere. well , a lot of things were offered to you, it seemed to you, what is it? well, so to speak, the response to the cordial and or not at all
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so to speak, they were indifferent to such a proposal. nowadays, there are problems with a man that women are looking for, well, it’s not easy to have a man, and with whom you can build relationships, and this is the problem, because one woman from germany constantly says she wrote there, she says, we only have relationships with men , they don’t want seriousness, not in some, well, in this, i understood the problem, but i kind of understood that i couldn’t solve all the problems, but lyudmila, after all, was also that woman, yes, who decided to write anton what happened to you anton dreamed about you. no, i didn't dream of anton. i just dreamed of a lot of children, as if we were walking with my girlfriend and there were seven children with us, and so, i woke up and remembered this dream and i think just like that, from where even my friends wrote all one child, my friend has three, and i was still riding in a minibus i go to work and i write, i talk there. masha can you imagine that today i had a dream that we are walking with us seven children. i say, maybe you already agree on the fourth. she
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says, oh no, are you after you, as u says you will appear at least two more then here i am going, but i have nothing to do there on the way. uh, i went to the internet social networks and saw a publication about anton. somehow, well, he sunk into my soul. i probably thought about him for a whole week, and a week later i decided to write to him and finally found him. i don’t remember writing that it’s neutral, that he’s a big man. well done for raising children alone. e, and. well, just offered some help. and maybe there to take a walk with the children sometime, so that he was treated. if so, here are some questions everything. i understand that anton, as a matter of fact, reacted rather reservedly this time, they say. he answered. simply thank you. and you have not given up trying. why? well, i do not know. of course, i understood that he was now sadly lonely. perhaps they are up to some kind of communication. yes, i didn’t have any thoughts that there was
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already there, of course. for some reason, i just felt very sorry for him and wanted to get him out of this state. and what was offered. and i just don’t remember what else you wrote to him, and he somehow later began to answer more willingly. and yet you agreed to meet. that is, with children. why with children? well, i don’t know, because i always have children with me, i didn’t go anywhere without children. i was with the boys. she took her son yaroslav and three boys were with me to some kind of children's movie. yeah, just cartoons, we broke up, we drank coffee. i drove her and i remember, my children have only one son. luda don't go. remember, he was sitting behind himself like that, all daddy she was going with us. it was here in the first place, in the heart of the first, the heart of the first one sensed that here she was a potential chosen one,
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while still adults were lost and did not know how to behave. and tyoma understood anton in general, by that moment you were already tired, so to speak, of this responsibility that fell on you precisely in terms of caring for small children. i know the girls seemed to live with their mother, but with their grandmother, i mean, yes, because it was still a bit complicated triplets. and yes, they made me sick. we mom took the girls because we started to travel. we went to israel and tried somehow. well, cure and then, well, she couldn't have been hard nothing therefore to find, to take my mother. well, they lived with her while we studied and we traveled for almost a year, and then, when i died, and i moved, i could not be at home in our house, because they arranged themselves together on the spot, it was planned hmm that is, i i couldn't. i moved from the district, and in omsk we just happened to be behind the wall with my mother. a friend of mine moved out to the north somewhere, and she rented an apartment, and i rented an apartment right behind the wall. mom's kitchen is separated by a wall from different
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entrances, and we lived with the boys, and in the second entrance, and my mother lives in the first entrance, we were separated by one wall. mom, the girls are there, yes, that is, periodically. yes, my mother helped to cook somewhere. i took the children in it and took them to the kindergarten. we were given to the kindergarten right there and they gave the boys and we sent the eldest. uh, to school there, in general, and that's how we began to live, and because i came home. i couldn't go into my house, even i remember some time passed and i came to the area that we built. i just uh, saw the house behind started crying. i couldn't stop and left. and when they didn't understand. why was this house built at all? why? well, although, my mother helped, yours is all the same, well, so to speak, you have to gather everyone in the garden to make breakfast for everyone. you said this whole thing at some point, when you were like that, but you repeatedly called you a hero, you said no, my wife was the heroine, because only i now realized that in general a woman is carried on her shoulders when we are set found out about the pregnancy. i say, god is given to us, only he speaks to children, you are so strong. i then told her
