and how do you catch up? oh, what are you too clever friend of the old woman on the run, ignat ivanovich betrayed that i wholeheartedly took the movie one tv presents from the harem they brought two new girls for your son, perhaps the sultan found himself a new fun to remind that she was born in a serbian princess was driving in the port, like the bride of the sultan if i called, you would already be dead. why all this janissaries? what are you at the table, like a ram molly has never seen a movie one tv presents us to help sister found.

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russia . i see such people from afar. very far.

no, you see, i wanted to. i want to have a family of children, but here. and here is a guy. i'm telling you nothing, you have a little shave. three weeks to hold on the sand by the sea, you still may well get children.

there are more and more planes around. so i say, you will run away to give something a coward. well, you're a crazy guy. also live, some even get better from it. and if you want, i'm all about you i will say. if you want, i'll tell you. or the guy just never loved anyone. you will be afraid for the children who are not yet. do you know this love?

happiness begins with madness if you are able to believe whores. you know, i held this happiness in these palms. of course. sip him. what are you beautiful? he has a little here. shut the vein he did not earn so much.

how long has my harry been a mechanic. listen , why don't you move there? do you think they will be there too? you know, i don't have enough money for this thing. if i get you tickets too a great place in the warm tolstaya gora, will you take it?

you go get it. will stand in exchange for what, as well as ticklish listen or maybe you have a devil here with a bag buying up your soul in taverns. it’s somehow scary to cheapen, you know my soul though? in addition to it, i just have it on me, i'll just give it to you. take it without money. take it thank you

no, you'd better go there go alone this hellish hole, i don't need to go there, no i'll burn here with everyone in case of anything. my mother always told me to drink evil. i doubt, really, that anything will fall to me from this heavenly half-time? do you know mister devil? i certainly want to see how all this dirt blazes. and my clients too.

are you naked, fools me someone. excuse me this and my drinking rules, empty stomach is the devil. i broke my whole soul. sorry

, wait, buddy, don't think a limistor will die in such a magnificent costume. i think so, if calmness is not worth it to you. here is a man without property. just dress him up dress. i'm not going to disturb you. i'll leave. i'm not one of those who interfere in other people's business. maybe i won't think about it.

shirt leave the water, very cold. thank you and i won't detain you.

are you afraid to age 200 years at once? she is 250 here it is written, and even terrible for me to look over 70, not only my friends are completely safe. up to 10% rejuvenation of their customers will take off oh my god, one ticket is 20.000. for god's sake don't think i'm trying to dissuade you. well, it's not scary for you to be alone at the end of the world, without friends. i don't even have anyone to look in the evening. we have all become accustomed to you over these 14 years. well, of course, i understand you, along with parkins, a little creepy for a person who is left alone. quite alone and forever with your happiness, do not pay attention to him. mr. mckinley, no crow's cawing can stop the progress of attention. so your ticket, here's your carriage

, everything is in its best form alone. you are given a dream in a colorful paradise. three centuries of uninterrupted cinema . but with underwear. so everything that is prophesied comes true, the train leaves for heaven on a happy journey. oh, how we want, how we all want not to die, namely, the earth platform, do not lose heart and do not scream, for our cries it is deaf. one of us went to heaven. he

will meet god there, after all, there is, probably, god, you said hello to him, and if you forget anything, we will survive. we have a few years left, we will play smart and die as expected. so everything that is prophesied comes true, the train leaves for heaven, a happy journey. oh, how we want, how we all want not to die, to sleep. they will leave, as we are in nothing without sleep, and the sons and grandchildren of the grandchildren for three centuries, god forbid that the war, but then we will leave the great-grandchildren in the fools, some type will wake you up and let you into the world, where in the past the war wars cancer, where you are defeated hong kong vulture on everything ready. you are a happy

fool. so everything that is prophesied comes true, the train leaves for heaven on a happy journey. oh, how we want, how we all want not to die, but to sleep. so farewell sorry call happy putin keep you from all troubles. what if there really is a god? and yet remember tell him hello. farewell to y farewell farewell farewell

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. the heroes of this story, you can sleep for sure, to say that the life of retirement not only does not end, it acquires new and most interesting, most unexpected colors and shades. lev nikolaevich bobrov is in our studio today. hello lev nikolaevich, tell me, is this some kind of special team. uh, in which you, uh, take part in many different groups in moscow, all sorts

of sick dances and historical dances, argentine tango, and i participate in all of them a little. i participate in all dances. and tell me, what is the average age of the participants in these groups, almost all pensioners, who are retired everyone goes to dances, i don’t know the choice of some new direction just when you retired, you thought i learned how to dance tango, yes. retired yes standard, so it is five dances of tango, foxtrot don't top it off for gardening, and then you know these arias, er, there are others. eh, sambo, rumba started very active dances. jive, please, also latin american all dances are dancing. that's the

