day off come tomorrow. worth the gate. open it now, break the glass. i'm not allowed to work, creature. i will open you now. i'll show you now, i 'll show you now. oh you. citizen boss, but then inadvertently sick. i'm a nervous person, you know.

where do i serve? hello come on, great. listen, there isn't much of him here, i haven't forgotten, so it's your friend who

was brought here last night. well, this is the one with which you pinned the girl in an expensive car. listen, i help you with christ god, please, we need to get her out of the dork. it won't be too late tomorrow, she'll have problems at home. yes, i remember turning off. thank you. come on

, you are in charge here, of course, the guard is the same, he is always the most important . yes , pretty. and run gallop from here it is necessary so so so girl. why not let go? do you remember yegor,

yegor, who is kesha, worry about your father, he asked for it. yes, he would ask to say that you have a problem at home and you need help. he asked me to help you escape. so you run, run, and where he is, it is no longer in the know. and you, i'm always home and in everything myself figure it out. yes, now here on foot is nice. i can't order a taxi, it's not safe. you run, otherwise god forbid you will be enough with god. yes, let's go over there. run, run, don't stop. stop it is extremely unsafe. this is deadly. stop dmitry olegovich before it's too late. dmitry olegovich, the

head of the city police abramov, we ask you, we beg you. this is some kind of misunderstanding. can weapons. and we will solve all the issues, i have already warned. who enters my yard will be killed? my daughter is a lie, you killed her. i'm waiting for half an hour. if marina doesn't, i'll set myself on fire.

i have nothing to lose. i won't tell. all the time he asks about you, where no one knows where you are, and they sent me for you, you understand? you believe me, you know, they worked for themselves in the house. and mom, and mom

run away, she told everything with gasoline. let's go until for god's sake nothing happened, let's go. let's

marina you came, you came, my dear. you

came. you look, look what's going on, the father does not let anyone in. oh lord. we can demonstrate. let him go to the yard. only one daughter will sleep no one else. i'm afraid. come here. and no one else marinochka carefully i'm going

just please, don't mind you.

where are we now son? don't know. the main thing is away from here.

forgive me, father. forgive me too. i never had the desire to have my own child. i just do not want. i want to do other things. i want to devote myself to science. this is just my choice. i have to think with my

head, and not follow some rules. what is so necessary or so instituted? how are you striving to continue the mouth. it seems to us absolutely natural, nevertheless, there are more and more people in the world who do not want to become parents; they are otherwise called child, fries or free from children. i don't look at age. i look at my student as a person. they are my clients, i work with them, i fulfill my function, how to teach you future you have already thought about your future we do not know what will happen in 10-20 years. if this happens in 20 years. i'll change my mind eventually. i don't think i will necessarily regret it. and maybe i will regret, because there are grandfathers who have a vest that they gave birth to a child, but you can’t return it the other way around. planned for several years ahead, caring for

her own child does not fit into these plans at 34. he deliberately went for an operation, after which he could never become a father. of course, what is in these frames a complete happy idyll, mother her newborn son just a year ago, she could not even imagine that she would become a mother of a quiet measured life. she would never trade for a crying baby, but despite an unexpected gift of fate. she assures. this is her first and last child. i don't have time for this. i have no desire to work. i want to be free, not attached to anything. i need freedom of movement without any restrictions. in childhood. she preferred playing cossack robbers to dolls. daughters-mothers. she wasn't attracted at all. to be honest, i don't understand it.

apparently i'm a different person. i don’t understand this lisping, but hmm these flattering uh in front of the children hmm some concessions to them from these conversations about the fact that, well, these are children, all her friends dreamed of children, and she was about how to avoid this. today, she stands her ground in her life and there can be no place for a child. we are a certain area of ​​responsibility, which i do not want to take on, because i want to live for myself pleasure. all of them are deliberately childless, which is bearish. today. they alone with all of these people free from children every year becomes more and more often they are condemned. however, they are part of our society and i really want to know what is the reason that prompted them to this point of view. hello michael hello. thank you very much, first of all, for the fact that you decided to come to our studio, because we a in the search for heroes faced the problem that many people do not dare to speak publicly on this topic. but for

some. properties or usual thing to talk about it. thank you for inviting me, first of all, you know, i don't consider that heroism for me. this is a completely natural position. i see no reason to hide it. and even more ashamed of her. to me it seems every man is fired to make his choice in his life, and have him children have him children. i can ask you an indiscreet question for a woman. how old are you? i'm 32. here you are, uh, so definitely saying you don't want to have kids. this applies to today. do you assume that someday a your point of view will change or you have the feeling that this is a once and for all settled issue. you know, i'll tell you, honestly, m-m at the moment. it seems to me that, in general, i will adhere to the point of view for the rest of my life, but i i do not rule out the moment that at some point in my life, suddenly something will click in my head, and i will decide that it is precisely the children that i do not have enough for happiness. and you always boldly declare this

position of yours in the company of friends. uh, or in the company of people you don't know. you know, i don’t even find it cheerleading to provoke a little interlocutors and say, you know, i don’t want to have children, and you generally tend to go against some social stereotypes. against what society has established, as a rule. this is simple really my position. i sincerely believe in it, i do not consider it necessary to keep silent about it. what do you say when you are told that the purpose of every woman is to have children, i usually say hmm what you know, besides the fact that i am a woman. i am a person, i am a person. i have a certain range of interests in the pursuit of desires dreams and reduce. then to such a narrow goal, leave behind a generation, but i see the meaning of my life in a slightly different way, well, why such a narrow goal , after all, those who give birth to children? they are not that they leave their careers or theirs there, maybe there are scientific researches and so on, so on and so forth,

children are children. a career is a career, a relationship is a relationship. eh, why are you posing the question so sharply? just a lot of women, again, that's my age. yes, here are many of my classmates, let's say. hmm, as a rule. you know such a trend has revealed itself, rather than giving birth either, to fill the void in your life. that is, they are lonely, but either to keep a man. a. well, of course, most often the stamp works. well, so it is necessary yet they start here. i have the same age. i'm married pots all on the stove. it's time to have kids. it is not clear the sincere position. and that is, you did not come across, for any other motivation, that is, i want to give birth to a child, because i just want, because i want to love this child, because i like it. children of such a cutout. no, that's the point. yes, i’m not saying that everyone is like that again, yes. at 90%, this is the motivation that i listed is present in conversations. and even if she is not present in conversations, i

i understand, uh, in some detail. eh, even more about that, probably, than they are silent, that is, then when the period comes, what i hear here is me there in the kindergarten with him there, i would sleep there, and i would go to the disco. well , never mind. yes the point is that i'm starting to hear the child becomes a burden child - it's expensive. it does not require nerves. he blows my mind and so on. we fuse it to mommy com grannies because i want my private lives. i want to go on vacation, without a child and so on. i have a question. why did you give birth to him, if he eventually becomes, well, some uncomfortable piece of furniture in the house. the term childfree appeared in the 70s in the united states, and after a couple of decades such communities gained popularity in russia, the proportion of people who deliberately abandoned offspring is today 6%, but people who deliberately abandoned children continue to grow rapidly. they did it for various reasons and only in the

middle of that century already, but such a trend arose earlier, voluntary childlessness was chosen, mainly by creative and public people in different ways, arguing your point of view. youth is a wonderful thing. what a crime to waste it on children, and are you human enough to have the right to want a child my favorite thing to do is sit at home with a script and learn the role. i'm an actor. i have no hobbies no children and i don't like to travel women with children much maya plisetskaya yes, life without children is much easier. but that doesn't mean the decision not to have children is an easy one. however. i never dreamed of becoming a mother my gay friend, being in the seventh grade already knew what she would name the children, carefully, writing out your own and their names at this time. in my dreams, i saw myself as martin luther king. today,

ordinary couples with higher education and stable jobs want to be free from children, and some even go to extreme measures to avoid offspring. i didn't think for a long time. it was determined. uh, because somehow it immediately came to my mind and immediately it was six months ago that vladimir went for an operation, after which he would never be able to have his own children. but many do not want to have children for various reasons, for example, there is fear. just before motherhood. there is fear. before childbirth. there is a reluctance to share personal space with someone. and that's what's in your case, that's the most poignant when you think about it. they tell you to have children. do you think, why should i? and i just, probably, value my freedom very much, and your freedom is that it is freedom in every sense, it is freedom of movement. this is freedom. what do you want , that's all freedom because a child is a duty. i answer. i gave life. i am responsible for this man. i have to raise him up to make him a decent cell of society, you understand

the responsibility. i don't want this me. yes, this is probably a somewhat selfish position, but i want to live in pleasure for myself here on the forums. for example, i found quotes of such a plan in public transport, i try to sit down and stand away from women with children. if a mother tries to jump ahead of me in line. i do with the child. just more impudence, i make an impudent face, i push away my mother with the words and what and or is necessary to say impudently to mothers what they deserve . and just like everyone else. how can you comment on such statements such, so to speak, so harshly expressed position. i want to tell you that if we touched on this topic, and-and there is childfrit, yes, but there is the so-called childhaters. these are two completely different things, because childdaters, yes, these are just those who are exactly irreconcilable, just the attitude towards children, those who, well, there with english yes, they don’t hate children, and everything that is connected with them is motherhood there, well, and so