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said it wasn't me. i say i'm weak. i say, well, never thought of a large family. i am alone in the family. i didn’t think that we could do so much there, well , somehow, to have children and they tell us that you will have troy and we already have three boys, but we thought more girls, maybe, but here there are three girls. yes, and many doctors said some kind of what, what, they can’t stand it. them. it is very difficult there and well, there were different thoughts, i remember, i somehow sat at home and found out that there would be a trojan. we already know twins were born and one child had an accident and i was so afraid announced that, well, something could happen with our children, that how would i behave if my child was born and he would be sick. i remember i was sitting like that all in the room. i thought about it and i made such a decision for three that no matter how they were born. i will still be on my own, i will give them life, we will not have abortions for me there. and why at that moment? i'm somehow special. feeling paternal experienced somehow inside, that's somehow how i can. that's something even if it is, when you watch, watch how they cope yes, when you understood for yours and you say, and i
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say, i don't well, i won't leave them. we will still give life, and we made a decision that way and that the doctors did not tell us. we said, well, we will give life to these children and you, lord, are completely healthy, then they were premature, respectively, they were born. there i left with something for 400 kilos 600 kilos, and well, they had three children born at seven months old. well, then a year later they removed them from the register, that is, there are absolutely no problems with activity. perfectly healthy. well it turned out it's big problem. s uh, with your wife. hmm. we'll come back to this point. well, i wanted to ask you exactly the everyday aspect when, uh, you said about anya that she was so strong, but then, then she was strong, for example, you had to get up, what was the most difficult thing, well, except for those experiences that are understandable, everything began. uh, i don't cut my kids' nails, i'm pots, that is, here, it seems, there are six children. yes, we had it, but i didn’t do it, it’s never a wife’s business and there are receipts for payment. she's all over the place. it was some part
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life that was not even noticed. yes, i mean, i didn't see it. i later once said that he later returned his house, after all, by the new year. we pitched my wife here on may 9, she died, and in december we were only able to return to my house and go back. i realized that i still need to continue to live, that i need to, well, get up somehow and i took the children. we moved from my mother to our house and began to live, and then i saw the price of everything, where i began to wash the floors, and i recalled directly how the children passed someone shod. i only washed the floors, then i was like that. well, i remembered as a wife when i passed shod, and she only washed. yes, yes, rooms to run something to take forgot the phone. well, how to develop and then i rethought it all. absolutely. i understood the price of this that, well, that's why there was work, because there was washing dishes and children in the kindergarten, banks, that's all. well, for me it was every day. so this is probably a feat for me. that is, i thought that tomorrow i'll live more strength in a day. well, i can’t, i lived one day and a new day came and didn’t
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give strength well, the most difficult thing was. that's who harder with girls and boys. uh, i don’t know, braid braids there. well, what about the girls, of course, it was more difficult, because i remember we went for a walk with the girls. the first time i went for a walk with him alone, and they wanted to go to the toilet. and i just couldn't even. well, we were in the shopping center, there was no common toilet there, where should i take them to some kind of toilet, you understand? i quickly got them out. we got out of the car , sat down and drove to my mother, because i just could not. well, bring them to the toilet, you know, thank god that my mother is there, in my opinion, girls, because i myself am not a grandmother, i don’t know how girls. well, it would be okay to be silent for six. well , when girls need a special approach after your meeting, uh, that happened. watched a movie, and then people you had to continue to be persistent or you already hoped that anton somehow liked him, he tells you. yes, we liked it, only the meeting was interesting and everyone was happy and then, of course, i wanted to
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meet again as soon as possible. that is, anton, you looked at people and realized that something could still be, maybe we’ll go to the movies again, very, very strong, kind good kindness, and i’m right there. she ’s very kind, and i always tell my friends later. i say, with her it's definitely even. well, you will not find a reason to quarrel, and then we agreed with the meeting, then i then we took with the girls. we went, then we went to the park. first the boys, then they took the girl for a check. we went to the park and we walked in the park, then we went to the zoo. there we are and somewhere there were photographs. there they are all she stirred. they were sitting at her. it was she who came in a short red dress with such bright lipstick, of course it was. with a short dress, we are with a lipstick cap. luda got drunk right there, didn't she? this is in general, it just seems to me, wow beads. and yes, they are still all in different
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directions, the girls are very active and take it off, of course, it was more difficult, because the boys needed their mother, and the girls, it seems, like they were with their grandmother and, well, not so much, we need it, and so it was necessary to win their hearts. when anton was left alone with six children in his arms women bombarded him with offers to go abroad and offered to move somewhere. well, they offered a lot of things, having learned the story. anton lyudmila did not suspect that he would become her fate. just, perhaps, take a walk with the children there. darkness, while his first wife was alive. anton did not suspect. how much attention do young children need? i started out just me i don't strip nails to kids. i ca n't pots. that is, here, like, and six children. yes, we had it, but i never did it this business wife difficult happiness anton and lyudmila kudryavtsev. how much time passed before