thing. and why do you make such a choice it is this direction that happened, when you retired time became longer, the best time came to rest, what at home, or what to sit? what for? why at home? this is some kind of load of concern. you come to the dances, you get ready, firstly, you clean, you put on a shirt, trousers, you take interchangeable shoes with you. and how very good. and how old are you now, i am now 85 years old 85 years old. and you retired. i left. i don't remember even what year i came out in '75 . i went to a group there with a disability. and the doctors didn’t tell you, they say, just lev nikolayevich, you just need some kind of calm lifestyle, you better lie down, you better rest, they said more why, but why should he lie down? it is worse

to lose one's health in motion. one must always be moving. this is good and wonderful. that's the thing, new people to communicate and new you understand new acquaintances, what's the matter, who fear that it's the other way around? well, how am i, here’s the core, i’ll probably be in some kind of danger from this, have you had to convince anyone, because i’m on my own, so he’s worth walking together. i'm slowly dancing now. here, no big deal. well, what of this on the sly? how is your day? here you wake up, you wake up all these things, we do our own and by 10:00 am i myself go to the zlk to dance every day, so we have a standard monday, tuesday. we have historical dances, and historical dances, 56 dances. you need to know

all sorts of things there, that's the point, mignon's romance there. well, there's a lot back there, there are all sorts of french dances, 56 dances. we can say that you are engaged in dancing in order to maintain health quite right. yes, no life and health. interesting. live already interest some new acquaintances. you understand, the years look simply amazing, there are some complex elements in argentine tango that you were not given. you know how to work out, you have to dance with a partner. we always have time for this, so that the visa would be, of course, and what are capricious is not so, it is not so. yes? yes yes. and can you show me or maybe take me for some time as a partner in order to

show some element, maybe most of all you don’t need to do. mommy holds tight partner bye. here are simple movements

thank you very much, please. well, i'll tell you. you are in vain to yourself speak as if you cannot teach. you just take a partner in your hands. yes, of course, nothing happens right away, but they mostly dance people who are single or who have her here walks but the husband does not want she started at what age or

do you also have a family that supports you in this? yes, i'm lonely. i had a wife who passed away. and now i'm lonely. in a sense, dancing is your salvation. yes loneliness including from loneliness. and in general , i get great, great pleasure from this, great joy from these dances. i am everything is forgotten, everything goes into the past bad, only good ahead. try to be. and how much years, you feel yourself when i was. these 14 15 years have flown by like one month. right now, well, they passed so quickly, because here it is, well, you know, the whole week in dancing, you understand, in the morning from 10:00 from

10:00 from 9:00, and then i still skate on skates . but what about figure skates, i used to go on skates in paris too. we speak to 10 pairs of our retirees we traveled.

and can you imagine lev nikolaevich doing something completely new now, i don’t know how to learn any language yet. now argentina took up dancing. here i am argentine dancing. that is, if something new - this is only from the category of dances. and if it weren’t for the thought of age, maybe somehow they would have allowed themselves something new, well, a mistake, of course, all the partners

who know how to lose their daughter, as if close relationships, of course, of course, and it’s interesting to everyone sanatoriums to have a rest together to go. and in general, and today today you are happy. i am now here now today classes in the middle class old practice there yeah 4 hours today at 11:00 a class of historical dances of all that's what case lev nikolaevich thank you very much for our uh conversation. i would like before we parted. we want to bring a gift from our program to you for your activities that you are so passionate about. here are three butterflies oh great suspenders and white gloves what you need the whole set is everything that

anyone needs, yes, what are you currently passionate about, what are you doing. thank you, my darlings. thank you very much, they energize and inspire confidence that age is not a hindrance at all. for new achievements , it becomes more and more every year. my name is alexander alexandrovich kaptorenko, i am 102 years old, but since outwardly, they seem to be more than 75 and they don’t give me a seat on the bus and is not inferior to school. i played board we moved the desks. and

this ball was thrown for a change. i feel at my best around the table. i even feel like a man, because you understand my strengths enough to play, as they say, almost at full strength of the year, i'll tell you, they somehow pass too quickly. just a glimpse flashed, they do not burden me. and i have a woman friend. yes, uh well, we communicate with her alone to go somewhere to the theater to concerts. yeah, it's just indecent. here is my inspiration - i'll tell you life is life itself. my name is zoya nikolaevna

, i am 76 years old, once in my youth i received a serious sports injury, which chained me to bed, this happened in the pool during training. i jumped from the tower and went head-first into the interpolist's shoulder, when i came to my senses and, uh, they said that jokes over the bed are all this is a sentence. the first thing i had? yes, it's not with me with me this can not be, i have everything will be good. and the first step was a long one, learning to sit and walk all over again. well, a very active life after the injury. i started because i would like, like everyone else, i wanted to walk, i wanted to see, and such a positive is impossible. spiritual uplift from all sides i live alone, i rejoice, my children and grandchildren enjoy. eh, all right. in general , i consider myself, probably, the happiest.

