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you told me to thin the blood, he rode and collected birch sap 20-30 liters brought him froze. here, so that the blood does not thicken, it was necessary so for health, then here it is . he did the whole thing. all he could do he did all 18 years. yes, he knew perfectly well sloboda, meanwhile, was preparing a coup in moscow . sophia tried to keep the sovereign’s power in moscow , not to let her in and kill her because she had begun to believe in the germans on red square. they cut off the head of 800
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archers. and several hundred more were hung on the kremlin walls immediately after the executions of the streltsy. he began to reshape his life and his subjects. russia returned access to the baltic sea and the status of a great european power. the only heir was clearly not going to continue his work was an adherent of antiquity and haters of secrets reforms. rabadov’s tomorrow on pervoi alexei was found dead in a casemate, the true circumstances of his death are still unknown at the age of 54, elena endured and gave birth to her own grandson, looking at how they want children and i know that i bore my children without problems. i thought that i could
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before becoming a surrogate mother. barely did not have to prepare for a long time and a little bit. of course, i had two more operations to rewrite small yulia's husband did not mind that their child would be born in such an unusual way, i wanted children so much that he said, if she can, if she really wants that, then m. let them try alone with everyone elena snegur and her daughter yulia sokolova len i know that if yulia also has a brother, yulia has your son and he has some health problems with joints . before the program, you told us that if i could donate my joints there, if only my son would be all right. i would give. this is some kind of, uh, maternal sacrifice. i would say some, in which that's all that is possible right up to enduring
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grandchildren. come on, give the joint ready too. it is clear that there is one. well, what a common phrase, or something, that a mother is ready, there in the life of her child to give it to her is pure, true, it is, as it were, the maternal instinct, it is the strongest, but still, this is not overkill to such an extent be willing to sacrifice. all for the sake of their children. i don't know. i think, probably, any mother would go for it. that is, you feel your duty. yes, i owe, if i can, i owe everything i can. and how did you meet your husband, how did we meet, but we met a long time ago in the seventy-fourth year. it's been 42 years already. yes, we studied together at school odnoklassniki in the same class. yes, then in the
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tenth grade i left this city and went to my grandmother in another city to live in birsk and 10. i no longer studied with my class and at yulia's graduation when his daughter also studied with yulia in parallel classes. and then on social media. when he registered, we also began to correspond with him. and he admitted to me that he kind of had a crush in childhood. we even wanted him with a classmate with mine with one e one woman wanted to betrothed. yes, they were free instead of themselves, they are also needed. so we wanted to introduce him, but she refused. he wrote to me. no
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, i'll be waiting for you then so i thought about staying with my husband, with whom the desire is very, of course, by that time it's good and it turns out. as a matter of fact, you know that you refute the saying that at the age of 40 your life only begins, it somehow after 50 ran on all counts. anyway, well, you are some kind of a brave woman, you are sitting such a modest mouse, in general, courage is a car for you. let's listen now. how did you react to your decision? uh, your, your loved ones, your spouse, your girlfriend is close and yours, mom. as a matter of fact, there are also other people who react. what is special about the members. overall, he is an amazing person. she is quite. i think she was made for family life. i saw responsibility in this person when she
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informed me of this in her desire to help her daughter. of course i was shocked. 54 years old is a serious age to carry a child. besides she still had other worries on her. ah, her son denis underwent several operations. it was pointless to dissuade her, of course, she shared these emotions. she says i understood intellectually. that i should give this child away, this is not my child, but my heart did not let go, because in fact, you know, she even talked to him, she learned to talk to him when he was still in general, yes, yes mothers grandmothers. she put
