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sale on ozone submersible blender redmond for 2499 rubles. multibaker redmond for 2449 rub. after dmitry dibrov found out that his great-grandfather was a tradesman in the city of biryuch, he sent a request to the archive in the voronezh region. it is necessary to find out whether they lived there at the end of the 19th century, what kind of family it was, perhaps a family one. the legend of the bodybuilder of the count and the cossack woman is just a beautiful story and nothing more, but an archival certificate from the state of the voronezh region march 16, 1865 means elizaveta antonovna is about dmitry dibrov’s
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great-grandmother elizaveta antonovna pokidova, dmitry dibrov’s great-great-grandmother was born in the voronezh region married six children sons mikhalych 4 years old zakhar and sanshadi year elizaveta antonovna leaves her daughter and illegitimately born kulina, evrazievna, 12 years old maria-sanna. she is lukyanovna, 9 years old, daughter evgenia alexandrovna, born after the revision, not shown with her mother for four years, this is strange , we don’t have other information about ourselves. elizaveta was the same cossack woman from the family legend, in a letter from the archive it is written that elizaveta antonovna was from the courtyard of the landowner markovich, which means according to legend, he is quite. could be the father of
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mikhail pokido, mr. markovich could behave more gentlemanly. look how much he's made. why did you decide that you were talking about a foreign car? we are talking about the fact that this lady was among the courtyard people of a particular landowner, that is, that this is the father of no indication alexander, who cut the heads of six children for me for this anton. and it didn't show up. but look at this or that. this is anton however, she also gave birth to a twelve-year-old shark eurasina. here she had at least some eurasian, and then 9 years. at she also has a daughter, maria alexandrovna . for some reason, she is such a bow, two patronymics. is anton good or for this as a whole? the legend
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of the dibrov family has not been documented , but it has not been refuted either. mikhail pokidov, indeed an illegitimate child, and his mother was in the service of the landowner. who knows what kind of relationship developed between them, maybe it was true love. oh well, see what a thing anyway, at least there is one clear point opened only new sprouts. i seem to have so many great-grandfathers. anyway, it's great that i'm not alone in the world. maybe now they will probably respond here with pleasure. if announced, all allied search in general must say that it is, of course, very touching. so much is mixed up, it turns out. in that cocktail called me, how much is in the back
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of each of us? dmitry managed to learn a lot about his ancestors for several months. he investigated the family legends to him, finally revealed the secret origin of his great-grandfather. pokidova, now dibrov knows his great-great-grandparents who lived in the 19th century. all this is undoubtedly important, but now dmitry wants to find out as much as possible about his father alexander afanasyevich dibroev , upon his return from rostov, dmitry goes to podolsk to the central archive of the ministry of defense. there he hopes to get new information about the military past of his father. we are in podolsk in the central archive. i have everything that is the defense of our country. there is a record of biographical information about the father here. these are the questions that i would like spend here in the central chemistry. everything that was. look here. what kind of accounting cards
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are obedient cards? on dibrov alexander afanasyevich who you will see him on the contrary. here is the military unit in which he served. yes , here is dibrov alexander afanasyevich stalingrad . here is the first one, when he participates 08/23/42 to 09/10/42. it's 10, what have we been getting since september? that is, the whole month, yes, the battle of skye stayed, the largest battle of the second world war began on july 17, forty-second, with the offensive of the wehrmacht army on stalingrad on area of almost 100.000 m². the german fascist troops fought over 2 million people. the german fascist troops
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planned to capture the oil regions of the caucasus and the fertile lands of the don and cubes, the capture of stalingrad, hitler expected to carry out the forces of the sixth in his army, paulus, in just a week, however, the fighting continued for 200 long days and nights on february 2 , 43, surrounded the sixth army of paulus capitulated according to german sources near stalingrad, only about three hundred thousand soldiers of the wehrmacht army were captured and 240,000 were killed losses of the red armies were three times larger, the battle of stalingrad was the beginning of a game of new turning points in the course of the great patriotic war. i remember that the most favorite toy in childhood was the father and scars, because now we don’t understand a scar. here shaved cut himself. here is a very bad luck, you understand the mower and cut your finger. here is the great scar no military scars are deep trenches. it is on these very muscles of my father,