the next guest of our program, vladimir yakovlev , is a man who conducted his own research among people aged 60+ and called it the age of happiness. hello vladimir hello, i'm very glad to see you. me too, and infinitely interested in your research , i must say, it is extremely inspiring and just curious in itself. and i would like to start with an immodest question. and how old are you? i'm 56

looks finances just luxurious thank you and how old are you i'm 45 look fantastic? ah, well, in general, at the age of 56, so in our country. yes, in our society it is considered that 56. but these are still men. in his prime. why would you suddenly be so interested in the problem of old age? i would say and uh hmm why such a study? that old age scared you and i was very scared, really. what exactly, and you know, i turned 50 at some point, and i realized that i was finished, like this, well, i was brought up in a culture, as we all generally say, like what, which is based on the idea that in 50 starts. in general, more or less, old age 50 55, well, how was it with our parents? yes, if you remember, it 's true, i remember that when my dad had his

50th birthday. it seems to me that we are also like him and i, therefore scared. i decided for myself to understand, in general, is there anything else for me to catch, if the meaning is to live on, if the meaning is to live on, does anything shine for me, in general, can i somehow influence what will happen to me? but because it's scary, because you know, give it as you say that people are afraid of death, death is not such a terrible thing. but, if you are serious, look at the last 30 years of life, yes, as it were, from fifty to eighty, then you look around there are people who feel great here. why, like lev nikolayevich, for example. and there are people at the same age who are practically in incessant pain is in well , i don’t know, this can only be compared with torture. it hurts a lot. very hard, very scary. yeah and i asked you, well, okay. but what shines for me, this or that, and is it possible somehow? can't i

somehow influence uh-huh well, somehow these are the first thoughts that come to mind, what is this genetics? well, what about genetics, all the studies that are generally available on this subject, they are all show that the dependence of what happens to us after fifty, and on genetics , is very, very significant. and by the way, you do not like the word old age. i don't like well, you know, i think that old age is basically a negative word. the most unpleasant thing is that when they say an old person, they mean that he is subhuman, that he knows the cult of youth. why , in youth, by the way, youth is a man. but there for 50 for 60 for 70 is old age. this is degradation. it's already wrong the last, say, 20 years before such a cult of youth , such a feeling of, uh, harsh conditions, like in sparta, when it means that old people were unnecessary, this just

happened before our eyes, and therefore everything is like that, all plastic surgery and everything else. it seems to me that this is so developed, because while you are young, you are needed, as soon as you are a little bit. yes, absolutely right. it's really. so it really is. so we're not on my mind. we do not see the situation exactly, because they generally say. there is what you call old age, that is a period of extinction, which is quite, naturally, in fact, it is no different from pregnancy. yes, because pregnancy is from the entrance to the world and old age and the entrance from the world. they are the same. naturally. it's not just that nature designed us to be young, mature and treat us. over the past six years i have met a huge number of people who are absolutely healthy at 70 and 80 or 90. absolutely it depends on what they do and how they live there studies. there are a huge number of premieres than just

people do not get sick, and at 30 and 40, and at 50-60 they completely recover, and in general nature gives a chance there, yes, if we correctly comprehend philosophically, yes, yes, then we will not carry the burden of the mistakes of youth . if you say, no, of course, on the contrary, listen, you know this beautiful phrase, if youth knew, if the old could, yes. do you know who said it, no? i said the french poet andreyan. so it was actually part of his epigram, he said it at the beginning of the 16th century, then he was 35 years old the thing is, now 50 is pretty much. the beginning of life for a very specific reason, because a moment comes when you are full of energy, because life is very extended. yes, and besides this, you also have, uh, life experience that you didn’t have before. and this is the point of combining life experience and energy. this is a brand new life period

this period. this is the happiest period of a person’s life, because not only those spoke to you, but those with whom i spoke, of course, and there was a great the number of people i've met lately. here is for the new book that i am preparing now, which i would like to touch on the specifics for a while, simply because the examples that i personally read in your and your book, while they give me some. astonishingly, i filmed such a beautiful guy whose name is valentin babich, who is well over 70, who was cured by dancing from, hmm, quite serious joint diseases that he had and she was brought to my studio. he had to perform. i was honestly afraid, because he dances 30 shake uh, here. i think it's all going to be such a spectacle. well, listen, he danced for 3 hours. so that the whole studio danced with him. i am including, he has fantastic plasticity. and this is not the man who elvis uh, grandpa. let's take a look at it.

