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he is only 7 years old, and he has already won the hearts of millions of chinese people after appearing on local television in an entertainment program. yes gordey knows, the dialect of guangzhou knows by heart 555 chinese idioms masters the difficult art of calligraphy this miracle child speaks and writes in five languages ​​has a second rank in chess his biography sings and plays the guitar perfectly

so far, which fits in one sentence. born in moscow and brought up in china, where his father evgeny kolesov has been living with his family for almost 20 years. evgeny has four children and each child develops his abilities according to the system of home schooling, individually developed for each father today alone with everyone, the little child prodigy gordey kollisov and his dad evgeny kolesov zhenya hello, but somehow we didn’t really introduce you, we introduced you to a greater extent your son, and the viewers of channel one have the opportunity to watch you in the opening program of china yes and uh, before talking about your unusual method of raising children. uh, i would like to know, and how did the chinese skid. i was 14 years old. i wanted a bike. in the summer , boats sailed along the amur to china. and they told me that in

china everything is 2 kopecks. it is worth it and so many of us think with ourselves a little money went to buy lesoped bought five pieces. indeed, respectively 3 kopecks. they cost. yes, i had very little money. i am i counted on one, but a good one uh-huh well, five of them, so i brought four of them and sold them for 14 years. yes, yes, i sold. i had a great bike. and so , i it was in june, uh and the rest. august while i was on vacation. i drove. uh, in china, he turned into the smallest shopkeeper, probably from the entire young delegation. that's how i liked it, china. i realized that you can turn around here. well, now let's get back to the pride, which made an impression not only in china, but already on a million internet users, so say in russia in general gordy and your project. but if the son is a project, then yes, he is my project. well, as

if his every step is actually, when we first posted the videos on the internet. i got a lot of theme addiction to post more stories. yeah, at least 100 people that i know have started learning chinese as children themselves, and they all send me questions. how to move. how to do what? how are you doing? why not? gordiev what happened to him? where did you share it? they didn’t take him away or there are chinese triads somewhere there, that’s why i posting. it's probably more of today it's more of a motivation. yeah, for other people it's good, and what opinions are most often because the internet the thing is, so to speak, anonymous, but to a large extent. uh, you heard about gordey and yourself after such a stunning popularity that has surged. well, not the most partial, maybe some kind of envy is present, of course. uh, the kindest of them is a childhood dad. whoa boy. it is necessary to save the boy knows five languages, and the boy plays chess. at

boy. there is no childhood that you answer or do not go to the answers. so what is this person to say? take a vitamin. go to the doctor, let him make an injection. and gordey, how does he cope with the surging popularity, he doesn’t feel it at all, he knows that to him, where we are going. there the airport is something else there, shops come up to it and take pictures. he's used to it, he smiles. he knows that he needs to put on a smile on duty , and to do this, some ask there to kiss and hug. he says no his name is for all sorts of shows after this exit and the victory. and in this show there are about twenty offers. we got all of them denied. why? well, because it's time. hey producers. it was the first chinese channel, and it is difficult for them to refuse. they found a phone. they came. they arrived, went straight to the entrance, said we need him, he is my son. yes i spoke my project and told them. i have copyright and yes, but still, when you

look, this is a performance. uh, gordey, it seems that, well, this is some kind of easy man, of course, to here are 550 idioms, and they are easy serious, of course. try to get your child interested in something. and how long will it last. it needs to be constantly nurtured and constantly directed. in what transport? please tell me, zhenya, so that a child of 6 years old knows 550. go memory, develop memory. why, because it is needed for languages. why are languages ​​needed? and so here is a stupid now built chain, which means that there are seven languages. why chess also does not need a rubik's cube, there is always some kind of perspective. uh eat for something. yes, there is development. this is the intellect. it 's a person's skill at the very beginning of memory and, uh, building a relationship of memory is a quick decision, well, that's all, well, how to say the same quick

reaction. yes, why did we introduce the cube, and gordey really likes to play blitz blitz is when there is a minute or 3 minutes for the whole game and you need to think very quickly and work quickly with your fingers, and he says, like dad, i can’t work quickly with my fingers. so i say, let 's try the rubik's cube, motor skills are developing very quickly cool and so he began to learn how to collect a two there. god why? by the way, how do you explain the question that is often asked, i have to ask too, although it's been a while since the guardian spoke, why didn't he blink, it felt like he was a little over zombified. well, just very collected. uh-huh and when he concentrates. he really can not blink for a very long time. well, plus there is another special forces technique when you know, snipers can not blink for 30 minutes, so you also teach well, i’ll say no, i accidentally found out i opened the book he read it to me well, you have a very

strong military theme. maybe you are preparing for some serious military action. hmm, we're ready. you personally, as a family, i personally, as a family, and personally, as a person myself, i am always ready for military operations, for example, he motivated that he needs to know a lot of languages, because he said that if suddenly something, if i am behind enemy lines, like a scout. i'll never be recognized as a russian. don't know. i think it's all made up. we watched the movie just and there uncles in german uniform approached the same uncles spoke german, then all of them. uh, they shot down and that's it. and he says, papa, who is this? i'm talking about a scout. i say i want to be scouts. i say they know many languages. let me also know many languages. i say it's hard, it's not necessary. let's catch the wave, i wonder what is imposed. the most important. yes, that's the whole point. aha. and why are there so many competitions in which gordiev takes part? well, competitions are coaches who insist on chess. uh, andrei anatolyevich baichuk flew in to train him with the seven-time world

chess champion among the disabled. uh-huh, a very powerful grandfather. and he says theory in chess is one thing, it's all worthless without practice, so competitions are needed. put it first. i do not insist on the first place. i say that this is aspiration, but you are definitely upset. i say that if you participate in competitions, you must make every effort to be first, second, third - these are not places. but what about with parental praise, and i praise. i praised, i say, you're done. you took. third place. it's not exactly shameful. that's not bad. this is a good medal. third place metal. we don't have much in the house, so it will come in handy. and this is for a year. i brought him this love to the first place. here we were at the competition, when he does not get the first place, but in general, sometime he cries, maybe a year ago. uh, there were also some competitions. he literally deflated there in the final, playing at the first board , there were important competitions. here he was blown away and went out and

i look at him, i say, what is it, and he has some such eyes in a wet place, what is called do you want to cry? crying will be easier. i directly provoked him myself, he cried and hugged. i asked him to approach this man to remember his face in order to show him where the crayfish will be in the next competition. i want you and i to digress a little now and listen to anatoly wasserman, since he was also a child prodigy, and my parents also discovered my abilities in childhood. i myself was. the status of a child prodigy with all the complexity that comes with it. the main of these difficulties, i never learned how to work. for a long time, seriously and stubbornly over one and the same among those prodigy biographies

at different times, many of them failed to pass from the miracle of children into the miracle of an adult, it seems for the same reason, because they were not ready to work seriously and for a long time now. i can give any child prodigy only one piece of advice from my own experience. it is very difficult to pass from the miracle of children to the miracle of adults, because more is always expected from an adult than he can give, and in order to meet these expectations, one must, firstly, be able to work not

only on what happens by itself. secondly, do not be frightened and do not break if some expectations are not met. well, strictly speaking, yes, but these dangers that anatoly speaks about, you are usually aware of them, are a child who is involved, who does not go to school, that's all, that is, every child certainly has these abilities, of course, just any absolutely i am my system arranged by four whales. yeah, this is food, this is love and discipline he is accused of all mortal sins, the father of the despot of the boy. it is necessary to rescue the boy knows five languages ​​the boy plays chess. at the boy. no childhood. he has his own method of motivating links victory and i praise, i praise, i say, well done, took third

place is not quite a shame. but it's not bad that chinese journalists are hunting for his son. they came right up to the entrance, they say we need him, like him and i need a project evgeny kolesov you have, what kind of legal education did you skip lessons. i was more interested in going to second grade. we have announced a competition for the collection of waste paper. i once walked with my dad, which means that it was in khabarovsk along komsomolskaya square, in my opinion, there he showed me the building and says, this is something that is being built by citizens' project. i say there 's a lot here. i say what is he doing here? he says he produces waste paper. it was a few kilometers from the school, probably six or seven kilometers, and i remembered about the waste paper, and they gave a box of ice cream to the class, and i am the captain of the star. and, that is, you have always been a leader. no, i was the leader of the star class rep. i lacked

a little brutality, at that time. so i went collecting waste paper. i took it from the caretaker. i came i say, hello, i am the captain of the star, and we collect waste paper you have, they said there is at the state farm, i took a wheelbarrow and with a wheelbarrow, so i went loading. and so i went like this for a whole week, i skipped classes, but i collected 2 t 100 kg of waste paper alone. and what else can you remember from the maximum results from the maximum from childhood or already from the creators, but whenever you like, let's go through these notches in your life to the institute. i did. i do not know to tell, although 10 years have passed. yes, i was told, then, to 10 years. i didn’t talk about it, so i’m acting as a scout. well, as you are a scout, they say he is a scout. so, i do. or rather, i decided to go to china and i’ll talk to you you will go to china, but there is

no money for a fee, so if you want to go to china you enter for free you compete to their fact. here i go for my exams. we had a professor, in my opinion, lanchakov, which means that i ask exams in his office, all two asperantos, and he is at the table, which means that i drew a ticket for three questions. the first one is known, the other two are not. so, i am answering the first question. i will answer answered brilliant and here i am delaying specially i do not want to proceed to the second of the call phone call. hello i was lucky to have a wife. they were about to go to the country. the whole scandal who why what will go, and i began to sculpt just nonsense. just completely different another answer began to answer and i hear the edges of his ear that he is there, he says so two or three meters i control both his conversation and these two comrades. and they have such things - they do not understand what this guy is doing. he hangs up. i say, this is the answer to the