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which he was so proud of, that he learns a lot of new things and finds confirmation of what he already knew about the military service of his father in the forty-fourth year, alexander afanasyevich dibrov was appointed commander of a training artillery platoon of the polish army ; all this is important, that all this is happiness in life, because when you are 20 years old, you are terribly more entertaining to dance with the girls. this is your father of 20 years. he was in the hospital after stalingrad, that's the difference. everything will be
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the end of the sounds again pour a glass of wine and shake hands with the song i get up, this is october 18, 1945. here's my dad's handwriting. of course, i know well. sometimes i even consciously write, something not with a ballpoint pen, but with a fountain pen in the old fashioned way such a tolstoy, because then our handwriting somehow becomes similar to dad's. the family is the bridge between the past and the future. yes, families, we are nothing in our power to restore the lost connection between generations, resurrect family traditions and leave our family history as a legacy to children, if each of us. suddenly he will be interested in where he comes from and suddenly go all this way, but apparently it’s impossible to go all the way, because until the last root of all the
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roots in the world, a completely different thing will arise. respecting yourself. we will obviously respect our country and all those who do not live, and everyone around is also something like that. work is important, because a tree without roots is not fertile. i never had the desire to have my own child. i just do not want. i want to do other things. i want to devote myself to science. this is just my choice. i should
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think with my head, and not follow some rules. what is so necessary or so instituted? how are you striving to continue the mouth. it seems to us absolutely natural, nevertheless , more and more people appear in the world who do not want to become parents; they are otherwise called childfree or free from children. i don't look at age. i look at my student, as a person i work with them. you were already thinking about your future. we don't know what will happen in 10-20 years. if this happens in 20 years. i'll change my mind eventually. i don't think i will necessarily regret this. or maybe i will regret it, because there are also grandfathers who say that they gave birth to a child, but you can’t bring him back . his career is planned for
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several years ahead, caring for his own child does not fit into these plans at 34 . he deliberately went for an operation, after which he could never become a father. of course, what is in these frames a complete idyll of a happy mother and her newborn son. just a year ago, she could not even imagine that she would become a mother of a quiet measured life. she would never change for crying baby, but despite the unexpected gift of fate. she assures. this is her first and last child. i don't have time for this. i have no desire to work. i want to be free, not tied to anything. i need freedom of movement without any restrictions. in childhood. she preferred playing cossack robbers to dolls. daughters-mothers. she wasn't attracted at all. to be
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honest, i don't understand it. apparently i'm a different person. i, uh, don't understand this bullshit. m-m of these ingratiations. uh, in front of the children about the fact that, well, these are children, all her friends dreamed of children, and she was about how to avoid this. today, she stands her ground in her life there is no and cannot be a place for a child of responsibility, which i do not want, probably to take on myself, because i want to live for myself pleasure. they are all consciously abysses. what drives them today, they are alone , there are more and more such people free from children every year and they are most often condemned. however, they are part of our society and i really want to know what is the reason that prompted them to this point of view. hello michael hello. thank you very much, first of all, for the fact that you decided to come to our studio, because we a in the search for heroes faced the problem
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that many people do not dare to speak publicly on this topic. and for some heroism or a common thing to talk about it. thanks for inviting me, first of all, you know, i don't think that's heroic for me. this is a completely natural position. i see no reason to hide it. and even more ashamed of her. it seems to me that every man is fired to do his choice in his life, but to have children not to have children. i can ask you an indiscreet question for a woman. how old are you? i'm 32. here you are, uh, so definitely saying that you don't want to have children. this applies to today. do you assume that someday a your point of view will change or you have the feeling that this is a once and for all settled issue. you know, i'll tell you honestly, m-m at the moment. it seems to me that, in general, i will adhere to this point of view until the end of my life, but i do not exclude the moment. what in some period of my life, something suddenly clicks in my head and i decide that it’s precisely the