my friends for several years in a row engaged in water tourism in the spring ended, so it is likely that after the hike in the summer. i felt pain in my back. it turned out that i have a complication of the joints of the flock to offer this patients with my diagnosis should be replaced with artificial ones, so titanium ones will now be why i need it, so i was still, uh, considered myself a strong healthy person. i think to me how many more inhabitants i will suffer like this. i decided then

that medicine can no longer help me. i decided that i had to get out myself. once sitting at home. i heard on the city radio that in the palace of culture of the persian plant, evenings of rest are being held by the stations. i thought this is interesting. why am i sitting alone at your house when people are dancing there? go see. move live sit hurt lie die. he makes such decisions in order to overcome you not the arcs that were with them, but someone does not get sick. and suddenly he decides to radically change his paradigm in general of his life to do what they have never done before, and wow, who do you think decides to do

this? this is a very life involved in this is a very, in my opinion, a very correct question. very good, because that's what impressed me the most. i don't know for the last one, it's been 5 years. i met probably, well 200 centenarians, maybe more people who are there 70-80-90 dancing moving now happy. and in general, but it's amazing. no , this is such a position, old age is not decrepitude. here are these examples implementation works. but what is striking in these people and what i felt after the first year of the train and it absolutely amazed me. listen, they are all exactly the same, that is, what they do, how they maintain their health, how they eat. they are exactly the same, regardless of human geography of education, because now we are all tense. yes, do not fall to the screens. so what

should be done. now i will tell you what to do. it's very simple clean, firstly, the problem is that we are not taught how to live after fifty. it 's true. yes, this is how you want, handle it, an absolutely specific set of history itself works. the absolute top is what helps the most. uh, especially in your 60s and something that no other health practice compares to, that's dancing. yes, actually, that's why they danced live longer go to this nikolayevich see how right you are. this dancing is no yoga no pilates. i'm talking about people now, not about what i would like to imagine. yes, that's about the people that i met, who are there in the nineties hundred, who are in a good state. and that's what they do. and, uh, paradoxical as a parachute in the world. today you represent several thousand skydivers who skydive over 80. i know absolutely wonderful guys who celebrated their

eightieth birthday by going to the airfield and jumped with a parachute. he himself is a sky diver and 80 times in a row without stopping. it was he who idly celebrated his family. yes noted. yes, here, and i have never yet. look what a big underdog i have after 50 when it comes to food. now i’ll say i’ll go, uh, they eat, they are all exactly the same too. when i started joining vegetarianism, i listen. when i started this, i was sure that now i will find a raw food diet, macrobiotics, nothing. and that they all, firstly, eat whatever they want. yeah. listen, they eat for fun everything is in a rush. here is the only limitation they have they eat little. and now, i would like to touch on one more topic. uh, there is still a certain stereotype in our society of how people look after 50 after 60. what are pensioners? what is the

word for old age? i would cancel the word pensioners and , uh, and i sometimes met on the internet wonderful collections of photographs of, say, elderly people, somehow fantastically original. which finds here is also a very original version and let's and we'll see now, and then we 'll talk about this topic.

he lives in the city of omsk. igor will come in handy, can you hear us? hello, igor is very glad to welcome you to our studio. please tell me igor why are you so interested in a person who is only 27 years old, uh, older people say that many hobbies are laid in childhood, so i had two hobbies in childhood. i love collecting dinosaurs. this is the first one, and the second one. i loved it butterflies. and now, perhaps with age, grandmother is catching

butterflies, and grandmother is such a form. proportionate to the length of human life to speak. seriously speaking, my interest in him was some kind of unconscious block from the beginning, he was called differently, and i did not set any age restrictions for my heroes. here, ah, but these were heroes, mostly people of my age, but how they dress for a generation when we are about, it’s clear that’s why i sent out quite quickly to this topic at some point. i just spread in front of me this entire archive and began to clean it out to choose what is not interesting to me and in the bottom line. what is called remained photographs of grandmothers. here igor tell me please, what is the purpose of the project? is it formulated? the goal of the project yes, in general, the goal is quite simple, i fix it. this is some photo chronicle of what older

people look like in russia, uh. can i ask questions? can? of course, yes, wildly interesting, because i saw your photos, and they are, uh, great am and posts, because i also take pictures of photographers, as if for his books. no, just really interested in what you're doing, say thank you. and you, and you dress up, you make lighthouses, you dress up your heroes, or this way they dress in reality in life is exactly reality. yes, i have only one heroine with whom we are very close friends. i can tell you later. and this is how people dress in reality, that is, in fact, i catch on the street almost by the hand. this is such an online communication, it turns out that your geography is wonderful, since you live in it is limited to the city of omsk. here is omsk and the suburbs, and whether you say so. travel all over russia and find travel experience in your characters . now the project covers here make no

mistake. six cities, omsk moscow st. petersburg first uh, izhevsk and ulyanovsk large geography. and how do people react when you come up to them and say, oh, you stand so fine. i'm a photographer. i want to take a picture of you. they are not afraid. they say why what is and what is it to me is not so, by the way, the story. she opened, my my personal some prejudice, probably, to these people initially. i thought this idea might even fail. that is, it seemed to me that pensioners. they are so non-contact that they are scared on the internet, but everything seemed to be the other way around, and probably, 98 percent of people agree and this part has broken some of my stereotypes about these people, of course, there are some incidents. but there are fewer of them than such stories when a person responds. it's towards. and what can you say about a person by his appearance, here some details tell you something. if you have

