count back every day, you will not return until the end of your heavy godhood, when you bury your head in the coffin lid, then you can sum up the results . he is an absolutely amazing thinker. do you know if you read carefully? and let's say this. in chronological order, first his epigrams, and then how gradually these epigrams turned into some kind of sketches and then they turned into such large and completely powerful poems when you write something new. where are you going here? listen, i wrote the hand voice. i

speak indistinctly. she says again. i didn’t understand before work, then you read poetry to me and confuse words, and i don’t understand that i’m worried, i really like some of the poems. our life, it seems the world is a curtain theater, fog, we are people who are dearest to us, exalting deceit. we walk along ghostly roads, we still play hide and seek to play like this. what an agreement with god we have entered into, taking his eternity a moment. we live slowly and after a long patience of us as god's sign of salvation, like a shot, what is it? why, not realizing already in the theater, not realizing the

profession of an actor, he suddenly began to be realized as a poet. whatever you start talking about with him, he immediately begins to read poetry. this is some kind of his defense, a huge speech to wait a few years ago , valentina osifovich suffered a heart attack , it became harder to go on stage, but he still comes out, no matter what, and even after the performance, when there is almost no strength. gaft is ready to act if he is needed if his name is.

because they had. a difficult performance is called a game in jean difficult in the first place, because gaft puts a special meaning into this role, as an interested person asked me, i passed by and asked what i think about this performance. and i mean, some of my philosophical conjectures. there she told him the character. after that, he listened to me, paused and said, “and you know, it seems to me that this is a performance about repentance. he said that the level of development of a person, not important young or adult, but the level of his human moral development is determined by what if a person sins? how long does it take until the moment of his repentance playing

cards of two residents of the nursing home, the basis of the plot of this performance, the heroes of valentina gaft, having taught the heroine this game, loses her one game after another, gets angry and plays again. i will win you. and what own continues to play? how did you play in life? the feeling also works, we all play like that. play with life. short life and i swear i no longer have to just live with you all your life.

i never had the desire to have my own child. i just do not want. i want to do other things. i want to devote myself to science. this is just my choice. i have to think with my head, and not follow some rules. what is so necessary or so instituted? how are you striving to

continue the mouth. it seems to us absolutely natural, nevertheless, there are more and more people in the world who do not want to become parents; they are otherwise called child, fries or free from children. i don't look at age. i am i look at my student as a person. they are my clients, i work with them, i fulfill my function, how to teach dufing about you future you've been thinking about your future already we don't know what will happen in 10-20 years. if this happens in 20 years. i'll change my mind eventually. i don't think i will necessarily regret it. or maybe i will regret it, because there are also grandfathers who say that they gave birth to a child, but you can’t return it the other way around. his career is planned for several years ahead of taking care of his own child. fits into these plans at the age of 34. he deliberately went for an operation, after which he could never

become a father. of course, what is in these frames a complete idyll, a happy mother, her newborn son. just a year ago, she could not even imagine that she would become a mother of a quiet measured life. she would never have changed to crying baby, but despite the unexpected gift of fate. she assures. this is her first and last child. i don't have time for this. i have no desire to work. i want to be free, not tied to anything. to me need freedom of movement without any restrictions. in childhood. she preferred playing cossack robbers to dolls. daughters-mothers. she wasn't attracted at all. to be honest, i don't understand it. apparently i'm a different person. i, uh, don’t understand this lisping, but hmm these fawnings uh in front of the children hmm some indulgence for them here these conversations

about what, well, it’s the children, all the girlfriends dreamed of children, and she about how to avoid this. today, she stands her ground in her life and there can be no place for a child. we are a certain area responsibility, which i do not want, probably to take on, because i want to live for myself pleasure. all of them are deliberately childless, which is bearish. today. they alone with all of these people free from children every year becomes more and more often they are condemned. however, they are part of our society and i really want to know what is the reason that prompted them to this point of view. hello michael hello. thank you very much, first of all, for the fact that you decided to come to our studio, because we are a in search the heroes are faced with the problem that so many do not dare to speak publicly on the subject. and for some hero. or the usual thing to talk about it. thank you for inviting me. first of all, you