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someone made an offer, who made it, probably four months. yes, wow, how fast and a half months four. we already got married lud for one thing, when you read such a story on the internet, as if a story about a person and the heart responds to another thing when you start dating him and meeting children. you had a moment there, the son was the only one, and yet this perspective, when you think, well, man, i like it. well, i automatically become a mother seven children. this is not just a marriage. and this is such a mega responsible. she didn't crush you at any point. it didn’t frighten me in the least, although there were a lot of people who tried to dissuade me , including my mother, and i remember, we even fought with you once. she yelled right at me. have you
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lost your mind? it's such a responsibility. at first, she simply did not take our communication seriously, as if i had told about anton, she also penetrated the story. well, i knew we were talking. well , we're just talking. yes, and then, when we went talking about the wedding, then, of course, my mother got worried. but i told her that i can handle it, that it doesn’t scare me at all. and where did such confidence come from? that you can do it completely, well, i don’t know, despite my softness, i’m such a strong person. and well, kids never scare me at all. what did your mom say? anton my mother said, well, i remember, we came to my mother. we were leaving mom's barbecue and mom took a picture and said, you are so happy. she told me, my mother saw this one, my joy. she took a photo. i am i remember and my mother didn’t even want us to share, because people, well, they feel joy and it’s very hard to survive. i remember she went to shish kebabs from this photo of her daughter. we stood with an umbrella and my mother
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took a picture and said, you are so happy there. mom was very, yes, as if people were one more then. she thought that even she had seven here now. she says, i will still go to work , there were some good jobs. i understand what i'm saying. well, as they say, i will be at work, well, 2 weeks after the wedding. this is where i had to work. let's listen to your moms now and continue. i reacted to it in the first place, very badly. she said is it possible? well , it's scary to go to six. i wouldn't be able to do this the first time. eh, lyudmila, of course, called me asking for advice, asking how to cook something right there, there were doubts about lyudmila that she could not cope, because here, right, she lived with me. she went to work and came. uh, everything was ready from work, so i was afraid that it would be very difficult for her. very difficult. i arrived
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here, together with her, she met the girls with me. look how, well, i liked that you could see that she was very kind. she was so calm . here is our such a fuss that the children, of course, are so frisky, we have very lively children who do not sit still. well, it was clear that she liked it all, and he would be seen to be pleased with her very kind eyes. after all, you worked until that moment, but all the time you worked in a jewelry salon, and so mom says that they left, they came, so to speak. mom helped you with your son, who was growing up, and then after 2 weeks i had to change my life dramatically. yes, and here a little overestimated their capabilities. well, it's just very inconvenient that we live outside the city and travel far. at
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first, i even agreed with my director on a remote work schedule in order to come today several times a week. yes, they agreed to meet me halfway , but then i realized that i could not. so what? what were the impressions when this whole house, well, i really became your home and the whirlwind began. yes, at first i was worried that i would miss work, but then i realized that there was no time to be bored. well, yes, there is simply no time. yes, you need to breathe out, you need to paste and iron a bunch of laundry, because we wash every day, sometimes there i wash it several times in 10, because there are a lot of things. cook, naturally, a lot of food for everyone. get involved and make time for yourself. at first, of course i didn't have time. yes, and anton swore directly at me so that i could go to myself, what is time for myself, what should i do? well , she could be there at all until 12:00 at night and be something do. and i said what you need, well, just plan to do it and you need time for yourself to relax, just sit. just. well, something to
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count something to see. i don’t know to trust already . by that time, you already knew how to dispose, listen, well, here is your son yaroslav to him . yes, the boys are six seven and vladik is 14 years old. well, in general, when two people are reunited, then between themselves children should also connect, how did they find a common language among themselves, were there any difficulties, and whether it was necessary to apply some kind of parental educational trick. but, when we had children, we thought i was talking, i was saying, well, we will take the girls, probably, there during the year. we will somehow smoothly translate them and, well, start living. i remember we took the girls from our mother after the wedding and she loves them. well, what should we give? well, let everything remain, what to wait a year to go there and that's it. i remember, and we left the children to stay with
