smart money was crazy money, and we had him come to us to dance behind the curtain. and we were there, so we pulled them on, as they were dressed lying down, of course, the fashion models of our urine are these jeans. no, they lay down on the table to wet and pulled on, and then they sat, as they flew even in my childhood, that it was considered right, that they once did not dress correctly. i don't have one, but it's different. well, yes, it was like that with me, then, for example, i said, i’m some kind of saburki. i remember he brought me boots. they were all transparent. only now my nose felt like a queen. let's go with you to these mannequins, which, in order to wear them in the rain, maybe, yes, we wore them both along and in the

legs in the snow and in the heat, because the other castle we didn't have. and here we have three images from this beautiful film. what would you start doing. i would start with you that everything works for an artist, it’s insanely hard. she knew perfectly well what fashion is and what is beautiful. and what is going on and so on. she was ideologically obliged to make clothes and film for working youth. they recognized themselves, but not what they recognized, but that they were of a certain image, but to do everything in the fact that this working youth, if they did not have much to do in vocational schools, these guys had a great life, they all intensified their lives. they wore jeans. well, of course, it was the string itself, of course, it was the terrible fabric, and so on. it’s in the teahouse, so that it is there, but you didn’t flare, there were no cuts, and the cuts were either with zippers or with buttons, and these

the guys flaunted in these jeans or these leather jackets, but they had to be oblique, that is, the workers knew they loved to dress, because this hero of ours is wonderful . yes, this black suit is monstrous. yes, this is an illiterate tie, but the tie is red. he wants to be great because he wants to go to graduate school. he wants to take a certain position, and he wants to be respected, and the appearance is not very. yes, such a growth. not very, but a red tie. here on this suit. if maybe, then this artist would make him a suit or a thin stripe or a woven such tweed no black, but he thought he didn’t have anything dark there, right? the popular moment is to realize that it is important in this film that everyone reflects the character. uh-huh about the

men's suit, contact victor. it seems to me that women from fashion had problems. nauseous. fashionable could not be found, but men's suits, in my opinion, it was just a tragedy. that's just the tragedy of the well- seated. it was impossible to find a suit or not. did you face it, i can't get you now to tell about that time about feelings. well, probably, uh, there was something to get. how can you tell? the normal is quite hard wider. yes, you know and decided, sometimes such relationships were very cool talented people love branded here is a branded jacket or suit, but sin. well, this one was missing. well, they were found only cut off and came cut off from an indian towel. i send this little thing shirts , and it seemed that they were foreign you can find it somewhere, no, especially since it

was an institute and somehow they changed, they did something, and then they already work in the theater. you begin to understand secular life, and only then from the period of 1975 . i began to understand the need for a suit in it. why are you in the theater you must definitely have jeans. uh huh, the best thing in this film was the dressed image and indeed it is wonderful from the brutus, who has been elegant all her life, who has been beautiful all her life. and here in this film , he is also dressed very well. with regards to women's falandian images? what was important? those were the years of stagnation they called them boring years. uh, the artists called rotten years skirt for skirts, the length of the product. so it's a very hour. it's completely irrelevant. everyone can walk everything for young girls above the knees for ladies. over the knee or a little in the middle of the knee, and whatever you want in the evening, but for

young girls, the brilliant sixties passed, which opened a window to the world for us. yes, and when they broke into us with mini-skirts. why did she walk all the way down absolutely and they wanted to change the skirt and the seventies, despite the fact that this abuse was not allowed, but still young girls 16 years old, 14 years old, 15 years old did not make a skirt wide skinned ones allow themselves to walk. you are serious. yes, we are generally in graduate school, and in short all the time good legs. good figures good running image did the whole image. well, what helped the beads? here i say that they adored the houses of the model to us came over from here from seven. yes