know, i don't consider that heroism for me. this is a completely natural position. i see no reason to hide it. and even more ashamed of her. it seems to me that every person is fired to make his choice in his life, but to have children for him not to have children for him. i can ask you an indiscreet question for a woman. how old are you? i'm 32. here you are, uh, so definitely say you don't want to have children. this applies to today. do you assume that someday a your point of view will change or you have the feeling that this is a once and for all settled issue. you know, i'll tell you, honestly, m-m at the moment. it seems to me that, in general, i will adhere to the point of view until the end of my life, but i do not exclude the moment that at some point in my life suddenly something will click in my head, and i will decide that these are the children i don't have enough to be happy. and you are always brave declare this position in the company of friends. uh, or in the company of people you don't know. you know, i don’t even find cedars in this to

annoy a little interlocutors and say, you know, here, but i don’t want to have children. and you generally tend to go against some social stereotypes. against what society has established, as a rule. it's just my position. i sincerely believe in it, i do not consider it necessary to keep silent about it. and what do you answer when you are told that the purpose of every woman is to have children, i usually say. hmm what you know, besides being a woman, i am a person, i am a person. i have a certain circle of interests striving for the desires of dreams, and reduce everything to such a narrow goal, uh, leave generations behind me, but i see the meaning of my life in a slightly different way, well, why such a narrow goal , after all, those who give birth to children? it's not that they leave their careers or their own ones. maybe there are scientific researches and so on and so forth, and so on , children are children. a career is a career, a relationship is a relationship. uh, why do you bet so sharp point-blank question? just many same women, again,

that's my age. yes, here are many of my, let's say one thing, kashniks. hmm, as a rule. you know such a trend has revealed itself, rather than giving birth either, to fill the void in your life. that is, they are lonely, but either to keep a man. a. well, of course, most often the stamp works. well, they must still be planted here. i have the same age. i'm married pan. it's time to have kids on the stove. no, it's not clear, sincere position. and that is, you did not come across, for any other motivation, then i want to give birth to a child, because i just want, because i want to love this child, because i like it. children like that. seriously no, that's the point. yes, i’m not saying that everyone is like that again, yes. at 90%, this is the motivation that i listed is present in conversations. and even if she is not present in the conversations, i understand it, er, in some detail. eh, even more about that, probably, than they are silent, that is, then when the period comes, what i hear here is me there in the kindergarten

with him there, i would sleep there, and i would go to the disco. well never mind. yes the point is that i'm starting to hear the child becomes a burden child - it's expensive. it does not require nerves. he blows my mind and so on. we fuse it to moms to grandmothers, because i want my personal life. i want to go on vacation, without a child and so on. i have a question. why did she give birth to him, if over time he becomes, well, some kind of uncomfortable piece of furniture in the house. the term childfree appeared in the 70s in the united states, and after a couple of decades, such communities gained popularity in russia, the proportion of people who deliberately refused offspring today is 6%, but people who consciously abandoned children continue to grow rapidly, they did it at all times for various reasons and only in the middle of that century, and such a trend arose earlier

, voluntary childlessness was chosen, mainly by creative and public people differently, arguing their point of view. youth is a wonderful thing. what a crime to waste it on children, and are you human enough to have the right to want a child my favorite thing to do is sit at home with a script and learn the role. i'm an actor. i have no hobbies no children and i don't like to travel women with children a lot maya plisetskaya yes life without children is much easier. but that doesn't mean the decision not to have children is an easy one. however. i never dreamed of becoming a mother, my gay friend, being in the seventh grade already knew what she would name the children, carefully writing out her own and their names at that time. in my dreams, i saw myself as martin luther king. today, ordinary couples with higher education and stable jobs want to be free from children, and some go to avoid offspring. even to extreme measures. i didn't think for a long time. it