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us, and for the boys there for yaroslav, for them this is the coolest thing, of course, he certainly lived with his grandmother. mom was at work there. that is, now it’s like we have there, well, such an orphanage, yes, when they have fun, they play there. they are there and in hockey there and roller skating on scooters, i thought he rides, that is, he is constantly. well, i mean, uh, it was very cool. come on, here, uh, you have an eldest son. well, to which was 13 years old. yes, vlad is the son, and your first wife. that is, he is not related to you by blood, but you brought up since how many years since two or three years? well , that is, uh, always, daddy doesn't know me and daddy. and like that. well, for him the loss of his mother, of course, it was a very special story, because he is such a most conscious boy, but, accordingly, it could be a much bigger problem of entry. luda to the family. was it also interesting, my friends told me that, uh, i also have friends and he also had children and his wife
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died. that is, like this, somehow grief rallied us together, i met somewhere and he said that junior will be accepted. but the elder says, he won’t accept, well, he’s already, as it were, old, he won’t be able to accept a woman, but when vladik gets to know people, you won’t believe it, he says, dad to his wife with her. dad, i was actually worried before our meeting too. well, the fact that he is already such an adult with small children sometimes, in general. so we went to the skating rink. uh, also with the boys with everyone, and now to hell and well, i don’t know , somehow we had fun, and we easily communicated there, and he came. all the conclusion is unequivocal male briefly and clearly. and with yaroslav you still yaroslav zhil was under female supervision. yes, that is, when a man appeared, well, a purely female upbringing, grandmother, mother, well, he is like that, as if he were small, that is, but we have already sent a little bit. he's already like that already. i'm talking, you're a man, i'm talking. you said yarik, this is how he is and cry for
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everything and such. well, yes, now it’s normal for him to eat everything nearby and feed and wash always, and because she was worried about how people cope, and because she always cooked food and that’s it. and grandmother, by the way, how did my grandmother have a point of application. as they say worries grandson. and here it means that the daughter moved out to a big house of a large family. she took her grandson with her. she has two more grandchildren. i have an older sister. so, that's why she doesn't get bored there. that is, she takes stylish grandchildren. yes, she was still very worried. anyway, it was dreary, that's how to fall asleep with this alone? i missed it, but now i 'm kind of used to it. there to visit us, sometimes comes. only sometimes you don't have it at all such grandmother's raids, so that grandmother is somehow a little away for the weekend. if we somehow
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drag my mother there, so that somewhere we just go there, well, once every 2 weeks, maybe it turns out that you do a walk, just go to the movies, just the two of you, yes. when lyudmila decided to become a mother for seven children, no one understood her. there were a lot of people who tried to dissuade me, and my mother was there , including she screamed right at me. have you lost your mind? it's such a responsibility. yes , luda did not imagine the wedding. how much time required to raise seven children love then even she she thought she even knew. now she says, i will still go to work. well, 2 weeks after the wedding. she worked difficult happiness anton and lyudmila kudryavtseva as a wife. no, you've had enough. well, it's such a difficult situation. as a matter of fact, what is called there went downhill and anya became your salvation. how did you manage to
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change your life so drastically. oh. life was like that, yes, it was difficult for me, probably, but i had a comrade if he was a little older than me, he brought me home and let me try drugs. oh-oh-oh, yes, and i do not think. probably because then i tried, probably not somehow to my parents somehow. well , you'll like it. she probably has more friends, yes, who are especially older, as if they were probably more authority for me and i tried it then. i didn't refuse. and then i started using them further and further, then i went to the army, and i thought i was going to the army on purpose, because i understood that i should live somehow differently and the army would change me. yes i left to army. my father is a firefighter through work. i came from the army and got a job at the ministry of emergency situations and well, the same friends again, she returned the same thing, and we ourselves began to meet, just after the army. uh, i mean, she already had a son and it's so difficult. we lived as if nothing worked out, and then in one moment we made a decision. well. put an end to all this and we just left omsk, we rented a house. i was
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still in rehab for another 4 months in christian i was told that god could change my life. just simple words, says you don't need nothing. you just need to ask god for forgiveness, and i thought for a week and i think i somehow realized that for all my time i was 23 years old, that i probably did so much evil i was once surrounded, because i also asked god for forgiveness and from that moment i no longer consumed, nor did i smoke drugs, i didn’t drink and also for nine years, so to speak, i was the person who guided you in this she was, of course, such a support for me, well, they accepted decision. she said, that's how you accept, where i'm with you and we went. here in the area. we have never lived in an area anywhere. we drove the loma region and 75 km. we left and started living there rented houses. we didn’t have anything with him, not a car, not regretting anything, there