, mmm, we had a turner who sharpened these beads, and the artists then painted them. and these passed the pancake guys had these beads and they're begging please. well, where you can get it can sell, and he says, yes, selling this one cost 3 1/2 kopecks. then plastic beads bracelets. here are those who have five rows around their necks, because there was, uh, an amazing film, an italian horse. yes, she is in this swindler in this form. that is, there were handkerchiefs like this, which were tied here and pleated scarves. this is wonderful. yes, they were from the fox. not only it was very fashionable and crazy on evening dress by an employee in evening dress. well the point is that there were all collars and scarves. you remember the scarves that were thrown over. it was an opportunity for people and guys to dress up

inexpensively and there was no good fox. there was a mini mini , of course, lord, such a beautiful woman to the knee, behind the knee above the knee a little above the knee. yes, but my pleats are so a little wide and that's why this fashion has passed you by. yes, i will give you very details. i also did not like the wonderful ones at all, which was in this period of the seventies, not so much the strength there, adjacent to the straight fabric. didali the institutes were the institute of silk, the institute of wool, the institute of flax. and fashionable fine fabrics were made there in some kind, but they fell into stores to us and there was the most diverse cage and stuffed here and shirts and men's shirts in the film, by the way, a lot of the shoulder is the same and this one here sundress, and the

straps were not so they were drawn, but they were definitely strained. yeah, there were iron copper buckles and nineteen more on top of this sundress, the search was beveled, and it was very, very comfortable and crazy on a shirt on a thin turtleneck, for whatever you want. and most importantly, that this image, which is for you and a student, can be like this and, in principle, a teacher in the world to him are kind people. here is the current model. it seems to me that it was for our people in those days, because aesthetics should be connected with aesthetics, everything should be economical. it is our economy that should ultimately lead to an economical life. thank you so much. let's go back. it's 1973 and big break is on, and almost every woman in the, uh, seventies has blue eyeshadow. what is connected with why

exactly blue shadows no other shade? there was nothing else, what did you get? that is, there were blue, just any artist who appears in the film of the seventies, almost all of them have blue shadows. there was no other choice, or or it was just fashionable and the boxes were such short boxes for the studio, but it was already from the eighty-seventy- eighth year, the eighties did beige pink and blue to us, and when in our seventies at the beginning okay, some kind of thing, and there was also tooth powder, which we somehow created and oiled. here is. here is another detail below, and one of the characters in the film is ironing trousers, through a newspaper, you can. we need to explain victor why through the newspaper i was taught and you were taught? yes, you know, in fact, it is very correct through the paper through the newspaper, first of all by itself. well,

the warehouse strelka yes fits very well and then the fabric does not burn out and does not deteriorate. here is a very good one. how do you say it becomes through the newspaper gives. well, how? like sponge or what? i do not know how. everyone is like them, in general, i don’t iron like that now, because right now, uh, the most normal thing would be to leave unironed. yes, these are absolutely golden words. can one small memory yes. we arrived, as it were, maybe 75 seventy-sixth year in yugoslavia and we had an ironer with a container of irons, we specially arrived. let's go, then with galya galya from our artist. okay, the corridors hate taking out containers exactly. well, galya, why could she? only synthetics do not wrinkle. that's all. and

you had some kind of ironing equipment, and then irons could still be heated on a gas stove, of course, anything, so it is important with you through a newspaper, he still says so. and how did you stroke knew about the newspaper? no, i'm with a wet rag through gauze. it was also necessary to get it, it was not so easy to get it. here is another interesting device, but not quite mowed clothes, but nevertheless nestor petrovich boils an egg hard and counts. we counted 3 minutes. yes, yes 3 minutes. and there were some other , uh, adaptations. this kind, i don’t know, well, helping with cooking or something like that,

where you had to be smart when the eggs were boiled and still this. salt must be poured so that they do not burst. and you could also, you know, like boiled eggs, and then you take a few eggs, pierce a hole from there, pull out the decoration on the christmas tree, there are no extremities of hooliganism. and here it was, apparently, a work of art, but they made decorations for the christmas tree, because the decoration for the christmas tree was also much cheaper, somehow, but we didn’t seem to have enough money, but the decoration for the christmas tree. we love to do it ourselves, because we made these chains ourselves, painted eggs, hung tangerines, which are like this so they opened and opened so that they dried up and there were such chrysant candies. well, it was nice to do it. ukraine has always been and we had stars cut out of gold paper that are