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her hand on her stomach and somehow patted him a little, and he reacted to these claps. for it was of course, but in general, not quite usual. we have seen and not seen with our own eyes. yes , of course, it's risky when you sometimes watch on tv. how many different cases are there? what dies or the mother's child? and this is what i was afraid of all the time. here she is for you, who is the heroine of the victim, who is she for you lena well, the victim, she probably sacrificed. still, it could be. after all , well, it all worked out for them. she was seen lying in it, how to say on the conservation. she was on medication all the time. here it is
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most. it's what for sometimes for health, it's not really good? mom, in fact, your grandmother, your mother’s mother, naturally, also experiencing her own maternal instinct in her turn, was worried that, thank god, everything ended well, but it could have ended and not everything could have been very good . you didn't think about what it is, well, selfish enough. in general, a relationship of willingness, mom, who says. but let me help you, maybe you should have insisted that well, now, of course, some hepatica, because, thank god is already healthy, fine. kiryusha was born to his mother in perfect order, beauty. how old is kirill now 4 months old? this is what a woman looks like after giving birth to a 54-year-old child. it did not think that well, maybe somehow i went over somehow with the readiness of my mother. well, mom is ready, but am i ready to
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risk her health like that. i was not ready, initially i and the decision that we made that yes, my mother will plant in january, when they planted kirill, he succeeded very difficult with tears in his eyes, but my mother called me, you decided. well, here, i can i feel that i can consult with my husband. my husband speaks. well, what are you, what are you so worried about? i say, well, what if it's scary already. hmm, we'll lose embryos. we can lose our mother there, anything can happen. he but if mom says so wants trying is not torture. well, how would he support me. well, not only that he supported, he prompted me to say something, yes, but it was still very difficult and i didn’t fully realize and didn’t think that how everything would turn out
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, the embryos would take root, that my mother would have to give birth. damn a. how did you feel? how is the pregnancy going? i was ready for everything, and therefore for me i almost now think that i easily brought this pregnancy to me. i didn’t have any toxicosis, there was nothing with my children, and there was nothing with kirusha. the only thing that has been hard for me lately is to walk for a long time. well, if we talk about the moral side, there are difficulties, so to speak, physiological ones that you somehow overcame with the help of medicine, so to speak, various modern e means, but this is hmm how to say, it seems to me, after all , this mechanism has already been invested by the lord god in us, that when we take women not for them, it is restored in a different way. this is the connection with the child. and how is it to understand that this is not my child, that is. it ’s like mine, but she’s actually my daughter and actually i
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’ll have to give her away, and actually, that’s how you talked about, patting your tummy about. i spoke to him right away. so, when it was already more than 20 weeks, when there were already movements, uh, i woke up and said, kiryushenka well kiryushenka baby, i say, baby, well, i’m getting up, we’ll get up, and somehow he moved like this. i was at ease with him. everything is fine. what julia give away. uh, well this is also with his wife and grandson, so love for his daughter. eh, there was no doubt that i was carrying a grandson and i would give it to my daughter so that she would be happy, but when i saw kirill in the hospital, i, of course, had something maternal in me. played right away. i was very worried. how will i
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part with him, but this is for her, as i still understand that this is for her, as a big part, as a son. and secondly, as a grandson, she loves him very much. she is very attached to him. yeah, you didn’t expect this, when you went, so to speak, didn’t expect this experiment, didn’t expect it. but, when i saw what it was like after birth, when i was still walking, my mother, pregnant, i saw how she treated me, i realized that it would be hard for her to become even after in intensive care, it got even harder for mom. it was noticeable and mm, and was a kind of, in general, a burden on your soul.