was determined. eh, it somehow immediately came to my mind and was immediately written, half a year ago vladimir went for an operation, after which he will never be able to have his own children. many do not want to have children for various reasons, for example, there is fear. just before matter. there is fear. before childbirth. there is a reluctance to share personal space with someone. and that's what's in your case, that's the most poignant when you think about it. they tell you, you have to to have children. do you think, why should i? and i just, probably, value my freedom very much, and your freedom is that it is freedom in every sense, it is freedom of movement. this is freedom. what do you want , that's all freedom because a child is a duty. i answer. i gave life. i am responsible for this person. i have to raise him up to make him a decent cell of society. do you understand? ugh responsibility. i don't want this i yes, this is probably a somewhat selfish position, but i want to live in pleasure for myself here on the forums. i am for example, i found quotes of such a plan in public

transport, i try to sit down and stand away from women with children. if a mother tries to jump ahead of me in line. i do with the child. i just make an impudent muzzle more impudently, i move my mother aside with the words and what and or is it necessary to say to an impudent mother that they deserve the type, to become a mother you just need parents that her child is not a baby doll. and just like everyone else. how can you comment on such statements such, so to speak, so hard er, expressed position. i want to tell you that if we touched on this topic, but there is childfree, yes, but there is the so-called childhater. these are two completely different things, because childdaters, yes, these are just those who. that’s exactly the irreconcilable , just the attitude towards children, those who and so on. here, i reported three - these are just people, they do not call for anything, they do not promote anything. these are just people who have their own position, and they they want society to at least accept them and

not condemn them for this, they don’t touch, roughly speaking, just don’t touch me and that’s it. i don't want annoyance towards children when they are not badly brought up unconditionally annoyance towards mothers when their children are not badly brought up unconditionally. you make comments in any case. this is a private life, i have no right to go there. but if it concerns me and gives me inconvenience or discomfort. i'll be sure to say it who does not know how to behave in society, who hmm bring discomfort to people around him, what is discomfort, he screams, is naughty, cries , breaks something, runs, pulls, and so on. and this is a wonderful excuse, but he's a child. you know, i've seen a lot of children in my life and through my profession. i know that backs can be great here. what were you like as a child? oh i was mad, i mean you were ill- bred, america no i wasn't ill-bred, but i was mad in what way? i'm very a tough mother, in fact, in terms of upbringing, and i clearly knew that screaming to attract

attention to myself, to crowd with my feet and to be capricious to speak. i want this toy. it was simply unacceptable, i clearly knew from childhood. what's wrong? well, it's so bad fu, you can't do that. uh-huh was crazy in the sense that i was very free right from my childhood. when i was little, we were resting in yalta in the actor's santorium. i just went up to akhmadulina and said, hello, and so i just got to know him easily. everything, i say, well as impossible. maybe we have the same as i meet, maybe, well, i didn’t understand these clichés in the society of adult aunts and uncles, except for my freedom. you also mentioned at the very beginning that it seems to you that you will not be able to raise, so to speak, a worthy child in our society. and no matter what child was worthy of you. this is not the question. i said that i won't be able to raise a decent child, because i don't have enough time, money, opportunities, and so on, to uh raise a person who i would be proud and could say, i did everything

to ensure that this person was not ashamed of him. wow, he's educated. ah, there were many more opportunities compared to you. well, i think that yes, she was, because she was married, firstly for a minute. that is, you deny yourself not only the birth of a child, but also in the future to get married. no, why don't i just set it as my goal, and you warn young people when you start dating them, if you are dating them, that you strongly do not want to children? yes, when it comes to this, that is , of course, this does not happen. so hello. i’m michael, i don’t want to have children, definitely not, but when we start a serious relationship, yes, and anyway, sooner or later, somehow, this topic definitely pops up. i think it's stupid. well , it's just not pardonably unforgivable not to tell a person about such a serious decision in his life. and that you have never encountered the fact that a man is repulsive. no, it `s all. she always had those men to me the universe sent exactly those men who just either accepted this position, or agreed with it, or were also

generally convinced of the sword lottery. how do you calculate them? i don't know much about men who do this. uh, maybe you don't sound so harsh. position, maybe you say, you know not now. now i want to pursue a career, then, maybe, somehow you know, yulia, i am very straightforward in my expressions of my thoughts, and it is very difficult to understand me in two ways. i say i don't want to have children, most likely i will never have them. will be expensive. if you want to have children, please, with another woman, you are always so sure . why not? i don't have any preconditions somewhere not sure with myself. yes , i'm confident. that is, if not with this, who will say oh, yes, i, perhaps, with another woman, it will be different. yeah, that means it's not my man, because i think that hmm you understand. this is a very strange position. i love you, but i don’t accept, and you change for me, and i don’t understand such love , love, it is all-consuming in terms of what i i accept you with all your minuses, pluses