on. here, i reported three - these are just people, they do not call for anything, they do not promote anything. these are just people who have their own position, and they want society to at least accept them and not condemn them for it, don’t touch them, roughly speaking, just don’t touch me and that’s it. i do not want irritation towards children when they are not badly brought up unconditionally annoyance towards mothers when they bring up their children not badly undoubtedly. you make comments in any case. this is a private life, i have no right to go there. but if it concerns me and gives me inconvenience or discomfort. i will definitely tell you about it. and what is an ill-bred child who does not know how to behave in society, who cause discomfort to people around him, what is discomfort, he screams, is naughty, cries, breaks something, runs, pulls, and so on. and this is a great excuse, but he's a child, you know, i've seen a lot of children in my life and thanks to his profession. i know that you can sleep well here, but what were you like as a child? oh i was mad, i mean you were ill-

bred, america no i wasn't ill-bred, but i was mad in what way? i have a very tough mother, in fact, in terms of upbringing, and i clearly knew that screaming to attract attention to myself, to crowd with my feet and to be capricious to speak. i want this toy. it was simply unacceptable. i have known since childhood. so, well, so bad. fu, you can't do that. uh-huh was crazy in the way that i was very free right from my childhood. when i was little, we were vacationing in yalta in the santa reactor. i just went up to akhmadulina and was looking for, hello, and so i just easily met him and all that. you that, you that it is impossible i speak, well as it is impossible it is possible. she is the same as i meet, maybe, well, i didn’t understand these clichés in the society of adult aunts and uncles. i was on my own, except for my freedom. you also mentioned at the very beginning that you think you cannot in our society raise, so to speak, a worthy child. and no matter what child was worthy of you. this is not the question . i said that i won’t be able to raise a decent child, because i don’t have so much time, money, opportunities, and so

on, to bring up a person who, well, i would be proud and i could say, i did everything to make this person he was not ashamed of himself. uh-huh that he is educated, and he was much more capable compared to you. well, i think that yes, she was, because she was married, firstly to wait a minute. that is, you deny yourself not only the birth of a child, but also in the future to get married. well, i just don't aim for it. do you warn young people when you start dating them, if you are dating them, that you absolutely do not want children? yes, when it comes to talk, that is, it certainly does not happen. so hello. i’m michael, i don’t want to have children, definitely not, but when we have a serious relationship, yes, it’s all the same, sooner or later somehow this topic emerges for sure. i think it's stupid. well , it's just not pardonably unforgivable not to tell a person about such a serious decision in his life. and that you would never face the fact that a man - it repels no, next to me.

there have always been those men, the universe sent me exactly those men who just either accepted this position, or agreed with it, or also were. in general, i am sure i planned three. how do you calculate them? i don't know much about men who do this. uh, maybe you don't speak so harshly position. maybe you say you don't know it now. now. i want to pursue a career, then maybe, as you know, yul, i'm very straightforward. the relationship of my thoughts and it is very difficult for me to understand in two ways. i say, i don't want to have children, most likely i will never have them, dear. if you want to have children, please, with another woman, you are always so sure, why not? i breed some prerequisites for me to be unsure. yes, i'm confident. that is, if not with this, who will say oh, yes, i, perhaps, on the other woman, it will be different. yes, this means that this is not my person, because i think that, uh, you understand, this is a very strange position. i love you, but i don’t accept you, and you change for me, and i don’t understand

such love, love, it is all-consuming in terms of the fact that i accept you with all your pluses and minuses. like not like. i don't like not shutting you out. it's just that i don't like that you leave the dishes overnight, but i love you. i'm with you. so it doesn't matter. i accept you. i agree with you very much. here suppose. and ethically, you fall in love completely to death and you understand a person completely along with his desire to have children, you understand, it’s not quite here, an equal position to give birth to a woman, so you can’t put it here. here is the equal sign. there is another stereotype about this phenomenon of childfree, what in fact it says about the extreme selfishness that humanity is falling into. i would say that people are free from children. uh, they are afraid of responsibility for someone, because they themselves, despite their age, remain children. they are infantile, they want them to

remain the center, they do not want to give anything to anyone, they only want to take. since childhood, i have been an extremely independent person, i have been working since the age of thirteen and even at some periods of my life i completely supported my family. moreover, i love animals very much, and i am actively involved in them whenever i can, with pleasure, sacrifice and money, you know, i am better donate money to the animal help fund than the fund. there e fighting aids of young children, seriously say why? well because i feel more sorry for animals than people. why? and i am for sparta. so i think that they did the right thing in sports, the weak, the weak were born frail. you provoke me a little, as your friends. this is your favorite topic, you say, do you want me to uh, now i jumped up or do you really sincerely think so? no, why would i provoke you enough smart woman. i really think so. well, i don't get it. seriously. i'm going to get 20 sentences right now, but the bottom line is, a baby is born. forgive me, lord, with the syndrome. down he is all

life will live and suffer, and all his life around him people will live and suffer. why leave life to such a child, but are they really better to raise? healthy generation, because still a child. well, it's a little fetus in mom's tummy , but get your own abortion. god, guys, everything will be fine. what if you didn't see it? then suffer. and if something happens to you, if society becomes the same as in sparta, they did it not only with children, but also with old people who were not needed by society. everyone has their own destinies no one is insured you are hit by a car, you become disabled. well, in general, yes, but you know, if i can’t run, jump, dance, have sex in all the positions that i love you, no matter how uninteresting your mother knows about your position, that you don’t want children. and you are the only child she does not have, that is, there is hope from someone. no , you know, we both don't want to have children, and she treats this with dignity, she thinks that the

guys. this is your position. this is your life, of course , i support you. i am your mother, how are you? treat men with peaceful family men and large families, perhaps such families. yes, i'm happy for them. i have a lot of colleagues and a family they have a lot of children and they are happy. i am happy for them. i don't this anymore calmly. you nastya talk about children, someone got sick, someone something. and here we had a case when katya was there in general seryozha of a certain moment. yes, then, and then i just either leave the room in which this is being discussed. yes, uh under a plausible pretext. well, either i’m just saying straight out, maybe sex is better, but you are annoyed by these conversations. no, they are just for me. was delicious uninteresting. here is the secret cuneiform, for example, it does not captivate, because it is 100% in your life, and someone lives by it. this is the meaning of life for him; he collects every little piece, calendars, postcards, any source of information, cuneiform. that's all for him. well, i just have other interests, but this does not mean that a person in comparison with me is worse or better in no way. it's just that he's different

, he has other attraction, another hobby, but this is his choice. that's his right on navy day. on the first, the ships of the baltic fleet laid a course in all oceans and seas. you know, to be honest, i'm generally because of her only for history. maybe enough already so dragonfly for life. find a normal man, but you feel your heart beating because i love you. forgive and ready to fulfill any of your orders. one box is missing, everything is fine. we watched the boat hooked on the box. here, how many more of these things are under water.

or a pass on the career ladder, if suddenly this happens, this can happen, despite that there are no religious considerations in your life at all. no, i don't believe in god. yes, i am free from any religion. and no article talk that you may encounter about what abortion is . in general, there, as a dangerous thing for health, and a dangerous attitude. this abortion is no more murder than you come tonight to eat a chicken, that is, you and a chicken are also the same, but we are all alive, as if everyone who lives. yes, every leaf on the tree. we are all alive, we all feel we have a feeling. yes, we have a purpose. and when someone takes on such a bold role to decide lives. is there a plant or

an animal, well i try to minimize it in my life. and you have some idols among famous people who, so to speak, are also free. she is the richest, black woman in the world, she has no children or, in my opinion, she is already 63-62 already and she speaks quite clearly about this many times, she said that i live fine, without children. you know it was uh, tragic enough the reason for this choice is possible, well, it's just that i 'll even tell you. she was raped and she gave birth to a child as a result of this rape. and this child died. then she said. i never want to have children again. well, this is just a special case, you asked me. the first thing i remembered, yes, that’s right, but in fact you think that this is some kind of direct relationship, that she is the richest, that she is the most successful, because she does not have children by no means. no, you just asked if there are people i have that don't have children.

yes, they have their mass of cameron diaz for example, there, for example, uh kim catrol. these are the people whom i admire, they are well done, they are not smart, they have no children, and they have not become worse because of this, they have not become less talented . you see, unsuccessful me, again, if you like, the main protest also lies in the fact that if you do not want to have children in society, we put pressure on you and, as it were, tells you that your life will be inferior if you do not give birth to children, it depresses you, but let's just say it makes me feel bad, because i'm being forced into a point of view, because the norms of behavior in this society are imposed on me and the rules of the game are imposed. uh-huh, you understand , you owe and don't owe anything to anyone, not even your mother. uh-huh. what is the meaning of your life? have fun doing what you love to travel oh god so travel for a year, two or three all my life until i travel, apparently i don’t know, maybe in 2 years i’ll come to you and tell you know now, and the meaning of my life is yoga, for example, perhaps i'll come back in three more. i

decided that i want to take care of dolphins. i don't i know, well, for now. here i am still in this state. since there are different bodily ones, but in general, loneliness, i’m not talking about old age now, in principle, are you afraid of loneliness or not? no, i get high when i'm alone then by the nature of my work. i communicate with people so much that when i come home, there is no one there. he's a little little thrill. what silence and so i introduced for a second, i come, this is my mother, i got a deuce at school today. i ran milk mom, god forbid well , look, i'll read you a few more hmm quotes from a discussion in a group on the internet in social networks. what different motivations, but my child will never die, never get sick. he will never go to jail, he will never disgrace me, because i will never give birth to him, he will never be. i

will not give anyone in life, i will not give death. i will be 38, i consciously do not want children somewhere from the age of 11. and you, by the way, how many, that is, when do these thoughts arise? yes, the first, i do n’t even want to fall in love, writes another respondent. not to mention children, because in 90% of cases this leads to relationship breakdown and depression. why is this beautiful about another person or not? or in your love relationships, you also build certain systems to take care of another person. i don't want kids. not because i don't want to care. i just really like to take care of. i am a person's favorite. i am pets and about other people about my friends. i'm ready to take off my last shirt. if i know it will help them worries. this is great. it's great. this is when you give a person energy, love positive is wonderful. well, i don't want kids. and yet, i want to clarify with you about your relationship with young people, they are already with