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we can lose embryos, we can lose our mother, anything can happen there, despite the fact that elena was carrying a grandson, she treated him like her own child, when it was already more than 20 weeks, when there were already movements, uh, i woke up and i said, baby, i'm not standing, we'll get up. and he kind of moved like this. i am was at ease with him. everything is fine. julia saw the experiences of her mother and felt her connection with the child, i still understand that this is for her, as a big part, like a son. secondly, as a grandson, she loves him very much. she is very attached to him. alone with everyone, elena snegur, and her daughter yulia sokolova lena, how did your mouth go? they planned births yes, in advance well, in advance, as i have a
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gray section it is always at 38 weeks and so i informed until 38 weeks and arrived at the planned caesarean section of his ufa you also went yulia no, but she the birth itself did not let us in, they said that it was impossible. why can't they have it. in this hospital, in their practice, there are no partnerships of partner deliveries, so there is none. and where were you, we were at home sitting on pins and needles all this time, until my mother called and said you became parents. and when there was a caesarean section, then you were conscious or not, yes, that is, you saw right away. yes , the final anesthesia was not done, i heard the child. i heard that he was screaming, even i heard that he seemed to be screaming in his stomach. started screaming like that, such a muffled sound was, uh, a voice, a
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voice, then stronger, and then they took him away. uh, to another room, they showed him everything, as it should be or not. they didn't show it to me. they didn't say that, look. here is the boy. no. although i was conscious. i thought everything was as it should be. i thought so. so they took him to another room. doctors from the children's department were already waiting there and they took him to the children's department, it turns out to be in intensive care. why did they bring babies to everyone in the evening? well i have me in resuscitation also remained in her adult adult and some were brought so they show, but there is no opinion, in the morning they again bring me to others again, no. i already asked a question. why i don't have it does n't show. a doctor will come to you, he will tell you everything, i
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began to worry. i went crazy. i think so now, yes, then they told me he was in intensive care. you can call there. i called and they told me the child was not breathing, that he was developing pneumonia. well then, of course, i already had a tantrum in general yulka how did they find out that kirill resuscitation mom called, she said we talked the night before and everything was fine with the child. everything is fine. i am good. eh, they don’t let the child in. mom is also in intensive care; she also does not know what is happening with the child. but everything seems to be fine. but in the morning, uh, my mother called us and said that kirill turned out to be in intensive care with pneumonia. ugh, that's not so good. as i would like, as yesterday assumed. there have already begun attempts to
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undertake and in resuscitation. started calling every day there, you know? what every hour, if calling it will be useless and only divert doctors from their duties. moms to calm down, because mom just had a very real feeling at that moment that mom’s attitude had changed, or something to the child, that for a long time there the mind tried to control feelings, and she said. here is my grandson. this is for your son and stuff. and that at the minute when the child was born, that, in fact, the concepts were mixed up. and what is it that she doesn’t really can distinguish, is it well or is it still my child thinks. yes, it was understandable when it became obvious when we ran into her in the intensive care unit itself near kirill. they let me in kirill for the first time , and i saw him, and my mother, in my opinion, came up for the third time. that's when, seeing mom
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's attitude towards the child, how she stood crying, how she was shaking. i understood that it would be very difficult for mother to mother without kirill and i give him and she more than m-m feels more than grandmother, like a grandson. and what did you experience with these kirish? this is my child. all i have will be no thoughts. he will recover will not be. everything is fine. they do everything that was all right. this is my child, and you cried. i am such a person, i very, very rarely cry from emotions, a little emotional, especially in those when there is a person nearby who is also feeling bad. yeah, seeing my tears. he will be even worse, so we must hold on. well, thank god. this is history. eh, lenochka, you cry all the time or or memories and happiness that everything ended like this, thank god everything ended
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well, really, and here is kirill's mother. earlier , lena was discharged earlier than kirill, or at the same time. yes, and that is, you still continued to walk, there are kirishi to ride, yes, and sterlitamak is 120 km away. wow, that is not every day there is all day through the day. and when i was discharged, it was something like me on the day of discharge. in general, i was waiting there, for a whole week, how long i lay, i was all flowing, and when they were discharged, why? well, because they were afraid, no, kirill is sick, right? well, i was afraid. and when they were discharged, i think how it is possible to leave such a tiny tiny one in this maternity hospital. i did not understand, in general for me it was something he the moment came, it was necessary to leave the maternity hospital, and we yulia came for me, and we immediately went from the maternity hospital to the church, wept and asked, then asked
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at each hmm, at each room there they asked, they begged that everything was, so that with kirill recovered. uh-huh well, after what time kiryushka was discharged, well, first they were discharged from the intensive care unit on the 12th day on the fourteenth day for 2 weeks, and then for another week we lay with him in the children's department for the second stage of walking. i'm with kirill. and already exposed already lay. yes, you were waiting. yes, i've been waiting. i'm already also called her. she sent me a photo. and how did you decide among yourselves, who will lie with kirusha, when when i am a mother, a birth certificate, as if mother donk lies aha that is, there was no legal possibility. eh, lenochka, if there was a legal possibility, then you would have run ahead of the curve together, that is, when kirill was taken away from the hospital, they met you uh-huh as expected, but with flowers. and mom met, right?