addicted to it. just trying to understand. or is it due, for example, to the fact that the christmas tree decorations were also wild, as if they were decorations, dear, after all, they were, but well fuh in the film. uh, a lot of great music and a famous song from this film, we remove uh, we are chosen, which, of course, also became separate, so to speak absolutely a hit and a work of art and a classic. and just like himself, there are a lot of scenes in it, when the guys all go together to play the guitar, sing, ride the bus, did you really always take the guitar with you and yes. and especially when they went to the collective farm. what do you mean, when hmm the theater gave some kind of concert on the collective farm, then they set the tables for us and then take it with you and on the bus i also remembered the sale as a bastard, well, some terrible prices played out the whole bus laughed as

he just didn’t dump . with guitar experience or not even important, it was possible without a guitar. can this. and what kind of repertoire noisy cane trees? of course, we sang foreign songs in english, sang songs in a note, someone drank it down, let's say a song we filed mexican mexican, my dove in the morning, of course, that is, the entire international repertoire that was broadcast at the time, which was the main thing, what kind of entertainment do we have, for example, artists actors about shchukinsky. hut. i don't know, well, all this time, mishka is rustling there author 's song, yeah, author's song forest, tents fires, guitar, volodya vysotsky boiled. it's all this time vizbor then. we have this time of 70 years.

despite it, you can’t stand, not very much appeared that then determined our life. and in particular, this song song, which exists and is adored and everyone, of course, sheepskin coats with earflaps. this is what we were talking about. hello, not a single actress said that if i had such a sheepskin coat, my personal life would have turned differently ah, and these earflaps, earflaps, put them on adults on a man, for example. and what does it mean, what does it mean he is not sex guys. for the first time in our life for the first time in the seventies, unisex, when women began to grab men's clothes and adapted it to themselves, and then the greek princess of monaco appeared or occupied all the sites. these personal costumes and all the clothes

and the look and the haircut. hello turtleneck sweaters. well, when there was a tendency to unite the sexes, of course, in the seventies, not with us. but we gladly took it went, because it was very practical. although in the film woman in trouser suits. meetings not this way. well, it’s not so often possible that a woman has slumped, or because it’s not for school, not for college, not for work, they talk about it, yes, categorically in almost every apartment, by the way, by the way, a guitar hangs from where you don’t go, which means yes, on the wall, this is also a necessary attribute. you had natalion's guitar. but no, i didn’t have a personal guitar, but i had a turntable, well, without a turntable, understand? it was just that it was later. and you have victor guitar. no, i didn't have. so what are you non-standard people, guitar. you didn't know how to play. i didn't know how to play the piano. in the yard we always got

together sometime. uh, they played and sang too. these were evenings. well, somehow the receivers also listened, at that time a lot of 95 rubles was enough. it was necessary to listen there, and who had such a receiver, for example, they opened the window, put music on the windowsill at the beginning, and it plays. yes, that is, not everyone had to have a guitar at home, because you could always give a guitar to find. so they passed each other, of course, of course, blows. it was king, according to a fashionable word, the soundtrack to the film did not exist then there was music for the film there were songs from the film and, of course, the song, e, as if performed by svetlana kryuchkova and we choose us , became an absolutely independent hit. but forever in our memory associated with this wonderful film. big change. and it would be

right to complete this program with this particular song. today. it will be performed in ne no anastasia belyavskaya in our studio, and i thank you all for remembering 1973 with us and film big change. who lives? who can guess ? differently, the wall often falls out simple, it seems to be black white, and white black, we choose us, they choose how this part does not match. i'm behind you. shadow i'm getting used to the mismatch. i'm

getting used to it. i'm glad for you, you won't know, yes, and you don't need to . you didn't learn won't help, what didn't work out together isn't hard. happiness is such a complicated thing, far-sighted drowning by the hand often oversleep, it seems black is white, and white is black.