third question. they look at each other at me. he asks them how he answered. i think, well, just tell me something. say it's great. say this guy is great and says complete answers well? this is a five. i think yes, yes. it turns out that you have an amazing talent as a combinator, that is they remembered where the waste paper was taken from the wheelbarrow, as it were, yes, and so they collected 2 tons. i mean, you're very enterprising, eh, but that's ignorance, that's different. yes? why would you suddenly, yes, you have such a crazy idea that you are proud to become the best in buildings, but i will tell you one more such moment. uh, when i studied in khabarovsk and graduated, uh, and in china at the same time. i then transferred to moscow i entered the university and in the

same year and a year later, i became the laureate of two all-russian competitions for scientific works hmm yes, then i have gone into science. i liked it this great. with all these, you are not dealing with science. now you are in business. it is better, yes, to say about children's education, yes, and about children's education, one spy novel and one business book. hmm, three at once, which is already small, as calculated. your program for 5 years for proud of what he should achieve you know the year hmm means well programs, as such i'll say some such. here it is not unshakable, these are most likely landmarks more landmarks, but we must approach languages ​​in languages with a good base for professional study. yeah , since 12. well, now we are learning five he. well, he needs japanese with italian rubber time. i explain to him he wants. well, probably to seven, probably will be uh-huh that's how you need to approach this

period with a good base. well, in chess, probably, there will be some achievements; he has something there at the level of a master of sports. you will probably already be playing. uh, we had plans to do judo. verbey. wants to do judo. hmm he likes all these somersaults all sorts of bookmarks fooled. yes in everyone needs to be the first, because if a man's such a position. that is, if it's your something you get involved in, it's only so it's a responsibility. it is respect for oneself, for one's family, for one's country. if you go for something, you must die, but make the maximum result. that's it. you, as a scout, talk like special forces. you know, the main rule of special forces. you don't have to die for your motherland, you have to live for your motherland. let's wean a little now with the pastor andrey banchuk, who trains just more proudly in chess literally from the first minute, that is, we began to communicate, and i also tested his chess

ability. and in general, they turned out to be above average without a doubt. everything worked out very well for him, he grasped it very quickly, he liked it, that is, his assessment immediately increased. and i did not notice that there was some kind of pride. a special noodle. he is just a very smart developed child and he liked the way i understand the game itself. this is my talented, malash connected. everything seems to me, i don’t see any boundaries or ceilings for a child’s development at all, especially since a parents invest very large intellectual material efforts, where in russia, therefore, it seems to me, what to talk about some limits, i think chess, he is able to achieve the greatest success. i'm not a prophet, i can't tell if he'll become a world champion, but i have no doubts that he'll become strong. how did the idea of

​​homeschooling for all children come from logic more efficiency? yes, you know, we gave them away, sort of to kindergarten, but they, uh, they were like for six months, and all six months they were sick. hmm, i didn't like it. i am i went to kindergarten. i looked at them there terrible conditions, it's cold there. uh, they sleep there in clothes. i took them. i think okay, i will prepare a home program and start studying at home. i looked it up very effectively. it's expensive, yes, that is, you write out the best teachers, well, the world champion in the rubik's cube. yeah we had the chinese last year in chess. here you go, blue red. okay 12 years for example, or a little earlier, gordey or other girls, they tell you that papa will tell us everything well enough. more. we walk we are proud to come to the competition. why

was he six and a half, milanochka is younger than his sister. so, says dad. i want a medal too. uh-huh, i say, well, play tennis there. you are doing it. no, i want chess. clearly come on chess you definitely like the move - it's a dull boring game. she says i want. no , okay, if you want, let's get them started. she worked out for about four months. the coach says it's hard to go. i say honey. let's leave chess. they are so uninteresting. no, i want to i say it, as if we will be engaged in noah noah noah. she comes and says, dad, i don't want to play chess anymore. i say, thank you lord a few another look. they don't have to be first, or they shouldn't. they must be smart , beautiful and cook well. so the girls now how much i remember now. 5 4 and a half did not

confuse anything. yes, and what do they do, which are 5.4 and a half? i think, less degree, while still knowing the languages, the girls are engaged in milana with agate for him , their main sport is tennis. so they draw definitely languages. the same as gordeiki chinese english french spanish. and they have separate teachers uh-huh, that is, in chinese, each has a separate one in french, they study together ah. english separately, that is, two girls and gordey separately and also spanish. why not? his educational system is built on four pillars. this is sleep, food is love and discipline. he believes that you need to win everywhere and always it is a responsibility. it is respect for

oneself, for one's family, for one's country. if you are you enter into something, you must die, but make the maximum result. he finds a way out of any situation. i started sculpting just nonsense. just from another completely different answer began to speak to answer. they look at each other at me, he asks them how he answered and says full answers well? this is a five. and my mother is with you, i mean, your wife agrees in everything, or sometimes she whines and says, children, my poor and unfortunate people are tired of this. no, of course there is no such thing. in general, i consult with her. after all, children are only 95% my 5% of hers, so i listen to her opinion. yes , what are you saying? and so it is from what you calculated that ninety-fifth of your fabric seems, that is, not 50 to 50. well, of course, 50 is what kind of deal should

be. clear and clear. benefits clearly clearly mother's place in the house in our house is very high very good. you do not think that our mother does not have a word. mom has authority over us, even dad mom is sometimes afraid , it can’t be gone. uh-huh it didn't work. well , such questions. i always listen to e about teaching education. i always but the kids know that i am generally a moderately severe person, so i sometimes ask her to talk. like the mood. do you like this teacher? what is he doing? so what's wrong? i myself ask, sometimes i try to explore something when it doesn’t work out. she asks, in general, she supports me in all these issues. and what does she do work little by little works wife works gave birth to four children for you and a genius also works. what are you, do you think the argument is such julia and i will say. she'll tell me so, four kids and you make a wife

work there for years, but you can imagine for the whole country, mother-in-law, now your hands are sweating. well, it really works. well, he sits at home and works. well, four, children, of course, well, amazing and amazing mainly because i met my husband. from her husband and met on the first day of arrival in china before the meeting. for me, of course, she, uh, was fateful. i knew immediately when i saw this man. i immediately realized that, well, i’ll probably fall in love with him; children visit our relatives in russia, unfortunately, not often, but once a year we try to carry. our children do not have enough communication here with russian children. and when they

come to russia of course. for them there, expanse when, of course, i see pride on the screen and just how he enters the stage or just like that he starts to read poetry or he suddenly won some kind of competition, here, of course, not overflowing through excessive pride and of course, i understand it is in these moments that i am a mother, and a very talented child. and maybe even that i am a future mother here. girls like, of course, russians here there aren't even any questions. i once asked him if you like chinese girls. he tells me not very much, i say, why, but he says? well, for example, you compare here you are or our security guard at the entrance, a chinese woman. that's who is more beautiful, well, of course you are the argument is not victorious in

fact. well, if you compare, then there are eyes, who is more beautiful, mom or a security guard in the stairwell. well, you know that after all, special children have unusual abilities first in everything. they are also very selfish. and the parental is quieter, self-esteem. well, well, i'm doing my house, i'm i develop my children. i believe that to develop children. this is the responsibility of the parents. i do not want to hang responsibility on the kindergarten of our school. i don't want to come to the parents' meeting and blame the teachers there for something, that they were bad there for his son or there for his daughter or something else. i see my responsibility. in this, this is my main mission on earth. uh-huh love the motherland and love everything. when gordey took part in the competition, they asked him where he was going to stay to live. he said in china you even commented on it they said, well, of course, he's a cunning, he realized that in order to win the competition, well, strange, you can say yes, and what he would like in russia, but you'll live here

in china for 15 years, who are these all. well, now, who will get all these magnificent results and fruits of your development of children ? i hope we return. i will tell you more. we really were about to leave, and at that time we should have already moved. hey channel one we are filming the project, they say ernst speaks on the helmet. i understand, but we have already sent things. uh-huh, you know, we already have things. we have everything ready here, the apartment is already everything, everything is prepared, you come. live here too. continue homeschooling. uh. yes, yes, there will be an external student. we are about to finish in and that means that gordey is studying with us at the embassy. let’s go, we’ll set everything, we’ll get our document for the second class and, in general, we’ll continue, so russia will certainly get the fruits at the end of may, we’re going

to the russian championship with pride up to 9 years old, he’s seven, but in general, he is not afraid of anyone, we are stubbornly preparing very seriously. he wants to win the world championship. first there will be europe in the fall in september and the world in october. he has good goals. i think i will support him in combat. he wants to sing the anthem. i taught him. yes, he knows the anthem, of course, he knows how to sing it, and he says, dad, and when they sing it so that what can i do to sing the anthem? i say you need to win the european championship or the world, he says you need to win. yes, the guy is very. patriotic since the girl also has very rare names agatha milana and yeseni. aha why are they so rare, but we choose such unusual spouses a little bit exactly like originality, yes, it is present in every choice you make, starting with a name with a choice of a name. yes, we proudly had

a little bit of a situation, he was born so complicated, by the way, the chinese. eh, the chinese consider it. uh, generally a unique child, because he is an eight in china is an amazing number. he was born on 08/18/2008. here for them it is, of course, a magic number. he was born on the 18th. it was monday, i think. a week later, my mother called me, she said he was born, and a week later they called me and said he was dying in intensive care. i got ready. and we had a joint decision with my wife that she would go to moscow to give birth. they were all born in moscow. so they tell me, i flew here on a plane. he lies in the intensive care unit, all such a blue lump, all in these needles there, and we are still going to go in. well, doctors, they are all price tags, to some extent their work is difficult, and he, uh, is a doctor, i am the head of the department he speaks. what would you like to name the boy? i say, why do you lead me to the

past tense? i got a little scared. eh, what will happen there, so i say, and why does she say this was a slip of the tongue? i and i say, well, i say, if i say gordey, she is like i say, gordeev in honor of the phrygian king. she was not like us. i say they will. here we come. i looked at my white wife. she no longer speaks there, we went in for some amount of time. i say what's going on? i say, why did you spread such a panic? well, yes, the child is in intensive care, he was tired to him unusually, here, uh, well, he eats little, eats badly. everything will be fine. i say what kind of pale faces, and the doctor looks at me and understands that i'm playing, that i'm starting to create energy, like dynamo and i are talking about spouses. you look, he is full of strength, but he closed his eyes. but it 's okay. i say where i arrived, if you want to tickle your mother's nerves, then why should i? you look at me, he has already become a gray-haired head because of your

tricks. let's finish this quickly, so in 2 days, so that he goes to eat a boob, in 2 months i’m waiting at home for everything, and they were in such shock, and i stirred them up so much. although i myself was trembling like that. and you know he got better. he got better and that's it. and i ate and two months later i was flying at home. bogatyr everything turned out very well. and let's look at your girls, look at agatha and milan at the older ones. let's not 5 years. my name is. what is your name in chinese ? my name is irina, how old are you? four what language do you think? in english, i think in

chinese, what is your favorite dish my favorite food is soup and noodles. i like to eat meatballs the most. mom, mom cooks delicious food. i love the most. potato, what do you think he can do best? best to play chess and solve math. and china is hot so big. well