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was a child, and so she turned out she became pregnant already and we began to build a life we opened then with her 9 years ago. e in the rehabilitation center, too, and they also began to help a little and our friends who have changed in life, who are now family children and still he works now and now we have a shelter for the homeless, that is, in the winter she lived there for about 15 people. that is, we are now cooperating with the ministry of labor there too. well, we help people, that is, in social matters , thanks to the fact that there is this revolutionary center. uh, i understand that in your family a newly formed appeared and two more children were adopted . what were the circumstances of this? well, a few years ago we had one girl in rehab . hmm and her husband. they imprisoned her husband, she had a criminal case against him. wound up he was a drug addict, and they had children, they were in a baby house, and she restored her life so much that they helped her to rent a house on a model. she began to live and time passed, she
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recovered, and the children were given away from the orphanage babies. that is, he had boys, a girl, and well, she lived all right. that is, the old life was no longer returning, but there was already health. not that there are already drugs strongly and e was a disease. she was heavy and at one point. she fell ill with severe bronchitis and was admitted to the hospital. he turned into tuberculosis and the immunity was very weak, and she did not the doctors were unable to help her relatives. she did not have a sister alone and a sister there, she seemed to have said something that she was taking custody of children. it was necessary to send the children to the sanatorium, they went to the sanatorium for 3 months and the guardian calls us. as they say, no one takes the children. the sanatorium we spoke now is either in the house, and the little ones, or you decide who wanted to take one family from us. their area of the house did not allow them, then others wanted them to be denied guardianship there too, and we are sitting at home, and i had such a desire inside, i think, well, i would like that take these children, but i was even afraid of people to say it. i can imagine people say
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this is e ringing on the phone. it tells everything. and i'm already talking in tears. let's take it, then i came home, and we discussed this story again and said what the guys wanted there, and no one offered us, because they thought, well, well, for us there are so many children, how can we still take them . no one even thought there. and luda says, let's take it. i say, well, since you say what i say, come on. only for children, here whom you took, how old were they 4.6 now ksyusha has already turned five five children. now they are born in the twelfth year, all four to five. he is now ksyusha here for five years, the receptionist has become a girl. well, this is also another test. that is, the children have already experienced a lot in their tiny life twice in the baby house in 4 years. they were and were there for drugs, went with their parents, and what they did not see how they had to. uh, so to speak, it was hard to enter your family at first, because they were
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closed, well, they didn’t make contact very much, they ate a lot when we took them to the sanatorium. i went to the supermarket with them. they just wanted everything, and we bought groceries. i have arrived home. and there are bananas and fruits. they are this let's eat, that is, they have never seen this before , that is, when we were helping them there, i took them somewhere to the store, they will buy something, they all alexandrovich anatolyevich called me that and i took them to the store . he was just trying to buy me something, because my mother didn’t have a lot of opportunity there. i am haven't seen anything in their entire lives. and then they ate right after this sanatorium there was something. well, we tried to suspect them, guys, it's not going anywhere. well, there are always houses and how they would be, well , now that's all. the two of them had already changed somehow, they communicated with the rest in such a way, and now they have opened up a lot. ksyusha turned out to be such a cheerful person, pasha too, and right now they are all. well, they are friends with each other. they communicate well. they
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call me mom. and you consulted with the children. well , when, like this, they looked into each other's eyes and said giving take. they have already said even who will live with whom. yes, do not remember saying, there it will live with me. there, pasha says to me there will be a modest life. and that is, there was no objection. but it was difficult, i myself remember here is the first week. i came home a week later. i told people we we can't handle it already when we took all the children. we won't make it. i had such a fear, not something like fear, because it was really difficult. i just couldn't help but mind my own business. i needed there are some hospitals there all the time. it 's just that for the children every day, and this moment was difficult and people then say a week later. do you remember? she says, i will not give these words to anyone. i do have some left. i say, well, that's it, then we'll manage it, i say, everything again, then we'll manage it. yes, but it doesn't matter when. so now you're here, mother of such a large family you
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expected from yourself. well, how are such forces? well , what do you have control over? no. if you take my life a year ago, even a year i would not imagine could have happened to me. mom also tells me, i never imagined that you would become a mother of many children, but somehow i still had confidence and i always said that there are no other people's children, so join us in a difficult situation. on the contrary, i was happy to help. i know that there is one such difficult moment that the father of your adopted children. he is alive, he is serving his sentence. and in principle, if he comes out, from there, he can claim to pick up the children, we can claim, because now, now, guardianship was saying, how they were then, well, they didn’t decide, yes addic rights when it was in such a life, that is, well, now, as it were, he is