some kind of your own research, like vladimir's, some kind of sample has already been formed. what about what can be said? well, in general, clothing is, after all, some cocoon is an aura that we will apply outside there and we can say that a lot of things begin, from earning everyone to ending. in general, its state is internal, that is, external. in any case, this is an internal projection, but it happens that a person earns a little. and grandfather is incredibly stylish. such a lady, and, unfortunately, she receives a very small pension of six thousand. here, but if you see her on the street, you never think that she is by and large a disaster, because, but she looks more like a st. petersburg aristocrat. that is, she always has a coat. all well-groomed. here she says that the style just depends on the amount of money and plus you know too, but for my part, since i already

said that we will do in the age of happiness a book about appearance and sent them as well look after fifty. i'm just here to invite you not to participate. we will be very, very happy. if you are a primitive part and will be very happy with your photos. yes. i'm happy that this happened on our show. here is a cooperation be sure to write to me. let's publish it. yes, good apps. let's do it so let's organize a barter. if you meet, and there with good taste. you submit a project full of good stories. i will return you happiness will share. let's get the details. you discuss already when you write off. and now i would like to ask the last question in many. how do you imagine your own old age? or you don’t think about it yet, you are doing it, as an art project that interests you to

say very precisely that most likely, no, not exactly. this is an art project, but still it is very social, but in its old age. to be honest, i still can’t imagine in detail and exactly like this, but i feel i can imagine the state of society in which i wanted this age. it must be a society unlimited by some stereotypes, and in which i say the word in july that you would cancel the word old age, but i would not cancel it. i would like us to just switch attitudes to say e phrase. i was old, i was not ashamed. e wow. first of all, so that it does not form pity in any case. and, of course, uh, i would like to stir up such a story of old age so that i can successfully fit into the project come back thank you igor big. thank you thank you. thank you. wonderful guy

really stylish people on our streets, although it's true that it doesn't seem to me that it depends on money from uh money. it doesn't depend at all. well, then the attitude towards yourself that you have is generally difficult to influence with some kind of social. u, you know, money is one of the biggest stereotypes that exist, therefore, about the fact that a happy old age or a happy age after 50-60 years is only possible if you have a lot of money or, in principle, a lot of money, this is not true, 'cause you wonder how it overlaps a lot. you know, with some, but eastern philosophy, in part, which once pierced me. so i read that in japan, once upon a time there was such a principle when a 40-year-old man, if he raised children, had the right to leave a note at home that i had left, he changed his name and life. here are the life changes. 40 years of the then

japanese is yes. and i don't know how about leaving, but life changes are incredibly important things. it 's like new blood. it's like a new breath. this i don't know. this primarily concerns the brain, because that just recently ended, a huge, very deep, very serious study of the human brain, which clarified a number of age characteristics associated with the human brain. 70 years old. peak, peak development of the human brain, reaches 70 years. and here is another very curious thing that means that the ability to learn. even the ability to learn increases, the ability to decision. uh, contrary to what we think, complex problems are many factorial problems. the only thing. what loses the brain after fifty, it loses speed, huh? it was also interesting to argue, and

you made some conclusions that the most healthy conductors and dancers there are healthy or somehow the most long-lived, that there are a huge number of people yes, long-lived dancers and a lot of conductors before the conductor live for a very long time why does the conductor, and these are relaxed movement to music? this is conducting a dance, in fact. ok, it's like that we don't care uh hmm it's still moving to the rhythm of certainty but then a new job is what makes your brain work dance. this is what makes your body work properly . come out here, the key word is the key, the principle of pleasure is the key, the principle for old age. yes, it's a pleasure, as long as you er, that is, each period of life has its own task, and we are arranged in such a way that the solution of this task supports our existence, because it supports our learning in life there in youth. well learn when

continue to live there in 30 years. we realize ourselves this is the task of the age after 50 years. it 's the ability to experience joy in life on a daily basis. yeah, so joy in life and enjoyment is the key to everything. we 've got another, and a terrific, heroine who also gets. satisfaction with one's activity that doesn't stop age from continuing to enjoy it. let's see. is my name yakovlevna not 83 years old, it will soon be 84 on november 26, but in general, i somehow think that i am not quite yet the old one was still small, but i really dreamed all the time that there was some kind of car that i should drive. well, when i bought a bike. i

felt that it was like a motorcycle, a motorcycle, in general, the red line. passes through my whole life the car must be loved, as a woman you know, i'm through life. i consider myself a happy person. too bad, i'd still go. i am very pleased. these are examples from our stories, because we are talking about our, uh, elderly people, because in your books, so far, it abounds, of course, western examples and there is a temptation to say to yourself what? well, of course, there are other living conditions there, there is a different attitude of society. eh, it's comfortable there and you can afford to grow old with pleasure. and well, and so on and so forth, to say that there are few such people in russia, and i was amazed when i found out that there are actually a huge number of them there is such a beautiful woman lyudmila voronov in