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it was a strange feeling. no, i was glad that kirill recovered. and that he and yulia well, everything is strange, no, not it was a strange feeling. no, i didn't know it was her child. and that they should meet her, yul, and when you felt, i don’t know somehow, that maternal feelings immediately turn out right away. hmm, i didn’t think that if i have a maternal instinct, there is no maternal maternal instinct. i just knew. this is my child. i will live with him for a very long time. i already love him. i am boundless man to him tenderness. i am responsible for his life. uh, without this little man. i can't anymore because it's mine. and how is he to you reacted, kirill, he looked at me for the first time,
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as if just another nurse. with one eye you can’t say that there are just some around him right away. at first there were a lot of people. and when he saw me, i was another face for him, which maybe he won’t see again. uh- huh well, then after three days, he probably got used to it so far better than anyone and pays attention to me most of all. damn, when did we ask you. uh, hmm getting ready for this program. would you go for this experiment again? they said, perhaps yes, i would not have been able to give it away. so said. yes, it's hard to break up. it's something. what was the hardest thing about breaking up for
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you, what did you think? what would be bad without you? yes , and it seemed to me that he felt better with me, that he seemed to feel that i was betraying him, that i was giving and betraying him. well, that's what he don't know, that's how i felt. i even when they left, and we had an agreement with yulia. they traveled for three days, but murmansk that every 3 hours she tells me how kirill's condition is, and here's some moment here in my head, uh, crying baby. so i hear the cry of a child, i call them, and the truth is, kirill is crying. there was some kind of connection with him, then it was very difficult to leave. and let us know that now we will listen to the professor of neonatology, and they are grigorievna filippova. and what did she tell us, but she told us about your specific situation and about it in general with a horn. if we talk about what happens in psychological
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practice, then this is not the most shocking story, but in fact from the point of view of the arrangement, uh, family roles and the formation of a child's personality - this, of course, is a very difficult story, because definitely family roles, who is my mother, who is my father, who is my grandmother, this helps a person to set his own concept of self-define himself, as a person of a certain gender age to master the role in the family of that , which i should have in this case, since we are still talking about a boy, it will be a little easier for him, because girls also need to master the maternal position, and in this. in general , mixed history - it's not just the boy here, at least one single father, and as an object with which one will have to compare oneself, there is such a concept of psychology, identification, he is precisely defined for him, but about how he will then figure out how to choose for himself . but here there can be different interesting stories, because, in principle,
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the mother figure plays a big role here, but now this child has two mother figures. and, probably, the whole problem here is how they will handle these rudders among themselves, and how they distribute themselves will be positioned in relation to the child. we , for example, psychology know quite a lot of examples when these roles are confused. and the game. this inside the family is called so, who is the best mother for this child and can fight for this role, mother and grandmother, mother, and even there father and aunt, someone else would be nice if there was help from a psychologist who would help them put all the roles on this grandmother's place is to accept what she did and, as it were, put an end to this and continue to say, well , that's it, i'm a grandmother. i give all rights go to this my position and i will learn there to be a grandmother so that it is not just easy, but such a grateful parting with a sense of accomplishment of a
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job well done, gratitude to the parents who take this child and bring them to them for the child. it matters a lot when a mother separates from her child. so , with anxiety, with feelings of tears, this just speaks of that very internal conflict that she is not ready to let him go. now give other hands when we if we talk about surrogacy in general and about motherhood icosrogates, then we always recommend that parents let their children know about the status of their birth. as far as i know, you didn't really intend to hide from kirill how he was born. how are you? it would be explained to him, there is such a thing when children from the age of five ask. yes , you gave birth to me. no, not me who gave birth to him. here is your grandmother. why didn't she give birth? well, in my
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house, where the children grow up, it’s not very good there , you wouldn’t like it there, here is an explanation enough. it seems to me at the level of this age, when he just starts asking such questions and this information is enough for him, and then it’s like it won’t happen when he grows up, that you’ve been deceiving me all your life that you gave birth to me, it turns out , my grandmother gave birth to me, and everything in my life was a deceit and so on there, so we wo n’t hide it. that it's not her the child, when i ran to the intensive care unit, i ran away from my adult intensive care unit. that's when i think it 's mine. why why did this happen? why did i try so