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full-fledged, when he can potentially reach out. well, maybe out in the eighteenth year. i remember a month, as it were, and he writes to you somehow with you , calls me, and i give him a conversation with pasha, the girl does not want to talk to him, and the boys talk to you, which he does not discuss. he always spoke. well, when he left, he kind of wanted to change. he wanted it so tuned in, but he says, i probably won't get out of here alive. that is, he has about the health that his mother had died badly. i mean, he's there too. very bad health. in general, he does not seem to decide about these issues. he says that he always calls thanks, which is very happy. that this is how the children are not somewhere that he knew me, how we live. and here he is, that calls always thanks more, and let's move on to the funny topic about your triplets, because children, in principle, are a complicated matter. and when triplets, i i think that this is a special story of the thing, how they divide among themselves. is it possible to give him different gifts,
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for example, no? can yes, why? where we were told that the children are all dressed the same, they say you do not allow the personality to develop such comments , i heard a lot of letters on the internet. try different money. here to try in different it all they start to fight, therefore, we always buy everything the same, because they cannot share their socks of different colors. there they are all a tragedy, yes, that is, there are different toys. they or it are all different should be perfect. well, it’s so simple, in general, please me, by the way, they’re already growing up somehow calmer, that is, you can buy something of the same series, but they remember different colors, from whom they took some, well, look at them signed jackets there sonya especially there dasha case my jacket. why is she already reading her name there? yeah, god forbid, i say, so the jacket is the
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same, that you are crying, i already say, but she has already put on your jacket in the kindergarten, why are you crying? no, i won’t go, let us take off our jacket and that’s it. but caring for children and raising children are two different things. i would say regions, because it is necessary somehow and for them to help, somehow it is possible to educate them. yes, in this big house. when i cook, they are all ready to help, there okay, girls and boys, too, cut something there, and how are your dinners, well, a family dinner. we all try to eat together always, no matter how valuable it is for us to get together. well, it's very noisy. it's very so, uh, everyone is telling some of their news, so it's noisy, well, who's in school was, who is in kindergarten? how we discuss behavior, but it happens that they are called to school or they say in the kindergarten, well, no, we can handle your children. well, that is, here's how to be, when society calls for an answer to the gatehouses in the
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kindergarten, when they come and go to their grandmother. why? well, everything, they become different right away, that is, they don’t obey there, then for three days, but he says, everything becomes normal. granny neighbors. this is all the educator is everything. the grandmother had an older son. he studied well with us, he is always on the five are given musical instruments, no matter what they take, they play the guitar, the piano. they bought home and sat down to play the piano. we have these drums. he's on drums on everything . so there is a very dear memory of how my mother and i. how to explain something with my mother, in fact, that it was a native person. she always seemed to help me in everything, in general, without any questions, i directly felt, just a native connection from her. here it is. well, they always talked to her often. it even happens at night when she always gets up, even, when i feel bad at night. she always gets up, even
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at night we have a pill there. i remember, i always lived with my mother, then i appeared. that's all, he immediately began to call dad, then he completely forgot about it, i rarely remember anton for me as a father and the head of me in general, as if dad for me, for example, in his firmness in his steadfastness in his character. with its firmness, this one here. no matter how he gives up, he never always fights to the last, even when his mother was sick. here he is not. all the same, he was always with her, he was always fighting even traveled to another country for treatment. here is his masculine hardness. here is an example for me. but i wanted to ask you, uh, six children in your family, their mother anya, and somehow you came up with, how? remember mom. just
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recently, literally, our father also died and it was his birthday and we were driving. let's go to the cemetery. and it so happened that my dad was buried right here, well, you can see the grave they and my children they say, let's go to mom. let's go to mom's, that is, and we drove up to mom. i'm at the grave go out to well, 10 meters from her father, buried anya, and they say this, well, everything is littered with snow there. i say, well, i'll come myself. here, wait. it's like everything in the snowdrifts is not like that, and they're all . well, that is, they are, well, and so, as if we even have photos somewhere at home. yes, there are houses somewhere. that is, we are there nothing like we don’t remove it anywhere and the children will have an album. here is our mother, there are girls, even though they always saw little mom. but already count, time for them how many were more than two year was when mom did not become, yes, that is, they are different, who is mother luda who is mother, who just