novosibirsk she is well over 60. she. uh, you know what she's doing, she's in the triathlon. do you know what reinforcement is - it is the heaviest in the world triathlon. triathlon, which means that at first we have to swim almost 4 km. then on the bike without stopping 180 km, and then running 42 km - this takes at least 9 hours in a row. yes. here is lyudmila voronova, how old she is with us, she is 62 years old now, here she is participating in the triathlon, she is winning well, and so on, a question for you. here, and those stereotypes that live not only in our society. i would say it is becoming a global problem. the entire globe regarding what youth is good old age is bad, there and so on. this is true very clear. it's profitable, right? we do not imagine the scale of earning in old age. to what

extent old age is a business business is a giant business, pharmacology, uh, more than half of all pharmacology revenues. more than ten drugs for an elderly person, which we prescribe and which he takes in general, now there are two periods and it is very important to separate them, because there is a period from 55 to 75. this has nothing to do with old age in modern society. this is the absolute top. human life, when there is full of energy there is health. you just need to deal with yourself and absolutely everything is possible from the point of view of physics and the brain and anything, and you can give a million examples, he is there to boris lats. uh, well, muscovites are running a 10-kilometer ski distance of 10 kilometers yes, 10 minutes slower than the 26-year-old world champion. well, 75 years, perhaps in short, to be able to dream. here is another very important

point. i don't think we touched on this. you said in an interview that old age. uh, the main fear of old age is the fear of independence. you know, it seems to me that the main fear that exists in relation to old age. and most importantly, what needs to be overcome. this is what after 50 after 60 years. no matter how high-quality social structure it is, no matter how much the state supports you. and you find yourself in a situation where you are truly responsible for yourself. you are responsible for your own health, right? because if you're dancing there. if you do not study, you get sick, you yourself are responsible for your profession, because you either say no. i want to continue. i'll look for ways, or you say no, it's impossible to do it. it is forbidden. you are much more responsible for

your life than when you are 30 or 20. i am very afraid that the viewers who will watch our program will talk all the time, i don’t know, older people will talk there. yes, you don't know about life. here, try to get settled with us, the problem arises when, after fifty, you try to work the same way you worked, until the next follows. it does not work by the same method, the same principles and the same goals. so you need to change 50 years. er, what are you doing? and how you do it , then it will work. and you have overcome your fear. that's what you started 6 years ago this project for. yes you are fearless, look to the future my life around 50 has changed incredibly, including there is a financial point of view. uh, hmm i didn't have much money until 50 now. now there is practically no money, and i am completely different. working. i'm completely different relate to life. i can safely say that i am much happier now than i have ever been in my life. thank you very much, and for a lot of useful information. continue your

research, please, always a lot of fans, but i'm one of them. thank you very much. thank you. we are all used to the fact that our parents are our strong rear wall protection from troubles and hardships, no matter what happens. they will definitely understand, console and help correct mistakes and give good advice and as a rule. we are completely unprepared for what someday we will have to switch roles with dad and mom, learn to protect them, understand and console them, reaching a certain age. parents begin to depend on us, but out of habit continues to teach life. how to respond to their moralizing and not get annoyed. how to maintain normal relationships and not blame yourself for breakdowns. his relationship with his parents was

so difficult that he was forced to give up everything and leave his homeland forever. and only the departure of his parents made him think about what he did wrong because of the answer he went to the old people today his the environment is people over 80 and he has about a hundred of them shortly before his 50th birthday. he radically changed his life, he left the highly paid position of art director and went to lead a wood carving circle at a local nursing home on how to build relationships with elderly parents and live in peace and harmony with them, how to properly communicate with the elderly, understand them and keep calm. even when it seems that there is no more strength for it. alone with everyone alexander galitsky is glad to

welcome you to our studio. i understand that this is the number of observations of the elderly. it led you to the desire to somehow accumulate, or something, this experience and even write a book about communicating with them. yes, but in general this story, as if my relationship with my parents were complicated. i even left the country changed. yes, you changed the country because of complex relations, it is very difficult, how would it be, how would you tune in all sorts of days to others, you just didn’t understand a lot. there in mom in dad. at least a lot of love, but how would i say this. it was very difficult to understand each other and then when they left. i went to work with the elderly. it seems to me that your as yet unpublished book may ultimately be extremely in demand, because it seems to me that you are making some such revolutionary

discoveries. seriously, i say, now they are absolutely not joking, because from old age they usually speak in an aspect. what medical? yes, and no one understands this topic, like with psychology, and no one takes the liberty of it. and we all tell each other to you, maybe in a cafe we ​​tell that i don’t know there, mom, that’s how you behave, dad, he made tree-sticks, when they are there, i don’t know, they annoy me or how they brought me climbed into the blog and began to look. here is what you are saying, just a huge number, as it were, of people experiencing a huge number of people suffering, there is no way out. that is, there people share some of their misfortunes and do not understand how to deal with it. uh-huh, in the same place, in general, when you begin to realize that time is moving along another elderly person, let's let him get up, get up from his chair and walk to him this is for him this job is the time for me and for me