children. if, uh, there are some restrictions for you too. in the sense that this is how i already understood that if this person wants a child, then this is also you in a different phone. in what cases are you in a different phone for me relationship with a man hmm it's not we are two halves and we are not a single whole. how can i explain to you, we are comfortable with each other, we are good. we do not make claims to each other, do not ask for anything, give and do not wait instead. uh, how do you say that? this is exactly where i'm going. and for me, love is when you give without expecting anything in return. and you are ready to give it endlessly. you just want to make the other person happy. you know, like in a song. let it not be so with me with others, when the end in itself is for the loved one to be happy, but for me this is impartial true love. and when you seem to love, but at the same time, well, something is

in a hurry to give a ring with options. these are already market relations. that they have nothing in common with love. why do you think there are more and more people who want to be free from children every year? i don’t know. everyone has their own motivation. yes, someone is afraid of their mother. afraid of childbirth , afraid that the money is not enough. well, there she is afraid to become not beautiful - i read about this women are afraid. so i’m getting fat, he’s going to another there, he’ll get mistresses and so on. i just have other reasons. i don't know why other people choose this position. i have never discussed this particular topic. might be worth asking. thanks to our michael the next heroine adhered to all her life. life decided several of the same views as mikaela, otherwise matvey walks. all things, of course, natalia is 35 years old. and it's hard to believe that in the past she was convinced that personal comforts, harmony with

herself, were always in the first place for her, but fate made its own adjustments, six months ago, she had a son. now natalya is happy in her new role as a mother, but despite this, she no longer wants children. hello here. why didn't you change your mind despite the fact that the child was born because i lived. it was i who understood what it was like and if . i selfish didn't want children because really i would like to be free from problems from everything. well, that is, the child is a problem. yes, by the age of 35, it happened like this. eh, a clear principled position. i don't want to take responsibility. i'm a fairly responsible person, uh, and to some extent

i'm an a student in life, i'm a perfectionist. yes, i'm a perfectionist. i need everything to be good great. i was responsible for everything. not a grandmother herself, a grandfather. and i am a nanny, namely, i am responsible for raising a child, and i did not want to. taking on this responsibility, i do not hide it, but i am responsible for the performance of my work duties, for example hmm, and it was enough for me to take responsibility for the child. now there is a child. he has already been born, but you still say that i have him. and now he 's now he's the only one and never will be again no, because it was very difficult, that the birth was difficult. they may have been mild in terms of medicine. they were folded for me psychologically and physiologically. i was very worried about them, how could this happen at all, so that a convinced tea is alarming. actually got pregnant. here is more, probably, somehow

especially controlled this moment. here is such a, yes, let's say it, the way i 'm talking about it now, an absurd accident that turned into a happy occasion for me. so why did you decide to keep the baby? here is mikaelov, quite definitely says what will she do in case she gets pregnant? i am 35, i thought that a blow to the body, that hormonal blow that will happen when you have an abortion, this failure. i was afraid of the consequences. eh uh, usually afraid of the consequences. what that there will be no more children? no. i was afraid that this could lead to oncology in this case, well, hormonal failure. you never know, how will it affect uh-huh, because the body begins to rebuild itself. i thought of myself as the logical end of the child's parents to give away his orphanage. not why, because this is my child, this is my particle, why should i give it to someone? did the father of the child somehow influence the adoption of such a decision or not? yes, i thought that the set of genes

that we reward this child with. it's just a sin to waste it from immodest education. come on and together with no uh-huh and what do you work for? natasha, before i went on maternity leave, i was an assistant manager. well, that is, it’s not that you have some kind of crazy career, absolutely your own business. i do not have. no, of course, a then in the name of what work work work work for yourself. i was just curious. you are now working again. no, i don’t work yet, but i’m thinking about what i can do, for example, writing texts, copywriting it’s easy to sit at home doing a child while he sleeps, for example, writing now your priorities have shifted. now you understand that the main responsibility is here. well, he's 4 months old. yes, i should be with him. at least, it will be possible to leave it in three years. i am so i think it is quite possible to feed a kindergarten, for example, and you probably have

like-minded friends hmm about tea then you were i will say so hmm not myself not my friends. never called themselves childf. i know, they didn’t call them in any way, they just voiced their position and there were a lot. you know, but that's how it happened to me around me there friends with no children. i have more than friends with children, and i won't say that most of them will never have children. and they're just probably at that age when now we have shifted the time frame for the birth of children. yes, if earlier the first money already appeared there 20-21, now it is somewhere more often than thirty and sometimes even three, how did your childless friends react to the news that you are pregnant, that the happiness that my friends experienced, i guess i didn’t experience so much happiness at first i was congratulated. we were all surprised. yes, i was surprised. what did you expect? i

didn't expect. i didn't expect such a strong reaction. i always feel like it's some kind of false. there is some kind of invented theory that life will be easier and more beautiful without children, and then when it turns out that a child will appear. here are these childless friends, they say, god, what happiness i congratulate me. i say it again, these friends never said that we don’t want children at all categorically never , so you see now i should be, that i should beat my head in hysterics lie flat against the wall . and crying, i changed my attitude to the situation. yes, i don't want kids. yes i always said that i would be a part. yes, that's what happened, that 's what happened. he turned out to be my child, why can't i change my attitude to the situation and say, well, since i have him, but i love him. this is my child. they didn't just slip someone in there. this is my child. you can now imagine your life without this child being born. i don't like the conditional

mood. and if if asked there 2-3 years ago. yes, i would say that money is a salute to a child with a child in my life, now i can say, when i see his eyes, his smile, when he hugs me, and he does this already at 4 months. it's so funny touching. it is clear that i will not say in any way that i would prefer to live without him. well , because that would be unfair to him. he already is, and the gender of the child mattered to you or not? i wanted a boy. why i have no idea. i'll be honest. i always wanted a mother, if a child, if hypothetically there will be a child, and i, in principle, argue, really, as woland said, but he spoke about mortality, that the worst thing about a person is that he can be suddenly mortal. yes, the same thing, there i perfectly understood that i can assume a lot, a person assumes. god disposes. now, if a child appears, then only a boy i wanted a boy, maybe on a subconscious level, a support, yeah. here, yes, here comes the man. well, perhaps,

because in our family there are two girls with my father, i wanted to dilute such a female collective. that means about your blog that you really keep a small diary called a fairy noveyana. you call your son fairies fairies. why is that, because matvey matvey is short for fairies? uh-huh that's what you write, now i've almost learned to understand what he wants to tell me because the crying message that needs to be deciphered and executed at first was exhausting and yes, from impotence turned into a capricious little girl who forgot that it was not a doll in front of her , and a living child, and often such impotence rolled over you. it is not often necessary to say that i generally got a very seasoned child. that is, he knew what he is born to his mother, he absolutely perfectly understood who he appeared in. and how it is worth leading here, how therefore, well, just like that, he rarely cried at all, and he sleeps very calmly. it is good, that is, when the bed i bought an apartment

so that fey had a separate room, i rented it and after discharge i realized that the discipline is good for a healthy sleep even better. yes, my child sleeps in his own bed. well, in my own i can take it early in the morning to extend my stay in the arms of morpheus and do it. so i became in the maternity hospital gives the impression that there is also some kind of built-up some hypotheses about how it should be as perfect. yes, and so on, this hotel and just day after day you are destroyed absolutely these fences absolutely absolutely agree with you. right here to the point. i'm talking about this actually, just in this chapter, i'm writing about the fact that you don't have to think that you don't, if, as i always say, if you can embody an ideal picture of the world, listen, i will applaud. standing. i also broadcast right and left, being pregnant. he will live in my room and sleep only in his bed. there i do not know if there is, that is, by the clock there or there, when he will ask,

my god. now i understand that in his room, of course, he can sleep for god's sake. just you will jump up and run to him. this is too much time to rock him later. uh-huh it's him extra time will cry. uh-huh, he he will experience neurosis. and then you will actually stay up at midnight, rocking him, bringing him into a state. why a calm child calm mother just like i can come to my son, not immediately love about love for my son. i am still learning what comes immediately. it's an endorphin blast. it's really built in by nature . after a woman gives birth, so that she does not experience some kind of pain. there is something else, so that she feels something for the child there. an explosion . these are the ones i experienced, in reality, it’s easier to live with something, yes , here in the coordinate system, which are all logically justified, first an explosion of endorphin