black white black her life is like a battlefield. she constantly fights for respect for love, for the opportunity to be happy and successful, a difficult childhood, the death of loved ones, an early marriage that broke up after the birth of her daughter, postpartum depression, then it seemed to her that the world had collapsed and the main salvation was food. after some time, a tired and lonely woman weighing 120 kg looked at her from the mirror. but

she was not even 25 years old from that moment. she decided to change her life, was not afraid to dream even after a few years. she is a successful author of her own weight loss systems. she has millions of followers and fans step by step. she makes her dreams come true and lives by her motto. who wants to find a thousand opportunities, and who doesn’t want a thousand reasons alone with everyone, nutritionist and writer ekaterina mirimanova hello katya hello, i am glad to welcome you here in moscow, because as i understand that you traveled before us from sunny spain in which madrite, as i say, listen, but you are, uh, a very successful author indeed. i would say, uh, you have a huge amount followers in russia and what about spain there? how are you progressing or not? i submitted my first book 2 years ago. and i think that

next year there will be another book, but not about diets, because, of course, i got a little tired of diets over these 10 years. it is impossible to talk about one thing all the time, and the same thing must be said in general. you admitted in many of your interviews that in general you are a writer. this was the main thing. your dream. you always knew it would happen to you, but you came to it like this. that's strange way actually thanks to your 120 kg. yes, you have reached your dream. in general, you know, i always say that everything that happens. it always happens for the best and, in fact, in its essence. yes, my overweight. he helped me start writing such a career and you continue there. and in the artist and in different areas and the psychology of cooking, what? only i haven't written yet. uh-huh, but it all started. yes, it's a weight loss system. you have never been. uh, especially skinny, i mean, your weight problem just started with very childhood. is it possible to say what it means from childhood there were some problems? but they were psychological. yes? i had a

very authoritarian, dad, who believed that it should be this way and not otherwise. well, that's a plus. i have a very specific mother with a very similar outlook on life, and i also always lacked the love of attention, not that there is no love of attention. i had a lot, but i mean that i wanted more affection, as often happens, in principle, by everyone. yes, that's where we do everything. together, but nevertheless an important moment is not only to do together, but sometimes just come up there to hug and kiss in many families, this is not accepted. it was not very accepted in my family. and so i think that in particular, when i analyze it, it was also for this that i lacked elementary tactile contacts. but in fact, i even wrote in one of my books that, for example, those who lack sweets are drawn to sweets, just love and care for affection, and i noticed that when i was life, yes, when i was e in the first marriage, and my husband was quite like that too. and hmm well, it’s not that he’s closed so dry, no matter how tactile, on the contrary, i like hugging, touching, and kissing, and so i always

felt that i miss these touches, when we were already divorced, and i married her second husband. it turned out to be much more tactile, i immediately got sick of eating sweets, just now, and your family scolded for this for your excess weight, well, i have, yes, i was always told, dad that a girl should be thin, so the more you are tall, if you are also fat and tall at the same time, then it will generally be a cow, that is, my dad likes to characterize things so correctly. well, mom. she was at one time, too, chubby once in childhood. then, when she moved to st. petersburg, she lost weight for 2 weeks without eating anything. in general, after that she lost weight, she still believes that the best way to lose weight is to eat nothing, and she constantly tells me to kat, well, you have to eat nothing. i say mom, when was the last time you didn't eat anything. this is herself, but then at the institute. i say, well, then thank god you were 17 years old. but , that is, everything has been with her since then, she also takes care of herself all the time. she weighs there, a 60 kg. she is trying so hard, she is always