this is when it started to reach me, that is, let's say i call someone there in the apartment. yes, i say, where is vasya, where is he, why hasn't he come yet. he says he's out. i say, well, he will come now. no, well, in 15, if you don't come in 15 minutes, call me. he needs to walk along the corridor, go down and go in, that is, as if time flows differently, for example, it is harder to stand up than to sit down. this must be realized. we need to understand this in order to to communicate with them, each of us is afraid of their old age. and so i think, e became the rest. so i wanted to ask, yes less. i'm already in the first place, i know that i will definitely have a walker. i already feel, well, i understand that when you look at these people. well, it will probably be so, that is , we also have our own illusion of old age, so they grow old. and i'll be hoo. i have a way to look at myself. there in 20-30 years. and so, in general,

this is an interesting way, because, of course, of course, yes. well you think, well, nothing there okay, well, yeah, handle pretty dangerous. uh, history is wood carving. in general, it's like this is the old carving. what is it like? i don't know, because i actually did it there. i was the director. in general, i did it, so to speak. how to say so? uh, computer graphics for a very long time. and when they offered me i also said that this is impossible at all, because there are sharp tools, hammers, boards, and a crash there, so to speak, all of the whole work. so he gives, of course , here, so to speak, a very big incentive to these people. feel yourself. this is exactly what you understand, all the theater, in fact, comes to me, because it’s good for everyone that you need to understand relatively speaking, having elderly people in your house, in order not to run into trouble with them there. well, we have scandals for quarrels

just one thing. you have to see yourself in it. if they hiss at you there, if they say some kind of hissing at you, like this one, uh, it’s not because you’re not to blame. you are not to blame for anything. just to say it, it so happened that you fell under a hot hand under a hot crutches. i say, well, yes, and that means, as soon as you, you understand, this is the uh reason, then you start, as if this character is sorry for something, as if, you understand, you are not angry with him. you can't get angry. you must be absolutely calm, as if no emotions and real ones are possible. that is, you can manifest. how would love, yes, well, respect love is warm, but in no case should negative emotions be experienced, they can be played there, play anger to play, but in no case be angry. that is, as soon as you know what to say, everything

becomes very easy, and old age is when from your point of view or an old woman, it is since when is a six-year-old woman swimming there five styles in the pool? well, she's definitely not an old man, but she, in my opinion, is not an old woman, yeah, here or there, i don't know that i have 101 years old. that is, it means you can see better, he could come to me and continue to demand wood. i don't know, he says that a person can live to 130. well, yes. i generally say that the one who is engaged carving maintains forever. i think that it may be a little easier for you than interactions, albeit with a huge number of, so to speak, elderly people, but you are still not a relative. yes, this is such a distance at which you can look and put up with this fading. after all,

probably one of the reasons for our e difficult showdown with our elderly parents and grandparents is that we don’t want to. humble we want them to be strong it's like that. i don't know how to say it's simple such. hmm, such a natural phenomenon. yes, you are not you, you may want, you may not want, you can say so with him. well, you can’t fight with him, because you don’t have one. you cannot win. so you, as it were, just need to realize and understand and how to give a person, uh, how to be yourself, that is, to understand that these children's games that they play are important. no matter how strange they seem to me to us, and to see these here in this oldest man of your father, whom you idolized there, and the mother who raised you there. yes, but say nothing to do with it. that is, it just needs to be accepted somehow, and we,

uh, in general, we are engaged in this book , and i kind of explain about it. so, like these, uh, these paths, why is this all happening? and yes, it does answer specific questions. why do people, for example, sit on a bench and watch? in the distance, why is it important to them, they are looking for impressions that are necessary, that is, just like us, it is also easy for them, in general, ways to find ways to say in absorbing the impression, because that without reading impressions in general is much more important than some kind of physical gifts, so to speak, or something like that you, uh, write, and old people are people who can easily eat you up and just start opportunities. why don't i know? the fact is simple, behind which you have a part, you are a weakness, this is how such a law was pure as soon as it means

anger begins, you begin. this is the very thing. this is the very thing that starts you in this place, that is, in no case should you show that something like that has stuck into you, some kind of hooked, somehow you can not show. well, i have people. i know exactly what they love. i know for sure that they come, because they feel good and still they tell me the usa is a chisel, not sharp. here, my son, you did not sharpen the tree. you specifically gave me such a hard one so that i couldn’t succeed. you think well, well, well, well, well, how are you? well, you understand that, yes? ok then. you just take the situation somewhere there, try not to pay attention to me, not to think about it, and take it and take it away. where is this? well how is it such a kind of, uh theater such. why do old people do this? what do you think, well