, then here i will study. that is, you do not believe that there are feelings that break everything in general. well, i'm talking about myself, yul, i'm talking exclusively about myself, so i ask you, do you believe in this or not? you, i say again, i believe in myself. uh-huh, because i see it. and there as it may be. i can't answer for my neighbor here. he may have, here are women who are immediately tested. it will be like they say, so they put a heel in my hand there, then i realized that it was mine and i was ready to give everything for this atom, there are all the treasures of the world, and i was born and the only thing i understood was that. three red letters all for the first time in my life. i experienced the sensation of an empty head. that is, it was so exhausted looking at me. eh, obstetricians and say, mother. well, at least you smile, you child, and i forgot how to smile, and then yes, then they

brought it to me. i suddenly realized, this is my what you will say about the fact that frieze tea is getting bigger and bigger. i will say that well, at least, as it seems to me, what i see people do not want to take responsibility is selfishness. yes, it's selfish to some extent. to some extent it is fear. fear of taking responsibility our society is becoming our society infantile to some extent. yes, but sick infantism. we like that we can have fun. we have the freedom to travel, something else, in principle, infantilism, because building relationships and having children is a responsibility. and this is work, but we don’t want to , we want everything, like in the game i have such a

question for you. i know that you came here for this program because we invited you. yes, but you had a choice, you could agree. and could not agree, what is your motive? why did you agree and why do you lead the block, you know the blocks began to lead, and firstly, in order not to lose your memories, your impressions of all this, it was the first, as it were, the first pativa, and the second motive. eh, if i can someone. to help with something, if a person gets some information from my blog, it will be good. i am always happy to bring such information to anyone. you never know who , maybe there is a person. i don't know, i was childfree and suddenly got pregnant, and he the same panic as she once experienced. i read it and thought that maybe you shouldn't panic, but you should. listen to yourself and start assessing the situation a little from the other

side, or change your attitude to the situation there. yes, or maybe as some information about how to treat a child in general. that is, information can be different from emotional support, mm to some useful things about at least what diapers to buy. i write about it too. that's about why i came on this transfer hmm to some extent also because of this to some extent. it was e, it was a desire to simply tell, but about the fact that we are, in principle, people who think differently. i say again, i never called myself a chelfrit, right here, i remade it so categorically there, because i never subscribed to me under such a community, but just to say that people who hold this point of view. in fact, they are not so terrible, they are not already so terrible, we don’t propagandize, they don’t impose. just and we we ask you to respect our position and not to say that

because of this we are flawed or we think wrong or i don’t know there. you understand, for some reason, people who think differently. they are trying in every way to make it clear that i don’t know the undergrowths there, you don’t understand, right? you are simply flawed, or as i was told, some comrades. yeah, you're just probably fruitless so that's why you say that. i mean, why try to insult? i do not insult a person who has a different point of view. don't insult me last question for you. natasha is banal. mikhail mentioned that, uh, sometimes her grandfather's friends, whom she asks, what changed them in the life of a child. they say, well, i became happier or something else they can never explain. it's to the end. it's probably hard to put it into words, but did your life become fuller and happier after the birth of your son or not? she just got into another she became

another. and i can’t say that you know, now a child came and made me happy until this. i was unhappy, you can't make a man happy. eh, artificially, if a person was unhappy, stupid birth. only then, most likely, not only will he remain unhappy even after the birth of the child. so he will make another child unhappy. even if just because he does not know how to rejoice. you know how yevtushenko has wonderful construction sites. i know. i, that a person is unhappy, because he is looking for happiness, here is happiness, you don’t have to look. i was able to enjoy the simple things there. i don't know, the first leaf in spring. the first a ray of the sun the first snow, and therefore, when a child appeared, he did not make my life more complete, he changed it. i can say that down has changed her to some extent for the better. i can definitely say this, but because i, for example, uh, got up to look at some things differently. i

understand that these are only flowers, because it will continue to grow. i will rediscover some books. i will rediscover hmm the world in general, because it will be the first time to see. there the same snow it will be in a new way i will rejoice with him. i am this is wonderful i will get some opportunity to relive this, and at this stage i, for example, i can say that i have begun to lead a healthier lifestyle than i led before it for what, and i'm 35. uh, he will 10 i will be 45 if i bring a child to school, his classmates will ask him a question. this is your grandmother. i think it hurts his ego. in my opinion, too, i do not want to put him in an uncomfortable position. i want to be for a long time, and his mother, which he the first woman to fall in love with can be proud of. the boy is his mother. i

want him to fall in love. not because i'm his mother. yes, there, how would you choose me as an ideal, but because i really look good. after all. the same form in culture, the child is good. that's why i need to be healthy, because i have to play with him. i must have the strength to be with him. mass so i want to save longer. eh, yes, my youth. i want to be aware of all the trends so that being on the same wavelength with him is perfectionism. let it be. well, well, thank you very much for allowing, uh, to talk to you about this. thank you very much mikaela e hmm i do n't think i even dare to draw any conclusions about uh this huge topic is huge, as many reasons that are basically at the heart of th-3, but i think it's great that you made it possible themselves in this both to talk to us, as well, because this is a large part of society holds the same views. and they need to her to be familiar need to hear her point of view

respectfully, but in order to interact further in this world. thanks a lot. thank you.

the heroes of this story, perhaps, he is sure that to assert that the life of retirement, not only does not end, acquires new and most interesting, most unexpected colors and shades, lev nikolaevich bobrov today in our studio. hello lev nikolaevich, tell me, is this some kind of special team. uh, in which you, uh, take part in many different collectives in moscow

groups of all ballroom dances and historical dances of the argentine tango and in all i participate a little. i participate in all dances. and tell me, what is the average age of the participants in these groups, almost all pensioners, who are retired everyone goes to dances, the choice of some new direction it was when you retired that i thought, but nothing, yes, i started dancing there, yes. retired yes, standard, so these are five dances of the foxtrot tango, not dons, waltzes for gardening, and then you know these arias, uh, there are others there e sambo rumba very active dances, jive, please, also latin american all dances are

dancing, what's the matter. and why do you make such a choice it is this direction that happened, when you retired time became longer, the best time came to rest, what at home, or what to sit? what for? why at home? this is some kind of burden of care, you come to the dance, get ready, firstly, and clean, put on a shirt, trousers, changeable shoes, take with you. and how very good. and how old are you now, i am now 85 years old. 85 years old 85 yes, and you retired. i went out. i don't remember even what year i came out in '75. i went to a group there for disability, the doctors didn’t tell you, they say, just lev nikolaevich you need some kind of calm lifestyle, you better lie down, you better rest, they said more why, but why

lie down is worse than losing your health in motion. one must always be moving. this is good and wonderful. that's what's the matter, new people of communication and new you understand acquaintances new that 's what's the matter, which are afraid of what it is vice versa? well, how am i, here’s the core, i’ll probably be in some kind of danger from this, have you ever had to convince anyone that, of course, yes. i'm on my own, here it costs me a chebulator , i'm slowly dancing now. here, no big deal. well, what of this slowly dancing? all right, how is your day? here you wake up , you wake up, all these things are doing their own, and by 10:00 am, going to the dance every day, so we have a standard on monday, tuesday. we have historical dances, historical dances, 56 dances, you need to know

all sorts of things there, that's what's the matter, there's mignon's romanesque. well, there's a lot back there, there's all sorts of french dances. in total, 56 dances. we can say that you are engaged in dancing in order to maintain health. quite right. yes, in order to be interesting, no living and health. interesting. live already interest some new acquaintances. you understand, the years look simply amazing, there are some complex elements in argentine tango that you were not given. yes, that's something you know how to work out, you have to dance with partner. this is a difficult task. there is not always time for this, of course, and what are capricious is not so, it is not so you know. and can you show me or maybe take me

as a partner for some time in order to show some element, maybe. akhmatka moms, nikolaevich's tulva i'll tell you holds your partner tightly. i can't listen. here are simple movements and now

thank you very much. well, i'll tell you. you in vain to yourself speak as about what you cannot learn. you just take your partner in your hands, it's okay. it seems to me for the second time, i would already yes, of course, nothing happens right away, but they dance, mostly people are lonely or who currently have you

yourself a lonely person or you also have a family that supports you in this. yes, i'm lonely. i had a wife who passed away. and now i'm lonely. in a sense, dancing is your salvation. yes loneliness including from loneliness. and in general, i get great great pleasure from this great joy from these dances. i am everything is forgotten, everything goes to the past bad, but only good ahead. try to be how old do you feel yourself when i was 14 of these 15 years flew by like one month. right now, well, they passed so quickly, because here, well, the whole week in dancing, you understand, in the morning from

10:00 from 10:00 from 9:00, and then i still skate on skates . but what about figure skates before hill but what about, well, they went to paris there. we serve 10 pairs of us retirees. we drove.

and can you imagine lev nikolaevich doing something completely new now, not yet i know some language to learn now the argentines are busy. here i am argentine, if something new - this is only from the category of dances. and if it weren't for the thought of age, maybe you would somehow allow yourself something new? well, if, of course, if i could drop it, my daughter, i found everything a partner, who you

know, as if close relationships, of course, of course, everyone in the sanatorium should go on vacation together. and in general, and today today you are happy. i'm now here now today classes in the middle class old, and tomorrow practice there yeah 4 hours today at 11:00 the lesson of historical dances for everyone, that's what it's all about lev nikolaevich thank you very much for our uh conversation. i would like before we parted. we want to bring a gift from our program to you for your activities that you are so passionate about. here are three butterflies

. what are busy. thank you, my darlings. thank you very much, they energize and inspire confidence that age is not a hindrance at all. everything becomes every year for new achievements more and more. my name is alexander aleksandrovich kapitarenko, i am 102 years old, but since outwardly, it seems to be more than 75 and they don’t give me a seat on the bus, i’m not inferior to school. i played board we moved the desks. and

this ball was thrown for a change. i feel at my best around the table. i even feel like a man, because you understand my strengths enough to play, as they say, almost at full strength of the year, i 'll tell you, they somehow pass too quickly. they flashed a glimpse, they do not burden me. and i have a woman friend. yeah, uh, well, we're with her we communicate alone to go somewhere to the theater to concerts. yeah, it's just indecent. here is my inspiration - i'll tell you life is life itself. my name is zoya nikolaevna