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children that i don’t have enough for happiness. and you always boldly declare this position of yours in the company of friends. uh, or in the company of people you don't know. you know, i don’t even find a kid drive in this to provoke a little interlocutors and say, you know, here, but i don’t want to have children. and you generally tend to go against some social stereotypes. against what society has established, as a rule. it's just my position. i am sincerely in it i believe, i do not consider it necessary to keep silent about it. and what do you answer when you are told that the purpose of every woman is to have children, i usually say hmm what you know, in addition to the fact that i am a woman, i am a person i am a person. i have a certain range of interests, the desire for dreams, and reduce everything to such a narrow goal, uh, leave generations behind me, but i see the meaning of my life in a slightly different way, well, why such a narrow goal, right? they have kids, it's not like they're leaving their careers or whatever. their own, maybe there are scientific researches and
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so on and so forth and so forth children are children. a career is a career, a relationship is a relationship. eh, why are you posing the question so sharply? just many same women, again, that's my age. yes, here are many of my classmates, let's say. hmm, as a rule. you know such a trend has revealed itself, rather than giving birth either, to fill the void in your life. that is, they are lonely, but either to keep a man. a. well, of course, most often the stamp works. well, they must still be planted here. i have the same age. i'm married pots are all on the stove. it's time to have kids. no, the sincere position is not clear. and that is, you did not come across because of some other motivation, that is, i want to give birth to a child, because i just want, because i want to love this child, because i like it. children of this, you are not a cut. no, that's the point. yes, i’m not saying that everyone is like that again, yes. at 90%, this is the motivation that i listed is present
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in conversations. and even if she is not present in conversations, i understand this, uh, for some reason details. uh, even more about, probably, what they are silent about, that is, then when the period comes, what i hear here is me there in the kindergarten with him there, i would sleep there, and i go to the disco. well , never mind. yes the point is that i'm starting to hear the child becomes a burden child - it's expensive. it thrills my nerves. he blows my mind and so on. we fuse it to moms com grandmothers, because i want my personal life. i want to go on vacation without a child and so on. i have a question. why did you give birth to him, if he eventually becomes, well some uncomfortable piece of furniture in the house. the term childfree appeared in the 70s in the united states, and after a couple of decades such communities gained popularity in russia, the proportion of people who deliberately abandoned offspring is today 6%, but people who deliberately abandoned children continue to grow rapidly.
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they did it for different reasons and only in the middle of that century already, but such a trend arose earlier, voluntary childlessness was chosen, mostly by creative and public people in different ways, arguing their point vision. youth is a wonderful thing. what a crime to waste it on children, and are you human enough to have the right to want a child my favorite thing to do is sit at home with a script and learn the role. i'm an actor. i have no hobbies no children and i don't like to travel women with children much maya plisetskaya yes, life without children is much easier. but that doesn't mean the decision not to have children is an easy one. however. i never dreamed of becoming a mother, my friend gail, being in the seventh grade, already knew what she would name the children, carefully, write out your name and their names in this time. in my dreams, i saw myself as martin luther king. today
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, ordinary couples with higher education and stable jobs want to be free from children, and some even go to extreme measures to avoid offspring. i didn't think for a long time. it was determined. it somehow immediately came to my mind and it was immediately half a year ago that vladimir went for an operation, after which he would never be able to have his own children. but many do not want to have children for various reasons, for example, there is fear. just before motherhood. there is fear. before childbirth. there is a reluctance to share personal space with someone. and that's what's in your case, that 's the most poignant when you think about it. they tell you to have children. do you think, why should i? and i just, probably, value my freedom very much, and your freedom is that it is freedom in every sense. this is freedom of movement. this is freedom. what do you want, that's all freedom because a child is a duty. i answer. i gave life. i am responsible for this person. i have to raise him, educate him, make him a decent cell.