, they’re unlikely to become blondes, so to speak, in terms of intelligence, but really blondes, what luxurious daughters you have thank you for envy for envy, but i wanted to note, look best friend, gordey is milan’s best friend , that is, this is a closed world friend on a friend, and home schooling. eh, there's always a question. the next one will always move with russia, so to speak, home schooling. continue on the one hand in children who achieve splendid educational outcomes. even if they are at school, in general, they study, that is, there are always problems with socialization, and socialization is excuse me 50% of success in later adult life, right? yes, there is no civilization, what to do? why is there socialization? and we go on weekends. we will go for a walk to play on they are often on the hill, there with the chinese

another thing is that russian and chinese are different and individuals. they have a different sense of humor. uh, different, mentality, kids, a little bit different. i noticed, i watched him for a long time. but we will come to russia with us. i think that the same program will remain. uh, they will go to the art studio. they'll play, uh, tennis, and there 'll be kids to run with. well, we talked for so long at the girl looked, and for so long we talked about being prouder and you want to see him. so let's finally call him to this studio. come on, he's here. he has an opinion about what real women should be, not to be uh, smart, beautiful, and good at cooking. he never shifts his worries onto other people's shoulders. i do my house. i develop my children. i believe that it is the

duty of parents to educate children. he has a clear purpose in life. this is my main mission on earth. yeah to love the motherland and love the family is everything evgeny kolesov we talked for a long time about your incredible abilities of the most diverse, which you managed to show to you, as it seems to everyone child has such abilities, or are you still special? i feel like i'm more special more special, which you can't. everything works out for me, well done. and you get tired at all, never get tired, it doesn’t happen like that. well, everyone gets tired. you are a robot, i guess. yes, i will touch you. you are real. you quarrel with dad, no, i never quarrel. and even when he tells you that this is not the first place won, the second, that you are not the first. you're fine, yes, it's okay, then 16 years

to win first place. yes, why? well, what about happens to you? when did you win? so i don’t know when you won something, for example, that you probably won the last one. the player of the candidate for the master of sports so, what happened that day? this was some kind of special day. after i played this tournament, i returned home and had a rest, swam in the pool, played with my sisters. and that is, nothing of the sort, somehow, especially your address was not fanfare, but evgeny why is this normal? did mom kiss him? this is the most important reward for him. and your mom is proud of you. i am well done. do you have any plans there? what do you want to become, for example, there are some professions for yourself? you have already planned the world chess there. this is not a profession. he himself, in shock with a rubik's cube, also

took part in the most different championships. and what are your places? can we solve the rubik's cube here, yes? you know what i propose, while gordey collects the rubik's cube, let him see another story with irina polyakova, also a person with unusual features that manifested themselves in childhood. let's listen. what sensations at 2 years old learned to read at 5 years old read the collection for jules true. then i went to school at the age of 5 in the zero grade, then such people just appeared at school it was boring, and i just started, and doing all the tasks from the textbooks forward in this way accidentally finished uh, let’s say the program of the third grade in six months for the second

six months of the fourth hmm in summer. since it's so overclocked. uh, i finished fifth and immediately went sixth, which was then changed to 11 years. tired seventh. jump, school ended 13 years old i entered moscow state university at 14 i was all the time ah the problem is that i considered myself an adult. ah, let's say, if i studied, who was 3 years older than me, i was 10 years old, and they were 13. i felt myself almost thirteen years old. yes, because i constantly communicated with them. i had interests at the level of this age and mental development. yes, i completely coincided with them, maybe even surpassed them somewhere, but for those around me. i was still a 10 year old. yes, and how it turns out that studying is big, but go , uh, take a walk to visit, and then go to the dacha to successful someone small. and this is the feeling of some kind of total injustice. yes, and the fact that and you have duties, but rights? no , yes, well, everything remains for a long time. and there is another very big

problem. it seems to me that it comes already when childhood ends, prodigy ends, and then you grow up and suddenly you realize that yes. you are quite a successful person. you have a good career, an apartment, a car, a family, no, some. yes, and who is more fortunate? well, you didn't become an einstein, yes, you didn't discover a cure for cancer. did not fly into space. yes, that is, some of your achievements. they are not the beginning of this, that's a universal scale. i would like to wish e not to miss all the opportunities of childhood, not to use it completely for learning achievements, because childhood he ends so quickly, what do you say about what irina told us so that i don’t like what she said. do you understand? first of all, i don't understand why you go to

13-year-olds at the age of 10 if you went through the school curriculum. in general, e of its class. well, go to the expanse, there, natural science according to the teachings a little bit. eh, learn some language. well, something that doesn't introduce you. at the age of 13, moscow state university does not push you into this adult life why when you can go on time with everyone, and this time to use your horizons for development you know, this is some kind of stupid rubik's cube , it is not designed. i see it's hard for you. let's drop him. let dad support now , please tell me what your happiest day looks like, the magic wand is in your hands and you say, i want my day to be tomorrow. here is such a 9:20, my english is like that. then we just have fun, play, there near the house. with us , from 10:00 to 5:00 pm you have fun. well , first you need to have lunch, yes, have lunch, it is very

fair that you reason correctly. you are like a real man of the same entertainment. if i didn’t call, i had lunch and went to play again, yes so and then what spanish and everything, everything, two lessons a day, lunch, dinner, breakfast, entertainment. this is how your happiness looks eugene how often is the day planned like this do proud people never? what does his real day look like? the real day looks like everything 20 getting up washing gym exercises 8 hours from 8:00 to 9 chinese 9 20 english at 10:40 tennis at 11:30 chess. until 13:30 lunch. after that again chess 2 hours 2.5 from

17-15 to 18 and 15 spanish 15 minutes. we have a rest break, then an hour of english then calligraphy to wash and sleep. well, we want to say that you are definitely friends of course incredibles thank you thank you families give a small gift from our program. family of poles please stand. let's put it on you supercloak. this. yes. look. that means you have this, by the way, from the rain, of course, this is a super raincoat for you. and here is the letter k. a. here is another

raincoat for all your girls, because on top is where mom and dad and daughters are and everything is super. super. thanks a lot. thank you. what happened to this family does not fit into the usual stereotypes. julia is married. for many years, the couple dreamed of children, but a serious health problem left them practically no chance. the verdict of the doctors was disappointing, either adoption or surrogacy, which yulia and her husband could not afford to save their mother yulia elena at the age of 54. she became a surrogate mother of her own grandson, enduring and giving birth to a wonderful boy, kirill alone with everyone elena snegur and

her daughter yulia sokolova hello dear yulia elena is glad to welcome you to our studio and would like to thank you for what, in general, you decided and shared such an unusual case with us, but as i understand it, up to a certain point you didn’t just hide it, but didn’t really advertise it, as it were, a situation that arose, here in your big family. we didn't hide. we are just those who were interested, he knew. yeah. those who weren't interested, of course, we didn't. hmm didn't go, and well, they didn't shout to every corner that this is how we have the situation and our mother is carrying a child to us. uh-huh and that's why, in fact, such a decision was made. it was an exclusively financial issue that could not be resolved in any other way. this problem was mom's suggestion, look how you like it. in general, it occurred to me, to offer e myself as, so to speak,

a surrogate mother for her own grandson or granddaughter, then was unknown. well looking at how they want kids. and you know, for what i have health and i bore my children without problems. i thought that i could, but still, you know, there are very different impressions. so to say about the age we have, it seems to me there is some kind. well, i don’t know, there is an unspoken threshold, after which the idea is fixed in our society, well, where to give birth? as they say, well, it's too late. and you were so so sure, you were 54 years old at that moment was still 53 was already given birth to 54 where was the confidence? well, i don’t know, probably, there was uncertainty vera vera yes, that everything will work out yul and how much time you tried, so to speak , to carry out your attempts to become a mother, well, 3 years, but let’s say very intensively intensively yes, and the thought of adoption in your family. so,

was it discussed or not? it was discussed when we went through the school of adoptive parents. we collected documents. so far, we've uh, agreed that we're going to adopt anyway. uh huh, that is now it’s just that kirill will grow up and, well, at the age of two, when he will be, we will already look for and collect back documents for the adoption of a girl already. why didn't you resist then? let's say mom's proposal, all the same? did you also think that nothing would work out, or what? here, at the age of 53, mom, you agreed when mom said, let's try to make mom fall behind and what or uh, no matter how much i didn’t have vera at first when i was the first. he is a transplant, well, i think they will put my mother in prison, how would mom if it’s good there, then let it be good well, it would all be over. and if it doesn’t work out, maybe mom, as it were, would decrease, that, well, how would she stop offering