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call? in general, even well, not me. so here is her mother, mother, here, straight, in general, now, in general, to talk to her, that only mother is all. in his youth , anton was a prisoner of drugs and alcohol for several years. i somehow realized that she sowed her time i was 23 years old, that i probably did so much evil. well, anton and lyuda, their close relatives, took two children to their family , a mother who died, no one offered us, because they thought, well, well, for us there are so many children, how can we still take them. there, no one could even think of dressing the daughters of triplets in everything the same. this is not a parental whim. this is a severe necessity, we were told that the children are all dressed in the same way in different clothes, they try in different ones, they all start to fight in some different colors. there all they tragedy goes. yes , difficult happiness anton and lyudmila kudryavtsev. yourself
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big but a common child or where nine there and fifteen, what would seem like what small things i think you know that the fourth month of pregnancy. wonderful. and if the throne again, now, it seems that you already have ultrasound photos? when we just got married, i said that when we still had seven children, i said, no, anton says everything, well, there must be a joint child, i said, no, are you saying so bluntly enough categorical, then i say, well, maybe five years later, but not earlier, and then when ksyusha and pasha were taken away, and i felt so ashamed of something, i think, i think, i have never even seen them and agreed to take him. i myself refuse. something was embarrassing. i say, i agree, she generally
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says. you know, i wanted to ask you, of course, you have an absolutely amazing story, it is simple, but it is amazing at the same time, because i always think about the fact that in our days so many people suffer from loneliness, but it seems to me that this problem arises from the fact that there is a very large egoism, we all set a condition, when these conditions do not match, then you remain alone, which allowed you. for example, luda understand that these conditions do not exist. i used to be so fastidious, i want to tell you, and, probably, the moment has come when i generally rethought my life. and i really wanted to meet a person who would be, well, on a par with me in everything in a financial situation in some outlook on life. and just like that i met anton at this moment, when you are walking with a foster child. and he's with you that's just living. this little one is different than what you do with your child. you are really
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on to something. and probably inside you you get some here. well, the meaning of life is some kind of satisfaction and joy that you do not get by purchasing some things there, going to the store, earning some large amount of money there. that is, i sort of earned and had everything and understood that this does not give so much joy. and how much it gives you that you step over yourself and do it towards someone who needs you especially and boldly about her. you could say she made her life. she is only 22 years old, but she has never seen her face young. katya was born with an incredibly rare with premature aging syndrome, there are only a few dozen people like her in the world, a tiny, fragile girl with the face of an adult
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woman. she never lost heart and learned to accept herself for who she is, but she always dreamed of having plastic surgery in order to be the most beautiful at her wedding and fate heard her. for 16 years, catherine underwent many operations. and after a while she met him her real prince. and today they will be able to raise two sons with denis and enjoy family happiness. alone with everyone ekaterina non-zhentseva. i am very glad to welcome you to our studio, because. you have also made a long road, as if to moscow. although it may be a pleasant road for you, and in general. you are a relatively frequent guest on television, so to speak, it was more interesting to you once showed, yes, and from time to
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time invites you. can i ask an indiscreet question for a woman? yes, but nonetheless. here is your history is such a fundamental question. how old are you? today is 22. and you, uh, are a unique person. i would have said, because there are such people in the world, well, the numbers vary, but i heard, so to speak, one of the last figures is already 80 people in the world, in general, there are such people in total. yes, and the disease is such a failure, as it were, some kind of there. i know, there is some kind of genetic chromosomal, but it has the name progeria, and it is divided into two directions ; yes, it's like a person ahead of the curve. e time by and large, as it were with mom's diagnosis is simply called flaccid syndrome. androgere skin is when people, well, completely all, and then they quickly, as it were, die. you are
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an absolutely amazing person, i must tell you, because since you have already seen some interviews with you and listen, there you read some interviews that are not amazing in your life of love and your most diverse. statement that there is a muggle disease that i hmm i don't know i'm a confident person. i am a beauty. there and so on and so forth, i think what an amazing woman what, but the inner strength in you you somehow had to have in yourself. grow is a resistance effect. no, it’s just that since childhood they’ve been setting me up that i’m not the same person as everyone else, so, no matter how you should pay attention, my grandmother even said such words, what makes you think that you are not like that? maybe we're not like that. and you are such as god created, as if, that is, there were even such words and, as it were, well, really, here are my my