watching me, she says that something has gotten better. urgently. you need to lose weight yeah, that is, despite the fact that you are already quite a famous nutritionist, so to speak. i'd say she should be the boss. yes , you owe it like everyone else mom, it seems to me, whoever you are anyway, mom tries everyone all control in all areas. how effective is it if mom says, there, for example, i don’t tell my daughter that you have lost weight. although my daughter, in principle, also has a slope in fullness, but i tell her, she knows perfectly well what the system is sits down. with me, she can tell a book already, in my opinion, write. and here, but as i say, katya is careful there. you started to get better, but i don't tell her to get thinner. yeah, i'm just saying, you start to get better, and she takes and uh sits on the classics of the system. that is tries. there is only sweet in the morning, then everything is fifth or tenth and quickly slows down. well, or i tell her there, let's take a walk, let's go together. i think that this way of inviting is better than talking. oh, terrible cow. what

happened to you, and many parents say that, uh- huh and they don’t understand that in doing so they cause great harm to the psyche of a child or a girl there, and your dad died when you were 17 years old, no matter how authoritarian he was not authoritarian, whatever the relationship, so to speak, the departure of parents is, of course, just, well, a terrible blow, and again you hmm turned out to be pretty. i would say, well, a specific situation, because not only did you lose your dad. well, a year later, your mother left for spain. how did you cope with this, don’t you think, that, in fact, this stress may have influenced the fact that then you will be so torn. no, definitely. you said it had an impact that i started getting better like that. it happened to me at the same time. still unhappy. my love story is dead. a month later. after the departure of my mother, a guinea pig who lived for 7 years, that is, i had the feeling that the world was completely and completely collapsing, because all the priorities that i was inspired, that this is the most important family, the most important thing, the most important thing is everything

and me i look at my life and understand that, as it were, and where is the most important thing, that is, the main thing, and my mother. i myself sent her to spain that is, i myself married her in spain, but nonetheless. i didn't think it would work. so she will leave, and generally disappear practically from my field of vision. i mean, i've done this before. well, because when a year later i arrived, and to my mother in madrid a year later. after she left and we lived, we tried together for a month. we realized that, well, it was impossible, at that stage it was for us to live together, because again, my character is like this, when i wanted to achieve this, i wanted to achieve this today , then it seemed to my mother that it was wrong, but and again to bring, and a teenage girl who does not know a word of spanish to madrid, but to her new husband. it is too enough such, let's say, a risky event in the sense that, as a result, contacts with the daughter of her husband are also collapsing. it’s very, very difficult to build

this contact, so when i left for spain i thought do i need to take my daughter and my ex-husband said no, astafiev is with us, but i realized that i just won’t do what my mother did and left, and made this choice. if we call a spade a spade, that at some point your mother didn’t choose you, yes, and i understand her now, very well, because at that stage, if she would have stayed then, and at that stage of life. she simply would never have gotten out of depression after her dad died, and most importantly, i don’t know what would have happened to me if she hadn’t done this, let’s listen to your aunts, and larisa viktorovna well, let’s say, sometimes we don’t even have always been positive. and katya always stood on the side of her mother, that is, her mother is always an authority for her. she loves her mom. here. well, because they live next to each other. of course they

communicate. i mean visually and simply meet, of course, more often than we do, because our meetings are so rather limited. there certainly must be a person who will take on some of the duties of some men, because, unfortunately, in recent years, katya, well, in general, carried on herself. all this, yes. here she was for her daughter for her father and for her mother, because the father is here financially . she has to work hard to maintain her house. support her family, probably that's when she lost so much weight, when she took up herself m-m, she just proved to herself that in this life, and she is strong enough. therefore, it also always supports her once she was able to do it then. yes, to lose weight so much in such a short period, which means that everything in

her life will also work out. you know what i think, i think, is it necessary to go through such trials in order to come to your childhood dream in order to be successful, but in order to feel harmonious you can often encounter, from the point of view of such your that's like here, then i didn't kill and thanks to this, i became, but she, probably, had some other path from the very beginning, that if all this had not happened to me, everything would still have turned out the same, but i like to think that thanks to all these events, i am where i am. she believes that being overweight helped her realize herself in life and as an artist in various fields, the psychology of cooking, which i haven’t already written, but it all started. yes, it's a weight loss system. as a child, she was scolded for extra pounds. to me dad always said that a girl should be thin, the more tall you are, if you are also