, she’ll stop having such an idea, but you didn’t scare yourself that mom was still be healthy, the biggest fear is that mom can't take it. yes , that's why i refused, that's why i was not very much in favor of this idea. then, when the embryo had already taken root, there was already a very big fear for the health of the mother and the health of the baby for eight months. well, they survived. and you didn't have fear? for some reason, i never even thought that something could be wrong with me. no, there was no fear, absolutely i was fear for the child, so that only everything would be fine, so that he would develop correctly in his time, the only person was afraid. here, so that everything is fine, and i take an analysis every month every week, and every month there are others. well,

i went for an ultrasound every month. yes, it was an ultrasound. yeah, everything was fine for a week. i again began to worry again, then i waited another two weeks and again i went for an ultrasound so that only as soon as they tell me. well, everything is fine here, everything is fine. it was easy for me again. yeah, mentally it was hard. but you know, in principle, it seems to me, there is the topic of surrogate motherhood. she, well, not so long ago , entered the discussion in our society, so to speak, and there is another such stereotype that, well, people resort to it, but there i don’t know broad views. rich people, perhaps, who cannot solve their problems there otherwise; in general, there are still many prejudices. hmm just like that here among the people you have small towns. you didn’t fear that the information that you were carrying, so to speak, a grandson to yourself, but that it would somehow be subjected to some kind of moral pressure. will you subject something? of course, i was ashamed of my

state of my pregnancy. i was shying. well, what do people think i am for myself, and if, well, someone met, i immediately explained that it was for my daughter. this is not for myself. this is not my stomach, as it were, yes, but this is actually my daughter's life. and in principle, as far as i know, we now have some restrictions, that surrogate mothers can become so an outsider under the age of 35, for the sake of you they made some kind of exception. well, when the conversation came up about what i want, yulia agreed, i called the center and the director. hey, head doctor. she explained to me that 35 years is the ceiling, but i asked i never got sick. i had no problems as a woman. maybe let's try, then, she said, well, as an exception, we can, if you allow, the second, i started drinking hormonal, which provoked hyperplasia,

vitamin and a little bit. of course, i had two more minor surgeries. yeah. then, in october, they already gave me the first injection, when the medications started, when all these people started like that. preparatory measures there was no desire to say so, well, or there suddenly thought that oh , something, i seem to have overestimated my strength. no, i didn't hesitate to help. let's listen now. just your personal doctor, yulia mikhailovna, what she told us when elena appeared and put forward, so to speak, his candidacy for the role of a surrogate mother, of course, this was treated with skepticism and reluctance. it can be said that e was considered as a candidate, because the age of pregnancy is such a kind of test for the state of health, even if a person is healthy, but without pregnancy, then during pregnancy

various complications can occur in the body. can fail, and at age 50 above, of course, these risks are very high, given that she is the age at the time of getting pregnant. you already 53 years old. even if, according to the results of the examination, she is absolutely healthy, there are still cardiovascular risks, that is, during pregnancy, problems of the cardiovascular system may arise. here an exception was made, because here, probably, you will see elena leonid hospital. why was it done? well , if she was frightened, even for a minute she expressed some doubt that but what if something would be bad with me there, or what? i would immediately refuse, we took a kind of risk, so say, they took responsibility for this particular patient, because the cases are

exceptional and they had no other choice. teaches that they could not afford commercial surrogacy. we went for it, but that's how they will come to us. tomorrow. let them say, i want, i want, i want. no, of course we won't. well, we are all talking about you in the sense of how you reacted to this, and the husband, how did he react to this, when you said, you know, my mother wants to give birth to a child for us, so hote wanted children that he said, if she can, if she really wants to, then let her try, if god wills, so it will be, and your spouse is newly-born, who not so long ago you are married and happily married. but in general, he always supported this idea, as it were. i had to thin my blood there. he rode and collected

20-30 liters of birch sap, brought it and froze it. here, so that the blood would not thicken, it was necessary so for health, then here it is, it was he who helped a lot, talked about pregnancy, how could he morally that some folk remedies that could help mom hmm carrying a pregnancy. he did the whole thing. all that he could do, he did everything at the age of 54, elena endured and gave birth to her own grandson. look at how they want children and you know that i bore my children without problems. i thought that i could before becoming a surrogate mother. it didn't take long to prepare. i started drinking hormonally and a little. of course, two more operations were brought by small ones, yulia's husband did not mind

that their child would be born so unusual way, he wanted children so much that he said, if she can, if she really wants to, then let her try alone with everyone elena snegur and her daughter yulia sokolova lena i know that there is also a brother yulia e your son and he has some health problems with joints. and here we are, uh, before the program, you said that if i could give away my joints there, if only my son was all right. i would give. here is some kind of, uh, maternal sacrifice. i would say some, in which that's all that can be right up to endure grandson. come on, give the joint. you are already ready , it is clear that there is such a thing. well, what a common phrase that a mother is ready, there in the life of her child to give her this is pure truth, it is, as if

the mother is the strongest, but still, this is not too much, to such an extent, to be ready to sacrifice, everything for the sake of her children, i don't know. i think, probably, any mother would go for it. that is, you feel it is your duty. yes, i must, if i can, i owe everything i can, but how did you meet your husband, how did we meet, well met long ago in the seventy-fourth year. it 's been 42 years already. we studied together at odnoklassniki school later. i left in the tenth grade, from this city i went to my grandmother in another city to live in birsk and in the tenth. i no longer studied with my class and at yulia's graduation when his daughter also

studied with yulia in parallel classes, and then also in social networks. when he registered, we also began to correspond with him. and he admitted to me that he kind of had a crush in childhood. we even told him wanted with a classmate with my one woman wanted to marry. yes, instead of themselves, they were free , too, i was not yet free. ah, they weren't free yet. so we wanted to introduce him, but he refused. he wrote to me. no, i'll be waiting for you then so i thought about staying with my husband, with whom the desire is very, of course, by that time it's good and it turns out. as a matter of fact, you know that you refute the saying that at the age of 40

your life only begins, it somehow after 50 ran on all counts. even so, well, you are some in fact, a brave woman sit such a modest mouse, in general, courage. this is your wagon. let's listen now. how did your relatives react to your decision, your spouse, your girlfriend is close and yours, mother. as a matter of fact, there are also other people who react. what is special about the members. overall, he is an amazing person. she is quite. i think she was made for family life. i saw responsibility in this person when she informed me about this in her desire and intention help your daughter. of course i was shocked. 54 years old is a serious age to carry a child. besides

that, she had other concerns. her son denis underwent several operations. it was pointless to dissuade her, of course, she shared these emotions. she i she says i understood with my mind. that i should give this child away, this is not my child, but my heart did not let go, because in fact, you know, she even talked to him, she taught him to talk to him when he was still in general, yes, yes in mother's womb in grandmother's mother. she put her hand on her stomach and somehow patted him a little, and he reacted to these claps. for us, it was of course, well, in general, it’s not

quite usual that we saw and did not see with our own eyes. yes, of course, it's risky when you sometimes watch on tv. how many different cases are there? what dies or the mother's child? and this is what i was afraid of all the time. here she is for you, who is the heroine of the victim, who is lena for you ? she was observed lying. e in this, how to say to save. here he is constantly taking some drugs. that's it. it's what for sometimes for health, it's not really good? mom,

in fact, your grandmother, your mother’s mother, naturally, also experiencing her own maternal instinct in her turn, was worried that, thank god, everything ended well, but it could end not very well. anything could be you did not think about what it is, well, selfish enough. in general, and the relationship of readiness, mom, who speaks. but let me help you, maybe you should have insisted that, well, now, of course, there are some hypotheses, because, thank god, there is a healthy, wonderful kiryusha mother was born in perfect order beauty. how much kirill is now even 3 months 5 months. this is what a woman looks like after giving birth to a 54-year-old child. it did not think that well, maybe somehow i went over somehow with the readiness of my mother. well, mom is ready, but am i ready to risk her health like that. i was not ready, initially i and that the decision that we made was that, yes, my mother would give me a boost in january, when kirill was put on, it

was very difficult with tears in her eyes, but my mother called me and you decided. well, here, i can i feel that i can consult with my husband. my husband speaks. well, what are you, what are you so worried about? i say, well, what if it’s scary to lose embryos already. we can lose our mother there, anything can happen. he well, if mom says so wants an attempt and torture. well, how would he support me. well , not that he supported, he prompted me that to say yes, but it was still very difficult and i didn’t fully realize and didn’t think that how everything would turn out, the embryos would take root, that my mother would have to give birth to lena, how did you feel? how is the pregnancy going? i was ready for everything, and

therefore for me i almost now believe that i easily brought this pregnancy to her. i was not there, there were no toxicosis, as with my children, and with kirusha, there was nothing of toxicosis. the only thing that has been hard for me lately is to walk for a long time. well , if we talk about the moral side, i did, here there are difficulties, so to speak, physiological, which one way or another you overcame with the help of medicine, so to speak, various modern e means, but this is hmm how to say, it seems to me, because we, too, have already been invested by the lord god this mechanism that when we take women , then this connection with the child is restored in such a different way. and how is it to understand that this is not my child, that is. it’s like mine, but she’s actually my daughter and actually i’ll have to give her away, and actually, that’s how you talked, about what you patted on the tummy. i spoke to him right away. so, when it was already more than 20 weeks, when there

were already movements, uh, i woke up and said, kiryushenka well kiryushenka baby, i say, baby, well, i’m getting up, we’ll get up, and he somehow moved like this. i was at ease with him. everything is fine. what julia give away. uh, well this is also with his wife and grandson, so love for his daughter. eh, there was no doubt that i was carrying a grandson and i would give it to my daughter so that she would be happy, but when i saw kirill in the hospital, i, of course, had something maternal in me. straightaway played. i was very worried. how will i part with him, but this is for her, as i still understand that this is for her, as a big part, like a son. secondly, as a grandson, she loves him very much. she is very attached to him.