, for example, i had such a story, when an elderly woman, uh, and just the doctor advised that the pressure stabilized to get nervous, told this story comes the cleaning lady. yes, her grandmother is not removed here. it hasn't been removed. so, why are evil spirits here, well, more than 7 months. and there , like a fish, yes, he does not know what it is. well, grandma takes it. here is the device. well, the doctor was right. everything is fine. personal experience made him change his attitude towards elderly people, in general, this story, as if my relationship with my parents were complicated. i just didn't understand a lot. here in mom in dad and then when they left at all, i went to work with the old people, what kind of world is it through the eyes of an elderly person, when you begin to realize that time moves

differently for a difficult person, let’s let him get up, get up from his chair and walk to him it's for him. this is work. this must be realized. i need to understand this for us in order to communicate with them, he gave up everything to lead creative circles in a nursing home sharp tool. hammers there are boards, yes there is a rumble, so to speak, all this gives all the work, of course, here, so to speak, very large. these people are motivated to come to me because everyone is doing well alexander you write quite a lot about the need to transfer the conversation to other safe topics. eh, and what do you need to study for this? this should be trained, relatively speaking, before your parents, er, in this one, let them age so much that you, therefore, will have to apply. and how is this what it means to translate conversational security on how to train it? as what kind of manipulation, so such

communication was the first to come up with. that's all the psychological analyzes of the situation right up to there. i know there is, so to speak, a showdown on the street. there is no smoking allowed there. you don’t have it, everything is there, that is, there is some sort of, so to speak , psychological uh, such a prelude to something yes, and as soon as a person enters this one, so to speak, the question answers, understanding perfectly well that a lantern is waiting for him under in the end. you need it, like it's the same for me. yes, as soon as you begin to understand that this question will lead you to a dead end through questions, then you need to physically change this story somehow, yes, that is, come up with it. some kind of move that abruptly changes the subject, which i know there, there, so to speak, and leave this dangerous place, because, for example, i really love it when they start talking to each other. it's like at this time at this moment you can relax. it seems to me that a lot of older people tend to throw in enough

provocative topics in particular the conversation about death. this is what confuses, but usually children and grandchildren. like when i'm about to die, i 'll die. what to say at this point is it a dangerous topic of conversation about death or is it quite safe? she is very safe, that is, firstly, it is not very fond of talking to ricky very much. this is what we are afraid of. but for them it is not. uh scary. no , it's not scary. if the people who tell me, i'm not afraid, in general, so to speak, the elderly get tired of living and death is perceived as such a psychological physiological act, which, in general, is here tomorrow, here he is in the corridor and it ceases to be some kind of dramatic, very difficult act, in general, the station is like that. and how do you talk to your a-a students about death, if they talk to you, well, i

literally have to go far. i was still working there yesterday, right? and so they say, here we are now , now we are with you, then we are going to the cemetery, which means that two people died today. that is, it is absolutely everyday, like this, yes, to say, well, now we'll work out, then we'll go. yes, i say, you know how in my meets there i come. it 's good looking. so tanned, he tells me every day in the cemetery in the fresh air, and israel and such a very specific sense of your humor. i would say invincible absolutely grandiose. and you can afford to joke about this topic? yes, of course, i do understand my position. i'm their teacher. yes, i can corner them. i can't put them down because it's hard for them to get up. and, in principle, how could i punish there. i say,

listen without parents, don't come, just read something like that, for the next lesson. eh, i don’t have such a breath, that is, no, so to speak. here is grandpa yes, such a grandfather. well, this is such a person. we work together with him. we are with him, i look at eye level, as if we have such an expression, yes, so to speak. well, uh, i'm not looking up and down and up. and we look the same. what do you think, and the child of your parents? eh, it is possible to overcome this priority, and the authority of an adult who has grown old, to to whom yes, i behaved like this with my grandfather with my i remember what to say like this. uh, my grandfather 's favorite was like that. here is the food. uh, what do you sort of put yourself on, you kind of understand, these are all the problems. yes, you try to understand, you can’t understand them, well, you try to understand all the problems, health, all the problems that are accumulating psychological severity and that’s it. all you raise yourself up to this age, and he

lowers himself a little at this moment. you become his friend. and you can't be you can't speak to you it is forbidden. eh, as soon as it starts like this, say e so polite while breathing like that. yes, that's to say, it's bad capricious. they, they don't want friends, i need respect, so to speak, and i need less than just love and some kind of, so to speak, uh, human relationship. exactly. you understand friends, friends leave, and they have a friend. yeah, and in principle, any of the children and grandchildren can become a friend, you don’t have to argue with the old people. but what if the parents there want something, i don’t know, there is either mom or dad something that is not needed. i don’t know that my mother has diabetes there.

she can't have sweets, because it's dangerous. something. i don't know how to do it, but i have to tell e to argue, because she will grab it anyway, she will take it anyway. uh, well, you need to look for some more more creative approaches. i once my mother-in-law, for example, steamed in the microwave to drink. so we just bought a new thing, smeared it and passed it off as support. yes, because if it were new, yes, very dear, and so smeared. she said we have what all the people around were dirty. not like that, right? that is, creativity solves problems, they enter into this butting into memory huge in that we don't really want to.