, shortcomings. like not like. i don't like that you don't close your crazy pasta. i don't like that you leave the dishes overnight, but i love you. i'm with you. so it doesn't matter. i accept you. i agree with you very much. let's suppose. and so, ethically, you fall in love completely to death and accept a person completely along with his desire to have children. and you understand, it’s not quite here, the equal position of a woman’s face. so you can't bet here. that's right the equal sign is another stereotype regarding this phenomenon of childfree, what in fact it says about the extreme egoism into which humanity falls. i would say that people are free from children. e, they are afraid of responsibility for someone, because they themselves, despite their age , remain children. they are infantile, they want them to remain the center, they do not want to give anything to anyone, they only want to take. since childhood, i have been an extremely independent person, i have been working since the age of

thirteen and even in some periods i supported my family completely in my life. moreover, i love animals very much, and i am always actively involved in them, whenever i can, with pleasure, sacrifice and money, you know, i'd rather donate money to the animal help fund than the fund. there e fighting aids of young children, seriously, i say why? well , because i feel sorry for animals more than people. why did i do the right thing for sparta in sports, the weak, the weak was born frail, you provoke me a little, like your friends. these are your favorite topics, say what you want, so, uh, now i jumped up or do you really sincerely think so? no, why would i provoke you enough smart woman. i really think so. well, i don't get it. seriously. i'm going to get 20 sentences right now, but the bottom line is, a baby is born. forgive the lord with the syndrome. down, he will live and suffer all his life , and people around him will live and suffer all his life. why leave life in such a child? well, are they better to grow? healthy generation, because still a

child. well, it's a little fetus in the tummy and mom, but get your own abortion. oh my god guys, that's all. it will be good, and if you didn’t see it. then suffer. and if something happens to you, if society becomes the same as in sparta there, after all, they did not only do this with children, yes, of course, well, with the old people who were not needed by society, everyone has their own fate and with the disabled. no one is insured you are hit by a car, you become disabled. yes, and you know, if i can't run, jump, dance, have sex in all the positions that i like in the way that is uninteresting, your mother knows about your position, that you don't want children. and you she has the only child, that is, there is hope from someone. no, you know, we both don't want to have children, and she treats this with dignity, she thinks that the guys. this is your position. this is your life, of course, i support you. i am your mother, how do you feel about men, prime ministers and families with many children, perhaps such families. i'm happy for

them. i have many colleagues, an exemplary family man. they have many children and are happy. i am happy for them for this more calmly endure talking about children, someone got sick, someone something. and here we have there was a case when katya was there for a certain moment. yes, then i just either leave the room where this is being discussed. yes, uh under a plausible pretext. well, i'm just saying straight up. maybe sex is better, but you are annoyed by these conversations. no , they just me. delicious and uninteresting. here is the secret cuneiform, for example, it does not captivate, because it is 100% in your life, and someone lives by it. this is the meaning of life for him, he collects every little piece of calendar cards, postcards, any source of information, i swear that's all for him. well i have other interests are simple, but this does not mean that a person in comparison with me is worse or better in no way. he's just different, he has other sized other hobbies. well, it's his choice. it's his right, if suddenly such a thing happens, it can

happen hmm despite the fact that you have an abortion, no. uh, there are no religious considerations in your life at all. no, i don't believe in god. yes, i'm free of any religion . in general, there as a dangerous thing for health, and a danger. yes yes. no no, i'm totally fine with that. this abortion is no more murder than you come tonight to eat a chicken, that is, you and a chicken are also the same, but we are all alive, as if everyone who lives. yes, every leaf on the tree. we are all alive, we all feel, we have a feeling. yes, we have a purpose. and when someone takes on such a bold role to decide lives, there are plants or animals. well, i try to minimize it in my life. and you there are some idols among famous people who, so to speak, are also free. she's the