uh-huh, you didn’t expect this when you went to this experiment, so to speak, you didn’t expect it. but, when i saw what it was like after birth, when i was still walking, my mother, pregnant, i saw how she treated me, i realized that it would be hard for her to part with him even after. especially after resuscitation, when we were in intensive care. it got harder for mom. it was noticeable and it was a kind of, in general, a burden on your soul. the decision to risk her mother's health was very difficult for yulia, her husband says, what are you doing, why are you so worried? i say, well, suddenly it's scary already. we can lose embryos, we can lose our mother there, anything can happen, despite the fact that elena was carrying a grandson, she treated him like her own child, when it was already more than 20

weeks, when there were already movements, uh, i woke up and said, baby, well, what am i standing, we will get up, and he somehow moved like this. i was at ease with him. everything is fine. yulia saw the experiences of her mother and felt her connection with the child until now. you understand that this is for her, like a big part, like a son. secondly, as a grandson, she loves him very much. she is very attached to him. alone with everyone, elena snegur, and her daughter yulia sokolova lena, like a mouth, they planned yes in advance well in advance, as i am of a gray section. it's always at 38 weeks and here i am denounced up to 38 weeks and arrived for a planned caesarean. ufa you also went yulia no, but she herself

did not let us give birth, they said that it was impossible. why can't they have it. in this hospital, in their practice, there are no partnerships for partner deliveries. so therefore no. we were at home, sitting on pins and needles all this time, until my mother called and said you became parents. and when the caesarean section took place, were you conscious or not, yes, that is, you saw right away yes, you didn’t do the final anesthesia, i heard the child. i heard that he screaming, even i heard. that it seemed that he was screaming in his stomach, he began to scream so such a muffled sound was, uh, a voice, a voice, then stronger, and then they took him away. e to another room. everything is as it should be or not. they didn't show it to me. they didn't say that, look. here is the boy. no. although i was conscious. everything i

thought was the way it should be. i thought so. so they took him to another room. people from the children's department were already waiting there. the doctors took him to the children's department, it turns out to be in resuscitation. why did they bring babies to everyone in the evening? well , i also stayed in intensive care in my adult, and they brought some children to show, but i’m not here in the morning again, they bring me to others again. i already asked a question. why i do n't have a child does not show. e, with and a doctor will come to you, he will tell you everything, i began to worry. yes, i've gone crazy. i think so now, yes, then they told me he was in intensive care. hey, you can call there. i called and they told me the child was not breathing on his own, that he was developing pneumonia. well then i already

of course, in general, i had a tantrum yulka how did they find out that kirill was in intensive care? mom called, she said we talked the night before and everything was fine with the child. everything is fine. all is well with me. uh, the child is no longer allowed, they are not allowed. mom is also in intensive care; she also does not know what is happening with the child. but everything seemed to be fine. and in the morning, uh, my mother called us and said that kirill turned out to be in intensive care, he had pneumonia. ugh, that's not so good. as i would like, as yesterday assumed. there already began hmm attempts to make and in intensive care. started calling every day there, you know? what every hour, if you call it will be useless and only doctors divert from their duties. to

reassure mom, because mom just felt very at that moment that her mother had changed her attitude, or something to the child, that for a long time there the mind tried to control feelings, and she said. here is my grandson. this is for your son and stuff. and what at the moment when the child was born, which, in fact, is the concept mixed up. and what is she not really, can she distinguish between her grandson or is it still my child thinks, she m-m it was understandable, when it became obvious, when we ran into her in the intensive care unit near kirill i was let in for the first time kirusha. and uh, i saw him, and my mother already, in my opinion, came up for the third time. that's when, seeing mom 's attitude towards the child, how she stood crying, and how she was shaking. i understood that it would be very difficult for mother to mother without kirill and i give him and she more than m-m feels more than grandmother, like a grandson. and you

what they experienced with these kirills. this is my child. all i have will be no thoughts. he's a recoverer, it won't be all right. eh, they do everything to make it all right. this is my child, and you cried. i am such a person, i very, very rarely cry from unemotional emotions, especially in those when there is a person nearby who is also feeling bad. yeah, seeing my tears. he will be even worse, so we must hold on. well, thank god. this is history, elenochka. you cry all the time or or memories and happiness that all this is over, thank god it's all over it's really good, and that's kirill's mother. earlier. earlier, lena was discharged than kirill, or at the same time. and that is, you still continued to walk, kirill to drive there sterlitamak there is 120 km. wow, that is

not every day there is all day through the day. and when i was discharged, it was something like me on the day of discharge. in general, i sobbed there, for a whole week, how long i lay, i was all flowing and when they discharged me, why? well, because they were afraid, no, kirill is that he is sick, yes, that's what i was afraid of. and when he was discharged, i think how can he be left like this little tiny one in this maternity hospital. i did not understand, in general for me it was something, the moment had come. i had to leave the hospital. and we came to yulia for me, and we immediately went to the church from the maternity hospital, wept and asked, then asked each one at each room, they asked, they stood begging that everything was, so that it would be with kirill uh-huh well , after what time kirill was discharged. well, he was

first discharged from the intensive care unit on 12 on the fourteenth day for 2 weeks, and then for another week we spent with him in the children's department for second stage of care. i'm with kirill. and already exposed already lay. yes, you were waiting. yes, i've been waiting. i already called her too. she sent me a photo. and how did you decide among yourselves, who will lie with kirusha, when when i give my mother a birth certificate, as if my mother lies with the bank aha that is, there was no legal possibility. uh, lenochka, if there was a legal possibility, then you would have run ahead of the curve together, well, that is, when kirill was taken from the hospital, they met you uh-huh, as expected, yes, flowers and mom met, right? it was a strange feeling. no, i was glad that kirill recovered. and that he and yulia well , everything is strange, no, there was no strange feeling. no,

i didn't know it was a child. and that they should meet her, yul, and when you felt, i don’t know somehow, that maternal feelings immediately turn out immediately hmm, i didn’t think that if i have a maternal instinct, no, he swears maternal instinct, i just knew. this is my child. i will live with him for a very long time. i already love him. i am infinitely now a man to me tenderness. i am responsible for his life. uh, without this little man. i can't anymore because it's mine. and how did he treat you, kirill, he looked at me for the first time, as if another nurse with one eye did not say that there were just some people around him at once. at first there were a lot of people. and when he saw me, i was just

another face for him, which he might never see again. uh-huh well, then after three days, probably, he is already so accustomed to it, still better than anyone and pays attention to me more than anyone else. damn when we asked you, uh, hmm getting ready for this program. and would you go again to such an experiment, you said, perhaps yes, i would not be able to give it back. so said. yes , it's hard to break up. this is something that was the most difficult parting for you lena what did you think? what would be bad without you? yes, and it seemed to me that he felt better with me, that he seemed to feel that i was betraying him, that i was giving and betraying him. well, that's what he don't know, that's how i

felt. i even when they left, and we had an agreement with yulia. they drove for three days, yes murmansk that every 3 hours she tells me how kirill's condition is, and here is some moment in my head, uh, the crying of a child. so i hear the cry of a child, i call them, and the truth is, kirill is crying. there was some kind of connection with him, then it was very difficult to leave. and let us know that now we will listen to the professor of neonatology, they are grigorievna filippova. and what did she tell us, but told about your specific situation and about a surrogate in general. if we talk about what happens to psychological practice, then this is not the most a shocking story, but in fact, from the point of view of the arrangement of family roles and the formation of the personality of a child, this is, of course, a very difficult story, because definitely family roles,

who is my mother, who is my father, who is my grandmother, this helps a person to build his own concept to define himself , as a person of a certain gender of age, to master the role in the family that i should have in this case, since we are still talking about a boy, it will be a little easier for him, because girls also need a maternal position master, and in such. in general, a mixed story - it's not just the boy here, at least one single father, and as an object with which he will have to compare himself, there is such a concept of psychology, identification, he has it precisely defined, but about how he will then figure out how to choose for himself. i'll start here, there may be different interesting stories, because, in principle, the mother figure plays a big role here, but now this child has two mother figures. and, probably, the whole problem here is how they will play these roles among themselves, and distribute how they

will position themselves in relation to the child. we , for example, psychology know quite a lot of examples when these roles are confused. and the game. this inside the family is called so, who is the best mother for this child and can fight for this role, mother and grandmother, mother, and even there father and aunt, someone else would be nice if there was help from a psychologist who would help them put all the roles on this grandmother's place to accept what she did and how to put an end to this further say, well, that's it, i'm a grandmother. i give all the rights i leave for this position of mine and i will study there to be a grandmother so that it is not just easy, but such a grateful parting with a sense of accomplishment of a job well done by gratitude to the parents who take this child and crushed him to them for the child . it matters a lot when a mother separates from her child. so here it is with anxiety with feelings with tears, then

this just speaks of that very inner conflict about not being ready to let him go. now give other hands, when we talk about surrogacy in general about islam reverse motherhood, then we always recommend to parents that children be aware of the status of their birth. as far as i know, you didn't really intend to hide from kirill how he was born. and how are you? it would be explained to him, there is such a thing when children from the age of five ask my mother there. yes , you gave birth to me. no, not me who gave birth to him. here is your grandmother. why didn't she give birth? well i have a house where children grow up, there are not very good ones, you would not like it there, this explanation is enough. it seems to me at the level of this age, when he just starts asking such

questions and this information is enough for him, and then it’s like it won’t happen when he grows up, that you have been deceiving me all my life, something gave birth to me, it turns out that my grandmother gave birth to me and everything in my life was a hoax and so on and so forth, so let's not hide hmm let's start asking questions we'll answer. somehow at first children's fairy tales, but let's not argue and deceive the child it was hard for elena to come to terms with the idea that this is not her child, when i ran to the intensive care unit, i ran away from my adult intensive care unit. that's when i think it 's mine. why why did this happen? why did i try so hard? and so this is how yulia understood how difficult it would be for a mother to part with her baby. video of mom's attitude to the child, as she stood crying, like her three words. i understood that it

would be very difficult for my mother without seryozha and i would give him more than more feelings than my grandmother. well the future julia plans to tell her son the whole truth. about his birth. children at the age of five ask there you are my mother, there you gave birth to me. no, not me who gave birth. here is your grandmother alone with everyone elena snegur, and her daughter yulia sokolova you know when children are born, and of course our parents, there they always feel us as their own children, and there, no, no. and no matter how old we are, they try to educate us to express. we do it this way or not, we do it and when our children are born in the next generation, i mean, then after all parental care, and our children are transferred , they begin to tell him this way or not, do you absorb you, right or wrong? it 's just whether you feed your own child. and in general, any mom, dad has an iron answer,