, i am 76 years old, once in my youth i received a serious sports injury, which chained me to bed, this happened in the pool during training. i jumped from the tower and went head-first into the interpolist's shoulder, when i came to my senses and, uh, they said that jokes over the bed are all this is a sentence. the first thing i had? yes, it's not with me with me this can not be, i have everything will be good. and the first step was a long one, learning to sit and walk all over again. well, a very active life after the injury i started, because i would like, like everyone else, i wanted to walk, i wanted to see and such a positive. it is possible and moral uplift from all sides i live, alone, rejoice, enjoy. children, grandchildren, everything is fine. in general, i consider myself, probably, the happiest.

the next guest of our program, vladimir yakovlev , is a man who conducted his own research among people aged 60+ and called it the age of happiness. hello vladimir very glad to see you. me too, and infinitely interested in your research, i must say, it is extremely inspiring and just curious in itself. and i would like to start with an immodest question. and how old are you? i must say, 56,

simply luxurious. thank you. thank you. and how old are you ? i'm 45 looks fantastic? well, in general, at the age of 56, so in our country. yes, in our society it is considered that 56. but this is still a man. in the prime of life. why would you suddenly be so interested in the problem of old age? i would say and hmm why such a study that you have old age scared huh? i was really scared, really. what exactly, and you know, i turned 50 at some point, and i realized that i was finished, like this, well, i was brought up in a culture, as we all generally say, like what, which is based on the idea that in 50 starts. in general, more or less, old age is 50 55, well, so it was with our parents. yes , if you remember, it's true, i remember that

when my dad had his 50th birthday. it would seem to me that we, too, are exactly the same and i, therefore scared. i decided for myself to understand, in general, is there anything else for me to catch, if the meaning is to live on, if the meaning is to live on, does anything shine for me, in general, can i somehow influence what will happen to me? but because it's scary, because you know, give it as you say that people are afraid of death, death is not such a terrible thing. but, if you are serious, look at the last 30 years of life, yes, as it were from 50 to 80, then you look around there are people who feel great. yes, just like a lion nikolaevich for example. and there are people at the same age who are practically in incessant pain. well, i don’t know, this can only be compared with torture. this is very painful. very hard, very scary. uh-huh and i asked myself, well, okay. but what shines for me, this or that, and

can it somehow? can i somehow influence? well , in a way. this is the first thought that comes to mind, what is genetics? well, no. this is not genetics, all the studies that exist at all, so about everything they show that the dependence of what happens to us after 50 a on genetics is very, very insignificant. and by the way , you do not like the word old age. i don't like the word old age. well, you know, i think that old age is basically a negative word . the most unpleasant thing is that when they say an old person, they mean that he is subhuman, that you know the cult of youth. yes, that of youth , youth, a person is a person. but there for 50 for 60 for 70 is old age. this is degradation. this is already wrong bad last let's say 20 years. yes such a cult of youth such, and sensations. uh, harsh conditions, like in sparta, when it means

the old people were unnecessary, this happened right now before our eyes, and therefore everything is like this, all plastic surgery and everything else. it seems to me that this is so developed, because while you are young, you are needed, as soon as you are a little bit. yes , absolutely right. it's really. so it really is. so we're not on my mind. we do not see the situation exactly, because they generally say. there is what you call old age, that is a period of extinction, which is quite, naturally, in fact, it is no different from pregnancy. yes, because the pregnant color is the entrance to the world and old age is the entrance to the world. they are the same. naturally. it's not just that nature designed us to be young, mature and treat us. over the past six years i have met a huge number of people who are absolutely healthy at 70 and 80 or 90. absolutely it depends on what they do and how they live there studies.

there are more examples than just humans. they don’t get sick at 30 and 40, and at 50-60 they completely get themselves in order, they recover, and in general, nature gives a chance there, yes, if we correctly comprehend philosophically. yes, yes, we will not carry the burden of the mistakes of youth. if you say, no, of course, on the contrary, listen, you know this beautiful phrase, if youth knew, if the old could, yes. and you know who said no? it was said by the french poet andrei and i eat. so this, in fact , was part of his epigram, he said this at the beginning of the 16th century, then old age was 35 years old, in fact, that now 50 is to a large extent. the beginning of life for a very specific reason, because a moment comes when you are full of energy, because life is very extended. yes , and besides this, you also have, uh, life experience that you didn’t have before. and this is the point of combining life experience and energy. this is a brand new life period this period. this is

the happiest period of a person’s life, because not only those who spoke to you, but those with whom i spoke, of course, and a huge number of people with whom i have met lately. here are the new books that are now ready, which i would like to touch on the specifics for a while, simply because the examples that i personally read in your and your books so far and they me some. astonishingly, i filmed such a beautiful guy whose name is valentin badich, who is well over 70, who was cured of dancing, hmm, quite serious joint diseases that he had and she was brought to my studio to perform. i was honestly afraid because he dances 30 shake er, here. i think it's all going to be such a spectacle. well, listen, he danced for 3 hours. so that the whole studio danced with him. i am including him. he has fantastic plasticity. and this is not the man that elvis uh grandpa. elvis yes, he is. let's look at him.

my friends and i have been engaged in water tourism for several years in a row in the spring, so it is likely that after the hike in the summer. i felt pain in my back. it turned out that i have a complication of the joints of the flock to offer this patients with my diagnosis to put a place on their artificial joints so titanium will now be why i need it so i was still, uh, considered myself a strong healthy person. i think to me how many more inhabitants i will suffer like this. i decided then

that medicine can no longer help me. i decided that i had to get out myself once sitting at home. i heard on the city radio that in the palace of culture of the persian plant, evenings of rest are being held by the stations. i thought this is interesting. why am i sitting alone at your house when people are dancing there? go see. move live sit hurt lie die. something makes such decisions in order to overcome you, not the arcs that were with them , but someone does not get sick. and suddenly he decides to radically change his paradigm of his life in general, to do something that they have never done before, but what do you think, who decides

to do this? this is a very tea very engaged in this is a very, in my opinion, a very correct question. very good, because that's what impressed me the most. i don’t know for the last ones, there are 5 years old. i met. well, probably, well, 200 centenarians, maybe more people who are there 70-80-90, dancing, moving happy. and in general, but it's amazing. no, this is such a position, old age is not decrepitude. here are these examples implementation works. but what is striking in these people and what i felt after the first year of the train and it absolutely amazed me. listen, they are all exactly the same, that is, what they do, how they maintain their health, how they eat. they are exactly the same, regardless of the person. geography of education, because now we are all

tense. hit the screens. so what should be done. now i will tell you what to do. it 's very simple, firstly, the problem is that it teaches how to live after fifty. this is true? yes, this is how you want, handle it, an absolutely specific set of history itself works. the absolute top is what helps the most. uh, especially in your 60s and something that no other health practice compares to, that's dancing. yes , actually, that's why they dance to this nikolaevich see how right you are. this dancing is no yoga no pilates. i'm talking about people now, not about what i would like to imagine. yes, that's about the people that i met, who are there nineties a hundred, who are good in the state. and that's what they were doing and, uh, paradoxically parachute in the world. today you represent several thousand skydivers who skydive over 80. i

know absolutely wonderful guys who celebrated their eightieth birthday by going to the airfield and skydiving. he himself sky diver 80 times in a row without stopping. he is idle. he celebrated his family. yes noted. yes, here, and i have never yet. see what a big flaw after 50 with him he will help you with food. now let's talk about food. eh, they eat, they are all exactly the same. when i started joining vegetarianism, i listen. when i started this, i was sure that now i will find a raw food diet, macrobiotics, nothing. and that they all, firstly, eat whatever they want. yeah. listen, they eat for fun everything is in a rush. here is the only limitation they have they eat little. and now, i would like to touch on one more topic. um, hmm, there is still a certain stereotype in our society of

what people look like after 50 after 60. what are pensioners? that's how the word old age would cancel the word pensioners, and uh, and i sometimes met on the internet wonderful collections of photographs, let's say, and elderly people are somehow fantastically original. , igor gavr and who finds here is also a very original version and let's take a look now, and then we'll talk about this topic.

in the city of omsk, igor will come in handy, can you hear us? hello hello in our studio. please tell me igor why do you have a person who is only 27 years old, so interested in older people say that many hobbies are laid down in childhood, there were two increases. i love collecting dinosaurs. this is the first, and the second. i loved

butterflies. perhaps with age. in ancient times commensurate with the length of human life, if we are serious, then my interest was some kind of unconscious block from the beginning, it was called differently, and i did not set any age restrictions for my heroes. well, ah, but they were heroes, mostly people of my age, and how my generation dresses, but the thought is about to me, it’s clear that’s why i pretty quickly referred to this topic and at some point i just laid out the whole photo archive and began to clean it out to choose what is not interesting to me and in dry residue. what is called remained photographs of grandmothers. here is igor tell me please. what is the goal of the project, is it formulated? the goal of the project yes, in general, the goal is quite simple, i

fix it. this is some photo chronicle of what older people look like in russia, uh. may i ask a question? you can of course, yes, wildly interesting, because i saw your photos, and they are beautiful, er, and dried up, because i also photograph photographers, as if for my books. i'm just really interested in what you do, say thank you you. and you, and you dress up, you make lighthouses, you dress up your heroes, or this way they dress in reality in life is exactly reality. yes, i have only one heroine with whom we are very close friends. i can tell you later. and this is how people dress in reality, that is, in fact, i catch on the street almost by the hand. this is such an online communication, it turns out that your geography is wonderful, since you live in the city of omsk, it is limited. here is omsk and the tri-city, and whether you say so. travel all over russia and find in their characters travel experience. now the