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diseases, it is somehow, but there is such a core in me. here, as it were, what not to break, but you were born, so no less still, so to speak, it was not immediately clear that how to determine your illness, your loved ones were worried that this might affect the fact that you will have an extremely short life. i don’t know, they took care of you in a special way, yes, as it were, because when they started everything, it turned out that i had such a disease started by doctors, as if everything and so the doctors made a diagnosis. i’m in a camp where, as it were, children, unfortunately, they quickly pass away, and so your mother said that you would live for four years, they said, then up to 14 here, in my opinion, the most maximum was that he would live up to 14 and that's it. uh-huh well, somehow i didn’t really want to believe in it, especially my relatives. as close to mine, because, well, a child and somehow losing him, of course, is not very willing. not everyone,
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probably, a loved one wants to lose the sphere of some special attention to themselves, that from relatives, that they feared for you. and i don’t know, there, i was still small then and, as it were, probably, i didn’t realize more than, as it were. well them. this care, yes, this care, no matter how not especially. well yes, they loved me very much, because first of all , i was the first granddaughter of my grandmother, not grandparents. they simply doted on you from the bottom of their hearts. they spoiled you somehow, yes, granny constantly took you to her place. we went on vacation with her all the time. that is, everything is there. but, and when it became clear that your appearance is yours, that your appearance differs from, say, your peers. and it somehow came gradually, because, well, i somehow gradually understood this and i, specifically, in order to, like this, realize that this is all i am right
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like this at one point. i didn't have that. it somehow came gradually and i’ve been telling me again since childhood, how they set it up, here, that’s why somehow for me it was a sho to me. here there are girls whom this just happens overnight, that is, fell asleep, woke up something else, of course. yes, it's very difficult. and when that's right from the cradle. this is what is happening. it's not as strong as it is. well, and that one, so to speak, to a socially adapted child in this sense, that you went there for children kindergarten, school, etc. yes, yes, i also went along with everyone . uh-huh, and what is uh, so to speak, about children, there are very different reactions. yes, peers could be cruel and there or vice versa, they are used to you. and we have, as it were , a small village. and so we all went to kindergarten. naturally from the same age and
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somehow here, uh, my peers they somehow got used to me. so, and that is, they didn’t pay much attention when i went to school, of course, there are already new children and a new environment, as if they started there to show me something to poke a finger, of course, as if you come home, there you start to tell. mom goes to school, as if everything is fine. that is, such a mother, fighting yes, my mother begins to tell you cried you so to speak, hurt no to say that i cried. no , she just came and said that they called me names today, there and everything is a child there. well, how is it? grandmother was called names in different ways, that is, and here it is, too, somehow, all these names, then for me it's somehow. well, i don't began to pay attention. they also set me up that people of a narrow-minded, narrow-minded mind are talking about this, because they don’t seem to know the essence and
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so judge, as it were, well, this is also indecent, but one side of the matter. it's like this i don't know, child abuse, another country makes it be uh hmm uh, how do you say you had friends? you were in the same company at school, let's say, or not friends strayed. i had a lot, that is, at school. we had a company. we gathered there every break, we had our own group, so, then there are, as it were, well, normal, and still there are girls with whom there, as it were, the younger ones there is an older one with whom, as it were, well, you will see you there, on the street there you go to your mother? i am now unfortunately from my mother in another village. and so you come to mom, as if all your own, and now you see the edema as and how are you doing there? how are your kids? as if they are asking like this, that is, it’s normal, when you have already begun to match the growth, so to speak. eh, so to speak, well, quite an adult, and
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your appearance was ahead of you. your age was not desire to take advantage of it. i don’t know, i don’t know, go there and spend there, i don’t know, at the cinema, uh, which is up to 16. well, after sixteen you can only watch or no one contacted odnoklassniki come on , now you pretend that you are my mother or there is my aunt and come on let's get me out somehow. no, this didn’t happen, because everyone knew me, how would they know me even before television, i say it again, the village is small, so it’s a pity that it’s such a roll. it could have been some extra fun. here now we will listen to your mother, and then we will continue to talk. with her disease, but she was not insecure. so let's say, she was not ashamed of the fact that she was not like everyone else, she was very sociable and played with children in the kindergarten, and she could defend herself for being right.
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