as it were. uh, if you don't want to pay or interfere. you are so stop. you raised me, thank you very much. now. this is my child and i will do as i see fit. here is your situation. it seems to me quite difficult to object to your mother and say that i will do it, so, as i believe. well, because we're doing it, we're doing it the way it is, and mom is trying to interfere. somehow especially. no, it’s not necessary to give kirill or not, but here , well, well, well, you don’t take it like that, other aspects. you didn't put him in the right place, put him there. it probably doesn't hurt him. everything is fine. mom is fine, he's fine. you nobody offends. what if you are offended by him, is there such a thing as you are worried that they are offending kirill? there was such a feeling, i thought, so that suddenly they offended him there, but what about them can hurt him? it's interesting just like that. i

kind of, well, because i was so far behind, i thought that he was better with me that i feel that you could somehow do it better than these completely young worthless inexperienced parents, but the question is this parental sacrifice, which. hmm. which is often a well-known case that when there, for example, parents can tell their child. i sacrificed my career there for you and the child will feel fine. in general, forever in unpaid debt to their own parents. but the victim, on which she went, mom somehow. well, if her health and even this moral anguish that she experiences after parting with kirishi does not impose any additional responsibility on you and the feeling that, well, this is some kind of unpaid debt and such. here are even some connectedness in their own actions in relation to their son. well, the duty, and the one that i

must now justify mom's mother's sacrifice is such that kiryusha should grow very wonderful in a good person and raise him well, and in front of my mother that this is my best mother in the world, and now no one can sleep with this. i love him very much, i respect him. and i am eternally grateful to her for what she has done for me. and your husband, as he expressed his gratitude to his mother-in-law, he loves her very much, he respects her very much, especially for the last year. eh, this is a person who, for him, is probably on such a pedestal, which you can’t say anything against at all. here, no matter how bad or even there it is impossible to look into this resurrection with some kind of negativity, because this is sacred to

him. this is a holy woman. it says so to me that, hmm, i have the most wonderful mother-in-law in the world. she is just a super-duper woman who gave me a son and all some other questions and this is useless. now you will especially quarrel with your mother, you won’t even be able to in the presence of your husband, yes, that is, he will always be on the side of your mother. yes, most likely so kirill you came with you. and i wanted to ask permission. can can we bring him here to us? he likes to watch people? now we'll wait. now they are bringing it to us. hello kiryuha so gently applauding. all hello, this is such a little man hello and a

lot of people are fantastic. for both of you. now, of course, the most important thing is to somehow keep in touch with each other, and in particular with the kiruha, in order to find out how he is doing, how he is growing. are you on a call? how often every day, but we know you don't have smartphones. you so to speak, only at home. you can use a computer to watch kirils every day, and we thought that these are such smartphones. you would be useful in order to be able

to send any new smiles the first tooth as quickly as possible. i do not know the first steps further and everything that will happen with kirill to keep the completely heroic grandmother informed of every event in life, kirill thank you very much. i wish you good luck. thanks we can't help but admire your act and your masculinity and femininity. well, it’s easy for kiryusha to grow up as a worthy son and grandson the most worthy, which can only be, thank you very much. now he is a successful photographer, a professional skier

and a happy person, but everything could have turned out quite differently 8 years ago, life subjected him to a difficult test, while climbing elbrus, he stumbled and fell down 2 km. rolled down a rocky slope and survived more than a day. he fought for life, suffered from thirst, lost 10 kg of weight, and stopped feeling his legs. the rescue operation lasted more than 10 hours, and that's it. this time did not leave him. hope legs could not be saved. and it changed his life dramatically, and for the better. now he continues to go to the mountains, he is professionally engaged in skiing and lives on prostheses. taught him the basics. never give up and always go to the intended goal, not paying attention to the obstacle alone with everyone

alpine skier, mountaineer and photographer sergey alexandrovna hello i am glad to welcome you to our studio you know me always very interested in people who, uh, i will tell some points of view, but misfortune interpreted as a new impetus to life new, in general, almost a gift. i would even say fate. and why i do not know how to answer this question. this is by far the most difficult question. although he probably expect the thing is that when it happened, yes, uh, well, it was a state of shock. here i am, there without legs with a temperature. i feel very bad. it's physically a complete nightmare. yes, that is, you do not know how to live and you are physically ill, well, in general, everything should collapse and it should have been bad inside. well, that's normal, yes, but that didn't happen to me. i don't know how it is explain. hey, that's a big present for me. this uh, uh, i was already happy, then in a completely terrible

state with the simplest things a window opened. i heard the birds there. and i felt good. from this. i was happy. eh, the simplest things. this i regard as a gift, because i do not know the answer. yes, where did it come from and because of what and why? and because well, i'm not something that i didn't deserve. i didn’t do anything for this, because sometimes you find the strength in yourself to pull yourself out of the swamp. there, well, somehow you do something, and this was. well, lucky for free. it got the feel of a gift, but you know what i suspect, maybe because the chance that you could lose this life is quite large, too. maybe this is not a chance. this is a rough statistic - more than 90% in such a situation dies within an hour and a half, respectively, live 32 hours. it's a problem and during all these hours knowing

that it's, well, it's kind of, you'd rather go there than stay here and so there 's that, well, kind of news about what's going to happen. amputation, it did not cause any big problems. i'm alive, that's all. it happened well , i don’t know what to call it a tragedy. for me. this is indeed a very big adventure. it sounds completely crazy and well speaking of tragedy, most recently before this injury. i didn't have a mother. that was a real tragedy for me. it's something i can't explain to go through and it's become so serious for me. why did she die so hard. it's cancer and it's scary when your loved one is your own dies. so hard for me for several years was a key issue in understanding the world in an attempt to understand it. yes, in general, in every minute,

i felt that it was important for me to understand what death is and why it is at all. eh, it was so important. i counted everything that is possible on this topic to understand what death is, what is beyond these limits of the concept, or everything in general, that is, i tried to approach this issue from all sides. well, the most productive one. this is the key to existential psychotherapy, the idea is that in general, death makes the very concept of presence in our lives and makes our life valuable. ah, when an aunt with a scythe is standing nearby, you begin to understand what is really valuable to you, what is important? and what? well what's the point if she's around as well and for me it wasn't a word for a few years it was straight. well, that's the question that was pounding every minute, perhaps that's why i'm there in the woods in the mountains. yes, high and scary, and in no case was looking for death. i don't

like risk at all. yes, i always buckle up but transcendent states. i'm interested in extremely simple and and it's just interesting that literally that's before the ascent. yes, the next morning we were going to elbrus, it was generally a training ascent, we had very serious plans. in the evening, the thought suddenly comes to me that death is insanely interesting, this is the most interesting event that can happen to your life, it, well, sounds crazy, but the point is that at this moment all questions open up. that is, you seem to get everything on your own places, for real. here uh. you say, but about this fall that happened, that, so to speak, elementary attention was needed for that, that is, it was not some kind of direct extreme extreme question. it's just that they caught a leg in a leg, as i understand it for my own, and further, and these seconds of falling flew down. you

remember them, yes, very well, and again it's hmm well , i fell for a long time, not a second. yes, it's about 2 km. that is, i flew without a single, not like nadezhda without at all, as if some kind of ability to cling to this world. that is, it’s just sausage and twists you, and such a thought and non-thinking came. eh, it's very straight forward that i'm not trying. it's like reflecting. it was really there, uh, long-term. i feel it, i realized that eh. well, nothing depends on me anymore. it 's a feeling of trust. well, that's how it will stop me, well, thank god it won't stop. well, it's not mine either. it was i who flew in absolutely trusting, because it was not scary around, very scary. this is the ultimate feeling. this is a terrible fear. uh, total fear.

arises. uh, when you get out of your comfort zone, sleepily speaking, that is, but there you are completely lost to this world. it's very scary anyway. uh-huh it's not going anywhere, and that's the question. can you overcome this fear? well, live, yes, continue to continue, well, sometimes fear completely fetters. uh, knocking you into a brick. and you turn into nothing. yes, but sometimes you can work in this state. and this is my crazy sport. it helps me. and i am me very, uh, i'm afraid of this, yes, go out to the start. e dive into a state of absolute e not that discomfort, well, fear, but when you manage to work there in this zone. this is very cool. it 's really great. this is a huge energy, which there is no limit there. let's listen now to your friend dima, who was just with you at that time in the mountains, who actually made a lot of efforts to

save you, so he remembers this moment, it was just for now. we were still on the slope, and i found it. well, when there was a panic, respectively, the panic passes, and for me and for him, and then we we begin to act, another comrade came up. we brought things. and when it's more or less everything. it was ready for the night, then the mood was better. here is the unknown. only when the rescuers come, but we were in touch with them, and therefore, uh, well, too. it was obvious that they would come in the morning or a little later. well, after i came to my senses, everything was again. well, it was not drawn in black colors. yes well already thought, how to return to the city. how to arrange life there? well, from such things. eh, yes, we are friends in everyday life, well, there are already more acquaintances