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society, understand the responsibility. i don't want this me. yes, this is probably a somewhat selfish position, but i want to live in pleasure for myself on the forums. for example, i found quotes of such a plan in public transport, i try to sit down and stand away from women with children. if a mother tries to jump ahead of me in line. i do with the child. it’s just that i’m doing an impudent face more impudently, pushing the mother aside with the words and what and or is it necessary to say to the impudent mothers that they deserve the type, to become a mother you just need to give birth and that the child is not a baby doll, but the same as everyone else. how can you comment on such statements such, so to speak, so harshly expressed position. i want to tell you that if we touched on this topic, ah, there are childfree, yes, but there is the so -called child haters, these are two completely different things, because childdaters, yes, these are just those who are just irreconcilable here is the attitude towards children, those who, well, there with english. yes, i don’t hate children, and everything
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that is connected with them is motherhood there, well, and so further. here, and people 3 are just people, they don’t call for anything, they don’t promote anything. these are just people who have their own position, and they want society to at least accept them and not condemn them for it, don’t touch them, roughly speaking, just don’t touch me and that’s it. i don't want annoyance towards children when they are not badly brought up unconditionally annoyance towards mothers when their children are not badly brought up unconditionally. you make comments in any case. this is a private life, i have no right to go there. but if it concerns me and gives me inconvenience or discomfort. i will definitely tell you about it. and what is an ill-bred child who does not know how to behave in society, who cause discomfort to people around him, what is discomfort, he screams, is naughty, cries, breaks something, runs, pulls, and so on. and here's a great answer. well, he's a child. you know, i've seen a lot of children in my life and thanks to my profession. i know that there can be great sleeps here. what were you like as a child? i was crazy, that is you
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child was ill-bred. no, i wasn't ill-bred, but i was crazy. in what way? i have a very tough mother, in fact, in terms of upbringing, and i clearly knew what to scream to attract attention, to crowd with my feet and to be capricious. i want this toy. it was simply unacceptable. i have known since childhood. so, well, so bad. fu, you can't do that. uh-huh was crazy in the sense that i was very free right from my childhood. when i was little, we were vacationing in yalta in the santa reactor. i just walked up to were akhmadulina said, hello, and just to easily met him. everything, i say, well, it’s impossible. she is the same as i meet, maybe, but i didn’t understand these clichés in the society of adult aunts and uncles of money. i was on my own, except for my freedom. you also mentioned at the very beginning that it seems to you that you will not be able to raise, so to speak, a worthy child in our society. and what kind of child would be worthy of you, there are no questions not in this. i said that i could not grow up worthy a child, because i don’t have so
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much time, money, opportunities, and so on, in order to raise a person who, well, i would be proud and could say, i did everything so that this person would not be ashamed of him. wow, he's educated. ah, there was a lot more opportunity than you. well, i think that yes, she was, because she was married, firstly for a minute. that is, you deny yourself not only the birth of a child, but also in the future to get married. no, why do n't i just set it as my goal, and you warn young people when you start dating them, if you're dating them , that you categorically do not want children? yes, when it comes to talk, that is, it certainly does not happen. so hello. i’m mikhail, i don’t want to have children , definitely not, but when we start a serious relationship, yes, and anyway, sooner or later, somehow the topic definitely pops up. i think it's stupid. well, it's just not pardonably unforgivable not to tell a person about such a serious decision in his life. and that you would never face the fact that man is repulsive. no, this
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has always been those men, the universe sent me exactly those men who just either accepted this position, or agreed with it, or were also generally convinced. how do you calculate them? i do n't know much about men. like this, uh, maybe you don't sound so harsh. position, maybe you say, you know not now. now i want to pursue a career, then, maybe, somehow you know, yulia, i am very straightforward in my expressions of my thoughts, and it is very difficult to understand me in two ways. i'm talking, i don't want to have children, most likely i will never have them, dear. if you want to have children, please, with another woman, you are always so sure, why not? i don't have any preconditions somewhere not sure with myself. yes, i'm confident. that is, if not with this, who will say oh, yes, i, perhaps, with another woman, it will be different. yes, it means that this is not my man, because i think that, you see, this is a very strange position. i love you, but i don’t accept you, and you
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change for me, and i don’t understand this love love, it is all-consuming in terms of the fact that i accept you with all your minuses, pluses, shortcomings. like not like. i don't like that they're closing the pasta. i don't like that you leave the dishes overnight, but i love you. i'm with you. so it doesn't matter. i accept you, i agree with you very much. let's say, and ethically, you fall in love completely to death and accept a person completely along with his desire to have children. but you understand, it’s not quite here, an equal position gives birth to a woman, so you can’t bet here. here is the equal sign. there is another stereotype regarding this phenomenon of tea fries, which, in fact, speaks of the extreme selfishness that humanity falls into. i would say that people are free from children. e, they are afraid of responsibility for someone, because they themselves, despite their age, remain children. they are infantile
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, they want them to remain the center, they do not want to give anything to anyone, they only want to take. since childhood, i have been an extremely independent person, i have been working since the age of thirteen and even at some periods of my life i kept it completely in my family. moreover, i love animals very much, and i always actively deal with them. whenever i can with pleasure donate money and you know, i'd rather donate money to the animal relief fund than the background, there e fight against aids of small children, seriously absolutely tell him why? well, because i feel sorry for animals more than people. why? and i'm for spartan. so i think that in sports the weak, the weak, were born frail, you provoke me a little as your friends. it's yours darling. the topic says, do you want me to uh, now i jumped up or do you really sincerely think so? no, why would i provoke you enough smart woman. i really think so. well, i don’t understand, they will seriously condemn me 20 times now, but the point is that a child is born. forgive the lord with the syndrome.