project covers here make no mistake. six cities, omsk moscow st. petersburg first uh, izhevsk and ulyanovsk large geography. and how do people react when you come up to them and say, oh, you stand so fine. i'm a photographer. i want to take a picture of you. they are not afraid. they say why what is and what is it to me is not so, by the way, the story. she revealed my personal prejudice, probably towards these people from the very beginning. i thought this idea might even fail. that is, it seemed to me that pensioners. they are so non-contact that they are scared on the internet, but everything seemed to be the other way around now, and probably 98 percent of people agree and this part has broken some of my stereotypes about these people, of course, there are some incidents. but there are fewer of them than there are such stories when a person responds. towards. and what can you say about a person by his appearance , here are some details that tell you something, if

you have some kind of your own research, such as vladimir has some kind of selection already established. what about what can be said? well, in general, clothing is, after all, some cocoon is an aura that we carry out there and we can say that a lot begins, standing, starting from how much a person earns to finish. in general, his state is internal, that is, external. in any case, this is an internal projection, but it happens that a person earns a little, and the grandfather is unbelievable there i have one such lady, and, unfortunately, she receives a very small pension of 6,000. here but if you see her on the street, you will never think that she is by and large in poverty, because ah, she looks more like a petersburg aristocrat. that is, she is always at the parade , always not a hat of a coat, but everything is very well-groomed. here, and she says that the style just depends on the amount of money. and albeit also unconsciously on

my part, since i already said that we will make a book about appearance at the age of happiness and sent them how to look good after fifty. i'm just here i invite you not to participate. we will be very, very happy. if you take part in it and we will be very glad to see your photos. yes. i am happy that such a cooperation happened on our program. be sure to write to me, let's publish it. yes, good app. let's do it so let's arrange a barter if you meet a lady with good taste. you send a fool to the project, if a person from a good story, i send him to you to return happiness, let's be a little difficult to share. let's get the details. you discuss already when you write off. and now i would like to ask the last question in many. and how do you imagine your own old age or you don’t think about it yet. you are doing this, as an art project that

interests you very precisely the word to say that most likely, no, not exactly. this is an art project, after all, it is very social, but in its old age. to be honest, i still can’t imagine in detail and exactly like this, but i feel i can imagine the state of society in which i wanted this age. it must be a society. limited by some stereotypes and in which i say the word in july that you would cancel the word old age, but i think i didn’t cancel it. i would like to just change attitudes towards him. e to say e phrase. i was old, i was not ashamed. e wow. first of all, so that it does not in any way call pity. of course, uh, i would like to stir up such a story of old age so that i can successfully fit into the project. come back thank you thank you. thank you. great guy, really

it's amazing what really stylish people on our streets, although it's true that it doesn't depend on me, it seems to me, from money from uh, money. it doesn't depend at all. well, then the attitude towards yourself that you have is generally difficult to influence with some kind of social. you know, money is one of the biggest stereotypes that exists, so about happy old age or happy age after 50-60 years. perhaps just in case you have a lot of money or, in principle, a lot of money, this is not true, because interesting, you argue how much this intersects. you know, with some, but eastern philosophy, in part, which once pierced me. so i read that in japan, once upon a time there was such a principle, when at the age of 40 a man, if he raised children, had the right to leave a note at home that i had left, he changed his name and life. uh, under the change of life 40 years of the then

japanese is yes. and i don't know how about leaving, but life changes are an incredibly important thing. it 's like new blood. it's like a new breath. it's me not i know. first of all, this concerns the brain, because recently a huge, very deep, very serious study of the human brain was completed, which clarified a number of age-related characteristics associated with the human brain. it develops for quite a long time, it develops up to 20-something years, and hmm , i finally figured out the point when we reach the peak of our development, when at 7 years old, the peak of the human brain development peak, reaches 70 years. and here is another very curious thing that means the ability to learn. even the ability to learn increases the ability to decide increases. uh, contrary to what we think, complex problems are many factorial problems. the only thing to lose? the brain after 50 it loses speed. and here you are still

interestingly talking about some conclusions. you have done that the conductors are the healthiest and the dancers are the healthiest or somehow the most long-lived, that the conductors are the longest-lived dancers and there are a lot of conductors before the conductor. they live very long. why conductors, and these are relaxed movements to the music. it's the same conducting a dance, in fact. okay, sort of, it's us anyway uh . well , then new work is what makes your brain work dance. this is what makes your body work properly. come out here, the key word is the key, the principle of pleasure is the key, the principle for old age. yes , it’s a pleasure, as long as you, that is, each period of life has its own task, and we are arranged in such a way that the solution of this task supports our existence, because it supports our learning in life there in youth. well, learning how

to continue to live there in 30 years. we realize ourselves such a task. there are over 50 years of age. it 's the ability to experience joy in life on a daily basis. yeah, so joy in life and enjoyment is the key to everything. we 've got another, and a terrific, heroine who also gets. which doesn't stop age from continuing to enjoy it. let's see. is my name yakovlevna not 83 years old, it will soon be 84 on november 26, but in general, i somehow think that i am not quite yet the old one was still small, but i really hmm all the time dreamed that there was some kind of machine

that should be driven. well, when they bought me a bicycle, i felt that it was like a motorcycle, a motorcycle, in general, the red lines run through my whole life, the car must be loved, as a woman you know, i am in life. i consider myself a happy person. i would still ride. i am very pleased. these are examples from our stories, because we are talking about our , uh, elderly people, because your book of someone, while it has come out, abounds, of course, with examples western and there is a temptation to say to yourself what? well , of course, there are other living conditions there, there is a different attitude of society. eh, it's comfortable there and you can afford the old man pleasure there. uh. well , and so on and so forth, to say that there are few such people in russia, and i was amazed when it turned out that there are actually a huge number of such a

beautiful woman lyudmila crow in novosibirsk she is well over 60. she is. uh, you know what she's doing, she's in the triathlon. do you know what reinforcement is - this is the heaviest triathlon in the world. triathlon, which means that at first we have to swim almost 4 km. then on the bike without stopping 180 km, and then running 42 km - this takes at least 9 hours in a row. yes. here is lyudmila voronova, how old she is with us, she is 62 years old now, here she is participating in the triathlon, she is winning well, and so on, a question for you. here, and those stereotypes that live not only in our society. i would say it is becoming a global problem. the entire globe regarding what youth is good old age is bad, there and so on. it's so very clear. it's profitable, yes? to earn money in old age, of course, we do not imagine the scale. to what extent

old age is a business business is a giant business, physiology, uh, more than half of all pharmacology revenues. more than ten drugs per um of an elderly person that we prescribe and that he takes generally speaking, now there are two periods and it is very important to separate them, because there is a period from 55 to 75. this has nothing to do with old age in modern society at all. this is the absolute top of human life, when there is a lot of energy, there is health, you just need to deal with yourself and absolutely everything is possible both from the point of view of physics and the brain and anything, and you can give a million examples, he is there for boris latov. um, well, muscovites ski the 10km yes 10km distance 10 minutes slower than the 26-year-old world champion. well, 75 years old. yeah, maybe,

in short, to be able to dream. here is another very important point. i don't think it has been touched. you said in an interview that old age. uh, the main fear of old age is the fear of independence. you you know, it seems to me that the main fear that exists in relation to old age. and most importantly, what needs to be overcome. this is what after 50 after 60 years. no matter what quality social structure you are in, no matter how much the state supports you, and you find yourself in a situation where you are truly responsible for yourself. you are responsible for your own health, right? because if you're dancing there. that's it, ofiget if you don't do it, you get sick, you yourself are responsible for your profession, because you either say no. i am want to continue. i'll look for ways, or you say no, it's impossible to do it. it is forbidden. you are much more responsible for

your own life than 30 or 20. i am very afraid that the viewers who will watch our program will talk all the time, i don’t know, older people will talk there. yes, you don't know about life. here, try to get settled, the problem arises when after fifty you try to work the same way you worked, until the next one follows. by the same method, by the same principles, and by the same it doesn't work for purposes. so you need to change 50 years. er, what are you doing? and how you do it , then it will work. and you have overcome your fear. that's what you started 6 years ago this project for. yes, you are fearless, look into the future of my life around 50 has changed incredibly, including from a financial point of view. e. hmm i didn't have fifty now, a lot of money. now there is practically no money, and i am completely different. working. i have a completely different attitude towards life. i can say with certainty that i am much happier than you have ever been in your life. thank you very much, and for a lot of useful

information. continue your research a lot of admirers, but i'm one of them. thank you very much. thank you. we are all used to the fact that our parents are our strong rear wall protection from troubles and hardships, no matter what happens. they will definitely understand, console and help correct mistakes and give good advice, and as a rule. we are completely unprepared for the fact that someday we will have to switch roles with dad and mom, learn how to protect them, understand and console, reaching a certain age. parents begin to depend on us, but out of habit continues to teach life. how to respond to their moralizing and not get annoyed. how to maintain normal relationships and not blame yourself for breakdowns.