20 years, probably, and nothing has changed. no, he will say. so he became more serious and only in this respect, for example, yes, his sense of life and this is endless optimism. he remained the same as at 12 years old. and, of course, i don’t perceive seryoga as an invalid and with a limited person with disabilities. it is really impossible to apply the word disabled person to you, your possibilities are not limited. it’s just that god knows what you are doing, which people don’t do with their legs, so to speak. but you even somehow insist on it. here your quotes. you say don't expect me. there are people who are unfortunately disabled for the four years that i

live without legs. i visited the mountains of norway on volcanoes. kamchatka i can walk for 10 hours in a row on a slope with a thirty-kilogram backpack. i have space prostheses, german. in short, iron legs are cool. you might think that this is such a self-incantation. here i am disabled. and that's even better. yes, i don’t know, somehow i live with what i have, yes, using the opportunities that are, it’s all technical difficulties in the life of every person weight. er, well, any technical problems. yeah, i don't know, the sink broke, uh. the disorder is something i have a broken leg disorder, well, the first year and a half. it really hurts, that is, walking on prostheses. this is tryndets excuse me, uh, especially there for the first time i reached the kitchen. uh, i drenched myself, then literally oh, well, from pain, uh, and on crutches, but at the same time this disgrace of the last

happy, because i can walk. that's all. it 's in this nonsense. i can do that, well, it's a matter of training. this is a question. e my efforts. chances of his salvation was negligible, the rough statistics are small, more than 90% in such a situation dies within an hour and a half, respectively, live 32 hours. it's a problem. and during all those hours of knowing that it's, well, it's like, you'd rather go there than stay. there are real tragedies here. he considers the death of his mother, she was dying very hard. it's cancer and it's scary when your loved one dies. so hard. he is calm about life on prostheses, because the quote you say, do not expect me. there is people of an unfortunate disabled person, iron legs - that's cool. i live with the fact that there are a

lot of technical problems in the life of every person. yes, i don't know, the sink broke. uh, disorder there, my leg broke disorder. life without borders sergey alexandrov there is an amazing photo of you right after you were rescued. uh, it means that the rescuers lowered after 32 hours from the mountain 32 hours of waiting, the doctors ascertained to the hospital. lost 10 kg. just for these 30. yes, for these for these 32 hours of waiting. how long have the legs been broken irreparable blood flows and so on. here you lie smiling, and i saw my friends, that in general it was also an absolutely amazing feeling. i'm insanely losing you see, and it was not something that i had to call everything there, but somehow. so i was just very glad to see my friends. e people who talked to me there, and i managed to immediately

start a conversation with a living person to me, then crowds of friends climbed into this same hospital until night, then over the fence. it was cool overall. for some reason you remember how some special impressions when a butterfly flew into your intensive care unit. well, this is just an example, it’s just, probably, it’s just very beautiful, and i remember that there’s not even a butterfly like that. a dead moth. and just, well, yes, it seemed, a butterfly. well, yes. well, it’s just, uh, this is this when you’re in intensive care, but i don’t think you pumpkins, it’s like, like, but i was really pleased that this world exists in general, and it’s so big and beautiful there, that there’s something else - then, because in the intensive care unit there is a creepy place there, in general, next to you people constantly die, then something else. well, there, a nightmare in general, here is and here is something living wonderful. and these are the

little things that made me very happy, and again, you understand , everyone asks me. uh, motivational secret. here, come on, tell me how it is, too. yes, in the same case. well, not exactly the same. let's get hard, but, well, this is a freebie gift. i don’t know where it came from, and what it is, well, in my life there was such a very simple plot, but at the same time, for me it is subjectively very valuable almost mystical experience. i was once still a student, in practice, i was in a terrible, creepy , so nasty mood. here you were, there was a well, i wanted to spit such a nasty one all right and it was cold, it was so chilly. and here i am walking and suddenly, uh, suddenly, from behind, as if something is hugging me, it’s warm, warm, and i turn around, and there is the sun. it's like it's a gift, when you

don't deserve it for free. do you want like yes? well, a well? yes, and you are hugged by something like that. i must say you have an amazing story. e of your marriage, but because a year before how it happened. well, let's call it misfortune. and so, although, this is the case when there was no participation before the misfortune helped. you broke up with yours. eh, wife. that is, she was your girl, as i understand it, or she was not even a girl anymore, or you were an unsuccessful attempt to court her. well, to cut a long story short, she wasn't there for you just when you were in the hospital here, so she reappeared on the horizon. eh, tell me what it was like, it's impossible at all. yes, that is, it does not fit into any social norms. well, it's just, well, before that we had met for a very

short time, we had only just met and somehow it didn't work out there. she was there, she had her own problems, in general, she wasn’t up to me, and in general, we broke up. and then she found out about me. here is something on the internet somewhere. and just came to the hospital her words. how exactly did she say, because otherwise, well, she didn’t know how to, that is. she just came to regret came. here is the key word. this is the worst. what can be done with a person in such a situation to feel sorry for him, i learned how to become disabled in the head. here, uh, and parts of it. well, probably not in part, maybe in general, well, as it were, to a greater extent. she saved me from that, you know. are you lying down? you are so helpless. well, it's really objectively helpless, it's really objectively hard and you're asking, well, give me a glass of water, somebody. i'm just this image. it seems to me very accurate, and

naturally, they immediately serve you. well, i'm helping you. here you are lying like that, maybe not here is her shampoo, there is something else there pizza there, here, and here with olives so and here and and here it is here you are and here you are and chocolate and candy. come on, come on, and then, and then you know what happens at some point, and people are watching, yes, you yourself can reach for a glass and such. well, it’s easier for you to file for me and such an insult arises immediately immediately. here, but this one, well, how am i so unhappy. and you, and you can't give me a glass. here and this ah-ah man turns into a completely monster moment it happens. here is the end result. it turns into a human. he is no longer capable of what, but a terrible resentment for the whole world for their loved ones, constant snot and a complete lack of personal strength. this is it's scary. it happens very quickly uh-huh that's unfortunately, and polina in plain text. you

don't interest me at all. just in a rigid and wheelless form, not only that, she continues to do so. this is very hard for me. i'm not that interested. literally. well, yes, i am , well, no matter how to say, maybe, yes, it’s wrong to formulate this here. she feels very subtly when you yourself can, but you pull someone's strings, you start pulling. she immediately feels it and this thread is everything at once. that's when you are well, when i was sick, especially after, when i get tired after training, well, i really want to be looked after there, well, all that. here. unfortunately, this is not about her. no, you understand, she is very affectionate and gentle with me, but this is when you yourself

have the necessary energy to, well, not be at all. this is most. get up and then we’ll talk hard, but in my case it’s extremely effective, that is, here you are. you got on your feet and the elections started, it didn’t seem to be, right? a year later, you made her a very beautiful proposal in a balloon at that moment you already had prostheses, right? yeah. although we went for a ride in a wheelchair for half a year, it was terrible. yes, and she had to dung this stroller, and carry it there. and this is very hard. i was in a wheelchair for six months. i even managed, uh, i went to the city center and went alone and even found a job for myself, although i had no problems at that moment with finances, my friends incredibly helped me, including with money, for the first couple of years. i didn't

think it was such a problem at all. that's why they are needed for some reason, but i really loved that i didn’t want to and i love photographs. here, too, then i found it there on the first floor in the studio, all this was possible, nevertheless , to practice even in a wheelchair, but it is very difficult with a wheelchair user. this is the first time. you thought that now i want to understand development, as it were, when prostheses appeared then. thinking from the very beginning about the fact that there will be prostheses or you initially thought not. well, it’s okay, so you need to get used to the wheelchair of life. i don’t know at what point something happened there, this is from the category of technical solutions. and this is a big adventure dentures is here is my very favorite joke. it's true, my wife joked again, but she keeps complaining that she has one closet with these very things, and i have two with legs. that's it. it's really like that, it's

just a blockage, it's for every function for every movement you need new legs. and thanks to my prosthetists. my god, what would he do without them. they just did not come up with anything, but they are under what goals each leg? well, first of all, it is under each function, that is, unfortunately, in general, our legs are a unique creation in general and any prostheses. it 's just an attempt to get closer. accordingly, to walk you need one, to walk over rough terrain another, to walk with a load of the third, to run the fourth and for my beloved to ski. this is fundamentally different. whose idea was it? to get married anywhere, but in the forest on a crossroads. i don’t remember whose. but of course, polina was worried that i screwed up there. it's just that i'm a very uncomfortable person. i can rather live in the forest on a tree without anything. well, i'm generally fine here, eh. well, a wedding

is such an event, when do you need everything to be right? yes, so that people can wear beautiful dresses and shoes, and here is some kind of forest. yes, i was, of course, scared, but i'm a wedding in a restaurant. well i have a lot of videos of weddings in the restaurant. i already yes i am working. and now i'm tired of seeing. well, as it were, i'm not what to see, i'm starting to work. i come to the restaurant and start working. it was probably to escape somewhere, yes, and in general, it was perfectly fine, because we had time to do it. everything was done, yes, that is, we protected ourselves from the rain and from everything it was your photograph. wedding on the internet. they are truly extraordinary beauties. i’m crazy sorry that we ca n’t show them on us in the program, because you forbade us to show your wife, there is such what is it hard to say well, first of all, she does not want to. how about convincing her? this is a completely pointless exercise. this you understood. yes, what?

you won't get a glass of water from me. that's all. you can do it there. why doesn't she want to? it's a big load, actually, when well, not that you get recognized. i can probably handle it, but it's not just that. hmm, it's like a different world and different energy. things are changing so much and i'm not sure if i can handle it? yes hmm yes? he is sure that they become disabled in the head you ask, well, give me a glass of water, and of course, they immediately serve you. well, i'm helping you. this is such a fat one, i can have an egg there , something else, pizza there, and this, this, and this, and a chocolate bar and a candy, and people are watching. yes, you can reach the glass yourself. how am i so unhappy. and you, and you

can't give me a glass. here and this a-a man turns into a completely monster moment. sergey has more prostheses than outfits. at his wife. i have a very favorite. joke. it's true, wife again joked, but she keeps complaining that she has one closet with these very things, and i have two with legs for each type of activity. he has a separate pair of legs, to walk you need one, to walk over rough terrain the other, to go out with a load of the third, to run the fourth and for my we to ski. it's fundamentally different life without borders sergei alexandrov have you had a daughter? uh-huh and this is ah, set some new goals for you. yeah, it changes everything , the great thing is, you know, being a kid, you love your new year very much, your birthday yes, and then you become old and rotten. and it's like the

holidays at some point stand. just like you're losing a holiday, you're losing it. well, he, well, he gave a cool birthday there, he called back to everyone there. and when a child appears, everything returns, magic returns and the new year returns and now i have the opportunity to make a holiday for her, yes, make joy. it's just incredible i know that you travel a lot, and travel with your family, including, well, you here, for example, and drive a car. yes, of course, you drove her to but no, you didn’t just drive her. uh, actually, i rode a bike. and he went, it was seriously long. well, i drove 6-8 thousand kilometers a year. well, yes, it's 50 kilometers a day there. this is approximately the average. well, you got into the car and began to drive it, realizing that you have a responsibility to the family, because, well, the husband is the father, because it looks convenient

to say something that you can say at any moment, change uh, i have to go to the mountains. so what's this for you a place of solitude that you, but still need it so, well, at any moment i can no longer, because i have a wife and a daughter. and this is the basic part of my life, inexchangeable. yeah, i mean, if they're doing well, then i can have fun. here are the sets for entertainment or solitude after all. well, look at the mountains in the figures that walked before the injuries. i don't walk anymore, but it's a very important part for me to find the state when it's so difficult. yes, you are forced. eh, to find in myself, well, some incredible resources to me important. i want to search through it, which is probably why i do this completely insane sport. yes, and we started training when the injury had already occurred. yes, you didn't get very close to them