fat and tall at the same time, then it will generally be a cow, that is, my dad loved to characterize things so correctly after death. papa ekaterina did not communicate with her mother for a long time. i myself sent her to spain that is, i myself married her in spain, but nonetheless. i didn't think it would work. so she will leave, and generally disappear practically from my field of vision ekaterina girimanova. you have recovered so much, because i understand that it was also connected with the birth of your daughter. katya and katya is your family name, grandmother. katya's great-grandmother, great-grandmother. katya mother katya you katya daughter katya well, this is such a family oddity, but true. and why is katya katya? we have such an ancient plan for each other there? well, great-grandmother, she was just a sorceress and sort of like to save. that's the energy of what, yes, well, that's the kind of energy that she had, we call everyone's cat. uh huh, you know, here's another interesting observation

psychologists who say that a person gains weight very often, because he subconsciously believes that if he is more, then he will be, well, as if taken seriously, he will take up more space, but in your case, i would say , he will be an adult you were 19 years old. when you got married. how old are you? when your daughter was born two, yes 22 and another 17 you. just realized the loss of the family. mom didn't come. not for the wedding. mom didn’t come not for the birth of a child, she was n’t interested in me at all, huh? i will become more mature i will influence, because no. i think that's about the fact that there become adults to take up more space. i think it's purely out of irritability. i eat. i'm nervous. i eat and i don't even notice how my portions grow. i don’t even notice how my clothes begin to grow along with me. well, it 's gotten a little better. well, it's gotten a little better. well, a little more, and as a result , some kind of endless growth begins, on which

we do not even pay attention. that is, we think, well, okay, well, i gained a kilogram. so what like this? well, it’s okay, then you’re still a kilogram like it’s not pooh and then a little more, and then a little more, and then bam and the day when you realize yourself can’t, then suddenly here’s a little more a little more a little more i look in the mirror of another there was a person. it often happens in my life when i begin to realize that that 's all that happened. this is not normal at all, and then i just understand that something urgently needs to be changed for something else, that i think that it is impossible to start making changes in life. decided. here i am today for tomorrow i will lose 60 kg. divorce my husband and find a new job. that's bullshit. because everything needs some kind of preparatory process, and i always try to carry out all the changes very systematically. as a matter of fact, thanks to this, i came to my weight loss system, because i didn’t like these, but gaute diets and other things. i decided that i need everything to be smooth, so that all changes go smoothly, and i do so and get divorced. i've always been like this and in general, i did everything always so, and you are very curious that you

put divorces in the same line as losing weight, but this variable, that is, changing career activities and divorce and losing weight, are all changes, but nonetheless. you didn’t say about work, but you said exactly, but i’ll lose weight. eh, so he'll divorce a new life. that's all and divorce and weight loss. i do, as if approximately smoothly. in some, by the way, losing weight. this is a more serious step than i don’t think right now, let’s listen to you, but the clinical psychologist yulia lapina, who, uh, a lot of time in her life allocates just questions of the relation to a body. you know, and the story is, on the one hand, very interesting , on the other hand, quite enough. typically for people who lose a lot of weight, i think the most important question she would like to ask is not why she lost 60 kg. how did it happen that she gained 60 kg for you, what happened to her, what kind of pain it was, what it was during the turbulent period of life, and in which weight she needed, which food served as a

protection, some things connected, for example with a lack of olympic attention or love is often also eaten up, but because food is our first , here is an image of maternal love so that we get the first when we come into this world, so food has only psychological meanings, in addition to its main energy meaning very often. by the way, we can observe people who have coped with their excess weight, and books began to write this system. recipes to carry it to the masses, as if it were to stick out all the energies. they have such creative energy. and why did you want to carry it to the masses, what was actually forced from me, i didn’t really want to. i did n't even have it in my head at first. they often tell me, but you decided to lose weight and write a book, he says, i didn’t even think in my life that i would lose weight by these 60 kg. and about the fact that i never even dreamed of writing a book. at first i started to lose weight, when i was on one forum and there was a group where girls were losing weight