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down, he will live and suffer all his life, and people around him will live and suffer all his life . why leave the life of such a child? well, isn't it better to raise a healthy generation, because it's still a child. well, it's a little fetus in mom's tummy, but get your abortion. god, guys, everything will be fine. what if you didn't see it? then you suffer. and if something happens to you, if society becomes the same as in sparta, there, after all, not only with children did this unconditionally, which were not needed in society. everyone has their own destinies, and none of us are safe from accidents with disabled people. absolutely not hit by a car, you became disabled. well, in general, yes, and you know, if i can’t run, jump , dance, have sex in all the positions that i love, you’re kind of not interested in living your mother knows about your position that you do not want children. and you are the only child she does not have, that is, there is hope from whom to get a grandson? no, you know, we both don't want to have
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children, and she treats this with dignity, she thinks that the guys. this is your position. this is your life, of course, i support you. i am your mother, how do you feel about men as an exemplary family man and large families, perhaps such families. yes, i'm happy for them. i have many colleagues and they are family men, they have many children, they are happy. i am for them joy. i more calmly endure conversations to put them on when i get sick, someone of something. and here we have there was a case when katya vasya seryozha was there at a certain moment. yes , then, and then i just either leave the room in which this is being discussed. yes, uh under a plausible pretext. well, either i just say straight, maybe sex is better, but you are annoyed by these conversations. no, they are just for me. but tasty and uninteresting. here is the secret cuneiform, for example, it does not captivate, because it is 100% in your life, and someone lives by it. this is the meaning of life for him, he collects every one here a small piece of a postcard calendar, any source of information, i swear that's all for him. well, i just have other interests, but this does not mean that a person in comparison with
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me is worse or better in no way. he's just different, he has other very different hobbies, but it's his choice. you're right, if suddenly this happens it can happen hmm despite the fact that you had an abortion no time. uh, there are no religious considerations in your life at all. no, i don't believe in god yes, i'm free from any religion and no article talk that you may encounter about what abortion is like. in general, there, as a dangerous thing for health, so dangerous, yes, yes. no no, i'm totally fine with that. this abortion is no more murder than you come tonight to eat a chicken, that is, you and a chicken are also the same, but we are all alive, as if everyone who lives. yes, every leaf on the tree. we are all alive, we all feel, we have a feeling. yes, we have a purpose. and when someone's on takes such a bold role to decide life, whether there is a
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plant or an animal. well, i try to minimize it in my life. and you have some idols among famous people who, so to speak, are also free. yeah , she's the richest, black woman in the world , she doesn't have kids, or i think she's 60 or 62 already, and she's very clear about it, she's said many times that i'm fine without kids. you know was e. a rather tragic reason for such a choice is possible, well, it's just that i'll even tell you. she was raped and she gave birth to a child as a result of this rape. and this child died. then she said. i never want to have children again. but this is just a special case, you asked me. the first thing i remembered, yes, this is justified, but in fact, do you think that this is some kind of direct relationship, that she is the richest, that she is the most successful, because she has no children. yes, by no means . no, it's just that you asked if there are people i respect, uh, who don't have kids.