. i didn't know what it was. that is. i , uh, we did kitur, that is, with a heavy backpack we went down from high mountains. but this is a completely different technique. here, uh, skiing technique is classic. this is completely different. that is, just when you have already stood up on prostheses, go skiing. it has become a kind for you too test, will i find more resources in myself? well, in this case, well, this one and this too, but in this case it's also a thrill. so i wanted to return to the topic of the prosthesis, because in fact, now, about the fact that they have a full wardrobe of these prostheses, well, prostheses, this is not a cheap business, that's what and how. i know at first the prostheses helped you raise money. the fact is that it is not so bad in our kingdom. so, in fact, everyone makes normal prostheses. well, you don’t have to think that a person must be there with an outstretched hand run and so on. all problems that are solvable are sometimes difficult to solve, but they are solvable, but uh,

well, uh, a man helped me. it's just half a million for me in the river. yes, on and, as it were, on prostheses, on which you can immediately walk quickly, well and beautifully , and for a crossed month. and this briquette gave money. i don’t know, i’m extremely grateful to him, because then i learned this very much. oh, this was through friends of my acquaintances. uh, that's just what a man who knew what such a problem is and i'll tell you how i can help. we need good dentures. i went prosthetist say. here's what you can do here super-duper good. really. on what you can walk at all and not think about anything, uh, he drew the numbers. and this man took and gave me this money, this was the first such case in your life. well, here, so that you know so much, so the universe opened up for a meeting. e, in the literal sense of the word, when a lot

of money is needed and a person appears who speaks in and don’t think about anything. it's hard for me to say the first one, so i 'm afraid, we're just approaching such a question. me on actually now that's all. this time helps. just an incredible amount of people and not just money and, well, purely organizational and, well, just support, because, uh, i don't even know. start thanking because it's, well, really fantastic. did you know that this is how the world works or would you be more willing to say that, i mean , you know, like when a person relies on himself and only himself or suddenly discovers that actually, here's help there is always and everywhere there is such a key that for me it was extremely important that he appeared precisely after the injury,

because until the morning he, as i said, hmm for me is such a direct key to the world. it was the concept that what is death is extremely important and now and i feel and know that it is somewhere here and it seems to me that it is very right to know about it. well, eh appeared, in short, i’ll try to eat such a philosopher, vladimir solovyov, he wrote such an article. about the meaning of love, a very small article, and he speaks. what is love? this is very. well it's when you're the object of love idealizing, well, it seems to you that he is better, that he is like that in general, so you decided in an unnatural light. this is a fact, and then solovyov makes an assumption. hmm, this is a huge hope for me. and he says, what if this unnatural light exists

, maybe, uh, we can see the world at this moment? eh yes, well, that's the way it is, in fact , the way it is conceived for me is the key that people everywhere. i try through it. uh, it's not that the key is hope is the hope that the world is such that it can be understood in this way, that's to you turn to this side. god bless, i'm afraid. eh, it’s directly categorical to talk about this when you know that you expect something from the human world, and then you hammer this truth, you say, this is true and the truth is in general, as soon as i start the truth. here at once with tomatoes in me, please, so that i wake up. let's not know what we are going to listen to now the person who met on your way. this is your prosthetist, just mikhail moskovtsev. let's hear him come. he brought it. so let's say they brought it, it's clear that the person was tired for a long time hanging out in clinics, but still

there was no hopelessness in his eyes. that is, he did not smell of hopelessness, when a person is interested, he wants something, he wants something, that is, he wants to get up. he wants to get back into the ranks, mind his own business. he goes through all the stages of rehabilitation faster. that's just sergei probably, such is he, uh, they said, go a step. he walked 10 and was told to walk two kilometers. that is, he gave everything he could from himself, he did what he can, practically i more i am sure that the majority of the same age, with the same problems, can do the same, but his relationship, rather, such people lead the exception. here he is. one of them. he said that i worked all day with two cameras around my neck,

as a photo correspondent. i know what it's like to carry two heavy cameras and be on your feet all day. i had no doubt that he might throw something else, but i did not know that it would be skiing again. we'll be back, but you also learned to dance. oh listen to me generally happy. e amazing story, e participate. i was invited as an understudy in a feature film to shoot this film about a man. just like me, this is almost an autobiography , almost such a person is. this is a terrible beast in terms of sports, in general, i just don’t know, so it took him a month after the amputation to get up . yes, uh, and uh, i was doing an understudy and an

interesting situation, what to dance? i didn’t know how, especially in prostheses, but it was necessary according to the plot in one day to shoot first we dance like i don't know how the first time, and then a few years have passed. and i'm already simply gorgeous, just a master, yes, yes, that was wonderful. it's very pleasant to dance. e with a beautiful girl who knows how to help and guide you . it was wonderful. eh, i came home. of course we slept and danced. she dances really well for me. eh, well, something didn't go any further. i don’t know, maybe skiing takes a lot of time. in short, this is apparently how it is at all the idea that something came to your mind to do mountain skiing. first time this. well, i tried skiing. i don't remember how long? well, i just tried it there friends went. me too well, try that too. if friends went, you immediately went to some serious results. you already had

skating in two years. there are awards, including, and bronze medals there at some competitions, and as i know, now you will choose to have the task of participating in the paralympics there. 2018, well, that is, here you are somehow further more why i don’t even know, that’s the question. how would, how otherwise in general, that is. well, in general, i just didn’t expect that big sport is such an energy that attracts me very much. this was a surprise for me. this is the very transcendent energy that is very difficult to find elsewhere. and when it does. this is incredible. this is a huge power. i want to invite us now to stop and listen to the skier may, simanov. uh, it's a skier with a visual impairment. well, let's listen, how did she take your arrival, so to speak, how she watched you boy is completely incomprehensible with legs without legs. that is, i knew that, well, absolutely nothing is visible, not even a professional. so he

himself chooses the mode, what he needs to know here. i don’t know, so he chose lies said, thank you, he left. you know the earrings everything, it's hidden. absolutely. he is so gentle, so airy, so rude, speaking out of many-voiced completely. this is real brutality. she is completely invisible. but hmm, so we have it even among ourselves. uh, called the tourists. it would seem that everything, well, well, well , he has no middle ground for everything. he, in my opinion, he does not feel tired until he falls exhausted , then he becomes quiet, for a while. he is so hooked, and on the mountain ly. that it already breaks without them. he cannot live without it. eh, then, in my opinion, a person in general is one who must take a certain peak. he is generally like that. the money for the first prostheses was given to sergei by a stranger. he just gave me a briquette of

half a million. yes, here on and, as it were, on prostheses, on which you can immediately walk quickly, well and beautifully , and for a crossed month. and this briquette gave money. i don't know he learned to dance on prosthetic legs to dance. i did not know how, especially in prostheses. and it was necessary to film the plot in one day. first we dance like i don't know how the first time, and then a few years have passed. and i'm already simply gorgeous , just a master, yes, yes, it was wonderful. it was very pleasant to dance. e with a beautiful girl who knows how to help and guide you. it was wonderful. eh, i came home. of course we danced. she dances really well for me. well, something didn't go any further. now it main. hello alpine skiing. i came to my current coach and he said, listen , come on, you will try the mountain. well, he is also

crazy with us, therefore, here is an absolutely wonderful person. so, well, uh, and we tried it and it was again very painful . but it is almost immediately to feel the anticipation of this, that state of being in love, yes, when you begin to feel the image, how should it be? i didn't expect big sport to be like that. and this is such an energy of life without borders sergey alexandrovich seryozha, but for me, more curious. one conclusion for you. you said that now you take responsibility for everything that happens. if i would, probably, be enlightened, if well , right, this is, well, responsibility. this is one of the key concepts, if you think about it, it immediately comes to the fact that we are mortal, it is very deep, but it starts with a simple one. well

, i'm very mom. yes, it did help. she trusted me and let me really decide. e of the smallest childhood. uh, really responsible for what i do. eh, there was such a case very much for me indicative i remember and it was i was less than 5 years old. i really wanted to go alone with mushrooms. well, at the age of 5 , a child wants to go looking for mushrooms alone. well, this is crazy. yes, but, uh, i told my mother that i’ll go to the interrogations there 300 m, so i myself and well, i’ll be back. i uh, that's it. i really want, and she also got me steve. and the fact is that later, as i later found out, all the bestowals are there for my mother, almost this one, t- you mean, a fool let a little child go into the forest alone, that’s all, go there, here. uh, in the end, i hear such a story that my mother, god, we took a dandelion villas literally and said if anyone at all if he finds out what was here here hmm sarah yes he should come himself i trust him. and i

came happy, i remember these two mushrooms all my life. here, yes, it is, uh, i did what i promised. i reached the interrogation, and i returned. i knew that my mother would be worried, but here's hmm and this is a question, yes, responsibility at that moment. yes, i was responsible for myself at the age of 5. now i have a little daughter and and i realized that this is the most difficult thing in fact and the most difficult thing for her that i can offer her. here e, it's really really hard. to make a choice, uh, to take responsibility for this, is it necessary, how to dose or something? yes, that is a lot. well , you can't very little, too, you can't, because it won't. well, whatever it is, it's important, it's very important to convey to her that this is real. here, how would it be you. only you can. well, i don’t know how difficult it is to decide, how difficult it really is.