richest, black woman in the world, she doesn't have kids , or i think she's 60 or 62 already, and she's very clear about it, she's said many times that i'm fine without kids. you know was e. a rather tragic reason for this choice is possible, well, it's just that i'll even tell you, she was raped and she gave birth to a child as a result of this rape. and this child died. then she said. i will never again want to have children. but this is just a special case, you asked me. the first thing i remembered, yes, it's orange, but in fact. and you think that this is some kind of direct relationship, that she is the richest, that she is the most successful, because she does not have children, it did not matter in any way. no , it's just that you asked if there are people i respect, uh, who don't have kids. yes, they have their mass of cameron diaz for example, there, for example, uh, kingall, these are people that i admire, they are well done, they are not smart, they have no children, and they did not become

it didn’t make me talented any worse, you see, we are unsuccessful again, if you like, the main protest also lies in the fact that if you don’t want to have children in society, we put pressure on you. and how do you tell you that your life will be incomplete if you do not give birth to children, this oppresses you, but let's say this is unpleasant for me, because they impose a point of view on me, because the norms of behavior in this society are imposed on me and the rules of the game are imposed . uh-huh, you know, you owe and don't owe anything to anyone, not even your mom. and what the meaning of your life, have fun doing what you love to travel oh god so a year travels, two or three all my life until i travel, apparently, i don’t know, maybe in 2 years i will come to you and say, you know, now the meaning of my life is yoga, for example, perhaps, i'll come back in three more. hmm, i've decided that i want to take care of dolphins. i do not know, well, for now, here i am in this state in this search. various

bodily ones, including, but in general, loneliness, i’m not talking about old age now, in principle, loneliness is you are you afraid or not? no, i get high when i give, then by the nature of my work. i communicate with people so much that when i come home, there is no one there. i'm catching such a little little high. and so i imagined for a second, i come, this is my mother. i got an a at school today. your mom ran out of milk. god forbid well , look, i'll read you a few more hmm quotes from a discussion in a group on the internet in social networks. what different motivations my child will never die, never get sick, never he will go to jail, he will never disgrace me, because i will never give birth to him, he will never be. i will not give anyone in life, i will not give death. i will be 38, i consciously do not want children somewhere from the age of 11. and by the way, how old are you, well, about 12 years old,

that is, like this, when these thoughts arise yes , the first ones, i don’t even want to fall in love write another respondent. not to mention children, because in 90% of cases this leads to the collapse of relationships. why is this beautiful, but is it also a concern for another person or not? or in your relationship love here, too, rebuild certain systems to take care of another person. i don't want you either because i don't want to care. i just really like to take care of. i am a beloved person, but pets and from other people about their friends. i'm ready to take off my last shirt. if i know it will help them, caring is cool. it's great. this is when you give a person energy, love positive is wonderful. well, i don't want kids. and yet, i want to clarify with you about your relationship with young people, they are already with children. if, uh, there are some restrictions for you too. in the sense that this is how i already understood that if this person wants a child, then this is also you in a different phone. in what cases

are you in a different phone for me relationship with a man hmm it's not we are two halves and we are not a single whole. how can i explain to you, we are comfortable with each other, we are good, we do not make claims to each other, we do not ask for anything, we give and we do not expect in return. eh, how do you say that? this is exactly where i'm going. and for me, love is when you you give without expecting anything in return. and you are ready to give it endlessly. you just want to make the other person happy. you know how the song is. let it not be so with me with others, when the end in itself, so that a loved person is happy, but for me this is impartial love is real. and when you seem to love, but at the same time, well, something is in a hurry to give a ring with options. these are already market relations. that they have nothing at all with love. why do you think people who want to be free from children every year

more and more i don't know. everyone has their own motivation. yes, someone is afraid of their mother. afraid of childbirth , afraid that the money is not enough. well, i'm not afraid to become there, i read about it, women are afraid. so i’m getting fat in the face, he goes to another there, he will lead a mistress, and so on. i just have other reasons. i don't know why other people choose this position. i 've never talked about this topic, it might be worth asking. thank you michael the installment plan of 24 months of halva is surprising, as before, it weighs nothing to you. still zero interest on installments and service fees too no hulk weightless installments a significant advantage. viruses are prepared from the common cold, and the temperature and the fight against viruses. i choose ergoferon, it combines