discussing all this. and when i had already lost 40 kilograms, i made a page on the internet because i was already exhausted just answering the same questions 150 times, then the page began to grow, because the more i answered the question, the more questions appear and hmm, then, when i realized that there was no more strength i made a forum for this site and a site, and still the question grew in quantity. i think i need to write a book. you say, honestly with you consistently, that miracles do not happen immediately in life, it will not change dramatically. you don't promise these. ah, so to speak magical transformations. yes we are you see, but your life will not change dramatically, but nonetheless. here are some miracles will begin then what miracles have happened in your life. well , firstly, the fact that i decided that i ended up divorcing my husband first. this is such a miracle, and why? because when you are very often married, when you grow constantly and a person at the initial stage, he

is on the same level with you and also grows, but everyone grows at our own pace. yes and now you understand that you continue to grow, and man he's kind of, well, he's fine he's comfortable at that level. you can't say it. no, let's go to this level together. he won't want to go there, he's fine here, and we kind of became very different in aspirations for goals, and then i decide to get a divorce. and i'm really glad i accepted it, because, well, it wouldn't be mine anyway. the first husband would not be happy. no, i wouldn't be happy. and now i'm glad he's doing well. perhaps just because we are with him. yeah, but it’s not that you still weighed 120 kg. you felt in a sense dependent, because well, who am i with him when i still need it. right now, i've never had any problems at all. i have a weight of 120 kg. i always had men on the horizon there, who showed me signs of attention, who considered me very beautiful, they just waited for a go-ahead

when i was there, if suddenly i stay with my husband, then here you are, no problem. that is, i have never had such a problem at all. what is the claim? as a matter of fact to the spouse. that's how can you rephrase hmm. this is the lack of his growth. you are here. uh, they were married to him twice, what is surprising, that is, they grew up, they thought, sasha thought, and they should understand. yes, i understand, but i no longer experimented in this matter. you write that he earned money there and was the prime minister for all his friends. there 's other stuff there. oh just don't ask me why i happened to him. i just stood up to breathe. there is a feeling that you are like , well, looking for adventure, in fact. no. i'm just a very big perfectionist. they do not need correspond. no, i like to constantly improve myself in all areas. i like the same person pretty. no , i like, for example, reading books. and it is important for me that the person with whom i live also likes to read books when i got married 19 years old i feel

good, in principle, a comfortable good boy from a good family. their good. and then, when you start to live. you understand what is important to you, what is important to you, what is not important to you. and why were they twice, but married everything is very simple, because when we divorced for the first time, i saw that their relationship with their daughter became somehow cold and tense. i thought, well, this is how a very common thought of a woman a girl will grow up without a dad, and i thought, well, maybe try a new one and he also says, well, let's try again. well , let's try, because in principle, we parted completely, as it were. quietly, without scandals, without reproaches, without anything, we tried to understand that, in principle, people do not change and decided uh, leave this venture m, while we can do it calmly and without betrayal and without everything and at the same time leave the daughter with her husband, and misha has no daughters. first she lived with me. she later moved to her husband, because, but it was simply impossible to maintain the rhythm of work that i had, that is,

i had, say, every 3 months a tour of five eight cities of russia. that is, when you leave, there 3 days, and all day long you are somewhere out of reach, then weekdays, i had shooting from morning to night there, and interviews with a capacious then all the fifth tenth. i understood that i had to do it, because if i had already started doing it, then i had to continue. and i just didn’t see my daughter, and therefore i offered him this option. come on, you will be a with her all week, and i will pick her up for the weekend, because it turned out that i didn’t see her all week, because i work she sits with a nanny, and on weekends i take her to my husband, and she is with her husband. and here i am every weekend sometimes there on friday. i took my husband until monday. uh, lives in the suburbs 120 km from moscow, and that means 120 km there 120 km, back 120 there 120 back 500 km. every weekend, as if to have the opportunity not to be. well, plus all the holidays. we always spent together. i love