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hard? and so this is how yulia understood how difficult it would be for a mother to part with her baby. video of mom's attitude to the child, how she stood crying, how she was shaking. i understood that it would be very difficult for my mother without seryozha and i would give him more than more feelings than my grandmother. well, in the future julia plans to tell her son the whole truth. about his birth. children as young as five ask there you are my mother, there you gave birth to me. no, not me who gave birth to him. here is your grandmother alone with everyone elena snegur and her daughter yulia sokolova yulia know when children are born, and of course our parents, there they always feel us as their own children, and there, no, no. and no matter how old we are, they try to educate us to express. we do it this way or we do it
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wrong. and when our children are born, the next generation has in mind, then after all, parental care is transferred to our children, they begin to tell him how or not you absorb you, right or wrong? it's just whether you feed your own child. and in general, any mom, dad, has an iron answer, as it were. uh, if you don't want to pay or get involved or so stop. you raised me, thank you very much. now. this is my child and i will do as i see fit. here is your situation. it seems to me quite difficult to object to your mother and say that i will do it the way i think. well, because we're doing it the way it is, kind of, and mom's trying to interfere. somehow especially. no it is kiryusha should not be given or not. well, no matter how other aspects you take it wrong. you put it in the wrong place, put it there. it probably doesn't hurt him. everything is fine. mom is fine, he's fine. you nobody offends. what if you
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offend him, there is such a thing as offending him, well, kirill used to have such a feeling, i thought, so that suddenly they offend him there, but how can they offend him? it's interesting just like that. i kind of, well, because of the fact that i was so far behind, i thought that he was better with me that i feel that you could somehow it's better to do it than these completely young worthless inexperienced parents, but the question of such parental sacrifice, which is hmm which is often a well-known case that when there parents, for example, can tell their child. i sacrificed my career there for you and the child will feel fine. in general, forever in indebted debt to his own parents. but the sacrifice that went, my mother somehow. well, now, if her health, and even this, the moral anguish that she experiences
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parting with kirill does not impose any additional responsibility on you and the feeling that, well, this is some kind of unpaid debt and such. here are even some connectedness in their own actions in relation to their son. well , the debt, and the one that i must now justify mom’s mother’s such a sacrifice, that kirill should grow up with us as a very wonderful good person and raise him well, and in front of my mother that this is the best thing in the world for me, mom and now with no one can argue with that. i love him very much love, respect. and i am eternally grateful to her for what she has done for me. and your husband, as he expressed his gratitude to his mother-in-law, he loves her very much, he respects her very much, especially for the last year. eh, this is a person who, for him, is probably on such a
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pedestal, which you can’t say anything against at all. here, no matter how bad it is, or even look at it in this direction with some kind of negative there, because this is sacred to him. this is a holy woman. it says so to me that uh hmm i have the most in the world wonderful mother-in-law. she is just a super-duper woman who gave me a son and all some other questions and this is useless. that is. now you will especially quarrel with your mother, you won’t even be able to in the presence of your husband, yes, that is, he will always be on the side of your mother. yes, most likely so kirill you came with you. and i wanted to ask permission. can we bring him here to us? can he love people? now moms
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are carrying him. hello kiryukha applauds so tenderly, hello, such a little man hello, i wonder if he pretty here. and people are a lot of fantasy. for both of you. now, of course, the most important thing is to somehow keep in touch with each other, and in particular with the kiruha, in order to find out how he is doing, how he is growing. are you on a call? how often every day, but we know you don't have
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smartphones. you so to speak, only at home . you can use a computer to watch kirills on a daily basis, and we thought that these are such smartphones. you would be useful in order to be able to both any new first tooth smiles can be forwarded more quickly. i do not know the first steps further and everything that will happen with kirill to keep the completely heroic grandmother informed of every event in life, kirill thank you very much. wish you luck. thank you we can't help but admire your act and your masculinity and femininity. well, kirusha grow up as a worthy son and grandson, simply the most worthy that can be, thank you very much.