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her son was born. now natalya is happy in her new role as a mother, but despite this, she no longer wants children. hello here. why did you not change your views, despite the fact that the child was born, because i lived. it was i who understood what it was like and if i was convinced before, chaltfree, there since the age of fourteen. i am selfish and did not want children, because really i would like to be free from problems from everything. well, that is, the child is a problem. yes, by the age of 35, it happened like this. eh, a clear principled position. i don't want to take responsibility. i'm a fairly responsible person, uh, and to some extent i'm an a student in life, i'm a perfectionist. yes, i'm a perfectionist. i need everything to be good, wonderful. i

was responsible for everything. not a grandmother herself, a grandfather. and i am a nanny, namely, i am responsible for raising a child, and i did not want to. taking on this responsibility, i do not hide it, but i am responsible for the performance of my work duties, for example hmm, and it was enough for me to take responsibility for the child. now a child eat. he has already been born, but you still say that i have him. and now he is now he is the only one and will never be again. no, because it was very difficult, that the birth was difficult. they may have been mild in terms of medicine. they were folded for me, and psychologically. physiologically, i was very worried about them, how could such a thing happen to a convinced tea alarmist. actually, you will become pregnant, probably, you somehow especially controlled this moment. here is such a one, let's say it, the way i'm talking about it now is ridiculous

an accident that turned into a happy event for me. so why did you decide to keep the baby? here michaela quite clearly says what she will do if she becomes pregnant? i am 35, i thought that a blow to the body, that hormonal blow that will happen when you have an abortion, this failure. i was afraid of the consequences eh uh, usually afraid of the consequences. what that there will be no more children? no. i was afraid that this could lead to oncology in this case, well, hormonal failure. you never know how it will reflect uh-huh because the body begins to rebuild itself. i thought of myself ideologically end the child's parents to give away his orphanage. no why, because this is my child, this is my particle, why should i give it to someone? did the father of the child somehow influence the adoption of such a decision or not? yes, i thought that the set of genes that we reward this child with. it's just a sin to waste it

from immodest education. well, or together with no uh-huh and who do you work for, natasha, before i went on maternity leave i was an assistant. well then it's not that you have some kind of crazy career no absolutely. i am his business. i don't have. no, of course, and then in the name of what work work work work work for yourself. i was just curious. you are now working again. no , i don’t work yet, but i’m thinking about what i can do, for example, writing texts, copywriting it’s easy to sit at home doing a child while he sleeps, for example, writing now your priorities have shifted. now you understand that the main responsibility is here. well, he's 4 months old. yes i have to be by his side. at least, it will be possible to leave it in three years. i think so, it's quite possible to pedal to kindergarten, for example, and you probably have like-minded friends hmm about tea then you were i will say so hmm not

myself not my friends, never called themselves childfree. i know, they didn’t call them in any way, they just voiced their position and there were a lot. you know, but this is how it happened around me there friends without children. i have more than friends with children, and i won't say that most of them will never have children. and they are just most likely at the age when now we have shifted the timing of the birth of children. yes , if earlier the first children already appeared there on 20-21, now it’s somewhere, most often by thirty and sometimes even over 30, your childless friends reacted to the news that you are pregnant, that the happiness that my friends experienced, probably, i didn’t experience so much happiness at first, they congratulated me. all of you were surprised. yes, i was surprised. what did you expect? i was not expecting. i don't i was just expecting such a strong reaction. i always feel like this is fake. um, there's some