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yes they have their mass cameron clear for example there, for example, uh, king call, these are people whom i admire, they are well done, they are not smart, they don’t have children, and they didn’t become worse because of this, they didn’t become talented, you see, we are unsuccessful again, if you like, the head professor is that if you don't want to have children in society, we put pressure on you, and how you tell you that your life will be incomplete if you don't have children, it makes you sick, but let's just say it makes me uncomfortable because they impose a point of view on me, because they impose norms on me behavior in this society and impose the rules of the game. uh-huh, you know, you should and nobody should even understand anything. uh-huh and what is the point in your life to enjoy doing what you love oh god so a year to travel, two or three all my life until i travel, apparently, i don’t know, maybe in two years i’ll come to you and tell you know now, and the meaning of my life yoga, for example, perhaps, i'll come back in three more
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. i decided that i want to forget about dolphins. i don't know, well, for now. here i am still in this state. times different bodily ones, but in general, loneliness, i'm not talking about old age, in principle, are you afraid of loneliness or not? no, i get high when i'm alone, then i hang out with people so much that when i get home, there 's no one there. i'm such a little thrill. and so i imagined for a second, i come, this is my mother. i got an a at school today. your mom ran out of milk. god bless mom well, look, i'll read you a few more hmm quotes from a discussion in a group on the internet in social networks. what different motivations, but mine the child will never die, never get sick, never go to jail, never be late for me, because i will never give birth to him, he will never be. i will not
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give anyone, in life i will not give death. i will be 38, i consciously do not want children somewhere from the age of 11. and you, by the way, since how old well, for example, from the age of 12, that is, when these thoughts arise yes, the first ones, i don’t even want to fall in love, i want to write okay, respondent. not to mention children, because in 90% of cases this leads to the collapse of the relationship and depression. why is this beautiful about another person or not? or in your love relationships, you also build certain systems to take care of another person. i don't want to go not because i don't want to care. i just really like to take care of. i am a beloved person, but pets and from other people about their friends. i'm ready to take off my last shirt. if i know it will help them worries. this is great. this is great. this is when you give a person energy, love positive is wonderful. well, i don't want kids. and yet, i want to clarify with you about your relationship with young people, they are already with
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children. if there are some restrictions for you too. in the sense that this is how i already understood that if this person wants a child, then it’s also you in a different phone in what cases are you in a different phone for me relationship with a man hmm this is not we are two halves and we are not one whole. how can i explain to you, we are comfortable with each other, we are good, we do not make claims to each other, we do not ask for anything, we give and we do not expect in return. it's like saying, this is exactly what i 'm going for. and for me, love is when you give without expecting anything in return. and are you ready give it endlessly. you just want to make the other person happy. you know, like in a song. let it not be so with me with others, when the end in itself is for the loved one to be happy, but for me this is impartial true love. and when you seem to love, but at the same time, well, something is in
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no hurry to give a ring with options. these are already market relations. that they have nothing at all with love. why do you think there are more and more people who want to be free from children every year? i don’t know. at everyone has their own motivation. yes, someone is afraid of their mother. nstva, afraid of childbirth, afraid that the money is not enough. well, there is afraid to become. i read about it, and the woman is afraid. so i’m getting fat in the face, she’ll lead something else there, a mistress, and so on. i just have other reasons. i don't know why other people choose the position. i have never talked about this topic. maybe worth 50. thank you michaela ours, the next heroine has adhered to all her life. the same views as mikaela, but life has decided a few, otherwise matvey will walk, of course, natalia is 35 years old. and it's hard to believe that in the past she was a convinced chal. free personal
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comforts, harmony with herself, were always in the first place for her, but fate made its own adjustments, six months ago, she had a son. now natalia is happy in her new role as a mother, but despite this she doesn't want to anymore. natasha hello here. why did you not change your views, despite the fact that the child was born, because i lived. it was i who understood what it was like, and if a used to be a convinced childfree, i have been there since i was 14 years old. i'm selfish didn't want kids because really i would like to be free from problems from everything. well, that is, the child is a problem. yes, by the age of 35, it happened like this. eh, a clear principled position. i don't want to take responsibility. i'm a fairly responsible person, uh, and to some
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extent i'm an a student in life, i'm a perfectionist. yes, i'm a perfectionist. i need everything to be good, wonderful. i was responsible for everything. i myself am not a grandmother, grandfather, not a nanny, namely, i am not responsible for raising a child, and i did not want to. take on this i do not hide this responsibility, but i am responsible for the performance of my work duties, for example, hmm, and that was enough for me to take more responsibility for the child, but now there is already a child. he was also born. yes, you still say that i have it, and now it is the only one and will never be again. no, because it was very difficult. that the birth was difficult, i can't be medically easy. they were built for me both psychologically and physiologically. i took them hard in general, it could happen that convinced tea kriv actually became pregnant. here you will, probably, somehow
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especially controlled this moment. here is such a, yes, let's say it, the way i 'm talking about it now, an absurd accident that turned into a happy occasion for me. so why did you decide to keep the baby? here is mikaelov, quite definitely says what she will do if she becomes pregnant, i'm 35. i considered that a blow to the body, that hormonal blow that will be once you have an abortion. this failure. i am afraid of the consequences. uh, usually afraid of the consequences. what that there will be no more children. no, i was afraid that this could lead to oncology. yes, in this case, well, hormonal fluctuations. it will have little impact. uh-huh, because the body begins to rebuild itself. i thought about myself, but did not finish. it is mentally the biological end of the child's parents to give away his orphanage. no why, because this is my child, this is my particle, why should i give it to someone? the father of the child somehow influenced the adoption such a decision or not, right?
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