his relationship with his parents was so difficult that he was forced to give up everything and leave his homeland forever. and only the departure of his parents made him think about what he was doing wrong because of the answer, he went to the old people. today, his entourage is people over 80 and he has about a hundred of them shortly before his 50th birthday. he cardinally changed his life, left a highly paid position as an art director and went to lead a wood carving circle at a local nursing home on how to build relationships with elderly parents and live in peace and harmony with them, how to communicate with the elderly to understand them and remain calm. even when it seems that there is no more strength for it. alone with everyone alexander galitsky is glad to

welcome you to our studio. i understand that this is the number of observations of the elderly. led you to want to somehow accumulate that whether this experience and even write a book about communicating with them. well, in general, this story, as if my relationship with my parents were complicated. i even left the country changed. yes, you changed the country because of a difficult relationship with your parents. it’s very difficult, how would it be, how would you tune in all sorts of days to others, just didn’t understand a lot. there in mom in dad. at least there was great love, but it would be very difficult for these people to understand each other and then when when they came. i went to work with the elderly. it seems to me that here is your the as yet unpublished book may ultimately be extremely in demand, because it seems to me that you are making some such revolutionary

discoveries. seriously, i say, now they are absolutely not joking, because from old age they usually speak in an aspect. what medical? yes, and no one understands this topic, like with psychology, and no one takes the liberty of it. and we all tell each other to you, maybe in a cafe we ​​tell that i don’t know there, my mother behaves like that, dad, he made christmas trees-sticks, how are they there? i don't know me annoying or how they brought me climbed into the blog began to look. here is what you are saying, just a huge number, as it were, of people experiencing a huge number of people suffering, there is no way out. that is, there people share some of their misfortunes and do not understand how to deal with it. uh-huh, in the same place, in general, when you begin to realize that time is moving on another elderly person, let's let him get up, get up from his chair and walk it for him. this is work. i have now this

time i have and i have this when it started to get to me, that is, let's say i call someone's apartment there. yes, i say, where is vasya, where is he, why hasn't he come yet. he says he's out. i say, well, he will come now. no , well, in 15, if you don't come in 15 minutes, call me. he needs to walk along the corridor, go down and come in, that is, as if time flows differently, for example, it is harder to stand up than to sit down. this must be realized. i need to understand this for us in order to communicate with them, each of us is afraid of old age. and so i think, and someone less so i wanted to ask, yes less. i'm already in the first place, i know that i will definitely have a walker. i already feel, well, you see. when do you look at these people? well, it will probably be so, that is, we also have our own illusion of old age, so they grow old. and i'll be hoo. i have a way to look at myself. there in 20-30 years. and so,

in general, this is an interesting way, because, of course, of course, yes. well, you think, well, nothing there, okay, well, yeah, we can handle it quite dangerous. uh, history is wood carving. generally this like this here is the old carving. how else is that? i don't know, because i actually did it there . i was the director. in general, i did it, so to speak . how to say so? uh, computer graphics for a very long time. and when they offered me i also said that this is impossible at all, because there are sharp tools, hammers, boards, and a roar there, so to speak, all the work. so he gives, of course, like this, a very big incentive to these people. feel yourself. that's it, you understand everything, all the theater, in fact, comes to me, because it’s good for them that they need to understand relatively speaking, having elderly people in their house, in order not to run into them there, well, scandals for quarrels are just

one thing. you have to see yourself in it. if they hiss at you there, if they say some kind of hissing at you, like this one, uh, it’s not because you’re not to blame. and you're not to blame for anything. just to put it this way, it so happened that you fell under a hot hand under a hot crutch. i say, here, yes, and that means, as soon as you understand, this is, uh, the reason he you start, as if this character is sorry for something, as if, you understand, you are not angry with him. you can't get angry. you must be absolutely calm, as if no emotions and real ones are possible. that is, you can manifest. how would love, yes, well, respect love is warm, but in no case should negative emotions be experienced, they can be played there, play anger to play, but in no case be angry. that is, as soon as you understand what to

say, everything becomes very simple, and old age is when, from your point of view, or an old woman, this is c what moment is a six year old woman swimming there five styles in the pool? well, she’s definitely not an old man, but she, in my opinion, is not an old woman, yeah, here or there, i don’t know that he’s been together for 101 years, well , the character, they changed his eye for 100 years. that is, it means you can see better, he could come to me and continue soberly along the tree. i don't know, he says that a person, maybe even up to 130. well, yes. i generally say that the one who carves supports. i think that it might be a little easier for you than interaction, albeit with a huge the number of, so to speak, elderly people, but you are still not a relative. yes, this is such a distance at which you can look and

put up with this fading. after all, probably one of the reasons for our e difficult showdown with our elderly parents and grandparents is that we don’t want to. reconcile we want them to be like that, i don't know, well, how to say, it's just like that. mm, such a natural phenomenon, yes, then you can want it, you can not want it, you can say so with it, well, you can’t fight with him, because you can’t win with you. so you, as it were, just need to realize and understand and how to give a person, uh, how to be yourself, that is, to understand that these children's games that they play are important. no matter how strange they seem to me to us, and to see these here in this oldest man of your father, whom you idolized there, and the mother who raised you there. yes, but say nothing to do with

it. that is, it just needs to be accepted somehow, and we are, uh, in general, these we we are engaged in this book and about it, as it were, i kind of explain. so, like these, uh, these paths, why is this all happening? yes, and answering simple specific questions. why do people, for example, sit on a bench and watch? distance, why is it important to them, they are looking for impressions that are necessary, that is, just like us, it’s also easy for them in general, ways to find ways to say in absorb an impression, because without impressions, impressions in general are much more important than, uh, than some kind of physical gifts or something this is what you, er, write, and old people are people who can easily eat you up and just start opportunities. why don't i know? the fact is simple, behind which you have a part, you are a weakness, it's like such a wolf's law, as soon as it means

anger begins, you begin. this is the very thing. here, in this place, this very thing begins with you, that is, in no case should you show that something like that stuck into you, some kind of hooked it, somehow you can’t be shown. it will all be eaten. well, i have people. i know for sure that they love me very much. i know for sure that they come, because they feel good and still they tell me the usa is a chisel, not sharp. here, my son, you did not sharpen the tree. you specifically gave me such a hard one so that i couldn’t succeed. you think well, well, well, well, well, how are you? well, you understand that, yes? ok then. you just take the situation somewhere there, try not to pay attention to me, not think about it, and take it and take it away. this is where, well, how is it such a kind of m theater such, and why

do the old people do this? what do you think, well, for example, i had such a story when an elderly woman, uh, and just the doctor advised that the pressure stabilized to get nervous, told this story comes the cleaning lady. yes, her grandmother is not removed here. it hasn't been removed. so why is it here for more than a month and there like a fish, yes, he doesn’t know what grandma then takes. this is an apparatus. well , the doctor was right. it's all right, it's all right. personal experience made him change his attitude towards the elderly, in general this story, as if my relationship with my parents were difficult. just very did not understand much. here in my mother in my father, and then when they left at all, i went to work with the old people. what kind of world is it through the eyes of an elderly person, when you begin to realize that time moves

differently for an elderly person, let him get up, get up from his chair and walk it for him. this is work. this must be realized. i need to understand this for us in order to communicate with them, he gave up everything to lead creative circles in a nursing home with a sharp tool, hammers there, boards, and a rumble there, so to speak, it gives all the work, of course, that's a very big one, so to speak. the incentive for these people comes to me, because they feel good alexander you write quite a lot about the need to transfer the conversation to other safe topics. eh, and what do you need to study for this? this should be trained, relatively speaking, before your parents, uh, enter into this, but they will grow old so that you, therefore, will have to apply. and how is this what it means to translate conversational security on the topic of how to train it? what kind of manipulation is this?

communication first came up with. that's all the psychological analyzes of the situation up to there, i know there to say . you don’t, everything is there, that is, there is some kind of, so to speak , psychological e, such a prelude to something yes, and and as soon as a person enters this one, so to speak, the question answers, understanding perfectly what awaits you there the lantern under in the end. you need it, as if it's the same with me. yes, as soon as you begin to understand that this question through questions you will become to a dead end, before you have to physically change this story somehow, yes, that is, come up with it. some kind of move that dramatically changes the subject, which i know there, there, so to speak, and leave this dangerous place, because, for example, i really love it when they start talking to each other. it's like at this time at this moment you can relax. it seems to me that many elderly people

tend to throw in such rather provocative topics, in particular, talking about death. this is what puts, but usually stumped children and grandchildren. like when i'm about to die, i 'll die. what to say at this point is it a dangerous topic of conversation about death or is it quite safe? it is very safe, that is, firstly, it is not very like to say rivers are very fond of. this is what we are afraid of. but for them it is not. eh, scary. no, it's not scary. there are people who tell me, i'm not afraid, in general, so to speak, elderly people get tired of living and death is perceived as such a psychological physiological act, which, in general, is here tomorrow, here it is he is in the corridor and he ceases to be some dramatic very difficult act, in general, the everyday sun is like that. and how do you talk to your a-a students about death, if they talk to you about how far to go?

i was still working there yesterday, right? and so they say, here we are now, now we are with you, then we are going to the cemetery, which means that two people died today. that is, it is absolutely everyday, like this, yes, like this. well, now we're doing it, then we'll go. yes, he says, you know how in my meets there i come. it's good looking. so lit up. he says to me every day in the cemetery in the fresh air, and israel and your very specific humor. i would say invincible is absolutely grandiose. what should i do? and you can afford to joke about this topic? yes, of course not. well, i do understand my position. i'm their teacher. yes, i can corner them. i can't put them down because it's hard for them to get up. and, in principle, how could i

punish there. i say, listen without parents, don't come, just something like a miracle for the next lesson. uh, i don't have that kind of aspiration, that is, no, that's how it is. here is grandpa yes, such a grandfather. well, this is such a person. we work together with him. we are with him, i look at eye level, as if we have such an expression, yes, so to speak. well, uh, i look not from top to bottom, not from bottom to top, and we look the same, but to the child of our parents, and perhaps to overcome this priority, but the authority of an adult who has grown old and to whom yes, i behaved like that with my grandfather with my i i remember it's already like this. uh, beloved grandfather. i had one. here is the food. uh, than you, how would you put. yes, here you are, you understand, these are all the problems. yes, you try to understand, you can’t understand them, but you try to understand all the problems, health, all these problems that are accumulating psychological severity and everything, everything you raise yourself to this age, and he

lowers himself a little at this moment. you become his friend. and you can't be you can't speak you can't. e, as soon as it starts to say this, e is such a polite breath. let me tell you, it's bad. why because they they don't want friends they want me to say respect and need less than just love and something like that though hmm human relationship exactly. you understand friends, friends leave, and they have a friend. yeah, and in principle, any of the children and grandchildren can become a friend, even talking to the elderly. no need to argue. it's useless. so what to do? but what about? if there parents want something, i don’t know, there is either mom or dad something that he doesn’t need.