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majestic mountains with peaks over 5000 meters protect the borders of russia in the south-west, these places have preserved not only the pristine beauty, but also the rarest species of animals and plants. here you can meet birds with bright plumage, which are not inferior in beauty to their tropical counterparts and the last mountain
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bison of our planet, the mountains of the caucasus. northwest to southeast here. is the highest peak russia's extinct volcano elbrus jesus high steep mountains the so-called greater caucasus is located on the territory of russia there is still no consensus on whether the caucasus mountains are part of europe or asia if we assume that they are in europe then elbrus, whose height
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reaches 5.000 642 m, the highest peak of the continent is 800 m higher than the alpine mont blanc. almost at the most snow-capped peaks of the caucasus mountains, on steep cliffs and cliffs, the height of which varies from 800 to 4,000 m, caucasian mountain goats live more often they are called tours. males live separately from females and cubs in small groups, moving from one mountain pasture to another. their weight often exceeds 100 kg, and the length of the luxurious horns of their main decoration can reach 75 cm.
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tournament fights begin in late autumn, because the mating period is getting closer and you need to show yourself in all its glory and strength. the males get up, it would be necessary and with all their weight falls on the enemy, the winners become the strongest, they continue their mouth, a clear example of natural selection.
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the variety of landscapes is a distinctive feature of the caucasus mountains. these are peaked peaks and impenetrable forests and high mountain valleys, which may be why biologists classify the caucasus as one of the richest regions in the world in terms of plant and animal species. of the six and a half thousand plant species found in the caucasus, a fourth grows only in these parts. here a deer with her baby comes out into the clearing. females bring the first fawn at the age of 2-3 years. usually they give birth to one cub, sometimes two to this crumbs.
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only a few weeks old. due to the natural camouflage of the spotted pelt, it is well protected. the cry of a lynx frightens the baby, but as long as the mother deer is nearby - this is a predatory cat, it is unlikely to dare to approach him. the flight attacks, as a rule, only on young or sick deer that have strayed from the herd. but this cat with characteristic tassels, on the ears, is not hunting now. she rushes to her own children. they are still so small that they eat only milk, they are only 8 weeks old, but they are already beginning to
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measure their strength in harmless games. they train muscles work out the skills and techniques so necessary in later life. all worries about the offspring fall on the female, the role of the male in raising the brood is negligible, so the mother lynx is busy around the clock. played out kittens can only be stopped by a feeling of hunger. having quenched it, they continue to play again. shrubs and even herbaceous plants in the caucasus taller than human are not easy to get through these thick
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thickets, you are competing with each other. but even they are far from the true giant wild hogweed, that's who reigns over everyone here. this a plant reaching 3 m in height is very dangerous for humans. it contains furocoumarins, substances that sharply increase the body's sensitivity to ultraviolet radiation in contact with stems, leaves, flowers. hogweed leads to the fact that burns appear on the skin for memory , dark pigment spots remain, lasting up to 6 months, and in severe cases for life. however, local residents have long used the medicinal properties of hogweed. in addition, its dried stems are an excellent material for
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can reach a ton. these animals prefer a solitary lifestyle. the original inhabitants of the forests of the caucasus, the caucasian bison completely disappeared in the late twenties of the last century. only thanks to human activity, it was possible to save bison on our planet in the caucasian reserve. introduced hybrids. caucasian and belovezhskaya bison with bison in recent years. the number of bison is again threatened by the danger of a poacher. they are hunted even on the territory of the reserve. flowers in the mountain meadows of the caucasus of all kinds
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