to travel everywhere. she traveled the whole world with me, and she still has some memories there at the age of 6, let's say. she says, do you remember we went there in paris? i say, listen, i don't remember this. do you still remember? she is sure that parents are not obliged to adjust their lives to the wishes of their children. your mom, she's a man with her own destiny, your dad this is a person with his own destiny, and they must live their lives in such a way that they like it. they are to make you like it. all the women in her family bear the name ekaterina, great-grandmother, she was just a sorceress and it seems like to save. here is the energy of what yes, well, here is such an energy that she had, we call everyone katya, she claims that you need to start changing from a small one. we got up and decided. here i am today for tomorrow i will lose 60 kg. divorce my husband and find a new job. this is nonsense, because everything needs some the preparatory process that all the changes went smoothly and i'm doing so ekaterina what

about my daughter? you say that you would love to take care of her there when she was little and be with her every day. well , this is how life develops, which did not work out. that's when i would like to be when the first tooth fell out, but it didn't work out. i gave instructions to my husband how to behave, so that the tooth fairy, of course, my husband does everything wrong, but the most difficult thing. write. it's time to let go, don't cling to each other friend and was six years old, as i understand it, katya when you wrote these lines, and i thought. what is on time? this is when you need to start preparing a child, you need to think about it. what is time. what is letting go? because at different stages of growing up. it will be different options to let go. first you let the child go to a nearby store, let's say, then you let the child go to school there, then you let the child go to an institute, another city, let's say, and so on. that is, but here the question is precisely that there is no need to cling to the fact that this is your child and the light has converged on it like a wedge. and what, well, i am against hyper-custody,

in short, because you don’t have such a thing, there may be such love for you. maybe that's why, but i, for example, am among those whom i see who had overprotection. i don't see that they are much happier than me. and what i always say to everyone is that i do not argue with people, but on three topics on the topic of weight loss, on the topic of relationships with men and on the topic of relationships with children, because it is useless. everyone has their own point of view each of us grew up in our own world, and no matter how many people there, whatever they say, they didn’t prove it to us. we will still remain on these three topics, but with our own point of view, therefore, independence. and now this is the opportunity to let the child go. this is for what, so that later it would not be so painful in order to make it easier to enter adulthood. i have a lot of girlfriends who, let's say, are there at 19 years old. they called me and said, katya, how to wash it, or there i have one friend who, at the age of 50 , did not know how to turn on the washing machine. well because she always had specially trained people there who turn her on or there, huh? i don't know, well, there are some elementary

things. i think you need to teach your child how to make from childhood, because it will be easier for you and it will be easier for him , and i like to see my daughter on my own. i want to see her self-sufficient things. i don't think it's the same thing, that's where it all starts. that is, if a person from childhood begins to patronize, and constantly his child, then he grows up, he requires a reprimand. there he switches to her husband to someone else and in the end. i don't need constant help to do everything . and i don’t want to see my like that, that is, i want to see my daughter as an adult on her own and a successful woman. uh huh. and so she can manage without you, yes, if necessary, because of course i would like to live to some age. yes, but unfortunately, none of us have power. nobody knows, maybe i 'll leave the studio there. yes, and i will go arrogant brick, and so i think that children should be ready. well, as far as possible, at this stage, to the point that they will be as independent as possible. let's hear yours. she is very strong. she is

smart, and she is generally a very interesting person. and when all people tell all people about something, and all people listen to her and admire her. she taught me three languages ​​with good words, because she taught me english. and in general, she taught a bunch of all sorts of things and advice. usually, what if, for example, i fall in love with someone, so that i know the person very well, and then after knowing a lot of people, you can already fall in love. i would like when i'm already big. i really wanted to give her the trip of her dreams everywhere. i don't know how to find some very special place, and for her to go to it, not my name really likes it. and i always say that if i have a daughter, then i will call her katya. well, katya. but if i have