i don’t know that my mother has diabetes there. she can't sweet, because it's dangerous. something. i don't know how to do it, but i have to tell e to argue, because she will grab it anyway, she will take it anyway. uh, well, you need to look for some more more creative approaches. i once my mother-in-law, for example, steamed in the microwave to drink. so we just bought a new thing, smeared it and passed it off as support. yes, because if it were new, yes, very dear, and so smeared. she said, we have the same what dirty around all the people. i'm not like that, right? that is, creativity solves problems more cunningly. invent. yes, they enter into this butting foreheads huge in that we do not really want

to agree, well, in the depths of ourselves in order to admit that, well, yes, i've come to the point that i have become older than my parents. well, that is, here we are, well, i don’t know when this happens, but it definitely happens when your parents begin to perceive you as their father and mother. when they tell me, it was calm, quiet there yesterday, there was almost no one there, because our parents took us home. who took? and it is children. well, they already call children parents. yes, yes, he says, well, yesterday it was quiet we have parents parents to pick up. well, the parents they decide to poke him. here, i've come to you. here it is . you just have to make a decision somehow. in general, they should feel you understand and think that they have accepted it. they are one

thing that struck me in yours. ah, on your blog, that we have different logic, or something, with very elderly people, what can you say, that i don’t know how to give some kind of argument, but they’re here for a while read completely different information, then somehow dressed or the one you speak or there is something else to think of your own and in general, the most important thing is that a hundred. he feels this warmth, but words are not needed at all, in general there is a touch , there is some kind of thing to say. that's where you hold the man. i'm just passing. that's what it's all about, as you would understand. eh, when you start to communicate, yes, to say, you just go to the warm-up, take it and pass by. and you were already with him. like here a second. how are you old people? here the teacher continues. this is also one of the so to speak, well, to instruct huh? okay, okay, here's how to deal with it and because of what, let's say, so they are afraid that something will happen to you, they are trying, how

to take care of you as a child. yes, so that you do not slip into the hands of the steering wheel. well, yes, well, then he also tries to take away from you too, of course they say, yes, i'm on the helm there a little no, well, it's just human to say so. uh, help, as if to warn. yes, how to try to warn and all the more so since they, as it were, the older a person is, the, uh, the circle of his possibilities shrinks and only words remain. only words remain. he can’t really help you, so i ’m saying that there are two truths, one so to speak, she is, uh, bitter, the other is sweet, and she’s the sweet truth to use, but don’t tell the bitter, in general, but a wonderful prank, as you were in childhood such poems regarding the same sea, blue, the sky is blue, dad is strong, mom is beautiful. and so, that this formula should also work for the elderly. well, of course, yes. no. well, you can't. well? well, what? well, here it is, snot again. well, why should you dedicate

in everything, they can help your parents with this, they need to broadcast more. you're all right. everything is fine. they must understand that they did not go through theirs in vain. calmness and patience are his main rule in dealing with people of age. they tell me the us chisel is not sharp. but you specifically gave me such a solid tree, that is, and so you think, well, well, do you understand that yes? ok then. you just take the situation somewhere and try not to ignore it. we are mistaken in thinking that old people are afraid of death, death is perceived as such a psychological act, which, in general, he is here tomorrow, here he is in the corridor, and he has become, he ceases to be some kind of dramatic very difficult act, in general, the station is so everyday, so

elderly people need love is much more than in respect of friends they want me to say respect and less is needed than just love of friends. you see, friends leave, and their friend alexander galetsky. another problem that you write, er, and which i think is known to many, is that found out in the process of working with the elderly that it turns out to be fatigue. eh, communication with them does not depend on the time spent, that it instantly piles up? yes it is. and why is that energy vampirism like that? it's just very explainable. you find yourself in a situation that is difficult for you. yes, you get tired instantly, because the situation that arises. it’s like it’s not you, controlled, somehow that’s all. as soon as you become the leader in this flock,

there is less fatigue, and they are waiting, you understand, they are also looking for the elderly our grandfathers are looking for ours. uh shoulder. actually. they want what they are already tired of managing life. they want to lean there and be strong, as it were, that is, here is the strength, it gives. everything, in principle, but this force and the heat of force is heat. this is such a laugh inside. it's like, uh, a way to not get offended. ways, as if understanding, again, returning understanding, uh, as if the reasons for what is happening, uh, which allows you. here, how not to pay attention to these facts, which i really want to get angry and answer and everything. that is, you seem to be looking at the essence and stop seeing this husk and events that are real. it's a shame, really. it means that it’s hard to put up with them somehow e to put up with them, but you understand the reasons for this, you forgive

, i must say that in russia there are now absolutely, like a new trend, i would say there is such an institution called grandfather garden, ah, in which, m-m, older people can come, who can come by themselves, whom you relatives bring uh in order to arrange really a kindergarten, that you are some part of the day, and the elderly spent some games together, and then in the evening their parents come and take them home. yes, and now i want you and i to look at a story about one of these kindergartens. hello start the new season here some families. yes, when there is an elderly parent or relative in the family, yes, who cannot be left at home for the day, when the children go to work, go on a business trip, they don’t want

to give away a person. yeah in uh fixed house establishments elderly. uh, therefore, this kindergarten for the elderly will be a way out. they come to the station wagon and stick it on, they understand that they can do something, this is firstly, secondly, uh, when they can make a souvenir with their own hands and give them a gift, but they don’t feel that they are needed then that they can do it, and in general, everyone is just here happy satisfied. it's all so interesting. there are youth clubs where young people meet dancing on the beach and there is a club. that's how our day club is, but for older people. e me we spend our time. and here i am, you

distracted me a little. i'm here now, here we have a great master in checkers, i'll try. i'll play with him and maybe even manage to beat him. yes? all right, yeah, let's go. do we have a pool ? you know i get great pleasure from this water. i get up, my joints in front of me stop hurting. is there a need for a family? yes, in which nu does not live with his parents, yes, but takes care of his elderly parents. and here they really are. bring to us and these people in the center. they are sure that here their parents are under supervision and with them. uh, everything will be fine, during the day. actually a chair. the lights go out, the music plays, it’s pleasant, the atmosphere is all this breath is very

fresh and we observe a romantic picture of the stars in the sky, the moon has the impression that you are in some kind of thunderstorm, where they descend from just such salty ones. pillars with pleasure go here. in general, this has become the norm. in our country,

it is the norm that there is an institution for children, because that the parents are working. as for the old men, it is we who, in general, are coping, who can be. everyone has their own script. well, maybe , if so to speak, to bring this logic to the very end. if the old one is small, then maybe such a garden in your case in israel is of this kind, so to speak, a nursing home, which, well, is not very similar to a russian nursing home, almost the same. i just see it, that is, these are our people there. they are there, it means that somehow they also spend the night. they live there in their own apartments. and these are, in principle, same. it's the same story. that is, how would you come people come to do something to do something. uh, the problem of old age, that people become a little aesthetic. here you need to find the

whole aesthetics, you understand the aesthetics of old age, because you correctly said that there is a child. yes, it’s like he ’s like this, as the unworn legs say, she doesn’t say such a thing, but this, when the legs have already been walked there for 80 years, yes, it’s all so kind and here is to find this beauty and aesthetics and understand, that's behind it, because the people inside. they are the same children, they are all they are all children understand? i say there are three kinds of children. uh, little middle-aged and old places, you know, that is, there are no others. and so i had cases when it was summer there, people were discussing in some kind of new woman that she was some kind of old woman. yes, well, something like this is some kind of ugly old woman, right? i must tell you that i have already noticed these symptoms in myself. even once asked this question on social uh social networks and found that we don't give ourselves that much at all.

report. how much. well, here, well, subjectively on myself, because it happens to me that i look at a person. i think some, when an elderly, uncle, then you understand, he is younger than me in general. this elderly, uncle, you understand? and in my mind, i’m just talking about this, that we don’t see ourselves, you see, we don’t see ourselves. we think that we are such kids there, but some of you know the aesthetics of beauty in this. eh, you need to be able to do this. in fact, such a dictation is such a compaction , or something, activity and informationally, these are some kind of avalanches and careers make us completely different. now they demand everything from you without a trace. who then? well, well, how to solve the problems of an elderly person, and this kindergarten or what you are doing, you absolutely do it. well, the way out, or something, in a sense, i also have a feeling of being in demand. and as for the older generation, people need to be that's it. they are. well , when they are inside this society, they,

firstly, they are also divided into beautiful, ugly and less beautiful, that is, they are like them. uh easier in this society in what sense? yes, i have a 97-year-old woman there who can say that there is a twelve-year-old woman who knows how to make a career. i can't. yes, yes, she made a personal exhibition there or something, they hung the work and somewhere on the wall. yes, yes, yes, here it is able to make a career, and i learned to catch up ahead. you sometimes joke with your wards that you are them well, either constantly, but you joke specifically for unsuccessful work in them, leave them for the second year, yes, yes, yes, yes it is. well, it's a game again. time just yes, i say so, absolutely. well, of course.