concocted theory that life would be easier and more beautiful without children, and then when it turns out that a child will appear. here are these childless friends, they say, god, what happiness, we congratulate you. i say again, these friends never said that we don’t want children at all categorically never, and you, i’m looking now, i should be, that i should beat my head against the wall in hysterics, lie in a bed. and i cry changed her attitude to the situation. yes, i don't want children. hmm. yes, i always said that i would be a part. yes, this is what happened. here's what happened. i got a child, why can't i change my attitude to the situation and say, well, since i have him, but i love him. this is my child. they didn't just slip someone in there. this is my child. you can now imagine your life without this child being born. i don't like the conditional mood. and if if

asked there 2-3 years ago. yes, i would say that money in a salute to my life for a child with a child, now i can say when i see his eyes, his smile, when he hugs me, and he does this already at 4 months old. it's so funny touching. it is clear that i will never say that i would prefer to live without him. well, because that would be unfair to him. he already is, and the gender of the child mattered to you or not? i wanted a boy. why hmm i have no idea? i'll be honest, i always wanted, if a child, if hypothetically there will be a child, and i, in principle, i reason, indeed, as woland spoke about death. man uh the worst thing is that he can be suddenly death. yes? the same , there perfectly understood that i can very much assume a person assumes. god disposes. now, if a child appears, then only a boy i wanted boys, maybe on a subconscious level, support? wow strong. here, yes, here comes the man. well, perhaps, because in our family there are two girls with my father, i wanted to

dilute such a female team with a man. here, it means about your blog that you really keep a little diary called a fairy, more recently she calls your son a fairy. why is that, because matvey matvey is short for fairies. hmm , that's what you write, now i have almost learned to understand what he wants to tell me because he is crying. this is my sochi that needs to be deciphered and performed at first it was exhausting and yes, from impotence turned into a capricious little girl who forgot that it was not a doll in front of her, but a living child, and often such impotence rolled on you. it is not often necessary to say that i generally got a very seasoned child. that is, he knew what kind of mother he was born, he absolutely understood perfectly who he had appeared and how everything should be done like that, well, just like that, he rarely cried at all, and he sleeps very calmly. it is good, that is, when the bed i bought an apartment so that fey had a separate room, i rented it and after discharge i realized that the discipline is good for a

healthy sleep even better. yes, my child sleeps in his own bed. well, i can take it in mine early in the morning to prolong your stay in the arms of morpheus and do. as i became still in the maternity hospital, the impression is that there is also some kind of built-up some hypotheses about how it should be as perfect. yes, and so on, this hotel and just day after day you are destroyed absolutely these fences absolutely absolutely agree with you. here is the point. i'm talking about this actually, just in this chapter, i'm writing about the fact that you don't have to think that you don't, if, as i always say, if you can be an ideal picture of the world embody listen, i will applaud. standing. i also broadcast right and left, being pregnant. he will live in my room and sleep only in his bed. there i do not know if there is a clock there or there, when he will ask, my god. now i understand that in his room, of course, he can

sleep for god's sake. just you will jump up and run to him. this is too much time to rock him later. uh-huh it's him extra time will cry. uh-huh, he he will experience neurosis. and then you will actually stay up at midnight, rocking him, bringing it to a state. why a calm child a calm mother is exactly the same as i can come to my son , not immediately love about love for my son. i am still learning what comes immediately. it's an endorphin blast. it's really built in by nature. after a woman gives birth, so that she does not experience some kind of pain there is something else, so that she feels something there for her child explosion these are the ones i experienced, it’s really easier to live with something here in the coordinate system in which everything is logically justified, first an explosion of endorphins, then i will study, that is, you do not believe

that there are feelings that break everything in general. well, i'm talking about myself, yul, i'm talking exclusively about myself, so i ask you, do you believe in this or not? you, i say again, i believe in myself. uh-huh, because i see it. and there as it may be. here at the neighbor i can’t answer for him, maybe he can answer, here there are women who immediately experience. it will be as they say, so they put a heel in my hand there, and then i realized that this is mine and i am ready for this atom to give, there are all the treasures of the world, and he was born to me. the only thing i understand is this. three red letters all for the first time in my life. i experienced the sensation of an empty head. that is, it was so exhausted looking at me. eh, obstetricians, they say, mother. well, at least you smile, you child, and i forgot how to smile, and then yes, then they brought it to me. i suddenly realized that this is mine. the largest bank offers a guaranteed

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